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messages to betchy:
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from ameliorating :
Hey!! You are still alive!! I'm on facebook too, so if you want to let me know how to find you, I'd love to catch up! Hope you have been well, miss seeing you update! *hugs* Jen
from smashthegas :
I don't mind at all, thanks for adding me. I read your 101... ya still work at the jobcentre? LOL
from drbigbeef :
Thanks for the note and the add. I'd love to hear the story in question, so drop me an email and I'll email you back with a cast of characters drbigbeef@yahoo.com
from bitterwineuk :
I'm in Colchester. So just on the Essex/Suffolk border near the East Coast. :)
from stepfordtart :
Hey! Thanks for adding me! I see we have friends-in-common! What excellent taste we have. Very glad to hear that you have been amused by the ramblings of a middle-aged, middle-class, muddle-head! Please do leave comments if you should happen to stop by - one stalker's enough for any girl! Haha. s x
from bitterwineuk :
hehehe, anything to do with Friday Night Project is pure class. I love that show. It's my tv highlight of the week. *sadly* :) Was also good that night Rupert Everitt was on. Never fails to raise a smile. x
from bitterwineuk :
hiya Betchy, thank you for your message, I have just emailed you, should be easy to spot as my email address is the same as my diaryland name. Thanks for your interest, Becca.
from ameliorating :
I'm still here! I've been meaning to leave you a note, but then it gets crazy and all is lost :) Glad to see you back, been missing you girly. Hope you are able to update more.. life is not the same without a tale from Betchy! Good to hear that everything seems to be going ok for you. *hugs* Jen
from askblaze :
Your question shall be answered!
from pattymelt :
you're tagged! read me!
from amb1valent-k :
OH yes.You may have a sulky French manager, but you're still an English team. Ah but - don't think I could bring myself to support Middlesbrough in the UEFA final - one step TOO far!
from amb1valent-k :
Now then Betchy! I don't think I said anything about size! Big and curved works too. [And what's to be done about your boy Wenger - what a temper he's getting!]
from chakra-chick :
Thanks for the comment love---really appreciate it tons. I'm glad you having so much Sex---think I need me some of that too! Robbie was fantastic! He's so charismatic and sexy...pity he kept his shirt on all the time, though! I'm sorry that you werent able to get tickets to see him...would have been awsome! Enjoy the sex and have a good weekend. ~smooches~
from amb1valent-k :
I think I'm too old for 'sexy man'! Couple of spontaneous hugs though - I was honoured!
from smedindy :
Ah, got your comment and saw the question at Becks. Well, I have the British DVDs and like them, but when I got them our house was in turmoil and I didn't have a chance to really delve into them but I saw the brilliance in what I did see. I TiVo the American version and think it's hi-larious. So they andwer is "yes". Come by the site more often! I don't bite! Take care and thanks again!
from ameliorating :
Happy Valentine's Day!! Miss you updating! Hope you are doing great, can't wait to hear whats going on in your life!
from amb1valent-k :
WOW!
from ameliorating :
Hey, its Jen (formerly Tigerlily21). I've moved to a new diary and just wanted to let you know! If you could please take Tigerlily off your buddy list, I would really appreciate it! Thanks!
from baoshi :
Hello! Thanks for your message : ) By the way, diablogem was my old diary - I'm now here - you can have the keys to the old diary if you want, just leave me a note :) Merry Christmas! *hugs* gem xx
from ehays :
Merry Christmas, and it's lovely to see you back! Hugs!
from princesse69 :
Glad you're back. Sorry to hear you've not been well. Hope you have a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year darlin xxxx
from tigerlily21 :
Happy Holidays!! Hope everything is ok and that you have a very Merry Christmas!!
from princesse69 :
Betchy where r u? Missing u! (((Hug)))
from princesse69 :
Betchy where r u? Missing u! (((Hug)))
from zencelt :
Nothing is worth being treated like a germ. Good for you demanding respect and kindness. Especially when you totally rock, like you do.
from zencelt :
Damn girl! You win the prize for crappiest start of the day ever! LOL! No money for tampons...
from beckers-j :
Update, update, update! And gimme your password! Sheesh. What the rest of that e-mail address? @what? :P Miss ya!
from arc-angel666 :
Hi Honeybunny: Are you ever coming back?
from heelandlass :
Hurry up and update!!!! Surely you've been able to pop into an internet cafe in all this time?!?! I want facts, figures, ideas of what's going on with you. Have you kept your weight off (congratulations with that by the way), who've you bee humping these days? I want all the news. Ah to hell with it - I'm just going to email you!!!
from shirley-it :
hey why don't you update anymore, is life ok?
from vickithecute :
I did and I absolutely LURVED it!! I wrote about it too. I don't know whether you can read diaries but if you want to read what I had to say about Georgia look at my entries from 7/14, 7/15 and 7/17. Love ya, hon!
from onewetleg :
betch, drop me an email. we need to talk.
from sislynn :
Where you at, girl?
from thedevlyn :
psst
from shirley-it :
hi! oh shit becky, we haven't talked in ages. i'm going to start visiting the Big Apple for a month about a week later. that's a little too scaringly exciting.
from hissandtell :
Darling, where are you? Please drop me a note when you return. I've removed you - TEMPORARILY, I swear - from my list so I can read other people until you return to us. I love you! R xxx
from third-person :
Hey, just wanted to say that I checked out your journal and enjoyed it very muchly. I;d love for you to pop over and check out mine, but if you do, make sure you start with the intro! :)
from acornotravez :
Hey - I had to lock up for a bit, email me at acornotravez at diaryland.com for a password, if you want. :)
from chakra-chick :
I'm so terrible...I never thanked you for the mention in your entry the other day- so thank you so much for that! I'm glad that you had such a great weekend...feeling like 'good'ol Becky' yet? Sure sounds like it... ~smooches~
from lumenatrix :
Hey there, Thanks for the note! I totally understand when you can't reply to comments. Hell, you left me a note, what, two weeks ago? and I'm just now answering that! :-)
from sapphyr :
I'm sorry about your beloved pet. All of my good vibes are coming your way! ~Sapphyr
from tigerlily21 :
Waaaa! I'm having a betchy withdrawl. Every time, every freakin time I go to read your diary someone walks by my desk and I have to close it.. I'm so behind :( I still love ya thou..and hope that I can catch up sometime soon.. (and as much as I love your titles..I have to close it cause it says ass..lol..and ppl are tards around here). Much love to ya..hope everything is going ok. *hugs* Jen
from heelandlass :
Mm. I think you need to get some space from this situation Betch. There's no point re-hashing the past, the only person that got your sister sick was your sister, she's only got herself to blame and if your other sister hasn't got the common sense to take a lesson from that then she's got a lot of growing up to do. It sounds like your sister (is Lucy the one who came down recently?) is trying to push boundaries with everyone. She probably thinks she's really cool that she's grown up enough to visit her elder sister on her own, go out to pubs and clubs and be really friendly with her big sis's friends AND had one of them really fancy her and all that. She probably thinks she's really grown up because she's into drugs while her big sister isn't and she probably thinks that you've got a strange attitude to drugs because you're not into them. Don't forget she's a teenager still Becky and teenagers are, quite frankly, awful. In every sense of the word. She is going to suit herself one way or the other. Maybe you should write her a letter and tell her that you know and tell her that you're disappointed that she felt she could rub it in your face like that, under your roof when she knows how you feel and all that kind of thing and then tell her that you're no longer going to make empty threats about telling your dad, but you're not going to condone her behaviour either, especially under your own roof. I do think that she needs to know that you're still there for her if she needs you. To be honest Betchy, this is one of those situations where you're damned if you do and you're damned if you don't. Either way, down the line you'll wonder what would have happened if you made the other decision. Maybe write the letter and leave it for a while. If they're pissing you off as much as they seem to be, then having a bit of distance is no harm.
from zencelt :
I seem to have an opinion on everything today... Your sister is lying to you because the drugs are manipulating her brain, and she isn't the same person you grew up with. People who do heavy amts of drugs lie, cheat, go up and down rapidly, and lose control. Do whatever you need to do in order not to look back ten years from now and feel guilty with regret. Look what happened to sister number one. The vacant one with seizures. Your Dad is the one who is responsible for them, not you. Tell him if you think he would do something positive about it. Meanwhile - many hugs and tons of encouragement.
from heelandlass :
Hah, I knew you'd ask me if I didn't leave you a comment on that subject! I think I added my own 10p worth after you'd started writing your next entry - so if you click back into yesterday's entry you'll see. I'm playing devil's advocate though (you know me!). You doing okay sausage? xxx
from onewetleg :
i am clever, aren't i? now here it is five am and i just woke up and i'm trying to figure out a way i can go to work even earlier! no, no! i'm going to relax and watch early morning tv. yay for cartoons! hugs betchy!
from chakra-chick :
Betchy luv- I'm so sorry that you have a dilemma on your hands. I really don't know what you should do, seeing that I have never been in that sort of situation. All I can say is; do what you think is right. It's a bit tricky considering that it is your sister - you gotta think with both your heart and your head. Good Luck sweetie! ~smooches~
from catz-eyes :
yahiya cherub :) YAY! am so pleased you've accepted the tag! do the meme when you're ready sweetpea - just remember, you have to include ALL the professions on the list, select 5 as your own choices to write about, then tag 2 of your pals. can't wait to see what you choose! ;) ***HUGGLES*** =^..^=
from thedevlyn :
Thanks for the happy happy happy birthday note.
from ska-t :
there is no doubt that you ARE the vagabond ambassador of the AFC. i'm going to take away some the pain of no footie for two months by catching up with your writing. and why did the phrase "bend it like betchy" just pop up in my head?
from jumblygiant :
I can't believe you added me to your buddy list! (hello inferiority complex! ha) Not to be too ass kissy, but you kick ass! You are one of the most honest people I have read AND you keep me laughing all the time. thanks. xoxo
from beckers-j :
Thanks for your kind comment. :) Yeah, I actually tried to WRITE something for a change. It's been a while...
from zencelt :
You are a woman after my own heart! Huge arse and all!
from hissandtell :
Was arc-angel666 any good in my dream? Doll, he was bloody SENSATIONAL. Now I just have to work out a way to take him for a test run in the flesh - and preferably while I'm awake. Love, R xxx
from yeahimadork :
I don't know how I have missed your diary all this time, because you are fantastic. I am going to be adding you to my favorites quickly. :)
from ska-t :
yes, betchy... the Arsenal22960 has everything to do with Highbury (or should i look forward to Ashburton Grove?). i've got a friend transplanted from Guildford who brought the infection with him... and i've been affected since Tony Adams was there. don't know how on earth you found me, but i'm glad you did. the next time you go 'round the pub for an Old Speckled Hen, think of me!
from beckers-j :
Oh, I keep forgetting to post this when I leave you notes - we DO have the same name! Hot diggity!
from beckers-j :
Hmmmm, so perhaps the religious are more successful in overcoming alcoholism? Interesting. Well, I guess I'd better not become an alcoholic. :)
from heelandlass :
Oooh I flipping love Thatchers zoiiiiiiider. I am pretty sure that's what I was flinging down my throat all day Saturday. Y-U-M.
from beckers-j :
Yes, isn't my willpower just astounding? Unless we're talking about fattening goodies, that is. :)
from poopiebitch :
Quite right, why were we not consulted when all the deciding of work schedules was going on? Where were we, anyway? Probably getting drunk.
from meine-kleine :
I just may, but not now! I am on lunch. Work. Yeuck.
from beckers-j :
Hey, you're pretty groovy yourself, girly. :) Thanks for adding me to your faves! I'll definitely check your diary out as well - when I'm not slacking at my office in the city where my boss could walk by at any moment (like now) and witness the slacking, that is. :)
from vickithecute :
My stupid library doesn't have it yet. And yes, I am pouting. It's been out for two weeks now. What's the f'n problem?!?! Poop.
from sapphyr :
GREETINGS! Thanks for the note! Sorry that I did not complete the survey-I was interrupted. Darn virus scan- at any rate, I look forward to reading your journal! ~Sapphyr
from aidawrites :
Thanks for your note, it actually made me feel better about the whole sex with a perfect stranger thing. I shouldnt feel so guilty about it like you said. I need to be more modern ;) Thanks!
from nikita84 :
Thank you sweetie! It's good to be back! I won't be able to be around here much but I'll do my best! Hope to hear from you soon again! Love, N.
from catz-eyes :
hiya cherub :) thanks for the comment you left. but hey - don't stress! don't expect people to leave comments/notes every time they pop by, so its totally cool, ok? am just sorry you have problems loading my page :( i've experienced that with some sites myself. its way annoying. justone of the many joys that is Dland, eh? ***HUGGLES*** thank you gorgeous! love & other indoor sports =^..^= xox's
from aidawrites :
I guess it was awkward because we arent officially dating and it was our first time sleeping together. and i mean sleeping, not sex :) i dunno, it just felt strange, he should have hugged me or something, but i was all like, okay, i gotta go to work.
from heelandlass :
Ooh, I feel like a mean and nasty monster lady now. As soon as I hit OK I wanted to take it back. I just want you to see the good in you and how that doesn't boil down to men. I know exactly what you mean about having that chat to yourself and I truly mean what I say about being in that boat myself when I was younger, I really was. It's horrible when you see your friends getting things that you want (although would you really want that matt/andy situation? they both sound like muppets too!) and unfortunately, once you lose loads of weight you still feel like the fat person you were before. I went down to a size 10 when I was about 20, I managed it by eating a lettuce sandwich a day and a wrap of speed. I was so skinny, skinnier than all my friends who were total babes and when I look at photos from then my eyes look dead. I'm completely porky now and really wish I could lose some weight but it's taken me till the age of 30 to do it for the right reasons. I'm on a bit of a healthy eating kick at the moment - so if you want to do something about feeling fat, why don't we both try it together? I'm not going to weigh myself because that is evil, but I've got a pair of trousers I'm desperate to get into so I'm going to aim for that. Email me if you fancy it - we can give each other encouragement. ayeheelandlass@yahoo.co.uk. I am really sorry I made you teary. I should've done it in a bit of a softer way, sometimes though it's the bolt between the eyes that suddenly makes you see everything clearly. Thanks for not thinking I'm some kind of betchy-basher! xxx
from heelandlass :
Betch, I'm only going to say this one time because it's hard to hear, but I'm going to say it anyway - re: 'slap me please, I'm a minger' entry. You are always always going to end up feeling like this if you continue to see your ability to fuck guys as the only thing you've got going for you. NEWSFLASH!! If you let guys fuck you over then they will fuck you over. This guy silver fox sounds like the absolute King of the fuckwits you write about. He has an addiction to alcohol. He lives in a dry house. What a catch! He probably feels so fucking empowered by the fact that he has hurt you because that's about all he's got left to control. And instead of thinking 'right, well that was a bit of a mistake, he's quite obviously delusional and a bit odd and I'm going to stay away from him because, phew, it's actually a lucky escape', you think 'is it because I am fat? Am I no longer good at giving blow jobs? what's wrong with me'? You should be asking what's wrong with HIM! Being fat, thin, ugly, gorgeous, blonde, brown, asian, christian, jewish, german, french or bloody Thai - no matter what you look like men will fuck about with you for as long as you let them. Especially guys like the ones you go for - they see a gorgeous, funny, horny girl who will let them do things to her and they will treat you the way that they see YOU treat YOU. Which, I'm afraid to say, isn't with much care. I'm not writing this as an attack on you - I'm writing this because I used to be exactly the same. Your lack of self confidence/esteem is getting you in a horrible rut Becky. You don't think you're worth much so you go for guys who score even lower on your scale than you do because it won't be a challenge and you won't get hurt and then when they disrespect you it's 500 times harder to take because they're complete fucking no marks, totally ugly, completely useless and 8 out of 10 times crap in bed. You've not gained a thing throughout the shagging (except an orgasm here or there and we all know we can do that ourselves!) and in return you've knocked another little bit out of your self esteem. You're in a cycle Becky and only you can break it. I know you're feeling low and I'm sorry that you are. Invest some decent time in yourself - these muppets of blokes you fuck for fun is backfiring - it's not fun and it's not much of a fuck either. You're the only one that can make you feel good about yourself, so start doing something about it instead of relying on these fucking eejits to do it for you. Do you really think you'd have all these people reading you if the only thing you've got going for you is your ability to give a guy an orgasm? As far as I'm aware you've not had sex with any of us and we still love you. Remember things like that rather than how much flesh is on your belly the next time you're feeling down. And STOP fucking alchies and god knows what else. Just stop it. The better respect you have for yourself, the better you'll be respected by others. It's true. And I'm sorry if I've come on so strong but you really have got to start seeing this situation for what it is. You're amazing. Start spending time with people who make you feel that way. Would you let your best friends treat you the way you let men treat you? No of course not, you tell them where to go and when as soon as they cross you - look at how you dealt with the situation with Fent. Do the same with these losers you've sharing your very gorgeous body with. You are giving them a gift when you sleep with them and they're making you feel bad for it. So stop giving the presents! Does that make sense? Please don't hate me for this message. I am not angry at you, I'm angry at these fuckers who are treating you like this. But seeing as stupid men are stupid men, you've got to take some responsibility for it. Please? xxx
from chakra-chick :
Hi sweetie. I'm just a tad bit busy at work at the moment, so as soon as I get some free time, I will send you a nice, long e-mail telling you of my crazy life. Have a lovely day sweetie...
from starke- :
I just wanted to let you know you shouldn't waste your limited time checking out my diary, because I'm sure it's not your cup of tea. But I love yours (have spent the last week or two reading the whole thing), so it's quite all righ! I tried to fill out your survey but it said I had already voted. :(
from chakra-chick :
Hi Betchy! Been a while since I contacted you - I apologise for that, but if you could read my journal, you would understand why...my life has turned out to be one f&%ked up soap-opera! Anyways, just wanted to let you know that I'm really glad your Mom is going to be OK. Believe you me, I'm the last person you want to be gettimg relationship advice from! Good Luck with the Gaz situation. ~smooches~
from aidawrites :
Thanks for the good luck wishes! I have to address something with you. You havent seen Requiem for a Dream and you havent seen Garden State?! Okay, stop what you are doing right NOW and go rent them! I have them both on DVD and they are just amazing movies. Very different, very deep, you would like them :)
from lostmystic76 :
Hmmmmm....good question there. To be perfectly honest, once a guy starts acting like that, it's over with me. I've gotten to the point where I want to be wanted and worshipped....if he can't hang early in the relationship and give me the attention I need, then fook him. Not that I'm a complete attention whore bitch - lol - but I just wanted someone who was going to be addicted to me as much as I was to them. Somehow I got lucky when Jaime found me. It's been 3 months now, and it feels like we just met....granted the long distance thing puts a damper on our relationship sometimes, but that will be changing in the next month. You are an amazing person! If a man can't see that, then he doesn't deserve you! Try bangme.net with a profile too....that's where I met Jaime - an NO - it's NOT a sex site - hahahahahaha!
from turtlemomma :
I was an athiest too up until about a month ago when I began to have my "breakdown". I've started to pray, or make attempts at praying... I hope I'm doing it right :) But anyway, what I wanted to say was both you and your mother are in my thougths and prayers. I hope all turns out ok with the lump. ~hugs~
from heelandlass :
God, that show was mental eh? I know what you mean about Pete Doherty, although I don't see it myself. I thought it was really funny when they were all obviously completely fucked and that film maker guy was going 'you're more beautiful than Kurt Cobain' and was singing 'you're gorgeous, we'd do anything for you' and the fucked ones were still looking at him going 'eh, right. You're a wanker!'. Jesus, he was freaky. I've met loads of people like that, they think they're really hip and are just WAY off the mark. He un-nerved me. I love the libertines. I wish they'd get back together but there's no way they'd ever be able to now, it would just be a total circus. And as for the Scottish guy - give him some space and see what he does, all men are weird, you should know that by now. As for your mum. Fingers crossed x 1 million. Sending all the positive vibes I can muster from north of the border. xxx p.s - thanks for calling me your wee lass. that made me smile xx
from heelandlass :
Well, that's a loaded question if ever I heard one! What did you say to him? I have to say, anything I said now would be completely sweeping and random. So, some Scottish men have weird tempers and take things personally and some men have a problem about people hating them. That's all I can say. I (fortunately) don't associate with men with tempers like that, but they're out there. Tell me, tell me, tell me...
from yelayna :
Hope your mum is ok, and your cat comes back... am thinking of you. xxx
from vickithecute :
June 1st here in the states, but it should be out already - according to UK Amazon it come out May 3rd, you lucky lucky girl.
from chakra-chick :
Oi! Men and their darn EGOS! Why do they always have to twist everything around?! Ah well, at least you had a fab time with your sister AND you were off from work! I'm so sorry about your kitty - hope he comes home soon. Have a fantastic week further sweetie... ~smooches~
from heelandlass :
Ah, love you too sweets. I felt a bit exposed after writing that entry, every time I go to write something new I get the shivers and shut my computer down. I'm not one for going for the big personal entries as you know. Anyway - good to have you back girlie. And don't you know, nosebleeds are a sign of too much shagging. hahaha. Joshing. Hope you're okay xxx
from comma-abuse :
SIGN ME UP!
from dooki :
Yes, those are pictures of me. You can see more on my online photo album. http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/bfstone13/my_photos
from soverycherry :
You might not have McGriddles or cheeseburger pizza, but you guys had Cadbury Egg McFlurries! I wanted one SO BAD when I found that out. Lucky!
from liesal1979 :
OH Fento you are a card! I will let you know whats going on
from thedevlyn :
you are sooooooooooooooooooo lucky. and i never got an answer to my questions i left for you ages ago... maybe the comments thing was screwed up or something.
from heelandlass :
I think you've hit the nail on the head with that one Betch. You don't think you're worth anything better than what you go for and to be frank, a lot of these guys don't seem very respectful of you. It's like you've resigned yourself to the fact that this is all you deserve, you deserve to be treated as a one night stand and so you'll have one night stands and convince yourself that it's in your control. If I'm off mark, tell me and I'll shut the hell up! But you did ask! I'm sorry but it's just that you remind me SO much of me and that's what I did. It was easier to deal with than being lonely and seeing that other people had great relationships whilst I felt like a total reject. Maybe you just need to enjoy your life, forget about the losers and as soon as you start feeling respect and love for yourself then the good guys will come. Mallen sounds like a prat. And now you've got that Wizz sniffing round, who's just sounds like a saddo who's really unhappy and is clinging onto what he had with you because he can't face that his life isn't making him happy. That's his problem, he made his decision and you're worth much more than that. If you're going to be having sex, at least have sex with people who make you feel good about yourself afterwards, that's the whole point isn't it? It's supposed to be a pleasant thing. And, there's nothing wrong with liking guys who aren't conventionally good looking or whatever, in fact it's commendable that you're not a shallow person but if you start fishing in the nicer pond, you'll get better tasting fish. Come on girl, give yourself a shake! Start taking the advice you've been giving your best mates all these years. I know you don't have email at home but email me anytime you want: ayeheelandlass@yahoo.co.uk. Have a great time this weekend. Don't do anything I wouldn't do! (i.e no bum sex! ahahahah) xxx
from soverycherry :
Ha, that is funny. I saw it in the theatre and I was pregnant, shoveling back chocolates like there was no tomorrow. I didn't care. And seriously, I said this at the time but even if they told me that every time a McGriddle was made, there was a kitten somewhere in the world being kicked, I'd still eat them. Because they are DELICIOUS. It is all about moderation. And what did you think about the Big Mac guy?! What a freak!
from liesal1979 :
BONJ, Going out huh! I am supposed to be going out with Vik for Jennys birthdaym but not sure what is going on there so i very well may be pursuaded to partake in a few drinking sessions!! x
from heelandlass :
I think you're just going after the WRONG men. Every man you talk about shagging you talk about how they're bogging or stupid or boring or strange or minging. It doesn't sound like you actually like them that much at all. Maybe you like the idea of liking someone more than you actually like those blokes? Maybe go for someone you don't find hideous, humorless and strange? Mind you, what do I know? I'm an old married drunk hag! And you're right, I completely meant to add 'Hurrah Betch is back with advice about supermarkets'. Well reminded! Enjoy your time off, you're ALWAYS off. Jealous x
from liesal1979 :
Hey bird, I think its coz ........ No, if i knew then i wouldn't be single either
from heelandlass :
Cheeseburger Pizza!?!? What's the world coming to Bex? Sheesh. I wanted to thank you for your very informative opinions of all things supermarkety. You are indeed a knowledgable lass. You could choose it as your specialist subject on mastermind. Along with boozing and making up words (mallen for example). I would choose camping, boozing (we could be a tag team) and things to remember not to do whilst hungover (i.e go to the fecking dentist). On the subject of supermarkets though, we have decided that inde shopping is too expensive and too time consuming and so alas and alack, we're probably going to go back to tescos. boo. Or maybe we'll pretend to be posh and go to sainsbo's. We're all doomed. Maybe I need to get a vegetable patch and a bread machine and go all 'the good life'. Oh look! I'm rambling. So unlike me. xxx p.s missed you too ya ho!
from soverycherry :
No cheeseburger pizza?! The horrors! It is DELICIOUS. It has several different kinds of cheese, sausage (I guess that would be the "burger" part) - Actually, if you go here: http://public.dominos.com/dominos_pizza/home.nsf/vwContentByKey/W256MK28681DENNEN that shows the "new" Domino's cheeseburger pizza. I've never had theirs, but one of our local pizza joints, Chico & Billy's, makes a FANTASTIC cheeseburger pizza. Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. Hungry.
from soverycherry :
Ooh, I love cold pizza too! What's your favorite kind of pizza? I love standard pepperoni, but my favorite currently is cheeseburger pizza! Two awesome foods in one!
from liesal1979 :
you freak ass
from acornotravez :
On the cross-eyed cat: we love him so much! He's such a sweetie. Poor thing - :)
from aliboomboom :
Yes, it's the same damn girl. I'm about to lose my mind with her. What am I supposed to do? I don't want to look like an idiot and if I say something to her and she is talking to him then she could make me look like a real asshole. I'm no the phone with her right now, I haven't mentioned it. I don't know what good it would do at this point. And no, we totally hooked up and I haven't had a text or a call or a IM or anything. Awesome. I just had lunch with Jeff, the married one, he's cute. I just want B though.
from liesal1979 :
why is he mad with her
from liesal1979 :
hey chicken....Roll on the weekend...MAY DAY!! lol lemon and ice, ice and lemon, just ice, or just lemon!!!! LOL xxx mwah
from shirley-it :
hey becs... i miss ya bitch!! <3 i'm fine.. i'm now workin' to earn money to get my ass to america.. yo america, how come you're so expensive? i lub you bitch. update!!!
from aliboomboom :
I'm glad that you like the new template. Kate did a wonderful job. I love it. I think this one will be around for a while, maybe forever? Unless I get Kate to make me another one, she's great. I love Marilyn as well. I had black and white pictures of her, Elvis, and James Dean all over my bedroom when I was in college. Anyways I went over to B's a week and a half ago, we watched 80s movies and made out. Then I spent the night and left the next day and haven't heard from him since. I don't know why. I found out yesterday that "my best friend" has an email correspondence with him. Last time she told him we had stopped talking so there is no telling what shes' telling him this time. I think I hate her.
from aliboomboom :
Where have you been? Email me at alexia_gillingwater@yahoo.com and I'll give you the username/password.
from liesal1979 :
So...At this wedding that you are gonna have....are you gonna have anyone sing??? Anyone at all??? any song??? Already pre-arranged??? Nope..??? coz you didn't meantion ot!!!!! lol
from liesal1979 :
HEY BIRD! Welcome back to the working land!!
from lostmystic76 :
Well it's soooo nice to have you back! Glad to hear you're feeling better...sounds like it was pretty rough there for a while. As for the shagging above, I totally empathize with you. I had elephants above me - bah! Now I will only live on the top floor....I call it....revenge! Muwahahaha!
from catz-eyes :
hiay cherub :) just a wee note to say: MISS YOU! hope all is well with you and yours sweetpea ***HUGGLES love & kindness always xox's =^..^=
from soverycherry :
Betchy, come back from wherever you have gone off to! I miss you!
from chakra-chick :
Where are you lost? Everything Ok?
from heelandlass :
Hey you - hurry up and update!
from acornotravez :
Are you really jealous? Isn't he from your land? I love you, Betchy, for the reals.
from lostmystic76 :
Ha! That was great! Good lord a lot went on. Yes why is it everytime you get near the glorious moment someone either knocks on the door or calls? LMAO!
from shirley-it :
here's my question becs!!! HOW IS YOUR FIRST DILDO LIKE? AND WHAT DID YOU FEEL AFTER GETTING IT? yay!
from drmz-of-him :
Thanks, luv
from aliboomboom :
I'm so utterly stupid over this boy that I don't know what to do. I'm trying not to want too much from him. I'm trying to be okay with getting calls or IMs when I get them and being okay when I don't get them as well but I don't know that I am. I just got so attached to hearing his voice every single day. Last night he begged me to come over and cuddle. It was 9:30 when he asked and I was already in pajamas and it's an hour to his house. I was so tempted though. I said we should do it tonight but his roomate is going to be home tonight and he is not in to having people over when he's there. I'm sure it'll be okay eventually but not right away, ya know? He said he didn't want to deal with all the annoying questions that Dean would ask. My sister is out of town next weekend though so I am giong to stay at her condo and he and I are going to do sometihng. I just hope I get to see him before then. It's so much easier to make someone fall for you if you have close contact.
from soverycherry :
Hi! I am getting your comments; it's doing the same thing to me on some people's diaries, it's weird. All I do is hit refresh when I'm on the comments page and then it usually shows up. I'm really enjoying your answers, by the way! Oh, what's a stone? As in, the measurement? Congrats on the weight loss!
from aliboomboom :
I guess I'll just let it go. I think I'm becoming a pushover in my old age. And I'm glad that Brandon told me about it. I feel like it bothered him the same way that it bothered me. I'm trying not to get my hopes up about him but I'm crazy about him and I don't know how to stop.
from avalonte :
I was only kidding! I know you don't have much time for that. But I hope you'll understand that I don't have much time either. So I'll stick to leaving you comments, rather than notes! So if I leave you a comment that seems to have nothing to do with the entry, that's why! Glad you liked the questions. Sorry they weren't very inspired. We noticed you're loving the questions though! Self-obsessed?? You?? Never!!!! Lol!!
from acornotravez :
Hey, yeah we went to see Paul O. - it was a pretty big deal, there was a TON of people. Wade's a big fan of DJ stuff, so I mainly went for him, and then another friend of ours was going, too. I just ended up dancing my ass off the whole time, and he spun until 3 a.m. I don't know if it's the exact same scene as where you are, but it was pretty fuckin' chill.
from aliboomboom :
The problem is I don't know what to say. I was mad yesterday but I didn't act like it for some reason and she's guilty about something because she's acting weird. I just don't understand why she couldn't ask me for his email address or why she couldn't ask if it was okay for her to email him. And then her saying "I feel weird emailing you now that you and Ali have stopped talking" seems like a leading question, don't you think? Like leaving him room to say sometihng bad bout me or say he doesn't care or what not. What do I say?
from dooki :
I love Borat and the German Model. I was specifically talking about the Ali G character. And again, there are times when I think it's funny, like when he was pitching advertising ideas for his ice cream cone handle. I'm talking about a particular thing that he does that makes me uncomfortable. I think he's very funny and his show would be funnier if he didn't make jokes at the expense of others. Borat "My...penis is beeg...like can of pyepsi." I love Borat.
from comma-abuse :
Ohh, but Betchy. He agreed to! Don't ruin my fun. Plus, I mean, he's Irish! That has to count for something? (Don't argue with me. I know it's flimsy.)
from avalonte :
Delete some of your fucking notes girly!!! Your notes page takes for bloody ever to load!!!!
from avalonte :
And do you realise that your comment for me on your profile still says you want to meet me?!
