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from nmnohr :
I didn't realize you didn't have my username password........I hardly get on here anymore. Sorry! Username: building Password: memories I can't even remember when my last update was. I'm addicted to facebook, and can't find the time to update on here I guess :(
from nmnohr :
I LOVED LOVED LOVED that show....loved it. They were supposed to shoot some final episode to put online, that would explain all the loose ends they left, but I haven't found it. If you ever do, let me know, because I'm annoyed they cancelled it!
from la-the-sage :
In the member's area there's a link to download your whole diary! I've done it a couple times just to have back-up. The actual text file is messy, it just runs on and on with a one line break between entries and the entry titles and date stamp are encorporated into each block of text, but it's all there. Every word. I don't know if this download/back-up thing is a gold member perk or not. I don't think so. Anyway, good luck getting your archives onto your hard drive. Hope my advice helped! ~LA
from nmnohr :
I can't get on myspace while at work, so I thought I'd stop here to say HELLO, and I hope that things are still going fabulously!!!
from la-the-sage :
Happy Belated Birthday! ~LA
from la-the-sage :
Been missing you too, sweetie! ~LA
from nmnohr :
Hey, you have to do what feels right for you. You can't live your life for everyone else, and abide by the choices THEY want you to make. Follow your heart. I hope that this is a new beginning for you and I hope that your family comes around and tries to be more supportive. Hang in there!
from jamsjunction :
I hope that everything works out the way that it is supposed to. You are right, you will never know unless you try. And your happiness is important. I'll be thinking of you.
from nmnohr :
I'm so sorry sweetie.........just hang in there. You deserve nothing but happiness, and a man who will treat you with respect, and love you unconditionally. Don't settle for less.
from nmnohr :
You've already taken the biggest step......you've acknowledged that you need to make a change, and you've listed your goals. You can do this.......and you'll be so happy that you did!
from peytonsplace :
Oh Lana, I am so sorry for all that has gone on that I missed. I hope 2007 brings a better year for you!
from la-the-sage :
You most certainly can do this! Did you sign up with The Fly Lady yet? Her program really, really works. Don't beat yourself up anymore, dear heart. I went crazy too. Getting dumped by the love of your life blows everything to bits. So now that you've bottomed out you turn your face to the future and start getting your life back together for YOU. It's going to seem daunting and like too much fucking work at first. But it gets easier. I promise. ~LA
from la-the-sage :
Happy Blogiversary! ~LA
from nmnohr :
Don't give up hope. We all run into our fair share of losers.........belive me I've been with more than a few. It takes those assholes to make us appreciate and hang on to the good one once he shows up. And they are out there....I found one. You can too.
from la-the-sage :
Sorry to be a gloom-meister, but there is no such thing as a 'good' guy. They are all selfish, self-involved shits. The only choice we have is deciding exactly how much garbage we're willing to eat to keep one of those jerks around. ~LA
from la-the-sage :
I thinking decorating yourself is a wonderful antidote to life's unpleasantness. You are a smart cookie. ~LA
from nmnohr :
Don't beat yourself up because Ryan is a doofus. He's the one with issues if he's moving this girl in with him. You focus on yourself and the kids, and try (easier said than done) not to even justify the homewreckers existence.
from nmnohr :
Sounds like life is grand! I'm so happy for you!
from nmnohr :
God, I'm the worst at leaving comments. I swear sometimes I THINK I left a comment, and then I just plain didn't. Too much going on apparantly! Congrats on the house!! I'm so happy that you are feeling so good these days. You deserve it!
from la-the-sage :
Ye gods, ex sex. Just so long as you're prepared for the hellacious let-down afterward. Nervous for you, ~LA
from la-the-sage :
YAY! YAY! YAY! Things are busting out awesome everywhere. Hooray for your new place! Major celebratory hugs about school. Sooooo proud of you! ~LA
from nmnohr :
I'm so sorry I didn't post this sooner. ..........HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY!!!!!
from la-the-sage :
Must be Meet A Musician week. As for mine, you wouldn't have heard of him or his band outside of this area. They're a working band and cut records, but it's still hand to mouth and they open for bigger bands. And mine didn't ask to come home with me either, so there ya go. Get some skyrocket sex for me, my friend. I'm still playing post office with puppies. ~LA
from jamsjunction :
Its the simplest things that make one happy...Indulge, you certainly deserve it!
from nmnohr :
No, she's not a fancy schmancy decorator :o) Just someone I know my neighbors have used....the next door neighbors just had their kitchen, living room, and stairway painted for $320. I'd gladly pay that than have to paint it myself!
from la-the-sage :
Good list, hon! Go make them come true. ~LA
from nmnohr :
Chin up! Better days are coming :o) Hang in there!
from la-the-sage :
I mis-read one answer and thought you wanted hair ON your ass. Thought you should know. Mwah! ~LA
from nmnohr :
You ok? Where'd you go?
from nmnohr :
Feeling lonely sucks........but just remember, you can feel lonely even when you're in a relationship too. I'm glad you are meeting new people online........hang in there - things are going to be good for you!!!!!
from nmnohr :
Hang in there. Your kids are going through an adjustment too, it'll be a rough road at times for all of you. You can always call Supernanny :o) Just kidding. He's just testing his limits with you. We all can only do our best.
from la-the-sage :
There's no one 'right' way to do anything and this includes divorce. Comparing yours to mine is apples and oranges anyhow. 5 years vs 25. Rent vs mortgage. Young and hopeful vs old and bitter. So if what you're doing is working for you then YAY! ~LA
from nmnohr :
Do what feels right for YOU!!!!
from jamsjunction :
If its just hanging out, I dont think thats dating. Sounds like he is just continuing the friendship. But I think dating is fine when you are ready.
from alwaysmuted :
I believed I e-mailed you a request.Let me know if I didn't. I've been flaky lately.Did you receive my password info?
from la-the-sage :
Ye Gods, I'm the wrong one to ask. I've been single for 7 months and have barely spoken to new guys. Date? I think I've got it penciled in for 2009. Have fun, tootsie. ~LA
from nmnohr :
Oh no!! I hope she feels better soon! Fortunately usually if they get the chicken pox even after the vaccination, they aren't quite as bad.......usually!
from nmnohr :
Baby steps...........baby steps! You sound like you are doing much better! I'm so happy for you!
from bkdprincess :
Lana you told me to write you a message when I got the chance. So here it is. I am still at work but I am done, just messing around on the net having some fun. Well I'll see you when you pick up the kids. oh hey did you figure out who this is yet???? obviously if I mentioned your kids, this is Gail
from alwaysmuted :
Hi. I used to have you under my old diary,cutielatina. I was wondering if I could e-mail you in order to read your blog? I'll be ok if you deny me. I respect your privacy. I hope you have been well.
from jamsjunction :
So glad it seems you're doing well! ((HUGS))
from la-the-sage :
Some of these learning experiences are too fucking hard. Thinking of you, sweetie. ~LA
from nmnohr :
He's definitely a coward. I'm so proud of you for how you are handling all of this!
from jamsjunction :
I can't believe that he is staying with her. So cowardly! Keep on truckin Lana! You can do this and we are right behind you holding you up when you need some help. ((HUGS))
from nmnohr :
Like you said, just keep taking it one day at a time. Put one foot in front of the other, and you'll get there.
from la-the-sage :
YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ~LA
from nmnohr :
You are awesome. Your kids are so fortunate to have you as their mother. How nice for him that he can just walk away and not have any responsibility. That should just prove to you that you are doing the right thing for yourself and your children
from nmnohr :
I'm so proud of you for how strong you are being. Even if you don't always feel that way. Keep moving forward, and doing whatever it takes to take care of you and your kids. He is missing out on you and your kids. You, on the other hand, will come out of this stronger than ever.
