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from phangasm :
Oh, and thanks for the note :)
from phangasm :
Yeah, fresh start. Sort of forced on me... maybe I'll tell the story sometime.
from dukkha-tanha :
Thanks so much for your kind words. I appreciate it so much. I'm so glad that you're reading me! =)
from imadad2 :
I had not even thought about macros. Thanks. I'll start brainstorming to see if I can do it faster at least with a macro.
from tailbonelust :
Haha. Sorry for being a bit of a bitch then. ;]
from tailbonelust :
Ah, okay. All forgotten, then. :) Just for the record, I do have a warm oozing core.
from imadad2 :
I thought about that this morning, but I really have not had many new additions to my friends list and most of the people that read my diary already know I am a dork ;o)
from tailbonelust :
I am not so rotten that I would leave inflammatory remarks in another's diary, as you've just done.
from imadad2 :
Congrats, I am happy for you.
from manchmal :
I like those names! And I really like Josephine. This book I read REALLY helped me quit smoking...Alan Carr's Easy Way to Quit Smoking. I'd pick it up...a fellow diaryland person recommended it, and she quit when she got pregnant...maybe you'll like it, too. At least now you have a good reason to quit!
from mozangeles :
Congratulations! I am so happy for you! xoxo - me
from manchmal :
Hey! That's fantastic! What's the boy name? For some reason, I am a little obsessed with redneck girl names, like Lila. Delilah. Or...I don't know...various weird names. I like the name Sophie, too. But it is becoming popular. I'm pissed because my name, Emily, used to be rare, and now everyone is named Emma. I think G. Paltrow named her kid Emma. My sister is Molly. I like that name, but it sortof reminds me of the name of a cocker spaniel. I don't know. :) Congrats!
from manchmal :
See, I wish I had YOUR coworkers. That's fantastic. I am glad they came through for you. I will take your advice about the bubbling soda drink. My new theory is that I am allergic to soy. And stress. :p
from imadad2 :
OMG, that is horrible. I am glad you were not home when it happened, God forbid if you were. I hope they catch whoever did it and give'em the chair !!!
from imadad2 :
I can answer your question on gas prices. The United States problem is refining capacity. We have to import gas because our refinaries are at or near 100% capacity. We have not built a new one because it takes about ten years to complete one. Several companies are working on trying to increase their capacity, but until then, gas will be the price it is until oil prices drop.
from imadad2 :
It's pizza night at the homedtead, so I will be slamming some evil this evening. Canned chicken is not that bad when I know what I will be eating tonight ;o)
from imadad2 :
Now I want a potato with all the goodies. Good thing I am at work and only brought my canned chicken.
from imadad2 :
There is nothing wrong with a baked potato, it is all the crap they put on it. If you like the potato, have it, just skip the butter, bacon bits, and whatever else they throw on it. A steak does sound good. I am jealous.
from jalepenogirl :
Just wanted to say THANKS for caring ;)
from imadad2 :
I've noticed that there are three kinds of people in the world. Those who are lazy (they do nothing and leech off evryone), Those who are good at a lot of things (You and I), and those who can only be good at one thing at a time. I have a lot of co-workers who make their lives their jobs. Not me. I forget the job when I step out the door and find other things to work on. The yard, the house, workout, sports, a business, etc. A lot of accountants are so stuck on their jobs that they have no interests outside of work. That makes it hard for me to talk with others, because they want to talk accounting. Who wants to talk about their job? 99% of the time it is to complain. I don't want to hear that.
from imadad2 :
Hang in there. Starting a new job is always tough at first. As far as "NO FUN ACCOUNTANTS?" You kill me. Besides you and I, there are zero fun accountants out there. (Don't tell my boss).
from mozangeles :
No prob! username: moz; pw: apostle.
from manchmal :
The good news is that this is yet another reason to have sex all the time. :)
from manchmal :
Hello, hello. I left you a guestbook message...in your actual guestbook. :) e.
from chickpea981 :
time to see the gyno to be sure if you're pregnant or not. Sometimes the stress can give you the PMS symptoms but then the period and cramps dont ever come. It's happened to me a few times and with all your work hours, I wouldn't doubt it. But the vomiting is not so much fun so yeah, time to see the gyno methinks.
from jalepenogirl :
Thanks for the note. I e-mailed you the username & password ;)
from imadad2 :
I over did it with the witch doctor rain dance didn't I? Sorry ...
from imadad2 :
You sound pregnant. Give it another few weeks and then try the pregnancy test again. If you can't wait, you OB/GYN will know for sure.
from jalepenogirl :
Sorry I lost your e-mail address, but I sent you the info to your Yahoo IM blueyydgirl. If for some reason that does not work, let me know what your e-mail addy is...OR e-mail me at [email protected] THANKS & HAVE A GREAT WEEKEND! Hugs, Me
from imadad2 :
Glad it worked. That outfit rides up my butt crack. How you women wear thongs is beyond me. Have a great weekend and 4th.
