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Well, it sounds like he is acting like a dude. A very young one actually...how old are you guys anyway? I mean, just that I had always pictured you all as being in your twenties. But sometimes I am actually wrong! GASP! My good thoughts are with you. XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

EXCELLENT attitude! Keep up the good work! XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

Dudes do that sh*t all the time. Good thing that we pull an equal amount. But yes the timing could have been better. XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

Oooh. V. disappointing to find that one's intended might not have a mind of his own. I mean no disrespect but to find that someone's friends' opinions on a big life decision matter more to him than his own...wassupwidat? I've never been a fan of the ultra long engagement, either. If you don't know by 1.5 years, well, then you might as well think of moving on. I wonder if you might want to have a frank, non-confrontational talk with Sean, just to find out what is going on. Because frankly, the thirties is deffo NOT too young for marriage. I once had a bf who called himself "just a kid" at 33. Can you imagine! I broke up with him very soon after. Keep the faith, keep your needs in mind as well as Sean's and I am wishing you the best of luck. My guess is that he'll realise that he is right, not his friends...XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

2.5 years before Biba showed up. Don't worry...things have a way of working out. It is just so hard to trust fickle fate, though, isn't it...XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

All. The. Time. Usually I just handle it by talking in Monster Talk. "Me have big day...me tired now. Me go bed now..." XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

Nah, you're awesome. Did I miss the part where you got engaged? Congratulations! XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

Duude, it is Sean's choice whether he gets upset or not. Your feelings and actions are valid. I'd hate to think that he was one of those Negator dudes. Smoochies! XOFifi

from fatcowww :

"Most of the time I feel like I always give in." :/ Commiserations. It's like that with us about the TV (ie I have to miss so many good docos because they inevitably clash with whatever he wants to watch... including football), and a couple of other little things where I let him get his own way because I'm too tired to argue.

from fifidellabon :

Hmmm...could be the seasonal change. It hits me every year. I call it the AFIs. XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

Hmmmm...I believe it is called "hormones" and "worrying about the future" etc. I do it as well... smoochies! XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

I had alwasy imagined tha t"fine" was a euphemism for "F*ck you!", especially during a fight...XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

There is absolutely nothing wrong with you! It is just Veree difficult to find a job these days...XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

Yes, weird stuff. Did you go? I think I'd have asked for clarification, then took it from there. XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

When you don't exactly know what to do, don't do anything quickly. But remember, almost anything can be undone! XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

Oh, Dude, I am the Latest. Bloomer. Ever.! XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

Well, here is my advice. Enjoy your life! Being married is very, very different from being engaged! Life has a way of just happening, so make sure that you are present in yours. My Mum used to tell us "Be a star in your life, not an extra!" So don't overthink, just take care of what is needed and don't forget to have fun! XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

Oh, eharmony is awesome! My friend Earl has fantastic luck with really nice people on that. XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

Sorry to hear of the stress. I hope that things will work out all right. XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

Simple. Simple is good. With the occasional splash out! XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

Oh, nonono, that is so horrible! I am so sorry!! That poor man, I feel so bad. My best friend lost his wife in a plane crash nigh on four years ago. Just hang with your friend and try to take your cues from him. Just being there is apparently more good than we know. You might just be keeping him alive by doing that...My biggest condolences. XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

You aren't doing anything wrong. Deffo. It sounds like simply the Winter blahs. Things will pick up soon! Unless, of course, I am completely clueless...XOFifi

from swimmmer72 :

Part of it is as simple as it sounds. Good acts bring good karma; bad acts bring bad karma. The more complicated aspect of it is defining what a good or a bad thing REALLY is. What you perceive as good might not actually be so, and vice versa. Karma is a long term thing and doesn't work for immediate gratification. Things will work out - keep it simple! Good karma! :)

from fifidellabon :

Oh, ish, feel better! XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

...'cos in the South it is sweltering in the Summer, hellishly so...and there are snakes...Still, an island might be nice. But I LIKE snow! But not like how you were in! XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