from jamsjunction :
My heart breaks over the situation you are going through. No one deserves to be treated the way you have been treated. But you are a strong woman, and you have to follow your heart. Keep your head up, and know that if you need anything we are all here collectivly holding you up.
from nmnohr :
We're human, and we all make mistakes. People take spouses back all the time ........I just worry you are making excuses for him, and making it too easy. Not all men cheat. It's not just a guy thing that guys do. Sure, he could have been doing this for months behind your back, but does that make the fact that he did it once any better? There is no excuse for what he did. It was wrong, and it's pretty plain and simple. Now I'm not saying you shouldn't forgive him. I think it's wonderful if you forgive him, and you can grow from this, and become a better couple. Just don't give him the easy out. I think if you go to counseling, you can both get things back on track. You'll have to be able to trust him again. If you can't get the trust back, then what do you have?
from nmnohr :
You decide for you and your kids........no one else. It is YOUR life. Live it however you choose. But I will say that he was being extremely selfish and a coward. How nice for him to be able to take off when the going gets rough, and leave you to deal with it all. We all hit rough patches in life, but when you are a parent, and a spouse - you just shouldn't be able to pick up and leave. I understand your love for him......and you know that people will support whatever decisions you make. But he needs to grow up and face his problems head on. He can't just run away. Make sure you are staying with him because you love him and because you honestly want to fight to make this work, and not because you don't want to be alone. Hang in there. I'll keep all of you in my prayers, and hope that he realizes how lucky he is to have you.
from jamsjunction :
This is your reality, and what you decide to do with it, is your decision. No one should judge you. I will keep you & your family in my thoughts and prayers. I hope that your parents come around, and realize that this isnt about them, but about you, Ryan and the kids.
from jamsjunction :
My heart just breaks for you, but I have faith that things will work out in the end. ((HUGS))
from la-the-sage :
You picked a fine time to leave, Lucille. Sweetie, have you ever thought WHY you love him? Is part of it because you've NEVER been allowed to truly believe he was yours? He's been half out the door for your entire relationship. Makes one pretty desperate to hang on, nevermind whether what you're so desperately trying to keep is worth the having in the first place. If he comes back what would YOU get out of it besides the satisfaction that he did? He wants to play and fuck around and lose jobs and let his kids sit in the dark and dick you over and over and over. What do YOU win? What do YOU get from this eternally selfish boy? Just some questions that I hope you give mind space to. I'm certainly not a one to say who's a good guy and who's not. We all get a little stupid and blind when we're rejected. ~LA
from nmnohr :
Babble all you want......that's what this space is for. But most importantly. Know this - you are a wonderful person, and whatever the outcome of this is, it's not your fault! It's completely unfair of him to be playing this game. And it is a game. I realize his ego is knocked down, and his self esteem is in the gutter after losing his job, but there comes a point in life where you let it suck you in, or you grow up and pull yourself up and keep on trying. It sucks he lost his job, but why would he risk losing everything else too? If you think he's doing this to possibly run - to run away from the responsibility of it all, that's completely unfair to you. Stay strong, protect yourself, and fight for what you want and deserve. He loves you - make him act like it.
from jamsjunction :
I'm sorry your going through a rough time right now. Hope that soon things turn around for your family.
from la-the-sage :
You just babble away, honey. Cough it all up so your head and heart don't explode, okay? ~LA
from jamsjunction :
I just wanted to let you know that I have moved my blog. I am now at http://simplyjamie.wordpress.com . I look forward to seeing you there from now on.
from nmnohr :
Your diary shows updated, but there is no new entry :o(
from nmnohr :
You have no idea how excited Mason is going to be........he will be screaming!!!
from nmnohr :
I would have bought you a drink anyway - but I'll repay you for the car sometime....somehow!
from nmnohr :
I don't think you're a stalker!!! I'm so glad you found sarge. Now tell me how much it was so I can mail you the damn $$$$
from nmnohr :
The 5th line of my 23rd entry says "Just a thought - I have a normal entry for today also, check it out." Boy how exciting! And I wrote it on 2/11/03 :o) Have a great weekend!
from nmnohr :
Enjoy your night out! And eeek with the lice. Glad you caught it early. That's such a pain in the butt......
from nmnohr :
I know things will be ok. The truth will come out, and she'll be exposed for the liar she is.
from la-the-sage :
Yeesh, what a miserable person. Keep the faith that the documentation bolsters your case and it all goes away when the crazy woman realizes she can't shake you guys down for money. (Which I'll bet is what she really wants. Hush money to go away.) Good luck with everything. Much love, ~LA
from jamsjunction :
How scary! I will keep yall in my thoughts. Hope that soon the choas is over and yall can move on.
from jamsjunction :
I like Nicole am worried about you. I hope that everything turns out ok. Hang in there hun! ((HUGS))
from nmnohr :
Are you sure you're ok? I'm worried about you and all this lawyer stuff. I have to tell you, my niece borrowed a pair of the earrings you made me, and she lOVES them!!!!!!
from nmnohr :
LOOOOOOOOOOVE pictures!!!!!! And I hope eveything works out OK with the lawyer situation....
from jamsjunction :
Happy belated birthday to Spencer..Sorry I'm late, I suck!
from nmnohr :
Oh my.....an attorney? I hope everything is ok. Sorry you are going through this. Let me know if I can help at all.....
from toastcrumbs :
Goodness girl, you are killing me with the cryptic entries! Hope everything works out, whatever it is. Sorry to hear this won't be turning into a sex diary - just kidding, lol. Take care.
from jamsjunction :
Whatever it is, I will pray you come through fine in the end. It sounds scary if you had to involve an attorney. ((HUGS))
from la-the-sage :
Oh good lord, it's not the kids, is it? Some dimbulb thinks they're being abused somehow? Good luck with whatever is going down. ~LA
from la-the-sage :
Just catching up. If you're happy and enjoying things then that's all that counts! ~LA
from nmnohr :
I'm so sick of this weather. It's great for sleeping, and that's about it!
from jamsjunction :
As I said before, if it makes you & Ryan happy, thats what matters! I hope you have a good time. And I look forward to hearing about it, if you so choose to share.
from nmnohr :
I would never judge you. Your life is your life. And if you and Ryan have discussed this - you are grown ups - you can live your life however you choose! I'm looking forward to hearing about your journey!
from nmnohr :
Damnit. I was totally stoked thinking I was going to get to see what the secret was.......OH well. Hope things are still fabulous for you!
from jamsjunction :
I think I have an idea, but really, who cares. If it makes you & Ryan happy, thats what matters. But I am completely intrigued, so If you decide to talk about it, I will be all ears. But thats not why I am leaving you a note. I want to know your opinion on Gilmore girls..and how you think it might play out next season?
from nmnohr :
Am I such an airhead that I have no clue what is going on? More importantly......whatever it is.....FRIENDS DON'T JUDGE......so who cares what anyone else thinks, as long as you and Ryan are doing whatever works best for the two of you. If the two of you are happy with things, that's all that matters.
from nmnohr :
Wow! Sounds exciting! Whatever it is........I'm happy for you if you're happy :o) I can hardly wait to hear more about how things are for you. You've got me curious now! All I know is that I'm glad you guys are doing well, you deserve nothing but complete happiness!
from jamsjunction :
Whatever it is, I'm happy that its making you happy. Have a great weekend!
from nmnohr :
Oh no! What a mess!!!! Good luck cleaning all those up. I need to color my hair.......thanks for reminding me. I think I'll do that tonight!
from nmnohr :
Your kids are getting so big!! And so damn adorable still :o) Love Spencer's curls!
from jamsjunction :
I'm sorry that you're having to go through this, while going back to work to. Maybe he will find something that you can both deal with, until he see's his doctor. ((HUGS))
from nmnohr :
I'm sorry, this must be frustrating for you, especially because it's your family that owns the business, and if he won't even answer the phone when they call - that puts you in the middle. Hang in there. email me if you need to vent. I emailed you the FL pics from Snapfish. Let me know if you get them!
