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from jennifergwl :
Hi Anita, (remember me? :) Just wanted to congratulate you on baby Carter! Would love to see pics on your diary of both little ones :) info@jenniferkaron.com in case you want to contact me :)
from starlight42 :
I already left notes on FB but wanted to say Congrats again!! I am so thrilled for you that everything went so smoothly, what an angel he is! I hope everything is going well with nursing. What a shock with the umbilical, what a miracle!!
from readyorknot :
Congrats!!!! Glad he's here and healthy!!
from bunny828 :
Congrats!
from lindzeeleigh :
I know i already said congrats on facebook and left you a billion comments on your pics, but I wanted to say it again!!! :) Little Carter is so cute and Ariel is such a proud big sister. I hope everything continues to go well for you!
from camham :
Congratulations!!
from theflyingrat :
Congratulations!!
from lindzeeleigh :
I am with Jenn on this! How is it possible that you are 38 weeks already? I remember when you announced that you were pregnant and that really doesn't feel all that long ago to me! Good idea for moving Ariel, it will be better for her when baby comes. I also like the name Carter as well, it is very cute! If you still like the name Hudson but aren't as sold on it as a first name, maybe you could use it as a middle name?
from theflyingrat :
Wow! I can't believe you are at 38 weeks, where did the time go?! I think moving Ariel was a good idea, I would have done the same in your situation. How did she do with the move?
from starlight42 :
I love the hair and pics. I did see some on Facebook. You look great! I really like the name Finn as well. Wow- you're getting close. I'll have to remember to check here more often so I don't miss the birth!
from camham :
That is so funny about your Doula remembering that stuff. I had a doula also and she just reminding me of somet things that happened in my birth the other day that I had completely forgotten or not even known. Doula's are awesome and I was so thankful to have one. She also happened to be my cousin who has had 4 children so that was helpful. BTW, you are such a cutie and I love the new hair. Heather
from lindzeeleigh :
I agree with Tianne! I wanted to say again how much I love your pics! I think the new name Finnley is very cute too, I like Finn, but I still like Hudson as well. We are definitely getting to the time of meeting the little guy!
from emaciana :
i love your pix, i already said so on facebook but wanted to tell you again. :)
from bitterwineuk :
I like the name Finn but my friend has a Finn so I wouldn't think of it for myself. Very neat bump there considering only 7 weeks left. :) Yay!!
from princessreva :
Okay, you do NOT look 33 weeks - but you do look absolutely incredible!! I'm crazy jealous:)
from ashnwesten :
You look fantastic!!! And I like the hair!
from theflyingrat :
33 weeks! How is that possible?! I like the name Finn quite a bit. You look great, by the way!
from camham :
I empathize with you. My last pregnancy wasn't nearly this hard on my body and head as this one has been so far. Each pregnancy is different and I am sure the amount of down time or lack thereof, affects us greatly when it is not available. And having a little one already doesn't allow for much down time, right? Heather
from cera-jeanne :
I am forgetful, too. :) I think it's pretty normal. And I get random rashes that pop up on my ankles, on my belly, across my back, wherever they feel like and it itches like crazy!! Such fun. Even tho this is my first so I can't compare, i can really feel the baby, too. It is low as well and I am also all belly but small. It hurts sometimes because it is so low but I love being able to feel all the movements. Even when it hurts I just tell myself it's good I can feel that because it means the baby is happy and well. I hope it gets easier for you. :)
from bitterwineuk :
I havent had the sickness or the serious pain you have had yet but my movement is very low (i still think a second boy!) and I do think it is ALOT lot harder second time round as you still need to continue for the older child. At times I would love to just go to bed for an hour or two but theres no way we can with an older child. There is no real resting time and I have been having a lot of braxton hicks for several weeks. I get the feeling this labour is going to be much harder than before.
from lindzeeleigh :
Wow, I can't believe your friend didn't tell you that her son might have fifth disease! That is kind of something you think you might want to mention. Maybe they are wrong and it is just something else. I hope so! Thinking of you!
from lindzeeleigh :
i can't believe that you are 31 weeks already either!! I remember when you first announced you were expecting! I think it will be fun to do all the painting and make everything all fresh and new. I am sorry to hear about your nephew, that is awful news. :( I hope he will heal up quickly.
from theflyingrat :
31 weeks already!? Wow! I'm so excited for you! :) I'm sorry about your nephew, he must be pretty upset.
from bitterwineuk :
all is sounding good, I have only put on 6lbs too and I think half of that was down to the late dinner last night. I would love to put up a pregnant belly pic but I don't even look that pregnant. grrrr.
from starlight42 :
That's awesome that Ariel is doign so well with the potty training!! I will have to remember that dvd next year when we start with DJ. Ugh, I am dreading it. He is just so tiny! I can see how public places would be an issue. Anyway, hope it keeps up!
from emaciana :
that is beyond exciting! i'm so happy for you - no more diapers! well, until baby #2 lol.
from x-centricity :
Too Cute!
from bunny828 :
If you don't have one already a little step stool in the bathroom might be helpful. I've seen some cute ones that fold up and can be left next to the potty.
from dream-catcha :
Well done to Ariel!! It is amazing when they first 'get' going to the potty! I have been so proud of Bel as I only really started encouraging the potty again 2 days ago. I agree with you on letting the child decide when they need to go. They need to learn for themselves for the signals when it's time to go. Changing subject now, my eczema has greatly healed after a second night with the catbell on my finger. It doesn't make much noise, I don't really move about all that much. If I keep my hands under the pillows then I'm not likely to move them about. I want to get of all the medication I'm on right now as I'm sure it's causing my skin to react. A few more days and I think it'll all be better. (I hope anyway) :)
from lindzeeleigh :
It sounds like you had a nice trip to the states! I have never been and I would love to drive down and go to a few outlet stores and things like that one day!! I am glad there have been no new seizures and that you are feeling relatively well. I can't believe how busy you are this weekend! Yikes. Don't foret to rest somewhere in there and take care of yourself. :)
from lerin :
I'm glad to hear you're doing well! I worry about you too.
from dream-catcha :
Thanks for the eczema info. I am slowly getting better but the itchiness is driving me crazy! I'm sorry to hear about the seizure you had. I'm so behind on so many diaries, I must apologise. Do they think they what may have caused it? I hope it's not giving you and Chad too many worries. I love reading about all the pregnancies at the moment. I can't believe how quick they all seem to be going too. Take care xxx
from grandbeach :
Ahhh your mother's are making me crazy and I don't even have to deal with them!! I think Chad would be more stressed out if he had lost you, or if he did end up losing you because you had a seizure while driving. Having your license taken away is a precaution to help ensure you and any cars around you are safe. And omg, you have a toddler and are pregnant and just had a seizure. Really, who cares if the wall has a few dings. That is so superficial. And really, in your "condition" should you be painting? Should anyone be painting in a place that you will have to breath that smell in? ahhhhhh. Okay, end rant.
from lindzeeleigh :
I am glad that you are doing well and that there have been no other seizures. :) I want to see new pics of the hairdo, it sounds great. I think I might just have to add you to facebook then! :P
from lerin :
Yay! You posted! I'm relieved you haven't had another seizure. I'm goin to have to check out your pics on Facebook and see the new hair. :)
from lerin :
You need to post an update so we all know you're alright.
from x-centricity :
Oh, Sweetie!!!! I'm sending lots of prayers for you and little Hudson. *hugs*
from lindzeeleigh :
Happy Mother's Day, Anita! Have a super day with Ariel and itty bitty Hudson!! :)
from starlight42 :
Oh, and besides, I like that name!!
from starlight42 :
OMG, I'm so sorry to hear what happened!! How scary. I wonder why this happens, have you been able to do any research or anything to see if this is common? Well, I am sure that you will be fine. Maybe it's similar to how some children get those febrile (sp?) seizures and they just outgrow them. Get your rest and take care of yourself!! Also, good for you for using Hudson. You had it picked out first. :)
from grandbeach :
I hope you are doing better. That's really quite scary but I am hopeful that it will all turn out okay. Sucks about the license but I was actually surprised it wasn't taken away last time ("standard procedure"). Good luck!
from emaciana :
i'm so glad you are ok! that's so scary!!! and that totally sucks about the driver's license thing. :(
from starting-gun :
How scary! I hope that was the last one you'll ever have. I know it's scary to think about what happens if you have another one, but I thought I might mention a few ideas that could assist IF it were to happen again. It might be a good idea to consider carrying a phone with you when no one else is home (and keep it somewhere near the ground so you can reach it if you have trouble getting up), and maybe you need to consider only showering yourself (and ariel) when someone is home and can check on you. I'm glad to hear that bubs is okay! Please take care
from lowercaseg :
Oh how scary! I am so glad you and your baby are okay. I would say if Hudson is the name that you and your husband love, go with it! It is YOUR little boy and you guys have every right to choose the name that you love and suits your child the best. :) Take care!
from lerin :
God bless you (and HUDSON), Anita! I am so sorry for the fear you've gone through. This is so scary! I'll be praying for you, my friend.
from jess1976 :
Sorry to hear about your seizure! Hope you are feeling better. Try to rest as much as you can (or as much as you can with a toddler) and maybe that will help to keep the seizures away!! By the way I love the name you are leaning towards!!
from lindzeeleigh :
Yikes, that is scary, Anita! I hope that you are feeling better soon and that it doesn't happen again. I am thinking of you. *hugs*
from bitterwineuk :
glad chad was there for you hun, hope this is the last one. take care. xxx
from grandbeach :
Carter and Aiden are my favourites I think. Good luck choosing, I can tell it's going to be so hard:( I know you'll end up choosing the right name for your little boy, no doubt at all.
from lindzeeleigh :
My fave is still Hudson if you decide to go with it. :) I also really like Rylan and Nico as well!
from lerin :
I *love* Nico!!! Ethan and Aidan are also in the top for me. Good luck deciding!
from starlight42 :
Well, actually we do have a family member- my brother- who has nut allergies. So, that's prob where he gets it from. Maybe when we try it next time in a few years, the doc said maybe 5 yrs old- we'll try organic. I guess it is common for kids to become allergic to something they are exposed to. They've been doing news reports that allergies are getting worse because we are exposed to more things. It seems weird, but I guess they know what they're talkign about. Luckily that is all he is allergic to that we know of- and it's only peanuts, not tree nuts (like almonds and pecans) as they tested for those at teh same time. But he is still too young to try those anyway, so we'll see if it changes in time. Right now I treat it like he is allergic to all nuts to be safe. Thank god he's not one of those cases of a jar just being open can cause allergies!!
from babytooti :
Thanks for the helpful information! I didn't know that. I still haven't decided what we're going to do, but you've pushed me in the direction of waiting a bit longer before starting her on solids. :) I'm thinking it might be okay to give her a little bit now and then, but not enough for a full meal...especially not 3 times per day!
from starlight42 :
Ok, I caught up!! Congrats on the new job, and on Ariel being 2, well, 2 and some months now! I don't get on DL much, I'm on Myspace quite a bit. Anyway, hope the job is going well. I loved Ariels Xmas pics, I think I saw them on Facebook as they looked familiar. She is such a sweetie pie!! As for your boys names...that's too bad your friends used Hudson. Personally, I think if you guys still like the name, USE IT!! You came up with it first and why should you have to compromise!? Besides, they might be good friends now, and hopefully they will stay as I'm sure they're nice people, but honestly the way friends can come and go, in a few years you might not see them much and then it won't be a big deal. If anyone asks you can just say you had that name picked out for years or whatever and they sort of liked it and wanted to use it as well. Too bad for them!
from starlight42 :
OMG, I am so behind! I didn't know you were pregnant again. Congratulations!! Ariel sounds like she is just growing up so fast. I'll have to look back through a few of your entries. A boy- how exciting!! As for Wesley Snipes- he joined some sort of group with a leader named Kahn that says that technically here in the US taxes aren't legal. But, there's no way to win that battle here, it's some small loop hole and whenever people argue it, they lose anyways. The Kahn guy and some other lady in the group who was helping Snipes also got some fines and jail time I believe as well.
from emaciana :
it's so adorable how she seems to be already connected to her sibling.
from lindzeeleigh :
I am glad to hear that Ariel is better! :) That is great news. I still think you are going to have a boy, maybe Ariel really wants a little sister? [You'll just have to have another one! :P] As for names, your friends and family do have a lot of great names chosen for their kids. I think if you still really like Hudson, use it anyways! Have you had any luck finding another name you might like close to as much?
from x-centricity :
Little ones have a sixth sense....makes me wonder if you may have another little girl. *grin*
from lerin :
I guess we'll only know for SURE when the baby is in your arms! :)
from bitterwineuk :
thats sweet, Matthew calls "his" baby his sister too. :)
from dream-catcha :
A boy!! Yay!!! You'll have one of each. When you said over on facebook to check out dl I was thinking you were going to reveal you was actually expecting twins!! :) So sorry Ariel's not been feeling her best. It's awful when they come down with sickness bugs. At least your work let you go home to help Chad. Hope she's back to normal now. How are you feeling? xxx
from emaciana :
congrats!!!! now you'll have a little girl and a little boy. a beautiful family.
from emaciana :
congrats!!!! now you'll have a little girl and a little boy. a beautiful family.
from lindzeeleigh :
Just wanted to let you know that I emailed you. :)
from lerin :
First, CONGRATS on your little boy! Boys are so... wonderful. I never pictured myself having a son, but Ben has been the absolute darling of my heart!!! As far as the name thing goes... I think I told you how much I cried about my SIL naming her daughter Lilianna with the nn Lily, while Adam had promised me that we could name our next daughter Lily if I would agree to Isabella for our second. I know it's "just" a name, but I've had my heart set on Lily for another girl since after Madeleine's birth! It can be really hard to find that "perfect" name that matches with sibling names and that the hubby likes, so I can understand how disappointed you are. I've convinced myself it doesn't matter, that there are plenty of people who share names with friends, cousins, etc. I've talked myself into thinking it isn't a big deal, so I won't feel guilty when we DO name a girl Lily one day! :) With a huge family in our plans, it is likely that we will have another baby girl in our future. We'll see. In your situation, I would be sad... but remember, this isn't even FAMILY! I would totally stick with Hudson, you've loved it for so long and this person will be out of your life someday while Hudson will be part of it forever. Don't change a name that you LOVE because of someone else. I wish I had never, ever said which names I loved so I wouldn't have to worry that a friend/SIL got her idea from a name because I had talked so much about it. Also, the Bible puts so much emphasis opn names... names really ARE important. What they mean, how they influence a life... I think names are a powerful gift from parent to child, and DON'T change Hudson because of your friend! It still is the perfect little boy's name for your son.
from readyorknot :
oh Congratulations Anita!! i'm so excited for you guys!!
from starting-gun :
Congratulations on a boy! How exciting for you and Chad!
from violetsmile :
That's fabulous news!!! I'm so thrilled for you!!
from bitterwineuk :
yay, congratulations. xxxxxx
from grandbeach :
You're hilarious! I love it! I'm so happy for you that you're having a boy!
from lindzeeleigh :
The book is called Taking Charge of Your Fertility by Toni Weschler and I will email you those names ASAP! :) Also you might want to check out this site for baby names: http://www.nymbler.com/
from lindzeeleigh :
YAY! That is exciting news that you are having a little boy. :) I bet you and Chad are just so thrilled. I have a whole list of boy names if you would like me to email them to you. :)
from princessreva :
phew! I am sooo scared of potty training, but I want to do it before the next on shows up too. Please give lots of advice!
from readyorknot :
oh how exciting this all must be for you!! i can't wait to find out what your having!! potty training can be difficult at times but, make sure you praise her so much!!
from violetsmile :
Thank you so much for your lovely message sweetheart! It meant so much to me. I'll be thinking of you tomorrow! I can't wait to hear how you got on! And whether Ariel will have a baby brother or sister! It's so upsetting that you can't use the name you had your heart set on, but what is meant to be is meant to be! Maybe this means it won't be a boy! And if it is, maybe you'll discover a name that you and Chad both love and means more to you! Especially as you'll be coming up with it while the little bubba is actually growing inside you! Take care lovely! And let us know as soon as you can!!!!!! x
from grandbeach :
I'm going to throw a whole bunch of names out there, who knows, maybe you'll like one?! Emery, Ellery, William, Michael, Nicholas, Matthew, Robert, Andrew, David, Clinton, Edward, Kevin, Tyler, Scott, Arthur, Franklin, Nathan, Benjamin, Gavin, Kristopher, Jeremy, Calvin, Vincent, Louis, Thomas, Theodore, Jaret, Jared, anything? lol.
from princessreva :
You are so right that you can take comfort that you won't know this person in a few years and you'll be fine then, but I can totally get how it's going to be really annoying for a while! You have every right to be annoyed, too! Here's a funny unrelated story I just have to tell: I have a friend who has a 4 year old named Miles and just moved inot a new area. On her first day at church, this other mom came up to her and got mad that her son's name was Miles because HER'S was named Miles. My poor friend was totally confused - that had even been her maiden name! How was she supposed to know that in 4 years she'd make someone mad?? Weirdo. The best thing you can do is try to forget so it doesn't eat at you, since it does no good to anyone to be mad. But in secret, you can throw things at the wall if you need to:)
from bitterwineuk :
I'm wider at the moment too and I'm only about 9 weeks, had to invest in maternity trousers which feel gigantic at the mo but so comfy. haha. But as I am not exactly slim myself, I am losing weight rather than putting on. It was the same when I was with Matthew. Dont mind the extra bloated feeling as I feel right now as long as I am losing weight where I most need to. :)
from lindzeeleigh :
I want to vote that I think you are going to have a boy! That is just my general overall feeling about it. :) Can't wait to find out, I hope baby cooperates!
from the-moo :
Hey there - I've not been around for a while but I'm here and trying madly to catch up.. just wanted you to know that your diary (some of it I'll admit is the template itself) REALLY lights me up when ever I visit! So thanks!! xxx
from lindzeeleigh :
Hey! How are you? I just wanted to thank you for your comment you left today in my diary. I have been wondering what is going on with you. I hope everything is going well, it has been a while since you have updated. How is Ariel? How is the pregnancy?
from lerin :
Are you doing okay? It's been awhile since you updated.
from x-centricity :
feel beeter, hon!
from readyorknot :
I decided to check out my 'notes' page and just seen you left a comment about the movies!! For some reason I wasn't sent a notification that I had any.. That is a GREAT idea about lasting through a movie. I am definitely going to do that next time, for sure! Thanks! :)
from lindzeeleigh :
Feel better soon! I am sorry to hear you were sick at the mall, that must have been awful. I amg ald you got some pretty new clothes! That party sounded like a lot of fun, what a neat idea!!
from dream-catcha :
Wow I'm so behind on diaries! Congratulations to you on the pregnancy! Sorry to hear you're not feeling your best though. You've got my sympathy not being able to take cold and cough medication and suffering sickness too. Hope you start feeling better soon. x
from nicolerenee :
Email me at nicoleAT3kcreationsDOTcom
from grandbeach :
Aww, feel better soon.
from bitterwineuk :
Feel better soon. Lots of good eating (ie fruit and veg - vitamin C) and rest will do you the world of good
from bunny828 :
{{{{Hugs}}}} A sinus infection? That sucks! You might be able to eat mashed potatoes too. Your food list sounds similar to the one I had when I was pregnant. I hope you feel better soon.
from theflyingrat :
I can't believe you are so close to halfway already - it seems like it was just yesterday you announced you were pregnant! Sorry you are feeling sick, this is a really horrible year for illness. ♥
from lerin :
Oh, don't make me wait!!! I want to know the sex when you do!!! ;)
from nicolerenee :
Did you email me a picture? I didn't get it.
from lindzeeleigh :
I hope that you are feeling better soon! This pregnancy is going to fly by before you know it, try to enjoy it has much as you can. :)
from x-centricity :
Hang in there, Hon. *huggles*
from lerin :
UGH! I hate losing entries. Ever thought about moving to blogger??? It auto-saves every few minutes.
from x-centricity :
Target as a great selection of "mama" clothes. *huggles*
from lerin :
I remember reading about your seizure, that was SO scary!!! And I don't miss shopping for maternity clothes... ;)
from emaciana :
i'm so excited for you! keep writing and updating us with all the preggo milestones.
from lindzeeleigh :
Hope your appointment went well! Are you going to be sharing if it is a boy or girl when you find out??
from lerin :
Definitely want to be careful of picking a name that is way too trendy... it annoys me to have so many Isabella's running around in Texas, because I wish her name were a litle more unique. However, I wouldn't change it if I could, as it seems to fit her perfectly! :) Good luck, I know you will pick something great. Oh, and just FYI: My pregnancy with Madeleine and with Isabella were COMPLETELY different, in every way. I was so convinced I was having a boy because everything was so different, that I was gobsmacked when the ultrasound tech told me it was another girl!
from bitterwineuk :
Have a great day and I also like Arabella. Bel or Bella is cute and I agree on the boys names, they seem to age quickly. Though you could have Hayden rather than Aiden to be a little different.
from lerin :
I think "Bella" is the cutest nickname in the world, which is why I call Isabella that more often than her full name. :) I don't think Arabella is too close, esp if you plan to have her go by Bella. Aiden is my favorite of your boy choices. :)
from nicolerenee :
Don't forget to email me!
from grandbeach :
Yay to having Ariel in music lessons for kids. That's awesome! Also, you could go with Isabella. My friend did and everyone calls her Izzy but you could easily to Bella too. Just an idea :)
from lindzeeleigh :
I like Brody and Hudson even better! I used to really like Aiden/Aidan, but like you said, it has been #1 or near it for a while, but if you don't know anyone whose child has it and the popularity doesn't bother you, then go for it! As for girl names, Arabella does kind of sound like Ariel, but Bella would be very cute and pretty! Good luck. :)
from lindzeeleigh :
Glad to hear that everything is going pretty well for you. I hope that your morning sickness will subside soon so that you are feeling better! How is Ariel? Have you been thinking of any names yet? I LOVE name lists!
from emaciana :
glad to hear you are happy and doing well minus the lip licking thing. It's always weird when people notice things about you that you never knew you die.
from lerin :
Okay, I'm all caught up now. Definitely DON'T eat less to have a smaller baby... oh my goodness, what terrible advice. She may has well have told you to take up smoking or to quit taking prenatals... as those things would lead to a small baby. I think it is just genetic, and we take such good medical care of our bodies now that our generation just eems to have bigger babies. I hope your baby is less than 9 lbs, but I know there isn't much you can doabout it! I'm so excited to hear all about your new pregnancy, can't wait to see what great names you come up with, and how Ariel reacts. :) I think you've hit the perfect age gap, by the way, and I've done it both ways.
from lerin :
I am SOOOOO behind on diaryland... I didn't even know you were pregnant! If the baby sleeps long enough, I'm going to catch up on you. Congrats!!!!!
from nicolerenee :
Hey there! Congrats!!! Let me beg you though...to let me do a new layout for your diary...I cannot believe I could design something so...icky! LOL
from grandbeach :
Accutane works really well. My sister has/had brutal acne (I believe it's something like 2/3 or 3/4 scarring acne, so bad stuff, just not the worst kind..only the 2nd worst kind). She took it when she was in high school and it really helped. BUT, she had to have a pregnancy test done each month before she could have it prescribed (I just looked up the drug and apparently that's what is required by law) plus I think the doctor did blood testing too but I'm not sure what for or how often. And I think you're only supposed to stay on it for no more than a certain amount of time so of course she no longer takes it. She now uses proactive which also helps a lot. Can you use proactive?
from grandbeach :
Fully Agree!! I'm not sure how the selling of the lots will go, I think that many builders have already bought lots but I don't know if the province is selling their lots to individuals, I hope they are! The first phase that's being built on right now is the province's land and they claim they want things to be different then the new areas that are all the same 5 houses (that's what I don't like about new areas but of course that's because only 3 builders have land in the area OR like in Lindenwoods where everything has to be built to strict strict criteria). I digress, I hope that people can buy their lot and build there own house or find their own builder.
from bunny828 :
I have some advice for you and it will probably be the hardest thing you'll ever do for the rest of your life and you'll probably struggle with it for the rest of your life ... IGNORE your MIL's comments (at least on this subject matter or any of your choosing). Let them roll. Don't take them to heart or even let them impact you. Yes women (for the most part) are meant to get pregnant, but it's different for every single one of them. Some woman may gain 75 lbs and have a 5 lb baby, some may gain nothing and birth a 7 lb baby. There may be a medical reason for your weight gain (diabeties can impact birth weight) and then again maybe not. I can tell you that my second birthing was so much easier than the first and many woman say that regardless of the baby's weight. So try not to worry.
from grandbeach :
You should talk to your doctor and see if there is anything you can do. If there is something, then he'll tell you but really just eat healthy and ignore her. I don't think she meant to be rude and she probably wasn't even thinking when she said it. It may have just come from a dark place (possible resentment over your size with no effort while she has to work very hard) and was out before she had thought about it. Good luck!
from grandbeach :
Oops. I can't believe I haven't congratulated you yet! CONGRATS!!! That is so exciting for you and Chad. and Ariel of course!
from ava-reborn :
I only just read your good news!!! Congratulations lovely!!!