Boys can make even the love-of-their-life dream woman seem like a consolation prize. What is it with them? They can't be that stupid...can they? Ned was seeing others after we started seeing each other, but I was seeing someone else as well, so...eh, let it all go. Knowing boys as I do, he probably was seeing if there was anyone who could compare to you. Happy New Year! XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

Nope, you are deffo correct, it DOES seem to fly by faster. Somehow, if you can magically get yourself back to Child Time, it will be like when you were small, and it seemed five years between birthdays. I found that getting outside for a big walk every single day did it for me, and then Biba came along and really brought it home...XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

Well...I'd stick with "this is Sean" because if he WANTS to be introduced as the boyfriend, he will deffo let you know, then. Boys can be quite mystifying, can't they?! XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

SO good to see you writing again! I missed you! But it is deffo a busy time of year. I'm quite looking forward to the quiet, lazy days of January! XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

Hmmmm...why do dudes always throw out those little zingers....XOFifi Pee Ess I think that he likes you...

from fifidellabon :

Happy Thanksgiving, hope it was brilliant! XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

Then you are absolutely human! W all feel that way. We feel all ways! XOFifi

from swimmmer72 :

Feeling safe is so important. I have usually felt safe, never more than I do right now, and it has such a overall positive impact on everything else. The area where I work has deteriorated significantly over the past couple years and there have been muggings and shootings within a block or two, but as long as I have a safe place to come home to, I'm ok. Just take simple precautions and be aware of what is around you and you'll be ok.

from fifidellabon :

Oh, Lucky, I'm so sorry. I think that you are totally correct, though in that there are missing pieces of news, and that stores are exaggerated. Truly, things have to die down. All that one can do is to be prepared and aware, and then live one's life. I do seriously doubt that you will die at the hands of a crazy burglar, though. But the return to peace will be welcome...XOFifi

from swimmmer72 :

re: safety in the country. I can relate. Back in my Buffalo days, I owned some property in a very rural area. Horses, not cows, but still. It was my little slice of heaven until something happened to ruin it and then I became very aware that there were people out there who used the isolation to prey on others. I'm sorry to hear your sanctuary is troubled. I hope your crime wave passes. 26 miles to Starbucks???!!!

from fifidellabon :

Oh, whoah, I am really sorry to hear that! We just had a big, professional robbery here in City that was a bit of a shock. Usually, our robbers are bumbling, albeit successful. I hope that all returns to peace where you live. It sounds simply lovely!~ XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

Boys do that...it doesn't really matter why. The important thing is to not take it personally,even it if it is. In my birth family, we have a constant in the dating advice---it is this. YOU aren't auditioning for HIM, HE is auditioning for YOU! That is very valid. You don't have to wait for anyone. Often, a boy might even only be playing a stupid power game, but if you refuse to wait for him (And really, do you want to be treated like that?) he might deign to call but he will find you gonity gonity gone! Boys and even some men have NO idea of how they can affect a woman who likes them. Lucky, you are brilliant and smart and you deserve good things. There are many, many men out there, and even often boys. They just have a habit of showing up in unexpected places. Be your fine self, and make your plans. If he doesn't call within 48 huors, make a solid plan and don't DON'T deviate. If more women (and girls, I suppose) would draw the lines firmly, boys and men might be more accustomed to treating people with courtesy and respect. As you might guess, keeping someone dangling is a really "hot button" for me. Now go on out there and knock 'em dead! XOFifi Pee Ess MY Sean is flaky and selfish, as are many Seans that I know. Forch, he is just a friend so I can overlook it! (Practice saying "eh" after his name! XO!

from swimmmer72 :

Oooppps, it should have read "if Sean doesn't live UP to..."

from swimmmer72 :