from nmnohr :
I'm sorry you are feeling so crappy.......I hope you feel better very soon!!!!!!!
from la-the-sage :
Hope the show went great and you sold tons of your faboo jewelry! ~LA
from toastcrumbs :
Yes, mail kicks ass! (when it's not BILLS, lol). I received your scarf last week and didn't leave you a note because . . . I have NO good reason. I love the scarf, my fave colors! It was so nice and unexpected, and will be awesome to wear this weekend in Chicago! Love the dangly earrings too!!
from nmnohr :
You are so amazing. I just sent you an email, but THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU for that awesome scarf, and the sweet and beautiful card~!! You rock. I can't say Thank you enough. Morgan already stole the scarf from me!
from nmnohr :
Bravo! I've already told you how talented you are...........I love all this stuff just as much!!!!!
from peytonsplace :
I am very impressed. Very cute accesories!
from la-the-sage :
Such variety! How wonderful! I like the dangly earrings a lot. Earrings are my 'thing' amd I would definitely be coming away from your craft booth with a couple pair. Good luck. Hope it's a wild success! ~LA
from nmnohr :
Just stopped by to say hi~! I've been a bad dlander, and haven't been able to read as much as I like..........Hope you're doing well!!!!!
from peytonsplace :
You should post some photos of your stuff!
from nmnohr :
I would totally pay for your jewelry!! I have no idea how to price it though......um $10 for earrings? I mean, it's a craft sale - it's hand made jewelry......is that too low? Ugh, I'm horrible at that stuff. Put a higher price on it, and you can always bargain with people! I've been to Lia Sophia parties, I bet you'd gets lots of fun ideas from them!!
from nmnohr :
I'll keep you and your mom in my prayers!
from jamsjunction :
Hope everything for your mom turns out to be fine. Thinking of you!
from nmnohr :
You are so talented! I love the pictures!
from nmnohr :
Happy Valentines Day!!! You're the best!
from la-the-sage :
Happy Valentine's Day to one of the sweetest chicks I know. ~LA
from toastcrumbs :
Ok, the weather here is nice - no danger of frostbite definitely a good thing. I'm sending your bracelet out on Wednesday - sorry it took so long, but I blame my laziness.
from nmnohr :
I give a rats ass :o) This weather is nuts. We haven't really had a winter..not that I'm complaining!!!
from la-the-sage :
I'm not especially lurkish, but I'll say hello anyhow. Did miss you during your long break and am glad you're back. ~LA
from nmnohr :
You are too sweet, and I don't deserve it! Now if only I had a talent to share!
from nmnohr :
Like them? I LOOOOOOOOOOVED THEM!!!!!! You are so talented. Honestly.
from nmnohr :
I'm still looking for that special something to send out to you......
from toastcrumbs :
Ranch dressing is the perfect condiment! I like it on totino's pizza rolls, club crackers, wheat thins, pizza hut breadsticks - yeah, pretty much everything.
from jamsjunction :
OMG I love the kitties names! You know, as I've told you before, I wasnt huge into GG in the beginning..At first the insessant rambling drove me absolutely insane. But now, now that I have watched every episode thus far, I am completely obsessed! I want so badly for everything to go just how I have it thought out in my head..but after last weeks episode, something tells me that it wont be Luke & Lorilei that get married, but Rory, and dare I say it Logan. I just got that vibe. I hope I am wrong...I know all of the spoiler sites say there will indeed be a wedding, but they arent being as loosly lipped about WHO is getting married. Anyhow I've already done your meme thing when someone else tagged me a few weeks ago..but I had to comment on your adorable kitty names!
from nmnohr :
You are such a supportive wife. I hope that whatever decision he makes about going to school, he just remembers how lucky he is to have you for his wife!
from toastcrumbs :
I just got your note - I don't think diaryland notifies me when I get a new one anymore. Anyhow crazy girl, don't worry about funds, how about a crafty trade or something? It doesn't even matter what - I will never make money crafting because I am always trading with people, lol. But yeah, send me your address and I will send you the bracelet and promise not to stalk you once I have your personal info. Here's my e-mail: kkelley474@yahoo.com. p.s. My diary is locked for now - I'm not updating, I just need a break from the online journal web thing for myself for a while.
from nmnohr :
It shows you updated, but there isn't a new entry.........email me :o)
from jamsjunction :
May health, happiness, and good times greet you & your family everyday of 2006! Happy New Year!
from jamsjunction :
Merry Merry Christmas to you & your family!
from toastcrumbs :
I think that dog is very cute - I think most all dogs and cats are cute though as long as they have a sweet personality. I would love to make you a Gilmore Girls bracelet - any certain pictures you want, or just random ones? Let me know, maybe we can do a craft trade. :)
from la-the-sage :
Link not working for me. :-( Now would be a good time to get a dog. The kids are the perfect age. Good luck! ~LA
from jamsjunction :
I think he is cute, and looks so soft.
from nmnohr :
I'm so glad his surgery went well, and that you don't have to worry about your house anymore! Wooo hoooo!
from nmnohr :
Good luck with Spence's surgery. And Yey for the house selling! One less thing to worry about :o) Do you remember that cool bookmark you sent me a long time ago? Like last year? It has the magnets on it so it wraps around the page? Well I love it and use it all the time, but my niece decided to take a small bit out of it! It's very unique now!
from nmnohr :
I hope you had a wonderful Holiday! I'm so glad to hear that everything is going so well. Glad to see an update!
from jamsjunction :
Have a safe, warm and happy Thanksgiving. Hope Spencers surgery goes smoothly, and his recovery is quick!
from toastcrumbs :
Good to hear you haven't slipped into a drug-induced coma. Enjoy your lay off, I know I'm enjoying mine!
from nmnohr :
Glad you're doing OK......hope you keep improving health wise!!! Enjoy your time off with your family!
from honey2006 :
hope u feel better!
from nmnohr :
Are you ok? Feeling ok? Where are you? :o) After you mentioned getting Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants, I went and rented it.....and LOVED it!
from nmnohr :
Oh my god, how terrifying. I'm so glad it wasn't the more serious end of the spectrum. But still that's serious enough. Get some rest......feel better soon!!!
from caguilera :
How terrible, hope your feeling better!
from caguilera :
Happy belated birthday! Sounds like it went well, took a look at your pictures. I love the one w/Evie resting on her Grandpa. HOW CUTE!
from la-the-sage :
Happy Birthday, hon! ~LA
from jamsjunction :
Happy Happy Birthday Lana! I hope you have a great weekend!
from nmnohr :
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR LANA.......HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!
from la-the-sage :
The party menus sounds fine. I always over cook and have tons of leftovers than is sane. Happy Birthday Evie! And to you as well, sweetie. ~LA
from toastcrumbs :
I am locked! Username: username, Password: password
from caguilera :
I love your diary! I was just going through my rings and happened along yours. Do you mind if I add you to my fav's?
from nmnohr :
Happy Anniversary!!!!!
from nmnohr :
I'm so sorry to hear about your sister in law......no one deserves to live that way. I hope your hubby can talk some sense into her!! If not for her, then for the baby.
