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from whystinger :
Where you been girl????
from whystinger :
that dryer thing is pretty bad. Fire hazard and also runs up the utility bills and can cause mildew... Hope the bldg mgrs have it hooked up properly for you. Hey, if the alcohol helps, then use it, that is what the counselor told us... Try to get the book, "The Care and Feeding of Husbands" by Dr. Laura Schlessinger - It has helped many friends of mine. I bought it and Honi read part, but she is too self absorbed to make things better for me. The second book it "The Care and Feeding of mMrriage." I'm gonna try that one. After all, I gotta try something, no?
from whystinger :
I know how you feel. Believe me I do. I love her and just don't really want her that way anymore. It isn't worth the hassle for me. I still try to save it though. Have you tried reading "The Care and Feeding of Husbands?" I bought it for her... I read it and was sad, as I knew she wouldn't ... I will buy "The Care and Feeding of Marriage next." I don't know why I try, except that I do love her. I want sex with a woman and sex with her is not as good anymore as masturbation, which is sad... What are we going to do? There has to be something we can do to re-kindle our marriages...
from x-plicity :
Oh, Sweets...I wish there was something i could say or do to help you feel better but I'm at a loss. *hugs*
from second-love :
I am totally where you are. Completely and totally. I can relate to every word. I love my husband too but do not desire him - its why i live how i live - and its sad but true...i totally understand diva...catch me on the IM if you need to talk xo
from hissandtell :
I wish I had some non-trite advice for you. As you're more than aware, husbands are often fragile, and lacking in confidence if they think we're not finding them attractive enough. If you can muster the energy, surprising him once in a while with something unexpected and/or very naughty indeed (presuming you haven't already exhausted your repertoire - oh, as if!) might inject some passion back into things. And do try saying the L word occasionally, darling. Maybe you both really need to hear it more often. Love, R xxx
from x-plicity :
I have a question. When was the last time that you guys just made out? Try it and see what happens.
from second-love :
Hmmmmm i dont initiate anymore either...and youre right...it might contribute to their feeling like we dont desire them... but its a "which came first the chicken or the egg" thing...i feel like he got selfish and stopped caring about what felt good to me...that left me uninterested and that made him feel undesired etc etc...hmmmm
from whystinger :
So I can feel free to look? How come y'all get sort of flustered then, embarass a bit, blush, snort and yank the cleavage shut??? or some version of that. The women train us to feel like a prick for looking. I equate it to teasing a hungry dog with a nice piece of meat. The dog's eyes will stay glued to the meat. I try not to be a dog and try to pry my eyes away... feeling bad, sort of confused and yet wanting to peak a bit more;)
from whystinger :
Twenty seconds eh? Where were you when I was dating. Sometime I will tell you about my dream... Congrats on starting school again. You will enjoy it and I think you will do really well in Pscyh. Boobie talk? Hmmm, that is usually pretty cool, the best being "overheard" by accident. At one bar I used to hang out in, I overheard a woman telling another woman, both drunken softball players how nice her boobs were. I was in the men's room and they were in the ladies room next to it. It was in a converted house. "Oh, you just have the nicest breasts. You should really go braless, with those perfect orbs..." Time was maybe 1980... I think she was hitting on her. I never saw who they were... I am still curious to this day. She just kept complimenting and decribing her boobs... It was sexy, but I sure wasn't going to hang around in a men's room (downstairs in the basement yet) to eavesdrop. Where I sat at the bar, I would not have been able to see who came up the stairs... Also, when guys hear a tipsy chick talk about her boobs, we get sort of hopeful. "Hey, maybe she'll show more of them to us." Afterall, nothing is more fun than seeing some really nice boobs! It would make my day and put a hell of a smile on my face:)
from x-plicity :
Sounds like my weekend, except with Vodka and cranberry...yum.... *grin* By the way, I'll be sending you an e-mail asap. *wink*
from second-love :
I would have DIED by now if i didnt have MY silver bullet *wink* But you really MUST give up the details on WHAT is getting you moving. Please oh please DO TELL!! :)
from x-plicity :
Now *I* want a silver bullet!!!!
from x-plicity :
Happy New Year, Sugar!!!
from whystinger :
Oh no, it is my fault... just ask her. Actually, she didn't blame me for the crying, which is unusual. Pretty much I just told the truth... Oh, do tell about this other side??? You have my curiosity up and I can be quite nosey...
from whystinger :
I am wishing you a Merry Christmas. Drop me a note at whystinger"at"yahoo.com. I don't have your new address. Sorry that it has been a busy and self absorbed year for me.
from x-plicity :
Yay!!! New car!!!!
from lettynow :
Here add me myspace.com/hollywoodexecutivewhore... I wanna know how it all goes!!! I'm so excited for you!
from lettynow :
Do you have a myspace? Go through my myspace there is so much rollerderby crap on it every team in So Cal is on my friends list. Here's the Long Beach teams myspace... http://www.myspace.com/pikecityrollers
from x-plicity :
Happy birhtday to the Beavster!!!
from lettynow :
There is roller derby in long beach... They are the Long Beach Demolition Divas.They are a sister league to the Orange County Demolition Divas.
from whystinger :
Transitional? Does that mean you are transending something???
from hissandtell :
"Transitional", hey? Makes it sound as if you're taking a lot of testosterone and strapping your bosoms and hanging around the leather bars and calling yourself Mike. (You're not, are you?) Enjoy your fries, doll - if your aging eyes can see them and you're still coordinated enough to get them into your mouth, that is! Love, R xxx
from second-love :
Hee hee...pretty much white boards now ;)
from second-love :
I loooooooooooooooooooooooooove my toys :))))) I dont know what id do without them most days LOL. My doctor said i really dont need to worry worry about a mammogram till age 45...im 41 now but i think ill schedule mine too :)))) Thanks for the reminder!!!
from x-plicity :
I still need to get me a fun toy!
from second-love :
Awesome...thanks for leaving me the message on the G:)))) I'm still going strong on blogger...but remain here as a faithful reader and stalker :))) I may return here also now that enough time has passed and things are so different :))) Congrats on the return to school. I also did that after being married with kids and as of TODAY it was well worth it since i am now gainfully employed in a NEW JOB woooooohoooooo and actually making REAL MONEY!!! Anyway... Welcome back friend!!
from hissandtell :
Right back at you, dollface! I'm so glad you're back; you've been seriously missed. Love, R xxx
from x-plicity :
Yay!!! I've missed the hell out of you!!! *hugs*
from heidiann :
Welcome back to DL! And HUUUUUUUUUUUUGE congratulations on going back to school!!
from whystinger :
Welcome back! I have missed reading you. I tried to email you several times, but it was gone! Can't wait to read more!!!

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