from bitterwineuk :
Oh no, I remember that "I dont want a nappy" stage. Could be a good time to think about potty training if you havent already done so. But that is rough. Hope it doesn't last too long. x
from emaciana :
congrats!!!! i was away and missed your last entry. i'm so excited for you! i agree on that being the perfect age difference too.
from smedindy :
Der...I missed it. Ah, work! Takes away my reading time. Congrats!
from bitterwineuk :
Thats fantastic. I had a good feeling about this :) I am really really happy for you. Awwww, a new d'land baby. I'm getting all excited and emotional. Good luck towards a very healthy and enjoyable pregnancy for you and the new babe. x
from icyjewel :
It's been awhile since I've logged in and gotten a chance to read your entries. What an awesome surprise this morning to find out you are expecting! Congratulations and Happy New Year!!! :)
from readyorknot :
Congratulations!! I'm so thrilled for you!!
from lowercaseg :
Congratulations!!!!! I'm so excited for you guys! :D
from theflyingrat :
Congratulations!!! It seems as though everyone is pregnant again, yay! That is fantastic news, I'm so excited for you guys! ♥
from lindzeeleigh :
Congrats again on the new baby bean! i bet it was so exciting to tell your families at Christmastime! August will be here before you know it, I can't believe it is almost the new year already. Can't wait to see your cute baby bump!
from newlywedblis :
Congratulations!! That is so wonderful! :) Sorry you're in the yucky-feeling stage. From what I hear, baby #2 shows a lot sooner than the first, so with any luck you'll be showing soon! :) So happy for you! Are you done working now or still doing a day a week? Sorry I haven't been keeping up with you better. Happy 2008!
from lindzeeleigh :
In response to your question about the program I used for my wedding thank you - it was called Paint.net and you can download a free trial. It worked out okay if you want to check it out. So what did you find out about your perfect Christmas Present??? *Crossing fingers!*
from starting-gun :
Ariel is so cute! She's changing so fast! Fingers crossed that you get good news. That would be the perfect christmas pressent.
from lindzeeleigh :
I love the photos of Ariel, they are just too cute! Glad the job is going so well, I hope you can stay on, that would be great. And as for your news - that is so exciting!! I can't wait to hear for certain. Good luck! :)
from bitterwineuk :
oooooooooh, all the best, Here's hoping for the best. :) About time there were more Diaryland babies. And yes, dont periods just love Friday nights and Saturdays. Which reminds me, I need to be extra careful next week as I am due to be mid cycle all over xmas. No too much to drink excuses as both me and my boyfriend were both scheduled for late September making us xmas babies as it is. Oh well, thats my tmi bit in for good measure. haha, Just have to say I love Ariels photo's, especially the sparkly shoes pose. :)
from evoen :
Thanks for your sympathetic ear. As time goes on, that day bothers me less and less. I feel better now that I've unloaded all this negativity in Diaryland. What I look forward to is a gentle calm Xmas celebration with my beloved.
from starting-gun :
Happy Birthday!!! Love your hair! and congrats on the job.
from emaciana :
i love that store!!! ARIEL IS gonna get a whole new wardrobe i bet!
from theflyingrat :
Happy birthday!!
from grandbeach :
Happy Belated Birthday and Congrats on the job!
from evoen :
I always wanted to get a part time job at a retail store so that I could get discounts! You're so lucky! I don't think we'll be married because when we spoke of marriage he said he wouldn't marry unless it was financially a good decision - whatever that means.
from lindzeeleigh :
I loved the pics! It looks like you had a fun time at your birthday party. I like the new hair, it looks great. Very creative idea for the birthday cake, did Ariel like it? Congrats on the new job, the discount will be so nice for you.
from bitterwineuk :
First of all, sorry I have been crap at noting and commenting lately. I am still reading and still here. I am just not online for such long periods so even facebook and stuff is suffering. A belated congratulations to you. I really hope it all goes well for you. :) The first thing I noticed in your pics were the hair and I thought oooooh, that looks good. I would like some like that in my hair but I dont know if it would look so good since my hair is a darkish reddish brown anyway. That reminds me, I need that dying before xmas so it looks fresh and shiny and a nice colour again. Take care and hugs to Ariel. :D
from jennifergwl :
Yeah, here it is that they must be one year AND 20 lbs. But it's not safe enough. A baby's vertebrae in their neck does not fuse until the are between 2-4. If they are forward-facing and you are hit in the front, their neck's can stretch forward almost 2", but their spine will snap in .25"! Pretty scary! Rear-facing keeps them in a much better and safer position for their necks. So it's kind of a catch 22 for me. As for Nicolas, I do try the praise and he will say things like "but I like to do that". Today he said he didn't like a girl that walked in the door of a store. When he was with my husband earlier he said he "didn't like those girls, he wants to hit them" when he spotted a couple girls running in the snow. No matter what we say or do, he persists with the negative behavior. I kind of got some ideas today about some ways to remedy it. We will see if it works!
from emaciana :
congrats on the cards! what a great little business and it's something that you enjoy doing.
from evoen :
Good for you on the cards! Good luck at Chad's office too!
from lindzeeleigh :
Good for you! I think selling the cards at Chad's work is a great idea! :)
from msbear :
I'm glad Ariel's parties went well! She sounds like the perfect little daughter. :) If mine can be even half as precious as yours I'll be one proud mama!
from emaciana :
i saw your pics on facebook! they look so much fun!
from theflyingrat :
Happy (belated) Birthday to Ariel! I didn't realize that our girls had the same birthday (one year apart, of course). We were having parties at the same time! :)
from newlywedblis :
I just wanted to thank you for your notes. I know how much you want to jump in and help and give advice (I am often the same way...)...and I just wanted to tell you that I REALLY appreciate your letting me get this out here...and being understanding. I'm getting choked up just writing this. It means so much.
from starlight42 :
That's great that you were back to your pre-preg. weight so quick! I am lower than I was actually, but need to get back to exercising! Crunches really help my stomache. Wow, can't believe she'll be 2 soon! Her measurements aren't bad. I was wondering what DJ will be at 2, I guess they grow so much that first year, you wonder how the next will be,since they slow down. I know, DL is pretty empty. I still love Myspace, just because a lot of real life friends are there & it's a good way to keep in touch more often. I don't care for Facebook though, I just got it bc my brother was on it. :)
from jennifergwl :
Oh I know, I was ranting about that $153 offer for quite some time. I told my husband that is what I wanted to do. To fax them asking them where their right mind was! But, he told me it's an automated thing that companies send out. But seriously, where do they come up with such figures?!
from evoen :
Thanks for the note! Yeah, I just don't know how to interact with her. It sounds cruel, but if we were not blood related, we wouldn't be friends.
from x-centricity :
Your entries always raise my spirits up. *hugs*
from evoen :
Your entry reminds me of of a birthday party I had back in the 3rd grade! The birthday boy in my class was having a Cabbage Patch kid party. The whole class brought their own cabbage patch kid doll to his house and I still have the photograph of all the different ethnic Cabbage Patch dolls lined up against the wall. That's the only birthday party I remember! Don't worry about having so many boys in the party, I bet they all have plush animals or super hero dolls. As for activities, I recommend outdoor games it allows the hyper-active kids to be free. Sorry I can't be of much help!
from x-centricity :
Thank you so much for adding me. *huggles*
from emaciana :
happy thanksgiving!
from ava-reborn :
Thank you for the birthday message! :)
from starting-gun :
I can share your excitement for having nice lawn. We are in the middle of fixing up our backyard and laying down new grass. Can't wait to have something nice to walk on and look at!
from theflyingrat :
Good luck with the cards! I'm sure you'll be fine with it all. :)
from emaciana :
thinking of you honey
from grandbeach :
Yowza. In-laws eh? Hopefully you two can work it out, but she definitely shouldn't have snapped at you. You're probably right about it having been the stress which is a problem, yes, but hers not yours. I know sometimes I'll snap at someone because of outside factors but generally speaking, I realize what is happening right away and apologize. Hopefully she apologizes tomorrow but who knows, a whole day will have gone by, she might think it's done and over with so no point in bringing it up. Good luck with this. Dealing with in-laws seems to be a fairly tricky thing.
from newlywedblis :
Thanks for your note! I did check out the site you linked to.. none to close to us (three hours away, I think..), but I'll keep my eye out for something around here...might even suggest it to our church. The difference in our faith is a little hard with some of these things (we went to one marriage conference that we both thought was just absolutely terrible...but I really like how this one has no group discussions and it seems much better!). I've asked about counseling or Dr.'s, but so far he's not willing to go. We'll see if that changes now that we have a son.... Anyway--thanks for caring. Oooh, and we all sat down and had a really good talk this afternoon. It was pretty uncomfortable, but I think it will help tremendously. Comes down to just simple communication differences, I think...which is a HUGE relief!!
from jennifergwl :
LOL Walmart is definitely cheaper than Target and Starbucks is the expensive coffee place. Dunkin Donuts is cheaper and I hear wayyyy better in the coffee department. Course, I don't drink so I can't verify that. Hope the rest of your visit is nice!
from lindzeeleigh :
Wow, it sounds like you are having a good time on your trip and Ariel is having a fun time with Chad's sister and her kids! fun times all around! I hope that you MIL is going to be okay, it sounds kind of scary. Take care and enjoy the rest of your holiday!
from lindzeeleigh :
This is the program I was using, so Check it out if you would like to: http://www.getpaint.net/download.html#Download. Its called paint.NET. Its free and is more user friendly then photoshop.
from princesse69 :
Have fun on your break away! I love shopping too. The exchange rate is really good for us Brits too. If only I could afford to go to the US and shop! I'd love to try all their restaurants too. I ♥ Krispy Kreme Donuts, but the only place I've ever found them in this country is in London's Harrods - which is a bit far to go for donuts! I hope you enjoy your time away!
from jennifergwl :
haha! Sorry about the lottery thing :) I never ever ever win that. My husband bought a ticket when we were in MA this past weekend because it was such a huge jackpot. I can't even believe I won $2 lol! Thanks about the photos :)
from jennifergwl :
lol It's funny hearing you talk about the restaurants and stores that I shop at ALL the time :) As for the bed, I started Nicolas in a toddler bed because he moves around sooooo much! I had to put extra guard rails on even the toddler bed because he would fall out. And they can jump over the guard rails, they aren't very high. I couldn't even imagine putting him right into a twin bed. But if Ariel doesn't move too much, then she could do well in a twin with rails. It all depends on the child. Enjoy your visit to the states and hey, you need to update the photos in your layout, Ariel looks so young in them :)
from emaciana :
how exciting! i love going to the states too. buy lots of DAIRY while you're there to bring home. cheese, cream cheese, butter. Haagen daz ice cream is also insanely cheap. at target & walmart it's 1/2 the price of what we pay in canada - $2.49 instead of $5.99! enjoy!
from lindzeeleigh :
I think you got some good deals on clothes for Ariel. I bet they are so cute. :) I hope you and Chad have fun on your holidays together, you deserve it! Let me know if you got my email. :)
from theflyingrat :
Have fun on your trip! I haven't had a night alone with my husband since before our son was born almost 4 years ago! I was just noticing that my kids need some fall clothes too. It seems as though Autumn is sneaking up on us faster this year than it usually does. ♥
from lerin :
Thank you so much for your last comment. I really needed a friend to give me some honest feedback and I appreciate that you did. It really made me feel better just to know that you understand how I feel.
from evoen :
Yeah I get those too sometimes. Feeling fat days. Though physically the weight is the same, emotionally your mind betrays you and sends you these negative thoughts and doubts about yourself. Nothing seems to shoo those dark clouds away till tomorrow comes. It will pass.
from theflyingrat :
Our baby girls have the same birthday (2 years apart). I think how soon you get pregnant has A LOT to do with how much stress you put on yourself. My first two pregnancies I was virtually stress-free about it, saying "If it happens, yay.. if not then it wasn't meant to be yet and we'll try next month." BOTH those times I got pregnant on the FIRST try. My 3rd pregnancy (after my miscarriage) I was extremely anxious to get pregnant. I wanted a baby sooo badly. That time it took us almost 7 months. So my advice would be go off the pill whenever you are ready for a baby and then don't stress about it! It will happen when it is meant to. ♥
from grandbeach :
I'm totally going to end up comparing your daughter to my dog here but I thought it might fit. I was giving a thought to what your MIL said and your situation with your mom and it reminded me of the following: My dog absolutely adores my dad. She gets as excited to see him as she does for me. She's just over the moon when he talks to her or plays with her. However, if my dad is angry with anyone or anything which is expressed by either his actions (pacing, door slamming) or words (raises his voice a bit but not yelling, just speaking loudly) she HIDES from him. It doesn't matter that it is not directed at her, she's terrified of him until he says "aw, did I scare you? come here little girl" and then she's fine. So I was thinking, although Ariel loves your mom it could be that she can still feel that tension and anxiety from your mom and is reacting to it, but can switch quikly between those emotions or even feel both at the same time. Just an idea. I know it's hard to compare dog actions to people actions, but I dunno, my dog acts like she's a person, lol.
from starlight42 :
I agree with Bunny! She put it well. That sucks with how your mom is treating you, I've been there for sure. I hope it can improve. Wouldn't it be nice if we could all have a great relationship with our parents? Esp. when we are parents ourselves? I just read your bikkini entry. I think you should wear what you want and feel good in. I think you look fine. It's peoples problems if they stare or whatnot. And you should be damn proud for looking good after a baby!!
from bunny828 :
Good Luck with your mother. I guess she misses you, but it sure sounds like she crossed a line or two. Now that you are on your own, she can give all the advice she wants, you don't have to take it.
from emaciana :
i on the plus side, sounds like you and your MIL have a good relationship. how lucky of you and chad, getting to go on a date at what sounds like a wonderful steakhouse. you look so happy! congrats on 5 yrs hon!
from theflyingrat :
Urgh. I cannot believe your own mother would say those things to you! Of course you don't hit your baby girl. I'm really sorry about the arguing and things. But.. Happy Anniversary! ♥
from lindzeeleigh :
Just for the record, I think your bikini looks great on you and you should not feel ashamed at all. Don't listen to cruel things that other people say, they are often just jealous. As for things with your mom, I can sort of relate because my mom can be like that as well and it is very hard to deal with. That book on boundaries sounds like it could be very helpful. Let me know! :)
from jennifergwl :
I had a hard time following some things, especially about the thing that Ariel does. I am curious what it is she does. If she gets excited (is it like happy excited or nervous or upset?) she tends to shake or kind of jump as if she is startled? I originally thought that your MIL was complaining that Ariel gets excited to see your mom and not her, and then it changed so I was lost lol Wow, it must be so hard to have a mom like that on you all the time. It's as if in her head you are still a teenager living at home. She focuses on even personal things which must be so hard!
from jennifergwl :
Thanks! yeah, I have read about making lists and I truly need to. I have wanted to for a while, but along with everything else, I am just not motivated enough. I mean you would think my failing marriage would be motivation enough, but depression (or satan) gets the best of you of course. The thing is Bob isn't a believer at all, let alone a pew-filler. So, that is a huge difference with us. I need to find a way to feel better about things, or at least find a way to see that things can be better.
from bunny828 :
First off, I wish I had a body like yours! Yes, there is a lot of clevage and I suspect you can't really get away from that. I think a triangle shape might make it seem like we were not seeing as much, but ... well you said in your note, they are big. If you do decide to get a new suit, now is a great time to get one. They are on sale this time of year. I saw some nice ones here: http://www.bikini-beach.com/ddtops.htm http://www.venus.com/ http://www.thebigbikinicompany.com/ BUT the bottom line is ... if you are comfortable, don't worry about it.
from starting-gun :
The bikini looks fine. It's not like you can see your nipples. It's your body, don't let anyone bully you into telling you what you can and can't reveal. Maybe your MIL is jealous of your body!!!
from evoen :
Hi! Thanks for your note, finally! My feelings are justified! I didn't know if it was because I was jealous and I was reading my bf's female friend wrong. She isn't my friend, I've never met her, but thankfully she has moved to LA far far away so she can't do any damage! The stuff she wrote to my bf was just before she was leaving for LA to rejoin her bf. Yep, she had a boyfriend when she wrote that stuff. My bf used to work with her and her reputation was that she enjoyed the attention of her male co-workers, the ones that already had girlfriends. She did convince some of them to come over her apartment, thankfully not my bf!
from newlywedblis :
Ok--I've been in my cave long enough. And as for the bathing suit issue--I think you look fabulous! I have a hard time finding suits that fit me as well (long torso, so I can't wear one-pieces, and now that I'm nursing nothing fits the same as it used to), but I think you did well with that suit. I'm not sure what else you could do--maybe a tankini would allow you to wear it higher? I have noticed that I have a different criteria for my clothing now that I'm "mom," but really only slight adjustments. I don't think it's fair that moms have to be all covered up or people think poorly of them--we're still young women! Good luck with "the talk"...anticipating those is never much fun.
from lowercaseg :
I agree! Your swimsuit looks like a swimsuit! You look great, and if you are comfortable in it, that's all that matters!
from evoen :
Enjoy the the body you have and wear anything you want! I see nothing wrong with your swimsuit, it's tasteful and classy. 25 years from now, you might not be as confident wearing a bikini, so enjoy the time you have now. ~ I cannot give you the formula for success, but I can give you the formula for failure, which is: Try to please everybody. -HERBERT BAYARD SWOPE, journalist
from starlight42 :
Hope the talk with the MIL went ok, I hate when people say stuff like that and stress you out! I love the pics of Ariel, I saw the Canada Day ones on Facebook I think it was, the others are good too! What a pretty mom & daughter. :)
from evoen :
Wouldn't it be silly if it were just a simple thing like "surprise birthday party planning" or " who brings the potato salad at the next labour day Bar-B-Q get together"? I hope the "we got to talk" doesn't turn out to be something serious. Hang in there, ~hugs~
from theflyingrat :
Argh. That would irritate me too. I never did understand why people would say, "I need to talk with you later." Why not just wait until LATER and then say, "Hey come on over so I can talk to you"??? People! Hopefully it's something nice at least. Let us know how it goes. ♥
from emaciana :
those flip flops are the cutest thing i have ever seen!
from lindzeeleigh :
I love all the pics! The Canada Day ones of Ariel all dressed up are just too cute! It sounds like a really fun time at the church gathering, so many things to do!
from evoen :
Lovely pics, mother & daughter = gorgeous!
from lindzeeleigh :
Glad to hear that you are enjoying the smmer holidays! I t really has been lovely out and I hope you have a fantastic time at the lake!
from tootiturtle :
I'm so glad she's okay! I would have been terrified if I was in your shoes!
from emaciana :
whew! so glad she's ok. i'm glad zach isn't at that stage yet. i still have a while before i have to babyproof everything!
from lerin :
Anita, I hope you don't get upset when I say this, but you frequently post pis of things Ariel has gotten into when you are in the shower, and this latest incident could have been dangerous. Is there any way you could take it early, before Chad leaves? It's not my place, I know... but I was thinking about saying somethign ever since the first pictures. I just worry about that!
from lindzeeleigh :
Ariel is just too funny! I like all the pictures of her causing trouble, they made me smile. I am glad to hear that things are going so well for all of you!
from theflyingrat :
Those are such cute pictures! I love the peanut butter one, hehe. It sounds like you are doing really well, yay! Ariel is such a cutie pie. :)
from grandbeach :
I saw Knocked Up a week ago and thought it was HILARIOUS. The first thing I said when I saw my friend that actually has a baby was that she HAD to go see it. lol.
from mamabean :
Hiya! I just noticed you've added me to your list of favorites and wanted to come say Hello to you and thank you for reading (if indeed you are still reading!) I can't wait to get to know more about your selfish little self (hee hee) and your adorable girl. Oh, and your husband, too! Adding you to MY favorites now and will be back to see you again soon. Hugs - M
from jennifergwl :
It is called, How to be the Happy Wife of an Unsaved Husband. Here is the link to Amazon http://www.amazon.com/How-Happy-Wife-Unsaved-Husband/dp/088368358X and I have done the Happy Birthday in the card for another holiday, too lol
from evoen :
I hope things are going well and you're no longer in need of downsizing from your beloved house. I forgot to answer one of your notes! My bf didn't want to live in my condo because he felt it wouldn't feel like "our" place. That's why we moved into a new place together and both invested our design ideas together. I kept my beloved condo and I'm simply renting it. Thanks for your notes!
from princesse69 :
I know people who can't function without starting their day with a cup of coffee (like my hubby) but I've never liked it. I've tried it numerous times but I can't stand the bitterness. Maybe if I put in the 10 packets of sugar like you did maybe I'd have liked it better. But good for you to have the will power to drink much less of it!
from emaciana :
i love it. black. i used to drink it by the pots... but it turned my stomach too when i was preggo and now i'm just getting back into it!
from lindzeeleigh :
I really don't like coffee at all. I tried it in university because everyone was drinking it, but I just never took to it at all. I am a tea girl!
from theflyingrat :
I've never had coffee, I can't even stand the smell. :)
from jennifergwl :
Oh and as for the clothes, yes, I did know the total when all was said and done, but once they were bought, they were bought. If I looked at the tag before I even closely examined the clothing, I never would have held onto it. While I don't go on these sprees often lol I know it's the only way I can do it!
from jennifergwl :
I wish Nic had only put it on him. His super short hair would have been a lot easier to wash out lol! The ottoman, however, is ruined! I can't imagine trying to get it out of long girl hair. Oh and I am 33 not 23 lol I wish I were 23! Thanks for the birthday wishes :)
from ava-reborn :
Just think of your dad and say what you'd want to say! I HATE Fathers Day! My dad died 2 weeks before Fathers Day! It puts the day in to perspective!
from grandbeach :
hmm weird. Someone else I know had the same problem, I wonder if my settings are set to some crazy private setting. I know I have it on some pretty stiff settings but didn't realize it would make me invisable, lol. I've added you.
from lowercaseg :
I think the Father's Day inserts you came up with are great!
from jennifergwl :
I e-mailed you again with my username and password, I hope you get it this time. Let me know if you don't. I understand the desire to be home with your kids, I couldn't imagine anything else either. It was always my dream to be a SAHM and I am so thankful that I am blessed this way.
from grandbeach :
Hey! Feel free to add me to facebook!
from theflyingrat :
I love all the photos, Ariel is a sweetie. ♥
from princesse69 :
Sorry to hear about the tough time you're having with finances. Chad should be more positive to get things moving but I can understand why he feels so down. Maybe he feels like he's failing you and Ariel. He can see you love your home and don't ever want to leave so he must feel gutted about the prospect of moving to a smaller house. But during these times (and me and Dave have had financial troubles of our own) you just have to stay positive otherwise it can really get you down. Hopefully you can both work at it and the refinancing will help and give you better options. You and Chad will get through this you'll see. Sometimes you have to take a step back to go forwards. (((HUGS))) xxx
from starlight42 :
First, wanted to say that I saw the mothers day pics and Ariel is getting so big!! I love her long hair. Yuck for the vaseline though. LOL Next, wanted to say I'm sorry to hear that you guys are still looking at the possibility of selling the house. I wish you didnt' have to. I wish that Chad was able to make more $, but I know it's hard out there right now. Maybe you can see about getting a night job, even if it's temporary, if you could then keep your house? I don't blame you for being upset and frustrated and sad etc. I know it would be hard to "move down". Which, I guess we are lucky since we started with a starter home. Even though at times it bums me out that there's so much we can do to this place and eventually will do....I know it's 100x better than when we moved in, but I still see all of the flaws, you know. That's the bummer in the starter home I guess. but you know, I dont thikn other people notice the flaws like we do. Well, my email is starlight29341@yahoo.com If you lock up.
from emaciana :
don't feel like a failure... you and Chad will work it out. i know your marriage means so much to you, you'll find a way to make it work. you've been so supportive of me and my probs with stew, and i have faith in the 2 of you. i hope the house situation works out for you. as for HALOSCAN - comments, i had no idea how to do it until today - if you want help setting it up on your diary, let me know and i'll be happy to try and explain it. just get an account at haloscan.com and the directions are there, or i can help too.
from jennifergwl :
Try to keep in mind some things. I have learned some things from my husband, when support is lacking from a wife, it makes a husband feel like even more of a failure. I am willing to bet he already feels like a failure, he didn't go to school, he's working a job he doesn't really like and isn't doing well at it, he needs to sell his house to cover the debt that he cannot work to get rid of, he's taking his wife out of a house she loves and he's depressed. While you know how to work hard and achieve any goal you set your mind to, he is having a hard time with it. Especially if you are rejecting the decision he is making about selling. You are understandably upset, but Chad is probably taking this very hard and isn't feeling any support from you. I want you to know I am not being critical in any way, this is something I have come to know a lot about being that the same issues are happening in my marriage. A house is a house and your family is your love, your #1 priority. You CAN be happy anywhere if you set your heart to it. So, if you can achieve a goal if you set your mind to it, set your mind to this. As hard as it is to put yourself aside (and trust me, I know) maybe this is the time you have to try. I hope everything works out and with God it will. You know this :)
from lindzeeleigh :
Try and remember that it is just a house....you will find another one and it will become your home. You make your house a home, you fill it up with your family, love, and you can do it again. Don't lose hope, it will all work out. :)
from bunny828 :
First off {{{{Hugs}}}, second you are young. You have lots of time to find the house of your dreams together. If it would lessen your husbands depression and financial concerns to move into a more affordable house and possibly send him to school (or something) then now is the time to do it (while you are young). Don't do what my parents did and make the house mean everything. What means everything is that the 3 of you are together and happy. Right? (I know you know that.) {please delete if you want}
from cutielatina :
It's ok to feel this way. It really is. I have felt this way several times during my marriage. It's normal to feel frustrated when things don't work out like you wanted them to. But working through things together is what will make your marriage stronger. If you can survive the big things and still have that love that unites you, then your marriage will last. Right now,however bleak it may feel or seem (and it's ok to feel this anger and feel this way), remember it is just a temporary state. At least there is a possible solution for it and something is and may be done. I'm sorry you are going through this though.*hug*
from readyorknot :
I'm sorry you're going through this. I wish I could somewhat understand what you're going through but, since I don't.. I think maybe I could just say, Maybe you should do what best for your family.. so there's not so much stress between you and your husband. I know you'll miss your house, it sounds wonderful but, you can always work your way back up, always. ((hugs))
from lerin :
I'm sorry you are so upset. I would be so sad to leave my home too. Remember though that Chad doesn't "choose" to be depressed. No more than I do. We can choose whether to get help or not, but not to just stop feeling this way. Coming at him with anger and frustration may make ti even worse, and make him fel as though no one is there for him. As much as you can, pray for him and allow yourself to be his safe place, his comfort. For better or for worse! Hang in there!