from nmnohr :
Thanks for the sweet words, and for pimping me! You rock! Have a spectacular weekend :o)
from la-the-sage :
Cutie pie. Mwah! ~LA
from la-the-sage :
Oooooooh Nooooo! Poor Ellie! Our beloved 'Nin', the rag doll I made for Alex while I was in labor with him is still around. Nin sleeps in Wolf's bed and is a mere shadow of his former self. I'd made Nin from a very worn old pillowcase and 21 years of love have made him tender, fragile and almost transparent. It would half kill me if something fatal happened to Nin. So, you're NOT weird to mourn Ellie. Not at all. ~LA
from toastcrumbs :
I cannot believe you gave a Little House on the Prairie reference on my notes page, that is just way too awesome. Your new place looks really nice! I love the wood floors - well the way they look, actually having wood floors with two hyper-shedding cats was an issue for me that I would rather not relive. You can only Swiffer so many times before insanity sets in. Hope you get some cool weather soon - I'll have to wait until at least November to get out of the 90's. Florida=fun!
from nmnohr :
Ok, thanks. Now I totally have that song in my head. Bananas!!!!!!
from toastcrumbs :
Ok, still waiting for the pictures. Picture me tapping my foot impatiently. The left one.
from la-the-sage :
Ouchie! When Alex was a toddler he had a bunch of armpit boils. Poor kid was miserable. Took about 8 weeks to go away. Obviously there's something more serious going on with you, not just run-amok heat rash. Sounds like you're doing what you can. Sorry you're hurting, sweetie. ~LA
from nmnohr :
Good Luck with the contest, and good luck with your move! I'll be thinking of you!!!!
from nmnohr :
I think it's meant to be.........this will be a fresh start in a new house. Only good things to come from here!
from la-the-sage :
Hiya! Thanks for your lovely note! Moving IS painful, but as you said, it's also a chance to de-crapify your life. 'Hustler' is a great street name. Whereas the other day I saw 'Grub Street'. I felt sorry for the houses on Grub St. They were nice little houses. I would pick up the meme challenge, but did one with 90% the same questions many months ago. So don't think I just couldn't be bothered. :-) ~LA
from nmnohr :
I'm sorry, that sucks.......but everything happens for a reason right??
from nmnohr :
Oh no!!!!! Did your place sell?
from nmnohr :
Yey!!!! Love is in the air. Isn't it an incredible feeling when all is right with your relationship? And you remember what it felt like when you first met, and those butterflies were in your stomach? I'm so happy for you. ENJOY YOUR LOVE WEEKEND!!!!!!
from nmnohr :
I need a nap too. Let's skip work, and go home and sleep!
from nmnohr :
Awwwwwww, that was so nice of your dad to do that for Spence!!!
from jamsjunction :
It sucks that your inlaws are so rude. I'm sorry you have to deal with that. Hope Ryan is home soon. Have a good week.
from toastcrumbs :
I KNEW there was a reason that song has been stuck in my head, but I couldn't place why until I read your note - mystery solved! That quote - is from that Johnny Depp movie right - Something . . Window?
from toastcrumbs :
I'm so glad you update everyday! I have no idea why my craft link isn't working - I paid my gold membership, but I still can't upload pictures or do anything gold-related and the Andrew@Diaryland guy doesn't respond to e-mails. Oh well. Pffftt. Also, movie popcorn is awesome - even if it makes me feel slightly queasy after eating it.
from la-the-sage :
Looks nice to me. How are the neighbors? ~LA
from jamsjunction :
As long as its a safe neighborhood, and you & the family will be happy, I say move in. As you said, its a years lease..if in one year you decide to move, then thats ok. Good Luck!
from nmnohr :
Um......yeah.........do you know WHERE in GB he lives? So I stay far away from there!!!
from nmnohr :
ghetto schmetto........who cares what it looks like as long as you have enough room, and it's clean and safe. Like you said it's just for a year. Your kids will have their own space, and you can have peace of mind. Now I'm off to catch up on the rest of your diary since I've been gone for so long!
from la-the-sage :
Growth spurt naughtiness! BOTH my kids did it. Restless, angsty, talking back, angry stomping around. Total pains in the butt. Plus, at 3.5 Evie is growing verbally, mentally and emotionally too. She's starting to see things in the abstract, but lacks the ability to articulate this suddenly 3-D world view. Scary. Stick to your normal routine as much as possible. Stability helps, even if she fights it. She also needs a job. Something a 'big girl' can do. Matching clean socks. Sorting different types of toys into bins. Sit with her and talk, talk, talk while you teach her how to put all the crayons in this box and all the legos in that box. Tell her much help she is. How big she's getting and how smart she is to do important jobs! Role play a little. Pretend to have a problem and let her solve it. "The green socks go together? You're right! Thank you!" Growth spurts made my kids feel out of control and giving them a way to establish order from chaos helped immensely. Not to mention that busywork left them less time to get into trouble. Be firm about your expectations for proper behavior, discuss what is the right way to behave at school, but focus more on all the good things she already does. It's a process that takes time. Good luck. ~LA
from nmnohr :
Hope you all feel better! Being sick sucks, especially in the summer.
from la-the-sage :
Is the cat fixed? If not, do it pronto. He's already learned to mark his turf, but if he's fixed the urine will be less stinky and he won't fight as much with other cats. Don't bother with flea collars, they're not effective and they're a choking danger. Get the month-at-a-time flea stuff. You put it on the back of the cat's neck where they can't lick and the stuff works really well. Our cats are all indoor/outdoor cats and are healthy. We have a litter box and feed them indoors, but they do most of their pooping outdoors anyhow. Ear mites are another thing to watch for. If the cat's ears get all gunky with brown 'ear wax' he has mites. I don't know if Lyme is a problem out there, but watch for ticks too. I say go to the party. Get all decked out, eat drink, be merry and give your IL's a HUGE family portrait of the 4 of you in a big gaudy frame. Don't expect them to be friendly or decent, just eat a nice meal on their dime and socialize with fun people. Why not? ~LA
from nmnohr :
Hey, whatever works to keep him motivated to work! A little smokin' won't kill him!!
from nmnohr :
I'm sorry. They say everything happens for a reason, so I hope he can stick it out for the season, and then something better comes along. Hang in there!
from foursquare :
I'm one of the stalkers too, but you know me. Or at least used to. :-P My old diary was hlm79, and I used to read you all the time. But then I recall there was a time when you didn't update for like six months or something, and in the meantime I started a new diary. But I still check in sometimes!
from la-the-sage :
Yup, you made such an awful impression I dumped you from my buddy list, hexed your car and convinced all the cheese states to become Canadian provinces. Silly. ~LA
from nmnohr :
I'm here, time for me to do some catching up!
from la-the-sage :
It's me again, your stalker. I wish I could give Ryan several kicks in the ass. Sorry your allergies are such a misery. Have your blood pressure checked at the docs, okay? Claritin D is so amped with sudapedahydrine that it'll skyrocket your bp and blow the top of your head off. We switched to loratadine. Works better than the sudafed AND doesn't shoot Mike's pressure through the roof. Sending my strongest vibes your way. ~LA
from la-the-sage :
I am so stealing this meme. And you are a pearl. Just thought you should know. ~LA
from la-the-sage :
That's a groovy design. I notice that here on the East Coast that tats are mainly single color with a lot of fine line work. With all those bright colors you guys would be a hit with the tattoo fans out here. ~LA
from la-the-sage :
Mmmmmmwah! A big smacking kiss from one great mom to another. ~LA
from nmnohr :
What a good feeling to be able to clear up debt, and start fresh. Good for you guys!!!!!!
from la-the-sage :
YAY!!!! $35 an hour is big money no matter where you live. Even here in the wicked expensive NYC zone. Have big fun catching up and doing a little windfall shopping. ~LA
from nmnohr :
Now I totally have that song in my head!!!!!!!
