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from dwell :
I miss you writing. I haven't been keeping up with my Diaryland therapy either, which I must change. I just hope you are finding catharsis somehow; and that things are good for you and your kids this year.
from annanotbob :
Ah babe, since leaving the last note I've read your more recent posts - sorry to sound so flippant when you're clearly going through difficult times. You sound like a fabulous woman and I sincerely wish you all the best xxx
from annanotbob :
I've just found and joined your lovely diaryring. Whew, home at last. Thank you xx ps inaticulate - my arse
from absinthesigh :
Hi! My new diary is up and running over at journal space: http://eidola.journalspace.com/ I would like to add your diaryland diary to my list of favorite links but wanted to ask first. Please leave me a note at my old absinthesigh diary and let me know if that's okay with you when you have a moment... danka!!! with love, ophelia
from amomsmusings :
Thanks for the message. I'm waiting for your book, but in the meantime I'll be reading your blog...it's "tight!" We may be 40 but that doesn't mean we can't still be cool!
from trishtastic :
I don't often leave you notes or comments in the guestbook, but I've declared today my personal Un-Lurker Day to tell my favorites I appreciate them. I enjoy reading! Trish xx
from hamiltonian :
you must be a fan of crumb..(?)
from absinthesigh :
Hi! Thank you for your kind mention 8-). I don't see an email address for you so I have to leave a note here. You will probably get a message about another SupreGold membership from me %-) as my bank is misbehaving and I had to put it through twice %-), I left a note for Andrew too to let him know. Hopefully this will not be too confusing 8-). with love, ophelia
from absinthesigh :
I sent you a present! with love, ophelia
from absinthesigh :
I sent you a present! with love, ophelia
from snoozebar :
I discovered your diary last week and am loving it. And you. You're the best writer I've stumbled across recently (and I have high standards!). I'm making my way through the old entries and just read about your doing the Bradley method. Well, I didn't do Bradley but I wanted--and achieved--a totally unmedicated birth, in a hospital no less. I loved your five IQ points remark!
from trinity63 :
Congrats:) I came to you via LA-Sage. I like your diary very much. And I hope you enjoy your marriage:) You'll laugh when you find out why I got married :)
from ashtraygurl :
hadnt been bothered with perusing diaries since i started my own. in fact, i am not really sure how i ended up finding yours. but i am so glad that i did. i find the experience of reading your work quite enjoyable. thank you for that.
from ikss :
I have no idea how I went so long without discovering your lovely diary, but now that I have I plan to just camp out here. Hope you had a wonderful birthday. :)
from notthatboy :
After hours and hours and hours and hours of randomly scrolling through pile after pile of crap diary's I found your's. Its an incredible read, well written, and ANYTHING but inarticulate. I love the way you see the world. Hunter.
from xxx2003 :
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from raw-voice :
have you ever considered playing a lil game of diaryland survivor? i think you are the perfect contestant. check it out at http://dsurvivor5.diaryland.com...
from witcheepoo :
Great reading!
from mommylap :
I just love finding new diaries through weird parents. You rock for setting it up. I love the nicknames you've given your gorgeous kids. (from the new pics!)You're a great writer too. Have a great day!
from techdragon :
I love your diary. I have been reading all of your archives and I am just enthralled. I have kids of my own and some of the stories sure relate. Thanks for sharing everything about yourself - if you feel up to it give me a read.
from trishtastic :
Thank you for the MoveOn link. I immediately sent the letter to everyone in my address book.
from spyinthesky :
I just joined the diaryring and would appreciate your inputs about my entries and how best to get them circulated. Thanks.
from theshivers :
damn guestbook won't let me sign again...anyway, i found a Trixie gif and uploaded it... here's the URL: http://theshivers.diaryland.com/images/trixie.gif
from wonderwall :
i hate talking on the phone and being stared at by strangers.
from callmedee :
bananas are evil! ah!
from bodymindsoul :
your diary rocks!