from imadad2 :
I'll get my witch doctor outfit on ASAP. I doubt it will help, but I'll do the best that I can. We are lucky being so close to the gulf. We have dry spells, but we have never had a watering ban in the almost ten years I have lived here.
from jalepenogirl :
GREAT to see you back writting again, but HAPPY!!! You deserve every bit of it =)
from chickpea981 :
Oh! Thought you were gone for good. I tend to remove diaries that haven't updated for over 3 months and just recently did that sweep through. But you're back (yay) so I'll re-add you!
from imadad2 :
Welcome back. I missed you so much. It is also refreshing to hear how happy you are ...
from rockabillie :
Nice to see you back!
from krugerpak007 :
I can sooo relate!
from krugerpak007 :
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from imadad2 :
Thanks for the note. I scratch my head to as to why she won't get a job. She plans oin going to school for haircutting and stuff in the fall. Trust me, the end is near. This new home is the last straw. If she cannot right the ship after this, she is done.
from mozangeles :
Call your complex manager and ask if an elephant recently moved in upstairs...LOL. I am so evil. xoxo - me
from manchmal :
i'm a'lockin' up for now. userid: dog passwd: fur Emily
from mozangeles :
Congratulations and good luck! I smoked for 6 years addictively, I think, more non-addictively, and I am going on more than a year sober!!! :) xoxo - me
from jalepenogirl :
I'm glad you found me here at my new place. THANKS for adding me to your fav's =o). Sorry to hear your Ex played dirty, you deserve better so much better!!! Keep your chin up my friend.
from mozangeles :
WHAT? That motherfucker got your Jeep?!?!?! WHAT THE HELL KIND OF LEGAL SYSTEM DO WE HAVE HERE IN THE USA? That pisses me off. xoxo - me
from mozangeles :
Username: moz; pw: apostle! Happy reading! :) xoxo - me
from mozangeles :
I am sending you my best thoughts and heartfelt wishes for your father. :) xoxo - me
from imadad2 :
I'll say a prayer for your pops. 90 is a good long life. I pray that I can get to that age before I move on. If you need someone to talk to, even if it is email or notes, feel free.
from lasweetthing :
I will be locking this diary up soon! You can find me at jalepenogirl
from imadad2 :
I am sorry, it was something I ate. The next time I am in the library I'll be more aware of the people around me. :o)
from ms-turner :
Congrats on Scott, and tell him congrats for knowing all the buttons to push. :-) It's good to know you're smiling again.
from mozangeles :
Congratulations on the divorce!!!!! And Congratulations on falling in love! I am so happy for you! And thank you for answering me. :) xoxo - me
from ms-turner :
Whoa, come back here! You fall off the earth and come back talking about a guy named Scott.... Come on girl, spill the details.
from mozangeles :
You are gone forever and now you are talking about some guy named Scott! Explain missy! xoxo - me
from lasweetthing :
HAPPY ConFUCKINGgratulations! I knew you would find happiness again, thats just great. Take care and have a great day =) Hugs, Sweet Thing
from cheatedwife :
hey! just wanted to check in and say hello. i see lots has changed for you..i like that i missed the bad and seemed to come in just in time for the good--i'm happy to see that you seem to be in a better place. Good luck w/your move! :)
from mozangeles :
where the hell are ya? i miss you! xoxo - me
from chickpea981 :
WTF? That's my quote in that note below to a different diary where a completely ignorant moron was spouting out verbal diarrhea. Hell, I agreed with what you said because you made your point nicely. Anyway, that's not why I am leaving a note... I'm leaving one because I don't know where I've been but I guess not here because I just finally caught up with you from June onward. All I can say is WOW! and Holy shit! And Good luck with this new move and I wish you all the happiness in the world. A fresh new start is exactly what you need. Also, fantastic ass my dear!
from mozangeles :
I am quoting what a friend of mine wrote to someone else who felt this way about Hurricane Katrina. But, I agree with it, so here it is: "Just out of curiosity, how do you expect people who are dirt poor and don't have enough money to pay for gas to drive a car out or those who never had a car because they rely on public transit to get out of a city where a hurricane is coming? Clearly you've never been to New Orleans to see the poverty levels there and understand just how so many people sought refuge in the superdome." It might be nice to consider all situations before passing out your sympathies.
from sexycreature :
A lot of the people who stuck around were way too poor to leave. But for those who could have left? Well, they took their chances, didn't they.
from pretty-pussy :
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from imadad2 :
I hop onto your diary waiting to read what is going on with you, and I see the nicest ass in a long time. Very nice. You put a smile on my face :o)
from mozangeles :
That's interesting. See, I lived in Italy for a few years, Firenze to be exact (which is in Tuscany - Northern Italy), and during the 2 years I was there, I traveled all over the north and did not see that dish once. And when inquired about, they said that they had not heard of such a thing. xoxo - me
from imadad2 :
You send me a pic, I send you a pic. [email protected]
from mozangeles :
Sounds like it! I am glad that you are having fun. xoxo - me
from mozangeles :
Coke? For shame!!! :( xoxo - me
from imadad2 :
Did you know that the Gubment forces trailor makers to use certain metals that attract tornadoes? It is a conspiracy that I have read. That explains why the trailor park is the first place tornadoes touch down. ;o) Have a great weekend.