from avalonte :
Three questions.... 1. Do you have a life's ambition? Fantasy or realistic, or both? 2. If a genie gave you just one wish, what would it be? And it can't be to have more wishes!! 3. Have you ever been in genuine fear for your life? If so, details please! If not, what's the closest you've been? Sorry the questions aren't very exciting! I have no imagination!! And I also know too much about you to think of new things!! xxx
from chakra-chick :
Hi luv! I have been meaning to leave you comments so many times, but haloscan seems to be down on my PC here! I'm sorry, but I can't think of any questions for you, but I sure am enjoying the responses to the ones you have recieved. Take care sweetie! ~smooches~
from comma-abuse :
Yes, Betch. A kilt.
from amb1valent-k :
Now then.. you're not going to get me back with what happened at St James today are you?
from aidawrites :
I realized I had misunderstood it as soon as I reread it, lol, silly me. So yeah, I just love The Way We Were, its in the top 3 best chick flicks of all time. I swear I am soooo Barbara Streisand’s character. Isn’t Hubble painfully beautiful? Oh, I just love that movie.
from fairygodmum :
Lifes a Beach.. and then you swim with man eating sharks. Test the waters before you dive in.. Daggnabbit... I swim like a rock, better find a new hobby.. like uhhh...Fishing for Men! Oh sowwy that's not a question. Lub ya gurl, Bebe da FairyGodMum
from liesal1979 :
i don't have any questions for you
from stillsingle :
I'm locked - username is stillsingle; password is sunshine.
from loner-blues :
I'm loathe to be so crude, especially when I don't even know you (damn it Jay :-D) but it's um -- camel semen. I hope you weren't eating while reading this. Sorry. -cat
from blazingstar :
Hey, just stumbled across your diary and I love it! Plus, you're British! I knew something was up when I noticed "mum" and "colour" and "mate". Then I saw the hilarious translations page. So excellent!
from chakra-chick :
Hi luv! Thank you so much for your note - it means the world to me that you still keep in touch even though you can't read about me! Absolutly nothing exciting to report on - same 'ol same 'ol. Hope you are well- keep those entries coming! ~smooches~
from liesal1979 :
Hey chicken. keep your head high, Its a good compliment that you are the person people turn to in times of trouble. and i can be the person you turn to if you need me, YOu know where i live and it is santuary, I am away one day next week and you can always stay at mine if it all gets too much!! Love ya loads and always. Lisa xxxxxxxxxx
from avalonte :
Are you still alive?
from heelandlass :
Dancing like tales of the unexpected takes A LOT of work and practice. And a shed load of vodka too. Do you remember the opening sequence of tales of the unexpected? The lady dancing/writhing around with her arms in the air while flames licked away in front of her? That's what I was doing. Funny? Yes. Sexy? Definitely. Ahem. Not.
from meganwaits :
Thats quite a playlist and lots of great songs on that list too.
from acornotravez :
I still have my xmas lights on the balcony. They are blue, so they don't look really xmas-y, but technically they are xmas-y because I put them up for xmas. So, don't feel bad if you still have yours up, man.
from amb1valent-k :
hey Betchy - what was the betting on Newcastle still being in Europe after your Gooners?!! For a second year in a row!!
from liesal1979 :
Well Liesal is my nickname and i was born in 1979!!LOL U ok Chicken???
from heelandlass :
Hiya! Apart from the twats, the gig was really good. If you get the chance to see him you should cos he's got great stage presence. The thing is I don't think he made enough of good tunes and made too much of the tunes I don't think need it (fit but you know it for example). However, Blinded by teh Lights and We Become Heroes were done much better than I was expecting and so that really pleased me. But next time, I'm going to invite him to play at my house so that I can choose who is in the crowd with me!
from gumphood :
dude. you should really get a bike.
from aliboomboom :
Well I don't know if I have a nice voice or not. Some people say I sound like a valley girl and others say I sound like a southern belle. I hope you know what those two stereotypes are. And I don't have some major flaw, I am just afraid it won't be there for one of us or both of us and I really want it to be because I'm crazy about him. Besides he told me to wear jeans and a t shirt and a ponytail because we were just giong to watch a movie. I can't just waer that. I have no clue what to wear for a movie date with him and his roomate.
from aliboomboom :
Thanks for the compliments on Griffin. As for Brandon, I don't know. I'm afraid he won't be attracted to me.
from aidawrites :
anyway you look it i guess sex with an ex is quite complicated eh? like the amazing samantha jones said "sex with an ex is depressing, if its good you no longer have it, if its bad, you just had sex with your ex." i think the main thing with me is that i love him, but i dont need him, so sex with him suits me just fine ;)
from liesal1979 :
And Mallen was in Vision on Friday night, I forgot coz of all the snogging!!! xx I found your diary coz ur my best mate! And i have no clue! LOL
from liesal1979 :
Oh and can i just point out, you downed my aftershock!!! xxxx
from aidawrites :
I just found your diary through some other person we have in common and you are hilarious! ive been laughing for a good 10 minutes, anyway, you sound fabulous, im def going to keep reading if thats cool with you.
from liesal1979 :
Hey Chicken, Wizz the smary one, yeah i Know him! lol. We did tell you he was a cock, but you were in love, but fortunetly you got over that illness quite quickly!! lol Sally in a hat!! HA HA HA HA HA HA Email me soon! Im bored! xxx
from krugerpak007 :
I cant keep up with you and your men! You are a little heartbreaker! Sounds also like you, Avalonte and K had an awsome time! I am jealous that I couldn't be there too! Take care sweety. xoxox Kathy
from makinganewme :
Thanks! It's okay to add me, just nothing that mentions my name. XOXO!
from avalonte :
Awww, you flatterer! If you want to link to it I'd be honoured! Shame you missed the game last night! I'd have kicked his lazy arse out of there way before!!! Talk about taking liberties!!
from dangerspouse :
Hey - it's March 2nd now. Aren't you sober YET??
from aliboomboom :
I was wondering where you were. Brandon lives about 45 minutes away from me. He lives about 15 minutes from the city I live in but I live on the other side of it so it makes it a long haul. Oh well. It'll be worth it if we ever get things figured out.
from liesal1979 :
Bonj you drunken little girl. I too was drunk this week and bravo i say! SOOOO...How did you have sex with? I need to know before i can continue! xx
from liesal1979 :
I think so as well, to begin with i was unsure until we were playing a little game. He was pointing out girls he wanted and he pointed to your Vicky and said i want that one to her, and i said her? he said no shes minging, and she is 1/10, and i pointed to you and he said 10/10 I have just posted that £20 through your letterbox so can u tell your mum thanks for that!! Cheers chick Lisa xxx PS BASE HAS JUST TEXT ME! xxx
from heelandlass :
Aw, thank you sweets. I don't know why you love me and my diary so much, but it makes me really chuffed that you're so vocal about it! Love you too x
from lumenatrix :
Hi! I just wanted to let you know I think you are darling and your diary is fab. :-)
from aliboomboom :
I am so sorry that you went through that. I can only imagine how hard it was for you. I think that you are right about it being best if you didn't see the baby. I mean it's kind of like you don't have to really acknowledge it if you don't see it. You can live your life without remembering the face and being haunted by it, ya know? It would be much worse if you had to accept and acknowledge the child and then lose it. Terrible. I think you are brave and strong for what you went through. You have turned into a beautiful lady. I guess its true that what doesn't kill us makes us stronger, right? As for Jason's mother, what a bitch!! I can't believe she would taunt you with that nickname. And I'm glad you slept with three brothers, it makes me feel a lot better about hooking up with two best friends!! :) XOXO
from aliboomboom :
I am so sorry to hear about you miscarriage. That must have been rather tragic for you. Did you get to see the baby? I realize it would have been barely a baby at that point but I was just wondering. 10% chance? Wow. I didn't realize you had gone through all that.
from aliboomboom :
What does X mean? love? Here we sometimes sign things XOXO which means hugs and kisses. Is it the same thing? That sucks that he didn't text you back. Oh well, you'll find someone better sometime soon. Besides you've got that hot guy shacking up with you on Saturday, right? Oh and what happened that left you barren? I remember you telling me that you were unable to have kids but I can't remember why. That was you, right?
from aliboomboom :
I think that Al bringing you that cd is a sure sign that he's more than interested in being just friends. Don't you? Keep playing hard ball, it'll get you everywhere.
from sweet-cynic :
is it just me, or don't you want to marry mr. wonderful?
from aliboomboom :
Happy Valentine's Day!!
from enhancedview :
Hey Becky! I finally got my review site back up so check back in a day or so and I'll have your review up. Thanks for waiting!
from avalonte :
Hope you didn't take offence then!
from aliboomboom :
Thanks for the support. I'd hate to be a ho.
from cindreviews :
Cinderella Reviews is a brand new review site. So if you would like a review please come and check us out at http://cindreviews.diaryland.com/ . We hope to be hearing from you soon. Thank You!
from heelandlass :
bugger, I thought I'd have a week to do this what with you being off work and all. Rats. Anyway I missed your special entry but I thought I'd write anyway so you can see what I think! Betchy, is a new friend of mine and I believe if we lived in the same town it would be quite chaotic as we have the same attitude to life. I love reading Betchy's diary because it's 100% honest, I don't believe there is one pretentious bone in her body and she writes from the heart. She leaves nothing out, regardless of how her readers might judge her words/actions and a lot of the time she reminds me of me. Betchy wears her heart on her sleeve and I think she gives an awful lot of herself to people - friends and lovers. Sometimes, too much but I think she's learning that. I didn't think I'd love reading this girl as much as I do but I never miss an entry of hers and I always save hers till last. She's a sweetie. A babe. And a gem. xxx
from liesal1979 :
Left you a comment, but it didn't all fit in…………… So here it is. Right Something about Becky that I have learnt from u! I have learnt the following things..Some good, some bad, here we go!!! 1. I can only drink 10 Blue aftershocks before my memory is gone, never to be returned along with my dignity! 2. Moo is the cutest cat, ever... Isn't he? Isn't he? And its not worth not agreeing! (but he is cute! Even if he used to be the Devils Cat!) 3. Its never a good idea to phone yourself if you get drunk, coz you will never find out what happened and why you needed that screwdriver! 4. If you meet a man called Clive and a sailor, BY GEORGE you are in for a good night! 5. I have learnt you can polish a sailors hat with toothpaste, and it is a very expensive thing to have on your head! 6. If you see someone you know, but they are looking very thin, and they appear to have lost some height, its probably not who you think it is!! 7. There are 75 reasons to change a crap voicemail (number 35 Clive is making a noise like a duck) 8. If you have no money and Becky does and she wants to drink, be prepared to be hammered on southern comfort and singing crap karaoke on a Sunday night when u have work the next day.. 9. I can get drunk in 6 minutes with the aid of Becky and her encouragement. 10. If you start taking in a Borat accent, it will stick for 3 years 11. And most importantly, even through ups and downs, she is still the best friend a good could ask for and will do anything for you. Love Ya Becks Lisa xxxx
from shirley-it :
now that's the real me. please ignore the previous note.
from shirr-it :
hey becks...guess who.
from vickithecute :
Oh, the British version, definitely. I think the US version only lasted six episodes - I never saw it, but I heard that it reached historic levels of suckage.
from lauralgood :
How I see you through your diary: You seem like such fun loving exciting woman. You seem sweet and lovely and a bit bad at the same moment. (a great trait!) You make me giggle and smile when you send me a note. You seem smart. I enjoy you very much. Laural
from dooki :
What have I learned from reading betchy's diary. Let's see. You apparantly give great head. You love buttons. You're boy crazy...in a cute way. You truly seem to want to know the answers...to everything. That can be good and bad. Good because you're open to peoples' opinions. Bad because you're open to peoples' opinions. You are tres sexy, even though you call yourself a bloater. (you are a sexy bitch.) Your hair is fantastic. You seem like someone I could trust with my first born. I know I would like to meet you and have a beer. Oh, and you have a million jillion friggin' links on your page. That might mean something, but I can't say for sure.
from goingloopy :
You're so nice...I do smile sometimes. Like when I'm drunk. Which I believe I was in that picture. We had done some shots called "red-headed sluts" and I was cracking jokes about naming them after me. xx :)
from goingloopy :
What did you think I looked like? There are several entries with pics in my archives...I know "There's a Toilet in My Hallway" and "Drop It Like It's Hot" have pics, and there's a more recent one, but I don't remember and I'm too lazy to look. :)
from heelandlass :
Ah, thanks for your kind words little sausage. You are a sweetie. The dry spell is actually getting a little bit easier, but I have to rely on poo tales to get my laughs as opposed to my drunken tales. Ah well - get them where you can eh?! Have a good week off (jealous!) xx
from catz-eyes :
hiya cherub :) ah to 'x' or not to 'x'! wait til u speak to him b4 making any conclusions, sweetpea, as to whether or not he still likes you. my guess is he does or he wouldn't have called/sms'd you at all - guys are notorious for that kind of thing. i've done it myself, am ashamed to admit. but your entry was *very* cool! could so relate to the etiquette of the 'x' thing =) love & kindness to you always, =^..^= xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox ;)
from heelandlass :
What do you mean it's nearly killing you, drinking my share of the booze? It's getting you laid isn't it? Quite complaining! But it probably ends next Friday when my distraught friend Jen comes to visit after attending her boyfriends funeral. I doubt she'll be staying sober and so it's a fitting way to get back into it. So - 4th February. Look out Edinburgh! xxx
from vickithecute :
Hey, I just had to lock my diary (temporarily, I hope) bcs a coworker of mine got access to it. It's still open to all dlanders though...the user name is vicki and the password is cute
from deardevlyn :
Oh, and finally you return with more tales of tails. Good to see you are alive and well.
from heelandlass :
where are ya hunnybun?
from acornotravez :
gracias :)
from hissandtell :
The point of the Simpson girls, I suspect, is the same as the point of Paris Hilton. As I wrote in a DL entry about Paris once, I'm sure she exists merely to serve as a cautionary tale for the rest of us: "Goodness, darling, don't sit that like - you'll end up looking like Paris Hilton!" Also, I'm certain a gorgeous sex goddess like you could think of a million innovative uses for the grand piano and bunch of grapes you have around your neck - I'm thinking of a variation on a scene out of "Those Fabulous Baker Boys" or something. Finally, next time you're caught in a gale, just find a subway grate somewhere and stand over it and let your dress blow all the way up around your neck like Marilyn Monroe. Have fun with Al! Love, R xxx
from plopphizz :
It's too bad Al didn't see the "choking neck tag" incident, that would have sealed your "sex goddess" status with him for sure. But the message certainly sounds promising. -- P.P.
from vickithecute :
I did the same thing Wednesday night, posted to LJ and Xanga bcs I have a few friends over there, and damnit, I was jonesing for an audience.
from hilseymour :
That text message would creep me out! "I think about you all the time" - !!!! alarm bells! But depends what kind of impression he'd made on you first I suppose, and I presume that was good! Zitronengel has haloscan comments - maybe you could ask her - but she's not superspeedy at getting back to people!
from avalonte :
I thought that maybe it was the Haloscan comments thing that was preventing you from using Chakra-chick's diary. Can you view other diaries that have it? And Tesco ID checked you for booze?????!!!!!!! You cowbag!!!! I'm jealous!! I'd be on a high for days!!! Mind you, that'd be a bit of a bigger deal! I keep forgetting how young you are. If they ID'd me, I'd have to pet their guide dog!!!
from hilseymour :
"CLAIMS" to be???! That Richard is always saying the wrong thing. I don't "CLAIM" to be the Rainbow Queen, I AM the Rainbow Queen. In fact, that's probably what I said to him on the show! Wicked Dream!!!! I wish I'd had it.
from heelandlass :
hahahaah, no - you asked what you would be if you were a jakey bawbag and so you would be a boozed up scum bag. Or a jakey scumbag. That sort of thing -sorry sweets, didn't mean to upset you! Have a good weekend my love. Drink my share of booze too please! xxx
from gumphood :
where is the haloscan comment if you got it?
from kaybiff :
I could help, if you'd like or need or whatever. I like HTML. HTML and I are homies. Word up. And if security is an issue, you wouldn't even have to worry because I'm too lazy to be mean.
from heelandlass :
you're a boozed up scum bag.
from liesal1979 :
This is me, leaving a note...Coz i can! LOL! U ok?
from blueavenue :
i love your 'memory lane' entry. it was interesting and also quite moving. =) i love you! also, yes, Garden State: it has zach braff (he wrote and directed and starred) and natalie portman in it. it's really good and has a fabulous soundtrack as well. tonight i was looking at londonjobs.com cuz my friend and i were talking about how fun it would be to move to england! hehe. hope you're well this lovely evening. =)
from hilseymour :
That was a top entry. Much better than your sex one. ;)
from kitty-kaboom :
♥ thank you! ♥
from tigerlily21 :
Lol.. I didn't feel bad at first "being" 29..but now everyone else is 20, so I feel like a geezer!! Anyway, hope everything is good.. and I love love love Snow Patrol (my hubby got me hooked). *hugs*
from lumenatrix :
I am exactly the same way when it comes to boys. I don't think I have ever been able to tell a guy I liked him and I don't tell my friends when I have a crush either because, well, I'm not sure why. I think because I'm afraid if I tell someone about a crush then nothing will come of it and I'll be really embarassed about it. Like I failed or something. Also, I have no trouble flirting... if I'm not at all interested in the guy, but if I am I suddenly fall all over my tongue and go sit in a corner or something. I have girlfriends who can ask guys out and it almost always goes well, but for some reason I'm just lame in that area.
from dooki :
I will not allow such words as "bloater" in congruence with your physical appearance! Do yourself one better! "beautiful" "bodacious" "bella", etc. But never "bloater" or I'll smack you. By the way, on my diary page there is a link that says, "my myspace profile". You can find pix of me there, though not very good ones. You can be the judge at the kind of vixen I am! And Betchy, I give good head too. Let's start a club...oh wait, I already did. H2 Organization...read all about it on the link section of my page. Good charity.
from clarity25 :
That was such a beautiful entry, some parts were so touching, like going to work with your father, and some so sad, such as the story with Jenny. (That was heartbreaking) and some so funny, such as your friend losing the V. with "Piglet". Also, I understand hurting yourself because there's no other way to express your pain. And as for "Thriller", Omigod! I remember being scared out of my MIND after seeing that for the first time, I think I was 5 or 6, I couldn't sleep. Funny how that stuck out in my memory too. Oh and as for "Sweet Valley Twins", I was a huge fan. Elizabeth was the good one, but I wanted to be Jessica too. It's strange going back isn't it? The images and emotions that come rushing at you. The memories that stick out stronger than others..Thanks for sharing that. Oh and to answer your questions, Yes, My heart is in America because that's where I was raised and that's where all my family and friends are. But to be honest, I'm not too thrilled at the fact that Bush is president and the state of our country at the moment. It's a little too "Big Brother" for my taste. If it wasn't for the fact that my family needs me and I miss them. I probably would go to England or Australia for the next 4 years, return when he's out of office. Thanks for linking me in your diary, that was so sweet!:) But you're wrong, my entry isn't better.-Love, Clarity
from heelandlass :
We just did a 'note crossover'! Jakey is a fab word. It is my new favourite word of the moment too. That and Bawbag. You can be a jakey and you can be a bawbag. You can even be a jakey bawbag. Or you can lose at a game and say 'awww bawbag'. It's pretty versatile!
from heelandlass :
hah! I love that your sister lost her big V at the back of Lidls. My friend lost hers at the back of woolies and I remember thinking how adventurous she was! Great entry B xx
from soverycherry :
I loved that entry. I think I might do one for myself, except mine won't be nearly as deep as yours was.
from krugerpak007 :
That entry was beautiful. I have tears running down my face. I loved it. Thanks for sharing it sweetie. xoxox Kathy
from heelandlass :
Hello Sausage! Yes I think you probably are a jakey, but in the nicest possible way. A real jakey is a wino who sits on a bench with his mates drinking buckfast and cans of super strength cider. You probably get lots of jakeys coming into your work. It's the word we use to take the piss out of each other as in 'god you were such a jakey last night, I can't believe you said that'. that kind of thing. I am most definitely a jakey. And if I am, then my sweet, so are you! By not boozing I'm attempting to quash my inner jakey for a while but she likes to get out and party. That's the problem!
from lumenatrix :
You're very welcome. Thanks for having a fun diary!
from dooki :
Telling guys that you like them should be easy. You can make it easy by telling yourself, "I won't care if he rejects me. There are thousands of others behind him." If you're willing to believe that, it gets easier. No man wants to hear an hour long confession. Spit it out. "Hey, I like you. Seriously, I think you're tops...take that how you want it. It doesn't change a thing." They'll respect you for being honest and will be less of an asshole if they aren't interested. Usually they say, "I'm flattered...or, thank you...I don't know what to say!" Point taken, don't pry...if he's interested, it will happen. If not, don't push it. Move on to the next. After all, they don't seem to treat us like queens any more, why should we be so afraid of them? If a man is interested, he'll call. Period. If he doesn't...he's NOT INTERESTED. Don't waste your time thinking, "he didn't call...does that mean blah blah blah?" It means he's not interested. Why beat yourself up? Fuck him. Who's next? I'm a queen. He's not worthy, obviously. Ooohh...who's that tiger in the Diesel jeans? See what I mean? Easy.
from kaybiff :
Thank you for the birthday wishing! It gave me the warm and fuzzies! I would so TOTALLY give you cookies and a hug.
from krugerpak007 :
I have to confess: I have never seen Sex And The City. Is there something wrong with me??? Secondly, you are stunning and I am surprised you dont ask men out, I think you would be pleasantly surprised. You are too hard on yourself. I can, I just need a few valiums in me first...but then I meet the jerks. I dont know how to pick them.... Take care sweetie. xoxox Kathy
from abittergirl :
The Asshole is my ex because he cheated on me; had another girlfriend and an apartment with her on the side. The had a second girlfriend at the end there. Yup. He was an asshole.
from gumphood :
Guys love girls. Why turn them down!?
from aliboomboom :
You should definately come to New York!! It's fabulous!! Do you ever think about moving to the states? Sex and the City is a great show. I would never have the nerve that they have either though. Most likely you wouldn't get turned down because girls never ask guys out but I think it's awkward. I mean who pays if you ask them? And if you have to pay then doesn't that suck? Besides are they really interested if you ask them? I don't know. I would have lots of doubts about it. And goin for the unattainable man, we all do that. Hell John's not even that cute but he's totally unattainable and I'm crazy over him. Women are gluttons for punishment. And you're totally right, if a guy gives you too many compliments are likes you too much then he is way worse off than the unattainable guy. Although compliments from the right guy can be very nice!!
from aliboomboom :
I only wish I was a man magnet.
from heelandlass :
Hahaha, I like the way you ended that entry - am I the female fent? Very Carrie from SATC!!
from clarity25 :
Oh no! Don't be sorry, I was just joking!:)
from lauralgood :
sure i will! send me your email again at glaural@aol.com and it will be on its way...but well it is a kinda dirty diary...smiles. love laural
from onewetleg :
ok, now we know who, all we need to know is why? why did your client attack you? did you have 6 months worth of her checks in your desk? hey. i know! give her number to mike! they sound like they're made for each other.
from hilseymour :
Firstly - Diaryland Theme Song??? Am I missing something?? Secondly, he didn't ruin the film for you because that's not how it ends! You should watch it, it's brilliant. All he's done is spoil that one bit for you, and even then it's not really spoilt cos the whole point of the film is that he changes things so things turn out differently each time - BRILLIANT. Ignore him!
from avalonte :
Thanks for spoiling the end for us too!!! My cats snore really loudly too, so I know how you feel! By the way, I thought of you today in Sainsbury's. Gonna buy Good Housekeeping this month?? Look at the front cover when you're next in a shop! x
from chakra-chick :
Hi sweetie! OMG - that Mike guy wants you- badly! By the way, that part does happen in the movie, but it's not at the end, so fear not! Have a wonderful day further *smooches*
from clarity25 :
Great, betchy..Now we ALL know the ending of the movie. Good going. Talk about spoiling it for the rest of us! lol! That conversation had me cracking up!
from krugerpak007 :
People are starting to think I am mad the way I giggle at your diary all alone here in front of the computer..."No man thrusting you last night"....I loved that. What was the cat doing? I was kept awake all of last night because of some gorgeous man. I know you all hate him but OMG. I am just a nerd I guess!!And as for Mike, gosh he wants you badly. You are going to have to think of a million and one excuses for the rest of his calls. Take care darling! Love you lots! xoxox Kathy
from onewetleg :
and all i can think is "i wonder if people can see my knickers" and "that cheeseburger better still be on the table when this is over" you're brilliant. that's what i think whenever i get in a fight, too. that and 'why is this person hitting me? i don't even know them.' was you burger still there? how about your knickers? enquiring minds wanna know. love, jj
from acornotravez :
I LOVE Scotch eggs. Yummy!
from sweet-cynic :
why hello! thanks for the note. i just got done poking around your journal and I must say, you're QUITE a character! I'm loving it! I agree. it's essential to be buddies :)
from blueavenue :
YES, i checked on amazon UK and here it is: http://www.amazon.co.uk/exec/obidos/ASIN/0007198213/qid=1105747833/sr=2-1/ref=sr_2_10_1/202-1503517-3893449 that's kind of an odd place to leave a link, but oh well. =) did you read irishblueyes's entry yesterday, cuz she apparently is just like us as well! she even quoted me. man-chasers unite! or something. have a wonderful weekend!
from aliboomboom :
I wish I could be cool and use English expressions when talking to you but I don't know any!! Do you really think I'm going to pull John? Sounds like fun to me!!
from krugerpak007 :
OMG. That woman was totally crazy. I am in shock! Hope you are ok! And more importantly I also hope the burger was still there! Take care Betchy! Love you, Kathy
from clarity25 :
Oh my god, I read that last entry with my mouth hanging open and my eyes wide. What the hell?! What a crazy psycho! sorry you had to go through that. You handled it well, though..haha, Better than I would have. You go! (hope your burger was still there:) Now I'll think twice before I approach a hysterical sobbing person. I know that scene, and avalonte beat me to it! "To be real...it's gotta to be REAAAAL" Thanks for the compliment on my pic, it made me laugh..because I'm NOT stunning. But that was really sweet and brightened my day. Also you have a right to feel good about yourself, you're really an amazing, strong and awesome person. It truly comes through in your writing. Hope you're having a good day!-Clarity
from avalonte :
"I Got To Be Real" by Cheryl Lynn. "She's fashion roadkill!!!!"
from aliboomboom :
I have no clue what song you are talking about. Good luck on it though!!
from gumphood :
I don't think I know it.
from princesstosh :
Ugh...bitches and their ugly stiletto heels!! Where is she? Let me at her!! I'm not good at fighting but I'll get a hit in and then run cause she sounds c-r-a-z-y! And yes, I second Cookie---was the cheeseburger still there? That is important stuff!
from gumphood :
The thing I hear is that the english girls are forward over there. Unlike here.
from soverycherry :
That story is absolutely fucking nuts. What was wrong with that girl? Did anybody ever find out? More importantly, was your cheeseburger still there? Have a great weekend!
from blueavenue :
you rock and i loves ya. =)
from heelandlass :
Have I happy new yeared you yet? If not - happy new year but I think I have. How sweet you miss my notes - I have a note, but you're not going to like it. Okay. Here goes. I think you degrade yourself too much. I know you do it in a jokey way and pretend you're okay with it but I think that you're too hard on yourself and the reason I know this is because I do it too. I think that if I call myself a fat heifer to people I'm talking to then what I'm saying is 'Hah, see I think I'm a fat heifer, so if you secretly think I am a fat heifer then you can get to fuck because I think it already so you can't be mean to me inside your own head'. I think you should be nicer about yourself to yourself. You're not a 'fat slut' you're a gorgeous voluptuous woman who enjoys the pleasures of the body and mind. Isn't that a much better way to look at it? I know you're only joking but I also know that you know what I'm talking about (at least I hope you do!). On another note - I had a boyfriend called Stevie G once. It's not the same guy though! Righteo - I'm off. Speak to you soon chickadee and yes, I was blotto off the scale last weekend, but that's it for drunken bum stories for a whole month - detox has begun (boo). xxxxxx
from peachick :
sluts rock for me...cuz they got balls to do things i want to but dont have guts to do. i've been thinkin to go back to diaryland these days, how wacky i am?!
from clarity25 :
"Jaime Bed breaker", that had me laughing. I have to join in the chorus of people saying 1. Your brave and very cool to come out and share those tales! 2. I'm jealous! Man your sex life was so much for exciting than mine and now I'm married..so that's it for me. (As far as different men goes..not sex lol) But I truly enjoyed the chronicles. Oh and I HAVE posted few pics of me, but I have this tendency to delete them after two days. But just for you I put one of them on my profile. I raised the contrast to the point of insanity, But you can make out my features. haha!
from aliboomboom :
Hell you are just more brave than I am. I've had quite a past too. Hell if you haven't then you haven't really lived, ya know?
from chakra-chick :
Ooohhh...I'm so jealous-Considering I have only slept with two guys! Your entry cracked me up! Good thing I live in South Africa - the UK guys seem like real characters. I think it's great that some of the guys you have slept with, remain your friends - thats pretty rare-to mantain a friendship even after sex. Excellent day to you, luv!
from aliboomboom :
Hilarious!! I'm glad you aren't a slut anymore. :) Even though I'm sure you still have it in you, just like we all do!!
from krugerpak007 :
Shit! I am so jealous. I think *blush* I can count mine on one hand actually. What a nerd I am. I loved that! You made me smile and I needed that badly. You are a sweety! xoxoxo Kathy
from soverycherry :
"...he said "so, do you still want a piece of my big black cock?" and i said "no, not really"...." HA! I love you. And also, there has been only one out of my 32 who I don't know his last name, either! He Who Is Formerly Known As Hot Chad, that's who. I know it started with a B but that's about it. Hilarious.
from lightmytorch :
I still do read you, and absolutely love you!! Only problem is I get so busy some days that I can't write notes or anything :( And I always feel bad about it afterwards. I'm sorry... but I still love you!!
from hissandtell :
Oh betchy, doll. Your "Fat Slut Chronicles" are superb. I'm still sitting here smiling over some of your "exes" and your residual impressions of them. I'm with avalonte, though - I'm not sure I'd be so bold about my past, AND it would take several hundred entries to get through them all! I'm looking forward to your next installment. Love, R xxx
from starlight42 :
Hey girl- fun entry today :) Thanks for the note, yes, buying little things like that starts to get me a bit excited about the wedding.
from krugerpak007 :
Wow! That put a smile on my face! You are so funny and sweet. I definitely take my hat off to you. I wish I had an exciting history like that too. Maybe my life would all be different now. Really. I feel its important to experiment. Something I didnt. I am the biggest nerd. *blush* I look forward to your next entry sweetie.xoxox Kathy
from avalonte :
You're a lot braver than me! I don't think I'd want everyone knowing my slutty history! Mind you, I don't think most of my experiences were sober enough to be remembered in so much detail!! Lol! I might write a private entry though. It's a good idea! Let me know if you want to read it. It might be a bit boring because I can't remember enough details of all of them to write them with such humour as yours!! Looking forward to part 2!! Love you Chicken! xx
from clarity25 :
I loved LOVED this entry! Some of your comments on your past boyfriends had be cracking up! It was brilliant the way you described everyone and the ending saying there's more to come.. it's only part 1! lol. (That guy with the locking you up though.. creepy! Good thing you got out of THAT one!) I think I'm going to snag your idea for a future entry on my own past relationships..however, it wont be nearly as interesting.:(. Oh as for my age, I just turned 26. I'm looking forward to part 2!
from vickithecute :
Boohbah is British? I didn't know that. Anyway - if someone forgets their security badge, they have to stop at the security desk to sign in (and have their identity verified ::snicker) and then they get to wear a little paper stick-on badge....we call it the loser badge as in "Ha, ha, you loser, you forgot your badge...you dumb oaf" (um...well, except we don't really call people dumb oafs, that's just mean)
from aliboomboom :
So you like the red or the black? I'm confused!!