from linguafranca :
There are many varieties of banana above and beyond the ones sold in U.S. grocery stores. There are heirloom bananas, bananas growing wild in Central America (and other places), as well as the good old plantain. Don't worry, even if it's true, we won't be banana-less for long, I'm sure. I myself don't especially care for bananas, unless fried. ;)
from burger-man :
I love Southern Culture On The Skids! They Rock
from chadmuska :
"Diaryland: It's cheaper than therapy." that is the most honest thing i have ever read. and the most truthful. many people use this as therapy. i don't read those diaries, but many people do.
from alicewonders :
Well if it is merely promiscuity that makes one a "slut" (and, mind you, I think it is not), then it alone fails to resolve potential regret over issues with O.P.P.. Generation after generation passes and STILL, somehow, millions upon millions of reasonable and intelligent women continue to be lured in by quite possibly the ugliest and weirdest appendage possible. I don't know... maybe they put something in the water. Y'just can't trust those men.
from wonderwall :
my dad was deep-frying turkeys with his co-workers as of three years ago. he's such a trendsetter! haha. but, its actually quite good, surprisingly enough. happy turkey day to you and the fam. :)
from hiphoppnpnai :
hey!! ur diary is very interestin....add me to ur fav diaries!! i'll add u!
from alicewonders :
Two things, first, you're a "maroon"? And second, I never leave "notes"; your guestbook link is broken. Oh... and I miss you. We should make plans to get together. Then even if we're too busy and it doesn't happen at least there would have been some plans. :) xo ~Alice
from raven72d :
I missed the Leonids... Now I'll be a century away from the images... Damn it.
from hausfrau :
Have you ever had your thyroid checked?
from trulypoetic :
Annie Lamott's one-inch picture frame... Can you explain this? I love Annie Lamott. Very curious.
from castigada :
Having you design my banner would be like having Michelangelo paint my house. Thanks for the tip on older entries. Nice to know someone is actually reading them!
from gun :
i like your site's desing, and the writing is fun too!
from dusty-memory :
Thanks for visiting my diary - since I'm not at all shy about this - I figured I'd leave a note! =) I've wondered about "the Pill" myself, but due to the increased risk of stroke - it's not an options. My husband and I are considering a second baby in the semi-near future. Since it took almost 18 months to have our baby doll - he has the problem, but I also didn't want to add on to the time frame if it took awhile to get the BCP out of my system. I'm getting a handle on the migraines (funky evil diet and now to get my neck fixed) and hopefully that'll do it. Gee now that I've written that I'll probably get hammered with another 30 day migraine *shrug* oops! Thanks for askin' DM
from dusty-memory :
Hey I finally know that I am not the only other "weird parent" out there. I will never fit into the "normal" mom sorority. I wish I was a SAHM, but alas I have to work if I am to feed my family. I look forward to reading more of your diary!
from puppett :
Help! cross atlantic confusion, who or what are the H.A. ?
from msleslie :
Save your realtor's list. I haven't read you enough yet to know if you have a worthwhile man in your life, but from that list, I am guessing you don't. If you should find yourself burdened with a worthless one and can't find your way out, just start leaving copies of this list laying about and then allow your stocks of his beverage of choice to become depleted. When he offers to run to the store for more, look for your best and most expensive suitcase. If that's missing, you'll know you're free. If all else fails, ask him to help by working with that Bouganvilla. Isn't that the one with huge spiky thorns that reach out and grab you from a foot away and embed themselves in your skin like vicious fishhooks?
from castigada :
Well, all I can say is it's about freaking time you filled out my freaking survey! Needless to say, your responses were well worth the wait. I especially liked the one about the hair products in jail. You were the only one with the courage to answer that question correctly.
from lenajoanne :
Hi Inarticulate, I saw your comment in somebody else's guest book and decided to check out your diary. I love the bathroom pic. I would have never thought of it. My diary is still fairly new... but check it out if you have a chance.
from kstyle :
hi- i'm new in town-glad to find some adults! wow,553 entries? my diary is pretty small so far, but maybe you can take a peek? i'll be back soon to dig into yours...welcome to the dollhouse caught my eye-i agree-did you like happiness?love the bathroom photo! thanks,michael
from jonathan :
I look forward to reading more.