from la-the-sage :
Wheeee! A plug! Thanks, sweetie. I guess I'm still the product champion, but really it's because of the hair. Need a ton o' shit to make it defy gravity. Speaking of which, I got a new cut today, shorter, spikier and more random than ever. We dubbed it 'Nervous Breakdown'. 'Cause it makes me look wild and stressed out. heh. ~LA
from nmnohr :
OH do I hate the dentist. I had to have a tooth pulled last week. Back again on Monday because I was in pain, back again today for a follow up, back next wednesday to have my spacers put in (Hi, I'm Nicole, I'm 30 and getting braces!) and back the Wednesday after that for some other ortho appt. Yes 5 times at the dentist in one month. It's horrible. Thank you so much for the sweet note you left me. You always know how to boost me up! Have a great day.....and hope the tooth feels better!
from la-the-sage :
Sorry about all the dental woes, hon. To use a VERY bad pun, that bites. ~LA
from nmnohr :
I'm just getting all caught up. I'm so sorry about Ryan's family. What a bunch of selfish people. You are better off without them, but it doesn't make the pain go away.
from jamsjunction :
That must be so hard for Ryan...It was heart breaking just reading it. No one deserves to be treated like he has been. I dont blame him for writing them off.
from jamsjunction :
Get well soon Lana!
from nmnohr :
I'm sorry you're sick! Feel better soon.....and it's totally not your fault. Who the hell would CHOOSE to be sick? Hugs!
from jamsjunction :
Im sorry, I saw them and forgot to come back and comment. They are really neat. I am such a chicken, I dont think I could ever bring myself to get a tattoo. Your brave!
from nmnohr :
I'm in that same damn slump. Bring on Spring!!!!!!!!!
from nmnohr :
Love the new template! And I'm so happy that you are in a much better place in your life right now. You sound like things are going much smoother. More proof that sometimes we just have to wait out the storms, and more than likely there will be a rainbow after. (How corny was that??!!!) Glad to hear you are doing well!!!
from nmnohr :
That's great news about Ryan being able to work for your family's business! I'm so happy for you guys. How's everything else going?
from la-the-sage :
That was an awful day. Got some make-up and kid horror stories, but I'll save them for another time. Right now you need a hug and a Sephora care package. ~LA
from nmnohr :
Hope you had a wonderful Christmas! The scarf you are making is beautiful! My mom has been making a ton of those lately too......I love it :o)
from nmnohr :
If that's the worst thing you do as a mother.........I think Spencer will turn out OK! Enjoy your time with the kids today :o)
from la-the-sage :
I love hearing there's some smooth sailing for you right now. If I don't get back in time, Happy Birthday to your 'old man'. ~LA
from nmnohr :
Hope you are feeling better!!!
from nmnohr :
THank you thank you thank you for the card and bookmark!!! I loved them both :o) They are beautiful.
from nmnohr :
Hope you feel better. Being sick sucks, especially since our kids never seem to stop when we feel like dropping! Hang in there.
from nmnohr :
You're right..you are NOT a child. You are a grown woman who can make her own decisions. I'm glad that you got away from the situation for awhile. You don't deserve to be treated that way, and nobody deserves to be told what to do, when to do it, and how to do it. It's a free world. You are a capable adult. You can watch what you want, do what you want, and as long as it doesn't negatively affect your children or your family, you shouldn't have to justify yourself to anyone. Not even your husband. You deserve more respect than that. You deserve more happiness than that......and the only way you will get either, is if you start demanding those things. Hang in there sweetie!
from nmnohr :
Thanks for the note! I love the Mall of America also. There's so much to do! Enjoy your time off of work......you deserve it!
from nmnohr :
I'm so sorry. If I could hug you, I would. Email me if you need to vent (nohr.nicole@con-way.com) I never get the emails through the dland account. Hang in there.
from nmnohr :
Oh how cool! I'm a princess :o) Can't wait to see the card!!!
from nmnohr :
Did I already give you my address???
from nmnohr :
Atleast you have answers, and you can go from here. I know it is frustrating, especially for your dad I'm sure. You are so NOT an evil daughter. You are amazing, and he is lucky to have you to help out.
from nmnohr :
Get your dad to Mayo. When my stepdad had his stroke, they also told him it was not a stroke. When they did the CT scans, and MRI's, it was too soon after his stroke for it to show up. It didn't appear like a stroke on any of the tests they ran. He saw many neurologists in GB, and infectious disease specialists - then FINALLY, he was sent to Mayo where they properly diagnosed him. I'll keep praying for your dad. I know how scary this is. Let me know if you need anything.
from nmnohr :
Oh Jesus, I type too fast for my brain. I meant to say I'll keep you and YOUR family in My prayers. sorry.
from nmnohr :
Oh no. I'll keep you and my family in my prayers. I've been where you are now, and it's scary. I hope your dad starts feeling better, and I hope they get the test results they need to start a course of treatment that will get your dad healthy. Hang in there, and here's some HUGS for you!
from nmnohr :
Lana, I'm so glad that you guys have had a breakthrough. It's a step in the right direction. Yey!!!!
from la-the-sage :
Lovely! I'm happy for you. Gives both of you an idea of what you're fighting to keep/bring back. Press one of those flowers and frame it. Hang it somewhere where you'll both see it every day. Keeping your eyes on the prize, sort of. ~LA
from nmnohr :
I'm so sorry you are feeling this way. You deserve nothing but happiness. HUGS for you.......tons of hugs.
from la-the-sage :
I'm so glad you had a good weekend! But I'm forking the away the evil eye. NO SNOW!!! Not ready for snow yet. ~LA
from nmnohr :
Happy Birthday! Thought I'd leave a note incase you didn't see my email!!
from la-the-sage :
Happy Birthday tomorrow! (I'll space it and forget to come back.) Waving my wand so your birthday wishes come true. ~LA
from nmnohr :
Ok, that is quite the strange dream you had!! How rude of us to be making out in front of you:o) But seriously, you have the right to feel however you feel. Unfortunately we can't control our feelings. But we can take steps to make our lives happier. The trick is figuring out what we need to do for that to happen. I don't have the easy answer for you........but just know that I'm here if you need to vent. Sometimes just getting it out can put things in perspective - and a good cry is always helpful. Happy Birthday early.......I really hope that tomorrow is a brighter day for you. Hugs!
from nmnohr :
Happy 3rd Birthday Evelyn!!!
from nmnohr :
I'm so sorry. I don't know how I could have possibly missed your entries. You have been dealing with SO much. You don't deserve this. Email me if you need to vent.
from la-the-sage :
Good for you! Keep on talking with him, with the world via D-land, and you have my number, use it any time! ~LA
from nmnohr :
I didn't get to see Gilmore Girls yet this season! Yet another show to add to my list to Tivo once I get it up and running!!!!
from la-the-sage :
Sticky notes, phone cards, sweat socks, a small tool box with phillips and straight screwdrivers, that gum stuff to hang posters without marking the walls, a box of tissues, extension cords, a clamp on reading light, a pop-up folding hamper, pajama bottoms, a big thermal mug or a travel coffee mug, Staples (or similar) gift card for printer ink etc, a roll of quarters, and homemade cookies. Oh yeah, a Magic 8 Ball. All high demand items at my son's dorm. ~LA
from nmnohr :
Must be "Be nice to your wife" week or something. Woo hoo for us!
from nmnohr :
I couldn't see the pictures :o( Happy Anniversary! Too bad Ryan has to work. Too bad I won't be in town when you come to GB.......I leave that weekend for work. Figures! One of these times we'll have to go out for a drink!
from nmnohr :
Gilmore girls starts tonight? Awesome. Hopefully I can catch it! I think your inlaws suck.......but you know that already! Oh, and to answer your question....Aaric and I went to an old favorite last night. It was good, so it all worked out. I had Prime Rib and it was the best ever!
from nmnohr :
No such thing as being "too honest". Honesty is the best policy :o)
from nmnohr :
Everyone needs a little fantasy - I really think as long as you aren't "hiding" anything from your husband, it's completely fine. Flirting is innocent.