from theflyingrat :
Hey. I'm sorry for what you're dealing with. Hopefully things will work out soon, have faith that things happen as they are meant to. ♥
from ava-reborn :
I'm so sorry things are so bad at the moment! Please don't be too hard on Chad though! Depression isn't something you can just snap your fingers and get out of! It's an illness. I know how frustrating it is to put up with someone suffering from it, but they don't choose to be that way. I really hope things get better for you all very soon!
from wheeless :
Hi Anita. Actually, I didn't cut them! :) Sophie cut them herself last year in August. She didn't get to touch scissors again for six months, she was in such trouble. I cried everytime I looked at her for awhile... lol. Her hair grows soooo slooooow, that it will take a very long time to grow them back out, but we plan on it. They're getting long and in her eyes finally, so I've been pulling thewm back again. I know lots of people like bangs on their kids, but I just never have been a fan myself!
from evoen :
Hi Anita-girl. Sorry for your loss ~hugs~ As for Chad's cough, if he's had it beyond 2 weeks, it's considered a persistent cough. I had a persistent cough, after 2 weeks I went to the clinic, the doctor prescribed me cough medicine. 7 days later, I landed in the hospital, hooked up to the respirator due to a lung collapse, caused by pneumonia. I'm not saying Chad has pneumonia, but what i am saying, is his body is telling him there is something not right. Men notoriously avoid doctors, it's just a "guy" thing.
from readyorknot :
i'm so sorry to hear about your grandmother (hugs)
from theflyingrat :
Sorry about your grandmother. I can't believe you're having cold weather again (still?)! It's about 90 here already and it's only 11:30 am! 05-25-07
from ava-reborn :
I'm so sorry to hear about your grandmother! Hugs! As for your idea to sell your cards at your garage sale, I think that's a fantastic idea! Thank you so much for your note! I really appreciated it! And I appreciate your honesty! I know it was all said in love! ANd I think you're right too!! SO thank you lovely!! Have a great weekend! Give Ariel a big kiss from me! And I hope Chad's feeling better really soon!!
from evoen :
Thanks for the note! Your Ariel is so adorable! Those who didn't help you at your party felt they were entitled to being served without giving anything in return (such as helping out with dishes). They were just selfish and it's a behaviour that harbours a lack of empathy. Once you recognize they'll never change their predictable behavior, you won't be disappointed the next time they act selfish at your house.
from mommy4ever :
Hi! Your little Ariel is adorable! I saw you added me and thought I'd read your entrys - I would love to continue reading if you don't mind! Good luck with those in-laws. Sometimes they can sure be trying!!
from jess1976 :
Hey hun- would you mind send me the pw info so I can keep reading. My e-mail address is jgarnick@wowway.com Thanks!!
from smedindy :
Oh, Katie once put about a whole jar of moisturizing cream on her.
from grandbeach :
I do have facebook. I start at RB*C next week while I look for my dream job. Should be interesting. I'm glad I got to spend so much time with him and I'm glad I have time to just chill before going to work next week. I think it would be much harder knowing I had to work this week, I could have managed it but it's nice to not have to.
from princesse69 :
Hope you and your family had a very Happy Mothers Day!
from emaciana :
happy mother's day to you!
from lindzeeleigh :
Happy Mother's Day!! :)
from grandbeach :
The letter thing is kind of like in preschool when your mommy comes and fights your battles. Not cool. You can try to repair this friendship but honestly, I don't think it's worth it. You have so many good friends who would never pull something like that and honestly, you can't teach someone to be a good friend. She obviously only cares about her children and only to the extent that they can't do any wrong. Because hey, if they did something wrong, that would be a negative reflection of her right? and really, that's the only reason she cares. Wow, I don't think I've been that harsh in awhile. Hopefully you understand what I'm trying to say:)
from starlight42 :
That's a good idea with working up the amount of time I leave DJ with daddy! Based on the feedback, we are going to have daddy spend alone time with DJ every night for at least a half hour, no mommy in sight! Then increase and that should help too, more bonding time. It's just hard for my hubby because he works 60 hours a week- even works 8hrs on Saturday! Ya, I guess it had been a while since he was alone with dad as well, maybe I should start doing it every week one night for an hour or so and like you said be consistent, so that when it happens for longer, he might be better to understand its ok. Oh, I see you read the Shopaholic books, did you get the baby one yet? I need to get it still!
from starlight42 :
I say give it a week and try calling again if you don't hear from them. Hopefully you will though!
from lindzeeleigh :
Glad that you had fun with the girlfriends and the kids! :) Try not to worry about the letter or get yourself upset about it. It is now in the past and you have phoned and left a message to try and straighten things out. There is no need to remain negative about the situation or try and analyze it further because you have lots of other things going on in your life as well. Focus on what is good and positive and positive things will happen. Give them time to come around, remember they are hurt and upset too. People's feelings can get hurt easily and can be hard to mend - on both ends.
from starlight42 :
Oh, as for the rest of the note, I guess it's up to you to see if it really makes sense or hits home. I do find it hard too if people complain to me about their problems, well, then they're goign to get my feedback, you know. Yikes about that fork!! It reminds me, last week at a soccer game this girl came up to me & DJ and was saying how cute he was and then I looked down and she had stuffed a goldfish cracker in his mouth!! He doesn't eat crackers well yet at all!! I had to fish it out, people need to teach their kids to be careful of others babies and kids!! DJ would have choked had I not gotten it out.
from starlight42 :
Thanks for the advice on DJ. Actually, he's usually ok right after I leave, it's like an hour later, like last night, that he gets upset. It's like all of a sudden he realizes I'm gone or something. I'm only gone for two-three hours usually too. Do you think that's a long time in baby world? Maybe it is, I really don't know. I hope it stops soon though. It's kind of embarassing to have to leave dinner with my friend left finishing dessert, but I know she understands, she's not a mom yet. As for your entry on that letter- I agree that Tammy should have mentioned some of this stuff to you first. Her hubby has no business with the mommies group and kind of butting in, even though I'm sure he meant well. I hope it gets worked out.
from jennifergwl :
I don't expect you to respond to the entire entry, but the point I made in regards to the statement should have been in your mind. I don't mind someone correcting me or telling me their version of things, but when you jump and say 'you're wrong' without taking into consideration what I said, then you are in the wrong. And taking courses and having a university degree doesn't make you knowledgeable in everything. A lot of things? Sure, but sometimes it's an opinion that you are sharing, but making it sound like it is fact because of how you say it. I'm just saying, try to choose your words carefully that's all. It can be offensive to people the way you come off. Look what happened with you and Nicole. And even some comments you've made on the board have struck a chord. If you have an opinion, just try to state it as an opinion.
from ashnwesten :
I'm sorry you're having to deal with this, but before responding, I really urge you to do a couple of things.. Put yourself in her shoes, try to understand her POV (as well as her husband's).. Try to UNDERSTAND and sympathize with people.. And try not to look down on anyone.. Just some things to think about. I know sometimes things are childish, but if you handle them in an adult manner, they usually end up better than before.
from bunny828 :
Thanks for your comments Anita. Can I just offer out something else? If I understand it your friendship with her is kinda falling apart. I don't think you should talk about her with other friends. Hopefully that doesn't sound stupid. It's one of those goes around comes around things. Maybe your differences have divided you as this happens from time to time in all friendships, but take it from someone who has talked too much. When you loose a friend, for whatever the reason, it's hard.
from lerin :
Anita, I know that you love and serve Christ. Spend LOTS of time in prayer with Him before you respond. I understand you feel you are in the right, but try and see Tammy with the compassion of Christ. As a mom of three, I can tell you it is very isolating. It's hard when your friends only have one, or even two, and don't understand why it really IS difficult to do simple things such as make/return phone calls or plan outings. Especially if you feel that friend is judging you and our parenting style, when they can't understand what it is like to have so many. While I do try to make my children behave, we all have different ideas of discipline and child-rearing. I think most parents DO try to instill discipline in their children, but when we do things different ways, sometimes people feel we are doing it wrong. Try to imagine what Tammy must have felt like when her friend was invited to the mommy group, but not her. I know I would have felt heartbroken. It sounds like tension has been building up for awhile. Tim is probably trying to be a good husband to Tammy by speaking up for her where she felt she couldn't. I am such aconflict-avoiding person myself that I could see me holding it all in too... of course, I'd probably be really mad at Adam for writing a letter to one of my friends I was sturggling with, though. Anyway, I just want to encourage you to follow Christ's example in this... so often, we get offended by people when we hear our faults. You did agree with some things he said, and you had been thinking of them yourself. Try to take the best things yu can from the letter, and think about where you may be able to grow as a person. As for the things you don't agree with, try to shake them off. When we are finally past all the fake niceness in the face of problems with each other, it is really a great time to grow closer as TRUE friends instead of merely make-nice acquaintances. Like I said, meet Tammy with the compassion of Christ... try to imagine and empathize where she is coming from. Move past your own hurt, offer it up to God, and try to be the friend He calls us to be! Good luck, Anita. I know you want to do th right thing, but sometimes it is so hard to know what that is, especially when we are hurt. I think taking a few days is a great idea. I'm glad you have someone in "real life" you can turn to for advice in times like this.
from xx-angel-xx :
I don't see why she couldn't have been invited to the mommies get together. Aren't all mommies the same, whether they have boys, girls, two or five children? She's probably feeling lonely. I'm not sideing with anyone here but, i sort of feel like you're being insensative, because it doesn't seem like you could care less if they were in your life or not and that's not exactly being fair to their feelings about everything. I do think she should have talked to you first about things before her husband but, I wonder if things would have been any different.. Its hard raising one child, let alone three. Everyone needs time to sit around with other mom's and just chat. She could have gotten to know the other mom's and maybe the two of you could have gotten closer. I don't think either of you are wrong, though.
from ava-reborn :
K is 13! So yes, it certainly is time!! Thanks for your kind words, and your positivity! No need to apologise! :)
from bunny828 :
That high school thing stays with us till ... well I still bump into it now and then. That kid thing and you hit on it ... 3 is hard. Being told your kids have behavior issues ... hard. Hearing someone scold your child ... hard. I hope that when yours is older, you can look at them and understand a little of what Tammy might be feeling now. I don't think you did anything wrong and I don't think Tammy necessarily did either. I do want to ask you to try to look at this from her point of view. Maybe she is hurt and doesn't know how to tell you and is feeling defensive and lonely. Maybe you can help her find a Mommy group for women with multiple children? Or maybe you could meet with her once a month? Just imagine how much advice she could offer as a mother with older children who has been through this baby time multiple times. Yes it's harder to control 3 children compared to just 1. Also you might want to distract instead of saying no (ie: Let's use that fork over here on the table.). Just some thoughts.
from jennifergwl :
You have a way of zoning in on a sinlge point in a person's diary and ignoring the rest. And it's kind of offensive to say "HEY! You're wrong" first thing. It might be better to say something like "The love of money is the root of all evil is a way I have heard it..." and then continue with what you want to say. You tend to jump in and tell a person they are wrong and then continue to tell them why you think you are right. And honestly, you don't usually have much to back it up accept that OTHER people have told you why they disagree, etc and you seem to just take on the same opinion. I could leave examples, but I am choosing not to at this time. When I wrote "MONEY IS THE ROOT OF ALL EVIL" I did state that there is more to it than just saying that statement, but in the end it is the truth. It's as if you completely ignored that and just jumped on me to tell me I was wrong. You have a tendency to really push your "opinion" on a person in a way that is just going too far. So, some advice, try to share what you are thinking or feeling in a more constructive way so that it doesn't sound like you enjoy telling a person they are wrong, or what to do or why what they like or believe is inadequate.
from cutielatina :
Don't know if I can have kids or not.I have a negative sense regarding it,really. Have never been to the doctor for verification,but I know my weight has something to do with it. It's ok to ask me anything.:)
from lindzeeleigh :
I hope Ariel is feeling better soon! Poor sick girl! Ariel's new shoes and clothes sound so cute, especially the little crocs. I think that kids are so cute in them!
from lerin :
Yes, she knew. I think that if I had never said I liked "Lily" so much, then I wouldn't feel sad about it because then I wouldn't wonder whether she would have used it if I'd kept my mouth shut. I really do think it's best not to say... I was chatting about my favorite names, and mentioned that I liked 'Lily Catherine" best but Adam wouldn't budge on Isabella. Oh, well. That;s why I don't have room to talk about you being upset... I've just told myself over and overthat it doesn't matter, so I won't feel bad when I have another girl sometime... its inevitable, since we're goingto have at least 6! ;) Use them names you LOVE, no matter if your friends take the name or not. But be sure in the future to keep the name to yourself, so you won't feel so sad when they love the name you do too! Good luck, I hope they don't use it.
from lerin :
ABout the name thing... I can't really say. I cried when my sil used Lilianna, because I wanted to call my next daughte Lily. Isabella wasn't "Lily" only because Adam liked that better, and he promised me the next girl would be Lily. So, when I found out I was pregnant with baby three, they asked if I would still call it Lily if the baby was a girl. My sil and mil were shocked when I said yes! Adam and I still plan to name our next girl Lily. I've just told myself that it really doesn't matter, so I can feel okay about using the name I loved since I was little without feeling bad. What do you think about that? I agree you should keep names to yourself, if it would cause a problem for someone else to use it before you have a chance.
from jennifergwl :
It's not that you hurt me, it's just the way you mentioned about my note being not so nice. I truly wasn't being mean or saying it in a mean way, I was just being honest with you. You know not everyone is going to agree with you about everything and friends can still be supportive and not be in agreeance about something. People have differences of opinion that's all. I didn't respond about the name thing at first because I didn't want to upset you, but since you seemed to want feedback I figured I would be honest with you. I'm sorry you aren't feeling well and I can understand when that happens a person can tend to be sensitive. I'm not upset or anything, I was just surprised you were on the defense that's all. I expect only honesty from my friends and I only like to be that way as well :) And of course I accept your apology.
from xx-angel-xx :
awe, sometimes children need medicine, ADULTS evenneed medicine whenever they're sick and its veryy hard to see your child in pain because they aren't feeling well. i sure hope she starts to feel better soon & you too!!
from lowercaseg :
So glad Ariel is starting to feel better. I know people have mixed emotions about it, but sometimes medication is just...a good thing. I think you did the right thing! That's cute about the blanket and the worship band. :) You two take care now!
from lindzeeleigh :
I just had to do a catch up - I don't understand how I missed like three entries in a row?! i know I am busy, but I try to stay caught up on diaries! Anyways, i am glad to hear that Ariel is feeling better. I love the pictures from Easter, so cute!!
from theflyingrat :
I'm glad she's starting to feel better. I wanted to clarify that if my kids get worse then I DO give them medication. I'm not completely against prescriptions if I think they really need it. ♥
from jennifergwl :
So, am I the one that you think was not being nice about the name thing? Because if I am (and I am just responding IF I am because I don't see anyone else that thought the same as I did), I don't see how you could say that. I wasn't rude or demeaning in any way and just said that I was being honest since you really seemed to want to hear from your readers about that topic.
from bunny828 :
Sorry Ariel is sick and you for that matter. I'm sure if it was definately an ear infection the doctor would have just said take the medicine. I think waiting is a good idea. I don't recall my kids getting crankier when they were sick, although if the youngest was tired there would be h$%^ to pay. On the no more children issue, while I didn't know of your pregancy problems and that sounds serious (what did the doc say?), I was thinking it might be more related to the recent money concerns. Selling the house,not selling the house, working not working, working 2 jobs. I know that was a big thing for us when we considered a 2nd child.
from lowercaseg :
Poor Ariel! I hope she's feeling better - and you, too! I suppose there are a lot of spring time bugs floating around. I can see how you would be sad about your hubby not wanting more kids. But I bet he'll change his mind!
from ava-reborn :
Gorgeous pics!!! Just so you know, I'd be furious about the name thing too!!!! Livid in fact!! Seriously!! As for not giving Ariel antibiotics, if she seems to be improving without them, I think you're doing the right thing!! Like the last person said, giving them too often just builds up a resistence to them! And then they don't work when it's something life threatening they need to fight!! So just take it as it comes. If she's still poorly in a day or so, or she gets worse, then give them to her. Otherwise, plenty of cool baths, and Calpol (if you have it there! It's infant paracetamol). She'll soon come right! Hope you're feeling better soon too lovely!!
from theflyingrat :
I don't give my kids medication for mild ear infections. Too much antibiotics at a young age and a child will build up a tolerance (which is what happened to my niece). So you did what I what I would have done, for what that's worth. Again, I completely understand the name thing. As far as your husband wanting more kids - mine didn't either (or he said 'no' at first anyway) after our first child. But I had told my husband from the time we met that I wanted at least 2 kids. Anyway, he came around. I think a lot of guys hesitate - they have such little control over pregnancy and then they have to see their wives (the person they love most in the world) uncomfortable and in pain. I suspect that if (when) you discover you are pregnant, he'll come around. Probably even before that. ♥
from theflyingrat :
I think that part of your entry got cut off? I hope Ariel is feeling 100% today. ♥
from jennifergwl :
I honestly thought it was overreacting a little. I mean, it's just a name and there are probably many children in the world out there with it. I mean, you didn't even post it here. Would it bother you if someone you never met and never will meet used it? If so, why? I'm just saying it doesn't change how special it is to you and Chad because it was a name you both thought of for your child. I'm not trying to be mean or anything, just being honest, if it bothers you then it's justified. Speaking of that, HOW do you leave an entry saying he wants no more children and then don't explain?! LOL!
from theflyingrat :
I'd be upset about the baby name thing. When I was pregnant with my son, we had the name 'Mia' picked out for a girl. When my BIL found out we weren't using the name (because we found out the baby was a boy) he named his CAT Mia and THAT made me angry. So I feel that you're justified in being upset. With my daughter we didn't tell anyone in 'real life' what names we had chosen. As for the nursery or whatever, I would definitely speak to someone about it. They are getting paid to take care of your daughter and obviously, they are not doing it properly!
from bunny828 :
I also recomend http://www.freecycle.org/, but I don't know if they operate in your area.
from bunny828 :
I would probably be mad about the name thing. Not sure how mad. I'm glad I haven't been in that position. You know you could consider 2nd hand clothing for Ariel if you all are in a tight spot. It sounds like you don't like that sort of thing, but you don't have to tell anyone. You can find some cute stuff at consignment shops.
from xx-angel-xx :
I thought I commented on the names, i guess not. haha.. I would be mad if i were you, if I shared a name and Then someone, a friend later was going to use it. Whenever I was pregnant with logan, I told everyone I was naming him Logan and my uncle's girlfriend was pregnant and she then declared if she was having a boy she was going to name him Logan. She ended up having a girl but, i was rather releaved that I was due before she was! Two walks? I would have been exhausted! I would call the nursery about her diaper rash if she always has poop in her diaper. That's not something that's acceptable, in my opinion. I know when Logan was little he would poop almost at the same time, so is there any possible way, that's how it is with her? ((hugs)) Oh & no, I don't think your entries are too long.
from emaciana :
what? he doesn't want any more children!? I want to read about that! also, i too agree with not sharing childrens' names. but since i'm the first one out of my friends to have kids, it's not as much of an issue.xoxo
from princesse69 :
Ariel and her cousins look adorable all sitting together. Those dresses are so pretty. Glad you all had a lovely Easter!
from lerin :
It's just hertinyhands/hertinyhands. I decided to lock up everything with pics of my kids... you know I have people I don't want searching them out. ;)
from lerin :
What a gorgeous dres! Thanks for your Easter message... the sacrifice of Jesus Christ is SO precious to me too. :)
from lowercaseg :
I'm glad you had a wonderful Easter! Ariel is such a cutie-pie!
from xx-angel-xx :
cute pictures. i love her dress. adorable!
from starlight42 :
Sorry to hear you had such a bad day!! Isnt' it amazing what little babies and kids can get into? And you never know what will happen, it seems as soon as you get a clean outfit on them they spit up or get dirty and you're late because you had to change them....can't wait to see teh Easter pics.
from jennifergwl :
I just wanted to mention something about bathing Ariel and leaving her alone in the bathtub. It is sooooooooo dangerous to do that. I know you are listening and everything, but the worst thing can happen in just seconds! It's just not worth it to save time no matter what. Nicolas is 2 1/2 and I would still never leave him. Just wanted to share that as some friendly advice.
from theflyingrat :
Poor Ariel! I hope you guys have a great Easter! ♥
from the-moo :
Hello I've snatched a little time online and thought I'd drop by my diaryworld only to discover I've found a new friend.. WOOHOO thank you for adding me *hug* I'll be poking about your diary xxx
from lindzeeleigh :
I hope your weekend goes better than the last couple of days. Happy Easter! :)
from lowercaseg :
Poor little Ariel! I hope her tiny thumb is better today. Happy Easter!
from ava-reborn :
I can't wait to see the photos of Ariel! Happy Easter lovely! Have a great weekend!
from starlight42 :
I can't wait to see the Easter pics!! Aww, poor girl falling in the mud. To answer your question, no plans to go back to work anytime soon. We're hoping I can stay home till he starts kindergarten, or the last baby starts, since we may have another in a couple of years! But, I may end up getting something part time, we'll see. So far Dave is working tons of overtime, mandatory, so we're doing fine in that respect. Hopefully it stays that way and we have the choice on what we want to do. As it is I already feel like I dont have enough hours in teh day!!
from grandbeach :
I totally agree with your friend about doctors writing tummy problems in women off as being irritable bowel syndrome (apparently that's my problem too, grr). Naturopaths can help you out with figuring out what foods affect you. it is expensive though, I believe the first appointment is 1 hour at 120$. from there it is 30$ for 15 minutes. CRAZY expensive I say.
from lindzeeleigh :
Thanks for the compliments on my wedding invites. :) I am really happy with them! I can't wait to see the Easter pics and good luck with MK.
from emaciana :
yay! it's so good to hear you so happy, especially after the rough times you had a while back.
from sez5 :
Ariel is one cute little girl! It's not often that I think much of babies' appearances, but your little girl is a looker.
from starlight42 :
I don't know what to tell you about Ariels hair, it's so hard to choose what to do! I think she'd look good with or without bangs. Maybe try to keep growing them out, maybe get her hair cut just a tiny bit if that helps you day to day since the pinning has to be a hassle. Then, if you don't care for it, or when you get tired of it, do something new. Sorry to hear about your cousin in Croatia. Sorry, i think I spelled it wrong. Anyway, it's just like i heard on tv the other day how sometimes two people from the same family and background can be so different....it would be hard if you were in the same country. But, no one should let it make them feel bad about themselves, meaning his family there. It's not their fault.
from ashnwesten :
No, you didn't bother me at all! I'm not so much "anti" chiropractor.. It just all freaks me out a little, and I've heard a lot of horror stories! I'm sure it probably is helpful.. I'm just not sure I could even relax enough for it to help me! And Westen is named after Wes, but no Wes' name is not Westen.. just Wes. :)
from princesse69 :
Ariel looks so pretty with her up in pigtails. I try putting Isabel's hair up but she won't have it and even if I do manage to get hair band and clips in she'll pull them straight out. Hopefully she'll let me do it soon and I can make her all girly.
from grandbeach :
Hey!!! Is Chad clinically depressed or just down? If he's just down, I'm sure that'll get better as winter turns to spring but if he's really actually depressed than he needs to get help and not just in the form of god however, that would still help for sure. exercise helps too. and there's tons of literature out there. anyways, i loved ariel in the cute pig tails that were in different spots. so adorable!!!
from ashnwesten :
Thanks for the note.. I am completely anti-chiropractor, but thanks for the advice anyways. :) And yes, I've heard of the BRAT diet, and that's what we're doing now. Westen wouldn't eat at all for three days, though. :( He's doing much better now but unfortunately, I'm not!
from theflyingrat :
Oh she's soooo cute! I can't wait until my daughter's hair is long enough for pig tails... which is probably 3 years off, haha.
from emaciana :
oh my goodness. that really is a lot of terrible things. when it rains it pours, eh? I hope you're doing ok, dealing with everything. remember, things can't get much worse, so they've gotta get better, right?