I'll never think that "looking for the good in people" is a bad idea. It is definitely better than looking for the worst because when that's the case, you've already lost. If Sean doesn't live you to what you're hoping for from him, then don't waste any more time. There is someone out there that has to be at least "more right", and if you spend all your time thinking about Sean, you might miss a much better option. My opinion, but I'd keep expectations high and let them live up to them. Good luck!

from fifidellabon :

You didn't jump the gun a bit! Whatever he says, you win. And just relax, and enjoy the buzz, rush and tingle! I know, easier said than done, but I find that when I really relax and enjoy myself, I am simply irresistable! You as well! XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

Things have been brill in Lucky Land from the sound of it. I am glad that things went well. I agree with Swimmmy, though, Sean should make sure that HE measures up! XOFifi

from swimmmer72 :

Relax - you will be fine! Maybe it is him that should be worried about "measuring up"! I take it you have never physically met him? Ok then, you have the game to decide where you want to go with it, if anywhere. Whichever way it goes, you took a shot and at the very least, it will be a learning experience. Have a good time! XO :)

from fifidellabon :

Oh, nonstop fun in Lucky Land again! You can drywall?! That is a brilliant skill to have! I could have used that two years or so ago...As for Denmark, well, it is not the way that it used to be. It is deffo the Land of the Forthright still, though! Don't worry about the whole marriage arena. If you wait until you are ready and that YOU have found your match, then things will be easier and probably much more solid. When people marry in their twens, they break up a lot more often. (Way back when I was still in the dating world, I used to think of the money that I had saved on my hypothetical eventual divorce...) XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

Oh no! What happened? XOFifi

from swimmmer72 :

re: brick wall. It's because that when things are going well, you forget there is ALWAYS going to be a brick wall out there. Realizing that fact doesn't mean you won't run into it, it just means you'll be prepared and take it in stride. From someone who has hit a brick wall or 20... XO :)

from fifidellabon :

Oh, bah, anything on the tele is deffo staged. Of course, sad to say, from what I hear, the JS way of life actually is kind of real. I mean to say that people actually DO all that trashy stuff...but I deffo suspect that it is amped up for the tele. A quiet life is a lovely, if elusive thing! XOFifi Pee Ess, But yes, huh huh huh, I am sure that it is deffo entertaining to watch!

from swimmmer72 :

re: vaca from the vaca. Yep, I'm the same way. When I get a block of time off, I'm relentless with what I try and squeeze in and end up being twice as beat up as I was before I started my "time off". Going back to work tends to be where I end up getting a break. Of course, I've NEVER had to deal with everything you did! XO

from fifidellabon :

Oh, I always have to take a rest-up after a holiday! You've had some brilliant adventures, haven't you?! As long as you are all safe at the end. XOFifi

from swimmmer72 :

re: interview. I don't know if this is a case of wanting what you don't have - probably more common that we think - but look at it this way. ANY interview is good practice. Use this as an opportunity to brush up on your skills. You can always say no if you get a job offer OR then use it as a chance to demand a HUGE raise just on the off-chance they actually are prepared to offer you one. Either way, you're better off for the experience and it might come in handy when you go after a job you really want. Good luck! :)

from swimmmer72 :

The "good things come to..." doesn't say how long you have to wait. That's the catch-22 of the whole thing. I did find love at 16. Found sex soon afterward. Found love again at 25, again at 27. Then, at roughly five year intervals found "new love". Maybe there is a "lost and found" for love. I should check, because every time I "found" it, eventually it ended up lost. Now, yep, been there, done then, I am ok with patience. To each his own, and while patience is a virtue, there is still a lot to be said for recognizing a heart throb when you feel it and going for it. To be honest, I don't regret the three or four that ended up being "almosts", even with the resulting turmoil. :)

from fifidellabon :

That is just dudes. They do that. This way that way...They are not like that fake horrid Prince Charming from whom the princess ought to have runrunrun! They are totally human, just as we are. It is veree hard to not be impatient, though. Or even simply wonder WTF is up with THAT?! Sometimes just waiting things out silently (a good, contemplative silence, not a hostile one) can make all things become much more clear. XO, and have wonderful weekend! XOFifi Pee Ess I think that you are simply brilliant!