from nmnohr :
I'm sorry about your dad. I know how terrifying it is. My step dad also had a stroke.....had surgery.......started smoking again...........had another stroke, and had a very rare surgery......where they created a new blood vessel in his brain to get blood flow to the other side of the brain where the stroke occured. He's doing fine now.......he drives, and does all the stuff he used to do (except he hasn't worked since his first stroke.) email me if you need to vent/cry. I know it's scary as hell. I'm sorry Ryan didn't get the job.......
from nmnohr :
Go Ryan! I'll keep my fingers crossed..... :o)
from nmnohr :
I'm sorry about your dad. My stepdad went through the very same thing (only at a younger age) and if you need to talk, I'm here.
from nmnohr :
I think I was leaving you a note at the very same time you were leaving me one! Great minds think alike!~
from nmnohr :
Just dropping in to say hello!!!!! Hope all is well :o)
from la-the-sage :
Your home looks really nice! I know that's point of promotional stuff, but they did a good job. So what's there to do if you don't dog sled while parasailing and elk hunting? ~LA
from cutielatina :
My hubby does that too.HATE IT!!!! I hope your UTI,which to me,sounds like a college out here in L.A., LOL, is gone soon. Cuidate...
from la-the-sage :
I'm going to a wedding today too! No manicure, but my toes are drying as I type this. Hope you guys have fun! ~LA
from cutielatina :
Keep the faith about the in-laws anbd I'm proud of you for being so strong for all of us out there dealing with in-laws. Stay strong! and Cuidate...
from peytonsplace :
Thanks for the note. Most of those did point to girl. :)
from so-charming :
Thanks for answering my call for help. I checked out your links, very helpful! :)
from nmnohr :
What a nice entry! I'm so glad that you update here and we've been able to get to know each other!
from nmnohr :
Thank you for the wonderful GB message. I appreciate it more than you know. I'm so glad that you and your husband atleast talked about everything. Sounds like you are taking all the right steps to feel better about you and your sex life!
from nmnohr :
Thank you SO MUCH for that incredibly thoughtful note. I am proud of myself......or I will be once this is all set in stone. But the best part about it is that I have aweseome people like you to share the news with! Thanks again.
from nmnohr :
I can't wait to see pictures! I'm so happy for you.....it's a fresh start in a new place. Good for you. Now I'll kepe hoping the house sells :o)
from la-the-sage :
Hey! Congrats on the new place. You're free of the stinky neighbors! Yay! ~LA
from nmnohr :
Bury a statue of St Joseph in your backyard. I'm not a super religious freak or anything.......but it works......it really does. Your house will sell soon after. It sounds hokey and lame, but trust me. It works!
from la-the-sage :
I hate being stuck in the in-between times! Hate it. Hate it. Hate it! So you have all my sympathy. Hope all the chips fall into place soon! ~LA
from nmnohr :
The candy store is called Sweet Memories and it's in Lakewood - right on HWY 32. It's the best place ever! I hope all works out with your house situation. I'll think good thoughts for you guys!!!
from nmnohr :
Wow, I'd say that's quite a change! That's a lot to think about! I hope that whatever decision that you make works out best for you and your family. I admire you for being strong enough to possibly take on the military life. Not sure I could, but I admire those who do!
from kitchenlogic :
Thanks for the suggestion for a workplace for Thor. He's a software engineer so probably wouldn't be interest in Old Home Foods. But if it ends up that I need a job...I'm always interested in food!
from nmnohr :
Evie is so adorable! And Spence - WOW! What a handsome young man! They are both beautiful!
from nmnohr :
Your neighbors are assholes. Good for you for sticking up for yourself and your family. Ridiculous. I hope ryan gets it together and realizes how much you are helping him find a job he would like better......and finds some ambition to go out there and get a job he will love.
from peytonsplace :
I'm so sorry Ryan is being a baby. We'll never know why God decided men needed to take so long to get it together! Oh, to be a lesbian! ha ha
from nmnohr :
Yeah, he's my secret lover.......so are the other 15-20 guys on the team! Don't tell anyone though. Hahaha, actually he's the one that looks like he could be Aaric's brother. Moreso when he shaves......! I always tell him not to be alarmed if I accidentally kiss him, that if it happens, I must have just mistaken him for Aaric! Kidding of course. I only love my husband :o)
from nmnohr :
Hope you have a great trip! You deserve it!!
from la-the-sage :
Have a great trip! ~LA
from nmnohr :
Well hey, the one good thing that came out of the shower is that you were able to appreciate that much more how special your wedding day was!!!!
from nmnohr :
I really hope your husband woke up and realized that he had to help clean too! It's only fair after all :o)
from nmnohr :
I totally watch that channel. It's Soap Net. I never watched soaps until we switched from cable to satellite, and I realized we had soap net. Now (although I'm ashamed to admit it) I watch them almost nightly. Yes I realize I'm a dork!
from peytonsplace :
Those sound good. I may have to check them out.
from nmnohr :
I could have sworn I left you a note yesterday. Odd. Anyway, Ryan's parents suck. But I suppose there isn't much you can do to change that. Don't let them feel self conscious. YOu are an amazing person, a wonderful mother, and beautiful inside and out. They are the ones that need to work on themselves......like you said......they don't even know their grandaughter hardly. That's just pathetic.
from nmnohr :
I meant "kids" not "kid"..........sorry
from nmnohr :
I'm so sorry. You don't deserve to deal with all of this. OF COURSE you deserve some time to yourself. OF COURSE he should be more supportive of that. OF COURSE you shouldn't be responsible for all the tasks around the house. OF COURSE he should help more with the kid. You are only one person, you can't possibly do everything. You need atleast a little time away for yourself to collect your thoughts, and just relax. He needs to learn how to be more independent. Hang in there. Email me if you need to talk.
from nmnohr :
Your getaway sounds like a blast! You will have such a great time.......and you're right.....you deserve to get away and have some fun time with your hubby and friend!
from nmnohr :
Way to go Lana! Keep it up. I'm proud of you.
from peytonsplace :
You have to sign on as the username, for some reason the public diary part isn't working. I need to fix that, I guess. Sign in as w8watch and the password is weight. :)
from peytonsplace :
Congratulations on taking that first step! You can do this. :)
from nmnohr :
Not sure if I can top la-the-sage's note because that was a great note.........but I did want to take a second to tell you I think it's great that you are ready to take the control back, and you'll have tons of support here. Email me if you need anything. But most of all remember that no matter what, you are a terrific person!
from la-the-sage :
You do whatever you feel you need to. The begining is REALLY HARD. If you're where I was, I almost felt like I wasn't allowed to do anything positive and healthy, who was I trying to kid? A big cow like me? Who'd LET herself get so fat and feel so low? Right. Like I could diet successfully. I finally did it though and can't believe what a difference it's made in my whole life, not just my looks. So you go ahead and be scared or mad or nervous, but remember that you can do whatever you want. And that includes being strong and getting a handle on your eating. Proud of you for staring it right in the eye. That takes guts. ~LA
from peytonsplace :
Feel free to post over at w8watch. That's the username and the password is weight. :)
from nmnohr :
I love my neighbors, and I'm great friends with them - but I'd still be pissed beyond belief if they decided to just use my stuff without asking. How rude.
from nmnohr :
In all honesty, Aaric has worked nights since I've known him. That's 9 years, so I guess I've just gotten used to it. Now I"m to the point that I really like my time to myself!
from nmnohr :
Hope you feel better, and I'll keep my fingers crossed that you sell your house :o)
from peytonsplace :
I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you!
from autumn-dove :
I've read your whole diary. I really like it. I think it is super you enjoy the Salvation Army group and are now doing Church! Was glad to see an update. Hubby and I have you in our morning prayers and are believing the house gets sold and you'll find the perfect nest.
from nmnohr :
So glad you're back! I have to agree with Erika.........great for you that you are getting out and doing something that makes you feel good! Keep it up!