from ava-reborn :
Wow, I'm so sorry Anita! So many horrible things for you and your family to deal with! I don't even know what to say lovely, but I'm sending you hugs and positive thoughts!
from xx-angel-xx :
((hugs)) i hope you're okay!
from lowercaseg :
I don't mind the layout feedback! I am using safari as a browser, and I know many others probably use something else, so I'm usually unaware of how it looks on other internet browsers! So thank you! :D I changed it to Ariel. :) I'm sorry so many bad things are going on for you right now - thinking of you!
from theflyingrat :
I'm sorry to hear about all the stuff you've got going on! You are in my thoughts! ♥
from lindzeeleigh :
I am so sorry to hear that everything is not going well for you. :( it has hard when you get some much bad news all at once. I hope things start looking up for you soon!
from starlight42 :
Cool. I'll have to see if I can think of any ideas. I was thinking maybe something with animals (since that was his room theme and he seems to love them). Or maybe something I can insert his picture in, my friend did that for her daughters first bday. I can't believe he's 6 months already!!
from jess1976 :
Thanks for the comment! You are so sweet. You are right, I need to go in tomorrow and just tell them I wasn't feeling good. If they choose not to act like adults, that's there problem. So, have you guys come any closer to making a final decision about your house? And by the way - I love the cards - you are very talented.
from starlight42 :
I love the cards you made!! Do you make any for kids bday party invites?? I want to use something creative for DJs first....but I'm not good at that stuff!! Glad to hear you guys are discussing the house, I am sure it will all work out in the end. Hmmm, something else I wanted to say but I forgot!
from lindzeeleigh :
I like the idea of selling your cards on eBay, I bet a lot of people will be interested. :) I am glad to hear that the class you are teaching is such a success, good for you guys!
from silverscorp :
Just do a search for me on myspace. jenninelson@cox.net and you'll find me.
from grandbeach :
Aw, I like being missed. I'm also very happy to hear that you are staying in your home, at least for awhile anyways. Maybe you can turn your home made card hobby into a side business for a bit of extra income? I think you could do very well, your cards are truly beautiful.
from ava-reborn :
Your cards are great! And it's true, people do love handmade cards. The most expensive ones you can buy in a greetings card shop are the ones that looks handmade, or actually say "hand finished" on. So people must like them! Have you thought of selling some on eBay?
from silverscorp :
All the cards are really nice. You have such talent!
from grandbeach :
gorgeous!
from ashnwesten :
They are awesome. One of the girls I work with makes cards for everyone for birthdays, and they are fantastic. How you have the time, though, I don't know!!! :) Thanks for sharing :)
from bunny828 :
Nice cards
from xx-angel-xx :
i LOVE Them. they're SO cute and very creative and colorful!!
from lindzeeleigh :
Your cards are so great! I think they are well made and very cute. I think everyone will like them, I sure do!
from lowercaseg :
I don't think you have anything to worry about as far as people not liking your cards - they are sooo cute and pretty! Go for it! =)
from grandbeach :
That sucks! I know how much you love your home and I hear you on that whole needing to fix and change things in a different house and it not getting done. When my parents were looking for a house 15 years ago (this month, actually) my mom insisted on a new house because although they could have gotten more for their money by buying used, an older house would have needed repairs and my mom knew it just wasn't going to happen and not because my dad wouldn't know how (because he certainly does) but because it would take him years to get around to it. 2 things to think about: 1. how much $$ would need to be spent to fix up your current house to sell it and on the 'new' house to make it feel like your home? If it's a lot, then it may not be worth that 60k you'd 'earn'. 2. an older home should be able to give you more bang for your buck, meaning if you had 250k to buy a house, an older house at 250k is a heck of a lot bigger than a brand new house and there are some amazing houses out there. I think (and this is totally my opinion, you don't have to listen) you two really need to hash this out Together. Figure it out financially, together. Not one person telling the other person how 'great' this will be for your family but BOTH of you coming to a decision TOGETHER. Otherwise there will be resentment. It sorta seems like there already might be. And thats not fun.
from starlight42 :
I'm so sorry to hear you guys might have to sell. I would feel the exact same as you I think. Maybe there is another way to pay off your debts and still keep the house you love? If you guys are going to have another baby in a few years, you'll need room for that baby too right, would a smaller house have enough room? Well, maybe you guys could even talk to a financial advisor, not sure if you did already, to get their advice? Or what about remorgaging? And then taking the equity to pay off the bills? Aww, I feel for you! I am sure you guys can work something out though! Keep your head up.
from ashnwesten :
Good luck with your decision. I hope you guys can really discuss it and come up with something that you both are comfortable with.
from jennifergwl :
Yeah, we are going to sell to save because renting here would be cheaper than our mortgage plus we won't pay taxes or insurance or repairs and needs of the like. We will just be paying someone a monthly amount and that is it. Also, until you pay off your mortgage a house is a liability. While I do agree owning is better in the long run, not this house. It is tiny and we hate it, there are numerous things wrong with it. And we did try selling it before we build, but it's not happening. It's been for sale for 18 months. We would've had $70,000 in our pockets had we sold when the market was good, but now we just want out, so it makes sense to just break even and move on to our goal. Yeah it was very cheap. It was an acre for $19,900 and in NY they can be $85,000 for the same size. So, we're glad we didn't pay a lot and glad we can make something on it such a short time.
from ava-reborn :
I hope you can talk Chad round!! There's more to life than finances! Quality of life is more important! If saving a bit of money means an uncomfotable unhappy life, it's not worth the saving! I used to be an estate agent! I was rubbish! I was too nice! I didn't have the uncaring, killer instinct needed to make a huge income from it! Sounds like Chad is similar! I hope you can persuade him that it's better to stay where u are and give Ariel a nicer life and a nicer neighbourhood to grow up in!! That's always better than saving a few dollars!!
from lowercaseg :
Oh no, moving is a pain! :( But clearing away debt is always a good thing!
from lindzeeleigh :
I am so sorry to hear that you have to sell your house. Moving and packing is never usually a fun thing, especially when you love your house so much and built it yourselves. :(
from jess1976 :
Hi there- I used to read you a long time ago before you had your daughter. Anyhow, I just started reading again and wanted to let you know. Looking forward to reading more....
from ashnwesten :
That is so awesome that Ariel is walking!! Isn't it the cutest thing? :)
from ava-reborn :
aww, get well soon lovely! Hope it goes well at church!
from xx-angel-xx :
awe, feel better soon!!!
from lindzeeleigh :
I hope you are feeling better soon!! :)
from nicolerenee :
I understand you weren't trying to be judgemental, but that is how you came across. I am a VERY strict mother. Hence, Kyra is an angel. Being strict with a one year old? Doesn't happen. They don't understand what is going on. Keaghan, well, she spends a lot of time in time out and she gets about 3 spankings a DAY. You tell me how I can be more strict? As far as going for a walk? It is under 30 degrees here, and my kids shouldn't have to freeze. And frankly? I don't want to freeze. That to me is NOT a fun time. As far as taking them somewhere like the library or a pool? A pool costs money here, and not just a flat fee. You have to be a member of a gym. The library? The kids SCREAM. Why would I do that to someone trying to enjoy themselves at the library? That just isn't fair to them. I don't appreciate you saying that it will get better as they get older. YOU only have one child. I remember what it is like to have one. SO nice and easy. It is very easy to pass judgement on those who have more kids and say that you will never let your kids do blah blah blah. Because you are NOT in that situation, so you can't possibly understand. And, no, you can't use your friends experience as a gauge. All kids are different. And leaving the house with 3 kids? WAY different then leaving with one. WAY different. Also, I never said that those things will make my life 100% better, or perfect. BUT. Those things? Are what is wrong with my life. I have a WONDEFUL marriage, I love my kids and friends and family to death, and they love me. Those little things are what IS wrong, and can be easily fixed. I think sometimes you think because you live the perfect life, and don't seem to have any problems, you think that everyone in the world should live that way.
from theflyingrat :
I just got your comment.. you asked about my ideas to potty train Aislyn. Basically, I'm going to introduce her to the idea as soon as possible. I'm not going to wait until SHE brings it up. The older they get, the more strong-willed they are and (in my experience) the more resistent they get to change. I think I'm having such a hard time with Riley because of his exposure to the new baby. It's just a mess!! I'm hoping you (and everyone else around) has better luck! ♥
from princesse69 :
Ariel's looking super cute as always. Ariel's hair reminds me a bit of Isabel's hair, though Ariel is a few tones blonder. I wish I could help you regarding getting the rose red in that b&w photo. I'm sure it's possible though. It would look great, especially enlarged in a big frame. Ariel's such a pretty girl! ♥ Sharon x
from emaciana :
thanks for both of your notes about breastfeeding. i really appreciate hearing your views about it and it is great to hear that you had such success with it. It sounds like it came really naturally for you and i Know that isn't the case with a lot of people. I really hope that I am bowled over and my mind is completely changed after I have Zach because I want what is best for him. You are right about how my feelings might subconsciously interfere with the success of breastfeeding, and i will keep that in mind and stay as positive as possible. i really do appreciate your honesty. thank you.
from lowercaseg :
Ariel is adorable!!! Happy Valentine's Day!
from xx-angel-xx :
i LOVE the pictures, they're absolutely adorable! I am so jealous of her eye color, hehe.. Ten years soon, thats great!!
from ashnwesten :
Adorable photos! I absolutely LOVE the one with the single rose! My hubby got me a dozen roses for Valentine's Day too, but I didn't think to take Westen's picture with them.. He probably would have ended up getting stuck by a thorn! We're also just a few years away from our 10 year anniversary.. I can't believe it.. a whole decade!
from jennifergwl :
Hi! I e-mailed you the photos of Ariel you wanted done. I just wanted you to know in case your spam filter caught it or something. So, if you don't have them let me know and I will try again. What happens in Photoshop is you change the photo to grayscale, then you put it back to RGB mode, then you use the history brush to put the color back in :)
from silverscorp :
Wow you are one happy chic! Hey that's awesome. I'm happy too and I love this entry because it did get me to stop and think about how blessed I am.
from xx-angel-xx :
I"m so glad you're so happy with your life and everything/everyone in it!!!
from jennifergwl :
I'm so glad you are so happy and content with your life. I think being so content with every aspect of your life certainly helps with the happiness. I think it's wonderful :) I wish that it was so easy to just say "be happy with life as it is". Happiness isn't so easily achieved when there aren't so many happy things in your life. Joy can be achieved in any aspect of it, but happiness, not always. I hope and pray to be where you are someday :) Keep that awesome outlook you have and hold onto the amazingness of it. I think that if things were to slide on one or two areas, you will be able to get yourself back to this content place with ease! :)
from lindzeeleigh :
I love your happy entry - it is so true. Sometimes we get caught up in life and don't realize all the good things that we have and should be thankful for. We are all blessed. :)
from ava-reborn :
What a great entry! It made me smile to read it! I'm glad you are so happy!
from starlight42 :
Oh, and I'm so sorry I'm so far behind!! I just got to see your Christmas pics. And by the way, Ariel is getting so big! She is just a doll....it's amazing how much she looks like her cousins too! Those cute little cheeks....and as for your entry about loving her and kissing her- I'm with you. I kiss and hug DJ all day long. I figure he'll only be this little once and he just lights up when I do it. And for the walking, I know, it sucks when everyone compares what their baby can do. Esp. if their baby is doing things early, it makes you feel like your baby is 'late'. I hate it too! I'm with you on her being cuter though...I bet she is!! haha
from starlight42 :
Isn't it crazy how fast time flies? I was just thinking the other day how I'd been writing here for 4 years! Congrats on your anniversary, I think it's a great place to get out your feelings, get advice etc. On the two babies thing, I have a friend who had them 18 months apart, she did not do it on purpose, but it happened....anyway, watching her I would not do it! It is rough. And I'm with you, one is enough right now. I know a girl who has a baby born the same month as DJ (spt) and she's preggo again!! Anyway, my sister and I are 3 years apart, well about 2 1/2, and I think it was a nice place to be. I think if we do have another one, that's what we'll do. Wait a few years, maybe get DJ potty trained, LOL
from lindzeeleigh :
Congrats on your diary anniversary! I always forget mine too. :P As for having babies close together, i totally understand what you are saying and I think three years is a nice age gap. ;)
from babymakes3 :
I forgot I was going to leave you a message telling you not to worry about Ariel walking. She sounds VERY close. I was wondering when Westen would ever get up the courage to walk and then he just did out of the blue! Now he's very good at it. I'm also so jealous of your maternity leave!!! I wish things were like that here. :(
from ava-reborn :
She is getting big isn't she!! lol! She surprises me every day with how big and grown up she's getting! It's like I forget until she does something, or I suddenly notice how tall she is! lol!
from grandbeach :
My sister and I are only 18 months a part and my mom has always said that in a way, it was easier because we always had each other but at the same time... it was a lot more expensive because we never ever had handme downs. Even though I'm 18 months older, my sister and I were always about the same size. My brother is 6 years older than me and I'm not going to lie to you, it's like there are 2 distinct families at times. How they raised us was completely different but even though at times it feels like 2 different families, we are still one and still try to act like one family. I think you 3-3.5 range is good. Still close enough in age to be friends and play together but far enough apart that they won't feel in competition with each other. Kudos.
from lerin :
Happy Diaryland Anniversary! As for child-spacing, I've had a relatively "large" age gap (Sophie was 3 and a half when I had Bella) and now I am doing a small one (Bella will only be 17 months old when I have Ben). I think every family is different and unique. I will like having Bella and Ben so close, so they can be playmates growing up like my sister (16 months ahead of me) and my brother (12 months behind me). But this pregnancy has been MUCH more difficult, and I imagine that I will feel guilty for Isabella not having as much time to be the only baby like Sophie did. I think there are pros and cons of each way, and you definitely shouldn't be looked down on for doing something different than your friends. Why do people get so upset about what others choose to do, when it is different from "their way"? It doesn't make sense.
from xx-angel-xx :
I think its rather silly how they're acting because you only want one child right now. I don't see how it would be different between you and ur friends if you have one and the rest have two, can't see things changing that much or being that different between u all. If u arent ready to have another one yet, there's nothing wrong with that.
from nicolerenee :
Oh, and I also wanted to say something about the bragging about milestones and stuff. I understand it must be annoying when parents do that, but me, being one of those parents of kids that did everything (almost) early, it is hard on us too. We are looked at as bragging, when we are just merely sharing. I never compete...I don't care that my child started walking at 9 months, and yours isn't yet. It doesn't matter. It doesn't mean that I am a better mother than you or visa versa. It just means the childs make-up is different. And when I have friends where we are talking about that subject, I just say "oh really?" And I end it, because if I try to talk about my child, I get called a braggart. Just wanted to share my opinion being on the other side of the coin. :)
from nicolerenee :
Well, since I have the experience of dealing with a 4 year age difference and a 13 month one. I choose the 4 year. I barely got to enjoy Keaghan as a baby, because I was pregnant and miserable, or just had a newborn. If I could have chosen the age difference, I would have picked 3 years. The oldest one starts to realize what is ok, and what is not. It is REALLY hard having them close in age. Hard until the youngest gets to be about 4. So I have like 3 years left of tough times. Have another baby when you want, don't worry about what everyone else says.
from bunny828 :
Wow, so many feelings about having children. So many judgements. I don't know why people (friends) do that to each other. My sister wanted children so badly and was unable to have them, she adopted. Another friend had a husband who didn't want one and she got pregnant (with his), now they are divorced and she remarried. She'd like another and can't have one. Another friend had her babies really close, but it wasn't like they planned it that way ... it just happened. Mine are 4 years apart. I was happy with that, but once again I didn't plan it that way, it just happened. Sorry I hope I don't sound too weird. I'm just pointing out that some times things happen (or don't) and it's a shame anyone is judging.
from ava-reborn :
I'm so sorry about your aunt, lovely!! She was so young too! Happy Diaryland anniversary! As for Ariel not walking yet, you're right, anything upto 18 months is normal, so she's not late! And I really DOOOOOO know how you feel about other people trying to compete with the milestones!! I could NEVER compete, obviously! I think because of that I understand more than anyone how snide and pathetic it is to brag about how soon your child does this or that! And how hurtful it is to be on the receiving end! I like your idea about retorting with a comment about Ariel being cuter!! Hahaha!! When K was just a few months old, I bumped into an acquaintance who had a baby of a similar age. She bragged that her baby was sitting up and seemed horrified that K wasn't yet! I felt so upset! So my friend took a good look at this acquaintance's baby and replied, "Well yes, but at least K hasn't got a huge nose!" I nearly choked!! Ok, it may have been a nasty thing to say, but she did sort of deserve it!!! xx
from xx-angel-xx :
I just think whenever the child actually *wants* to start walking, that's when they'll start walking. No, i don't believe she's is a late walker, either.. sometimes it takes time. Logan started walking at 10 months. I just think it depends on the child. Doesn't mean anything if they are late walkers. I forget the age range they start to walk or when 'late' is 'late'. I wouldn't worry about it and i'd shrug off comments from other people. She'll start to walk when she's ready to and wants to.
from jennifergwl :
Aww such a fun age that is. They are so snuggly and sweet and fun. I am in awe that you can pick her up when she's sleeping like that! OH my word, I was afraid to breathe when I get within 10 feet of Nicolas' room at that age haha!
from jennifergwl :
Aww Anita, I am so sorry for you and your mom. Even if you aren't close with the person, when it's family it still effects you, I understand that. I hope that your mom will see her again someday!!
from xx-angel-xx :
i am so so sorry for your loss!
from lerin :
Oh, I'm so sad to hear about this. My heart is with you and your family!
from lindzeeleigh :
I am so sorry to hear about your aunt. :( Losing a family member is never easy, but not getting to say goodbye makes it even harder. My thoughts and prayers are with you.xo
from tootiturtle :
I sent you an e-mail the other day with the info to get into my other diary. Let me know if haven't gotten it. You and your family are still in my prayers. *hug*
from nicolerenee :
Praying for your aunt and the rest of the family. xoxo
from bunny828 :
Sorry to hear about your Aunt. She's in my thoughts. In regard to your other topic regarding bitterness (though I won't really address that directly). I decided a long time ago that there are 2 types of people in this world. Ones who, for whatever the reason, feel the are born and the world owes them. Maybe they did have a hard life and maybe not, but regardless they feel people everyone owes them things. Then there is another group of people, who know that no matter what, you have to earn what you get. You have to have the drive. Nobody owes us anything. We have to make a success of our own lives. You also have to be willing to give and not receive, though sometimes you end up feeling used. Sounds like your Aunt feels a little used up.
from emaciana :
that's terrible about your aunt! I am so sorry. It's good that your mom is able to go over to be with her though. take care all of you.
from xx-angel-xx :
I am so sorry to hear about your aunt, how horrible!! I can't imagine how they'd be so ungreatful, though. I guess people don't actually see the good in life when they're so bitter towards everything.
from princesse69 :
I'm sorry about your aunt. Your aunt did have a tough life indeed and I can understand why she would feel bitter. I don't know why your aunt and cousins would be ungrateful though-thinking they are owed something by you. My prayers are with you and your family. x♥x♥x
from lindzeeleigh :
Thank you for adding me as a favourite! And I am sorry to read about your aunt and the problems with the rest of your family. :(
from tootiturtle :
I am so sorry about your aunt. You and your family are in my prayers.
from jennifergwl :
Thanks for the advice! We do have children's programs, however Nicolas won't stay down there without me. I need to go every week with him until he gets used to it unfortunately. As for adult time, oh boy don't I know it! I want him to get used to it and get used to being with other kids, but he's very shy that way. It will take some time, I just need to be able to go more consistently. As for volunteering, oh my goodness, I wish I had the time to. If I volunteer, there is no one to watch my kids lol I used to assist in a Sunday School class, but since I had the boys, I couldn't do it. No where to leave them. Life is a whirlwind right now, a very confusing one and I just don't know which way to turn! Hopefully something will come to me soon!
from smedindy :
If it's THAT cold you better cuddle!
from nicolerenee :
Oman. Ariel has GOT to be THE cutest little girl-EVER!!! Seriously, omigoodness! Those eyes are to die for!!!! The dishwasher? SO funny!!! :)
from icyjewel :
Hehehe, Ariel in the dishwasher is so cute! I hope she is feeling better.
from emaciana :
I'm so glad you managed to get away for a while and have some time away from Ariel even though you love spending time with her. I love boxing day too!
from lerin :
It sounds like you had a great time! I'm glad you got to get away. :)
from xx-angel-xx :
Oh my. I probably say this EVERYTIME you post a picture of Ariel but she's such a living doll! She's so beautiful!! It looks and sounds like you had such a great christmas!! Happy 2007!
from ashnwesten :
What a smile she has in the last photo! And I love the red Christmas dress. How cute!
from emaciana :
what a cutie she is!
from lowercaseg :
aww, Ariel is sooo cute!!! I'm glad you guys had a great holiday season and that you're feeling better now! It's so neat that Ariel has all those little baby cousins to play with!
from silverscorp :
I have so much to say, but I know I'm forgetful this morning. First on the list Ariel is just a doll! She really takes after momma and daddy. The people bus is one of Aidan's favorite toys! I also love her Christmas dress. She's just gorgeous and thats why I want a little girl, so I can put her in dresses and stockings! I especially love your family's tradition of acting out Jesus' birth. That is so amazing to me. You have a wonderful, blessed family. And of course I love the last family picture. It reminded me though that Tim and I didn't take one this year on Christmas. We really need to be taking pictures! God Bless you Anita! You really have inspired me in so many ways.
from tootiturtle :
Your family looks like they had so much fun. I love the nativity idea. The pictures were great! Thank you for sharing them with us all.
from princesse69 :
Hope you're feeling better now. Hope you, Chad and Ariel had a lovely Christmas. Happy new year to you all. xxx
from jennifergwl :
Thanks :) Yeah, it was pretty sad, but I am hoping better things will be starting for me. We are sometimes at the very bottom before we can see the light at the top!
from bunny828 :
Sorry to hear you were sick. I hope you are feeling much much better. There's been a nasty stomach virus going around here.
from lerin :
Merry CHRISTmas! I hope your stomach is okay today, you poor girl.
from silverscorp :
Happy Holidays sweetie! I hope you feel better!
from ashnwesten :
Oh gosh, what an awful way to spend Christmas. :( I hope everything's ok and you start feeling better very quickly!
from lowercaseg :
thinking of you! Hope it's nothing. Feel better soon!
from tootiturtle :
You're in my prayers. I hope everything turns out okay with your stomach! *hugs*
from jennifergwl :
Good point about Santa. If you teach the true meaning of Christmas, the focus will be on Jesus and not on Santa. Ok, so a kid will always be excited about the presents they mysterious get from Santa, but if we focus on Jesus and make it a celebration of him and the Santa thing is just added fun, it won't be so bad :)
from lerin :
I always assumed that you would be against the 'Santa' thing, after reading your views on Halloween. If nothing else, the modern-day Santa Claus and Christmas commercialism is definitely a distraction from the celebration of the birth of Christ. I don't believe that Christians have to agree on everything to be unified in serving Him, though. I just hope it helps you understand where others are coming from who feel fine about sending their kids in non-scary costumes to collect candy from their neighbors, or where others are coming from who really feel that Santa and his load of presents is taking away from the religious aspect of the holiday. I'm sorry you both have been sick! We've been passing around some nasty virus in this house too... it's so hard when your baby is sick.
from princesse69 :
aww...i hope you're feeling better soon honey! periods are horrible. I got mine due Xmas day-why are they sooo badly timed? i hope the pill makes yours easier to bare.
from bunny828 :
Hmmmm ... My cramps went away after my first pregnancy. And my periods were heavy after breast feeding stopped, but went back to normal after a few cycles.
from ashnwesten :
Ugh, hormones! :) I've wondered too if periods are worse after having children, or if it's from being off the Pill. It's something I'll put up with, though.. the Pill had effects on me I don't want to have again!
from jennifergwl :
aww I'm sorry you're so down. I totally understand the forgetting-what-it-is-like-to-have-your-period thing. When I started getting it again, I was like why didn't I enjoy not having it more when I was pregnant?! This time I got it before the post partum bleeding stopped. Anyway, more than you probably wanted to know about me lol ;) I hope you feel better, I am sure you will before Christmas. Just think it will be so much better when you get back on the pill :)
from lowercaseg :
I can relate! I think PMS after having a baby is way worse, too! Just a week ago I, too, was taking a pregnancy test! oh what we women go through! hang in there! :)
from lerin :
I'm glad you had fun! As for the chocolate chip & M&M cookie recipie, I hate to disappoint you but it's just Nestle Toll House recipie with a 12-ounce package of M&M's added! I will be happy to send the Toll House recipie your way if you don't have it, but I don't want to take credit for it since it isn't really mine! :) Let me know.
from princesse69 :
Glad you had a fun birthday night out. I too would have loved to have seen the daddies coping with the kids on their own. Hehe. At least you mums got yourselves a night off. I just looked at your previous entry with Ariel pulling out all the tissues. I love the sweet innocent look on her face as she's doing it. So funny.
from jennifergwl :
aww what a nice birthday! Yeah, this year I had only been out of the hospital for one day after Logan was born. I was recovering from a c-section and a horrible hospital recovery. My birthday was wonderful because I had a new baby, but not a celebration of me. Not that I ever do anything anyway lol Glad you have a nice tradition to do something nice :)
from xx-angel-xx :
awe, sounds like SUCH a wonderful time!! You looked beautiful and full of such great spirit!!