from aliboomboom :
You are a bad girl!! I can't believe you slept with three brothers!! Naughty, naughty!! As for the guy that locked you in his room. What a freak! That's Silence of the Lambs type shit.
from goingloopy :
Men are just completely nuts...especially when they do crazy shit like locking you up. You're brave for doing this, though...I don't even want to think about my past (or present) boys.
from niceguymike :
Thank you for the kind words regarding my entry; however, the way those people read into the movie was only half my point. The other part was that their assumptions about the way things work is way out of kilter, when compared to the people I know.
from soverycherry :
Your hair is so long, wow. Mine used to be that long too, way back in the day (see: http://soverycherry.diaryland.com/images/cookiekneesocks.jpg - angry knee socks picture for proof)! Also, Fent somehow reminds me of Paul Newman, I don't exactly know what it is, hmmm.
from soverycherry :
Ha, "I'm a fat slut part 1"! I love it. Anyway, that guy kept you in his room for THREE DAYS? Holy moly! That's insane! Also, I love how you call losing one's virginity "v-plates," that's great. Can't wait for part 2!
from chakra-chick :
Some characters you have been with, hey? I can't wait for part 2...
from blueavenue :
hi there! so i saw closer again, as you know, & this time i actually heard natalie portman use the word 'bird' to describe julia roberts, and i thought, HEY, that's on betchy's translations! it means 'girl!' i'm a retard! lol. but anyway, yay for learning new english words! uh...yeah. =) i'm a huge dork. hey, thanks for callin' my pics gorge, that makes me smile! i loves ya, girlie, and that bloke needs to find something better to do w/his time than plan to get drunk and call you. am i right?
from lauralgood :
shame on me! I have not given you that diary's name? laural
from hissandtell :
Hey now missy, I'm a visual person too, and now I'll be thinking of that all day! (Heh - quiet on the Weston front. John Cleese grew up in Weston-Super-Mare, non? And Jill Dando (was that her name?) And that's all I know about the place...except now I know that you're there.) Oh, baby, I'm hanging out for tomorrow's entry! Love and kissies, R xxx
from kaybiff :
I'm sure you'll agree with me then that THAT is the creepiest place for them to stare. I mean, at least Mushies has the decency to look away, but Stubby--boy howdy--she stares. And it's like: Kitty, at least hand me a towel, will you please?
from vickithecute :
Or, as the fabulous Rita Rudner once said, you could tell him he's fabulous, you're madly in love with him and you want to have his babies. "Sometimes," she says "they leave skidmarks"
from krugerpak007 :
I would say that incident with Cliff is rather traumatising....:-) I can not wait for tomorrow's entry. Hope you are well otherwise honey! Love Kathy
from avalonte :
Thanks lovely. I think she's pretty lush too!!! Oh and her coat is from Tammy. Cute isn't it!
from plopphizz :
Hi betchy, my name is ploppy. I see you around most of my DL buds, I think most recently from comma-abuse. maybe we could be friends. write me back, t'anks, P.P.
from blueavenue :
i somehow JUST noticed your 'translations' link, and i must say, some of those were quite helpful. =) am i an idiot for assuming this whole time that to snog meant to f**k? if i am, please forgive me. but now i know. shrug. =)
from kaybiff :
RANDOM CREEPY INTERNET APPRECIATION. Hugs.
from clarity25 :
I think men CAN smell sex. Maybe we just have a loopy smile on our faces or something that we're not aware of, and it attracts them like flies. As for that guy that you met again from New Years. It's amazing how someone can become very unattractive when they get too pissed and become overbearing. It just makes you uncomfortable when they don't understand the meaning of "no". I also know what you mean about feeling uncomfortable about being pulled in the front during a photo shoot. I had that a few weeks ago at a press conference. When I saw the photo I winced..I had a deer caught in headlights stupid brain-dead look. Though I'm sure you have nothing to worry about, you have a beautiful smile. I've seen your pics:) You're a cutie..haha..Now, I sound like I'm hitting on you too! Hope you're having a good day!
from blueavenue :
great. i have "i'm a model, you know what i mean" in my head now. that's just great. lol. and YES, aren't they,though? aren't they a complete and utter mystery? and yet...
from soverycherry :
I am a moron seeing as how I only now noticed your PHOTOS link - you are SO HOT, girl. Fo' real. No wonder your number is what it is, you've got it goin' on!
from aliboomboom :
Thanks for the note, you always make me smile. I hate the extra weight but I guess I do look healthy. John was sweet yesterday. Today I look like shit. I was going to change before I saw him and what did he do? He busted up in here. So I didn't have make up on and I looked fat,fat,fat. I had lost an earring when I was at his mom and dad's house and he brought it to me today. That's odd. I wonder where they found it at. Oops.
from goingloopy :
Men are so freakin' retarded. And you're right. When you ain't getting any, it takes an act of god for anyone with a penis to notice you're alive, but break the spell, and you've got booty falling from trees. I'm sorry, too, for your unfortunate photo op...that, too, is always the way it works. In a related note...what is a cheese & coleslaw baguette?
from hilseymour :
Another classic Betchy quote: "whoo whoo, racy racy!!"
from heelandlass :
Happy New Year to you & yours Betchy. Will catch up with your shenanigans over the last few weeks soon I hope. I am willing to bet that you were the drunkest, though I definitely gave it a good bash! xxx
from chakra-chick :
Hi sweetie-pie! I think avalonte has it right...very true! It is very, very weird that you *still* cannot read my diary. I wonder what the problem is... You are the only one of my buddies that has this problem... extremely strange. Well, my coffee date with kathy went pretty well - even though it was for a very short time. I had a blast with her and I was so happy that she managed to make time for me. Nothing interesting happening in my oh-so-boring life...just work, work and more work! I'm hoping to get to go on a nice, long holiday very soon! I sincerely hope that you will be able to read my journal soon ... You have an excellent weekend dear. *smooches* Faz
from avalonte :
What I believe it is, is when you haven't had sex for ages, you feel unsexy and undesirable. So you without knowing it you give off that impression to others. But when you've had sex recently, you're feeling all "Oh yeah, I'm hot stuff!" and womanly. Well, something along those lines, lol!!! And unconsciously emit that impression.
from soverycherry :
Ooh, now I have that godawful "I'm Too Sexy" song in my head, thanksalot. Anyhoo, I FINALLY got your Christmas card! The Post Office had fucked it up and torn off the flappy part of the envelope. It was in a plastic bag with an apology from the Post Office, haha. Anyway, my dad brought in the mail this morning and he's all, "Who do you know from ENGLAND?" and I said, "England loves me!" and that was that. So, right-o, I got the card and thanks a bunch!! I hope you have a good weekend!
from pattymelt :
yeah, i know i am remiss but it is crazy busy here at work and when i get home....well, i don't want to be on the computer! but, since my cable seems to be on the fritz...i will probably do all that this weekend. and catch up on all my reading! thanks for the note!
from acornotravez :
Heya, Chica! That's OK if you haven't read up on my stuff - there isn't any! I've been away from d'land, etc. No particular reason. I'm about to read up on ya a bit. Luf ya, Acorn
from soverycherry :
Oh my God, my number is 32 too! WOO to being total whores, rock on, baby!
from goingloopy :
Yes, Kerry was the Democratic (aka liberal) candidate. And don't even get me started on the number of ways Mr. Bush is a wanker. His middle name is almost Wanker. I think it's Walker. One letter difference. Coincidence? I think not. :)
from aliboomboom :
Oh, gorgeous men definately have nothing on a cute guy with that special aura or whatever it is. I've got to stop this crap with John though. I mean seriously, when am I going to grow up?
from soverycherry :
You were so honest and candid with New Year's Eve guy that it cracked me up. I wish I could be like that all the time! You rock, sista.
from krugerpak007 :
Firstly about Sam, I don't think there was anything you could have done to prevent it.So you should not be feeling any guilt.Just your support now is what she needs. You are an amazing person-been told that lately? Amazing! Thanks for your e-mail. I will be replying. And I am in love with your grandfather! Viabrators rule! (I think. ) Love me.
from blueavenue :
aw, beck, that's rough with sam. i'll be thinking about ya...
from blueavenue :
hi! kir royales are champagne and creme de cassis, and they come highly recommended (by me)! a couple entries back is a full description of the night (including the yummy kir royales). =)
from goingloopy :
...that is rough for your cousin. Are there any social services there that can help them?
from lauralgood :
hugs! I will tell you all about it! Love Laural
from princesstosh :
Hey! I cant remember if it was addressed to both of us or not, but no worries, on the inside it was definetly to "us". Dont worry your head about the "could have's" sweetie, it wont do any good and what matters is the here and now, anyway. I think that everything happens for a reason, and I also have faith in things working out okay. Just be a good supporter---thats the best you can do right now! XOXOXO!
from dooki :
Man...that's rough. My sister is Austistic and I can't imagine her with a baby. I don't know what it's like in London, but in the U.S. the state would probably take the child. Is there a family member who can raise it, or possibly talk to her about adoption? I know she has a right to raise her own child, but I can't imagine it working! Oh, and FYI, just because she and the father have learning disabilities does not mean that the baby will be affected. There are lots of mentally disabled parents with perfectly healthy children. It usually skips a generation. If the baby comes to full term (which might not happen if her disabilities are serious) then I hope for the best. Does she have any family close by to help her with the doctor visits and check ups? God, how scary. Good luck, keep me posted.
from fan4 :
I did have a good Christmas. Wrote a diary entry about it.
from avalonte :
Social services will not let her bring the child up. It's as simple as that. Unless your aunt takes it on, they will strongly recommend a termination, but can not enforce it. But once the baby comes along it will be either fostered, or if she agrees it will be adopted. As aliboomboom said, unless she or her boyfriend are carrying any specific hereditary disorders there is no reason for their child to have any learning difficulties at all. What aliboomboom said about her cousin's parents getting her tubes tied just because she has Downs' actually caused me to gasp! I'm not saying that's such a bad idea in certain individual cases, and maybe in her cousin's case maybe so, I don't know what other complications she has apart from having Downs'. But I just think it's a bit extreme!!! It wouldn't even be allowed here!
from nikita84 :
Yea, so you know how i feel! Being the graceful goddess that i am, i'm always falling down but this one was pretty bad. It's hurting like hell! Anyways...
from aliboomboom :
Oh and most of the time retarded people have normal children unless the disease is hereditary and even then they are more than capable of having a "normal" child so you never know.
from aliboomboom :
Okay first of all, it's not your fault. What kind of disability does she have? My cousin has down syndrome and her parents are going to have her tubes tied when she starts her period just in case she has sex. That way she can't get pregnant which means no one else will be left with her child. Which is a great thing!! There is no way that these two people can support and take care of a newborn baby. What does your aunt say? They need to place the baby up for adoption!!
from gumphood :
Yeah, there isn't blame. I just hope it works out for the best.
from soverycherry :
Do not blame yourself for Samantha's pregnancy. Regardless of her problems, it wasn't your responsibility to teach her about birth control! So what's going to happen, is she going to have the baby? What a tragic situation for everybody involved.
from blueavenue :
engaged after 4 months! agh! my family would shoot off my foot! and yay for good, clean fun (or drunkenness) over the holidays! i had some fun myself. i'm glad you got you a piece. and i can't believe your grampa talks about vibrators! that is hilarious!
from princesstosh :
Becky! Happy new years sweetie! I got your card in the mail yesterday, it was darling! Michael kept looking at it and going "I cant believe this came all the way from England" It was too funny. I'm so glad you had great holidays--they went by too quick, huh? Anyway I've got some catching up to do on diaries (including yours!) so I better get to it. Thanks again!!!
from goingloopy :
Christmas: ok. Crazy, really. Most gifts of cash variety, which I'm most pleased with. Impossible to briefly sum up, so you'll just have to read the entries. ;) New years-Ok. Didn't get drunk NYE, but did on NYD. That is all. And I know you've been gone & you have a zillion buddies, so catch up when you catch up...we'll all still be here. ;)
from goingloopy :
Woo Hoo! Good presents, lots of drinking, and some action too...with possibly more on the horizon...yep, that's the way to ring in the new year!! :)
from gumphood :
oh man...engaged. And if you give it on Christmas its a gift and you can't get that back. FOOL!
from soverycherry :
Yay! You got some action. I guess you don't need a Rabbit after all! I'm glad you had such a good holiday!
from avalonte :
Glad you got some chick! Happy New Year.
from dangerspouse :
Is it Tuesday yet? Is it Tuesday yet? Is it Tuesday yet? Is it Tuesday yet? I WANNA READ YOUR HOLIDAY RECAP OF DRUNKEN EXCESS AND SEXUAL IMPROPRIETIES! Since, y'know, I have none of my own...
from liesal1979 :
Hi Beck. I know this is all weird, but just wanted to say Happy new Year to you, and thought this was the best way to do it! Happy new Year! Have a good one and take care. Lisa xx
from comma-abuse :
You need a note. Less than three!
from onewetleg :
happy new year, bectchy! hope your hangover isn't too bad! love, jj
from goingloopy :
DVD players rule...I just got one a month or so ago, too, so don't feel too behind. :) Glad you had a good x-mas, but I wanted stories tooooodaaaaaaay. I know, I know, get over it. Sigh. Have a happy new year. :)
from avalonte :
Thanks for the note chick. Don't worry, I didn't expect you to text back on Christmas day. I know you don't have credit for texts. Hope you had a great time, and have a great New Year. I might ring you tonight, but like you said, I'm trying to be careful! Love you! xxx
from hissandtell :
Happy New Year, gorgeous! I can't wait for your drunken and debauched update. Love, R xxx
from fan4 :
I think I recieved your card on Dec. 29th. Thanks
from beautyx3 :
Hey, Hope you had a good Christmas, and Have a Happy New Year!
from catz-eyes :
hiya cherub :) thank you for your pre-Xmas note! hope that you've had the most wonderful Festive Season, filled with all sorts of drunken debauchery ***HUGGLES*** love & kindness to you, =^..^= xox
from starlight42 :
hey girl- hope you had a nice holiday & time off of work :)
from soverycherry :
Thanks for the note! I still haven't gotten your card yet, but that's okay. US Postal Service sucks most of the time, I'm not surprised. Well, I hope you had a great Christmas and I hope you have fun being drunk, wherever you may be!!
from tigerlily21 :
Thank you for the wonderful notes! I had a wonderful, hectic, fun, cold Christmas.. I hope yours was everything you dreamed it would be! Hope you have a wonderful week! *hugs* Jen
from fairygodmum :
Merry Crimbo to You TOO! Hugz n Lub Bebe, da FairyGodMum
from krugerpak007 :
Merry merry christmas...Hope you are having a super day sweety. Love you lots. Sent you loads of texts. Hope you received them. I still havent been able to catch up. Internet at daddy too damn slow. But enjoy enjoy. No one deserves it more! Love you!
from kaybiff :
It's Christmas! MERRY CHRISTMAS! Have fun! And try not to squee your pants from excitement! CREEPY INTERNET HUGS.
from blueavenue :
hey girlie! merry christmas way over across the ocean! i just read the dialogues with your grand-dad and laughed so hard. =) my dad is 65 (officially a senior citizen, lol) and everytime he tries to get my attention, he goes thru about 4 other names of women in the family before he gets the right one. it goes something like this: "wendy, cindy, sophie--gayla!" i just wait till he gets to mine. he always gets it eventually. hehe.
from hissandtell :
Merry Christmas, darling! It's 8.30 on Christmoose morning and I'm sitting here with coffee and croissants looking at your diary (and your photographs). My goodness, you're utterly gorgeous! And I'm chuckling over your "chin" picture - it reminds me of my last Driver's Licence ID photo, which was taken from arguably the most unflattering angle in the history of portraiture. Love your work! Smooch, R xxx
from fan4 :
No, I didn't get my card.
from drmz-of-him :
Thank you! Merry Christmas to you. =)
from lauralgood :
Same to you, my love. I have been busy and bet you have as well. Happy holidays to you as well! love Laural
from lisse :
MERRY CHRISTMAS TO YOU, TOO!
from vickithecute :
Merry Christmas to you too, and a hap-hap-HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!
from hilseymour :
Merry Christmas Mrs Betchy
from nikita84 :
Hey sweetie! That's ok, i've been pretty busy myself. Between my hospital visits and having to work as a mad woman to have everything done for tonight. I have no time to be sick, i must work work work. It's holiday season! Have i told you? I'm turning my house into a mad house! YAY! Everybody will be here...lots of children...sure someone will spill wine on my couch, the kids will break something we love...it's gonna be lovely! MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!
from dangerspouse :
Hah, I beat you to it: MERRY CHRISTMAS, BETCHY!! Hope Santa brings you a good hangover cure :)
from chakra-chick :
Hi there Betchy sweetie! I just wanted to wish you a Merry Christmas. Hope you have a great time with your family and friends. Enjoy!
from adulterous-k :
Happy Christmas! One more sleep!
from clarity25 :
You know I picked up your " ___ sleeps until christmas" phrase and it's been driving Eric nuts! Your entries always make me smile! What you wrote about your granddad and his woozits and whatzits had me cracking up. Also I really related with what you wrote in the previous entry about the homelessness and problems right on our doorstep that people overlook. It's true, the best place to start helping the people in the world..is right in front of you and in your neighborhood. Hope you have a Great great Christmas and it's everything you dream it to be! your entries always cheered me up when I was down this season, so I'm really wishing you the best! -love Clarity
from princesse69 :
Merry Christmas and happy new year! Hope you get lots of cool pressies and have lots of fun. Thanks for the hugs they really cheered me up. x x x
from goingloopy :
You get 5 days off? I'm so envious. (We only get 3, but it's better than my last job, where they would have been open on X-mas if they could get away with it.) Your granddad sounds like a character...when my grampa was alive, he didn't talk much. My gramma did that for him. Have a wonderful holiday, and I'm looking forward to hearing drunken revelry stories. :)
from aliboomboom :
Merry Christmas!! I know that you are super excited about it so I hope all goes as planned!! And I hope to hear about all the wonderful gifts you get!! Have a wonderful holiday!!
from poolagirl :
Thanks so much for stopping by my diary! I am flattered that you made me a fave! I look forward to reading your diary too.
from hissandtell :
How lovely to meet you! Thanks so much for your note - I can't wait to read more of your entries and catch up on your life (and leave you lots of notes). Love, R xxx
from aliboomboom :
Thanks for the note. I have done a complete 180 since having Griffin. It was a surprise at first and it took a while to adjust. I definately was not planning on being a single mom but I love him more than life itself and I can't imagine life without him so I guess in the long run, God was looking out for me and he knew better than I did what I needed.
from brooklyntcb :
I emailed you but the email was returned to me ?? in any event, I got ur card yesterday : ))) It was so nice to have a Card and not a Bill for once. Hope your holiday is wonderful!!
from avalonte :
Sorry Chick. I sent you a txt a while ago! No I'm not ignoring you. But between going to the vet several times in the past week, Chloe being really poorly and nearly dying and k having her big heart check last week and then getting really ill, I've had hardly any time to leave notes, or to email, etc. Forgive me??
from comma-abuse :
Today is The Mother's birthday!
from tigerlily21 :
Hiya! Hope you feel better soon.. no fun being sick! I agree with you. I have always thought that we should start giving at home. There are soo many homeless people, so many starving children right here in our own backyard. I do feel sympathy towards other countries and their plights..but how can we overlook our own so thoroughly? I so disagree with hilseymour's assessment on how homeless people are better off here than somewhere else. Most public places won't allow non-customers to use the restroom and discarded food..would you think you were better off if you had to eat that? I think that kind of attitude is part of the problem. We think that there is no way that someone could be really badly off here, not in O'Glorious America. Everyone is great here..we would never allow some poor baby to starve, etc... hello, where the f*ck have you been? Anyway, sorry to rant in your notes... Since I won't be around, Merry Christmas!!! Hope you get lots of wonderful presents..and don't get tooo drunk..have fun and be safe! Lots of love and hugs - Jen
from kaybiff :
Huzzah for being excited for Christmas! Huzzah! Merry Christmas to YOU, Miss Excited McCiterson. Merry Christmas, indeed.
from hilseymour :
I don't think it matters where you give to as long as you give. You have to remember that homeless people you see on the streets are still better off than people in other countries with nothing - they can have clean water from public toilets and get food people discard. I'm not saying we should ignore the problems we have here, but everyone is human. There's a part of me that thinks "why should I feel bad about not giving to any charity when people like fucking Michael Jackson are blowing millions and millions on the stupidest useless things". But I'm not Micahel Jackson, so I should only worry about myself.
from vickithecute :
Just a quick tip: Saying "it's snot galore" is not going to be very successful in getting you hugs. ::giggle:: Hope you feel better soon, though....
from soverycherry :
Hi! I have not received the card yet, but that's okay. I didn't even do Christmas cards this year, how's that for lazy? I think it's because my hand was about to fall off after finishing up all my baby thank you cards. I'm sorry you have a cold! Once after a three day and night drunken fest, I somehow got strep throat! So be thankful it's just a cold, right?
from dangerspouse :
Sounds like a kick-asstime was had by all, but...how do you know what an old man's willy looks like that you can make that comparison? Just asking....
from vickithecute :
Hey, I left a shoutout to you in my diary, but if you're slacking you may not have seen it ::giggles:: Anyway, in case you haven't heard, there's going to be a new Georgia book ("Then he Ate my Boy Entrancers", due out June 1, 2005 in the states, May 3rd in the UK - I'm SO jealous....)
from gumphood :
if I had a site called kind review, I would want it to be mean.
from princesse69 :
I hope your feeling better now from the boozin' :)
from kind-reviews :
Hi! I just wanted to let you know that your review is done. Thanks again for requesting! You can check it out at: http://kind-reviews.diaryland.com/betchy.html
from xnavygrrl :
Hey, I found you through the devlyn, anyway, you sound like you have a fascinating life. And some of your entries had me laughing out loud! I added you as a favorite, and I think you're going to be someone I look forward to reading often. Missy
from blueavenue :
YES, the line about pumpkin IS priceless! lol. classic betchy indeed. well, my new diary doesn't have any secrets *yet*. really it's just going to be me complaining about life. lol. and maybe things i don't want my mom to read, ya know? or other people who know me in real life who have this url. =) i don't mind strangers knowing all kinds of crap about me, 'coz what does it matter, right? hehe. have a great day off!
from goingloopy :
(1) Where are the pics of him with his wand & tiara?? I'll host them for you, if you'll post them! (2) That's so funny when people remember random crap and you're like "eh?" (3) the line about the "pumpkin" is freaking priceless. That's why I think you're funny. ;)
from comma-abuse :
WAND. His want. Jeez. Oh, and "pumpkin" is very much a nice nickname, don't be such a woman about it and overthink things. Just hug him lots.
from comma-abuse :
I like the comment you gave me! Bizarre, hah! Yes, well. That sounds right, I suppose. And the thing about Fenton and his sparkly want made me snort mocha flavored soy shake aaall over the place. I am glad you're so happy about Christmas and that things are getting better! I am listening to the most hyper song in the world, by a cute little Japanese singer named Ai Otsuka. More than half the lyrics are literally just "PON PON PON PON PON PON PON PON PON PON PON PON PON PON PON!" Look at her website! www.avexnet.or.jp/ai/ Aw, she's covered in jelly. That's a bit dirty though, isn't it? It makes me think multicolor rainbow bukkake shower. Oh, I have to use that in aan entry. Hah!
from blueavenue :
oh my God! i just read your comment about me on your profile, and you just made me so happy! you really made my day. that is SO sweet! thanks, girlie! ok, talk to ya soon...
from wildrose1 :
I was looking at your profile. I loved francin pascal. I just wanted to be friends of the twins. I never dared dream of being Jessica. I named my little Jessica though. I also started with Judy Blume, she showed me to love reading. (((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))
from blueavenue :
yeah, if you can believe this: i started a new diary that i've passworded, and i thought i was logged into that one, when i was indeed logged into THIS one, so i accidentally deleted my entire template. YEAH. ugh, but i do like this template, it is nice and dark. =) your buffet talk is making me hungry! i vote to put off the diet till after the new year, myself. i can't believe it's only 10 more days, agh!
from soverycherry :
Could you please tell this ignorant American just what scrumboes are? I need to know!!
from catz-eyes :
hiya cherub. thanks for the note you left the day. am mortified to think you've also been through the whole 'spiked drink' ordeal... it sure ain't much fun. but am getting my act together slowly but surely :) thanks for your words of encouragement and support sweetpea *MWAH* love & kindness to you, =^..^= xox
from vickithecute :
Yeppers, I LOVE Georgia. I use expressions like "fabulosity" and "maturiosity" all the time.....
from vickithecute :
"yummy scrumboes"!!! I LOVE that expression!!!
from goingloopy :
Yeah, holidays are a difficult time to diet...very, very difficult. I'm trying. But it's not working so well. We had our office Christmas thing last week...complete with filet mignon and cheesecake (I love my job...but my ass does not.)
from clarity25 :
Oh no..Is it really 11 sleeps until christmas?! your countdown is a ticker clock to doomsday for me. I have so many jobs to finish before christmas, I should just shoot myself now.. Thanks for your last note and just for the record. I don't think you look intimidating at all!:)
from cutielatina :
My husband works for one of those pound shops. He loves it,and you are right, they do have some great bargains.Take care,sweetie.*HUGS*
from soverycherry :
I seriously just had to go downstairs and tell my sister how cool it was that you guys have "pound shops" over there, like our dollar stores over here. I don't know why I find that so cool, but I guess I'm just a big ole' dorkus. Pound shops! Ha! Have a good day!!
from pattymelt :
i know what you mean about my notes! i sent a request to andrew to be able to delete lark blocks of old notes but do see it happening any time soon! that's why i added the comments and the guestbook. you need to fly over and we can all meet and go to vegas. it's really fun. we dont' gamble all that much (altho, if i could, i would) we mostly sightsee and eat and pretend to shop. it's a fun place.
from lily-neko :
I got your note and my favorite one is Wish Bear.
from kaybiff :
Those people obviously got kidnapped and take to a magical, psychodelic mystery world where they were assigned numbers. Little do they know that they weren't really kidnapped but it was just a bad plot line.
from pattymelt :
we have the $1 store here. same thing. they have an eskimo manger scene for christmas. nice. sorry i haven't left you notes lately. it's been crazy getting ready for vacation and this software conversion. i will catch up on everything next week when i get back from the vegas!
from gumphood :
I liked the review. I think I shall get one. So what's happening. I can't beleieve only 11 days left. eek.
from goingloopy :
...You are so funny. We have a dollar store here, same concept...but of course, all my friends and I don't really give a rat's ass if anyone sees us shopping there. I get that retarded "intimidating" thing too...but I've decided that, if it makes stupid morons leave me the hell alone, it's useful. And as for why people google shit like this...they must lead more boring lives than we do. Or they're just off their meds.
from rapidreview :
Your review is up! Sorry it took so long...finals week. Robyn
from clarity25 :
Thank you so much for taking the time to write me a note about the situation with Alexander. What you said was really helpful and let me put things in a clearer perspective about everything. Thanks for that.:). I actually just saw "Ghost World" for the first time this week, It was the movie I chose to rent as my "comedy choice". (ironic). I really enjoyed it too!
from im2evil4u :
I totally agree with you on Steve Buscemi, he is a great actor and Con Air is one of my all time favorites (I drool over Nicolas Cage, so it works out nicely) along with American History X, with Ed Norton. Another excellent and equally yummy actor.
from krugerpak007 :
I love you, I love you, I love you...I hope you are having a good weekend. Love Kathy
from im2evil4u :
No worries. It takes quite a lot to piss me off despite my name. By the way, I have checked out your diary and love it thus far. I also must say you are quite a looker. Glad to have met you, and the next time I update my favorites you are there.
from heelandlass :
How come you're so adorable? I read your new comments on me and I am really touched. I think it's good we don't live in the same town because we would be VERY bad influences on each other I think! I think that the reason I don't have many people reading me is because I am lazy and don't network enough, I should do but I have a hard enough time keeping up with my small list of favourites already, imagine if i had more?! I would spend all my days reading diaries and not working and then I would get fired and then I would probably have a more interesting life to write about, living on the streets and being a bag lady/cat lover. Hmm. It's worth thinking about. I think I got to bed at around 4am. I had to go home for a power nap though. That's because I'm 30, see it does change things. Love you betchy. xxx
from soverycherry :
I love Ghost World! Steve Buscemi rocks so hard. You are awesome because you think so too. Anyway, I'm sorry you had to see J&J but it really shows what a big person you are because instead of being all, "Ha ha, you lost your job, loser" you just felt badly for them. You are awesome.
from blueavenue :
i like to pretend i'm not bitter about old boyfriends who put me thru hell and are now married, but let's face it: i'm bitter. lol. hey, what are pop socks?
from dooki :
I love Steve Buscemi. And I love you for your new comment about me. I shall put my hands together for YOU!
from aliboomboom :
I'm glad that you like the pictures. Thanks for all the compliments!! No one ever tires of hearing how pretty their baby is.!!!
from chakra-chick :
Hi sweetie! Thanks so much for the note dear. I really wonder why U can't read my journal *scratches head*...very strange indeed. Glad that you are back to your old cheery-self. Have an excellent day further and an awesome weekend. *smooches* FARZANAH
from lightmytorch :
I'm glad I got you to giggle. That's what I'm here for! Man, it's warm in this pocket. Do do doo do...
from im2evil4u :
Thanks so much for adding me and for your note. I will definately check yours out, I am looking forward to it.
from caiti-lynn :
Sure I would be more than happy to give you a review, thanks for your interest! I'll have it done in a few days (two to four)
from goingloopy :
Thanks for your comment. And I like my new one in your profile too. An idea: see if you can find the movie on eBay...some people will let you mail them a money order or cashier's check. Or, beg one of your friends to order it for you on Amazon and then pay them back in liquor. :)
from lostmystic76 :
Well listen, since it sounds like you're in a pinch with this movie, I'll help ya out = ) Email me your address, and I'll see if I can make a copy for ya - then you can watch it whenever your little heart desires.
from gumphood :
what if you nap? Wouldn't that be more sleeps? I have an issue scientifically with meansureing things in sleeps.
from aliboomboom :
I think I've already forgotten how to date. Why else would I be this nervous over a freakkin' phone call? I'm so pathetic.
from soverycherry :
Hi! Just stopping by to say hello. Oh, and the only things I've seen Shaun Hatosy in are an awful Freddie Prinze Jr movie, and some Susan Sarandon movie. Oh, and one called Outside Providence. But I haven't seen him in anything in a few years, at least. Hm. Have a great day!!
from avalonte :
Oh I forgot, he's also in A Guy Thing! I think he's lush!!!
from avalonte :
Ok, the irony wasn't intended!!! I of course meant she will be 'thought of "as" a dyslexic Melanie!' I don't have dyslexia, I just can't fucking type!!
from avalonte :
He's in Down To You, Inventing The Abbotts, In and Out, The Postman. Those are just the ones I've seen him in. Here's a link to his page on IMDB with all his films. http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0004999 By the way, that poor kid is forever going to be thought of a dyslexic Melanie!!!
from aliboomboom :
It is a great movie and everyone is right TNT plays it constantly becasue it is a much loved movie over here too. I'd send you a copy but I bet that shipping things overseas is a bitch and I bet it costs an arm and a leg. It's hilarious though!
from aliboomboom :
So what's your favorite Christmas movie? A Christmas Story? That movie is seriously on about 500 times a week right now. It's a good one though. Anyways yeah I guess most of us want the same thing but how many of us will really get it? That's the scary thing. Brandon is a great looking guy but I don't know if it'll go anywhere beyond that.