from peytonsplace :
Good for you! It sounds like a wonderful good time and poo to Ryan for not being more understanding.
from nmnohr :
Yey, an update! Glad to hear you are doing well......can't wait to hear from you more!
from peytonsplace :
Hey there. I've missed you. Glad all is well.
from la-the-sage :
Well, THERE you are. Glad all is well. ~LA
from nmnohr :
Just wanted you to know I was thinking of you. Hope all is well!
from judybean :
I'm glad you guys talked things out. It's usually a communication thing and when you each adapt differently (especially when one shuts down -- that's what Mike does too and it bugs the heck out of me) it causes even *more* problems. And, doesn't it always seem problems like this creep up when money is at its worst too? I hate that. But I'm glad you guys are working on it. All relationships are just works in progress.
from nmnohr :
I'm so glad that you got to talk some of that stuff out. I hope you have a great time spending quality time together. Sounds like you both need that. It'll do wonders for clearing your mind I'm sure!
from peytonsplace :
Larry doesn't handle stress well either and he gets very moody when stressed. I fear his silences. I'm glad y'all were able to talk some and I hope you get a bite on your house soon!
from la-the-sage :
Oh my dear, I am sorry to hear that. Having similar "How could he do this to me?" feelings right now. Men are dickweasels and I for one am tired of their antics and their cruelty. Here's a sloppy, runny nose, very teary hug. ~LA
from nmnohr :
Your entry was so heartbreaking. I hate to read about you feeling so much pain. Like Erika said, I doubt you are the cause of his mean behavior. I thought things were going so much better for the two of you. Please hang in there, and shoot me an email if you need to talk.
from peytonsplace :
Oh sweetie, I think you are a great person. I'm not so sure what crawled up Ryan's butt, but I doubt you are the cause. Go out and do something for yourself!
from nmnohr :
Hope you feel better soon...!
from peytonsplace :
22. [is next to you] A cup on coffee, pack of cigarettes and lighter, ashtray... That sounds like heaven. ha
from nmnohr :
Thank you for the wonderfully sweet GB message. It means so much to have such great support here too!
from nmnohr :
Sounds like you have a lot on your plate. That's a lot to think about. A new begininning in a new place could be frightening, but it could be exciting and liberating too. You'll do fine no matter where you end up.
from nmnohr :
I was screaming as loud as I could.......I was AT THE PACKER GAME yesterday and it was amazing. Go Pack. Can't wait until next weeks game against the Eagles. Glad you are back, and glad things are getting so good for you and your hubby!
from nmnohr :
Just wanted to say Hi. I miss you, and hope you have a Happy New Year!
from jamsjunction :
Glad to see your back! Being sick stinks! Hope you have a Merry Christmas! :)
from peytonsplace :
I love the new pic! How sweet. I promise I am getting my cards in the mail in the next two days!
from preciousgift :
Thanks for wishing Skye a Happy Birthday. :) Let us know how the test comes out.
from nmnohr :
Pregnant, really??????????????? Let me know!
from peytonsplace :
I got your x-mas card! It was so pretty! At first I thought, hey, she said she was going to make it, then I realized it was homemade! It was that pretty!
from nmnohr :
I am Thankful that I found your diary - and that I've been fortunate enough to get to know you a little better because of it! I have a wonderful Thanksgiving!!
from usareviews :
Your review is up at USA Reviews! It's at http://usareviews.diaryland.com/groupi94.html. I know, I spelled it wrong. Sorry about that!
from peytonsplace :
We are having a tight month too with all the dr's appt's and Rx's. I'm almost dreading x-mas.
from nmnohr :
I haven't left you a note in way too long! I will be smoking heavily today I'm sure despite the Great American Smoke out. Bad person I am, I just can't help it.
from peytonsplace :
I've been lax on writing too. Of course, I've been sick, been even not sick, I can't seem to think of anything interesting. Diaryland blahs.
from mom-on-roof :
Thanks for the kind words, you're a peach! I may have to write an Inspiration on your peachie self for POY! It shall begin "Who the hell is Uncle Cracker?"
from peytonsplace :
That sounds like a nice night out. :) I can't wait to see my x-mas card!
from peytonsplace :
Glad you had a good time!
from p-o-y :
Hey there! Just a little note to let you know that you are the latest inpiration at Pieces Of You! Check back often to read how others are inspired by your diary. http://p-o-y.diaryland.com/inspiration.html
from peytonsplace :
What cuties! I want to exchange cards, but my e-mail is crapping out right now. Will you shoot me one over with your address and I'll send mine back.
from preciousgift :
Aw, the kiddos look so cute! That's a great ink job I know he's proud.
from hlm79 :
Your kids are such cuties! Love Ryan's tatoo too.
from peytonsplace :
Yeah, it did sounds like a joke, huh. Beat until stiff. hee They are like meringues (sp?) only better and sweeter! But they are airy like that.
from judybean :
Ugh, I *hate* car problems! Our Explorer is *still* in the shop and has been for FOUR WEEKS today... I mean, really! Of course on Monday they said Tuesday afternoon or Wednesday morning I'd get it back... I called this morning and "Hopefully you'll have it by the end of the day unless we run into anything else.." .. I'm hoping by Friday though that might be too much.
from nmnohr :
I'm convinced that the only thing cars are good for.......are headaches. Good luck!
from hlm79 :
i don't think this went through in your guestbook.... Hey now I'm not one to bash old cars. It was only a year ago that we finally sold my car; an '88 oldsmobile cutlas ciera. Woohoo!
from peytonsplace :
I hope Ryan's car is easily fixed!
from peytonsplace :
I'm doing just awful on these quizes! I'm glad Ryan and you seem to be working things out. :)
from preciousgift :
Thanks sweet. What are your kids going to be?
from hlm79 :
Oh no, I did terrible on your quiz!
from peytonsplace :
Hope you have a wonderful weekend! Don't consider it a step back to rent for a while, just think of it as reevaluating your life. :)
from ladybugthe2 :
i like your front page with two babies on them their so cute!
from weetabix :
Sure, you come to town when you know I'm going to be gone. You're avoiding me, aren't you.
from judybean :
10/13: Oh my goodness. Know that prayers are being sent your way at this moment (sorry I didn't get to this sooner, but I don't check dland on the weekends). Any form of counciling would be beneficial it seems.. or even Dr. Phil's Relationship Rescue book. Really I think it's so, so helpful and cheaper than paying somebody to listen to you. Just some thoughts...
from hlm79 :
Lana, I'm shocked. I'm so sorry... I'm very glad though that Ryan did come home, and I truly hope you guys are able to understand what the problems are and work through them.
from nmnohr :
I can not for the life of me phathom how a parent can "disown" their child. There is no reason for that. It's horrible, and I'd say your daughter is better off without them in her life. They are the ones who are missing out.
from peytonsplace :
Happy Birthday to Evie!
from nmnohr :
Happy 2nd birthday to Evie!!
from pashiesplace :
Oh, another reason to watch. I love Sebastian!
from nmnohr :
I finally got to watch Gilmore Girls last night woooo hooo! I love that show :o)
from peytonsplace :
Waiting just sucks, plain and simple!
from nmnohr :
I hope you get the answers you are waiting for. I hate waiting. Doesn't matter what I'm waiting for, I hate it....Atleast you know your job is safe no matter what. Everything will work out - but I know that being unsure of what exactly is to come must be difficult. hang in there!
from peytonsplace :
Oh sweetie, I still sorry you guys are so dissapointed. It's crazy that everyone told Ryan he was in, and then this happened. Hopefully, life will look up soon!
from nmnohr :
I forgot to tell you.......I hope your headache gets better. Actually Mason's pictures were taken at Sears. I love the Picture People (the one in the mall) but I end up spending a small fortune when I go there. Sears did Ok. I'm anxious to get the Black and white one!