from silverscorp :
Awww you look fabulous! Looks and sounds like the night was a blast!
from jennifergwl :
yeah, I was wondering if when Logan gets older/bigger if he will be able to get out of his Bumbo. I will defintely use it for my next one, too and can't wait to see a younger baby in it.
from grandbeach :
awwwwww
from ashnwesten :
Awwwwww!!!!! :)
from princessreva :
Thanks for the support! I understand the transport issue, but transporting my boobs has also been an issue! It's so hot in Brasil right now, and trying to nurse anywhere but in my bedroom (no where else in this crazy country has air conditioning) ends up in Solei getting overheated (right next to my skin, we bet so hot!) and falling asleep witing seconds, sick. Galah!! And I'm seriously jealous about the 5 minutes thing - it takes my friend that long too, but my poor girl had such a traumatic beginning to nursing (really militant nurses) that when she pulls away to try and cool down for a second, she forgets where the nipple is and starts screaming in terror. Wrangling a boob and a baby is verrra hard to do discreetly! Sorry to vent, it just feels soooo good. Glad you had a good experience though!
from xx-angel-xx :
aww, that is SOOO adorable!! it made me laugh! hehe.... children are so cute. Its funny how the simpliest things in life make them so happy and attract them!
from lerin :
Isabella has done the same thing with Kleenex AND with a box of baby wipes. I don't know what the fascination is... but the pictures of her were hilarious! I should have grabbed my camera for those memorable moments too. :)
from lowercaseg :
too funny and too cute!
from bunny828 :
LOL! Mine did that with a box of cheerios that I forgot I left out. She dumped them then stomped on them. I remember becoming vaguly aware of a crunching noise and went to check (I was making dinner). I decided it was a mess and I couldn't fix it at the moment, so I left her with them till dinner was ready and cleaned up after dinner. Cats do these odd things too. Mine once had toilet paper all over the house. That was a hard habit to break.
from tootiturtle :
Oh. my. goodness. Your daughter is the cutest little girl in the world! Those pictures of her in the pile of tissues is absolutely priceless. :) *giggles*
from nicolerenee :
Oh, and I wanted to ask you, have you heard Bill Wise's '23 Minutes in Hell'? If not, I'll send you to the site that you can download it for free. It is an AMAZING testemony, and will absolutely change your perspective on how you minister to the lost. Completely eye opening. Just let me know.
from nicolerenee :
I'm sorry about all the drama going on here in diaryland. It's never easy. Trust me. ;) I understand about how you feel about living up to your obligation to share your beliefs. Honestly, what kind of people would we be if we didn't share? I mean, people send me constant emails about free stuff, and cheap coupons and all that crap. But share your faith, and you are a weirdo. Remember, the bible says that there will be deaf ears in the end times. Fortunately (and unfortunately)these are the end times...
from lerin :
That is an incredible quote. I'm glad that you and Chad had some time alone with friends and some time to relax together this weekend. :)
from icyjewel :
I respect you for who you are. Don't let anyone take you down because your beliefs are what makes you so special. Loves ya!
from jennifergwl :
Gosh I'm sorry for how you were treated, but you are doing what you are meant to and you should never feel bad about that. I can understand that being rejected feels awful, but hold onto Jesus and He will get you through! I think it's wonderful that you want to share your faith as much as you do. I still shy away a lot because I feel as though I don't know enough which is so bad! People can learn and be inspired by your willingness to share :)
from lerin :
I don't know the specifics of the situation, but I do know that speaking your heart about Christ is not only a good thing... it is something we are called to do. Thank you for writing about your faith. I know how important it is to you. None of us are perfect, but if you are speaking to people from love rather than judgment, they are going to feel that from you. ((HUGS))
from jennifergwl :
Wow, congrats on the year of breastfeeding. I couldn't BF my boys for a number of reasons and I was so disappointed both times. More so with Nicolas because he was my first and I fully expected, like you, to be BFing. It was hard for me to say that I couldn't do it. As for the milk, I was in the same place as you. I had seen a homeopathic doctor and his info on milk made me think it was bad, too, however I went with what the norm was for feeding my son. I do think it's a good point what you found out!
from lowercaseg :
Thanks for the juice advice - makes a lot of sense! We are big water drinkers around here, so it would make sense to turn Johnna into a water drinker, too! :) Thanks!
from emaciana :
love the new layout. i'm gonna check out your new diary right now. i'll be back!
from silverscorp :
The new layout looks superb!
from xx-angel-xx :
awe. i love the new layout!!! Great idea on the new diary!
from lerin :
I love it!
from jennifergwl :
Aww wow, looks like it turned out great! Glad it will be a wonderful memory for you all :) What a beautiful dress and she looks like such a princess sitting in her little chair. Nicolas has the same one. I like your new layout, too!
from starlight42 :
Ariel's party looked like so much fun!! I'd say it was certainly a success! I love her dress, she looks so pretty in it. Happy 1st Bday Ariel! Give her a big kiss for me. Oh- and you're not the only one doing 1st bdays other places than at "home". A lot of my friends are going places, even like Chuckie Cheese- for the other kids invited who are older- like you said, no clean up and people have told me the cost is the same as if you had it at home....
from nicolerenee :
All done. :)
from icyjewel :
I'm glad to see that Ariel's party was a success. I love her dress and she looks sooooo pretty. She is one of the cutest little girls in the entire world!
from xx-angel-xx :
omgosh, such darling darling darling pictures and honestly, i think you have one of THE cutest little girls, ever!!
from ashnwesten :
Happy Birthday, Ariel!!! I'm glad it was such a good time. :)
from lerin :
What a great idea. I did the same thing for Sophie's party... we rented a lodge for the day, filled the place with toys and balloons, and we had a cookout of hamburgers and hotdogs. It really wasn't THAT expensive, and we had about 50 people too. I don't think I'll be doing that with every baby, but it was so much fun to have my first baby's first brithday party be over-the-top! :) Ariel had the most adorable outfit on! Your mom did such a great job on the additions. You look like such a proud mommy.
from lowercaseg :
ooh your little baby girl is sooo cute! :) a big happy birthday to her! :)
from princesse69 :
A belated Happy Birthday to Ariel! Sorry I didn't say it sooner. Hope all of you had a fun time. xxx
from bunny828 :
We do love our children don't we. No one can take their spots in our hearts. So how was Ariel's party?
from xx-angel-xx :
awe, Happy Birthday Ariel!!!
from lerin :
How sweet... Happy birthday, sweet little girl.
from ashnwesten :
Awww... happy birthday, Ariel!
from jennifergwl :
aww basking in the first year! I soooo remember doing that with Nicolas. Everything you described I felt. It was amazing! We had a huge birthday party, too. There were 40 people smooshed into our tiny house lol Luckily it was warm out so people could go outside :) This next year will be full of even more milestones and good times and when she turns two, it's another set of feelings. Enjoy the party!! Can't wait to see photos :)
from silverscorp :
The party sounds like its going to be fabulous! What an awesome momma you are. And Happy Birthday to Ariel! I love her name.
from starlight42 :
Oh, don't think that the book confused me more. Heck, I guess lots of things just confuse me! But, overall I did enjoy it and it helped with certain things. I just think DJ is a tough cookie right now, and hopefully it will get better. I know it will. Some of the tips on trying to set up basic routines and some sort of schedule were good. Also the info on trying to figure out what your baby is wanting when he cries....I just need to work on that some more!! I agree that the whole talking to your baby to explain every little thing you do to him is a little overboard...
from babymakes3 :
Wow, she is getting so big! And she looks so much like you! I completely agree with you on Christmas. I wish it didn't have to be all about presents. I'm starting early & getting Westen all sorts of books on the TRUE meaning of Christmas.
from starlight42 :
I think that's great that you carved the pumpkin to say that. It's hard for people to find the courage to stand up to their convictions. It's sad nowadays how many children do grow up with no sense of religion at all, its no wonder a lot of them are troubled. Oh- I enjoyed Bestfeeding, had some interesting info. I'm reading the baby whisperer now and love it so far! Seems DJ is a cross between a touchy baby and a textbook.
from jennifergwl :
Oh my gosh, Ariel is SO cute! I've been wondering what your little girl looks like. Love the blonde hair and blue eyes :) I think it's great you carved a pumpkin to say Jesus Loves You. I mean, you are taking what could be evil and making it work for God. God can turn anything into a good thing, even Halloween. So, I think that you did a good thing and I hope you don't regret it anymore. I think it would be better to do that than nothing at all because like you said, if it helped one person, that's good enough :)
from nicolerenee :
Ok, I emailed you! :)
from nicolerenee :
I'd love to! What would you like? Colors? Pictures? Let me know! :)
from lerin :
I think it is great that you stand up for what you truly believe is right, no matter what anyone else thinks. You have to answer to Christ for the things you do and don't do, and no one else's opinion should sway you if your heart is convicted on something. I think dressing my children up and giving away candy is fine, but I understand why some people don't. I think we all have to follow our hearts on controversial matters like this, and it can be hard to understand why people don't always agree. I love your jack-o-latenr idea. In my opinion, carving a pumpkin isn't an "evil" thing... it's your intention behind it. Your intention was to share Christ's message, and that is wonderful. Just my opinion! :)
from nicolerenee :
Ahh, halloween, such a lovely subject amongst christians....You know I agree with EVERYthing you said. :)
from xx-angel-xx :
awe, I hope Ariel feels better soon!!!!
from emaciana :
that's so adorable... little pocahontas/mermaid. when we were kids my mom didn't let us celebrate halloween either but when we got to age 13 and up she loosened up and we got to go trick or treating.
from jennifergwl :
Oh my, and I thought I had a tough pregnancy! How amazing that God helped you feel confident. I'm glad you haven't had anymore seizures and I hope and pray you never do!
from ashnwesten :
Mmmm, rice krispie treats sound good! Your entry made me go back & look where I was a year ago.. how cute to look back & all that's happened in the year! :)
from xx-angel-xx :
oh my, that is SO scary!! I am so glad Chad was in there with you and Ariel had no problems. You've gone through A LOT the last year or so.. I am so amazed at how strong you still are!! I'm trying to find the time to read all of your archieves so I can understand everything you're talking about now, i like to understand everyone's story.
from princesse69 :
How scary it must have been for all of you. I'm so glad iut all turned out okay in the end. Chad must of been very scared indeed to see you have a seizure. so I too can see why he wouldn't want to risk it happening again. My son had a febrile convulsion and that scared the life out of me. I was pregnant at the time and the ambulance men were more concerned about me panicking so much. Anyway I'm glad that you are all happy and healthy now.
from lerin :
I can't imagien what that must have been like for him, seeing the woman he loves who is pregnant with his baby like that, and unable to help her and afraid she'd die. That must have been really traumatic for him. I'm glad you don't even remember anything of it, that is probably best! Thank God for keeping you and Ariel safe!!
from jennifergwl :
Hi :) You know me from the Christian Mommies Board. I am writing about your photography entry. I am a photographer and I have never taken a course. Well, I did buy the NYIP course, but I never actually did a project. I just have the talent and the eye for it. I am just offering you advice to NOT allow what others may think to stop you. I was always so worried that because I never took a course, I wouldn't be good enough. What it means to be a professional is that you get paid to do something. So, take your talent and just get out there. I did and I don't regret it. I love it and once my boys are a little older, I will get back into it. You just need a camera. I don't have any backdrops, just a lighting set-up. I go to outdoor and indoor locations and do very personal portraits for people. It really works out nice. I wish you the best of luck with it :)
from bunny828 :
10000 sounds like a lot. I can't blame you for not wanted to do that. You know you can do whatever you set your mind to do and with Photography, the pictures tell the story. You have a baby, you have a camera, start shooting and put together a portfolio. Make it happen!
from ashnwesten :
Awe, how sad. :( Westen has begun crying when I leave the room, but LUCKILY *so far* he hasn't cried when I've left him places. It will break my heart if he starts!
from starlight42 :
I don't think people will think anything bad about you for pursuing the photography! If they've seen your pictures, I'd think they'd have to believe it's a good idea. You really are so wonderful at it- naturally- without any school. Once you do take a few classes, you'll only get better and better. However, until then, I'm sure you'll continue to take great pics. I know you can do it and I think you should go for it!!
from icyjewel :
Anita, I would never be upset with you over your opinion! Thank you very much for your note today and your voice. You said exactly what I have been thinking but haven't had the courage to write in words. I feel as though I don't want to see the truth at times. Anyway, I must say that Ariel gets more and more beautiful each and every day, just like her mother!
from startafresh :
Go for it if it's what you really want. Get a port folio together and try to get a job doing it freelance. You pick the jobs and hours you do. If you have a talent for it, go for it!!! Becca
from lerin :
I just caught up with your entries. I think earrings on babies are so cute, but I couldn't do it! I think it is stupid when other people but in with their opinions on your baby. Just because *I* wouldn't do it doesn't mean it gives me the right to say whether you should. When it comes to photography, I think you would be SO good at it. I know you want this so badly... I hope it works out for you. Taking a class would be great if you had the time and money, but you don't NEED it to have credibility. Your pictures will speak for themselves.
from newlywedblis :
Hey--I've actually been considering switching Dr's and or changing to a midwife... not sure what our insurance will cover (it's pretty bad in the US) and we're trying to save money since we're buying a house, need a new car for the baby, etc., but I think it will be worth it to not want to strangle the poor person who happens to be around when I have the little one. I don't handle pain and people bothering me well to begin with, and I really want to do a natural birth if at all possible..so I want to be able to be super calm and comfy. I think I always worried that midwives were a little too... hippie-ish... but I do really like the emphasis on health and calm. Oh--and I wouldn't worry what anyone says about Ariel's earings.
from emaciana :
i would totally get my little girl's ears pierced. i mean, i have like 13 piercings of my own!!! i even own a piercing gun for goodness sake. i think it's adorable for them to have their ears pierced too. also, i didn't know you were canadian, so happy thanksgiving to you!!!
from tootiturtle :
Ariel is so precious. That third picture is too cute! I wouldn't worry about what people think about having your baby's ears pierced. It's not likely that children her age will remember the experience. I remember when I got my ears pierced at 7 years old, it was virtually painless. The scariest part was waiting for them to do the actual piercing. I hope no one says anything mean to you about it!
from bunny828 :
I like turkey and sweet potatoes too (in fact I probably like the sweet potatoes better than the turkey, especially with marshmellows!) Some people should keep their opinions to themselves. My sister had a foster child who's mother got the babies ears pierced. My sister and her husband deliberately took the earrings out. I didn't think it was so bad. Personally I thought the fighting over the earrings was worse than the actual piercing. I bet she looks cute.
from newlywedblis :
Hey--yeah, I meet with my Dr. next Friday, so I'm hoping to get some actual, helpful info there... like am I gaining the right amount/kind of weight. They did give me a list of snacks to help me add the needed calories to my diet... it's just remembering/wanting to eat them. :( But the last two days (basically since I wrote that) I have been ravenously hungry... so maybe baby's taking care of her/himself! hehe :)
from emaciana :
i like that purse. it's supercute! i hope you post some pictures of ariel and you soon. all the outfits sound adorable, and i know when i have my baby i will be @ Children's place a lot!
from newlywedblis :
Thanks for your note! I wish I had the confidence in those techniques... they just haven't seemed to work in the past, and I guess I'm afraid of it failing again. It's so hard for me to get out of my comfort zone...and I often don't feel like I have the energy to handle it. I'm hoping that being a mom helps, actually--it seems like moms are easier to be friends with, since you automatically have things in common and are in the same places. I'm going to try to find a prenatal class soon, and then a mommies group later on. Thanks for the encouragement! It is nice to have friends out here on the web--just wish we could go for coffee! :) (Although I'm kinda scary when I have caffeine in me..lol)
from newlywedblis :
Thanks for your note--I'm still on the fence about going, but I feel like I should. I was very close with that family for some time, and they stuck by me when few did. And yes.... the pastor has serious issues. He's basically running a cult, but the people at the church don't understand that. He actually told me, at the tender age of 12, that having self-esteem was evil. Can you imagine? Telling a young girl she shouldn't have any self respect?? GAH Among other things. I don't talk about that time much, but that pastor and that church left a *big* impression on me (and really changed the way I view Christianity--much more focused on the love, much less on the rules these days!). I'm meeting with my boss today to discuss plans for my maternity leave (maybe working from home?)--wish me luck!
from emaciana :
that's great to hear that you've found someone who likes to babysit your little girl. i also think it's adorable that the 2 of you are already going shopping together! yay for little girls. take care, thanks for your note.
from starlight42 :
I think you'd be great in photography!! The shots you take of Ariel are so beautiful. Good luck with finding something. That's too sweet about the girl who offered to babysit.
from grandbeach :
Hi! I went missing again, I know:( I only just realized that you had left me a note, thanks for inquiring. My dad is quite well now, he only had a tiny little heart attack so that's good. I think he would have had some insurance down in the states but fortunately it happened here and we live only a couple blocks from the Vic. We had their 30th wedding anniversary party on the long weekend so that was nice. Anywoo, I hope to write something soon, school/work/friends/life has been just crazy. Hope everything is going well.
from lerin :
So very tragic. :(
from princesse69 :
I remember when I had my wisdom teeth out. It was bad but like you, not as bad as I thought. I was sedated so I don't remember a thing luckily. Poor you though to have a piece of root stuck in your gum. I hope it doesn't give you any bother. Teeth can be a right pain! I hope you find a solution to your birth control/losing weight.
from ashnwesten :
I'm with Lerin & now against that type of birth control too. Just be very careful & use a back-up method. If you're going to be too nervous about it, though, then stay on the Pill & I am sure you'd be able to lose it later!
from lerin :
Well, I know it isn't a popular opinion but I am totally against putting hormones, no matter how low the dose is, into your body to prevent pregnancy. Ariel sounds like she is doing "ecological nursing" which is a natural way to delay your fertility in her first year and possibly beyond. If you are nursing by a "schedule" then your fertility won't be delayed as long. Do you want some links to some websites? It may make you feel better about getting off the pills. This is your body and your decision, but you asked for an opinion and that is mine. :)
from newlywedblis :
Just don't forget your backup!:) Seriously, if you don't feel good about being on the meds, I say go off them. But... if you really don't want to be pregnant again so soon, do be careful--a friend of mine thought she was ok nursing and ended up pregnant again. Oops;) I've been largely MIA lately, but wanted you to know I have still been reading! I hope to be back up and updating soon... we've got a little one on the way now! :D So excited!
from lerin :
I hope you are feeling better by now. I completely understand your feelings about going back to work. It can be hard to make one income stretch to provide for a new family, but it is worth it. We don't have much in the way of "extras" but we have a nice home, good food to eat, and our bills are always paid. Even if I don't have a bunch of new clothes, go on trips, or eat out very often, I'd never trade it for the time I get with my baby girls. I had to work parttime for a while, but thank goodness we got in a place where I could quit working altogether. I hope everything works out for you to stay home too!
from starlight42 :
Ouch- I had my wisdom teeth out about 2 years ago, not a fun experience! Dave's was even worse because they were impacted! Hope you're not in too much pain. Thanks for the notes you left on the baby. Ya, I'm thinking they must be off on the baby's weight. At least the ultrasound tech is, because the doc said it even confuses her because everything else about me is measuring normal. But, yes, we're shorter and smaller boned, which I assumed would mean our baby would be- the doc said it's all relative. Anyway, yes, I'm going to try and force myself to relax the next two weeks!!
from nicolerenee :
Ugh!!! Sorry hun! I had 4 cavities done yesterday, so I feel your pain. I'm going to have to get my wisdom teeth out too...so...ugh!!!
from lerin :
I sent my password to you at 9:00 this evening. Let me know if you didn't receive it!
from nicolerenee :
Hey, thanks for the notes. Everything will be fine. Sooner or later. I might open up to ONLY people I don't 'know'. But I'm not sure yet. I'll be around...
from ashnwesten :
Nope, I haven't changed the passwords. I e-mailed them to you again just a couple weeks ago because you had mentioned them not working. I can send them again as soon as I have time!
from startafresh :
excellent. 9 months is such a wonderful age. Well any age is but thier little characters are so charming at that age and they smile at everything. I love seeing new pictures of Ariel. She is gorgeous!!! Becca
from lerin :
I'm so glad that the part-time job at the photo studio is a possibility! I really think you would be great at it, and really enjoy the job. I'm looking for my Anita to be the next Anne Geddes someday. :)
from lerin :
What a great idea! It would be great if it all works out. :)
from classygirl83 :
I LOVE your wedding picture. It is sooo pretty. I'm glad that Arial is doing good. I wanted to comment on the C and S situation. Itsa very sticky situation no doubt. All you really can do is be their friends though, and you and Chad agree that it is wrong. I'm going through a VERY simular situation right now, and I can't tell the person that they are in the wrong, or how it REALLY is. All you can do is be their friend, or not be their friend. I would suggest that you NOT hold any real value on the 'friendship' cause I don't know if you can. I don't know. I don't know if that makes any sense at all. I am just sayhing how I feel. It's deffinatly a sticky situation though. I'm sure that they both know deep down in their hearts that they messed up big time, but really no one can say anything, cause iit is such a huge personal thing. Or that's what I think. I'm sorry that you have to go through this.
from ashnwesten :
Gorgeous picture! I too had the wedding of my dreams.. That day & Westen's birth I would relive over & over again if possible!
from lerin :
Gorgeous picture... your wedding sounds so beautiful. It is very sad that it only lasts for one day, I agree! I also think my wedding was perfect in every way... don't you wish you could go back and re-live it? :) As for wondering about your period, I don't remember if I told you beofre that mine didn't start with Sophie for 13 months. I think it has everything to do with breastfeeding. Your body naturally delays fertility when you have a healthy little eater. God designed us that way so we wouldn't be pregnant while nursing... too much of a strain on the body and on the babies. That's why I was so very upset when I started my period with Isabella so soon. It just confirmed that she wasn't eating as much as she should. I am SO hopeful that baby three won't have so many breastfeeding troubles. You are one of a few friends of mine who feels the same way about breastfeeding as I do.
from grandbeach :
I fully agree with what you said in your entry about C. I know that perhaps it isn't your place to outright say anything but I am CERTAIN that a moment will present itself where you can give him a piece of your mind, ie: when he starts badmouthing S, when he starts spreading lies, etc.
from emaciana :
i just found you diary through lerin and read all about ariel and your birth story. it was beautiful! i'm expecting my first feb27/07 and want to read as many birth stories as possible! i have a couple questions too if you don't mind. how was the pain and discomfort after giving birth? with stitches and everything? was the pain worth it and would you have gone for a Csection if you could do it again? take care.
from lerin :
Bless that sweet little Ariel! I hope she gets over this quickly. I'm so glad that you have a faithful husband that you are so close to. We really are the lucky ones, and stories like S. really make that clear.
from lerin :
How sad! I'm glad that you are being a good friend to her through this. Poor girl, doesn't even have her family... cheating is horrible.
from babymakes3 :
Aww.. that's sad. :(
from nicolerenee :
Even Christians aren't perfect, huh? That is so sad about your friend. You said that she doesn't want to work on the marriage like you...has Chad cheated on you? How did you forgive him? If I'm being too nosy, feel free to tell me!! :)
from babymakes3 :
Yikes.. that's scary about your work!
from babymakes3 :
Thanks for the note :) I THOUGHT that's what your baby did w/ the pacifier.. and I was going to remember it, but I guess I got too busy! :D The poor things! Since then, I've been giving him another kind that's all plastic. I think it might be a newborn one, but oh well.. he can chew on it & I don't have to worry about it getting stuck! I'm glad I don't have to worry too much about when he'll sit.. he's fairly good now-- just always wants to go forward. I just hate competitive people when it comes to babies!!! :)
from ava-reborn :
Oh, and formula doesn't GIVE allergies, it's just that each feed of breastmilk gives more antibodies AGAINST allergies! So bottle by bottle comparison might seem that way!! And the formula I gave K was expensive that all the others, but test after test had proved it was almost identical to breastmilk!!! So if mothers have to feed formula, they should know they're not all the same!
from ava-reborn :
Because K has Down's she didn't have the muscle tone in her mouth or tongue to suckle. So as much as I wanted to, I was able to breastfeed. I tried and tried until she started coughing up blood and was told she was starving to death and needed formula!! There are several organisations in this country that are dedicated to breastfeeding awareness and giving help and counselling to mothers who want to or can't etc! I'm surprised there's not there!! I'm glad you're still breastfeeding Ariel, and I agree it's the best start for a baby. But it's only been proven that it's best for the first 6 months! After that it's personal choice.
from lerin :
It didn't hurt my feelings! I agree 200%! It did make me rather teary though... losing my ability to nurse thanks to all of Isabella's feeding issues was a real blow to me. I had such a sucessful 20 months of nursing with Sophie, I never imagined that I would look at other mother's who are nursing with tears of sadness in my eyes! I hope that any future children of yours have as succesful time as Ariel did. I hope for future baby #3 that we can avoid these issues. Nursing means the WORLD to me. I always knew it, but now that it is impossible, I know it even more!!