from krugerpak007 :
You always manage to make me smile. Try been in a mental hospital for a while-weird things happening there...Be thankful you just get singing. Nothing like a guy running around naked while you are trying to eat dinner. And not Brad Pitt...A scrawny white old man...Anywaqy I am just been mean, not nice. Take care and have a nice weekend!xoxoxo Kathy
from onewetleg :
yes, one of my favorite movies and one of the very few *i* own. shouldn't be too hard to find it on dvd or vhs.
from rejectreview :
Hey, you're on the pending list! Thanks for requesting.
from tigerlily21 :
You can find it used on Amazon pretty cheaply, I'm sure. I know there is a cable channel here who plays it non-stop from Christmas Eve through the day after Christmas. Hope you are able to watch it (as it is not really Christmas if you haven't!!) *hugs* Jen
from lostmystic76 :
OMG! Hahahaha!!!! They play that movie over here in the states ALL the time. The TNT stationed mentioned below actually plays it 24 hours on Christmas Day....over and over and over again - lol. Yeah, but that is definately a GREAT movie...still cracks me up. Damn I remember the first time my family and I watched it - OMG I thought we were all gonna pee ourselves....especially the duck scene at the end - LMFAO!
from stillsingle :
Oh A Christmas Story, one of the the BEST Christmas movies ever! I know TNT (station in the states, not sure if you have it there) plays it ALL the time around this time of year. I think I've already seen it twice! Look for it on the web, you could probably buy the DVD.
from the-duff :
Here's a link from the internet movie database website about this movie. http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0085334/
from lauralgood :
clarity is right it is called "a christmas story" but i have to say i just watched it for the first time a couple of years ago because Larry found out i had not seen it. hugs and luck. Laural
from clarity25 :
Are you kidding me? EVERYONE knows that movie! (Listen to me, talking for the entire population here..) I watched it every christmas until I was about 12. I remember the dorky little blond haired boy with the cracked glasses from shooting himself with the BB gun. It was funny.. However the name of the title escapes me. I think it's called "A christmas Story". That's just a random guess. But I'm sure someone else will know the real title. (whispers) I like sharon too..shhh.
from aliboomboom :
I still haven't gotten around to changing it. Sorry!! For the time being, you are from Australia. Why did I think that anyways? It's just another example of how clueless I can be.
from lauralgood :
I LOVE it that you like me. hugs and kisses. Laural
from blueavenue :
oh, do come! it was a beautiful sight w/all the christmas lights. you should definitely come to new york! on another note, you know, it's hard enough to get on in the world w/o extra critical parents. ugh, i hate that. generally i've come to learn that when people say things like that, it's out of love; they just don't know how to express things the right way. but you are gorgeous just the way you are, so don't ever worry about that!
from stillsingle :
It's actually Donner, not Donna...the reindeer? You crack me up! Hope everything is going well. :)
from aliboomboom :
Okay so I can't change my profile from work but I will do it as soon as I get home. Yeah Lemonie is a odd name but to each his own I guess. Oh and my mom is the same way sometimes she's utterly wonderful and other times she's a terror.
from aliboomboom :
Now, I'm embarrassed. I really thought you were from Australia. How oblivious am I? I read you every single day and I don't even know what country you are in, continent even. I'll change the comment. Glad you enjoyed it.
from krugerpak007 :
More hugs to you. Have a good week ahead. Hope you are feeling better! xoxoox
from dooki :
WE GOT APPROVED! WOO HOOOOO! You are absolutely invited for a holiday! Wanna drink cocktails while we look out at the city sky line? Tres Fabulous!
from princesse69 :
Oh Betchy, sorry to read that you're going through a rough patch. Here's lots of hugs to help you get smiling your beautiful smile again. Take care chick <3 Sharon x
from chakra-chick :
Once again...I so agree with you. Hugs are brilliant for making you feel better. I believe so much in the healing power of hugs, that I feel no shame in asking for them whrn I need one! Hope that all your problems get sorted out and yu feel better soon. Thinking about you tons... Take care sweetie
from comma-abuse :
OH! And I can read a teensy tiny bit of Japanese. If that's what threw you off. Yeah.
from comma-abuse :
Oh, and I don't think I'm god. And I've been here for six years. I think. I am so confused.
from comma-abuse :
Betchy, Betchy. Okay. Here it goes. I live in the USA, have for about 5 years, hate it. I am German. My first language is German. Deutsch. I am totally utterly German and stuff. Yeah. Also, I don't know why I love Japan. I just do. I think it's lovely. I haven't got any Asian in me, sorry. I think I'm like... God. Um. My mother was pure German, and my father was an American. Cherokee or something in there somewhere. Hell, I don't know. So yeah. German! Whee!
from clarity25 :
Thanks so much for your note! I'm sorry things are going badly for you right now, I know how much hugs can mean when you're feeling low. I wish I could give you one too. Yes, I would really like to read the entries you deleted to have a better understanding of what you're going through and offer any insight I can. My E-mail is Clarity25_1978@yahoo.com. You're in my thoughts! I read through all the entries I missed, Happy Belated birthday! it sounded like you had alot of fun! (loved the pics too!) btw - like the new template color:)-Love Clarity
from krugerpak007 :
Sorry to hear you are goin through a rough time honey. Here I am so bloody wrapped up in myself..I haven't forgotten about you, I added a whole lot of hugs to your hug thingie, which I love by the way.And you have more coming virtually from israel. Take care and cheer up. Your hug entry was beautiful and I hope you have a nice break! Love Kathy xoxox
from vickithecute :
You're right, hugs rock!! ((((Betchy!!!!))))
from stillsingle :
Hey, girl...just catching up! Glad you unlocked so now I can read you at work, which is where I spend most of my time reading! I leave the passwords at home. I hope you're feeling better, everyone needs downtime now and then to sort themselves out. Take care!
from gumphood :
Hugs is the girlest topic since care bears.
from blueavenue :
aw man. well, i'll be thinking about ya, and i hope to see you back again real soon, girlie...take care of yourself.
from acornotravez :
I hear you about the bad luck bit. I feel your pain. Hang in there, sending good vibes your way.
from tigerlily21 :
Aww, sweetie! I hope everything works out. I'm here for you, if you need anything. Sorry I haven't been here much, I haven't forgotten about you! *big hugs* Jen
from adulterous-k :
Oh dear - look after yourself, pet. xx
from lightmytorch :
That's ironic cause I actually did lock my diary. Email me for the password, okay? (A ton of people read you, so.. ya know..) jlindberg_24@hotmail.com
from gumphood :
dude. you should just write it. it will help.
from chakra-chick :
Betchy sweetie, I am so sorry to learn that your life is not going well at the moment. I can definately relate... Hope this 'short-holiday' will get you back on track and put you in your usual bubbly and happy-go-lucky disposition! You look after yourself honey...I'll be thinking about you...
from starlight42 :
Thanks for the nice note :) I think crush's are fun too. That's the downside to when you're with someone or getting married like me! No more crush's...oh well.
from pattymelt :
so totally a dream. #1 42? never gonna hapen unless he is jon bon jovi. #2 - a kid? forgetaboutit! NEVER gonna happen! yuck! you are scaring me! sorry my imaginary fake boyfriend was mean to you! have a great day!
from nikita84 :
Well, i wish my neighbors would feed the cats not trying to kill them. I mean, those people are so cruel that when they give food to the kittens there's poison with the food. It's just so SO cruel. I love animals, can't imagine why someone would want to hurt them. Anyways. How are you today?
from lauralgood :
hugs and love. thanks love. Laural
from princesstosh :
Go Becky! Get ya a crush, girl! It always feels good to adore someone and want to look pretty for them. Go Becky! Getcha one!
from aliboomboom :
It is really nice to have a crush on someone. It just makes the day more exciting rather or not you really want to be with them or not, ya know? That's kind of how I feel about John. I just like having a crush on him. I love crushes, they turn out better than actually dating someone anyways. I just now got a chance to look at your pictures. You are so pretty and not fat at all. I don't know why you think that. Your sisters are really pretty too. Anyways I'll try to do better. It's just hard to get Griffin to be patient while I'm on the computer. Thanks for all the compliments about him, I think he's pretty cute myself.
from drmz-of-him :
That's kinda cool that your hole is still open. Mine probably would be too, but I've gauged so its bigger than normal. I hope you get your tree soon! I'll be getting mine soon, I hope. Even if its just a little tree that stands on the counter, I'll be happy. =)
from fan4 :
Thanks for complimenting me on my layout, and for adding me to your fave. diary list. :)
from nikita84 :
Oh, cats are not very friendly when they don't have food! lol The worst thing ever is holidays when everything is closed and i have to go around the city lookin for cat food like crazy before my cats kill me! Well, now it's just a cat...my Atilla was killed now i have just my Nikita! Before them i had Figaro Kato. He was hit by a car, that's how i got Nikita and Atilla...i got sick when my Figaro died and my parents got me 2 other cats. Figaro was really anti-social and mean but i loved him even thou he hurted me sometimes. Well, that's becouse he loved me. The others were always in worse shape than i was. Always bleeding! haha. Anyways. My Nikita gets kind of bitchy when she doesn't have her food. Oh, x-mas...i guess we're gonna throw a party. Yeah, becouse we're crazy and we want be bothered and have family over and children running around and screaming and people spilling wine on the sofa and sucha. But we'll have to see about how we're gonna do that.
from nikita84 :
Oh, walk home sucks! What's Tesco's? Oh, and you like x-mas too! Cool! What you gonna do this year? Any idea?
from goingloopy :
Okay, I SWEAR it's fixed now. I think I figured out the problem...it was the template designer's way of linking the notes page. I have remedied the problem so that you can now leave notes instead of comments. :)
from gumphood :
not deleted. Just changing it.
from nikita84 :
Hey. Thanx for your message. You're so sweet! *hug* I'm not desperate, the thing is: If i keep this up (not going out and being fat, of course!) i'll NEVER find anyone. I wish i could just go out and have some fun but in the end i'm always too tired or i don't have any money or i'm too busy looking at myself on the mirror while trying out some outfit and hating myself for being so fat. Ok, i'll have to work on this! haha! It's gonna be ok thou! Oh, of course i'll stick for Elton! He sure is a legend and i really admire him! So, how's your day? Mine is boring. I don't have to do much today so i'm working on some things for university. And since i came here i also changed my profile a bit. Just put some more info so people know what to expect from my diary! :) No false expectations! hahaha! Once again, thanx for your message! And yes, it's most likely my next entry will be happier. Christmas is getting near after all! And i love it! I love december! Silly x-mas movies on tv, working with mum on the x-mas decoration, the tree, cooking...ahhh! I'm happier already!!! HUGS!!! Nell
from avalonte :
Scab, lol!! If it was my kid I'd belt him, but lol cos it's someone else's kid!! Good for you for not replying to Sal!! Go you!!! xxxx
from comma-abuse :
Oh, and *HUG!* And, you know what fixes things? At least for a geek like me? Putting on some Disney soundtracks in German. But I don't think German would make you as happy as it does little homesick me. Hmm. The Hunchback of Notre Dame (Der Gloeckner von Notre Dame) sounds great in german because the rolled rs and such suit the location. I'm ranting again, egad.
from comma-abuse :
Oh, I'm alright, people can just be fuckers. As you very well know, judging by this last week. So, here's me hoping that YOU are okay. And as for crushes, I've experienced nothing crush-like in ...well, a long time. There was one almost-crush that ended before it got in full swing because he displayed himself as a total fuckhead. I'm too particular and paranoid to get real crushes, I guess. I prefer the loviness I have now that still feels like a giddy crush. But I'm ranting. Go find a lovely boy to flutter over! Gogo!
from peachick :
hey hey hey becky!!! i'm so happy for you having no makeup and step out of your door, that's BEST thing and yay for no more pressure from that!!! on the side note, i hooked up with an indian boy whom now i found myself really into, and it's reciprocal! yay! yay! you can shout back to my notes page without emailing me. oh, and also, **a big hug**
from chakra-chick :
Hi sweetie. So glad to hear that you are feeling better! I have crushes on a few guys at the gym...which is great because then it motivates me to go more often! Have a wonderful day further hun, *smooches* Faz
from avalonte :
I'm your favourite chicken, I'm your favourite chicken!!! Woohoo!!! I added 32 or 33 hugs!! Thanks for your note! K's fine now, but I took her to the doctor this morning and he put her on antibiotics as a precaution. xx
from lauralgood :
HUGS! I love crushes...they are the nicest thing since...chocolate. Yeah. Thinking good thoughts for you, love. Laural
from blueavenue :
ooh! i know! i love that episode w/Phoebe's sexy sick-voice! i thought about re-recording my answering machine message with my deep, sexy voice. lol. oh well. wondermess. bye now. =)
from lauralgood :
are you feeling any better, lovely? hugs. Love Laural
from pattymelt :
well, i don't have a totally clear picture of what happend but i can tell you this from experience! alcohol + drunk friends = bad news. trust me. that's one reason i really don't drink much anymore and for sure why i don't have drunk friends anymore. that's what cause the breakup of me and my best friend of 15 years. her drinking and me getting sucked into her alcoholic insanity. her insecurites and my inablilty to take bullshit from anyone especially when drinking! but to make you feel better, good riddance to bad rubbish. i am with you on the loyalty thing. and on the self sensoring tool that all of us have inside our heads but most of us don't use. chin up and good luck this week.
from pattymelt :
so you miss me? i know, i am a lazy stooge. i have to catch up on what is going on with you! thanks for the link. i am sure this is one of many notes this evening!
from krugerpak007 :
Thanks honey! You don't realise how much you are cared about and loved. Thanks for your sweet words. I am sorry you are going through a bad time with your "friends". Just know you are beautiful and loved! xoxoxo Kathy
from princesstosh :
*Sniffle* You are absolutely sweet, Becky! You made my day, it was the perfect ending to the perfect Thanksgiving (I didnt burn the turkey! Yay!) I hate that your 'friends' arent sticking by you--You, too, dont deserve any bad thing that ever comes your way. I hope things look up soon. Take care and thank you so much!
from avalonte :
Hi my lovely Chicken!!! You've made my day!! I love you!!!!!! I'll try to ring you on Sunday! Have a fab weekend, and just think about yourself, not about silly bitchy children who are so beneath you they can't even reach your shoes!! xxx
from heelandlass :
Thank you missy! For the shout out, the big up, the hiya, the heyho - all that! You're too cute. And I reckon you could drink me under the table! Enjoy your weekend and stay off the gin! xxx
from lauralgood :
hey lovely. You are too sweet really. Things will work out with your mates somehow. They always do. I never understand why people have to act so immature and silly when they should be adults, you know? keep smiling and know that you are a bright light in my life. hugs and love. laural
from hilseymour :
I'm not a wine person. I'm not a booze person really, but certainly not a wine person. That is why if I have to drink wine, I'll go for the sweetest and cheapest possible. What I'm trying to say is, I love Hock! And Blue Nun! And even Lambrini on occassion...
from goingloopy :
I have notes...I don't know why it wouldn't let you leave one...but I love comments too. I'm sorry about your boob.
from catz-eyes :
hiya cherub :) am sorry to hear that you've been sad... and have been catchingup on what's been happening. seems we've had similar issues with so-called mates. bugger the lot of 'em, i say! wish i could give you a BIG *HUG* in person and tell you what a wonderful, gorgeous (yes, i saw the pics!) girl you are! funny though - always imagined you were a brunette ;) seriously hun - you are *so* beautiful! love & kindness to you always, =^..^= xox PS bugger that my diary wont open for you :(
from princesse69 :
sorry that you had to end what was once a good friendship. I had to end it with an old best friend whom i had known for years and had some of the bestest times with. We were both were mad and talked utter bollocks too. But she was also spiteful and manipulative and was the world biggest liar. I've not seen her in years now and I miss the close friendship we had but I don't regret not having her in my life as she did make it hell at times. She wasn't worth bothering about at the end of the day and i was better off without her.
from chakra-chick :
Betchy my sweet...you and I are so alike in many ways that it is actually scary! I know exactly what you mean by being let down by your friends. I too have to be the one to apologise, thus making myself seem like the bad one (which I almost never am!). If you ever need someone to rant and rave to, I'm here! I'm a very good-listener (well, in this case-reader!) Take care sweetie... FAZ
from lauralgood :
hugs and love to you beautiful girl. Love Laural
from goingloopy :
Somehow, it's always worse when your girlfriends stab you in the back...guys you just kind of expect the asshole behavior so even though you may be hurt, it's easier to deal with. Hang in there, chicklet. :)
from princesstosh :
Sorry sweetie- hope things are better soon!
from comma-abuse :
It's super late, now, but I am an idiot and I never said happy birthday! So happy (really belated) birthday!
from soverycherry :
Hi! I got your card! I saved the envelope, even, because I like the stamps. I am such a nerd. B.Do was the one who got it out of the mailbox and she got all excited too, haha. I'm glad you included your return addy - I'll be sure to write back if I ever have the time. I still haven't finished thank you cards from my shower yet, that's pathetic. Anyway, I can't wait to get back to work (ha) so I'll have the time to catch up on your life!!! Take care!
from princesse69 :
What sneaky bitchy thing to do! At least you got yourself a nice new video phone to play with. Hope your ok Hun.x
from princesstosh :
UGH! Evil bitch! I guess it was a clever thing to do but how horrible. But Kathy is right, the bright side is you have a brand new phone---pretty neato. Lets boycott the rain together, ok?
from avalonte :
Thanks for ringing Chick! Sorry I rejected your first call! I didn't mean to! I flipped the phone open just as I was paying for the take-away and it wasn't open enough and flipped shut again! So thanks for ringing back! Weird thing is, I said to K, that I had no idea it was ringing cos of not recognising the number, and she said "It's probably Backy!" How weird is that! She scares me sometimes! Anyway, love you babe! xxx
from krugerpak007 :
Geez, I am sorry about the phone, but look on the bright side, a brand new video phone, how cool is that? Take care sweetie and have a good week. xoxox
from bellystarbug :
Awww Betchy how kind of you to take to write me a note. Thank you. XOX
from krugerpak007 :
I have to say it again. You are simply lovely. LOVELY! I don't think Fenton is too bad. I pictured him to be more chubby and darker than that, not sure why, but he is probably sexy...I am sorry you think he may be using again. He is just lucky that he has you as a friend. Can you talk to him about it? Thank goodness he has friends like you. Anyway sweetie I hope all works out and that you feel good and have an awsome weekend. Thinking of you! xoxox Kathy
from chakra-chick :
I'm so sorry that you are feeling down sweetie. *hugs* It's never good when someone you care about is going down the wrong path...all ypu can do is be there for Fenton. Have a good weekend darling. By the way, very strange thing that you can no longer read my diary...I really don't know what is the problem! Hopefully it is just a temporary hitch and it shall remedy itself soon. *smooches* Farzanah
from spsreviews :
Hi! My loyal minion - Princess Star Crossed Buns - is freaking out because people are saying your layout isn't pink & because (as she said) she is quite the fan of your site (and rightly so). So, to anyone interested, here is what appears to be happening. If you view it with a mozilla-powered browser, you see pink (as in aol or compuserve). If you're using a browser like IE or CrazyBrowser, you'll see the aqua/white. At least that's how my computer works. Thanks again for the review request! --Sally P.S. Hope everything works out for you. Sorry to hear you're having trouble sleeping due to the worrying. That's rough. Best wishes!
from princesstosh :
Good to see that the rain didnt wash you away. I'll keep all crossables crossed that what you suspect about Fenton isnt so!!! XOXO Have a good weekend!
from princesse69 :
shepherds pie in disguise? haha... what a worry about your friend. i hope he gets the help he needs (if he is doing what u think he's upto). Hugs x
from hilseymour :
I was thinking that too - your site isn't pink!? But I know you only changed your layout soon after I started reading and can't remember what it was like before...? That diary I've added you to - yes it is me, but it's just an exact copy of my current one - it's where I'm moving to when my membership runs out here, but that won't be til next spring/summer anyway, so ignore it for now. It's passworded just because it's a duplicate site and I didn't want anyone posting to it etc til it's open.
from heelandlass :
That chick at the review site said your diary was pink. It's turquoise isn't it?
from chakra-chick :
Hi sweetie! Wow...sounds like you had an awesome few days! Glad that you had a chance to spend it with everyone. Love the pics! You have such beautiful long, straight hair- I'm jealous! Have an excellent day further and enjoy your weekend! *smooches*
from spsreviews :
Congrats! Your review is finally finished at Sock Puppet Sally Reviews! I bet you're thinking, "Finally!" or if not that then, "Oh, I forgot I'd requested a review from those very sluggish, lazy fools!" Ok, well hopefully not the second thought. You're up! Sally
from blueavenue :
ooh ooh! i forgot one thing: you also remind of someone, and i can't for the life of me figure out who it is. hate that. who are you? hehe.
from blueavenue :
thanks betchy! that is so nice of you. i really like your eyes. i think they're sexy. (in the least-bi-sexual way, i mean.) that's a really cute picture of you and liesal. now which one is fenton? is he the one who always has a new weird girlfriend? i'll have to read back. that one story about the girl on the bus w/the eyebrow(s) was just perfect. back later to check up on your b-day shenanigans...
from lauralgood :
honey, you are beautiful. dont forget it. Love Laural
from marieedusept :
Hey! I've been reading your diary for a few weeks...I think it's wondeful! Plus, you're absolutely beautiful, so don't think otherwise! I'll stayed tuned in as long as you keep writing...Thanks so much! :) ~Heather
from hilseymour :
I wouldn't say he was bad looking really. He just looks like a total psycho - it's the eyes. And how come you never told me you had Kiedis-length hair!? Maybe cos I would have been jealous, and I am...
from princesstosh :
Once again you are the cutest doll in the world. XOXOXO. I love the black and white top!!!
from heelandlass :
Yeah, the bridge. It's not bad is it?! Happy Belated Birthday Betchy! xxx
from princesstosh :
Becky!! Happy Belated birthday---I'm sorry I didnt get around to saying it sooner! It sounds like you had a fantastic time!! I was getting worried about you too, with no entries. I thought for sure the rain finally washed you away on the way to work ;) Take care!!!
from lightmytorch :
Hopefully, this will be the start of a good year for you. Hold on while I find a way to make you laugh.. *rummage rummage* .. ah! here they are! my sock puppets! Wait! Where are you going? COME BACK
from pattymelt :
i am glad you had a fun birthday weekend and am REALLY glad you are not in jail!
from princesse69 :
Sorry i didnt remember to wish u a happy birthday.I am glad u had lots of fun drunken nights out.I wish I could go on crazy bar crawls again :) anyway i hope your friend's eye is better x
from krugerpak007 :
Well it sounds like you had an awsome birthday week. You deserve it. Hope you are feeling good, and again Happy Belated Birthday. Glad you had a good time! xoxox
from pattymelt :
yeah, where are you? don't tell me you partied so hard you are like, in jail? update soon!
from krugerpak007 :
Where are you? I miss you!
from krugerpak007 :
I am confused. is your birthday today as in tuesday and the other day was just your work birthday? Anyway Happy Birthday anyway. Please please send me your address. And you see how lovely everyone thinks you are. Inside and out. Take care, and I hope you have or had a wonderful birthda! xoxox
from chakra-chick :
Unfortunately, one doesn't really lose weight during Ramadaan. Well, we abstain from eating, drinking, smoking etc from sunrise to sunset for +/- 30 days. It is a completely 'dry' fast...not even allowed water during that time! At the end of the month, we have a huge celebration with friends and family (which we had on Sunday). There are quite a few instances when one can refrian from fasting, for example: pregnancy, breastfeeding, when a woman is on her period or if you are sickly. In these cases, you can either pay it back (by fasting) after Ramadaan or giving to charity an allocated amount for each day missed.
from chakra-chick :
Happy Birthday sweetie! Hope you have lovely day! Enjoy...
from spoildangelz :
Happy Birthday! Hope you have a good one...and cute pictures, by the way! :-)
from lauralgood :
Oh how glad I am that we are friends! What a neat idea you had of me...and thanks for saying i am pretty. Though you...you could do some wonderful things to me...i think you are gorgeous. Love. Laural
from tigerlily21 :
Happy Early Birthday, Girly!! I hope you have a wonderful weekend.. it sounds as if every minute is jammed full of such fun things! Wish I lived closer so I could come celebrate with you. Have fun!! *having a drink for you* (well, not right now, I'm at work..but you know what I mean) *hugs* Jen
from avalonte :
Sorry I haven't been able to scan the photos yet. I will try to get them done over the weekend! Have a good one Lovely!
from liesal1979 :
Well see, he might have done coz he doesn't wanna give me the wrong idea and we are only meeting up for a chat remember!!! Oh balls. I will text him later and ask him if she is going, where is it and stuff, and god i will have to start getting ready on Friday! x
from liesal1979 :
Well see, he might have done coz he doesn't wanna give me the wrong idea and we are only meeting up for a chat remember!!! Oh balls. I will text him later and ask him if she is going, where is it and stuff, and god i will have to start getting ready on Friday! x
from liesal1979 :
Sunday should be good, i have no money but i will come anyway for the crack.... If i am awake! LOL Yeah it went really well....I loved it!! have a wicked night tonight, are you going to that party next saturday??
from liesal1979 :
Hi....... Tony text me saying he can't make sunday but he is going to his mates leaving do next sat and you were going and did i wanna meet him there! I must admit it sounds a better option! What do you think, where is it and are you going? Let me know!!! xxx
from clarity25 :
I loved the pics! You're really beautiful! Thanks for sharing them! Too bad you don't live closer, would love to hang out sometime. I have a feeling we'd get terribly smashed though..:)
from lauralgood :
ok fess up...what did you think i looked like? i will tell you how i saw you...it was way wrong...short (like 5 2!) with dark hair and kinda pudgy. heheh. all wrong! so how did you see me? very interested. love laural
from adulterous-k :
Mmm not bad at all!! For a Gooner.
from heelandlass :
Heh! Cats make me laugh. My cat - Boris - has started drinking tea out of mugs, dips his paws in and sucks the tea out. It's really cute and very funny, but if he does it and you haven't notice. Yeesh. p.s - we buy this cat food called Iams. It's in big orange bags and you get chicken, fish or lamb flavour. They're really good for cats because they're crunchy and good for their teeth, good for hairballs and are lower in fat than tinned stuff, their poos smell better in the tray and the food itself smells better (good for that hungover morning) and it works out at about 23p a day. You only give each cat a wee serving twice a day and it really fills them up, I think it probably expands in their tummy. Give it a go, I think you can buy trial bags really cheaply. Anyway. Ahem. I'll stop being a boring old cat lady now!
from singlegirl :
I didn't get a chance to read my favorite diaries yesterday, but I do want to add my 10 cents - you are gorgeous. You actually remind me of my best friends - I think it's the long hair - I can't wait to have mine back!
from singlegirl :
I didn't get a chance to read my favorite diaries yesterday, but I do want to add my 10 cents - you are gorgeous. You actually remind me of my best friend - I think it's the long hair - I can't wait to have mine back!
from lightmytorch :
Holy crap, you did get some compliments didn't you? ;) Whoa.
from princesse69 :
hi betchy, i love ur cute photos.i hope you have fun on all ur birthday nights out.our cat also like McDonalds! Hugs x
from goingloopy :
You are cute. :) And see, all those birthday gatherings mean all those presents, and free drinks. Enjoy it, girlie. Free shit only comes your way once a year, so milk it! And PS- if you need pics hosted, I can help you out. I'm only at like 2% or some silliness like that....
from chakra-chick :
Hi beautiful Betchy! You are really lucky to have so many people around you who want to be with you and celebrate your birthday with you. But you are right...it can get pretty exhausting! Thats why I have many acquintances, but very few friends. Toodles Sweetie! *smooches*
from liesal1979 :
Oh and i text tony saying he can always come round mine 4 a chat and he wants to! Whats going on with mark and legs?
from liesal1979 :
HOLA! Hows you, just wondered if you were coming to the play tonight? X
from onewetleg :
oi, betchy your are gorgeous! i can't speel. cam i,.? sorry i am drunken me. lov eyou betchy...
from aliboomboom :
Sorry, I thought I had. It's 07gcr10. Enjoy. And I'll be back for a longer note soon.
from petrichor :
The painful thing about hate is no matter how much you hate someone, there will always be a part that cares for them or loves them; otherwise, it'd be easier to be indifferent to them and not feel bitter at all because you simply wouldn't care.
from lauralgood :
go to my older entries page and i have a section marked as pictures of me and you can see me. you really are gorgeous.
from kaybiff :
What el Gump o said! Pictures are lovely! Whee!
from gumphood :
everyone love pictures. Nice
from lightmytorch :
Oh, cmon, I hope you're not embarrassed at the pictures, there'd be no reason to be.
from pattymelt :
porn star? oh, you said...never mind!
from tigerlily21 :
Wohoo! You are gorgeous, chick!! I'm so happy I finally got to see pics..now I can't wait to see Fent! Yay, Avalonte for hosting them for you. Hope everything is going well. Have a great hump day! *hugs* Jen
from fuct-up-girl :
errrm i don't really know any year 11s so no, i don't know her. what does she look like? i might recognise her from description. lol xxx
from liesal1979 :
hi chick, the public will get warning as they are coming 2 see me in a play, and they probably won't even see them...my dresses are too long. Thats right dear betchy, DRESSES!!! Bless me! I am so knackered today, saw Jo at lunchtime!
from princesstosh :
ohhhh, Becky!!! You are just gorgeous!! I loved all the pics!
from liesal1979 :
HOLA Chicken, Wow Look at the nice comments you got! Hope ur ok, haven;t heard from Tony not that i expect 2 yet, I have just brought White tights. YEP WHITE TIGHTS! Evil i tell u! xx
from pattymelt :
you are totally beautiful fat or skinny. you look like a movie star! (you american does that sound?!) keep smiling!
from lauralgood :
oh and about my babies...I have three doggies. I will link the entry where I show their photos soon. Just for you because I have a bigger crush on you now...smiles.
from lauralgood :
you are absolutely gorgeous...completely. and you are not fat in those pictures. hmmm...wish you were closer and into girls...smiles. love Laural
from comma-abuse :
Ah! God, I am so used to digital cameras. I didn't even think about scanning. I am a spacy one. Sorry!
from comma-abuse :
Betchyyy, there's free internet image hosting out there! It's very easy to set up an account, and I know several hosting sites that are wonderful, if you're interested.
from avalonte :
You're welcome Chick! Sorry, I noticed on your entry that I'd uploaded a couple of bigger ones by mistake! So I replaced them with the smaller versions. xx
from krugerpak007 :
U have said it again and again. You are so beautiful inside and out. And I am crazy about you, little one! Now just e-mail me an address for me to got those pics back to you-ok? Anything else you may fancy from Israel? Israeli music, chocolate? I could pop that in as well! Love K xoxox
from comma-abuse :
I happen to think you are absolutely lovely. And you were right (You mentioned this vaguely before, didn't you?), you have a very very nice face. I am such a face person. Truly I am. God help me for being stuck with the one I've got. I love pictures!
from chakra-chick :
Well, I don't have GOLD membership so I can't host any pics :-( But I am trying to find a good free on-line site that will host my pics. So, hopefully you will see some soon! have an excellent day sweetie *smooches*
from thedevlyn :
weeeeeeeeee, pictures!
from chakra-chick :
Wow! You are gorgeous girl!
from clarity25 :
Thanks for your note, As for the template..Britanny Murphy, it is not. Oh, I know what you mean about vivid dreams haunting you, I had a similiar one last night about my ex-boyfriend that passed away. I also woke up crying. (very strange) We're on the same page. Dreams can bring up all these emotions and feel so real. Oh and as for Charl. I've been in a similiar situation, it sucks. I felt rejected, horny and pissy. lol. But life goes on and you're able to laugh about it later on...sort of:)
from fuct-up-girl :
There are no adventures lol! No I just know a couple of people from school but they don't use their diaries that often. I tend not to add people from Weston incase I know them or something. Wyvern's crap but I don't think I'd like Priory, hmm.. xxx
from fuct-up-girl :
Oh right, lol, erm I go to Wyvern. Yeah I've searched for people from Weston before aswell and no-one really comes up. xxx
from liesal1979 :
hi me again, what he say to the text you sent him about likeing me! xx
from pattymelt :
thanks for the comment! yeah, i am trying to take more pictures - with myself in them sometimes! i am really bad about taking pics of others and not including myself. the story of my life! have a great day!