from puppett :
hiya,can I call you inart for short? Thanks for reading my diary thingy, anyway I have the answer to yout sore arm/mousey problem.... do all your surfing whilst stood on your head! I really should be a consultant!!!!! :-)
from lovely-freak :
homeschooled children have higher scores in just about every test situation. the only downfall to homeschooling (in my informed opinion) is that the children don't have access to social situations that would occur in a school situation. on the other hand, that may not be a bad thing. and there are always ways around that. homeschooled children are smarter and learn faster than children in an overcrowded classroom with 1 teacher for every 12 children. the stats show that. in fact, i just saw that on the news the other day and it gave percentages but i have since forgotten them. don't feel bad... there are those of us out here who read your diary that feel very positively towards you and your feelings. take care of you... nikki
from wonderwall :
agh! men! they are so stupid and don't know what they're missing until it's too late.
from mybloodmoon :
A most prolific and down-to-earth diaries, a pleasure read. My compliments, and here's a bloodjellyblob along with 'em. From the Angel of the Bloodmoon http://mybloodmoon.diaryland.com
from puppett :
Hiya, I think your diary is double plus good. Its fabbo to find another growdy up parent with a diary, I shall read your whole back catalogue with pleasure!
from jonathan :
Thanks for dropping in! I'll read voraciously as soon as I've had some sleep (16 hours with children under six. I'm shattered).
from wonderwall :
hey. take it from me- you didn't miss much in kindergarten. i could read already but my parents still sent me because i was young for my grade to begin with. it ended up to be really boring, although i enjoyed staying up during nap time whispering with my friend charles. now though, i could kick myself-- why the hell did i stay up during nap time? i probably lost like what, ninety hours of sleep right there, that i will never get back, and i haven't seen or talked to charles since third grade. isn't that the way of the world? but anyway, i really love your diary. top of the class.
from nonce :
Wheeeeee...

That (el*phant lady vs. nutrition lady) was a great post. Lydia sounds like a very nice person....for being so patient with such slack-asses....and getting all interested in their obsessions. Mark of a smart cookie.

And your inner voice is hilarious....you need to let her outta the bag more often...

Brilliant writing.

i hate you.
from theshivers :
tolerence is highly over-rated
from theshivers :
ah, you see I used to have dreams that I knew Madonna. OK, I confess, I still do...in fact I recently wrote about one in my dream journal. ...BTW...I know I'm no super goddess who can bestow writing riches upon you but I am here if you ever just want to talk or vent or whatever...
from joleen :
I would never call your life a cake walk. Raising children must be a daunting task, and maybe that's why I'll most likely never do it myself. Sometimes I have nervous breakdowns over things like the air conditioning not working, or a sink full of dishes, or my stupid front door doorknob that was falling off and the maintenance guy forgot to fix it. Life is hard, it's not easy for anyone really, though it seems that way sometimes, everything can pile up until we all just need to take a break. Suffice to say, I can relate to your feelings, more than you know, and many of us can, you are not alone, you're not a freak, your lows are as valid as any highs. I'd only be truly concerned if there were never any highs in your life. I hope you find strength and resolve and a way to find that balance within yourself. You're not alone.
from makeamark :
I'm a novice diarist, but I'm glad to see a diary from someone with interesting things to say and old enough to have some experiences in life. I think we're exactly the same age, dear inarticulate. Europe in the early/mid 80's, either because of our age or the world political situation at that time, seems to have made a real mark on those of us who were there, then, in those post-adolescent, pre-responsibility years.
from theshivers :
let me know if you want to talk about it at some point
from theshivers :
that might be a good idea - covering it and making our money back...I think i could swing it on my end and might be able to help you do the same...
from theshivers :
have you been to a JournalCon before? What are they like?
from ashes2pearl :
titles--- The Bare Truth or Persona
from sooner :
oh, sweet Inarticulate. Won't you tell me, do you have any gum?