from startafresh :
sounds like all is wonderful there. Good to see you back, Becca
from babymakes3 :
I still read! I agree with you totally about the breastfeeding but unfortunately I wasn't able to keep it up. Westen had a lot of problems w/ spitting up & it was made to seem like it might be from my breastmilk.. So I eventually quit & of course he still has the problems, no matter what formula he's on. Frustrating... Westen is also getting his first tooth, but I'm sad, not happy! I feel like BABIES don't have teeth.. big people do! :( Oh well, it's better than the alternative, haha!
from princesse69 :
Ariel is SO cute. I love the photos. You're right with the one with Ariel in the dress with the sheet behind her looking professional. I might try photographing Ethan and Isabel with a sheet back drop too. I'm glad you're enjoying motherhood so much. Ariel looks like a very happy baby.
from bunny828 :
Your baby is so cute. I wanted to comment on the breast feeding. Neither of my children slept through the night till I switched to formula (around 6 months). They only did 4 hr stints. (Though I got to tell you it majorily disappointing to have them sleep through the night on that first bottle ... Ugh!) Just thought I'd mention it. To be honest it sounds like a comfort thing though, especially since you mentioned she was sleeping better.
from starlight42 :
Your pictures of Ariel always look so professional! And, they're always great shots of her, maybe she's going to be a model? Happy belated bday Chad.
from babymakes3 :
haha, awww.. cute pictures!!! Your life sounds amazing & so much fun! I'm glad you updated all of us again. :D
from newlywedblis :
So adorable, adorable, adorable! You have such a beautiful baby girl--thanks for letting us all see her! You're one lucky woman.
from bitterwineuk :
beautiful pics yourself sweety. oh. I would so love a little girl..... She's so pretty. Becca. ps, you did realise that it was me who added you as a fave at startafresh diary page, that's my newest life. :) Lovely to see pics.
from i-found-him :
Ariel is sooo chubby and cute. If my future child looks even half as cute as yours, I'll be a happy mom. :)
from ava-reborn :
Awwww... thank you so much lovely!!!!
from babymakes3 :
Yeah, I'm not sure how old they think Westen is, but he's right in the middle of everyone his age, so I don't know! I knew you were breastfeeding.. I don't know why I forgot! Have you thought about giving her a bottle of pumped milk with cereal before bedtime? To see if that fills her up longer? It might not even be worth the hassle. A friend of mine's baby is almost a year & still not sleeping through the night. I don't know how I got so lucky, but I'm thankful!!! :D
from princesse69 :
When I got trouble with my two children waking up in the night I would always give it 5 minutes before going in. Usually they'd cry for a minute or two and fall asleep on their own. If my youngest cries I usually have to give her a bottle to settle her down. I hope Ariel lets you get more sleep soon-I know how broken nights make you feel only too well! :)
from babymakes3 :
I too hate it when people stop updating. It's kind of like you're reading a book & then suddenly have to stop & the rest is lost. Except it's real people's lives too & I think we all start to care about each other too & wonder what happened! With Ariel.. I don't know what to say. I would try letting her cry, because it doesn't even sound to me like she's hungry. Has she always been sleeping on her own? Westen sleeps much better with me, but that's definitely a habit I will be breaking before he gets too much older! Does Ariel still have a binky too? B/c that can help when they just need some sucking to go back to sleep. And I assume you are feeding her solids & a bottle for her last meal? Have you put cereal in her bottles? I hope SOMETHING works.. I couldn't imagine still waking at night, especially so much!! Good luck!!!!
from parkerfamily :
I think working part-time is the best idea too. I do it & I love it. It allows me some time to get out of the house & DO something & it also allows me time to spend with Westen. I would never work full-time.. I can't imagine spending that much time away from my son. So that's what I would recommend for you, but it sounds like maybe you need to think of changing jobs! I can't believe Ariel is still not sleeping through the night! I must've gotten so lucky with Westen! You are feeding her cereal in her bottles, right? Have you tried the bedtime calming lotion? And giving them a bath at night usually relaxes them. I hope something works for you!! ..Althought it might not b/c even if I don't do the things above, Westen still sleeps through the night.. I suppose it's just different with each baby!
from lerin :
That is such a hard decision... whether to return to work, and how much to work when you decide to. I work part-time at a really nice, new Target and it is fun to get out of the house and talk. I probably spend half of what I make there though on baby clothes, furniture, groceries and other fun things from the store! It is nice to get to know new people my age and nice to have a discount. Don't let your mom or any of your friends look down on you for making the decision to put your children first! That is their bad perception of your GOOD decision. You have to do what works for you and your family, no matter what anyone else thinks! I'm glad the mom's group is going so well. :)
from ava-reborn :
Beautiful pics as always!! I especially love that pic of you and Ariel together!!! You both look so pretty! And happy!! I couldn't read the first bit of your entry as it didn't seem to fit in the box. Glad you had such a good weekend!
from i-found-him :
Your daughter is the most beautiful baby I've ever seen!!!
from starlight42 :
The swimming sounds like such fun! As for who Ariel looks like, I think a little of both, but it's hard to tell. Hmm, that does seem odd about her being fussy like that. If that's the first time she had oatmeal, I'd think that could be a suspect...wonder why the doc didn't think so. Also, what is gripe water?
from smedindy :
Very nice pics! (Sorry, I'm late to the party...) Anyway, who are you on MySpace? Hmmm....
from icyjewel :
Ariel looks just like you...and then I see a picture of her with Chad and she looks just like him! Either way, she is absolutely adorable. As far as swimsuits go, I've always had that same problem of being much larger on top than anywhere else. I found the BEST swimsuits (a one piece and a bikini) at Victoria's Secret because I got to order them in my bra size on top and a different on the bottom. Check them out!
from parkerfamily :
Wow, she really does look like her daddy in that picture of him & her! But she definitely has your expressions or something! I can totally see both of you. :)
from ava-reborn :
She is soooo cute!! And although I can see she does look a little like Chad, she definitely looks like you, too, and definitely has your eyes!! I'm glad you wrote that bit about the skin glow lotion! I've been thinking of getting one. I did wonder if they'd streak or be patchy when you put it on though.
from bitterwineuk :
awwwww bless. What a beautifu; little smile Ariel has. I can see why your entries are so happy and you beam with pride. Becca.
from princesse69 :
Ariel is such a cute baby! Is that a Bumbo seat she is sitting on? We have one in the same colour. Good luck with the solids. I really hope your mum is okay. I'm praying for you.
from dearkate :
I aboslutely LOVE that your daughter is named Ariel. She is such a gorgeous baby! Aww, I can't wait to have mine (haha, well maybe I can). :P
from randh :
Wow, a canadian in the house! That is fucking awesome. I've had a lifelong canada obsession, so to be able to read the diary of a canadian is nothing short of adorable. I'm going back to read your past now, I can't wait! Thanks so much for adding me, and if you ever have anything to say, don't be a stranger!
from smedindy :
Thanks for the add! Yeah, I'm here, there and everywhere!
from lerin :
I love when you post her pictures! I just love your little baby, and I've never even met her. Is that creepy? Feeding solids the first time is always so much fun... their expressions are adorable as they try to figure out what this new sensation is all about. I'm proud of you for exclusively nursing as well up to this point. You are doing your best to be such a wonderful mom. I'm SO sorry to hear about your mother. I will say a prayer for her tonight. And for you!
from babymakes3 :
Your baby looks so much like you! Solids should help her sleep through the night more. Westen didn't at first when we started feeding him cereal, but it wasn't long before he was. I'm like you.. so he doesn't usually go to bed until late.. well sometimes between 9 & 11 & then he'll wake up about 7. And I do believe that's mostly from the cereal. :) Although he still eats just as often during the day.. so who knows.. maybe we just got lucky!
from r-y-r :
Hi: I just really wanted to say thank you for all the advice. I am going to try to practice what you said. I am usually so tired in the mornings, I feel myself getting very cranky, especially at work, so I have to do something about it now. Your Ariel is so beautiful, I can't believe she will be six months so soon.
from classygirl83 :
Thanks for the B-day wishes:)
from icyjewel :
Wow, that must have been scary for both of you to find Ariel with the Nuk in her mouth like that! I got freaked out when I read it. I've always considered going to a chiropractor, but never have. After your visit, perhaps I really should! I hope you have a great weekend. :)
from starlight42 :
Oh my gosh, that's frightening! So, you just need to get her a bigger sized one then? I didn't even realize pacifires have "sizes"!! Thanks for the congrats. Ya, I'm not going to go too overboard in buying clothes, I just want to get a few outfits and things. I couldn't resist today!! I couldn't believe the sales.
from babymakes3 :
Wow, that would have been a little scary! I'll have to watch that with my little Westen!
from babymakes3 :
The videos wouldn't work for me, but the pictures were cute! I really need to get a new computer :) Anyways, I got your note & don't worry about it at all! I have no idea if that's what it was from or not-- who ever knows!!
from momma-at-17 :
I saw the videos, but I didn't get the chance to comment, it was one of those read n run days. But they were adorable!! I'm glad that you got out and had a good time too!
from bitterwineuk :
Awwww, hun I missed it but I went back and I so love your little girl. I love the video posts and it makes me ever more broody for a little girl of my own. Kids are just so fun that we don't need much other entertainment in life. Hehehehe. She seems to be growing up so fast!!!! Becca
from ava-reborn :
Ariel looks soooo cute!! Sorry I didn't leave a note before, but I've only just seen your entry. I can't actually watch the videos either because I've only got dialup, not broadband, so they take too long to load. I did try though!! She looks adorable! *hugs*
from bitterwineuk :
errrr, nope. Or at least my boy loves nothing better than a good scream, the best place for it is generally a supermarket or on a crowded bus. Grrrrr. Becca, ps, i will email you details of the book thing later. Thanks for your interest:)
from lerin :
This entry made me laugh! Isabella started screaming just about the same age.
from lerin :
How neat! If only we could raise our girls together... that would be so much fun.
from i-found-him :
That's such a great dream! It would be awesome if it were real! :)
from ava-reborn :
Great dream! I remember having a Diaryland dream a couple of years ago. I dreamt that I lived with a lot of my Diaryland buddies in one huge house!!
from babymakes3 :
Hello, I just wanted to thank you for your comments on my diaries.. I really do appreciate them. :)
from grandbeach :
Hey, I have a question. When you guys built your home did you use Ventura?
from starlight42 :
Man, I am so jealous you were back down to your weight so quickly! If only I could be so lucky...as for the chocolate, maybe if you are struggling to give it up completely, buy some of those hershey's miniatures or kisses. One or two of those have little calories and might help when you're craving...that's what I did when I was dieting. Good luck, I'm sure with all your walking and stuff your tummy will improve. Even though I'm betting it looks good now as well... :)
from lerin :
Be patient with yourself! I found that I didn't lose the last five pounds with Sophie until she was totally weaned at 16 months.
from avalonte :
Thank you so much for your note lovely! I think the long wait is for certain cultures to form. But I can't believe they've made so many mistakes with something so serious! *hugs*
from starlight42 :
why must they make kids toys so cool and cute nowadays?! there's so much I want to get...but I know I will have to restrain myself.
from princesse69 :
Accidents can and will happen. No matter how much we protect them. I'm sure Ariel was more scared than hurt from her fall. I know how bad it feels as when my son was little he crawled of the side of the bed. It only took a second for him to fall of the bed. I felt such guilt, but I learnt from it. Don't be too hard on yourself! The pictures of Ariel in her St Patricks hat are so cute.
from icyjewel :
What adorable pictures of Ariel for St. Patty's Day!! I'm sure her fall was scary, but it doesn't sound like she was hurt at all. Don't be too hard on yourself. :)
from starlight42 :
Man, that must have scared you, her falling. You know though, it happens, we make mistakes. I'm glad she is ok. I would have been freaking too. And, oh my goodness, can those pictures of her for St Patty's be any cute?! Man, she is just the most photogenic little baby!!
from grandbeach :
OMG. I swear I saw your husband at Frisco's (aka perkins) today at lunch time. It was a moment. And I almost said something to him, but then decided against it. lol.
from princesse69 :
Ariel is a very cute baby! I love the picture of her and Chad napping together. Bless!
from lerin :
Thank you for your comment... it isn't controversial to me at all. I am going to get the therapy aspect through a Christian... a memeber of my Church is a psychologist and he advertised in our bulletin. There is also several others who practive directly with our church charities. I think it is important too, and I appreciate your views. "I can do all things through Chirst who strengthens me."
from princesse69 :
Wouldn't it be lovely for Ariel to have a brother or sister so close? I got pregnant with Isabel 8 months after I had Ethan. I'll admit it's hard work having two little ones but it's lot of fun too.
from starlight42 :
hmmm, I hope they can figure out what is going on with your body! a baby would be interesting.... how old is Ariel now? I have a friend who has babies that are about a year and a half apart, they play really well together, but it is rough having 2 little ones. what's meant to be will be though!
from lerin :
I wouldn't think you will be ovulating anytime soon. You breastfeed Ariel like I breastfed Sophie. Babies who eat really well all day and night, multiple times without a "schedule" delay your fertility. It's called "ecological" breastfeeding... natural child spacing. Anyway, it sounds like you feed Ariel the way I did Sophie, and I didn't have a period until she was 14 months old. That's why I was so upset about starting now with Isabella. Not that it will make me stop breastfeeding, but that my body isn't even producing enough milk to delay my fertility. Does that make sense? But I'm glad, because we'd like to start trying for baby #3 in July-August. :)
from ava-reborn :
Awwww! I hope Ariel is feeling better soon! Why doesn't Chad like you giving her her medication?? Thanks for your note! So sweet! Yes, K is growing into quite the young lady before my eyes!! xx
from starlight42 :
awww, poor Ariel! I hope she is feeling better soon. I hear thrush is pretty common, can you actually get it from her? Is that why the doc asked? Anyway, thanks for all the notes! I'm betting in a couple of months I'm going to be so glad that I am not at work.
from lerin :
It's so funny how different all babies are. Sophie was also induced two weeks early, and like Ariel, she was always large and healthy... so chubby from breastmilk alone. I think Isabella's issues are so many and so complicated. It may have even started in-utero with my hyperemesis gravidarum. I will cpntinue breastfeeding as much as I can for as long as I can. Thank you for your support! I think its important that moms encourage each other on breastfeeding. :)
from lerin :
Oh, that poor baby! I hope she got some rest last night and the doctor will take care of her tiny little eyes and nose quickly.
from elliemay23 :
Thanks for the note. I am almost 16 weeks. I know I need to update more...it's just with the other two girls running around I find my self chasing them instead. Hope you are doing well. xoxo, Ellie
from bitterwineuk :
Hello, I found you through Starlight42's diary and I like your diary and have added you to my favourites. I hope you don't mind, please feel free to drop by and say hi at anytime as I am nice and friendly. :) Becca.
from lerin :
Isabella started that Mommy-or-nobody thing last month too. Maybe it is a phase they go through around the same age. I'm really proud of you for starting a mom's group for firt-time mommies! That is really going to be good for you! Being an at-home mom sometimes causes isolation, and you are totally avoiding that. Once we are into our home, I want to do the same thing within the neighborhood. Have a great day!
from starlight42 :
I can't wait till my baby is here, it sounds so wonderful! It would be cool to have a group of moms who would be staying at home like me, to go and do things with. Although, many of my friends are not moms, and some that are live a ways away, or they work. :( Well, I'll have to find a way to make some new mommy friends I guess! The Mommy and me yoga sounds neat.
from momma-at-17 :
I absolutely LOVE the first picture with the rose and rose petals!! She's a cutie!!
from hibiscus101 :
so so so so so cute!
from icyjewel :
What beautiful pictures of Ariel!!!! Thanks for sharing. :-)
from ava-reborn :
I love those photos of Ariel with the roses!! She's so adorable! Beautiful, and looks so much like you!!
from icyjewel :
Wow, that dress sure is gorgeous on Ariel! It seems that so many people have left for myspace. I don't have an account there and I probably won't make one since I'm dedicated to dland. However, if you're posting there more often than here I may have to check out your page....:) I hope you're having a good weekend!
from grandbeach :
When I was reading yours I was getting such a kick out of it because I do so many of them. And even though we both do so many weird water things I'm almost certain not many people do, I know no one in my family does. I can't imagine not doing any of those things either, it would screw up my sleeping patterns, lol. I am glad I'm not the only one though. Oh, and I do the same thing when I leave the house. I must go even if I went 5 minutes ago. I guess that's something you do as a kid and we just never really stopped. lol.
from icyjewel :
Great pictures, Ariel is so beautiful! You look gorgeous as well. :-)
from jane-dreams :
I *love* Ariel's new picture... what a beauty!!!
from grandbeach :
HEY!! With prescription meds they actually have to give you the generic kind unless the doctor specifically prescribes the 'name brand' kind. It's the law in MB. So, I'm not sure what the doctor did each time but I figure that might be helpful to you. It sucks that she's still a bit sick though. Hope it gets better!!
from jane-dreams :
Ouch! SO sorry to hear about your teeth, but I am glad Ariel is doing better. Have you ever heard of "The Toddler's Bible"? It is the BEST Bible for young children... so simple, but they get a lot out of it. Sophie already knows a lot about our faith fdrom me reading a story a night to her starting when she was two. :)
from icyjewel :
I hope you can get your wisdom teeth fixed soon so you're not in pain anymore! Have a great week. :-)
from jane-dreams :
Oh, poor baby! Thrush is so uncomfortable. I think it is BEAUTIFUL that you love cuddling her int the middle of the night. That's how it is supposed to feel, silly. :)
from momma-at-17 :
She's adorable!! I hope that she gets better soon. Like another mom said (bitterwineuk I think), all the diaryland babies seem to be sick lately.
from ava-reborn :
I can't believe how big she is already!! She is such an adorable little cutie!! I just want to kiss her!!!! And you look so proud and happy and beautiful!
from jane-dreams :
I still can't get over how BIG she is! I know Sophie was as big as Ariel, but now that I have a teeny-tiny little girl... your Arial looks half-grown to me! :) She is SO cute, and what great pictures of you, Chad, and Ariel together! You make a beautiful family.
from swirl-girl :
Awww, she's a sweetie. She looks very healthy and happy. Congrats!
from icyjewel :
I sure hope that Chad gets feeling better soon. I can imagine that it's frustrating that he can't help out w/ Ariel. I hope you have a great New Year's! (PS-any new pictures?)
from jane-dreams :
Your family celebration sounds so cute... Ariel being baby Jesus is so sweet!! :) Your first Christmas as a family is the most special of all. Enjoy every moment of your holidays!
from jane-dreams :
I *LOVE* the pictures!
from jane-dreams :
LOL! Hey, I don't know of a single breastfed newborn who doesn't poop like that. We've all been pooped on at one point or another... several times! What a mess. Poor Chad, he sounds like he was traumatized!
from icyjewel :
Ewwwww, that's o-so-gross, but soooo funny at the same time! I hope you write more stories for us. :-)
from furiouspuppy :
Congratulations on Ariel! Sorry that I've been so slack with catching up on my dland. The pictures are great, you're a truly beautiful mommy with a gorgeous baby girl. xoxo
from jane-dreams :
Aw, and here I thought it was only MY babies who constantly wanted to be held! It's just the way that they are when they are newborn, I think. Have you thought about buying a sling? That way, she is "held" but your hands are free. I haven't bought one myself, it's just been suggested to me. Isabella is 7 weeks old now, and she is finally to the point that I can put her down in a Boppy pillow or her bouncy seat while I do dishes/cook/etc. She is old enough to be entertained by her surroundings instead of needing the constant comfort and security of my arms. Also when she was that small, the only way I could get her to actuall LAY DOWN for naps was by *tightly* swaddling her. I don't know if you've tried that, but it gives them security. Isabella couldn't ever sleep with her arms flailing around and waking her up. Ariel is SUCH a pretty name, the more I see it, the more I like it. You'll find that most babies her age are still very sleepy and calm as they adjust to their new surroundings. Her personality will really begin to emerge in a few weeks! Luckily for you, it sounds like she is very easy going by nature. I'm so glad things are going so well for you and Ariel! :)
from jane-dreams :
Thank you for sharing the story! What an ordeal you went through. Don't be dissapointed about ANYthing, Ariel is here and healthy! So happy for you.
from summer-gale :
Congratulations to you and your new addition. Thanksgiving will never be the same for you again and you will have quite a bit to give thanks for every year too!
from momma-at-17 :
I'm a fairly new reader but I just wanted to say Congrats. That's wonderful news!!
from grandbeach :
Awww, what a wonderful story. Sounds like all the pain was worth it... I love that even while you were in pain, you were still happy and knew it was worth it. YAY!!
from icyjewel :
I'm glad to hear how great everything is going! :)
from nicolerenee :
Ok, just so you know, it is IMPOSSIBLE to spoil an infant. If you let her fall asleep with you for the first 6 months it won't matter. Up until then, they have no understanding of 'spoiling'. So don't feel guilty...Kaleb still sleeps with me, because, well, I want him to! And he is 1 month. And as far as you losing the weight, that is so great! Just be careful, with my first I lost all the weight at first, then I thought that it would stay off, and I would eat whatever, and I gained like 30 pounds byt eh time she was 2! Your body might not be the same, but just watch for that. And congrats on the breastfeeding. You are SO blessed to not have had engorgement. I wanted to die all three times, it was the worst pain I had ever had. I'm so happy for you! :) xoxo
from swirl-girl :
Awwww, congratulations! I'm happy for you and your new family. Best wishes!
from classygirl83 :
Okay, everytime I mean to write you a message, I never get around too it, and I feel soo bad about that! First off Congratulations!! second off your baby is beautiful!! I want to hear the birth story as soon as you can! I love birth stories,and I never really get to read or hear about them:)
from elliemay23 :
Girl, don't feel bad. Let me see...I think you've been a little busy. Your baby is beautiful. Hope you adjust soon. xoxo, Ellie
from newlywedblis :
hey thanks for taking the time to leave me a note. And Ariel is perfect! My word, you hardly look like you gave birth in those photos, and your family is so beautiful!!
from ava-reborn :
Thanks for your lovely note! I love those photos!! What a beautiful and happy looking family!! I really love that hospital photo of Ariel!! She looks like she's smiling!!!
from jane-dreams :
***GORGEOUS!*** I am so happy for you! Please rest as much as you can, these early days are the most crucial for you to heal. I can't wait to hear from you again. :)
from icyjewel :
What great pictures, thank you so much for sharing! Both you and Ariel are so beautiful and Chad looks like such a happy father. :) Congrats again!
from newlywedblis :
Congratulations, you beautiful new mommy!! I'm so excited for you--can't wait to hear the story! Have fun with your daughter--we're all thinking of you!
from bigmonayho :
CONGRATS!!! You gotta post pics
from r-y-r :
Congratulations, I am sooo happy for you and look forward to hearing the birth story. I can't wait till march when I will be the one telling you all my birth story. Congratulations to you and your husband.
from nicolerenee :
YAY! I'm sure she is a beauty! Can't wait to see her pictures, and hear the birth story! Congrats, momma! ♥
from jane-dreams :
COngratulations, Mommy! Thank Heaven for little girls! It's so cool that we have baby daughters exactly one month apart. Isabella probably doesn't even weigh as much as Ariel yet! ;) Your name choice is so pretty. I can't wait to hear all about her birth.
from swirl-girl :
Awwww, congratulations! I'm happy for you and your new family. Best wishes!
from aliboomboom :
Aw, congratulations, I can't wait to see her!
from icyjewel :
Congratulations!!!! I can't wait to see the first pictures of Ariel. :-)
from swirl-girl :
Awwww, congratulations! I'm happy for you and your new family. Best wishes!
from ava-reborn :
Congratulations! Ariel? That's very different. Do you like The Little Mermaid? I can't wait to see a photo of her!! Take care and enjoy!
from elliemay23 :
Congrats!!! Hope all went well. You sound happy, so it must have. I'm happy for you. xoxo, Ellie
from reazintoliv :
CONGRATULATIONS!!! :) I look forward to hearing all about the birth!
from icyjewel :
Best of luck!!!! *hugs*
from grandbeach :
OH YAY!!!!! The second I saw that you had written something I thought, oh no, no baby yet and am soooooo happy to see I was mostly wrong. AHHHHH!!!! I'm very excited to hear all about it so you must come home soon to tell us all about it!!! I'm so selfish, lol. YAY BABY!!!!
from reazintoliv :
Good luck! I can't wait to hear how everything goes!!!
from nicolerenee :
Oh YAY! SInce you will get this after the bebe is here, congrats! I CANNOT wait to see pictures and hear all about your labor and delivery!!! xoxo ♥
from jane-dreams :
Oh my goodness, how exciting! I did say a prayer for you, Chad, and your sweet little baby. I *can't wait* to hear all about it!
from elliemay23 :
Awwww...good luck to you. (of course you won't get this til after he/she has arrived) I'm sure you'll do fine. Congrats!! xoxo, Ellie
from summer-gale :
Ah Ha! Now I know how you found me, through Jane! What a lovely time in your life. You will love being a mother. As for the stage of my life, you are right and things changed radically over the weekend. I just haven't posted yet.
from jane-dreams :
You two are adorable! Your baby will be gorgeous, I just know it.
from aliboomboom :
You have a beautiful home and a cute little hubby!! I want to see the baby's room!! And some of your favorite things you've bought for the baby thus far. And then of course I want to see pictures of the baby!!