from liesal1979 :
just a quickie have had a manic day... he text me this yesterday: Kando, but u should know im seeing some1 at he mo, i just didn't want 2 let u get the wrong idea. soz 2 mess u around. but if u wanna go 4 that drink txt me. i gotta go back to work now. I replied on darrens phone: Hi! Lisa Again! so your attached!? Well if you still fancy that drink then i'm up 4 it! Haven't heard yet, but thats no biggie! What do you think? I'm so confused! xxx
from krugerpak007 :
Wow, Betchy dear. I have missed so much. i am sory about your dream arousing so much pain in you. I hate those types of dreams that feel so real and then when you wake up you feel so damn sad because it isn't real..Am I making any sense? All I can say is that you are beautiful in and outside and whoever lands up winning you over is going to be one lucky chap. Mmm. Chap? Where did I get that word from? Anyway the photos are scanned and they are with Avalonte. Because my diary is passworded I didn't want your readers to get irritaed. So I guess you guys will be in touch so she can post them for you if you still want. Which you should because you are lovely! About that "embarrassing" story the other night with him not been able to do that because of his wife, I do agree that it is embarrssing, but I have a more humiliating story to tell you, to make you feel much better and to cheer you up. But it's not for the notes section and I have taken up too much space already. So expect an humiliating e-mail from me soon. Love you sweety, and hope you are having a good week! xoxoxox
from chakra-chick :
You know...I have the same experience with my dreams. I sometime wake up crying/laughing/screaming- same reason...beacuse it seems so real! It's stange how something as 'unreal' as a dream can make you feel so out-of-sorts, hey? That happens to me too...it'll haunt me for many long days! Hope you feel better soon, luv! *smooches*
from heelandlass :
These dreams are evil and should be destroyed. There are loads of parts of our brains that we don't control when we are awake and functioning and they come out to play when we're asleep just to fuck us up. It's easier said than done, but just try to forget the dream, it's just a dream. Sometimes they don't mean anything at all, it's just flickers from your memory swirling around. Of course you still have feelings and emotions, you wouldn't be human if you could switch it all off, so the odd dream is only natural. It's all part of the fabric that makes up Betchy. Try to focus on how far you've come since that time and relish in how well you're doing, rather than concentrating on how much pain you've been caused. Like I said - easier said than done. But give it a go girl, you didn't come this far to lose it over a dream. Stay strong. xxx
from liesal1979 :
He Text me as well telling me he was seeing someone and he didn't wanna lead me on, but then he said if i still wanted to go for a drink to text him, Dunno what to do now, need your help urgently!!! xxxx
from onewetleg :
aww, it ain't so bad, betchy. better luck next weekend. love,
from hilseymour :
perhaps u shoulda settled for the italian dyke. They say the lady latino lovers are very cunning linguists
from fuct-up-girl :
errrm why? lol what about you? xxx
from st-r-a-n-ge :
Wyvern, loads of my mates have diarys so I shouldn't be the only person from Weston. I'm sorry if I don't reply cos I'm not gonna close my diary any more cos so freak hacked into it and left me threats.
from st-r-a-n-ge :
Um yeh I'm from Weston, why? Do I know you?
from liesal1979 :
OI YOU! Reply chicken
from kaybiff :
Oh, now, now. Chin up, dear! Don't dwell on the who did who and the who did whatsit. Think of all the positive things of the night, like your drinking. And, um, the consumption of drinks. And, er...Hmm. Perhaps you can fluff with your cat. Cats make everything better. (Unfortunately, horrible notes make things worse. I am sorry.)
from gumphood :
was she a prostiture? A lady of the night? Or just a hussie?
from liesal1979 :
you busy tonight, i was gonna come round after work, what time do u get in?
from heelandlass :
Hmm. I don't think you should feel too bad about that guy Betchy, sounds like he was leading you on from the start. You don't go around kissing people's necks after being told to get lost and then keep pestering them and flirting and then ask to go home with them when they are being completely innocent. I think I definitely would've kicked him out though, it would've taught him a lesson - he should be thinking about his wife and kids long before he ends up at a girls house. You were very hospitable after he humiliated you and he should be grateful. Men are idiots sometimes. Thanks for the recommendations by the way. The drugs, well it's not big and it's not clever but I do all sorts really - mainly e, mdma, mushrooms, pot, coke and some stuff my friend buys off the internet which tastes like beefy wood and is hideous and I will never do again!
from liesal1979 :
Hmmm Ok, Sounds like you had a poo night, if you had called me earlier, i would have come out and just not drank, coz i was sooo bored at home! Well lets see what comes of this text then Cilla, xx
from liesal1979 :
Hi, Ok, so thats good. Whose Mark? Ummmat the risk of sounding like a freak as you know i am, what did he say to you, can't believe he didn't meantion the text, and he does like me like me, I promise i'll stop as soon as i get a reply!! xxxx
from liesal1979 :
oi you....Just read your entry and do you know what, you probably won't see him again, and he gave YOU the come on, not the other way round, He is clearly a flirt!!! So, i have text and he hasn't replied! So now i can't phone, but you could!!! I will find you a man next time you are out! XXXXxxxx
from liesal1979 :
k i have text him,... I put: Hi its lisa, sorry didn;t make it out the other night, hope your ok, I'm on a friends phone, my number is xxxxxxxx Hope to hear from you soon Lisa x What did u put?
from liesal1979 :
k...what u gonna put, i will text him in a bit
from liesal1979 :
You can phone him under the jeise of, I have told lisa to text you and just be cilla! If you meantion me enough he will know that you are phoning for me!!! PLEASE Cilla!!! xxx
from liesal1979 :
No phoning is scary, I have a plan, I will text him from Darrens phone and then you should call him at lunchtime and ask if he has heard anything etc etc, I will text as soon as i can, c'mon cilla, what do ya think>?
from liesal1979 :
Ok, well now you know, and what about the other thing, How did you leave it, did you say you would get me to text him, did you give him my number. did he tell you about the text??
from liesal1979 :
OHH AND I KNOW WHAT ELSE..how did you leave it, did you say i was gonna text him? Plus read my diary for a confession!! REPLY SOONER THAN NOW! xx
from lightmytorch :
It works now! ;)
from chakra-chick :
My goodeness! You crack me up! Thanks for making me laugh sweetie! I'm so glad that I don't take the bus anywhere...I can just imagine the characters here in sunny South Africa! *smooches*
from clarity25 :
Your entry had me cracking up! the tales of Eyebrow woman and porcupine hair! lol. thanks for cheering me up and giving me a good laugh!!
from onewetleg :
you are welcome betchy darling. yes, that last entry was pretty funny. the eybrows eclipsing the sun. hehe. the porcy with a bottle of bleach. the gobby with the cell phone. i hate the bus... love,
from goingloopy :
Thanks for the compliments. :) And I will say, that porcupine and bleach bottle shit almost made me snort coffee through my nose this morning. I will have to remember that analogy for future use. But I promise I'll give you credit if I ever feel the need to use it in my diary. ;)
from krugerpak007 :
I just want to thank you for all your support etc etc. I sent the pics to Avalonte today. She will upload them on her site because mine is locked and it will just be a mission for everyone. Now I need you to send me your address so I can return them...Take care and have a great weekend...xoxoxo Kathy
from pattymelt :
i am somewhat troubled that you like a guy that can shag a girl with giant eyebrows.
from lightmytorch :
You bet ;) But on my diary the link to yours is wrong. It links to http://a instead of http://betchy.diaryland.com - why is that? Technically I don't link to you at all and I can't edit the link. Blargh!
from lauralgood :
I feel your love, dear. I feel your love. Laural
from heelandlass :
How do I click on your blog linker thingy?
from catz-eyes :
hehehehheheheh hahahahhaha hohohoho! Mr B. is quite the charmer, eh? ;) GREAT story, very funny! and you conducted yourself with admirable dignity and poise... so your now 'the pom with panache... and poise'. Love your work cherub! ***HUGGLES*** =^..^= xox
from blueavenue :
oh my gosh. that mr. brockley story was hilarious! what is it that you do, and what is giro? you SHOULD visit NYC, it's a cool place. where do you live?
from byebyekitty :
Thanks for hoping Kerry would win. I held out hope until the concession speech today. I don't know why they won't let gay people marry, if I was gay I'd want too and I'm sure they would too!
from starlight42 :
Mr Brockley sounds crazy...
from comma-abuse :
A button you want and a button you shall have! Just put in this code: <a href="http://comma-abuse.diaryland.com"><img src="http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v515/Comma-Abuse/nekokonekobutton.jpg" alt="A shameless exercise in comma abuse."></a>
from pattymelt :
what is this bloglinker thing you are talking about?
from clarity25 :
Schizophrenics are never polite, I know from my own experiences with one. I've been called worse names! Amazing the patience you displayed though, I would have snapped! Thank you for your kind note this morning.
from krugerpak007 :
OMG. What an assshole. I can't believe that. I am in shock! Don't let him get to you. And I havent forgotten the pics. My friend has them and has just been too hectic at work to scan for me. I am going to threaten him tomorrow. xoxox Kathy
from lightmytorch :
I suppose you're right. I can tell myself I'm worth it but I don't believe it. And obviously I could wish to be different and not have it happen... but can I wish really really hard? hehe. Anyways. Thank you so much... oh and I tried to do the bloglinker thing and it's pasted on the end of each entry, so I hope it worked. See you later :) Jason
from gumphood :
I don't even see it to join it.
from comma-abuse :
Aww, Betchy. Well, if you want you could try to fit Nekokoneko into your page someplace? I could help, I've got the pictures dug away someplace, still!
from avalonte :
"A great philosopher once wrote 'Naughty, naughty, very naughty' ...Hahahahaha" Oh the memories!
from saru-san :
Yes... exactly! Psycho killers - and house fires, too - always seem to cause girls in movies to run UP the stairs, where they are trapped and then killed. And when they do run outside? They keep making scared noises, like furtive little cries and gasps and saying, "No no no no no..." over and over again. I'm not sure if they realize that VOICES CARRY, especially at night. It's like sonar for killers. In fact, their only hope is that the killer dumped all the bullets on the table at the same time as he dumped all the diamonds on the table, and accidentally loaded his gun with diamonds. Which are a girl's best friend.
from sallydallydo :
Your nomination for sainthood is in the mail...You even WROTE NICELY about the guy without (apparently) strangling a passerby in the process. Careful, your halo is showing!
from avalonte :
Nice guy! So nice in fact, it could be one of my exes!!! lol! By the way, everytime I see your notes from lauralgood, I think of that song "Eezer good, eezer good, he's Ebenezer good!" Lol! Remember that?
from lauralgood :
I love your notes. such a gorgeous person you are! hugs. love laural
from byebyekitty :
i host all of my images at http://www.imageshack.us, you can upload them without registering and copy and paste the code either onto your template for a permanent image or put thumbnails into your diary entry, that people can click on and view larger. Just remember that you can't access the code again once you've exited imageshack so write it down somewhere if you want to keep it!
from yeahimadork :
Ha! You cry at Beaches too!! That movie kills me. Not only is dry food better for your cat, but the litterbox won't smell quite so bad as with wet food (I don't know if your cats are indoor cats). I have a couple of lunatic cats myself, and I don't give them any wet food anymore. Also, if you have to keep refilling the water container, you should get one that holds like a gallon of water (like a bottled water thingy, but smaller). I have that for my cats, and it lasts a while. Your journal cracks me up!
from hilseymour :
You can't just say you're reading the funniest book ever and then NOT SAY WHAT IT IS YOU NUTTER!!!
from comma-abuse :
You don't have to erase my notes, but that was a very nice offer. I'd just like to be taken off of profiles. I will continue noting you on this name! Lots! I'll try, anyway.
from comma-abuse :
Betchy, less than three, like Katie said. <3 Also, could I erase my old name from here...? I am trying to make myself disappear, and also have people not reference me in relation and things. It's top secret, shh!
from comma-abuse :
Image hosting websites! Free ones! Try photobucket.com
from goingloopy :
...I too have three kitties. One of the three likes to PLAY in her water bowl. To avoid the daily mopping of the floor that resulted from her tipping over the dish, I bought them great-dane size pet bowls. (The kind with rubber feet that are bigger at the bottom than the top.) No more tipping over, and as an added bonus, it only needs to be filled once a day. :)
from avalonte :
Excuse me???????!!!!!!!!!!!! You kissed Gary Lucy and he asked for your phone number??!!! You kept that one quiet!! Dish the details girly!!!! xx
from chakra-chick :
Hi sweetie! Wow-you always have the best weekends! Glad to know that this one was 'keeping-up-with tradition' for you. The only alcohol that has ever passed my lips was a Cinnamon Aftershock...it was OK, but the best part was the tot-glass-it was made out of chocolate! Yummy! Poor Fenton...you have to help him out, methinks. Seems like his 'girl-karma' is failing him... Very cool survey...I posted one on my journal yesterday too! Have a fab day further *smooches*
from tigerlily21 :
Sounds like you had a fabulous weekend! I can't believe it..a glass eye?? LOL! Yeah, maybe you should help that boy out! Anyway, I hope you have a great week! *hugs* Jen
from hilseymour :
hahahaha! Glass eye!!!! That made me piss myself too! I don't know, but it sounds to me like Fenton is trying to make you jealous or something?! Why does he keep telling you every detail of his love life?
from goingloopy :
You're welcome. And no, you hadn't said about the layout, but thank you. :) Glad your landlord finally decided to do something about the toilet malfunction. You should say something to eyebrow girl if your friend keeps dating her. Like invite her to go with you to get waxed.
from princesse69 :
Are you a scorpio like me then? It's my 24th birthday this Thursday. Woo hoo!
from pattymelt :
why did you pay your rent without talking to them first? if nothing else, send them a registered letter with your concerns and when they respond, THEN pay your rent.
from pattymelt :
go to my profile and down at the bottom look at my favorite entries. i have it listed there. have a great weekend!
from abittergirl :
we have the same birthday!
from goingloopy :
Thanks for adding me...and let me state that I'm with you on landlords who don't fix shit but still want money. I mean, a functioning toilet is not what you'd call an "optional luxury," unless, of course, you live somewhere in the third world.
from heelandlass :
No bleedin' wonder! Considering how long ago they got rid of half pences!
from soverycherry :
There is nothing in the world more frustrating than crappy landlords who refuse to own up to taking responsibility for things! I've gone through this before, and even managed to get out of a lease early because they sucked so bad. I feel for you... really I do. But! It is the weekend, so go out and party like a rockstar, alright?
from heelandlass :
Hmm. Why don't you write to your land lord about your toilet? Ridiculous way to do things, but they obviously respond to mail. It is definitely their responsibility to fix it. Sounds like they're just being lazy twats! Enjoy pay day - don't go too crazy buying lightbulbs. Rock and roll!
from krugerpak007 :
You will never ever ever ever ever guess what arrived at last in the post today! Your photos........YEY YEY YEY!!! There was not enough postage so it is written that they redirected it..To where, I have no clue, but the postage date is the 18th of August and I got it now!!! And Betchy-You are fucking beautiful my girl!!! Absolutely lovely. So I reiterate. Any man that manages to get you, will be the luckiest in the world. Firstly because you are a wonderful, loving, funfilled amazing girl. And secondly because you are simply beautiful! I will be in touch later with you about which ones you want me to post. I am not sure how we can do it. Maybe I can post them on my diary and then you can make a link to my diary for your photos? I don't know, we can work on the logistics later. On Sunday I will scan them at work, and then you can decide. Whatever you wish my dear! Love you, have a good day beautiful! xoxox Kathy
from clarity25 :
I agree with the previous comment, it's your diary, your feelings, and your life. this is where you can express yourself, without being judged. I don't think you sound "self-righteous" either. What I really like about your diary is how real you are as a person:) and thanks so much for comment you left in my notebox!:)
from hilseymour :
You don't have to justify yourself to anyone in your own diary. Even though it feels like it sometimes, cos I'm always doing it! I love your word Shmee, I will start using it I think. And your lyrics weren't totally wrong, just in the wrong order. Who cares anyway!
from pattymelt :
i was never mad at you!
from drmz-of-him :
Aww, thanks, doll! Mwah!
from pattymelt :
i told you not to take offense! i am just talking from where you were. it DOES excuse them for cheating if you stay with a married person (the girlfirend thing is fair game tho) just because they say they are in a shitty marriage. how many women have NO IDEA their husbands are chreating scum? plenty. if it's as bad as the dude says it is can a woman really be that stupid? ok, probably. but you see what i mean? it just perpetuates the whole crappy situation. as for the girlfirend thing, like i said, fair game but hold back long enough to see if he is a true ass or not. my case, he was an ass. although there was a period when i was the only one (after he had left his live in for me) when the money was gone, he found a younger, richer girl and didn't bother to tell me. he wanted to get as much from me as possible, i guess. see i can be bitter too. my point is really that what comes around goes around and just be careful. you are young and i hate to see you hurt.
from lightmytorch :
Hehe. Thank you for the random blessing. Fully unexpected. ;)
from krugerpak007 :
I know what you mean about comments that make you feel crap. Thats why I had to lock my diary. I have enough confusion going on without people making me feel extra guilty. Anyway, as Avalonte says, you can never ever know what is going on with a person and their feelings until they are in your shoes. Jay left me the most amazing comment a few entries back. In fact it made me cry. Go and read it, it is true. I love you lots and am going to catch up on that entry about the "war" that I missed. xoxox Kathy
from liesal1979 :
Hola Chicken, I am back! I still pretty much feel like crap, but hey, I have rent to pay.. WOOO HOOO. I'll try and leave an entry later! Did you text Base back? What did he say...
from peachick :
THANKS SO MUCH FOR PUTTING UP MY NEW LINK! MWAH***
from chakra-chick :
Hiya sweets!!! I'm so sorry that that persons' entry upset you...it's not petty what you did-I'm sure many people would have done the same! Don't beat yourself up about what happened with Jason and wizz...I agree completely with Avalonte! Have a good day darling!
from avalonte :
Well you know how I feel about being "the other woman"! Anyway, I don't think anyone can judge a situation unless they're in it themselves. It may seem clear cut for someone on the outside who has strong opinions, but every situation is different. Yes, infidelity and affairs are wrong. But that's too much of a generalisation to apply to every individual case. Sometimes there are factors involved that make it very far from black & white. You cannot be condemned for it, especially not as you were still a teenager! You were just a kid, so even if there weren't any other good reasons, that in itself should protect you from condemnation now!! *hugs*
from cutielatina :
No,thank you for adding me:)
from byebyekitty :
thanks for checking on that for me, very sweet of you. And thanks for liking my logo, gives a boost to my day!
from giantkiller :
username: bethbelieves pw: inchrist Have a great day, girly!
from clarity25 :
Hey, thanks for the compliment and adding me as a favorite too! I love your diary, your outlook on life, and how you describe your experiences! In response to your entry. Love can be so tricky and complex, and there really aren't any rules. Sometimes you find yourself in relationships that you least expect and you really can't judge yourself or others for getting carried away with their feelings. It just overwhelms you sometimes. You learn from each one, I don't think you were in the wrong, or them. It's just love and life.
from hilseymour :
ok, here are the verses: Autumn days, when the grass is jewelled And the silk in a chestnut shell Jet planes meeting in the air to be refuelled All these things I love so well Clouds that look like familiar faces And winter's moon with frosted rings Smell of bacon as I fasten up my laces And the milkman sings. Whipped-up spray that is rainbow-scattered And a swallow curving in the sky Shoes go comfy though they're worn out and they're battered And the taste of apple pie. Scent of gardens when the rain's been falling And a minnow darting down a stream Picked-up engine that's been stuttering and stalling And a win for my home team. But i don't think we sang that last one, but you did...
from krugerpak007 :
I have to agree with soverycherry. Men are amazing creatures, I have come to realise Betchy. They are able to split their emotions up and don't let their emotions affect them. Ok, I am generalising. Just the men I have met lately. They say the right things when you need to hear them, but then when you really need them, you realise they were just selfish and needed you just at THAT certain time. And then it is so easy for them to give up on you, to disregard the good times, to "forget" what they have said and what they have promised. I will never understand them. I am sorry you had to go through all that misery with those brothers. I obviously do not know the entire story. I must have missed it somehow. But just know Betchy that there are good men out there. And you are a wonderful, beautiful person. And you just have to find the one that deserves you. Because he is going to have to be pretty damn special to deserve to have a girl as wonderful as you. Take care honey. And feel good. Lots of love...xoxoxo
from kaybiff :
Oh, no worries about the "less than three" thing. It spawned, for me at least, because I saw all these people type "<3" everywhere--EVERYWHERE I tell you, and for a very long time I just thought everyone was stupid. Apparently, that is an internet heart. <3 <3 <3. Crazy, isn't it?
from soverycherry :
Alright - two entries in a row! Anyway, I just read your latest entry. You know, following our hearts is rather stupid sometimes. Being in love, all logic goes right out the window. It seems to me that's what you were guilty of - loving them. They sound like selfish assholes who did what they wanted when they wanted without any thought of your feelings. But you know what? Who would want to be Jody? I mean, she has to know that the only reason she has Jason is because she threatened to kill herself. That's awful. I'm sorry love blows and it's unfair, and all that junk, not that it's consoling whatsoever when I say that. But KARMA rules, and one day you shall have a great relationship - I'm telling you. :)
from soverycherry :
Hi! If you want to make me a copy of that CD, that would be like, so awesome. I went to Best Buy on Friday and they didn't have it. Best Buy sucks. Except for the part where I got Love Actually on DVD because I think that Colin Firth is the cutest ever, and also that's the one lovey romantic movie that doesn't make me want to puke. And also, Mr Bean rules. Later!
from liesal1979 :
going out....Why? Its soo last night in weston, so am going out with her and darren
from liesal1979 :
Tallen's a freakass. I was so tired, i just slept and slept! And thats all i've done really, supposed to go to rehersals tonight, but mate! dunno if i can be arsed...
from catz-eyes :
hiya sweetpea! am glad you're back in (ooh, that sounds kinda rude and sordid... mmm, i *like* it)... sorry your footy team lost. bugger. and fret not about joey's marriage comments: who died and made *her* Nostradamus? ;) ***HUGGLES*** love & kindness to you always, cherub. =^..^=
from liesal1979 :
Morning! Hows u I'm backtoday!
from dooki :
You're sweet. It was so long ago that I don't even care any more. Do you see why I want the bitch out of my life? That entry is only a fraction of the things she's done, though it probably stated the worst of them. Don't worry 'bout lil' dook. I'm a trooper.
from lauralgood :
i really enjoyed secret window and identity and fear and loathing in LV! we must have a movie night soon! love laural
from pattymelt :
sorry for the lack of note-age...way busy! as for CHAD MICHAEL MURRAY? he has done quite a few bitty parts - gilmore girls, that hillary duff movie, freaky friday. and i think he modeled some. watch the show. it's addicting and nathan grows on you!
from hilseymour :
"so light up the fire and let the flame burn, open the door let Jesus return, take seeds of his spirit..." I love that too. My favourites though were "At the name of Jesus, ev'ry knee shall bow, ev'ry tongue confess him, king of glo-ooooo-reee now..." hahahaha We didn't sing that one about building...?
from heelandlass :
Sounds like the perfect weekend - sofa surfing AND incredible amounts of boozing. What more does a girl want (apart from her team to win, but we'll skip that one)xxx
from gumphood :
do you like being added or getting notes more?
from soverycherry :
Your notes page took so long to load that I think I might have forgotten what I was going to say! So... uh, hi! And what was Sean doing with a sixteen year-old? That's wrong.
from chakra-chick :
I too watched part of the match on Sunday...I was thinking about you! You must be so gutted that your Gunners lost. *hugs* Anyhoo..hope you feel better soon. *smooches* FAZ
from liesal1979 :
Sorry Didn't make it put yesterday. Fell asleep and then couldn't get out of bed was soo tired! It will be over in a dew weeks! Sorry hun! U ok?? xxx
from adulterous-k :
Sorry the gooners didn't make it 50 - can't stand ManU winning.
from fairyfish :
I must admit that I don't really remember too much about the Cobra Beer as I had already sunk 5 or 6 bottles of Bud before getting to the restaurant!!!
from acornotravez :
OK, like, I found minging.com... ew! Thanks for the definition.
from peachick :
hey sweetie if it's ok can you change the link to my diary on your layout? thanks a bunch x)
from pattymelt :
in my expeirence - men get the shit deal because that's how most of them want it. they don't want the responsiblilty of raising a child. emotional or monetary. part of creating a life is caring for that life and not just for a couple of years (if they last that long)i was lucky but many of my friends were not. i had a pretty good childhood. my parents are still together and seem to still love each other. i can count how many of my friends parents are still together on one hand and i think that is sad. and people wonder why i don't want kids.
from dooki :
http://dooki.diaryland.com/031014_7.html - that will tell most of my hatred, though only a mere nutshell. It seems to be enough information for most to agree with me. I warn you, however, I get pretty graphic...and angry. This is probably the most hate-filled thing I've written. Anyway, there it is.
from lauralgood :
no I don't have their first album...but I am going to be looking for it now that I have this one. This shit rocks! god. Hey about the email...I will resend it if you wish but really...it will just confuse you. such silly stuff in my life lately...and nothing is ever settled, really, you know? oh what times we live in....hugs and love to you my friend! love laural
from gumphood :
Fathers can leave much easier than mothers. But I think the fact remains, if you want to be around your kid, no mother will prevent that if you are a reasonalbe and positive influence. And to be that, you work things out so that you can be trusted. No ones perfect, but the effort must be there. I don't know the English laws.
from princesstosh :
betchy my sweet betchy! I am so bad about notes! shame on me! I think this entry was wonderful! Fathers who really do care, will fight. My father never really cared, so he didnt fight, and it was awful. It's sad that there are fathers in the world who long to be with their kids and cant, and then there are fathers who have their children but dont realize what a treasure they have! That's my opinion! I just love you to death, have I mentioned that lately?
from under-yuki :
Ah! Quick response! And thank you very much! The layout makes me giggle like a schoolgirl. I just got done redoing the entire pictures page with thumbnails and titles and descriptions. My head is throbbing. WOOZE.
from krugerpak007 :
Your grandparents sound absolutely adorable! Good luck with the application. Have a good weekend sweety! Love, Me
from peachick :
hey girly, do you care to do one review, please? =)
from buck88 :
i cant really take the credit as dominguez did it for me, thank you tho . b88
from liesal1979 :
HOLA CHICKEN In a great mood as have just made a sale that takes me over my weekly target!! WOOO HOOO hows you ???Base was asking how you and Dean were, I said he was a hoskin therefore clearly a twat! ANd who was behind me..... Only Hole Sullivan, the Noel from hear'say lookalike!!! Whoops! Xxx
from soverycherry :
I don't really know what to think about the father thing. I mean, I know that there are some men out there who genuinely wish to be a part of their child's life, and the mother just doesn't want them too. And then there are others (like Avalonte said below) who just want to see their kid when it's convenient for them. And then it turns out that even if they just want to see them for like, a day, they're revered as being sooo great because hey, they could have just walked away and they didn't. Whatever. I think every situation is different and should be handled as such. I think that mothers usually get the benefit of the doubt because they (we) are the ones who have to carry this kid for nine months, regardless of whether there is a dad present or not. Eh... on a better note, I hope you have a good weekend!!
from avalonte :
I'm so glad you wrote that entry! I couldn't agree more! I know two men currently moaning about their unfair access. The mothers in both cases have given absolutely fair access. It was all agreed upon. But in both cases, these men have both wanted to change their days to fit in with their social lives! "Oh can I have little Johnny on Thursday this week instead of Friday, cos I'm going clubbing!" You know the sort of thing. Then they cry about not getting to see their kids, but what they mean is that the arrangements conflict with their "lads" time!! Like you said, of course they're exceptions, but I think they're few and far between!! And holding up traffic dressed in lycra is NOT going to endear your cause to anyone!! And do you really think your kids are going to want to be seen with you after that???!!!
from heelandlass :
yeah - I'm back and lovin' it! Bandito went to Chester, it's not such a shit town I don't suppose, but having to do a 2 day conference thing on a new computer system was shit enough!
from acornotravez :
Please do tell - what does "minging" mean?
from hilseymour :
your grandma reminds me totally my late grandma - she was always on about buying knickers! haha. Also, you have good taste in music. Other than Carwash.
from liesal1979 :
Cheeky Cow! no i am not too busy next week. Thats a lie, but i am sure we can find one night! xx
from chakra-chick :
Hi sweetie. Thanks for the note. Yes, I do have their album- THE BLACK EYED PEAS are really good. I too have such a weakness for guys that smell good. Think I know the names of more mens' colognes than I do of ladies ones! You should see me when i am in a group of guys and I smell something I like- I'll sniff each of them (even if i don't know them) until I find the one who is wearing the one my nose likes! They probably think I'm psycho! Perhaps that's why I'm still single... *smooches* Take Care FAZ
from soverycherry :
No! And I'll tell you why: all of her CDs are underneath the big huge TV in a TV stand - I absolutely, no matter how I tried, cannot bend that far down to see what's in there! And I can't sit in the floor anymore because I am unable to get up! It's a sad situation. But I think I might go to a CD store tomorrow after work because there's something else I want to get, so I'll check it out there!
from liesal1979 :
Hola Rebecca. Hows you 0n this fine Thursday Morning? Apart from a contact lense mishap this morning, all is dandy this end. You free one night next week? Lisa xxxxx
from catz-eyes :
hiya cherub :) am glad your tummy is much better. thats weird about you not being able to access my diary - that the page isnt loading. hmm. have had some problems myself, accessing some Dlanders' diaries. a bit annoying. hope Life is being kind to you, dear sweet pom with panache ;) ***HUGGLES*** love & kindness to you always, =^..^= xox
from chakra-chick :
Hello dear I have trying to leave you a note since yesterday! My internet is so darn slow. Congrats on the appraisal...sure it was well deserved! Have a wonderful day further *smooches* FAZ
from blueavenue :
I'm sad to say i was only dog-sitting. i don't have any pets of my own right now. i love reading your entries cuz you use all those english words and phrases. i'm working the international toy fair in NYC this week, and there are english people everywhere, and it gives me great joy to sit around listening to them talk to each other. lol. i especially like "dodgy" and "i'm going to pop into the toilet." thanks for adding me to your faves, that makes me happy! i'm glad you finally got let out of the building--that would've sucked!
from lightmytorch :
GLEAMING!
from lauralgood :
sent you an email at your diaryland account. did you get it? Laural
from onewetleg :
congrats on your appraisal, you deserve it! love, jj
from liesal1979 :
Friday is Bad! Soo is back and we are going out!
from catz-eyes :
hiya cherub :) wonderful appraisal=a very good thing. diarrhea=a very bad thing. hope you're over the squirts sweetpea. ***HUGGLES*** love & kindness to you =^..^= xox
from krugerpak007 :
I wouldn't have expected anything less on your appraisal. I can imagine how much they must be crazy over you! Sorry you were feeling ill. Hope you feel better soon. How was the job thingie? xoxox Kathy
from lauralgood :
Hugs! congrats on your apprasial (shit i can not spell) It does feel good to know your work is being seen. Love Laural
from liesal1979 :
Morning Cherub! No more notes from you last night??
from thedevlyn :
oh gesh, if knew it would cause problems... ok, no more notes for anyone. it's really the best soloution dont you think?
from stillsingle :
Hey, thanks for the note...just catching up on my reading once again! As always, your diary cracks me up, love hearing your stories!