from lovely-freak :
that "my" is supposed to be "mine" please put that in your sock and sniff it. thanks
from lovely-freak :
i love your page and i changed my all because of your introduction to it for me. i am html stupid so i'm suprised it turned out. now for what i'm really here to comment about.... i thought jennifer lopez's hair looked very 80's. it was horrendous and i cannot believe someone thought that was a good idea. i go to bed at 8pm so i didn't see much of the oscars so that's all i've got to say in my really run on sentence.
from theshivers :
the page looks great...and yes we want to know your thoughts on the Oscars...c'mon...
from coolassaward :
Hi from Cool Chicks! Want to nominated someone for a Cool Chick Award? Come see what we are about.
from dares2dream :
Very interesting reading. Thank you. ;-)
from dwell :
i read your catalyst entry just now and i feel sick to my stomach. and helpless, and inadequate, and small, and angry.
from theshivers :
wish i could but i don't work for Salon...although you might try that section editor Jennifer Foote Sweeny - really, you should e-mail her.
from justvisiting :
Thanks for signing the guestmap!
from theshivers :
just a thought - have you ever thought of submitting something to Salon's Mothers Who Think section? Actually it's now called "Lifestyle" - which i hate, but they still run the same sort of essays...oh, and I guess you cant read my page anymore ..it's once again Netscape-unfriendly - I'm trying to fix this though I don't suppose there are *too* many people out there waiting breathlesly...
from taliana1 :
ouch..that was quite a fight you two had. Does he not think that maintaining a house and taking care of your children are a help? *hugs*
from taliana1 :
I just heard about Daniel on the radio--I really feel for his wife and family. Too sad. :(
from taliana1 :
Have you tried talking to NAMI regarding your brother? (www.nami.org) They may be able to get you in touch with someone in your area who could help. One of our counselors assists people in my area who have been referred to him by NAMI. He works closely with the family and is usually able to get enough evidence for the person to be petitioned so they can get help.
from taliana1 :
Just read your entry dated 2/6 regarding the murder in St Petersburg. Working at a crisis center, I hear your frustrations. We deal with this kind of thing all the time. And even when the person presents a clear and present danger to either him/herself or others, we still have great difficulty getting that person help. I understand the need to protect an individuals rights against people getting angry with someone and locking them up in a mental facility for no reason...but that is usually not the case, and it is just so frustrating and heartbreaking to not be able to get people help. *sigh*
from taliana1 :
How absolutely scary that must have been! I'd have been a mess. Can't believe he didn't think to tell you he was taking her with him. *hugs*
from anastasis :
oops, sorry my keyboard sucks. or i am still sleeping.
from anastasis :
i want to answer, I want to be the girl with the most cake, but then again I don't make sense. Just like you, I am stuck at home. Being unemployed for a year and after changing my location, brought me a new perspective in that it's a big world out there. Anyway, I enjoy you articulate musings, keep it up.
from castigada :
Hi, pal. I've been meaning to put in a guestbook -- I'll let you know if I need any help with it (thanks for offering). In the meantime, why don't you join my notify list? I promise I'll use it! Hey, do you know what happened to what-nosex? She seems to have fallen off the face of Diaryland. Her diary is now locked and you can't pull up her profile. Worst of all, she un-favorited me! I am crushed!
from theshivers :
screw waiting around for a song or two...if you're ever interested I'll make you a CD comp of stuff -including S-K and the White Stripes...i'm always making them anyway and it's a good way to hear new music instead of spending $$
from theshivers :
a good omen indeed....could definitely lead to something bigger ... personally, I think the Chronicle is missing a voice like yours...just my opinion...problem is they're undergoing major restructuring there right now, it's rather hellish at the present...
from alain-delon :
hay...love your work... have a lovely rest.
from theshivers :
cool, I'm glad that's fixed, now I don't feel quite as stupid...and thanks for joining the Google ring ... I was surpised one hadn't already been created....
from jaxraven :
*wanders past and waves* Still reading addictedly... it's nice to know I'm not the only one who occasionally screws herself over. *wry grin* Good luck on your projects though... and good luck with those three little demons you're currently displaying.