from swimmmer72 :

I don't know if this is the same thing, but I used to be impatient. You know, the hyper child whose motor was always set on high. I USED to think I could control on these outside aspects of my life, and while I did alright in the short term, fate had a way of stealing my victories. Now? I don't work at it so much, but rather, just do what I have to do to try and be a better person, and let the LOVE GODS decide what I deserve. Of course, the fuckers are ignoring me, so I guess I have to try harder, but the moral of the story is "good things come to those that wait" or some kinda bullshit like that. Yeah, I could have just written that and nothing else, you know, short story short, but what fun is that at 2:12AM? Good luck, it will happen eventually... :)

from fifidellabon :

Oh, that is so horrible!!! You have my complete sympathy. I do hope that you heal fast. I am so sorry about that. Once I did roast myself lobster red, and I believe that I did the same as you. XOFifi

from swimmmer72 :

Research. Well, only partly, and it applies to a journey much more than a relationship. I'll research a journey. Figure out where I want to go. How long to stay, what to see. If it isn't everything I've come to expect, I move on. A relationship is tougher. Yeah, some of the same principles apply, but way more intangibles. As one who has asked the same questions, I have to say I've always had a better sense of when it was time to leave and I haven't usually been wrong. Staying? I haven't stayed and those are the ones I wonder about, but what is done is done and I leave the rest up to fate. So far, fate has not usually brought us back, but has offered some closure. If that is as good as it gets, I'll accept it. You are right to ask these questions.

from fifidellabon :

I still do it, all of the time! I have been meant to write to you but it has been veree busy. Ned comes back tonight, though! Hooray! XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

Thee veree hardest thing, or at least one of them, that I have ever had to learn is to let that silence happen. You know, when you think that a noise is required, to not make it. On the telephone that is too difficult so I end the convo soon. But in life, it is a brilliant thing! You can get other people to fairly gabble just by being silent but looking interested. XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

Arrgh, but what I can't understand, nor accept, is that parents actually RAISE offspring like that and they don't seem to think that a thing is wrong. How could one miss that?! Naturally, corrective measures are lacking. It is because the parents are so completely self absorbed. Sigh...XOFIfi

from swimmmer72 :

That's the best thing you can do - being yourself! XO :)

from swimmmer72 :

I've always liked photography and I've always liked music. I got away from both for a while and when I moved to Erie, I had time to explore both again. I actually started taking pictures at national parks first, which eventually led back into concert photography, mostly because I get to concerts more frequently that I get to Utah. Does that answer your question? :)

from fifidellabon :

I agree, bars are ghastly. Unless it is a good bar, with lovely leather chairs and also extremely good Armagnac. And the clientele must be literate! Well, I think that you are on the right track when you say that it might be every place and no place. I try to always not conform to what "they" say to do, although I do intend to have a nameplate "THEY" on my office door when I get around to it. I met Ned at my guardian angel neighbour's house, and he (Ned) was still dating the last GF before me. So I didn't have to be afraid of him and things just sort of blossomed over the Spring of the year. I was also seeing someone else. But what it was at my neighbour's house was that he/we were starting up a seisiun. (Irish music) That is how I actually started playing Irish, actually. My sister met her husband at a party. She knew he was IT when he...oh, well, I'll tell you later. All right, I'll tell you now but it's different from how it sounds. He was talking about eating deer heart. See? You would have to know our family and all of the inside jokes. We are strange! But we lived in Michigan for a bit! So, just go out and have fun and be your fine self. You might meet someone in a park, or like Swimmmy said at a festival, or at a street fair, or boating or at the library...Don't worry, things will happen. XOFifi

from swimmmer72 :