from hilseymour :
I think Giggles is a nicer name. You will be known as "The Crazy Lady with the Cats" soon! I think you would make a good drugs counsellor...you should look into how you go about becoming one. Or just get a job at some drugs abuse clinic and work your way up, there's zillions of em around.
from nikita84 :
Nope, i don't know that song. Unfortunatly i don't have the Goodbye Yellow Brick Road album. I can't find it anywhere in this stupid town i moved into. But i'll try and see if i can get it somewhere else. x0x
from chevydarling :
Yes, most definitely have plans for more! But not too many more. Too many is overkill and besides, there's not that many places on the body, unless you're like my friend J and get entire areas (arms, back, legs) covered with them! But yes, I have plans for a couple more "tastefully done" ones. *giggle*
from pattymelt :
the next cat i get (in the way far away future, i hope) i am going to name "wilson" after the volleyball in "castaway" because i think it is funny. (the one cat i have now is "spot" - she is a blk/white tuxedo cat) anyway, sorry i have not left you a note in awhile - bad me - i feel like life is crazy but when i look back it's not really. so, sorry, but i was thinking of you!
from avalonte :
what about the kitten?! Details woman!!
from avalonte :
So are you getting the new cat? Did you read my entry about taking on new cats?? Did you also see the photo I told you about in the previous entry? I used to be a Gooner. K supports Chelsea, so my allegiance is split! lol!
from liesal1979 :
Can't come down with no money, What a fun time i would have watching you all get drunk!! xx
from liesal1979 :
Yiuwin - is chinese prononced ewan! He's new, Nice bloke! Sunday!??! No money til Friday or would love 2, plus am rehersing til 4! Where u watching it to?? Xxx
from gumphood :
you can come to the party and hook up with the boys.
from liesal1979 :
No,No car at the moment! Not to worry then, In fact probably won't have car at lot for a long while coz yiuwin has the car! xx
from soverycherry :
No, I do not have that CD, but now I might have to get it because you have peaked my interest. Actually, now that I think about it, my mom might have it; I seem to remember seeing it somewhere. I'll go home tonight and look, and if not I'll go buy it! I haven't bought a new CD in awhile, this is a good excuse. Talk to you later!
from lauralgood :
I love the names of your cats! I like Giggles for the new one...let us know what you finally decide upon. Love laural
from chakra-chick :
Yep, they do actually show quite a bit of englsh footie here- mainly on our Satellite Channels. Our local TV station also shows the UEFA league games. I know how annoying it is when your friends/boyfriends support an opposing team! But it's fun to argue about who the better team is! Have a great day, luv!
from liesal1979 :
WHAT? Your not coming are you!?!?! I am shitting myself as it is! LOL Help! What you up to later chick?
from liesal1979 :
Hola. Hows you, i feel like i aint seen u 4 ages! I am hating work and dancing my arse off at the moment! xxxxx
from chakra-chick :
I used to be a die-hard Man U supporter back in the day...even getting into fights with the boys in school about who was better. But I guess I just grew out of it or something. Thats the one thing I hate about myself- I get bored too quickly! My Dad is a total Man U fanatic though...he takes losing sooo personally and then Mum, my sis and myself have to suffer the consequenses! And you know how pathetically they (Man U) have been doing of late, so my Dad is not a happy chappy!
from nikita84 :
It's after Elton's song and it's my cat's name! :) I have lots of nicknames. One that lots of friends use is Nell that is one of the short forms of my name. x0x
from chakra-chick :
Hiya! The religion I follow is Islam, so that means I am a muslim. Don't worry, you're not thick...I don't know much about a few religions too.. It's good to ask questions and learn.. By the way, I hope the rain is being kind to you! take care
from dooki :
Um...I didn't read ANYTHING about crazy karaoke singing for my birthday. YOU LIED TO ME! WHYYYYYY???? Why does everyone LIIIIIE??!?!?!?!? sniffle.
from chevydarling :
Hey chicky. Sorry I haven't left any notes lately...life's been so crazy hectic lately. But about my tattoos...I have four now. An Ankh (the Egyptian sign of eternal life) on my left arm, a Chevrolet bowtie symbol on the inside of my right wrist, a baby faerie on my back and a heart with gargoyle wings on my left breast. Exciting, eh? heh
from krugerpak007 :
You have so being neglecting me.. :-((( I am happy about Andy;'s news. And best of luck for the job thingie tonight. Sounds great, and I am holding thumbs for you...You so deserve it. I miss you. xoxox Kathy
from lauralgood :
hugs, you. keep safe, ok? Love laural
from avalonte :
I just read your note. I don't know what to advise. It's your decision! But all I can say is read through my last entry to remind yourself of the ins and outs of taking on a new one! Before I took on those 2 last week, I sat down with pen and paper and worked out the sums (insurance, chipping, worming, fleaing, vaccinations, spaying, vet visits, litter, food, etc). Can you really afford 2 more? If you honestly can, then go for it, Chicken!! But be sure! *hugs* xx
from avalonte :
You a Gooner then, Chick?? xx
from liesal1979 :
Hi Chick, Didn't get your email/note til i came in this morning. All very exciting! How's you then...I am feeling a little unloved at the moment.. A little? No a lot! Lisa xxxxx
from soverycherry :
So glad to hear about Andy - the justice system works for once, hooray! Good luck with the job - it sounds interesting, and a pay increase is always good!
from chakra-chick :
Glad to hear about your friends' good news sweetie! So, you a footie fan, eh? Arsenal or Man Utd?
from chakra-chick :
Hi there Betchy! Don't worry, I, as a fellow single gal can relate to your situation. Our 'other-halves; are out there somewhere, unfortunately, as someone once bought me a mug with the saying :'We meet many toads before we find a prince!"
from fairyfish :
James Nesbit.....mmmmmm!! Always thought there was something rather sexy about him...think it must be the accent that does it for me coz I missed the Canterbury Tales!
from krugerpak007 :
I hope you my dear, had an awsome weekend, that you have a great week ahead, that you update lots and lots, because I miss you on the weekends. xoxox Kathy
from hilseymour :
it's funny how you said my route to work was interesting when today I was walking it thinking "am I really going to have to walk this way every single fecking day for god knows how long?". Also, I guess you've never read any of my "knitting on a Saturday night" entries? hahaha. I'm not joking either.
from krugerpak007 :
I am so sorry to see you feeling downish. We are all human and we all feel like tender loving care sometimes. I tell you this. You are funny, bright and gorgeous and you never ever know when you will meet THE one. It happens when you least expect it. So cheer up, go out, party and just enjoy. Feel good. xoxox
from nikita84 :
Oh, i didn't know she was a fan! I didn't even know her name's cookie! hehe I SOOO love Elton John and Goodbye Yellow Brick Road is also a favorite!!! And Simon Cowell...WOW! I'm gonna add you to my fave diaries, ok? Oh, and i've finally put a profile up so you can check it if you're interested in knowing a bit more about my taste in music and movies! x0x
from dooki :
Thanks for the birthday weeshes! Yes. I want you to sing for me at Karaoke night. You must either sing, "Patience" by Guns and Roses or "Faith" by George Michael. I strongly suggest grabbing your breasts a lot during "faith". (that's the dooki spirit.)
from lightmytorch :
*poke*
from soverycherry :
That dream is totally hilarious. I'm always dreaming about people that I've never met, it's weird. And we do sort of live on a hill with tall bushes around, haha, so who knows? That's funny. Talk to you later!
from starlight42 :
I found the daisy patch through another diary I read. It's a good reminder for me too on my countdown! I know how you feel about feeling like you're the only single person & how you'd like to have someone. I was single for a few long stretches before...it sucks! Just remember though, you never know when Mr. Right is right around the corner. For now, try to enjoy your freedom- sometimes when you're with someone, you do miss it at times. Have a good weekend!
from soverycherry :
Aw, I hate it when friends ditch you to hang our with significant others - it's not right. Anyway, it's FRIDAY and maybe you'll find some hot boy to play around with this weekend! I'll be thinking about you!
from byebyekitty :
Thanks so much, its so sweet of you. Especially when you are feeling down.
from lauralgood :
hugs! better day to you! Love Laural
from tigerlily21 :
Aww, sweetie, I'm sorry you haven't been feeling well. You sound like me lately!! I have been feeling icky lately too.. whats going on with us crazy chicks? Sounds like you had a good weekend! I've missed you, babe. Sorry that I haven't been around much, life has been crazy! I hope you feel better soon! (and Pattymelt is right..get a test..not that I can speak..lol) *hugs* love ya, Jen
from pattymelt :
there is still that 10%...you need to pee on a stick, mama. just do it. or go to the Dr. this is not normal.
from hilseymour :
hello, sorry you are feeling pooey. No of course I'm not ignoring your notes...but I've only had one recently?! I am sending lots of rainbowy ooze your way which will magically soak into your heart and cheer you up. Feel better soon chickadee.
from pattymelt :
are both you and lisa preggers?
from krugerpak007 :
Sorry to hear you feel so down. We all go through these periods of depression I guess. Thinking of you, and hope you feel better soon! xoxox Kathy
from avalonte :
Awww, babe, you're so young, you've got plenty of time to find the right man for you!! That proposla last night was really sweet wasn't it! But come on, there's no way they should be allowed the prize with Ashley being the landlord's son! (*must remember it's not real -- must remember it's not real!*) lol!
from byebyekitty :
Alright, you found me out, I'm a westoner!! Actually, no I'm not, I'm from Mobile, Alabama so I'm a southerner. But I'm fascinated by the fact that there is a company called Masquerade out there somewhere. Do you know if they have a website I could check out. To inspire me perhaps??
from spoildangelz :
Hey...thanks for the note. I came up with the name Elizabeth, cause I think it's a really pretty name. :-) I don't mind at all that you've put me on your buddy list! I look forward to reading yours, too...take care.
from lauralgood :
depends on my mood really...right now i like boys a lot...but let a hot girl pass me in the street and it could change quickly! smiles. hugs. laural
from gumphood :
hey there. How you been? I have been gone for a few days. That is the way it rolls I guess.
from krugerpak007 :
Glad to hear you are feeling better. And go out with him. You DO only live once! xoxox
from dont-stop :
Sorry that you're feeling bad. I hope you feel better tomorrow. (HUGS)
from abittergirl :
ha ha. I just look super young. 29 next month. But look 19. :)
from starlight42 :
Hope you're feeling better soon! I feel for you, my sinus's are haywire this time of year. :(
from onewetleg :
yeah, i got your email. sorry, i was too paranoid to answer it. :) love, jj
from turtlemomma :
(((bigsquishyhugs))) I hope you feel better!
from lightmytorch :
Well doesn't it sound good together though? (your username/password thing) I guess I'm very easily amused. OMG A SWING SET
from avalonte :
Yeah, it was great talking to you and Joey the other night! "Dave" came round just after I spoke to you! Nothing happened, we just talked. But we did share a joint! And we both admitted to each other yesterday that we had both wanted each other that evening, but hadn't done anything for fear of the other's reaction! Hope you're feeling better soon honey! I'm manically busy, but I will try to call you tonight! xx
from krugerpak007 :
Ughh. I hope you feel better. Take it easy and hang in there! We miss you! xoxox
from pattymelt :
you must be really hung over! feel better!
from acornotravez :
Fantastico about the exercise. (P.S. you can just call me Acorn.) Feel better soon.
from soverycherry :
I hope you feel better soon! I need some good drunken stories to entertain me! :)
from lauralgood :
Hugs from those who love you. We will wait until you feel like updating. love laural
from avalonte :
Oh lovely, I hope you feel better soon! Are you poorly, or down? Either way, I'm sending you hugs!! xx
from onewetleg :
fell better betchy. love,
from chakra-chick :
Hi sweetie...Glad you finally updated! I'm terribly sorry to hear that you are not feeling well. *big hug* Must be all the rain that you had to endure! Hope you feel better soon Take Care FARZANAH
from lightmytorch :
It's the exit 43 guy, I switched diaries. It's locked so here you go: betchy, crazyhorse.
from mousemilk :
Thanks for listing me. Always nice to find a diary where the first entry you read contains a reference to the diarists's nipples.
from wtf-reviews :
Hello, this is Ev'Yan from Winterfresh Reviews. I'm very sad to say that we are no longer excepting any requests & our review site is now officially closed. I'm not sure if we'll ever be back -- it just depends on if we can get our lives back in order. Things here have been super crazy, with school starting & us both trying to sort out things that have been happening over that last couple months. But, I DO want to say thank you for your request & for considering us...we have really appreciated all the love. I want to apologize for putting you on hold. We should have been more punctual with everything. Maybe someday soon, we'll get back on track. But for now, we're done. Thanks again though for understanding...when you get a chance, go to our website to get our information if you'd still like to know what will happen to us afterward...♥Ev'Yan xxx
from acornotravez :
It's Spanish, yo. Acorn otra vez = Acorn another time. (I used write in my diary "Acorn" but it got fudged up somehow.) Go read it! (You are funny.)
from exit43 :
Care Bears? Ok! If you want it you got it.
from krugerpak007 :
You and Trevor need to get together now! He wants a baby right now too. Does not shut up about it. Oy. Sorry about the rain...and I am superstitious. When a black cat runs in front of me, and I also believe though that bad luck happens in threes...Anyway I am rambling, I am just very tired. Hope all is well! xoxox
from lauralgood :
oh my. what a wonderful comment! I love it and I am sure I would love your nipples as well...hugs. happiness and love. Laural
from starlight42 :
Thanks for the birthday wishes! You know what, you'll never know when your life will strangely start to fall in place. Sometimes it starts with a new job, and then a new love. You never know when you'll find Mr. Right. Oh, by the way, that's too funny what you wrote about your friend at work being pregnant. Hope things are good over there!
from hilseymour :
I put it between my lips. And that is the rudest sounding note i've ever left!
from liesal1979 :
DATE???? DATE??? WITH WHOM??? Like i said might be unavaliable tomorrow night but you know if you call i will help Where u going 2 tonight? If its a possibilty i might pop out 4 1 drink and say hi!! If thats a problem i won't come but let me know either way! xxxxx
from liesal1979 :
Tomorrow night not sure yet sweet, Might be busy but not sure until tomorrow really, What you up to tonight? Looking forward to Saturday? I am BEYOND skint at the moment! Think Dan may be round tomorrow night or Saturday Afternoon, that is if hasn't gone all cold on me...again! xxxx Reply Soon xxxxx
from exit43 :
You have the best of luck ;)
from chakra-chick :
Hi sweetie! Please send some rainfall to me...Johannesburg is so hot and dry right now-we could do with some rain! Mmmm...I never knew that superstitions about drains- guess you learn something new everyday! Take Care Luv... *smooches* FARZANAH
from lauralgood :
aw poor thing. I hate getting wet and cold. I like the image of your nipples being a bit hard though...smiles. hugs. and love. Laural
from catz-eyes :
hiya cherub =) so lovely to see your note! and sweetpea, if i had the $, i'd be over and hitting the pubs with u in a heartbeat ;) as for your site 'disappearing' from my list - it's still there cherub, it's just that blogroll list thingy lists sites 'randomly' whenever people visit ***HUGGLES*** hope u r well and happy cherub. love & other indoor sports, =^..^= xox
from beautyx3 :
you WILL be a mom one day, and probably a really good one too, you are so caring. I can just imagine how funny it was that the baby had hiccups, my cat had the hiccups last night and he didn't have a clue what was happening to him.
from lilfoxyvixen :
LOL.. you can still read MrGrey b/c he doesn't talk much about sex anymore :)
from pattymelt :
you all are gagging me with all the baby talk! bleck! and my boss is giving birth RIGHT now!
from lauralgood :
Oh you have brought smiles to my face today! Just a thought on your idea of wanting to be a mom one day. It is important to know that the Universe brings to us what we need when we need it...if we are open and listening. Be with your friends children for right now and learn from them...You never know what is right around the corner. Hugs and kisses! Love laural
from chakra-chick :
See...something else we have in common- I love babies too. I'm always telling people that I am ready to be a Mum, but not a wife and unfortunately I HAVE to be married before I can even think about 'making a baby'! *hugs & kisses* Farzanah
from chakra-chick :
Hiya.Thanks for the note sweetie! I hail from Johannesburg, South Africa. Where about in the UK are you from?
from lauralgood :
Darling, day was much better. I am still confused though. I think it is something called life that has me confused. Does anyone ever figure it out? hmm. Love Laural
from turtlemomma :
YOU hit HIM and still security threw him out?! Curious :o)~
from exit43 :
Glad your weekend was good. Mine wasn't so much, but it will come back up for me. Bleh.
from soverycherry :
Oh, I'm sure I'd love your accent, then! Anyway, the star on my new layout is actually this gigantic star that's on the side of Mill Mountain here in Roanoke. I see it every night on my way home from work; it's very pretty. Tom Collinses are awesome gin drinks that you make with sour mix - but it's kinda citrusy, it's hard to explain. They're really good, though. I'm sure you could find out how to make them on some bartending site somewhere. Maybe they just have a different name over there?
from pattymelt :
congrats on the sex! and i love to call american boys "wankers" they never know what i mean. but they know it's not good!
from chakra-chick :
Seems like you had an amazing weekend! Glad to hear that, sweetie. Keep Well. Faz
from byebyekitty :
Thanks for the note, so sweet of you! ~ Kitty
from soverycherry :
I can't believe you hit a guy in the face! How cool is that? Also, gin does very bad things to me. That's what got me pregnant, actually - too many double 7&7s that night. I'm a sucker for Tom Collinses and gin & tonics, though. Gin was my weakness, obviously. Anyway, so glad you got some lovin'! Hoorah!
from lauralgood :
I really enjoy the way you write. It is refreshing. Keep happy! and may all your weekends be so good! Laural
from thedevlyn :
Must be all those doubles making you think I am hot... j/k
from adulterous-k :
Eight doubles? kinnell!
from dont-stop :
See, now you're making me blush. That was a good photo though. My face didn't become distorted when I shrunk it. Janine knows how to take good photos. Thank you :)
from lauralgood :
That latest entry really entertained me. I am glad I got to read it...now I am adding your to my buddy list so I will know when you update next! And I shall be reading back entries. Hugs and kisses and keep breaking those hearts! Love laural
from krugerpak007 :
Stop breaking hearts...Glad you got paid. Go out and have a good good time. Sorry I will not get to see you. xoxox Kathy
from soverycherry :
When I changed the color from blue to green on my layout, I named it Oscar after Oscar the Grouch on Sesame Street. Most of the time my journal titles have nothing to do with the layout anyway. You should come live with us! We'd sit around and listen to you talk, though. B.Do and I are big on English accents, because we are weird. Again, have a great weekend!
from gumphood :
You left a note saying that I said the 3.50 thing. I didn't say that.
from thedevlyn :
3.50 an hour? Rape I say.
from gumphood :
Damn ugly. I love it. Poor bastard. I hear the English men aren't as good looking. What do you think, if you have been to other places.
from soverycherry :
"it wasnt that i had a problem with his past, it was just that he was really ugly." Ha! I love it. And I totally am with you on the whole "when in doubt, just lie" bit. That always works. Anyway, hoorah for payday and I hope you have a good drunken weekend!
from krugerpak007 :
Gosh I missed you. Everyone is out and I am trying to quickly catch up with some of my favorite diaries. Did you get my sms yesterday? Anyway I love your country, and am having an amazing time, although my feet are aching. And if you are at all in London then sms me and lets grab a drink! I hope you have cheered up and are feeling good. Miss you! xoxo Kathy
from lauralgood :
hey thanks for adding me. I am going to come read your diary soon. I love the color of the background...really nice. Keep happy! Laural
from pattymelt :
i am glad you are not pissed anymore. go have a few (hundred) bevs for me.
from princesstosh :
Have a good time! You deserve it. MWAH!
from gumphood :
whats you favorite Pub in london. Do you actually live in london. I spend a good amount of time in Bury St Edmounds.
from tigerlily21 :
Aww, sweetie, it'll be ok! I'm sorry that everything didn't work out the way you wanted, but maybe something better will come up? I know you will come up with something utterly fabulous to do tonight, so don't be pissed off (at least about that!!) I don't understand why you can't visit when Nikki is there..thats bull! I hope everything works out and I can't wait to hear about your night out... That dog didn't bite you or anything did he? That would have scared the crap out of me!!! Anyway, have a fabulous Thursday!! Its almost Friday! *hugs*
from liesal1979 :
UPDATE!!!!!! Do not fear my little pumpkin, i have borrowed some money from my darren so all is ok!! EMAIL ME xx
from liesal1979 :
Did you get my email. I haven't been paid so i can't come out tonight!!! I was really looking forward to it so an extremly pissed off!! Mail me back Lisa xx
from pattymelt :
you can't leave notes? i am trying? can you not leave a comment on the actual diary page? WTF????
from princesstosh :
Hey there. I just wanted to stop by and thank you for all of your wonderful notes---you are the best. The wedding was great. It wasnt too fancy, but almost every little girls dream. I got lucky that it was that nice. Keep the notes coming-- I love keeping in touch with you!!Have a great day!!!
from pattymelt :
nothing? and no note or anything for me? when i posted that fabulous pic of JBJ? and what the hell is "skint"?
from liesal1979 :
Oi Bird, I cannot believe you are not more put out at the fact that he used to be IN love with me!!! I ahve also just added an extra to my diary which you may have not read! Yep i am going to the walnut, If he is not there i will pop in and say Helllooooo Wizzzzzzzzzzamond!!! Lisa xxxx
from chakra-chick :
Hi there... Love you style of writing! We have plenty in common...but, unlike you, I'm too chicken to admit to most of them! Going to add you to my 'buddy list'...if thats OK with you?
from liesal1979 :
ERE YOU BIRD! Read my entry coz you HAVE to hear about rich last night! He loves me, not as a friend coz its higher than that!! (possibly somewhere in the middle!!) xxxx
from dont-stop :
Yup, I'm back, but not mentally.
from tigerlily21 :
Don't worry.. I'll still read ya and leave you notes! How could I not give love to my Betchy? I'm just taking a much needed break from updating. I haven't got the time and as much as I want to update more, it just doesn't happen. So, don't worry..you'll still hear from me!! Hope you have a good day! Maybe you could go to a craft store for some gift ideas? *hugs*
from aliboomboom :
Thanks for the sweet note. I am glad that you enjoyed the pictures. I'll be back soon to refresh myself with your latest entries!!
from chevydarling :
Well, I love Chevrolet pickup trucks and my last name is Darling, so I just kinda put the two together and it came out that way! I'm glad you like what I write. =)
from pattymelt :
you are such a note 'ho!
from exit43 :
Sorry about your weekend!
from gumphood :
that's it. ring page. ick
from hilseymour :
that entry made me laugh a lot - specifically the "girl's bedroom", the "spectacular karaoke" and best of all "at least my hair doesn't look like a grey helmet." I'm going to put that as my quote for my profile.
from starlight42 :
Sorry to hear your weekend was a bit of a bummer! Yikes, I hope everything works out with the police...as for the people not adding you as a fav- here's my philosophy: I don't care if they don't add me, if I'm not interesting to them, that's ok. But, if I add someone I appreciate it if they check out my diary, just to give me a chance. Or at least reply to some of the notes I would leave them. If I have anyone added, whether they list me or not, if they don't ever respond to my notes or comments, I delete them, because I think that's rude. Not to say I don't give them plenty of time, but if I have left like 5 notes over the course of a month and not once have they responded, I remove them.
from liesal1979 :
Sennies would be ok, Vision is possiblity, wanna see if dan is up there, there is always sands aint there... I am gonna get hammered this weekend but still not sure about thursday due to the work aspect on Friday!
from liesal1979 :
Sennies would be ok, Vision is possiblity, wanna see if dan is up there, there is always sands aint there... I am gonna get hammered this weekend but still not sure about thursday due to the work aspect on Friday!
from turtlemomma :
I hope you don't delete people for not signing your notes very often :( I know how much you like notes. I'll try harder :o)
from onewetleg :
yeah, it was funny. i was laughing about it. i chase the fucker out every week or so. he won't stop coming back. i have caught him twice and gotten the clothes back from him, but i haven't roughed him up yet. lol.
from aliboomboom :
I'm sorry that you have to feel this way about Julien. I know how much it hurts. I guess we just have to hold on to the hope that there is something better out there, right?
from chevydarling :
Thanks for adding me, luv! =) It was a big surprise! I had no idea anyone actually read my little words of blah! hehe Mwah! ~N.
from the-duff :
Hey, maybe i'll make my way to weston-super-mare someday, although with the entertaining entries i've read from you and liesal1979 I may expect a wild sex orgy or something :P Anyways, i've added you to my list so now you can't rant that someone you added didnt add you afterwards.
from onewetleg :
yeah, i'm with pattymelt. i add people to my buddylist because i want to read what they say, not to get a reciprical link. i also love notifylist and join every one i see. that way i can read someone for a while and test them out and if i change my mind i can just unsubscribe from the list. everyone should have notifylist. i don't have ub on my buddylist or chicagojo, but i still read them everytime they update. i figure people with a large readership, they don't really need me to advertise for them, you know? however squirellx was the first and she will always stay on my buddylist. 3pounds fifty! holy shit! that's a lot a moola!
from pattymelt :
i don't really add people JUST because they added ME. my buddy list is pretty full. and i DO read most of them. periodically, i have to go and delete people that are not as much of a favorite as others because if i find someone new, i can't add them, you know? hope you have a great weekend!
from krugerpak007 :
Hope you are ok dear what with your last entries or 2... Go out and get some hot sex. I think thats a great idea! And enjoy the 40th birthday. I have a feeing that wherever you are there is fun and laughter and joy! Great that you talked to Avalonte and I am sure she felt much better after that. Take care sweety and have a good, sexfilled weekend. Love Kathy
from soverycherry :
I just saw the note you left me: I call her B.Do because when Jennifer Lopez started referring to herself as J-Lo I thought it was ridiculous and I started calling my ex Jonathan J-No at the same time. So I call Braedon B.Do but pronounce it like BahDoo because it cracks me up and we are retarded. She calls me TahLoo, if you're wondering. I really fear for my unborn child, you know that?
from pattymelt :
you are probably a little more active than i have been these last 3 months. all i do is work and then go home and lay in bed and watch TV for hours! and maybe have some sex but not enough to count as real exercise!
from soverycherry :
Oh, man, now I really want to watch Dirty Rotten Scoundrels. I love the part where Steve Martin is "Ruprect" and they're having dinner and he's all banging on pots and pans. Hilarious. Also, here's to hoping you get some hot boy love this weekend! Whee!
from tigerlily21 :
Lol, you are one crazy girl..thats why I love ya so much! Sounds like you had a decent night all by yourself. What exactly is frosty jack? Anyway, hope you are enjoying your day off..and I hope you have a fabulous weekend. I hope you have great you know what this weekend..can't wait to hear all about it!! love ya! *hugs*
from heelandlass :
vodka=good for the soul!
from pattymelt :
you are crazy!
from hilseymour :
Heh heh heh. My plan to make everyone rainbow-conscious is working....(rubs hands in glee)
from gumphood :
I am really sorry you watch that. I hope you aren't too upset
from soverycherry :
I don't want to pry or sound insensitive, but I hope that you're feeling better about whatever it is re: premature babies that got you so upset!! Hugs!
from puta-reviews :
Your review is up at puta-reviews. You should go check it out. Yeah. http://puta-reviews.diaryland.com/becky.html Sorry it took forever to get it done!!
from onewetleg :
<a href="http://betchy.diaryland.com"target="_blank1"><img src="http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v438/onewetleg/betchybutton.gif"></a> i made you a button. it's just simple. blue. it says your name. 'betchy.' i made it at www.myimager.com which is the only free one i can find for making images and such. it's hosted at photobucket.com, my favorite free image hosting site.
from exit43 :
You just make a button in PaintShop or one of those programs, and you host it on an image server deal (like ripway.com) and then you make it in the HTML so it will link to your page, and tell people to use the URL of your image. I'll help if needed. :)
from pattymelt :
i hate listening to people's relationship crap. unless they are going to listen to wise old me, why dump it all on me? i am logical. i am honest. i won't bullshit you and tell you everything is going to be ok tomorrow when i know it's not going to be. i WILL tell you if your man is a dick. as for that lying little brat, make sure you tell the police that you have been worried about her lying for quite some time. you know her mom put her up to that whole story, right?
from peachick :
same here. i'm a good listener but not a good adviser. i can't comfort people when they're at their bad times, but i'll offer a shoulder to cry on or my body to hug, i guess that would be enough :) ah, it'll nice if you change my link on your diary to my current blogdrive one!
from avalonte :
You don't need gold. You just have to have an artistic flair and make a button using a photoshop or paint program on your computer. The you need to upload it to an image host site. Sorry I've not been in touch much. I'm not feeling great. Sorry.
from krugerpak007 :
Hey honey. Sorry that all your friends are so down. I havent even noticed whats up with my friends, feeling too damn sorry for myself and down, and am too self absorbed. So I guess I owe everyone an apology.... How are you otherwise? Great that you saw the baby. I can imagine how gorgeous he is. I love babies. And little kids. Its when they get bogger that they scare the hell out of me. I never know how to act with them...Anyway honey, I hope you are having a good day. Lots of love, Crazy me
from liesal1979 :
ere you, reply to my Email!! When do u wanna enter the realm of Tarot, Is vicky coming as well? L xx
from catz-eyes :
hiya cherub. wow! i tend to agree with what other's have already said: if andy's wife is such a psycho, there's a really REALLY good chance that she is the one who is encouraging lucy to tell lies (a good friend of mine has been through this experince over the past 18months, fighting it out in court with his #$@% of an ex-wife). if andy wants to keep on seeing lucy he should do so - just make sure that there's someone with him and her every second so he's never in a position like this again - at least until the matter is cleared up. also - girl, you are SUCH a sex kitten! shake it baby! after reading your entry, i'm inspired to go out and buy some trainers, a jumper and trackies... hope you accepted the 'lush' guy's date offer! ;) ***HUGGLES*** =^..^=
from dooki :
Poor Andy! Did his ex put Lucy up to it? That's awful. I hope things work out. Most child psychologists would be able to tell if she was lying, and hopefully that will clear his name. How terrible to feel betrayed by your own flesh! On a side note: I'm glad you got some potential nookie in your trainers! You give us gals hope! hahaha.
from krugerpak007 :
Gosh that is waful for Andy. Thank goodness he has people like you guys to stand by him. I cant think of anything worse. That must be so traumatic. So trainers and work pants seem to do the trick hey-you go girl! Thanks for your lovely nots Betchy. They really hekp me, you have no idea! Anyway sweety, you take care and we will be in touch tomorrow. Love Kathy
from gumphood :
man. I am so sorry for him and his girl. That couldn't be a harder thing to go through. I am sad now.
from hilseymour :
hmmm... Gary Moore...yeah...wasn't he in Skid Row and Thin Lizzy? I don't know much about him or any of his music...:(
from onewetleg :
oh, my gods! you have it documented in your last entry that emma didn't drink. what if it came about that diaryland was used as evidence in a huge trial thingy! i don't think it could be admissable because these things can be changed so easily. i'm sorry all this had to happen to your friends and to you. lying females are trouble at any age but we have to listen and look carefully so the ones who are telling the truth aren't disregarded. yuck, what a horrible mess. take care betchy. keep me posted. love,
from soverycherry :
Oh, I am so sorry for Andy. How do you deal with something like that? I think Lucy might benefit from some counseling, especially if her mother is as pyscho as you say she is. How unfortunate of a situation.
from liesal1979 :
Hello to you to! You ok??
from fairygodmum :
Gurl.. that was SOME Weekend! Mine are NOT Nearly as Exciting. I didn't see Bollard in the translation section... Hope it wasn't your friends parents car.. they will certainly be surprised when the cops stop them!.. OMG.. Hugz, Bebe da FGM
from hilseymour :
Oh my god! I totally AM in impressed. Does he know Roy Wood? He was in the move before he became the fabulous lead singer of Wizzard - wooo glam rock! Cool. (waltzes off singing Blackberry way, absolutely pouring down with rain...")