from icyjewel :
What a cute picture of you and Chad!!! I hope the baby comes soon. *crosses fingers*
from jane-dreams :
I love open house plans like that. It makes the house seem so big and bright!
from icyjewel :
*drools* You have the most amazing house!
from reazintoliv :
Your house is absolutely beautiful! Love the colors...love the furniture... It's all wonderful!
from ava-reborn :
Wow, your house is beautiful!!
from ava-reborn :
Are you taking bets?? My money's on a boy!! Don't fret too much about being induced, it's not bad at all (I was induced!) Make sure you eat some spicy food, preferably a curry! ANd have some good sex!! Both great ways of getting labour started!! Good luck lovely!
from newlywedblis :
Hey! I've been gone for a while, but I just got back on and you've posted pictures! So beautiful! I think I like the one with you wrapped in a sheet best.. there's something so pure about it... and there are a couple of you standing that are really pretty too. That's awesome that you have pics of that! Hope you have a good and easy labor--I'll be praying for you!
from icyjewel :
Pictures!! I'm so glad to finally be able to put a face to a name. You are so gorgeous! I'm happy that you will be able to post more pictures from now on. :-) I'm thinking about you and hope your baby comes soon.
from elliemay23 :
Look at your perfect little...big...belly. You look great!! xoxo, Ellie
from jane-dreams :
You look fantatsic!!! You have such pretty skin still. It's completely a genetic thing though... no amount of moisturizing lotions and cremes kept me or my sister from getting stretch marks, and then our own mom has NONE and she weighs 100 pounds soaking wet after four pregnancies! Consider yourself extremely lucky and thank God for your pretty skin. :) WHen it comes to your labor, you totally need to make your own decisions about who you want with you. This is YOUR labor and YOUR decision. Don't feel guilty. Anyone who is upset will find hurt feelings melt away when they see your new baby. :) I am SO excited for you!
from nicolerenee :
Aww, you have THE perfect belly!! I'm thinking you are having a boy, but who knows, I have been wrong before! :) xoxo ♥ Not too much longer!
from aliboomboom :
Oh the pictures are great!! I am so glad that you learned how to post as well!! I can't wait to see pictures of that baby!
from ava-reborn :
Beautiful, beautiful!! And what a perfect tummy!! I was freakily obsessed with moisturising and ioling my tummy but I still ended up with stretch marks! Yet, my mum didn't moisturise once, and got none!! I think some people are just prone to them. I wish I had some photos of when I was pregnant! It's such a special and exciting time. Especially the first. I'm so glad you got some lovely pics!
from grandbeach :
Totally! I just wish I had recipes based on the food I can eat. We're also doing tests to see if this has to do with non-food related things. Ah! 1 more day!!!
from ava-reborn :
Is that you?? You are so pretty! That's a great photo! Good luck for the labour! I really enjoyed mine! It was such a special time!! I'm excited for you!!! *hugs*
from aliboomboom :
Labor is not that bad. You'll be fine. Don't be scared. It's the most natural thing you'll ever do. And if you want Chad's mom in there then have her. My mom was with me and it was fine although usually she drives me nuts. As for the trick or treating thing, ew who would do that? It's so sick. We have festivals at churches here so that kids can dress up and not go trick or treating, I love that and Griffin had a great time!!
from reazintoliv :
I'm sitting here reading about how close you are to having your baby...and I'm getting excited for you!!!
from jane-dreams :
I can't believe you are so close to having your new baby in your arms. I am so happy for you and so glad that you are still doing well, even after your scary seizure. I just can't wait to hear all about your labour and I am DYING to know what you are having and what names you've picked! :)
from grandbeach :
Handing out candy will be an excellent way to meet, or at least see they people in your area. And you're right, if your husband is going to advertise and do real estate there it is probably best to hand candy out. Hope you're prepared for all the kids that will come by, lol. Yay for only a few days left. I can't wait to hear about the baby!!
from icyjewel :
I'm SO glad to hear that you and your baby are ok. There are several people in my family who are epileptic so I know how very scary it is when someone has a seizure. *BIG HUGE GIANT HUGS* Will you ever find out why you had one?
from grandbeach :
Thank goodness you and the baby are okay. Hopefully nothing more happens to you and you can have your baby the way you want to. You're very fortunate to have such a loving and caring husband AND family. They sound like wonderful people. I think I agree with them, no leaving you alone until they can figure this all out. I hope everything goes as planned from now on.
from jane-dreams :
What a scary thing for you to go through! And poor Chad, he must have been terrified for you and the baby. I will keep you in my prayers. What a relief that you and your baby are okay!
from jane-dreams :
I have finally gotten all caught up with you! i would die if I saw a mouse in my house... you poor thing! ;) You are so close to having your little one. I just can't wait to hear all about it. Everytime you update, I am always wondering if something is happening. Have a nice day and leave that door closed! :)
from furiouspuppy :
Thanks for the b-day wishes! xoxoxoxoxoxo
from nicolerenee :
Glad I'm not the only one who didn't want a halloween baby. I keep getting people saying, awww, wouldn't it be fun to have him on halloween?! I'm like, NO! So therefore I'm being induce...for other reasons too, but that played into my decision! I can't believe you are so far along. You are only like 4 days or so behind me. And go you for making those decisions about your baby, and about no medication for your labor..I'm not brave enough! xoxo
from ava-reborn :
Thank you so much for your note! Yes, it gave me a warm fuzzy feeling knowing she came to me for help! I totally understand your labour issues! My birth plan made it clear I didn not want any drugs. Only gas and air. I then made it clear to the midwife that I didn't want pethidine or an epidural. I was adamant! I begged her not to let me agree to it. I begged her not to agree to it. However, i got to the point where I begged for an epidural! And I'm so glad I had one! I was up and about a couple of hours afterwards! I have no regrets!. I'm all for choice! But I reckon the choice can only be made when you're actually in the situation!! I hope your birth goes well, whatever you choose! x
from jane-dreams :
I've finally gotten the chance to catch up on your entries. I think that every woman has to make the choice about whether to have drugs or not on her own. It's sad that women discourage you from making your own choice. I respect both opinions and both choices. I think every birth is VERY different (as I plan to write about soon) and all women have different levels of pain tolerance. Be proud of your choice and have faith in your body! And keep in mind, if you do decide to have pain medication, *it doesn't make you a failure or bad mom.* I planned to avoid medication with my first and I was so hard on myself when I changed my mind in delivery. I wish someone had said that to me. Don't let anyone discourage you. I just can't wait to hear all about your birth experience and hear about your baby!
from icyjewel :
I bet you will enjoy your last day of work. :) I bet you look even more forward to your time off and for your baby to come into this world!
from nicolerenee :
Well, she is kind of a professional. She actually designs childrens clothes, and my girls model for her. Thanks for the kind words...only a few weeks left for the both of us! I can't wait to find out what you are having!! xoxo ♥
from icyjewel :
I am SO excited to find out if you have a boy or girl! I can't believe you only have 3 1/2 weeks left, time has flown by so quickly. I wish you all the luck in the world, I'm sure everything will go perfectly.
from aliboomboom :
I probably won't remember to email you. Email me at alexia_gillingwater@yahoo.com and I'll make sure you get it!
from icyjewel :
Wow, that is the most scary event that could ever happen at a bank! I worked at one for awhile and could never imagine being held up. *hugs* I'm so glad you are ok.
from jane-dreams :
I am SO glad that you are okay! What an ordeal. Thank God that you and baby are okay.
from aliboomboom :
That is really scary. I didn't even know that happened anymore!
from aliboomboom :
You will care. I did. And although they wouldn't let me wear a bra like I wanted, I dont' know why, no one saw my boobs the whole time. I got to keep my hospital gown on the whole time I was in labor and my boobs and everything else was covered except when I was having the baby and obviously my lower half had to be uncovered.
from aliboomboom :
Thanks for the compliments. I think it was you who wanted the lipstick name? I'll look it up and get back to you if so!! I don't know what it is for sure! Anyways I didn't shop much at Motherhood Maternity, I shopped at Mimi Maternity and at this really cute boutique here called Me and Mommy to Be but I never had a problem with the quality of clothes from there. After all, pregnancy doesn't last forever, why should the clothes? That was my whole view. My mother is the same way about money. It drives me crazy. I live at home and make more money that most people who are ten years older than em so I have tons and tons of savings but she still thinks I spend too much and worries about me moving out. It's insane.
from ava-reborn :
Oooo, it's all getting so exciting! Not long now! Thanks so much for your note. Yeah that great big red heart was a bit of a giveaway, eh! ;)
from elliemay23 :
Don't get too excited sweetie. Unless the crib is going to be in your room, chances are the little one won't be sleeping in the crib for a while. If the room isn't perfect and finished by the time the baby comes home, don't sweat it. Heck, Gem is almost 6 months old and I've yet to put her in her own room for anything but napping. (it's soooo time for her to be in her own room too.) Hang on...it's not too far away now. :)
from jane-dreams :
Oh, the unpredictable leakage... welcome to the third trimester! If you decide to have a second one, it'll be worse. I started leaking this time about halfway through the pregnancy, and it's crazy... My sheet was soaked this morning only in one spot. I guess the left side is worse than the right. ;) It's actually milk, not colostrum. Anyway, what I do for peace of mind in public is tuck those disposable avent pads into my bra. It's like a pantiliner for your bra. ;) Especially if you plan to breastfeed, I'd recommend getting a box. It's just nice to have them, just in case.
from grandbeach :
During the San Fransisco earthquakes (not sure what year it was) they had orders to shoot (ie kill) whoever was found to be looting. Apparently this is quite standard.
from aliboomboom :
I really want to see Red Eye. I'm glad to hear that it was good. I always end up disappointed when I see them at the movie theatre!! As for Chad and his Eric, how often do they hang out? If it's not that often then why not just let him enjoy the time they do spend together? Maybe the two of you could be a great influence in Eric's life?
from jane-dreams :
Ugh, I would be SO mad if Adam had some guy staying overnight! I hope that's the ifrst and last time. You are usually such a cheerful person and always looking on the bright side. You deserve to be upset every once and awhile. ;) I hope you and Chad talked some things out tonight.
from icyjewel :
Take as much time as you need once you have the baby. You'll appreciate it! About taking shorter breaks than what you are alloted, that is technically illegal for a company to do and you are entitled to be paid for the time you worked. I'd dig into that a bit deeper if I were you! That's alot of money...
from icyjewel :
Awww, it was so cute reading about how much you love Chad and how wonderful your relationship is. You are truly blessed to have someone like him in your life and to be able to share a child together.
from aliboomboom :
I use photobucket to host pictures. I had gold, it wasn't worth the money. Photobucket is really easy to do and it is fast. Try it and let me know if you have any issues. AS for linking to another page,I don't have the code right now. I hate doing that. I have it somewhere, I'll let you know when I find it, k?
from kris-tee :
Your house sounds so great! I love decorating! I have to admit something to you, I stopped reading you for a while because of Chad, I had a boyfriend that I was with for SEVEN years named Chad before Brad and sometimes I read your diary and it's hard not to get flashbacks. I am trying to not think of my chad and think of your chad, it's difficult at times though, I am big with associating people by name, I know it may sound dumb, but I do! Anyway, I am so happy for the both of you!
from aliboomboom :
That's great about the maternity leave. The US does it the worst I think. I never wore full panel pants while I was pregnant. Demi panel worked for me the entire time!!
from icyjewel :
You get a full year maternity leave? Wow, that's incredible! :)
from newlywedblis :
Hey! Thanks so much for letting me know you added me--it's nice to meet new people here, and I'm so excited for you, your husband, and baby! Wow--I can hardly wait for that day in my life (though now is perfect for us, too!).:) I've added you, too, so I can keep up with your progress!
from aliboomboom :
Pregnant women do complain a lot. So do women who are in labor. Labor is easy. I don't know what all the fuss is about. I hope I can enjoy my next pregnancy if there is one!!
from icyjewel :
Your child with have lots of little cousins to play with when they grow up. That'll be so nice for both you as the parents and the children to have company at family outings. Have a great weekend!
from grandbeach :
That is so awesome. The second I read that you tried a new game thursday night I thought, ooh I wonder if it was settlers. My best friend and her family ADORE that game. She's gotten some of our friends into it and the owner at the store our friend works at wants her to do demos of it, lol. Mostly he just wants chicks in his store though. j.k.
from r-y-r :
Hi, I just wanted to thank you for adding me to your favorites, I see we have alot in common, I am recently married and we recently moved into our first home and now I am pregnant, finally!!!. Yesterday was my first appointment and I found out I am actually almost nine weeks along, but appenantly everything seems to be looking good. I will be reading up on your diary, thanks again for adding me to your favorites.
from aliboomboom :
I hated being pregnant. I think it's beautiful but terrible! It's good to know some people actually like it though. :)
from jane-dreams :
It is a beautiful feeling, isn't it? There is nothing else like it in the whole world.
from aliboomboom :
I am glad that you and Chad had a great anniversary. I want to see wedding pictures sometime. Post them!!
from classygirl83 :
Happy Aniversery!!! That is awsome. Thank you for your note. I know, Like I'm not sexuallly active or anything. I Just kinda wonder how I got a UTI, I don't know. I know that they are awful! I feel a little better today hough! Have a great day!
from icyjewel :
Happy three year anniversary and many more to come! Have a great weekend. :)
from jane-dreams :
Awww... Happy Anniversary, and I wish you many, many more happy years together! :)
from icyjewel :
Oh my gosh! I'm so happy you are ok, that guy sounds nuts. I can't believe he did that. Too bad he didn't get arrested.
from icyjewel :
I sure hope that when I am pregnant with my first child, I have your excitment. Your happiness is contagious! I'm so happy to hear how good you are doing. Have a good week. :)
from grandbeach :
Oh yah. The bit about sleeping on your tummy reminded me of something. Women used to wear corsets until they were 7 months pregnant at which point they'd take to their bed for the remainder of their pregnany. Of course, in that case, it wouldn't be good for the baby since they wore corsets constantly with the sole purpose of making their stomach smaller. This meant lots of babies were still born which then meant women didn't tell people when they were pregnant which meant they really had to wear those corsets. Viscious cycle I tell ya. Another reason it's good to be living in 2005. Good luck with the remainder of your pregnancy. :)
from grandbeach :
Yah, he screens calls, jerk. I only called once today though. At like 10 and I knew he'd probably be working if not about to start working (even though he worked in the morning too). I just got a message from him saying 'sorry, I'm at work' which is actually more than I expected from him. Maybe there is hope that he'll at least tell me what is going on.
from jane-dreams :
Oh, your poor girl! Falling down and throwing up an apple in one weekend! I threw up an apple this pregnancy, and yes... it does feel like choking to death! Don't listen to that other girl... don't even let her comments bother you. You are allowed to cry any old time you need to right now. You shouldn't be embarrassed. :)
from nicolerenee :
Thanks for the add, I'm adding you too. So I take it you are a Christian as well? It's nice to know there are others out there! ;) Congrats on your first baby, let me tell you, your life will never be the same again! :) ~I'll be reading! xoxo ♥
from jane-dreams :
Ugh, I get SO sick of people's opinions on my pregnant tummy as well. All in the same day yesterday, a woman told me I was "way too tiny" for being that far along and wondered aloud if something was wrong. Then, a MAN said, "Whoa, you are that big already? Are you sure it isn't twins?" Good grief. Everyone has a different idea of how big you should look at what stage of pregnancy. I say, try to ignore it. As long as you aren't starving yourself or binge eating junk food five times a day, your body is doing what it is supposed to. I just had to share when I read that!!!
from kris-tee :
I don't know what you are talking about... Brad and I wear towels on our shoulders ALL the time. What is the big deal? Just kidding! Ew, that is gross, not to mention weird. Also, I think you are doing GREAT, FANTASTIC, and FABLOUS at the whole TEN pounds you gained. I think I gained that in my first three weeks!
from grandbeach :
HAHA, I think it's funny he thinks the baby will cook in there. Men. Sorry to hear you got such a bad burn though. That's never fun, heck, even a slight burn isn't fun. I feel for you.
from icyjewel :
OUCH! I hope your sunburns gets better.
from aliboomboom :
I'm glad things are going so well. I wish I could go to the beach. I miss the beach.
from icyjewel :
It was nice to see a post from you, it sure has been awhile. I'd say wear whatever you want to the beach and poo on those who say anything about it!! That's just me though. I'm glad to hear you and your little one are doing so well. Have a great weekend!
from icyjewel :
I'm glad to hear you had such a fun trip with Chad!! :)
from hertinyhands :
Hi! Sorry it took so long to reply, my internet *just* got set up at the new house and I've been offline for weeks! To delete a note, go to "edit your notes settings" on your left under "Other stuff" and there will be an option that says "delete individual notes" All the notes will display, and just click the "delete" dialogue box next to mine. Thanks so much!
from elliemay23 :
Thanks for the sweet note. EE and I didn't find out with our second baby and it was the coolest thing in the delivery room to hear the doctor say, "It's a beautiful baby girl." The anticipation was exciting for us. Glad your ultrasound went well. Thanks again for the note. xoxo, Ellie
from aliboomboom :
See I thought it was more exciting to know. I thought it made the whole thing more fun if everyone was excited about the baby as a person, as a boy or girl with a name as opposed to just a baby. Maybe I'm wrong but I always wanted to know and I'll know every time no matter how many I do or don't have. We were all just so thrilled to meet Griffin, I don't think it would be the same if we hadn't decorated his room just for him or gotten things monogrammed or referred to him as Griffin the whole time. To each his own, I guess. The 3D ultrasounds are really very cool, it's too bad you can't have one.
from aliboomboom :
So you aren't going to find out what the baby is? Oh and if you think that ultrasound is cool then get the 3D one that is offered in the 32-35 weeks. It's amazing!! Insurance doesn't cover it but it is well worth the money. I have pictures of mine on my diary somewhere. And drink caffeine before you go next time for the ultrasound, the baby will move more. Doctors won't tell you that but it's true. I gave up caffeine for my entire pregnancy except for right before ultrasounds!
from aliboomboom :
RAchel Hunter was awesome but she was on the chopping block with Trista. They said that Trista and RAchel had gotten the lowest scores from the viewers. I think that Kelly (from General Hospital) will get a lot of votes because of all the soap fans that watch crap like this. I'm one of them. I think that they are really harsh with her. I thought her romba was the only sexy one. And I don't know why Trista was being so fussy over the dance, it was a dance for crying out loud!! I'm sure Ryan didn't care. I mean some of the other people are married as well. I think the guy from Seinfeld does an amazing job. I'm glad someone else watches that show. I love it.
from classygirl83 :
Hey~ I hope that you don't mind that I added you to my favories. I've been reading you for a while. Congratulations on your pregnancy!! Mys sister, and her sis and law, and everyone I know that's married is expecting too! IT's an exciting time:) COngrats again:)
from frogmom :
Thank you for your words!
from aliboomboom :
AW!!
from aliboomboom :
Maternity clothes can be fun. Have fun with it and don't worry about size for once. That's what I did!! As for Ingrid, she is older than me. She'll be 29 in September and I won't be 26 till March so she's about three and a half years older than me. Why does she look older or do I?
from icyjewel :
There will always be those sorts of people in a bank trying to cash checks. They try and blame it on everyone else but themselves that there is no money in an account. It's so frustrating. I suppose since we both work with money, we have to realize how incredibly sensitive people are about their money. AAARRRGGGG!!! PS-Good luck finding some cute pants.
from icyjewel :
Have a good long weekend, ours is next weekend. :) I'm not addicted to Oprah, but I'm addicted to Judge Judy. hahaha...
from frogmom :
I am a fan of Oprah (that looks speeled wrong) but I dont HAVE TO SEE IT everyday. I didnt watch it today. Hope your morning sickness goes away!!
from frogmom :
thank you for adding me to your favorites! I look forward to reading more of your diary! Leslie
from icyjewel :
Awww honey, I hope you get feeling better. *hugs*
from aliboomboom :
I was Rh negative too. It's not a big deal at all.
from grandbeach :
Yup, totally know what you're saying. Thank you so much for your note. Tonight I made sure he saw me talking with other boys and having a good time while still giving him a goodbye hug (but ONLY a hug since he's not my boyfriend). Hopefully that helps, however to be on the safe side, I will not be letting him kiss me... we'll see how long that lasts. Maybe I'll just have to make it less frequent? Lol.
from furiouspuppy :
yay! no password!
from ava-reborn :
That is so weird! I managed to get in today, but until today it's still be asking me for a password!! Anyway, all's well now!! x
from ava-reborn :
Has your password changed? I can't get in! :( Hope you're doing well! x
from icyjewel :
You're in your new house aleady? Wow, that's so awesome!! Congrats. Sorry to hear about the throwing up, I hope it doesn't last for too long.
from icyjewel :
Hey, this is my new place. :)
from juli-anne :
Good luck at the doctor's tomorrow! I hope everything with your house works out, also.
from gumphood :
dcsdua
from aliboomboom :
I think now is the perfect time. Enjoy it. Let other people worry about their lives, don't let them worry about yours!!
from ava-reborn :
Hi lovely. Thank you SOOOOO much for your lovely note! You're a sweetheart! I haven't read your diary for ages!! I keep meaning to ask for your password!! Please can I have it? Thanks lovely. libra_cc73@hotmail.com
from juli-anne :
Oh wow, you must be getting really excited to move into your new house. Only 2 weeks! I have a little over a month to go and I'm bouncing off the walls. Anyway, I'm glad you don't have that nasty cold anymore. You're right about the job performance, I hate it when employes compare you to what someone else did, they should base their reviews on what YOU did. Grrr...
from swirl-girl :
Thanks for the note! I'll definitely check out your diary, sounds like you've got some interesting things to say in there!
from gumphood :
wow. I will say wow, that is big news...you know the reason you locked it.
from gumphood :
I certainly I hope to continue to positivly amuze you.
from kris-tee :
When I was pregnant, I had the worst migraines ever, they hurt so bad. It got to the point where one time, I laid in bed from Monday until Thursday with no lights and no TV finally, we were ready to go to the emergency room with the doctor called me in a migraine medicine with codine. I was so nervous about taking it and I felt so guilty every time I did take it, but it took the pain away and Blake turned out fine. I hope you don't have to go through that. I hated being sick when I was pregnant. How far along are you? Hope you feel better! Hugs and tummy rubs!
from aliboomboom :
I can never remember where people live! Canada, huh? Cool.
from aliboomboom :
I can't believe it's that cold there. It's 85 degrees here and it feels amazing. It's so beautiful. As for your house, that is unprofessional and it sucks but you'll get it soon enough!! Where do you live again?
from kris-tee :
Hey, the user name is kristy and the password is blake1717. Oh, and what is yours?
from juli-anne :
I bet you're getting excited about moving into your new house. I know I sure am, I can't wait much longer! Take care of yourself and I hope you get feeling better. :)
from soverycherry :
Re: Lost - There will be a second season, but it has been said (by the creators/producers of the show) that a lot of the questions from this season will be answered in the season finale (two hours!) but a lot more new questions will come about. Also, they said that this will be an INSANE cliffhanger finale - people will be talking about it all summer! I can't wait to see what's going to happen. I love that damn show. :)
from grandbeach :
Thank you so much. It means a lot to get your support in this. I hate that there is racism, but even still, it is totally a two way street and I hate that some people don't get that. I am definetly going to my associate dean (and perhaps dean) about this issue. Of all things, this is probably the issue I feel most strongly about. Thank you so much (again). :)
from aliboomboom :
Sorry about that, I pushed enter too soon. Anyways it's really not usually that expensive but Jolene is very well off and she'll expect a lot. I doubt it'll really be that much but I'll have to fly to Florida or DC wherever the wedding is probably twice and I'll have ot pay for the hotel and a present and shoes and it'll add up. I don't know. I wish that I just weren't in it. I don't know for sure that I am, I'm assuming and maybe I'm wrong. Who knows? We did live together for three years though and I've been told I'll be in it when she gets married. I'm dreading the whole thing .I know it'll be fun once I get there. IT's just thinking about it that gets me down. Stupid I Know. I haven't even called her to congratulate her, what a bad friend.
from aliboomboom :
No, most bridesmaid dresses do not cost that much
from juli-anne :
I'm glad to hear you had a good Easter weekend. :) When do you get to move into your new house again? That's so exciting!
from aliboomboom :
Thanks for the comments on the pictures. I still think Brandon is a living doll, I guess. I really don't even know what to say about that situation right now. As for the Derby, I've never been before. I am supposed to go this year but now my sister backed out so I don't know that I will get to go. Oh well. I think that I am going to the horse races in April though. I will be sure to post pictures of both events if I make it!!
from aliboomboom :
Spaghetti Factory is so good, glad that the two of you enjoyed a night out and yay for friends being pregnant the same time as you!
from aliboomboom :
No one ever really talks about months while you are pregnant. It's all weeks. You are pregnant for forty weeks which wouldn't really be 9 months but it kind of is because of all the extra days that make up the 9 months. No month is exactly 28 days (besides FEb) so there are extra days each month. I don't know. You'll only hear weeks from here on out and then for the first few months of the baby's life, you'll see he's 8 weeks old or 10 weeks old until you just get over it and then you will say months. I don't think you start using years again until they are two. Anyways I don't agree with the Terri thing either. Who are they to decide that she doesn't get to eat? Her husband doesn't love her. He's started a family with another woman and he is due to receive a lot of money when Terri dies. He's an evil man, he'll pay for this in hell.