Lately, I've been meeting a lot of people at music festivals. On some level, it may not be much diffeent than a bar, but in other ways, it is perfect. If a festival caters to a certain genre of music, you have already identified some common interests. It is a casual way to get to know someone - no pressure. Anyway, since I know so many musicians, I get a lot of introductions. I'm not on a "fast-track" to anywhere, so maybe down the road, something comes of it and maybe it doesn't, but either way, I have a lot of fun with it. For you? It may not be festivals, but doing things you are interested in should expose you to other like-minds. I would agree - bars are a terrible place to meet people. :)

from fifidellabon :

Whoooah...well it sounds positive...XOFifi

from swimmmer72 :

Yeah, you shall see. My question would be - how does he reconcile the sweet side with the side that doesn't seem to care? re: wisdom. I was wise at birth. Unfortunately, I do so many bizarrely stupid things most people have decided I spout wisdom by accident. They could be right.... :)

from fifidellabon :

Eh, don't sweat it. Boy stuff always works out, one way or another. The world just has funny timing! XOFifi

from swimmmer72 :

I think a lot of things happen for a reason, and maybe I'm just clueless, but I also know that I don't always know what the reason is. SOOOOO, personally, if I don't know the reason, I'm not sure I care what the reason is, if that makes any sense. The "meant to be" thing? That makes more sense, to me at least. I can think of lots of things that aren't meant to be and I'm ok with most of them. Is there a reason why something isn't meant to be? I don't know and I'm not sure I really give a shit. The days of "being tormented into eternity" are way over, thank God. One last piece of nonsense: There is no point in looking for "what is meant to be"; it will find you when it is good and ready. The "what is not meant to be"? The sooner you recognize it, the better. :)

from swimmmer72 :

AND, to set the record straight: FIFI is the adorable one, not me... :)

from swimmmer72 :

re: Sean. Well, yeah, I'd be pissed, too! Exclusive or not, you clearly have feelings for him and there is definitely an imbalance between who cares how much. Choice is yours - deal with him or not. Personally, I wouldn't, but only because I'm past game playing and he isn't. You have to decide for yourself.

from fifidellabon :

Well, I can tell you for sure that a honeymoon in Ireland is brilliant! XOFifi Pee Ess Why wait for that, just go as soon as ever you can!

from fifidellabon :

What a wonderful and wise thinking woman you are! Your family is veree lucky to have you! I agree with your point-of-view. XOFifi Pee Ess Don't you just adore Swimmmy?!

from bibles :

I'm sorry your friend is being quite unpleasant. I never could understand people who just break off connections with their siblings because their siblings aren't, well, them. It's virtually unheard of in my culture and I find it very sad.

from swimmmer72 :

Personally, I have no problem being asked questions, usually welcoming them. 20 of them? I guess it would depend on whether a dark room, a bright light, and a rubber hose was involved. Bamboo under the fingernails? Hmmmm... I don't know the extent of your relationship with Sean and I really hate to disagree with Fifi, but if you have been going out for more than 6 months and the questions is really starting to bug you, then ask, especially if not knowing is starting to affect the relationship and how you feel about him. It doesn't have to be in the form of an ultimatum - casual conversation is just fine. You may find out he has a completely different thought process and why shouldn't you know that now rather than another year? Maybe it's a deal breaker and maybe it isn't, but at least you would know where you stand. Just my two cents. :)

from fifidellabon :

Duuuuuuuude!!! Don't do it!!! Don't ask him "where this is going"! Because, really, do you really care that much, as long as you are having fun? I'd never ask the question until you have spent four season with him. That is a good rule for if you are going to marry anyone as well, four seasons. I learnt that from a real dumbass, but in this he was correct. I am not saying not to care, but if you"define" things and put names to them, it creates a pressure situation, and that leads to no fun. Be the woman of mystery, the one who is not predictable, the one who is not "always trying to tie me down, trying to own me" as many dudes would say. Create your own security that depends on you, not someone else who could take it away. Let the dating just be, and enjoy it to the fullest, all with no pressure. Have lots of lovely fun, because you deffo deserve it! Much love! XOFifi Pee Ess Sorry for the Bossyboots bit, but it is only because I care! Well, and also it is my natural state as well! XO!