from nmnohr :
I agree, this will probably be the best thing for him, and I guarantee he will have better "reports" sent home. He'll adapt perfectly I'm sure!
from peytonsplace :
I'm sure Spence will love his new class! I know it must be hard, but I think I would much rather hold Peyton back in K, than wait till he is older and really struggling. Just think, he will probably graduate top of his class because you gave him this extra boost!
from nmnohr :
9/26 Sounds yummy.......I'm starving!!!
from nmnohr :
I'm so bummed that I missed Gilmore Girls last night. Damn damn damn.......
from peytonsplace :
I think signmyguestbook ate your suggestion. What was it?
from peytonsplace :
Isn't this year just flying by! I'm hoping you are able to sell your house in November.
from hlm79 :
(I don't think my guestbook message went through)-- Yay, happy anniversary! I always meant to tell you, Ryan sounds like a great guy :)
from nmnohr :
It's rainy and gloomy here too. I hate it. It just makes me want to go home and take a nap!
from preciousgift :
Hope you feel better. The dress code thing sucks. My son goes to a Private/Catholic school they have a certain attire that they must wear. Pants are usually not allowed until the beginning of Novemeber. We have pretty warm winters and the weather gets cool but we don't actually see "really cold" (still warm to you) temps until February. So all in all that's what that was all about.
from judybean :
9/16: Yuck to battling colds and allergies at once! I'm going through the same thing right now and it's driving me nuts! Hope you get better soon!
from preciousgift :
(((-HUGS-)))
from nmnohr :
I missed you too! Glad you are back :o) Your kitty sounds adorable. How was your trip to Green Bay?
from jamsjunction :
I missed you! Honestly, I was wondering if yall have upped and moved quickly, and just didn't have time to give all of your fine readers a warning of your absence. Glad your back!
from jamsjunction :
Ughh, thats the worst thing about Red, it fades so fast. Sorry to hear about your friend, hopefully he can get things squared away.
from jamsjunction :
Ohhhhh thats definately vibrant! I like it!
from judybean :
I love the red!!
from preciousgift :
Hi, just wanted to let you know that I've unlocked.
from nmnohr :
Sorry you are having a bad day.....if it makes you feel any better, I just fell down an entire flight of stairs at work!!!! See....things aren't so bad after all, huh?
from hlm79 :
Damn guestbook's acting up... The only thing I'm thinking, is you might want to hang onto your IUD a little longer still. I've heard it's very hard to find a doctor who is willing to perform a vasectomy on a man under the age of 30. Plus, after his surgery you still have I think 6 weeks before you can have unprotected sex. So there's something maybe you should think on. Other than that, the consensus I've gathered is that most men are far more worried about having the surgery done than what it was actually like. Sitting around for a couple days with a bag of frozen vegetables on their nuts is usually about the worst it gets.
from judybean :
That's so exciting! Oh, and the relocation, selling your house and the potential of a pregnancy? I'm so there! Well, except not selling our house but buying a new one! It's crazy but it works, you know. And keeping it a secret is the best I say. If you tell people, they'll constantly ask you about the state of your belly, assuming that you're getting it on day and night working on baby making (not that you won't be, but does everybody need to know that?!?)! I'm excited for you and sending you the best of vibes!
from jamsjunction :
I've been gone for a few days..and I have really missed all of my regular reads alot. I am the exact same way with the sandals. Recently Scott and I were cleaning out our master closet, and he started flinging my sadals across the room.. He just doesnt understand the value of summer shoes! Men just dont get it lol
from hunurevu :
Your review is done at Who Knew Review. How's that for a quick turn around? Can you tell someone had a great deal of time on her hands today? : )
from jamsjunction :
Your guest book is being mean, and eating messages lol First I want to thank you so very much for the kind, touching words you left in my GB. I really appreciate it. Your SIL sounds like a real piece of work! Being a mother herself she should know better then to call you a bitch, and obviously loud enough so that your children could hear it. And your right, lice isnt a big deal, as long as you take the proper steps to take care of things. To throw everything out..Christ, does she have more money then she has sense? LOL Your not over reacting!
from hlm79 :
Stupid guestbook... Hey I see you're from the UP! Cool! I'm from Michigan too. Well, the lower part, and, closer to Indiana...
from jamsjunction :
What a cute haircut! I work for a hair salon, and we just had a Locks of Love Benifit. The generosity from the public was overwhelming. I agree with you, it cant be a bad hair cut, if it helps a child in need, build there self esteem.
from preciousgift :
YAY, for you. I also give hair to Locks Of Love. I recently got 13 inches cut off mine. I think the entry is here < http://preciousgift.diaryland.com/030424_41.html >. Take Care.
from peytonsplace :
Oh, I wasn't offended. I actually found it rather humorous. :) I think people like the whole anonomity of the internet. You can get close, but not too close. It is an interesting topic of debate though, are we enriching our lives by meeting people this way, or alienating the friends we could make if we just got our noses out of the computer? hmmm . . . I must admit though, that some of my best friends, who I see regularly, and my husband, I met online.
from peytonsplace :
Stupid guestbook cut me off. If they want to read mine, fine, but I would like to know so I could be prepared for any backlash. :)
from bettyalready :
Thank you thank you for the comment. It made me feel much better. I totally forgot about the LOTR tattoo!!!!!
from bettyalready :
hey, you can't get enough Lord Of The Rings!
from bettyalready :
Yeah well, I never have my flu last for a week! Geez man, here I am bitching, mine has only been a couple of days...
from blue-candy-b :
Thank you for listing me as a favorite :-) It means a lot to have people who like reading what I have to say, even if I do ramble a lot!
from bettyalready :
Thanks for the note of support. I like that red beans, rice and salad idea. Although I'd have to soak the beans...and the rice is cooked so that's a no go. I am so hungry...
from bettyalready :
Oh my god, I am so there with you. I am so non-motivated right now.
from bettyalready :
My Chiropractor didn't believe in immunizations at all. He had never had them. Some mothers are afraid of the reactions their kids might have. I don't know. I think the benefits outweight the slim chance of a reaction.
from starlight42 :
i just wanted to say, I left a note almost identical to yours on the diary review site. I guess you got a nice one, but I had a 16yr old leave a very nasty review for me (I'm 27). Wish they would do something about that. I'm just glad other people felt the same!
from ontheoutside :
*knock knock* ??? hello? anyone home? *brutally rebuffed, j runs back to hide in a corner of her diary...* where are you lana?
from ontheoutside :
hey lana, for some reason my netscape at work won't let me see your diary, so i'm leaving you a message right here. just saying hi and i hope you have a good weekend! i'm gonna semi-relax and have fun at the same time before school starts up again. :) bye!!
from diamondviews :
i finished your review :) it's posted at http://diamondviews.diaryland.com/groupie94.html
from damedani :
About your last post: taking advantage is taking all the formula and re-selling to stores, or trading someone for money every month. You use what you need when you need it- if the gov't thinks that someone needs and deserves somehting- they will get it. THere is no way that the gov't is giving aid to someone who doesn't need it. I'm quite happy for the both of you- I think a trip to disney world sounds amazing! You aren't doing anything unethical. You aren't blowing grocery money-letting your children starve so you can have fun. It's as much none of my business as theirs- but I wanted to let you know that you should never feel guilty about it- EVER. If you don't care for yourself- keep yourself from getting over stressed- your kids are going to suffer from it. Enjoy the break- you need to re-build YOU- screw anyone who thinks other wise! ps- thanks for the ebay tip- good idea!
from poneyby :
That Mari did a wonderful job!! Little to much purple for my taste, but still cool
from scentedrose :
i'm diggin the new image
from twinkeee :
You and your husband are a good looking couple, and Spencer is precious:)

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