from aliboomboom :
I didn't mean to press enter. I don't know what happened. Anyways I absolutely cannot stand Tiffany. She's so self righteous. SHe doesn't pay taxes. If I didn't pay taxes, think of how many vacations I could go on. I mean seriously get a reality check. As for Brandon, he IMed me a few minutes ago, he was fighting a fire till 2:30 this morning. Or at least so he says. I saw him on AIM last night but I went to bed so there could have been a fire. I hope I'm exaggerating the whole thing. It makes me a nervous wreck to not hear from him. Am I jumping to conclusions with him or do I have a right to be angry ?
from aliboomboom :
I agree 100% with this whole baby sitter thing. She is being ABSOLUTELY RIDICULOUS.
from aliboomboom :
I can't remember which websites I went to. I tracked my pregnancy one one, looked at the baby on a week to week basis on antoher one, etc. You'll find some good ones. One thing that I recommend is getting used to not feeling good. It doesn't get better. Your second trimester is the best because nausea is gone but you are starting to get fat, you can't walk as fast or as far, you can't sleep on your tummy, your boobs are sore, etc. Don't complain about it because it annoys people even other pregnant people. Just get used to it and realize that you will only be pregnant for forty weeks. It really isn't that long.
from aliboomboom :
I know. I cannot believe that I am 25. That is so old!! I remember being 18 as well and being so intimidated by 25 year olds. I thought that they were so mature and smart and whatever. Now I'm 25 and I don't feel any different than I did at 18. Well except for the fifty extra puonds. Gross. I hate to admit to that. Oh and I forgot your password, I thought it was saved on my computer but it's not. Help!!
from elliemay23 :
I have found that the books are better than the websites. "The girlfriend's guide to pregnancy" was great and of course "what to expect when you're expecting". xoxo, Ellie
from juli-anne :
Oh my gosh, CONGRATULATIONS!! I'm so happy to hear the news. Your happiness is just oozing from your past entries. I was smiling ear to ear after I finished reading what I have missed.
from elliemay23 :
Congrats on the pregnancy and thanks for adding me to your faves. I'll add you and catch up as quickly as I can. It might be a while though. I could pop any day now. He He He. For mother's day my husband got me a day at the spa, but by the time i got around to using it I was pregnant again and had to wait til my second trimester. There are certain parts of the body that if manipulated the right way can put you in early labor or cause other bad things to happen. If you have any questions, feel free to ask me. I'm almost a pro at this baby stuff. xoxo, Ellie
from juli-anne :
Can I please get your password? Thanks. :) My e-mail is bibbidyboop@gmail.com if you don't want to leave it in my notes.
from aliboomboom :
Congratulations. I am so excited for you.
from aliboomboom :
Have you been locked for a while? If so my computer lost your username and password and I have no clue what it is. Please email me at alexia_gillingwater@yahoo.com and let me know!! Thanks!
from feesticka :
AWESOME!!!!!!!!
from aliboomboom :
Yeah so it's not going to happen today either. Oh well. I'm getting very disillusioned by the whole thing. I really should start dating other people but he's made it to where I don't even want to do that. Lame, I know. As for the derby,I am so excited. It's going to be the most fun. Let's just hoep I can fit into a size 4 before then .
from vegasmommy :
Thank you sooo much for your note about that girl. I really needed to hear someone tell me it's NOT my fault. My husband's been trying to tell me that too (he got used by her drama just as quickly as I did), but I needed an outsider's opinion. Thank you!!
from feesticka :
Anita, I can help you walk through the process of locking your diary if you need help figuring it out! Just send me an email. M.
from krugerpak007 :
I hope you feel better about the house. Hoepfully that light problem can get fixed up with no extra cost. Take care! xoxox Kathy
from juli-anne :
Sorry to hear about your house. Have faith that it will all work out in the end! :)
from grandbeach :
That would be so frustrating. When our house was being built (back in the day) my dad came and checked on it everyday (although building a house on the same street we were already on made that easier for us). But he did that to make sure things were getting done right since he apparently didn't trust them. Lol. Maybe if you call them first thing tomorrow they'll be able to fix it without any problems. I think it would be stupid for you to have to pay extra for them to fix their mistake especially when it was in the blueprints. Hopefully the rest of the building process will go well for you.
from juli-anne :
All of your shopping for your new house sounds so exciting. I'm counting down the days until I can begin the same!
from juli-anne :
It usually takes at least a month or two for your cycles to get regular again if you had normal cycles before you started on the pill. However, if you weren't normal before, it will take awhile. Quite frankly, I wouldn't worry abou a pregnancy test right away, but if it will calm your nerves and make you feel better about things, then perhaps you should. :)
from aliboomboom :
Wait when did you stop taking birth control? A month ago or this month? If you stopped taking a month ago then you might be pregnant but if you just stopped this month then I highly doubt it. Usually it takes over 2 months for you to get pregnant after you get off bc depending on how long you were on bc. As for people having a hard time getting pregnant, why is that? It seems like everyone now (excluding me) has to have help getting pregnant. I hope that it comes easy for you. I know how much you want a little bundle of joy.
from aliboomboom :
That sucks about that doctor. How slimy. I tried to look at your pictures but it didn't take me anywhere?
from aliboomboom :
It sucks when people from your personal life read your diary, doesn't it? My sister did the same thing hence why I am locked.
from juli-anne :
I'm glad to see you are doing ok. Good job with everything at work!
from feesticka :
Hey girl! Hope things are going well for you. I'm sure your hair is AWESOME! I don't know if there is anything that you could do to mess it up -- every time I see you its perfect. I miss you and I hope you and Chad can come for a visit!
from aliboomboom :
Happy Valentine's Day!! Enjoy it!
from kris-tee :
Thanks for the note, your right, I should get a do-over. Oh well. Yeah, it sucks that her bf even invited people that we not invited anyway. Oh, and my pictures were on Aliboomboom's diary, if you go back like a week or two, me and Brad are on there and then there is a picture of Blake. Do you have any pictures? I would love to see them!
from juli-anne :
That seems odd that they can't put in the garbage disposal, it should be able to be put in at any time. Beat them up! I think you should post some pictures of your new hair. :)
from aliboomboom :
Thanks for the note. I hope that you are successful in getting pregnant soon. I'm so fertile, it's ridiculous. Hopefully it won't be a problem for you either. As for the new Belle, she's definately not a Kristen Storms but she's okay. Not very pretty though. There was another one between this one and K Storms and she was far worse. She was only one there for a week or so. I love watching tv. I know I shouldn't and I try not to get addicted but I have certain shows that I love!!
from feesticka :
Gald to hear you're feeling better, and that the house is coming along nicely. It will all be worth it when you're in there!
from aliboomboom :
I linked to you from kris-tee. She's my favorite diarylander so I knew that she had to have good tastes. I had my first baby this past July but I didn't get to go through the trying phase becasue I was DEFINATELY not trying. I think I must be as fertile as fertile can be but I hope to actually try for the next one IF (and this is a big if) there is a next one. Anyways I just wanted to tell you that I watch as much television as you do but my favorites are Desperate Housewives (100% agree), The OC, One Tree Hill, Real World, Laguna Beach, and Surreal Life. Plus Days of Our Lives on Soap Net. If you ever want to read my diary, it's locked but the useranme is alexia and the password is 07gcr10. I posted pictures of Kristy and her family recently!!
from juli-anne :
I hope you get feeling better soon. :)
from furiouspuppy :
Eeeeeeeeeee! Yay! Yippee! That is great news that you are going to be preggers! I think you will make an excellent mom. Make sure you give me that code to your diary! *hugs*
from kris-tee :
Awww! That is so exciting! Brad and I missed out on the whole "trying" part. I wish we could have though! We would have been much more prepared and I think I would have been more excited and less miserable then I was. I was just telling Brad last night that there are times I miss being pregnant.
from feesticka :
I won't bug you! I promise! I think its a good idea not to tell anyone that you're trying. That way if it takes you a while, you won't feel pressure from everyone around you. (You won't get any pressure from me --- I promise!!)
from juli-anne :
It's so exciting to hear about you wanting and trying to have a baby soon. I wish all the luck in the world! It sure soundns like you are ready. :)
from grandbeach :
OMG YES!!! It totally sucks at night cuz I'll wake up like 10 times needing to blow my nose! I'd rather have the sore throat than the runny nose. My parents were both sick a month ago too, I just kept fighting it off. Grrr. OMG and I am so excited about your new house. I love houses, I love choosing things, so I feel like I'm living vicariously through your entries (since ya know, I won't be buying a house for a long time, lol).
from juli-anne :
It's so exciting hearing about your new house. I don't think I would be able to contain myself for three more months. :) It sure sounds like it will be nice.
from avalonte :
Thanks so much for the tip lovely!! I wish I'd asked for advice before going ahead!! Oh well! Anyway, I'll remember that for the future! x
from krugerpak007 :
Thank goodness it wasn't a passenger train...and that you are fine even though you went later.xoxo Kathy
from feesticka :
I totally did forget about you!!! And you know about cold more than anyone, taking the bus to work and all. Brrrr! Try and stay warm, baby!
from krugerpak007 :
Wow, the new house sounds so exciting what with all the upgrades! We want photos! xoxox
from juli-anne :
Give your new job some time. Usually it takes a couple days to get to know the people and place. After then, you may really like it!
from juli-anne :
Hope you get feeling better soon!!
from krugerpak007 :
I hope you feel better soon, and happy 2005. I hope everything goes only well with you and Chad this year. Take care and feel good sweetie. xoxoxxo Kathy
from juli-anne :
If you don't feel good, don't go to work! Especially if you have the flu or a cold because no one else wants to get it, either. But don't not go to work because you think another job may call. They can always leave you a message! If they really want to hire you, they will wait.
from juli-anne :
That's so sweet of Chad to give you a surprise birthday party. Happy Birthday from me too!!
from juli-anne :
I'm glad to hear you had a good Christmas! Shopping the days after are so much fun, I always laugh at people like the girl that hollered at you in the parking lot. I like the 50% off, too!!
from grandbeach :
Merry Christmas!!
from feesticka :
MERRY CHIRSTMAS!!! Hope all is well with you guys. We wish you many blessings for the New Year!
from vegasmommy :
Awwwwwww!! That was the sweetest entry! I hope that scent brings you back 20 years from now too!
from bigmonayho :
Happy Belated Birthday!!! I hope your Christmas goes well!
from furiouspuppy :
HAPPY B-DAY! I hope this year will be amazing and successful for you!
from avalonte :
Belated happy birthday to you!! xx
from krugerpak007 :
Happy 25th birthday! Hope you are spoiled and have an amazing night with Chad! xoxoxox kathy
from juli-anne :
HAPPY 25th BIRTHDAY! I hope you have a great day and Chad makes or treats you to an extra special dinner/movie/shopping.
from krugerpak007 :
Thats women I guess. If I see someone that is wearing what I am wearing and they look better I naturally get jealous too. So although maybe it seemed she was rude, but she was just put out...ignore it and enjoy your sweater honey! xoxox Kathy
from grandbeach :
Some women are soooo rude. If I ever meet you, I promise to not comment on your boobs. Lol. Women have got to start loving their bodies more (ie: stop worrying about chest size, my god! Little can be good too!!!!)
from feesticka :
We love you anuta!!! :-)Don't worry about those ladies.
from krugerpak007 :
I love books! That sounds like such fun! xoxox
from juli-anne :
That lot of 23 books sounds like heaven right about now. Don't worry about spending so much on them--just think of how much they would have cost brandnew! Also, thanks so much for the supporting comments. The insurance interview went pretty well this morning. Now I just have to wait for the results.
from juli-anne :
Those pilate classes and such sound like alot of fun. Maybe that's something I should look into once I feel better! And I always love to hear when someone is excited about having a baby. I wish you all the luck in the world.
from vegasmommy :
11/10 - Pilates are a God send! I LOVE them. I don't go to a class, but I have the Windsor Pilates collection and I'm (almost) disciplined enough to use it everyday. I never thought about Mommy and Me exercise classes! I bet Zack would have a blast at one of those! Thanks for the idea!
from vegasmommy :
11/9 - LOL I'm well aware about half-priced Halloween candy day! We're big advocates for that as well! Though I think we went overboard on Reese's Pumpkins this year. BTW, this is Kissssy. I locked up and opened another diary. Long story...
from juli-anne :
Congrats on the condo selling. I bet that's alot of stress off your shoulders now. :)
from krugerpak007 :
Great news dear! Glad you are so excited and happy! Wishing you guys the best from here on!
from juli-anne :
I'm glad to hear about your job and your new license. It sounds absolutely grand!
from krugerpak007 :
Congratulations on your license and great to hear the new job is going well! xoxox
from avalonte :
Hi lovely. I haven't added you to my favourites yet, but I will! I'm useless, I know!! lol! But I just wanted you to know that you've spelled my name wrong on your buddylist, so it won't show up when I've updated. Anyway, take care. x
from avalonte :
Thank you so much for your lovely note!! x
from kissssy :
Thanks for the note! I agree... they just need to GROW UP. Sigh. When will this drama ever end???
from juli-anne :
That's awesome about your new house. Congratulations! I'm sure everything will work out with the selling of your current condo. :)
from feesticka :
I know -- you can come stay with us for a few months!! heheh. Good luck getting it sold. Have faith that it will all work out, I'm sure it will. And your place looks AMAZING right now as it is. The colors you picked are awesome, and your furniture really adds to the place. It will all work out!
from kissssy :
Glad the flight went well! :) Thanks for the bday wishes!
from juli-anne :
Seattle sounds like a blast! Have fun. I wish I could go there sometime.
from furiouspuppy :
Congrats on the house! :D
from furiouspuppy :
Hiya Anita! Your hair sounds nice! I can't wait to see some pics. Congrats on the new job! *hug*
from juli-anne :
I hope you post pics of your hair, it sounds really pretty. Have fun in Seattle!
from juli-anne :
Have a great weekend! It sure sounds like fun.
from krugerpak007 :
I know. It is so hard to think about the future and to try and fit it all in. But it all comes together! xoxo Kathy
from krugerpak007 :
I hope you guys have a good time at your parents party. 25 years. Gosh, next week is our third year anniversary. 25. That's amazing. Because three years has been hard enough.. :-))Have a good weekend! xoxo Kathy
from juli-anne :
I just added you to my favorites. You're awesome!
from juli-anne :
Thanks for the nice note you left me about my layout. I had it custom done by one of my friends, chikyblonde. I have every episode of Family Guy downloaded and I watch it all the time on Adult Swim or whenever other time it is on. It's awesome! Hot Topic has some great stickers, t-shirts, and other Family Guy things. I could spend a fortune there!
from krugerpak007 :
Thanks for your sweet comments. Good luck with the job search. And stop making me jealous about all your cool new clothes and small size! I refuse to buy new clothes. i have loads of gorgeous clothes in the cupboard which just don't bloody will fit-so frustrating. Thanks again, and have a good week! Hopefully the job of your dreams is just around the corner! xoxo Kathy
from krugerpak007 :
Gosh, a new home. Amazing!!! I wish you lots of luck with all of that! Thanks for your comment about my cute new shoes. I am wearing them today...I hope you feel better! xoxo Kathy
from feesticka :
I hope you feel better soon! :-)
from krugerpak007 :
Thanks also for your note! I am so impressed that you took it upon yourself to call them, and try help out. It's the type of thing I would think about but not act on. We need more people like you around...I hope it works out for him. xoxox Kathy
from kris-tee :
Thanks for the note!!! I really appreciate it!! Hopefully, I will start feeling better after I have this baby!!
from krugerpak007 :
I love your template. Welcome home..I am off to catch up on more of your entries. xoxo Kathy
from grandbeach :
Hey, hope your trip is going wonderfully. That's so awesome that Chad had that laser surgery done. I'm definetly strongly considering it now. Of course I'll most likely wait til I'm done school but hearing that other people had a good experience is totally making it that much more appealing.
from feesticka :
I'm glad to hear that you had a safe trip! I'm looking forward to hearing about all of your advnetures. I miss ya!
from grandbeach :
If you go to Ce Soir on Meadowood Dr (behind St. Vital) they will do a bra fitting there. They sell European bras (the 'irregular' sizes) so they can actually do it properly. They're really nice too. I never wore a proper bra until last year and trust me, it is so much better. I don't like the price tag though, but at least it's MUCH better support. Remind Chad that without proper support they'll get saggy among other things. Hope everything works out. And have fun on your trip!!
from kissssy :
Oh, I completely understand that sometimes, you're happy for the advice. I would be too, if I didn't always feel criticized because of it. They find out my son sleeps in our bed and I suddenly get the "tsk tsk tsk, I wouldn't do that if I were you." If they could all give me something useful like "try getting him to fall asleep like this and there's a good chance he'll sleep through the night." Then, by all means... I want to hear every tip and trick in the book. But, those who just tsk everything I do. Sigh. Lol. The whole burning calories while lactating is what turned me onto breastfeeding to begin with. The nutrition is an added perk. But, howww do you stick with it when you're up at 4 in the morning, your eyes halfway closed, exhausted... pumping away and thinking to yourself "moms who feed babies formula get sleep"??
from kissssy :
Thanks so much for the congrats! My husband and I couldn't be happier! Zackary has made our life absolutely perfect! :) I hope things are great that way!
from furiouspuppy :
Anita, you are 100% right when you said that a real friend would have stuck up for you. Heck! A DECENT person would have stood up for you. You're much better off not playing sports with people like that. You deserve the best. :) xoxo
from kris-tee :
Everytime someone leaves me a note today, I was just getting ready to note them! I can not believe how those girls are acting. Don't even worry about it, the team is not worth being on anyway if they are going to act like that. As for the friend that does not want to "get in the middle of it", yeah, I would be pissed at her too, I mean, you did nothing wrong, nothing for them to act that way and she should stand in your defense. Oh well, Don't worry about it. Some girls are just mean.
from grandbeach :
That is awful. I can't believe people were so rude to you. There must be someone from the ultimate league you can contact about this situation. Grr. It's making me mad just thinking about it. Good Luck!
from grandbeach :
My family's home backs onto the railway tracks. I can honestly say you won't notice it as much as you might think. If you were facing it, you'd notice it way more. Plus, having the railway tracks usually means a lower price for the lot and a bigger back yard (I've seen some with itty bitty backyards though). Just thought I'd tell ya, in case you were worried about the noise of the trains. :)
from kris-tee :
I told him that if I find out that ANY of those stupid girls are calling him again, he is getting a new cell #. It's a pain for him to get a new # because of all of his work contacts, so I am trying to be understanding to that. We are on the same cell phone plan, so I see the bill every month, I see all the calls he makes and everyone who calls him. I also randomly will pick his phone up to check and just see if anything looks funny. It never does and Brad is a very trustworthy person. He has never lied to me, yet! You are right, people do not respect marriage. Although, I have to say, since we have been married, not one girl has called, but that does not mean I would not put it past them. If they did call him, he would tell me though, he always has in the past. I just dont get these stupid girls, I have been right there when he will tell them, "Don't call me anymore". And sure enough, they would call like a week later.
from kris-tee :
Thanks for the note! Brad is fine about the weight gain! It's me that's not! He is really sweet about it all the time. I am the one always complaining, he gets upset and says, Kristy, stop being so selfesh, our baby is growing inside you! I need to stop worrying about it, I know, But when you get pregnant, you'll see. At six months, you'll be like, Oh, great, I've only gained Xamount of weight, then the Dr will say, Oh, that's great and all, but plan on gaining another 15lbs on top of that. UGhh....!!!
from kissssy :
Actually... it's the same sister. Sigh. She lost custody of her first 2 for being neglectful and irresponsible with them. But, since the youngest one's now almost 6, they wanted to give her another chance with this baby. To see if she's changed and developed the qualities it takes to be a mom. It just seems so unsafe with a high risk newborn. Glad I didn't come off as selfish to you. I've always gone out of my way to help her and I just can't now. My little family comes first. Oh and, sorry to hear about your burn... Lol, I think that gave me the first true laugh of the day! I've never actually tanned... I think I'm too white. I seem to just burn and then go right back to white within a week. So, while all those adorable girls are walking around in short shorts with tanned legs... I'm going to be paled and stretch marked. LOL oh great!
from kissssy :
I hope you're right. I hope I can last a few more weeks. I really need to, regardless of how anxious everyone's getting around here now. My husband feels cheated since he was so ready for Zackary's appearance lol. Thanks for the pick-me-up note!
from tia734gurl :
Yeah I was trying to add you to my favorites ,I will fix it lol.
from tia734gurl :
Hello Anita I was looking at diary's today and happen to come across yours I didnt want to leave without telling you I love your layout its really cool.
from kissssy :
Oh girl, I've been there. Ugh, I've been there. Not 4 weeks, only 2... but it was soooo painful. And, I didn't think my hubby cared either, but he did. And, I bet yours does too. Men just don't display emotions as well as women do. Hang in there! And have fun in Europe!
from btrflylove :
4/6 Hey, girl. Thanks so much for the note. Nice to know I'm missed. Sorry it's taking my slack self so long to get back. Things have been really busy. I'll probably have an entry tonight or in the morning. I just read like your last five entries that I missed. Wow, lots going on. I can understand how you are torn about your trip. I think I would have a really hard time with that too. I think it would be good for you though. It'll be a good chance for you to get out on an adventure before you start having a family. For me there would be no decision to make becasue I would NEVER be able to leave my kids that long. Sad, isn't it? I'd probably be able to leave J that long though. haha. And hurray for Chad doing so good on his diet. Mabye I need to try that one. I have such a hard time finding something that works for me. I like the idea of having a day off though. I think I'm gonna snatch up that survey and post it since I haven't really added any info about myself yet, and that's a pretty safe one. ;) That's the first one I've found in a while that I haven't wanted to edit a question or two out of. ha. Wow, this is turning out pretty long. Sorry. TTYL! Hugs! ~cm
from grandbeach :
That's so sweet that Chad is the first and only guy you've kissed.
from kissssy :
LOL oh you poor thing... I wonder how many women in the world would just love to be able to complain about that!
from feesticka :
I'm sure that Chad really hated that job! :-)
from btrflylove :
Hey, Anita. Thanks for the note. I'm glad you like the layout. I'm gonna keep it for a while. That picture is from last year, so yeah it's older, but not too old. I guess he just looks different because his hair is straightened, I don't know. I though it was cool though. THanks again. ttyl
from bigmonayho :
Thanks for the note! You made me feel a lot better about things!
from kissssy :
Oh, I have a secret for getting to sleep! One I can't use anymore since I'm preggo, but I've relied on it for years! Just take a dose of NyQuil and bam! Okay, that's not right. Actually, I took Tylenol Simply Sleep which is non addicting and knocks you out within 20 minutes. Only, you feel like a train hit you when you wake up in the morning... Good luck with that. I understand the whole snoring concept and not being able to sleep when someone is. My husband doesn't snore, but our cat whistles through his nose... And, that's something you just can't sleep through.
from btrflylove :
3/10 I know what you mean about the house. I do the exact same thing. It drives J crazy becasue he's a neat freak. I just don't have the time or the energy to keep things spotless 24/7. . .unless someone is coming over of course.;) I have trouble sleeping too, and I have 2 boys under the age of 4. You'd think that would be enough motivation for my body to pass out when I'm ready for it to, but nope. I hope you feel better. I know those headaches can be annoying wehn they are recurring like that.
from feesticka :
Hey Anita -- I'm coming over after work, so you better have your condo cleaned! Just kidding. I'm sure your definition of what "messy" means is a lot closer to clean than most people's are.
from bigmonayho :
I love your new hair! It looks really good on you. Don't listen to you mom!
from furiouspuppy :
ANITA; YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL. GET OVER IT!!!! hahahahaha! Sorry, don't mean to be rude about it but you should never worry about your appearance because you are gorgeous. xoxoxo Lori
from btrflylove :
I can't tell you how many times I've dialed my best friend's number or J's work number when I'm supposed to be calling home. I think they are trained into my fingers. I never call my home number, because I'm here all the time, so I sometimes even have to think for a second when someone asks for my number. lol I wouldn't worry about the ladies that you met at the store. You're good enough for chad, that's all you need to care about. Besides, they probably thought you were lovely, and you just don't know it. ;) You should definitely go out and have fun shopping though! =)
from adrastos :
I have to say - I envy your love for your husband. I think it is SOOO great - it makes me feel good to read..lol. Keep it up :).
from adrastos :
sweet diary :) - blue's my favorite colour...lol.
from btrflylove :
I'm new to dland, and I came across your page and I really like it. I've added you to my favs,if you don't mind. That's so sad about your co-worker. I think I agree with you though on the whole -decision to get in the car with someone who's been drinking- thing. I've had to make that decision in the past and it is hard to say "I'm not getting in the car with you!" ~cm
from cassidialess :
Glad you like the dolls. Thanks : )
from anglewings :
Hi, out and about, came on to your diary. Have to say love the lay out. Latezzz
from furiouspuppy :
Love the new template! Great job!
from furiouspuppy :
Hi Anita! Thanks for adding me to your favourites....I'm adding you as well. Hope you have fun on this site and of course I will keep in touch with you while I am away. xoxoxxo Lori

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