from swimmmer72 :

Let's face it: if you don't have a relationship, you want one. If you do have one (and you're past the "honeymoon" period), they get boring, tedious, and suffocating. At least much of the time. When I write "you", I mean most of all of us. I go back and forth on this, too, so I can appreciate where you are coming from... Mostly, I don't care anymore and am happier for it, or so it seems. I just started reading your diary, so I don't know any of the particulars. I'd like to say "follow your heart" but that's not always the best advice either. Good luck!

from fifidellabon :

Oh, loo mirrors, they are horrible!! I think that they make them that way on purpose, to make us feel bad. I seriously think that they do that to changing room mirrors as well. I'll bet that you are totally cute! XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

I am deffo a bad girl wannabe...only just think of all that we don't have to worry about by not actually being bad...XOFifi

from karbonphyber :

For some reason any time I hear the name Laurie I picture a female that looks like Andy Richter.

from fifidellabon :

Well, I think that you answered your questions perfectly at the end of the entry. Yes indeed, sometimes just going with the flow is perfect! And not worrying/planning of the future is a wonderful, wonderful way to approach the whole boy thing! XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

I deffo believe in lust at first sight! XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

I as well, miss my grandparents. Coming from the tribe that I do, my grandfather was more of a father figure to me, and I idolised my grandmother. With them both gone (far too young, I say), I feel adrift at times, and I find myself talking to them in my car. (Oh dear, Fifi has gone bonkers...) Well, don't worry about how things progress with Sean, just take it one day at a time and have fun. Huh huh huh, then when they think of you, they think "Always fun" and then you end up married, so be careful there! Here is wishing you a brilliant week! XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

I don't know, but aren't heels wonderful?! The shoe kind, not the cad kind! XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

It might be that when we are in a wonderful mood we expect it to continue...and we want our friends to feel wonderful as well, so we are more attuned to what goes on outside of ourselves. So we notice the bad more, it lands harder because we are expecting good. Oh, well...just a theory. I am totally rambling! XOFifi Pee Ess I hope that your day is splendid!

from fifidellabon :

I have it! Don't "take" the words any way at all! Just read them for what they are, and wait to see what the future brings. Forch, being older makes us more patient and rational! XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

Just my theory---but I believe that dudes like bitches because if they land one, then in some warped way, they think that they have won. Won what, I don't know...XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

Just curious, why are your eyes dilated? Doctor? XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

Oh, Lucky, I can't imagine how I missed your last note! Yes I am deffo on the East Coast. It is in the Mid Atlantic region. If you check your stats, though, sometimes I come up as California, but right now am back to being somewhere in NJ. Happy weekend! XOFifi Pee Ess I used to live in Michigan, once...for a little while...

from fifidellabon :

Babies can be awfy fun, can't they?! I never miss college/uni. I couldn't be bothered to show up for graduation. And I deffo had a good time there! Strange...XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

AHHH-ha-ha-ha-ha-haaaaaaa! My fav-o-riffic joke is this. What do you get when you cross a penis and a potato? A dictator! XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

I am of the "keep it at 'eh'" school. When Ned and I were first dating, I even said "MUST we call it a "relationship"? Can't we just float ambiguously along?" And he said, after a pause.."I'M having SO much FUN!" I think it was because he had just jettisoned a clinger...XOFifi Pee Ess Good things will happen. Unforch, it is usually in their own blasted time!

from fifidellabon :

Oooh! I Loooooove Austin Powers! As for age, Bah! Let it just be. No matter who you are, unless you are the very oldest person on Earth, there is someone looking at you and saying "Now if I were THAT young..." so if you just happen to be turning thirty, well, take it from someone who is older than that---there are far worse things than being thirty! XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