from krugerpak007 :
I was thinking that the bin men sound like my bus drivers...Mmmm.xoxox
from krugerpak007 :
God, what is with Fenton and his purple polo. Mmm. Lovely!! lol. How are you sweety, otherwise? After your harrowing escape with the law? I am sorry about Dean. Let him realize how much he misses you. Let him run after you now for a bit. And good luck for this weekend, meeting the hottie! As for the photos, I never received them.:-( I am not sure whats up with that...And not sure why? Maybe the post office can shed some light? Thanks a lot for your note. It means alot, and it does make sense. 100% actually. I just wish that I could start behaving more responsibly and maturely. because I am starting to hurt those close to me. Including myself actually. And thats the last thing that I want to do. Anyway sweetie, I hope you have a good week, and a good week at work. Have you decided what you are going to do job wise? Start looking? Or to stick with it? The idea that you had before about the drugs counselling sounded great though. Anyway thinking of you. And thanks again. Love u lots! xoxox Kathy (Any chance of you coming to London in 2 weeks for a coffee or some cocktails?)
from avalonte :
Had Emma been drinking too?? Glad you had a good weekend anyway. x
from soverycherry :
No drinking and driving! (Not like I haven't done it a billion times in the past, but now that I no longer drink I feel like I have the right to yell at other people.) I'm glad no one got hurt. That said, that is absolutely hilarious - I can't believe that you guys just left the scene of the crime and then didn't get into any trouble at all. Ha! Also, maybe you and Dean weren't meant to hook up for long just so you could have a go at the new, hot boy next weekend, you think?
from fairygodmum :
I don't think we get Eastender's here in San Francisco... the West Coast.. hehehe Although that man that dresses as a woman with extreme makeup, loud clothes and some sort of Brit accent is here in town. Madame somethingorother :))) Bebe da FairyGodMum
from catz-eyes :
Hehehehe i felt fucking unreal! hehehehhe that was the whole point! *bows to betchy* yeah, i was kinda proud of myself, too ;) =^..^= xox
from krugerpak007 :
I got back now from my trip and am catching up now with your entries. That bleaching-G-d? What is that? And about Julien. That was beautiful. I think you should track him down. Anyway, I hope you have a good weekend! And what is up with Dean? xoxox Kathy
from dailyspoo :
thank you ever so much for adding me as a favorite. what's wrong with bin men? over here we call them sanitation engineers and they make a bin load of money.
from hilseymour :
Well...I like LOADS of them...including Blackberry Way! There's a song you never see on people's favourite songs list! A total classic. Also the Elton John ones...I just got a Goodbye YBR DVD today! And Poison! I LOVE THAT. And Slim Shady...anything by Eminem...Hey Ya, K-Ci & Jojo...Mr Bluesky, SQUEEZE! Oh, and Course Bruv, that's just wicked. Don't Stop Me Now, would be one of my tippermost toppermost songs of ALL TIME though, out of your whole list.
from liquid-mojo :
Attention whore huh? I'll see what I can do to accomodate that request. ;)
from hilseymour :
I bet I would love all of them! My favourite songs list would take up the whole of my diary! I will check that out for sure...
from exit43 :
My site's already on your list so :P
from adulterous-k :
Never had a 'relationship' with a bin man, although I shared a flat with one for a summer. Used to 'liberate' the magazines he found in roadside bins. W-S-M - that's the muddy place where Jeffrey Archer and John CLeese came from isn't it?
from avalonte :
Haha, I nearly wrote a similar entry the other day! A bin lorry drove past, slowed right down and all the bin men wolf whisteld and said "Hi gorgeous" etc! Then a bit later that day, the recycling lorry was passing, and they beeped and wolf-whistled! So obviously I attract bin men too! Or maybe bin men are just overly horny at this time of year!!
from peachick :
OMG erotic dreams! I had one last night, a fat, gross and horny-looking man was rubbing my pussy and I nearly got an orgasm, it was totally unexpected. But it was so nice, 'cause it was my first sex dream that I was actually involved in it :)
from soverycherry :
That biscuit tin comment is so odd that I find it hilarious. I wish I could use it, but I don't think I'll ever find a way to work that into conversation. Plus, over here, people would be like, "Biscuit tin? What is that?" because we are dumb and American. But I know what it means! I like cookies. Anyhoo, have a great weekend! I hope you get some! (Lovin', not cookies. I mean biscuits.)
from fairygodmum :
Ok.. Help me with this.. IS a Binman an A) Garbage Man B) Construction Worker or C) Street Sweeper... I've referenced your translations and it is Very Helpful. Although I DO need the subtitles because of their heavy accents! Hugz, Bebe da FGM... P.S. I've tried adding my URL.. it's kinda confusing.. give me some time.. I'm kinda SLOW! hehehe
from heelandlass :
Hey Betchy-boo. I wonder if you'd be in line to get a redundancy package if they do make you redundant? If so, it could be worth your while hanging around, I mean - if you love your job, there's no harm in sticking around till you find out whether you're entitled to some cash, you could end up with a handsome sum. My friend got made redundant last year and got 3 months garden leave with full pay and £3k when she finished up. Might be worth finding out about eh?
from turtlemomma :
That royally sucks donkeyballs! But yes, start looking now, don't wait until the last minute when everyone else is scrambling to find work. All the good jobs will be sucked up by then. ~K
from pattymelt :
you didn't love me FIRST FIRST but i know what you mean!
from exit43 :
You can bleach that?
from onewetleg :
i always have to stop and think before i answer the phone at work. i'm suposed to say, 'thank you for calling evilco. this is jj, how can i help you.' but i still want to say, 'thank you for calling t0wer, this is jj, how can i help you?' plus i do the closing announcements at the end of the night and i always want to say 'thank you for shopping at t0wer,' instead of thank you for shopping at evilco.' my phone at home never rings unless i'm asleep. then i make tommy answer it. he's closer. love,
from hilseymour :
There wasn't much I could say about the Julien entry, other than "awww." When I answer the phone, I just have to say "Information?" or "Medical Records?" depending which phone I'm answering. I am lucky. Sometimes I add a "good morning/afternoon" or a "hello". I was thinking the other day, I wonder what I'll have to say if I get that other job - "National Centre For Mental Health & Deafness, Dr Blabla's Secretary, good morning..." And I have also answered my home phone with "Limefield Fabs" (where I used to work!) - you feel real stoopid!
from pattymelt :
sorry, love! but you said to leave her a note! and how pitiful is it that she didn't have any when i got over there? you have lots! i will look for the tallywacker entry and let you know.
from soverycherry :
A few years ago, I was working at a bank during the day and at a dept. store in the lingerie section (woooo) at night. I swear, I answered the phone "Lingerie!" at the bank and "Thank you for calling First Union Financial Center Salem, this is Taylor, can I help you?" while I was at the dept. store. I am dumb.
from sanetwin :
When I was pregnant I was due on April Fools day, (april 1st) I called everyone and told them I was going into labor, waited five minutes and called them back and said it was a joke. they were so mad. At least your friend wasn't doing it just to pull your leg lol.
from hilseymour :
Fab! I loved that entry about anus bleaching! Also...every entry I've read so far today from everyone's diary has mentioned the word "eyebrows"! I have started a trend! haha.
from onewetleg :
come to california, dooki! everyone here is doing it. i have my anus bleached once a week. the same girl who did my spleen and liver piercings does it. email me and ill give you her number. she's a whiz. ;}
from dooki :
I live in America and I've NEVER heard of someone bleaching their fucking anus. WHY? Why on earth would you do that? What the fuck is that going to change? Your anus will still be...*gasp*...A FUCKING ANUS. I don't see how bleaching it makes it more attractive. I'm fucking perplexed as to why someone would do that.
from aliboomboom :
Okay. I was just trying to give your friend the benefit of the doubt. Madison is a popular name here so it's not uncommon for several people to like it and use it. I guess it's not as common over there. In the long run, it won't matter since you won't be having kids but I can understand why you are pissed!
from starlight42 :
Hey girl- My old boss did plastic surgery on TV (she got a face lift). Wow- those other things are kind of crazy. Ouch!! Hey, did you ever post your pic up here, you got me all excited and I don't think I saw it yet.
from exit43 :
Damn I'm behind on notes. I do still read your entries though. Wilson said our computer can't be fixed for a little while because he is searching for a hard drive to install in it. :( Thank you for noting me -Jason-
from adulterous-k :
Thanks and yes please. Email me?
from liquid-mojo :
thanks for adding me. good to know i'm not the only oversexed scorpio around... ;) oh yeah, please do hit me up with your password. you can note me again or email me: liquid-mojo@sexmagnet.com
from gumphood :
you don't give a shit about me?!!?!
from pattymelt :
minnie i had right but i was way off on hump! thanks!
from pattymelt :
hump? minnie? you are doing it again!
from gumphood :
why do people in Elgland care about hollywood.
from pattymelt :
did you send it to my work address? i got a note about "inappropriate language" and the email wasn't delivered. send it to phouse64@sbcglobal.net
from heelandlass :
Thanks for adding me to your list of faves. I would love your password, no-one's ever offered me before, I feel honoured! xxx
from onewetleg :
how sweet and sad. love lost. *sniff*
from princesstosh :
Oh, Becky!! You made me well up. It's love!!! Call him!!
from pattymelt :
tell me! tell me! i love secrets!
from turtlemomma :
Stories like that always make me sad. But why'd you sleep with him again? I'd have been to pissed off at him!
from pattymelt :
I have been on dland for 2 years and i just got to 70! and the locked thing will keep your number down. it's not like random people can add you.
from gumphood :
400 seems like a longer number than it is. Get a car and get in the game
from avalonte :
Awww, how sad! Thanks for sharing. x
from pattymelt :
no problem. i deleted that one note. i hated to, but it was driving me nuts! how's your day? almost over? the work part, at least?
from gumphood :
where is he now?
from fairygodmum :
Hey Betchy.. Thankx for the Well Wishes... I'm so glad that your livin life to the fullest.. keep it up gurl... there's nothin like havin FUN!!!!... Hugz, Bebe da FairyGodMum
from stillsingle :
Thanks for the note, sorry I haven't written in a while. I had your password at home and I normally don't check D-land from home, I'm always at work when I do. Glad to hear things are still going well for you, sounds like you had a good weekend! Your entries still crack me up. :)
from aliboomboom :
I'm glad that you had a good weekend. I don't think that it's stupid to be mad at your friend. However since you know that you aren't having children, maybe she did it to honor you by choosing your favorite name for her daughter. What do you think?
from hilseymour :
I know, isn't it insane that I dreamt about you? Well, I thinking about it, I think it's because you appear to be so friendly to everyone, regardless of how well you know them...I think that's what reminds me of the overpowering girl - like I said, not that you are like her in that way, but she was also very friendly! But in a scary way.
from tigerlily21 :
Thank you thank you thank you for the wonderful birthday wish! I can't believe we are so close in age. My friend Jamie is a month and a day after mine..how weird! I'm soo sorry for the lack of notes lately. I have been so swamped and it seems as if everytime I go to leave you a note the phone rings at work :( I promise to try to do better. I think thats freakin hilarious about Fent. I have no sympathy..lol. Hope you have a wonderful day!! *hugs* Jen
from beautyx3 :
hey funny story about fenton. So did he ever get the keys to get into the flat? Oh and thanks for the note and support, things are looking up for right now. Chris decided to stay with me, he couldn't live without me, which is understandable seeing that I'm so special, j/k ;) Your weekend sounded fun. Get some rest though!
from krugerpak007 :
Glad you had a good weekend anyhow. Hope you have a good week ahead. Mine is short, thank goodness! Take care! xoxox Kathy
from catz-eyes :
hiya cherub :) i *love* that you drink booze with such gusto! a litre of vodka! woohoo! thanx for the note sweetpea :) but mason and me? nah... he's lovely, for sure.. but danny would have a fit! besides which, mason isn't my type: unless they're loony, obsessive and/or downright derranged, i don't tend to be interested. go figure. love & other indoor sports, jay xox =^..^=
from krugerpak007 :
I wish someone, anyone would grab me-anywhere for that matter. :-) I digress. I hope you and Dean have made up. That you managed to have a good Saturday anyway. That you managed to have a good weekend! It looks like Trevor and I will be coming to the UK 99%, we are in the middle of booking tickets. Who knows maybe we can meet. Although you are quite far from London -right? And thats where we will be based although we plan on seeing as much as we can... Anyway, take care my dear. And have a good week and keep in touch. xoxox Kathy
from onewetleg :
spaghetti dinner, foot rubs and ass grabbing. sounds like my kind of party. congrats on your cooking debut. love,
from princesstosh :
Ok your ass? Is my breasts. Every man feels the need to touch them. They say its some force...that my breasts are just out there and need to be touched. I say no, but whatever. I bet the spaghetti turned out well---I need some, I'm so hungry right now! Also, I wish you could come with me this weekend too :( It would for sure be a party with you and I there :)
from krugerpak007 :
Gosh, all these men can not leave you alone....Isn't funny how sometimes you are crazy about someone, and sometimes you just can't handle them...Ok, maybe not funny but weird, whatever. I am sorry about Saturday night, but at least he does have a valid excuse-right? And I am sure you will find something to get up to! Anyway have a good weekend. That spagetti sounds great by the way. I could do with some of it right now. Take care honey! xoxox Kathy
from gumphood :
I am a good cook. but I am a bad boy. (what does that mean.) Anyway I am glad you food was good, but I thought you liked the Fenton. What up!?
from soverycherry :
Sorry about Saturday night!! Oh well, it's for a good reason, I suppose. Also, I'm 24 and I've never really cooked anything either. That's sad. I hope my kid likes mac & cheese and scrambled eggs!!
from avalonte :
Hmmmm.... tell Graham I'm looking forward to meeting him!! He might just be the most male action I've had in months!!! Hope you're ok chicken, innit!
from princesstosh :
Aww, that was wonderful. I take my mommmy for granted sometimes, too. I forget how hard it must have been raising me on her own until i was about 12 (just like you!!) But, its neat that you appreciate her now, and treasure her! You are so wonderful!
from krugerpak007 :
And just go and enjoy Dean. Don't worry about what others think or say. Go out there and enjoy!! For me at least!! xoxoxo
from krugerpak007 :
Cliff sounds great.I guess the saying that the apple doesn't fall far from the tree is true! So happy belated birthday to your mom. That was a great entry, she sounds really special. I hope the trip to England does work out. Hold thumbs for me, and who knows, maybe we will meet at last? xoxox Kathy
from sanetwin :
oops I meant to say "that have hurt them".
from sanetwin :
It's weird but I've had other people tell me about their Jasons that have hurt me. I think it does have something to do with the name! !
from gumphood :
I think I want to meet this Cliff...and perhaps push him off his namesake.
from aliboomboom :
I can't get into your diary!! I guess I've been away for so long that I forgot the password or worse yet never got it. I really want to find out about your latest excursions so please email me at alexia_gillingwater@yahoo.com and give me the password. Anyways thanks for the note. Griffin is a doll, thanks for saying so!!
from exit43 :
I'm doing as best I can to stay up to date, but don't worry, it shouldn't take more than a week for me to be regular on here again. -Hug- Jason
from enhancedview :
Hi. You are on the pending list.
from gumphood :
I have read everything I have missed now. I like it when you harrass the boys. It's pretty ridiculous.
from starlight42 :
you are crazy...crazy for boys!! :) Thanks for the compliment on the new design.
from gumphood :
I will leave you notes, but like I said. Dead comp...no access. Better now.
from onewetleg :
cool a ghost. lucky you. i don't know why you can't leave me notes but i'd really rather have guestbook and comments anyway. notes is a pain because it take so long to load. you have to press the stop button and then it just loads the first few notes and that's faster. i don't know. just leave a comment or gbook entry. love, jj
from hilseymour :
Wooo! Wooooooo! (that was a ghost impression) - I wanna hear more about Graham!
from dooki :
I can't spell!
from dooki :
My name is Graham, and I'm watching you!!! You naughty girl! I saw you taking off your nickers!
from dooki :
Do you feel special?
from dooki :
I'm writing you notes!
from dooki :
HEY!
from pattymelt :
you are so ful of shit. you get more notes than anyone!
from turtlemomma :
Your own ghost! How cool is that!! I want to see a picture of the house. ~K
from dooki :
Thanks. I hope things will be better. I love him to death and when we DO have a good time, it's the best time of my life. However, it's been too few and far between to remember what those good times are like. I appreciate the kind words.
from pattymelt :
you are too kind! but, yeah, i guess i am ok. and i smell good too. most of the time!
from gumphood :
I totally lost my user and pass word for you when my comp was wrecked. Can I get them again. Email if you want!
from pattymelt :
http://pattymelt.diaryland.com/images/face1.jpg if you still can't see it, i'll post it later today. have a great day!
from princesstosh :
AHH, I am so sorry girl. I have "brides brain". I cant think to do much right now exept eat (i never forget that) sleep, and plan the wedding. Sorry! Oh and my blue eyes? Change from blue to green. I like them blue better though, so I was super happy with that picture. Do you have any pics? Send them my way!!!!
from soverycherry :
Ha, you have a pervy ghost! That's pretty funny. Maybe he died during sex, who knows? Anyway, glad to hear things are going well with Dean. Anyway, from your note yesterday: I think if Bush had it his way, he would ban abortion, but he can't because of the famous Roe vs. Wade Supreme Court decision that legalized abortion in the first place. What's weird is that he is totally anti-abortion, but his wife is pro-choice! Too bad she's not running for office, I might vote for her. Bush is very conservative: Christian, anti-abortion, anti-gay rights... and this is precisely why I am not voting for him. Have a great day!!
from fairygodmum :
Betchy... I just go by how I get along with people.. horoscopes have a tendency to confuse most people since you need to do a complete chart with Rising Sign Compatibility... please consult the website that I gave you... As I am Not a Forecasting Astrologer... I just know my Signs and the good nature of people. Hugz, Bebe da FairyGodMum
from krugerpak007 :
Thanks for all your amazing notes. You always make me smile. I am so busy at work I have no time to do a thing and today I need to leave early for a doctor's appointment so I am under a bit of pressure, but wanted you to know that I am thinking of you. Have a good day! xoxox Kathy
from dangerspouse :
Heyo! Thanks for giving in and sending me the password to the Inner Sanctum. I'm having fun going back through some of your old stuff. Way to go facing down Dean's ex - feisty chicks rock! Ok, gotta go see my bookie. Thanks again xxx
from fairygodmum :
There are 3 Types of Scorpio's, depending on what date your birthday is. The 3 types are: The Eagle who sores, the Scorpian who stings, and the snake who bites. Most Scorpians are Very Intuitive, and I am told are quite the Sex Pot... tee hee They make good friends but seems a good thing to Always stay on their good side. They have a tendency to be quite Secretive and the opposite sex finds alluring. Compatible with other water signs and earth signs. They put the fire out and air signs often feel like a bubble in water with them. BTW... I can't wait to do some of the Reviews! Hugz n Lub, Bebe da FGM
from exit43 :
Oh and if you like my diary's makeover, you should go to lmaodesigns.diaryland.com - see my friend Kelsey :)
from exit43 :
It may take time but I'll be back ;) Thanks for your notes, send more while I'm killing my computer!
from onewetleg :
yay! for you making a review page. one of these days we will teach you to make a link to the actual page. wait, you already know how to do that! it's pretty easy if you think about it. remember how you made the link to your review page? do the same thing with the review link instead of using %%reviewsite%% make sense? want me to do it for you? too damn bad, ain't it? i'm cutting the apron strings. you're on your own. i love you and i'm doing this for your own good. :)
from turtlemomma :
Poopoo on those reviewers! I love reading you as do so many others. Poopoo on them! POOPOO I SAY!
from pattymelt :
you lonely? what the fuck? check it out. http://pattymelt.diaryland.com/images/face1.jpgit's a couple of years old but i pretty much still look the same.
from onewetleg :
yay! you're back! i did miss you. i'm ready for another vacation. mm hmm. love, jj
from catz-eyes :
hiya sweetpea :) thanx for the note angelface. love you too! your kindness, warmth and support mean more than you'll ever know *MWAH* =^..^= xox's
from pattymelt :
i'm glad you're back! and congrats on all the sex!
from krugerpak007 :
Welcome back.... I am happy you are back, as I am sure everyone else is...Hang in there at work! xoxoxox Kathy
from krugerpak007 :
Ok, its the 6th. Enouhg. I miss you already. Update. Pleeeeeeeeeeeeeez!!! Miss you sweety. I am sure you are having an extra hectic day at work, so I will be a bit more patient. But only a bit. I hope you had an awsome week. Filled with lots of sex. Of course! xoxox
from bbreviews :
yeah, um scratch that last note, i didn't realize that info was in the request you left ... ;)
from bbreviews :
we're not actually accepting any new reviewees at the time, but i thought i'd sneak you in on my list since i'm only reviewing by request until we get some help around here ... now ... it seems as if your diary is locked, so i can't check for a link-back ... let me know if you'd still like a review when you return from your trip ;) ~p
from dangerspouse :
Hi Betchy! Thanks for the note at my place, that was very flattering!! I'm sorry if I didn't respond to you right away, but I've been on vacation. But now I'm back, and looking forward to checking your diary out...that is, if you'll send me the password. Just hit the e-mail button on my site, and I'll be most happy to give you a read. Thanks very much again! :)
from starlight42 :
oh boy, you and Dean? Well, hope things stay nice for you and don't get complicated. Hey, thought you were going to post a picture of yourself? Oh, our Big Bro is getting good- there's only 7 people left! One of the twins got voted out, we're all waiting for another "twist".
from catz-eyes :
hiya cherub :) hehehehe glad you're enjoying the whole sex thing - lucky you! now, as for the whole Yui-Gi-Oh Vs Pokemon debate... Pokemon is totally cool, they just don't show it here anymore. I used to think Yui-Gi-Oh was kinda naff once, too, but it grows on you. anyway, hope you had a shagadelic weekend sweetpea ;) ***HUGGLES***
from dooki :
I have completed the five questions. The five questions have been answered. The questions that you asked me, there were five of them, I answered. You said, "I want to interview you" and I said, "how long will it take?" and you said, "there's only 5 questions" so I said, "all right". Well, I answered them. All 5. The ones you asked. Well, you didn't really ask them, you just kind of sent them to me. Well, I answered them. It's finished.
from kirei- :
I reviewed you at Iced Milk. That's how I have your password. Mine's colors, affinity. Ciao
from turtlemomma :
The 6th of September! Pfft! I need a little bit of betchy cheer each day to keep me from falling completely into my black hole. You're one of the few happy people that I can actually put up with, heh :o)~ Well if you must be gone, then I hope you have a great week off and come back with lots of good tales for us. And know you will be missed!! ~K
from hilseymour :
I apologise to you for my MJ comments, but hey, I did warn you! I hope that's not MY Anthony you've slept with, lady!
from eggsaucted :
People say she looks a lot like me, but I see a lot of Kevin in her face. The way his chin and other features are defined are the way her's are too. Thanks for the compliments, I think she's pretty awesome.
from tigerlily21 :
Awww..you can't go!! Even though I rarely have time to get on here and read, I always make sure to try and read yours. I'm gonna miss you, Beck! I hope you have a wonderful week off..and have lots of *fun*. Can't wait to hear about your great week off when you get back!! *hugs* Jen
from krugerpak007 :
No, how can you not be updating until Sept 6th, that will just not do. I need my daily fix of Betchy. It's bad enough not having you on the weekends, now a whole week.:-(What will you be up to next week? (Besides having lots of sex?) I have to go and read the history of Dean and the family. I haven't. I mean if you like him, and he is obviously besotted with you then love conquors all you know? Anyway I will go read and see. Anyway honey I will send you a text now and agin. And I will honestly miss you. xoxo Kathy (and the damn pictures haven't come yet... I am sure I will still get them even if there is not enough postage, I may just need to add a bit. Anyway don't worry, hopefully I will still get them.)
from peachick :
have a nice weekend bec :), in addition to that, i've put up a quote of yours in my layout, 'cuz it's really cool!
from soverycherry :
Have a great week!! Have a lot of sex!! Woo! :)
from peachick :
Bec, I totally have trouble reviewing secretus, I dun really know what's her diary talking about. well, can you go and read it? I'll try to review the other one asap! :)
from krugerpak007 :
Yey! SEX. Lots and lots of sex. You go girl. A woman after my own heart! I hope everything esle is ok with you. I think Dean sounds quite sweet actually..Does Fenton know? He is going to be fuming..Maybe this is what will push him to face up to his feelings? Have a good weekend honey. Full of fun and of course lots and lots of sex! xoxox Kathy
from fairygodmum :
Yowsa Yowsa YOWSA!!!! Hot SEX.. is it everything I dreamed of???.... lol Gosh I've forgotten everything... Ok ok... they tell me it all comes back is it True???.. Hugz, Bebe da FairyGodMum
from dont-stop :
Hot sex! I am so envious.
from exit43 :
Yo! How is everything, well I assume it is great from your entry, but still the standard question applies! Hope it continues to go well.. I'm tired.. and sore.. gah.. -Jason- :)
from hilseymour :
yes! Michael Jackson! But I don't love him...in fact you better not read the next entry because you might go off me!
from gumphood :
I am glad you had a good time. Had you been drinking?
from thedevlyn :
that's sweet. if only b0b0 felt the same. life sucks.
from soverycherry :
You lucky duck, you. I'm so very envious. I will not be having sex for a long, long time. Maybe never again. Like I said yesterday, it's always good when somebody's getting the good lovin', even if it's not you. I'm such a big person!
from peachick :
hey. becky, i forgot to ask you interview me!!!
from pumpkinhouse :
Lots of good sex makes you healthy, wealthy, and wise...well, maybe not wealthy (unless you're a hooker).
from peachick :
enjoy the super duper good sex :)
from avalonte :
I'm chuffed for you!! Enjoy!!! Thanks for the call yesterday! Talk to you soon! xx
from thedevlyn :
Yep, that's me, thanks for noticing.
from dont-stop :
Yup, it was Big Daddy. I've been waiting for you to unlock your diary, but it doesn't look like you're going to, so could you please e-mail me the password?
from dooki :
Allright, all RIGHT. Interview me. Alien babies or not. I only hope to meet your standards.
from onewetleg :
my, gods, bec! how do you carry all that crap around with you everywhere you go? jock itch is a fungal thing kind of like athelete's foot but in the crotchal region. that's why men scratch themselves all the time. thanks for taking my survey and your interview is up. love, jj
from nypizzas2 :
Thin Lizzy? I've only heard their two most famous songs-"The Boys Are Back in Town" and "Jailbreak"-but I like those two songs.
from sanetwin :
Thank you for the note :)
from peachick :
Check your email :)
from turtlemomma :
Woohoooo!!! You got some!
from gumphood :
Well, its not too bad, unless you actually sleep with all 3 AT the same time.
from peachick :
Oh, and I meant "I do not do it with ANY guys who pursue me or just want to shag me" in the previous note
from peachick :
Bec, chances are I'm really in lust with somebody and I really feel like doing it. In that case I'll have no regrets right? I do not do it without any guys who pursue me or just want to shag me, but somehow I think I have my own right to shag somebody I want to (of course, if that person feels the same), and I have no reason to blame myself for that. I've just read your entry and if I were you, I would have no regrets too, 'cause I chose to do it, not being forced to. That's important 'cause what matters most is my own choice. Thank you Bec! Yes you did help me a lot. Bleh, teenage girls really need these kind of advice :)
from faint-iris :
Thank you so much for the note. :)
from avalonte :
Good for you chicken!! Of course you should be proud!! It's those little treasures that will keep you warm and smiling when you're an old biddy sitting on a commode!!! xx
from soverycherry :
Yay! for sex. I'm glad somebody's getting some, if it can't be me. Anyway, you should totally be proud of sacking a set of three brothers. Hell, I once slept with four high school best friends (well out of high school) in less than three months! In my opinion, you always have to complete the set!
from krugerpak007 :
No!!! I didn't mean you. I didn't realise you even got it. When you sent me your number I didn't realise it was a mobile number so I just sent a test and thought maybe you mean't I should call you at work or home or something like that.... So really it was not aimed at you!!! xoxoxo
from krugerpak007 :
You my dear sweet dear girl, make me laugh and smile! Go girl. What are you trying to analyse this entire thing for. You had sex. GREAT sex. So what is wrong with that? You are young and single and pretty and sweet-go out there and have a good time. You only live once afterall. Just enjoy and stop worrying about what others think. If you are happy, who cares what they think!!!! I am happy for you. And Fent wants your body-BIGTIME!!! xoxox Kathy
from nypizzas2 :
You are too sweet. Thank you for your notes. Sadly, I did not meet Ricki while in New York. However, I saw Eric Estrada, the DMC of Run DMC, and Jay Z's car. Better than nothing, eh?
from fairygodmum :
Sounds MORE Like Pleasure than a Problem! You gooooo gurl!!!! Hugz Bebe, da FairyGodMum
from onewetleg :
no, dearheart, i didn't try to call you. i wonder who it could have been?
from krugerpak007 :
Not fair!! More details, more details. The suspense is killing me. I hope you are having a good evening and I expect an update bright and early in the morning. How is your head by the way? How are you feeling? Love u! Kathy
from sanetwin :
HA ! It's always nice to have someone eating out of your hand!
from krugerpak007 :
I hope you are feeling better! That sounds serious is everything ok? Secondly how can you tease us like that? And leave us in suspense like that?Not Nice!!!! hope to hear from you soooooon! Love Kathy
from peachick :
that is just so right bec, wow you know so much huh, i'm all new in this, and i pretty dunno much, i was trying to think like a guy but i still couldn't think of a good answer to my own question. that helps bec, thanks so much again! :)
from peachick :
thats such a crazy long not bec, thank you so much!!!! i think i will get that figured out, but its so hard for me. but is that true, that guys dont fall in love with girls they have sex with? thats unfair huh
from exit43 :
Yes, it was fun, and I'm a fun kind of guy :) But you laughed didn't you? hehe. It's all good, don't lie... thanks for your note. Talk again soon. Jason
from onewetleg :
yeah, right, like dooki is afraid of something. she's just being lazy, as usual.
from onewetleg :
thanks for the thoughts. i have already answered you questions and i will post them tomorrow. love,
from dooki :
I would ask you to interview me, but I'm scared. What if it turns into one of those Twilight Zone episodes where you interview me and I interview 5 people and those 5 people interview 5 people and then they all turn into alien babies and destroy the world! OOOHHH GOOODDDDD!!!!!!!!!!
from krugerpak007 :
Of course I can post them up for you. No problem at all... And I am just as sad. I also look forward to Monday's when most people start updating again..I hope you had a good weekend. I am looking forward to your update... Love Kathy
from randomsnark :
(And I was just the 100th visitor to your diary...Yay for me!!)
from randomsnark :
I'm sorry I never reply to notes! Ahh, I suck, excuse my suckiness. But I love you! Thanks!
from onewetleg :
i would take an interview, betchy. thank you.
from exit43 :
Ok, I'll answer the questions as best I can :) But you're gonna laugh! I'll do it tonight.
from hilseymour :
Hey, yeah I saw them - good answers. I am the same as you with the happiness thing, and with the being happy with my life right now that I can't see where I'll be in 10 years. I think I would rather have marshmellow teeth though, cos they would fall out and then you could get false ones, and be ok. With a rock tongue you couldn't eat or speak or...
from turtlemomma :
I can't believe I'm saying this but, interview me! ~K
from sanetwin :
I would love the password
from exit43 :
Aw, but I haven't done anything naughty (sniff)
from krugerpak007 :
Hey honey. I miss you on the weekends you know... They didn't come yet. I think it takes a few days...But I will let you know and I will be checking every day. And then I will scan them and send them to you by e-mail and you can post them on the diary for all your fans!!! I hope you have a brilliant weekend. Take care sweetie. xoxox Kathy
from exit43 :
Interview me please!!