from theshivers :
hey, if you get a chance, could you check and see if you can read my diary in NS now? I fixed something with RotaryScone's help but I just have the newest version of NS on my computer at work...i would appreciate it very much, thanks!
from theshivers :
it's nice to know you are still reading since I enjoy your diary so much...sorry about that Netscape thing. I've learned that my diary isn't viewable in Netscape 4 or lower, maybe NS5, too...not sure...but yes, I really need to figure out what's going on with it....maybe i'll ask one froot or rotary..couldn't hurt, I suppose....
from itrymybest :
thanks so much for the kind words, the listing, and the mention in your entry. seriously. and i'm always happy to make a mixed tape for an elvis costello fan. come to think of it, if you like southern culture on the skids, i probably have a few things up my sleeve for you . . .
from sidanen :
Crack Creme is good... Stokolan is better-- (Stockhausen product) My doctor gave it to me when my hands blister from mold exposure. Huggs and Blessings -Sidanen
from thisisjohn :
beautiful kids. =)
from itrymybest :
your diary was recommended to me after i complained that "there are no married-type people with good diaries" and i'm so glad i found it. you have incredible talent.
from lacorneille :
Welcome to the Alan Rickman diaryring!
from givenocredit :
i would have the newspaper imported to read your column. but i'm gonna wait on ordering imported papers until you write the column, there are only so many imported newspapers you can really read in one day you know. especially when most of the columnists wouldn't be on my favorite diarylanders list. and if they were, how would i know? but i digress. a column by you, would be much goodness.
from castigada :
I laughed so hard at the Amazon review I nearly peed in my pants. Have you sold those fancy pants you bought at the thrift store yet?
from castigada :
Muchas gracias, hija, for recommending me to your readers! You are as kind-hearted as you are wise. May the santissima virgen smile upon your literary endeavors, even if you don't believe in her.
from theshivers :
what about the Guardian or the Weekly? I think your stuff could qualify as 'alternative' enough...and that's not a bad thing...the Chronicle does have a ton of columnists but you never know...actually, i have a friend who works for their Lifestyle section..i'll have to ask her what the deal is...
from august-x :
In trying to decide whether to commit to adding you to my buddy list, the clincher was seeing that you have Persuasion down as a favorite movie. Just so's you know.
from shannonm :
I enjoy reading your entries. :) Good luck if you decide to pursue the newspaper column thing!
from ashes2pearl :
Girl you definately have a talent for words. Try to get something published... The things we regreat in life are usually the things we never try. What's the worst that can happen? Ash
from taliana1 :
Thanks for the note--you are my first one! :) Luc is a normal, happy, healthy one year old boy. My sister is just an over-protective, first-time mother. I'm getting ready to write a thank you card for her gift, but I'm not feeling very thankful. :) Thanks again, tali
from be-zen :
They are some sauve dishes to say the least.
from aneedrumgirl :
the turkey thing is called triptophane, although i'm sure that's not how it's spelled. rock steady, adg
from poetical :
what was the poetry anthology...argh...you can't do that to me!!!
from musicchick44 :
Hey, just wanted to letcha know that people do click on those banners. Your diary is great so I'm glad I did!
from poetical :
Happy Holidays my fellow ink And may your New Year be blissful to the brink.
from pgagnon999 :
Cute kids. All I remember of office Christmas parties, from my days as a corporate slave is tedium and pretention. . .avoid, avoid, avoid.
from nessiegurlie :
Your diary is cool. I came to it from your cool banner that was on my Diaryland members page. That picture on your diary is cute!
from sunshine831 :
Just wanted to thank you for allowing me to read a little about your life. Your diary is really interesting and you seem really cool. Again thanks.
from sunshine831 :
Just wanted to thank you for allowing me to read a little about your life. Your diary is really interesting and you seem really cool. Again thanks.
from cuteyhunney :
heehee... that picture of your kids is so cute!!! I just had to say something *^-^*
from invisibledon :
whats up?
from whymeohgod :
Just letting you know that you have at least one 'macro-level' entry fan out here. I don't care about your life; I just want to read your opinions on issues. (...that's intended to be taken in the nicest way possible)
from angryquail :
I love your diary. Just wanted to let you know.