A holiday sounds just the thing! XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

Oh, everyone gets crazy moods like that, so don't feel bad. Sometimes my mood swings make me think that I've gone barking mad---then the Crimson Tide rolls in. I tell Ned "Imagine being at the mercy of something that makes you insane, much against your will, and on top of that, being the one that produces those things!" Pesky hormones... bah! XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

Hah, you are not boring! I haven't even worked out your age, so I've decided that you are 28 years old. Yes, that is quite disgusting, the women who sleep with little boys. Honestly! Can you imagine! And it can't be much fun...XOFifiPee Ess Don't worry over non-returned emails. Sometimes one is better off with a non-responder. What I mean to say is that some are veree egotistical and we don't really need that...

from fifidellabon :

I almost always think of boys and sex. I mean, it is a lot more entertaining than say, taxes...XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

I would deffo go for them all, unless they were reeeaaallly...not. Because it is a form of entertainment. Even a bad date is grand for picking apart and mocking later on with your friends! XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

Oh, think of eharmony as a harmless bit of fun. I do have a friend who ended up getting married to an eharmony match.! XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

Pee Ess Thank you for your notes. I've had enough of death for a while! XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

New computers are brill, aren't they?!XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

I know what it is like to leave your stylist after many years, and I think that it really might feel as a divorce would. However, I am deffo waaaayy happier at the spa now. XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

I simply can't imagine how anybody could drive and text! I cannot even drive and phone, but that is no bother. I am not much of a phone talker. I'd rahther talk face-to-face, preferably over drinks! XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

Three hours of sleep? EIGHT hours are barely enough to function! XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

No Facebook for me! Nor Myspace, at least not under my real name, no LinkedIn, none of that. My biz is my biz, and if I wanted the world to know it, I would tell them. I am at the front of the Neo-Luddite movement. XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

Oh, some dudes are just hot. I file them under "eye candy" if the shoe fits! XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

I just added you to my "buddy list". I had thought that I had done it already earlier. Hi! XOFifi

from fifidellabon :

Ach, well, some people just don't know when they are making a mistake. ( You know, missing out by choosing a zircon over a diamond, you being the diamond...) I'll bet that you will look splendid. As for the big New Year's Events, well, they usually are all fine and all, but in truth, I've had better NYEs when I have stayed home. All the best to you in the new year! XOFifi

from avox :

Honestly, if I looked fat in my pants, I'd want someone to tell me so I don't have people all over secretly thinking "Oh my! Does her ass ever look big!". That's more humiliating... Just knowing mutiple people would think the same negative thing!

from jimbostaxi :

I wish christmas was longer too, I never really get to enjoy it because of my hectic work schedule. I just added you to my list again for someone reason when I logged on to diaryland your name was gone from my list :>)

from blacksheet :

Hey there. To answer your question.. There are many things I dislike about the diaries I read. I usually read a sentence or two and if it doesn't catch my interest, I move on to the next. I'm not sure what it was about yours that caught my attention.. -I'm female :)

from direwulf :

Ha, actually I had just added you right before you noticed. So the way I added new people, was to look at the side boxes on the screen that say 'recent public entries' or 'users online right now', and I would look at names that stood out or seemed interesting. And then I would peruse thei diaries to see if they wrote anything interesting(I have low standards..hahaha)But I like your's particularily because your entries are long(none of those one paragraph updates), and you seemed to write about interesting things...at least to me. Your reaction is the same that I feel about my diary...Why would anyone read?!!!

from fifidellabon :

I think that he sounds a wee bit clueless and in time would most likely want you to wait on him hand and foot. Like a good little woman. /Fifi Pee Ess Hi!

from chitrod :

No i'm not mad that you browsed my thoughts, I have some more that I'll write later when I have the time.

from chitrod :

I was not aware that anyone read my diary other than a few friends from college. I don't write unless I need someone to talk to and since i live alone I that happens usually when something bothers me.

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