from krugerpak007 :
Glad you had a good night. I hope the day goes by quickly for you and that you have a good weekend!xoxo
from clown-review :
Hey. Were a new review site looking for some people to review. Your review will be really speedy. Thanks!
from gumphood :
Bring the interview.
from krugerpak007 :
I think the review they gave you was not too bad! So don't worry. I am too nervous to ask for reviews. As I told you before I can not handle rejection. I thought the review you gave was quite funny...It made me laugh! I don't think it was too mean. Ok, well maybe if it was my diary I would possibly be upset, but you are right. That girl is very young and has her whole life ahead of her...Have fun tonight. Really! xoxox Kathy
from krugerpak007 :
I am excited. I will be checking the post daily from now!!! How are you doing today? I suddenly have a major major headache. I want too run away from work and get in to bed. xoxo Kathy
from icedmilk :
Understood. Have a great day. :) -Kelsey
from icedmilk :
All done. :) http://icedmilk.diaryland.com/96.html -Kelsey
from peachick :
I don't think your review is too harsh. You should write what you think in a review, and if you don't like the diary, you should say so! 'cause they asked for the review, not you. and your already very polite in the review, if you visit other reviews they may not be as nice as you. keep on the good work girl!!! i remember giving a low score to shadyslayer too, and she's now locked!
from catz-eyes :
hiya cherub :) have just sent you an email regarding your questions and some other things.... and stuff those! your diary rocks sweetpea! ***HUGGLES*** =^..^= xox
from aliboomboom :
Your diary is definately not boring. THanks for the notes and the compliments and all the prayers. As soon as the Mike issue gets resolved, I can be happy again and breathe a sigh of relief. Hell maybe he'll just die, that would be nice. Thanks for everything.
from hilseymour :
OK, here's your questions... 1. Would you rather have teeth made of marshmellows or a tongue made of rock?....2. What song would you choose to have the first dance to at your wedding reception?....3. When was the last time you were REALLY happy?....4. Where will you be in ten year's do you think?....5. What do you think happens to you when you die?
from peachick :
and hey, what do the blink guys know? i love ur diary and i dont think the layout is boring!!
from peachick :
yup yup yup. i love it tho' it's just one of the d-land templates. i'm going to add some more things later to personalize it a bit. * thanks!
from exit43 :
I know you gave me a good review, and I really appreciate that, it lets me know that there are people out there that are mildly entertained for a couple minutes each day because of me. :D Thanks for your notes, see ya later -Jason-
from exit43 :
It's cool if you requested Kelsey, I already have reviewed you ;) And she's a little better at it than I am. As for those 'blink' people, I don't think they were supposed to be nice in the first place. I got a 38..
from starlight42 :
No one is going to run away from your pic!! I'm sure you're perfect...as to your entry, I went back and read the war one too--stay away. That's what I'd do. There's too much history with this family and I can't imagine anything good is going to come of it. I know what you mean about loving excitement and drama, and someone to pay attention to you- I used to be totally like that! But it didn't bring me anything but trouble and stress. I'd say don't bother with this guy. Maybe hang out as friends, but that's as far as I'd go if I were you.
from krugerpak007 :
You don't have to feel pressured to send the pics if you don't want to, I know already that you are beautiful...I can't wait though I must say.... I think you should just have fun. Really. As long as you have fun and laughs and enjoy, I think that is great. I always say to people that it is when you start feeling depressed and sad and worried about the whole situation then thats when you should stop. Although I know it's not always easy to stop! I know I don't give the best advice but I am talking from my heart, So go for it honey. Have fun. Flirt.I wish i had done that more. (Well actually I am married and I still do it..OY) Anyway honey, take care! And keep in touch. And if you hear from Avalonte please send her love from me. I miss her! Thanks love. xoxo Kathy
from krugerpak007 :
Hey sweety, how are you doing? So Fent is away for the week? So what are you up to? I hope you have a good day honey! Thanks again for all your sweet, sweet notes. Kathy
from blinkrevu :
Oh hey, it's Josh. I went ahead and reviewed you so go check it out.
from fairygodmum :
What do I dooo What do I COOOO... Well... Actually.. some say I grant wishes.. how I do them.. is.. I say a little prayer. I could go indebth with you about how a crystal ball tells all or the visions of life flash before my eyes.. or third eye is it? But those types of things always seems to confuse people into thinking I'm some sort of guru fanatic.. So instead.. a simple.. lemme see what I can do.. then.. I offer suggestions so that you can learn to manifest what YOU want in Your Life.. when your on the right track.. Everything just falls into place! Don't Ya Think?.. Hugz n Lub, Bebe da FairyGodMum
from blinkrevu :
I suppose we can make an exception. Would you like Meredith or Josh to review you, you have read our reviewers page right?
from starlight42 :
Ya, you've got to love Classic M Jackson-like Billie Jean or Rock with You. Oh, to answer your question to learn how to find where people are coming to your diary from, when you're on this main page- on the left click on "Your stats" and then at the top click on "Referers" I think this is available to regular members, I'm gold, so I forget, it might be included in a gold membership. The gold is worth it though- to be able to host your own images, makes finding a design easy. Plus, you get 10,000 banners- bringing more readers to your diary. Oh- all of the "bad guys" got voted out of our Big Bro- so it's going to be interesting to see who will emerge as a leader. Anyway- have a good day!
from exit43 :
Hey, thank you for your kind words, they won't be forgotten! If you ask for another review it might take me some time to get to it (Kelsey has a nice pending list for me) but I will do another one for you before too long. Thanks again -Jason-
from krugerpak007 :
Of course I am not angry with you silly. Quite the opposite. It was so nice to get your notes. Thanks a lot for caring, it means alot. Sorry I am so moany groany these days, I am just stressed out about this entire weight issue.I know its not the be all and end all, and that people have so many problems compared to my superficial ones. Thank you so much for caring. Really it means alot. I can not wait to see your pictures, and you know what, you are right, weight is really nothing. As long as we are good people and healthy, thats the most important. thank you thank you thank you for caring! xoxox Kathy
from fairygodmum :
Yes Betchy... I have been blessed with what you could call special gifts. I use them to guide people to the things they want in their life. Also to assist them in understanding what's going on right now so that they can obtain love and happiness.
from onewetleg :
get a squirt bottle and fill it with water. when the cat jumps up on the table squirt him with it. he will hate it but it won't hurt him and he will learn not to jump on the table.
from fairygodmum :
Hugz Betchy...Thanks for the PW.. and the good words!.. OH.. your flea in ear reminds me to get some Frontline for my pooch, as I'm scratching a bite as we speak! IT WORKS!!!
from catz-eyes :
hiya cherub :) 1st off, thanks for joinin the 'i have verbal diarrhea' ring! ;) now, as for the whole 'googled' thing; if you have a 'gold' membeship, you get access to stats about who/when/how people find your site. this includes stats on 'referrers' (i.e., websites that people used to get to your site), and with sites like search engines you're able to see what terms people used when they stumbled onto your diary. its kinda cool and often amusing and frequently perplexing! =) but for your diary to be indexed by search engines in the first place (and it doesnt matter if you have a 'free' diary or a 'gold' membership), you gotta make sure you have the proper meta tags inserted into the template of your diary or else the search engines bots are unlikely to 'find' your site and index it. i can email further instructions regarding the tags if you like? love you sweetpea! ***HUGGLES*** =^..^= xox
from exit43 :
Thanks for your note, but I'm not 'lovely' .. anyway, the word "betchy" is pretty catchy, I like it and now that I know where you got it from it makes it that much cooler. Have a good day, and oh yes thanks for the comment on my layout :) -jason-
from starlight42 :
oh no- kitties with flea's?? I hope that goes away soon. Yikes. Thanks for the note you left Friday. It's so nice to hear that when people read my entries they might think of something that they never thought of before, or feel differently about something and so on. :) I see you had a weekend at home, hey, that's not too bad. Sometimes it's nice to do that- watch movies and stuff. The cats probably got lots of love. Mine were starved for attention- since we were doing the garage sale. You should have seen them...so pathetic. When I was walking by Bailey last night he grabbed my arm with his paw and clawed into my shirt to stop me from walking by him and not stopping to pet him. So cute!!
from xlxclownxlx :
can i have the password? puh-lease????
from pumpkinhouse :
I don't know anyone named Duncan...yet.
from krugerpak007 :
Hey sweety! Sorry you had a quiet weekend, but I guess it is nice once in a while. Mine is quiet every bloody weekend...:-( Anyway I hope you have a good week ahead!I am waiting for those pics. xoxox Kathy
from sexjournal13 :
yeah, definitely hook me up with the password! my email is total science 408 at hotmail. no spaces. thanks for adding me to yr list, i'm honored!
from fairygodmum :
I've heard of French Kissing, and a French Maid, but I've Never Heard of a French Bird! Maybe I'm just out of touch?.. Hugz, da FairyGodMum
from exit43 :
Oh, ok, so that's where it came from. Thanks for clearing it up. I'm glad you liked your review. And I like the background you have now, it looks quite nice. Talk to you later -Jason-
from pattymelt :
ok. here is something i know about. be very careful with the jealousy. my EX best friend was always jealous of me. i won't lie and say i am ugly but i can't get just any guy i want. anyway, there will always be someone prettier or thinner so jest get off that. what you really need to know is this. if someone won't give you the time of day because they are blinded by someone elses beauty? fuck them. do you really wnat that kind of person in your life anyway? anyone who is always going after all the sparkly things, will never see the really beauty inside you. not to mention, they will probably steal from you anyway. and that whole "fat" excuse is bullshit. once they have fat they never go back. my best lovers have been the ones that have sworn off skinny girls for those of use with "lush" bodies!
from onewetleg :
i'm glad you like the color. if you don't like blue so much we could change it. i like what you've done with your navigation, you really seem to be getting the hang of it. soon you won't need me at all! *sob* love,
from krugerpak007 :
Gosh I was really wrong, but thats how I had you pictured. Ok, well Avalonte definitely has to photograph you when she is there!!! Or post me some pictures by snailmail and I will scan them for you!!!!
from krugerpak007 :
You asked me the other day what I do? I am the adminstartive assistant to the president of a hitech company. Actually, I am just a glorified secretary. I do everything for him. And for some other managers that take advantage. It's ok though. I complain a lot, but deep down I really like it, believe it or not....What exactly do you do? xoxox
from krugerpak007 :
I like the name Betchy. Its very you. Mmm. How do I picture you? I picture you with dark hair, nice pale skin, with rosy cheeks,and very pretty? I guess. Am I very wrong?xoxox
from krugerpak007 :
I like the new template a lot. It is very lush. The color is great. Colour that is.. I think though there may be a link problem. Where it says "contact me" and you press on it, it goes to the translation page. And "notes" it goes to e-mail. Am I making sense? Anyway sweetie, I can relate, having a really pretty friend can be very hurtful a lot of the time. Especially if you are sensitive. My best friend as I think I told you once before, is amazingingly beautiful. She always had all the men after her. And it was damn difficult for me. All I can say is you are an amazing person, and beautiful, I wish you could post pics so I could see that how I picture you, is really what you look like, but just from reading your diary and notes, I know you are a lush person, who I for one am glad that I met. Try not to be too hard on Vicky, it seems as though she is really crazy about you and would do a lot for you, and just hang in there. Fent is crazy about you, I know it! xoxox
from soverycherry :
I'm totally digging the new look. Very aquatic. Anyway, you need to get some ugly friends to hang out with. That's a quick self-esteem booster right there! No, I'm just kidding. At least she's taking care of all of your stuff, the guilt is really working for your favor! Also, you seem like such an awesome person - you're beautiful. We all have our off days (or nights, so it seems). I wouldn't worry about it at all, as hard as that may seem. I hope you have a good weekend!
from reviewcity :
Your review is done, thanks for being patient cause I know it did take a couple of days before I could get to it. I hope I wasn't horrid, I like this diary more than a 77 would suggest. See ya later -Jason
from starlight42 :
I enjoyed the new listing on UK terms. I knew some but didn't know others. And, after reading what your mom said, that's just so rude. Moms...why they can be like that some times I'll never know! Don't let her get you down though. There's a lot of girls I know who are "hairy". I had an Arabic friend who was really bad, all over! I'm blessed in that department since I'm fair skinned.
from sillyreviews :
My bad, sorry!
from beautyx3 :
thanks for the note. hey will you email me your password I lost it in the move please, thanks. Email: jmedohse@hotmail.com
from sillyreviews :
Yeah, sure, A will review you. I know you have a link on your profile, but could you please put one up on your diary too? If it's already there, I'm sorry I couldnt find it. Anyway, A will review you, no prob. ;-) ~s
from krugerpak007 :
Hello Ms Lush. Sorry I love that word now, I have been using it all day with people not really knowing how to respond because they don't know what the hell it means I guess... Anyway, its called love my dear!And lust. Yip, I know it well. But he has been such a sweety, Betchy I am telling you, he has very very very big feelings for you, and I have to see you two together, really girl,start pulling those moves! Seriously, he obviously cares a great deal for you, and I think he sounds really sweet. he honestly didn't mean to hurt you, I am sure. Anyway sweetie, take care! xoxo
from pattymelt :
he was actually pretty much a spaz. he had to be at work at 6:30 this morning and he is pulling a double. but he sounded good. he has been feeling a little under the weather since last weeks drinking binge. he has now sworn off drinking. if it means more sex for me? excellent! we made plans to watch football on saturday. with sex in between quarters.
from pattymelt :
i am about half way thru it. trucker called in the middle of it and now i am distracted.
from turtlemomma :
I'd love to eat at Red Lobster every night but it's too dang expensive! Thanks for the translations page, btw :o)
from pumpkinhouse :
There probably is a channel that shows it - but I don't have cable. I've seen Ali G in a Madonna video and on a handful of talk shows but that's about it. I'm deprived. :P
from pattymelt :
i thought you were going to say he put that huge thing IN you arse! you got me! i am off to check out the translation page.
from krugerpak007 :
Of course your notes make me happy. I love your notes, and I love you and your diary. And I am DETERMINED to see you and Fenton together. I think that when Avalonte is there she should talk some sense in to Fenton for you...Can I tell you a secret? I, er, still sometimes read Sweet Valley High books and Judy Blume books. (And I am thirty!!)And I also want to be Jessica! Take care dear! xoxox
from pumpkinhouse :
I've never heard of Bo Selecta. *scratches head*
from pumpkinhouse :
I've been walking around saying fook instead of fuck for weeks now. I've also been talking to my kids in an outrageous French accent to amuse them (and myself) a la Monty Python.
from krugerpak007 :
Your template is looking very lush I must say. I hope you are feeling better. Thanks for that interesting entry about British grammar...xoxox
from exit43 :
Hey, there's no problem with 'depressing entries.' It shows that you have a heart. :) I think yours is the next diary I'm reviewing, I gotta go make sure. Anyway my friends are going to pick me up soon. Thanks for your notes, I love them. -Jason
from dooki :
You know, just because people read your diary that doesn't mean that you have to candy coat your life. If anyone knows that it's me. Not everyone expects you to be miss happy all the time! God girl, you're human! In fact, I like reading entries like yours today. It gives me faith in the human race that people still give a damn! Anyway, it sucks about Fenton. I have a "fenton" in my life too. We don't talk anymore, and it's been the best thing to happen. I found my soul mate, and I truly believe that if I hadn't dealt with it and walked away, I never would have been able to open up to another man again. Off topic, but do you like double decker crunch bars? I think I ate 25 of them when I was in England. Fuckin' good stuff.
from betchy :
no, onewetleg! you forgot to put the <BR> between the links. i stuck a <BR> in there for you if you want to try it again. otherwise send me the url for your cast page and ill put it in. love, jj
from princesstosh :
Ok well I got in on this a little late but I am glad you and Vicky made up. As for Fenton, I'd like to have some really good advice for you but matters of the heart only come from inside of you: you'll know whats right (eventually) and all will be well in betchyland again! Until then, I am here if you want to talk! XOXO
from pumpkinhouse :
I loved loved LOVED Sweet Valley Twins - I think I had the whole series at one point (many many years ago in a lifetime far far away). Anyway, yes I would very much like the password please. :)
from pattymelt :
why can you not tell him? what if he really likes you but thinks you only like him as a friend? do you not got to the movies? and even if he doesn't like you "in that way" at least he will know how you feel and it's out there. he obviously likes you. if nothing else maybe he will be a little less of an asshole.
from exit43 :
I like what I've read of your diary so far. I'll continue to read tonight when I get home, but anyway I also have Yahoo Messenger.. don't know if that helps any. - I'm really glad you enjoy reading my diary, that means a lot to me. :) Talk to you later -Jason
from princesstosh :
Michael erased your password from my email accidentally. *SNIFF* Send it to me again? Please? mikeandtosha918@aol.com
from turtlemomma :
If I may.... What is "snogged" exactly? ~K
from exit43 :
Yeah, you get what I'm saying. Hehe. I feel in waves, if that makes sense. Sometimes when I think about what makes me happy, or when I think about love, I get all mushy and people stare at me funny. I don't mind it, well anyway talk to you soon... if you have MSN you should add me. I don't bite, hard. :D
from pattymelt :
snog=kiss? that's nothing. but you really can't get too mad at anyone if you have kept all your feelings to yourself. everyone knows men are especially dense. so if you dont' come right out and tell them EXACTLY how you feel, forget it. i am a believer in being straight with everyone. if i like you and want a roll? i tell you. if i don't like you? you know that too. it saves lots of time and the pain is minimal. feel better.
from exit43 :
Hello! Well, if I like your content I'll go easy on the scoring for the other parts. I'm going to be as fair as possible. I'm glad you enjoyed my diary, and my entry from last night. While I wrote that entry (I'm going to sound crazy here) I felt this odd release from my heart to my fingertips. A really strange experience... anyway, talk to you soon :)
from soverycherry :
I'm sorry you got so upset last night! But maybe you needed to get it all out and come to terms with how you really feel. Did she ever tell you why she hadn't responded to any of your phone calls or texts? Even if she didn't think you liked him anymore, it still sucks that what happened happened. I had a friend once who dated this guy for approximately a week, and then over a year later (at her insistance to both of us a thousand times over that she didn't have feelings for him anymore) he and I hooked up. She hated me after that. I should have known better, just as V should have known better. I hope that she honestly didn't think you liked him anymore, and that plus the being drunk was the only reasoning behind the kiss. I hope you're doing better today!
from tigerlily21 :
Aww, sweetie. I wish I could be there to give you a big hug. So, here's a big hug from thousands of miles away (((Becky))) Anyway, I'm glad that you worked things out with Vicky. I just have one question (don't take this the wrong way, I really am glad you guys made up) but didn't you say that Boss said that he saw Vicky coming out of Fent's apartment on Sunday morning? I don't understand. Maybe I missed something..but if she left on Saturday night, how could Boss have seen her Sunday morning? Anyway, I agree with Krugerpak..if you aren't, really aren't going to talk to him anymore, tell him why at least. But, don't make the mistake of thinking you aren't going to talk and tell him how you feel, only to go back to talking to him..I think that would be a bit awkward. Just make sure you truly do not want to be around him anymore. I know everything will work out! I'm here for you if you need anything!
from krugerpak007 :
I am sorry you are going through such a hard time. I can imagine how crappy that feels. My best friend is beautiful, and my whole life the men I have liked, have always liked her. I was always their "best friend" and they always confided in me, but liked her. I don't know if you are right about Fenton. he seems really keen on you Betchy really. And if you are planning on not calling him or seeing him, then why not tell him how you feel anyway? Am I making any sense here at all? Well, I hope you feel better sweety! xoxox
from krugerpak007 :
How are you feeling today? You have to have to have to tell Fenton how you feel. Really! Anyway let me know how you are doing! Thinking of you! xoxo
from betchy :
no, from onewetleg. but i'm in your html now. i put the link to the 101 and moved the navigation over to the side. i think it separates it a bit better from the entry itself. i changed the color of your links because the blue was getting on my nerves. i'd like to change the font let me know if there is a font you might like. i couldn't find your cast page so i didn't link it. and vicky didn't know any better you can't be mad at her and men are just dogs so you can't be mad at him. you need to get up in fenton's face and tell him how you feel. otherwise you have no business getting mad when he shags some bird. hehe. i used british slang! love you becthy. i hope i didn't sound too harsh there. feel better and let me know what you think about the template. love,
from hilseymour :
Heya, I had a cat that did that milk-out-of-your-clothes thing! I reckon you should talk to Vicky, see what she says - maybe pretend you don't know anything and see how she acts.
from reviewcity :
Hey, I'm really glad you enjoyed my diary. I will review yours soon, but I think because of the type of people that like my diary, that I'll enjoy yours. Just let me do a couple on my pending list and yours will be done shortly! Thank you for the review, kind words, and request :)
from pattymelt :
just wash your hands of them both. be cordial but not "nice", you know? their loss not yours.
from turtlemomma :
I added you already, you goof :o)~
from pattymelt :
keep in mind also that she is not the only one involved in this piccadillo. even if fenton didn't know you had the total hots for you, he fucked (you think) your friend. not cool. is he retarded?
from turtlemomma :
I don't think you're overracting at all. What she did was just WRONG! I'm so sorry your friend turned out to be a real buttmunch :o( But maybe you should hear her out, not that you should accept her apology should she give it, but I know I'd want some answers from her. BTW, thanks for letting me in. ~K
from pattymelt :
and i don't think you are over reacting. but remember that you are not god and you don't and can't control what other people do. yu can only react. so don't let that bitch vickie get away with a) cheating on her boyfriend or b) screwing a guy she knows you like. me, being a true hardass, would tell her she is not MY friend and make sure everyone knows that she can't be trusted. and i wouldn't talk to her ever again. but that's just me. do what you think is best. get her drunk and pee on her. and take pictures. how funny would THAT be????
from pattymelt :
yeah, tallywacker is a funny word. that's what me and my best friend called the pen0r back in jr high.
from avalonte :
Fucking slag!!!! Unbelievable! She has broken a fundamental rule of friendship!!! That is one of the biggest sins in a friendship. And she's compounded it by avoiding to you! Best she's not there when I come down or I'll chin her!! Well, maybe not, but I will give her a very cross look!!!! ;) *hugs* xx
from tigerlily21 :
Even though I don't know what a slag is, Vicky is a fucking slag! I can't believe that. What a rotten friend. You aren't overreacting at all. I know just how you feel too. My friend Jamie used to do that ALL the time..in fact, I think she has slept with almost all of my ex-boyfriends. Don't take her back as a friend, trust me. I did that too many times with Jamie and it just makes you resent them and makes for a bad friendship. I hope everything else is going ok. I hate sleeping when its hot too..poor Beck. Try and have a good week! *hugs* Jen
from gumphood :
no that's my buddy. You can find pictures of me under the picture section. (on the drop down menu)
from soverycherry :
I would just advise you to hold out until you hear what she has to say, but since she's not returning your phone calls or texts... that seems a little curious. If she did indeed do what you think she did, that is unforgivable! Especially since she has a boyfriend and she knows how you feel about F. Although I do feel kind of hypocritical, seeing as how I slept with Louis ehind Katrina's back. But I guess that's different because neither of us had a sig. other, and Katrina wasn't romantically interested in Louis... so maybe what I did wasn't that bad. Except for how it produced a baby. But that's about me, and not about you, so nevermind. Have you talked to F about it yet?? What a betrayal. I think you're totally justified in feeling the way you do. I'm so sorry.
from hilseymour :
ok ta, it's done. Only been here 4 years and didn't know you could do that - DUH!
from peachick :
she reminds me of my fd who likes catching guys' attention. she doesn't like those guys but enjoys having all the attention on her and would even ask guys out who're already taken by her own friends!!! i fucking hate girls like that. ever thought of talking about it to her face to face?
from peachick :
becky, i know you feel bad about the whole thing and i know how it feels.but while you think you won't betray her like what she did to you, she might not think the same way.everyone has their own agenda and you can never trust people..u know, this minute she's loyal to you, then the next minute the table may be about to turn. 'cuz brains are so complicated!! i was betrayed once too, because of guy issues, oh why a girl wouldn't betray her girlfriend because of guys? anyway, i hope you feel better soon but first of all, a good night's sleep is very important to you. good luck sweetie.
from krugerpak007 :
Oh no, I can't believe it! But what about her boyfriend. I am so sorry. I think you need to have a talk to both of them. Really. I still think that Fenton is crazy about you. And so is Boss. Anyway sweety, talk to them. You need to find out whats going on, and then you need to take a look and see exactly how you feel about Fenton and the whole situation.... xoxoxo
from hilseymour :
Um...you can't delete notes I don't think...if you know how, tell me! :/ Thanks anyway, I'll be checking you out...
from krugerpak007 :
I can relate. I would be pissed off too. Maybe seen him with someone close to you, just triggered those feelings again. Maybe you felt like that all the time but put them aside and hid them because you don't want to screw up your friendship. It would irritate me. I would be jealous, I would be angry and upset. Especially isnce she has a boyfriend? I think you should talk to her and tell her how you feel. Ughhh. I hate that you are worrying about this. Talk to her! Or him? xoxo
from krugerpak007 :
I am totally with you on that. Why can't they just say thank you. It's bloody rude if you ask me...I am going to catch up on your entry. I was interrupted yesterday and didn't get to finish it.. have a good day dear! xoxo
from hilseymour :
Hiya...thanks for your nice comments! I would like yo read you if you wanna email me the password? You sound cool...well, as cool as me, which is pretty cool. (It was the Denny thing that swung it for me...never met anyone else who loved her...:)) I didn't think anyone would bother reading all that entry but glad you did!
from turtlemomma :
Lemme in! I want to see how happy you really are. I'm so envious of the chipper :o)~ BTW, I found you through krugerpak. ~K
from gumphood :
what did the boss let you try on?
from tigerlily21 :
No, I have no preference. Sorry that I haven't done more..its been crazy-busy at work and I don't get on D-land from home because of hubby. I'll go do one now :) I'll take Imaphatpig!
from pattymelt :
yeah, i got my sex on. it was good. hi, my name is patty and i like the sex!
from krugerpak007 :
You are right. I am going to get me some excitement now!A toyboy? Hope you had a good weekend! xoxox
from catz-eyes :
hiya cherub :) hope you've had a wonderful weekend! and BIG congrats on hitting your 100th entry! YAY for you! keep 'em coming sweetpea! ***HUGGLES*** =^..^= xox
from aliboomboom :
I have been really bad about updating but we are doing fine. I love being a mom. I posted more hospital pictures. I'll post more recent pictures soon!
from krugerpak007 :
Just dropped by to wish you a good weekend! Thanks for the entry on Weston, I found it very interesting actually! Take care! xoxox
from peachick :
you know you deserve that :)
from kimdan :
Hey! Thanks for adding me to your favs! *Huggles* Your diary is locked right? Could I have a password? *Grins cutely*
from beautyx3 :
Hey I'm unlocked now. I just locked up for a bit to make sure no one I knew was reading this. Thanks for the note and have a good weekend.
from onewetleg :
congrats on the one hundred! i will go in and add your 101 things but i need your pword again. then as soon as i see it i will say 'why couldn't i remember that?' then i will forget it again. i have postit notes stuck all over the wall by by computer and they have hundreds of pwords written on them. one of them is yours but i don't put names by them, soooo... have a good weekend! love, jj
from pattymelt :
i am crossing my fingers for a lazy saturday afternoon of sex!
from gumphood :
happy 100th entry. I completly make up the review and make up things that you say. I will put you on the list.
from avalonte :
Course I don't mind you asking! She's 10. Yeah, I was saying the same thing last night to Nads!! Bless her! Don't think she heard me either!! As for the photo, I didn't expect you to post it on your diary, that's why I said to send it to me! E-mail me! I want to know who'll be meeting me in Weston, or I could go home with the wrong person!! I might accidentally go home with a tall dark handsome 21 year old bloke by mistake!!!!! By the way, happy 100th entry!!
from gumphood :
I do one every Friday usually. Except there was a problem because I was away. I will try to do one today. Have you READ the site though. Its not a typical review site.
from tigerlily21 :
Happy 100th entry!! Sounds like a great little town to live in. You are right about the drugs though..if you want them, you will find them. Hope you have a great weekend!
from avalonte :
Bournemouth is another surprisingly drugs rife area. It used to have such a nice reputation. It must be a seaside resort thing! Anyway, as for your question, I picture you with dark longish hair & brown eyes. Send me a photo, pleeease! I've shown you mine, you show me yours!! Jason made me laugh last night, did you hear him, he said "I can't believe Stuart's gone and I'm still here?!" Yeah you twat, the whole fucking nation's thinking that!! Grrrr!!! But he also said he reckons he's got as much chance as the other 3! He said he really can't see that the others would be more popular than him!! Hahahahaha!!! Whatever!! I can't wait to see his face when he receives the reaction of the public!! Text you later hon!
from onewetleg :
eeheeehehe! *blushes* thanks, betchy...
from onewetleg :
i got number three. 'hey, candy and ronnie have you seen them yet? oww, but they're so spaced out! bbbbbbennie and the jets..' the rest are above and beyond me. that's how old i am. i thought you might like to read this, it's the first review i ever got. http://onewetleg.diaryland.com/screwed.html it wasn't good. the entry after that is where i answer back, if you are interested. love,
from peachick :
thanks sweetie, thanks! i liked your 101 things, i was gonna do my 200 things for my 200th entry but never ended up doing so. i'm gonna spend the rest of this day reading your other entries, yay you!
from dooki :
What's up with lockin' yer diary? Can I have the password?
from pattymelt :
now why would i even know what a size 14 UK is? i am sure that's even bigger than i already am! but i am tall so i don't look it and the good lord made gurdle pants for a reason right?
from pattymelt :
well, you are sort of close. i have blond hair (with black roots until saturday) i am almost 5'9" and am a size 14 (weight is so hard to tell, you know?) i have HUGE boobs. (an i am not complaining) i love shoes and makeup. but i am pretty low maitenance as far as the makeup goes. it's pretty natural but i almost always have some kind of lip stick and gloss on. (today is reddish to go with my red and yellow asian top and black pants. sassy BCBG kittin slides) anyway. i don't look 40 at all. more early 30's. sometimes younger. as for posting a pic in my actual diary? maybe one of me an trucker at some point. right now i only have old semi bad nudes. and i am not posing those! as you you? i think i ready you look like sporty spice but you sound more like ginger.
from avalonte :
Oh and it's funny you put me in as Avalonte! I put you in as BeckyBetch!! BeckyBetchy was too long!! lol!
from avalonte :
Yay, Nads to win, innit chicken!! Don't you think that Stuart's eviction last night was a bit suspicious? I've got Keane's album, it's fab! When my rom drive's working again I can burn you a copy of that or Maroon5, or both, if you like.
from peachick :
hey sweetheart, care to gimme your password?
from avalonte :
Oh and number 10 is another one of my current favourites. It was played a lot when we were on holiday so it reminds me of Ashley! Have you got Songs About Jane? I'm addicted to it!
from pattymelt :
thanks for taking my survey. i love you too!
from avalonte :
number 1 is one of my favourite songs! I was actually listening to it about an hour ago! Tomorrow night is going to be so cool! Sad isn't it that I'm so excited!! lol! Nadia to win!! Are you going for her or Daniel? How the hell didn't Jason get booted out last night??!
from soverycherry :
Ooh! I do know #3, I was listening to it yesterday! Buh-buh-buh Bennie and the Jets. The only other one I know (because I also listen to it frequently) is #10. That video? SO HOT. I love Adam Levine. He needs to be my baby daddy. Pretty much at this point, if there is a hot boy who has dark hair and blue eyes, they are my baby daddy. Like Jake Gyllenhaal. Or Tom Welling. Oh yeah!
from gumphood :
I knew 6, but I won't ruin it for others.
from krugerpak007 :
I am sure you two will have a great time. xoxo
from eggsaucted :
Did I tel