from justvisiting :
Congrats on being Quoted!
from andshewas :
I agree! Damn those MS fools! Soon enough, we'll all be forced to build our own computers.. Ahh the future.
from frootjoos :
i think your diary is purty already, but if you really want palm fronds and stuff, I've got ideas. i'm thinking little umbrellas, girly drinks, little hula dancers! i'm thinking tropical, dahling. e-mail me or leave a note or whatever.
from justvisiting :
Hey! I've been meaning to ask you another "how-to" question: How do you get your diarryrings to show up on a different page? Eternally (infernally?) yours, justvisiting.
from jaxraven :
And it's a beautiful day for the bombings too, grey and rainy here... thank god for your updates, lass, you're a breath of something akin to but not quite matching fresh air - as you are not transparent-ish, composed mostly of plant exhalations, and floating, I refuse to call you fresh air per se - and life really is nuts, is it not? Wonder how we'd be reacting if they had flown planes into the venice canals and the eiffel tower...
from justvisiting :
Bink is wearing a shag carpet shirt today (blue). She also has a green jacket. She loves that crap...not to mention her bell bottoms!
from johnpowers :
You write rather articulately.
from justvisiting :
Hi. Okay, so I started the bigbottoms ring, but I can't figure out how to get that image up. It can't be hosted on d-land's site, so now I have to post it somewhere else, and link to it. It's becoming a pain in my bum cakes! I've e-mailed Andrew for help. Maybe he'll be able to aid soon.
from cerebrate :
I do the same thing. I do.
from milkmaid :
Money Trail - It is a politician's reflex to follow the money...
from givenocredit :
i hope you don't mind, but i'm quoting the holding hands bit in my diary. thank you.
from angryquail :
Yes, you can say "no". Have a great day!
from danaelayne :
You made me cry with the post about the kicker and your daughter. I'm now addicted to your diary. :) Thanks for sharing yourself.
from connie-w :
i was searching the word "connie" @ google when i found yr diary @ dland :o) cool diary.
from hoebag9 :
Once again you've given me a bit of good advice, shared with me a nugget of wisdom. I'll make sure to speak to a financial advisor-you made an excellent point about that. Thanks for looking out for me, and thanks for "rooting for me." I really appreciate it.
from cerebrate :
I love the word "churlish". And I like you even more for having used it.
from frootjoos :
Arrgh. I'm trying to come up with a form for all my rotaryscone peeps so y'all can just fill in the information there at once and I don't have to keep retyping my questions millions of times. So it's taking a while. Working out the bugs. Meantime, dream! Think of what you want it to look like. I'll send you the link asap...
from justvisiting :
And the difference between leaving a note and signing a guestbook would be what, exactly? Anyhoo...I meant to write earlier about the asshole in the ice cream aisle. I'm not sure what it is that makes complete strangers, or anyone for that matter, feel they have the right to treat you any way they feel. In public. In front of your child. Our culture is so fucked when it comes to thinness. Don't get me wrong, I'm fat and wish I weren't, but I suspect that if some stranger said anything to me about what I chose to eat, I'd be hard pressed not to put my foot up his self-righteous ass...and explain later to my little one. At least, I'd like to think I would.
from sonrisatuya :
hehe...I love today's (8/18) entry. I hope you don't mind me passing the "Hide the Underwear" story onto some cyberless friends. Too cute!
from milkmaid :
Having had my share of dental horrors and the exact thing happened to me - here's a website for ya... http://www.sciential.net/lingual_nerve_damage_injury_from_anesth.htm What that doofy dentist did was stick his huge needle through your "lingual nerve" hence the "shock" feeling. Your heart was pounding due to the adrenalin they put in some novacaines - it makes them last longer... You should get a different dentist!
from alicewonders :
I just wanted to try this feature... I'm sorry you had such a horrible experience at the dentist. You don't have to go back there. Find a dentist you like and feel comfortable with. Ask around. I wish I could convince my kids' pediatric dentist to see me. The people in that office are so friendly and wonderful... AND you get a little toy when you are good.

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