from imadad2 :
I don't mind the flooding, but the wind damage is what I am worried about. 100+ mph winds cannot be a good thing. If it happens, I hope there are zero deaths.
from mozangeles :
Have you considered therapy? It seems like it might be a good idea, especially considering the way that you are thinking/feeling right now. Just a suggestion. I hope that things that work things out one way or another. xoxo - me
from ms-turner :
Oh baby, I'm so sorry. I will not pretend to knwo what you are feeling, but I've witnessed what happens to a woman during a divorce, even one that was decided by both partners. You're in my thoughts.
from mozangeles :
:( I cannot imagine what you are going through. Did you ever think that this would happen to you? It must be surreal. xoxo - me
from imadad2 :
Of course your lawyer wants you to squash your husband. They get off on that. Do what is fair. You are one of the few that don't want blood when a seperation happens. As always, I wish you the best of luck.
from lasweetthing :
Hi, you're quite welcome! Life's to short to be misserable. Just take care of yourself ;o)
from mozangeles :
I am sorry to hear about your divorce, but at least it is amicable, and for that, you should be fortunate. :) I hope that you find whatever it is that you are looking for. xoxo - me
from imadad2 :
You're kidding??? Just when I think a problem is solved ... :o)
from lasweetthing :
Just thought I would say hi. I know it's been a while, but I read your entry...Nice to know you're smiling! Find happiness where you can ;o) Hugs, Sweet Thing
from mozangeles :
HAHAHAAHA. The title of that entry is so hysterical! xoxo - me
from mozangeles :
Well Jesus Christ, I almost burst a blood vessel getting all worked up! What are you doing to me?!?!
from mozangeles :
Well, I cannot and will not win everyone over, now will I? Open your mind (and your humor) a bit, and perhaps you will �like me� again. Not that I am losing sleep over it. Trust me. If you cannot handle that other people have personal convictions, that is your loss in this world.
from mozangeles :
Um, excuse me? I sincerely hope you are not being serious with your comment. First off, I never claimed to be sweet and innocent, but I am opinionated, and I have always been. I apologize if that article offended you, but in my own defense, I did not write it. I am just able to find humor in all things political, and especially being from California, I find it to be witty. Secondly, I have friends from all over the world, and I certainly do not judge other people being from Texas just because Dubya is, whom I hate. I write bullshit in my diary from time to time, but the only time it is to be taken seriously is when it actually is, which is very rare, and most times, locked in my private entries. Once again, I am sorry you took offense (and I probably have made fun of Texans before, so I am not going to cop out here), but I did not intend to offend anyone.
from mozangeles :
Well, I do not think he is even guilty of touching the boy, but I do agree with you about his mother. I think she is a con artist, and I think the defense proved that well. I think she should be flogged for putting her son through that. Besides, people should not be letting their children sleep in a grown man's bed no matter what, especially after the first incident. I was so happy that he was found innocent! xoxo - me
from chickpea981 :
Thats the first time I've heard someone be angry at the parents. Go you!
from manchmal :
I am SO with you. That woman is an awful, terrible mother who shouldn't be allowed to have children. And to capitalize on your kid like that...grrr.
from chakra-chick :
I couldn't agree more...women like that piss me off too!
from invisibledon :
hey
from mozangeles :
WTF. That is scary. I think those people should be arrested! xoxo - me
from imadad2 :
Preach on. I have been wanting a cell phone ban in cars and trucks for years. Stats show that driving while talking on a phone makes you just as bad a driver as someone who is drunk. Pretty scary stuff.
from ms-turner :
Honey I am so sorry! Some people really fucking suck. If you find out who did it, give me a buzz, I'm good at 'rehabiliting' certain kinds of people. :-)
from mozangeles :
I cannot fucking believe that happened to you. People are seriously sick fucks and need to be tortured. People just do not give a shit that certain things are irreplaceable and priceless. I hope you find that friend of yours and torture them. By the way, it is good to have you back, even if it to read about how shitty things are going for you! :( xoxo - me
from imadad2 :
Man, that sucks. I hope they recover the goods. Renters insurance is one of those things that you never really think of. I had it when I moved to H-Town, but never had it when I lived in upstate NY. I felt safer there. If you find out who did it, let me know. I am quite good at knee capping people.
from imadad2 :
I do appreciate your kind words. I owe it to my kids and the 10 years we have been together. As long as I see an effort, I need to be patient and try to make this work. If the constant harping on me during this coaching attempt and any resistance from me trying to do a bodybuilding show, I am gone. I am tired of waiting to do things. She always said, "The kids are to young, wait." Well, not anymore. I am not getting any younger, and I need to be able to have a hobby. I have a feeling though, that this coaching gig and the bodybuilding will send her over the edge and cause us to seperate. She has been so nasty to me since the practice stuff has started.
from imadad2 :
She has made big strides in trying to treat me better. Last year, I could not even coach baseball. She would not allow that. She would not allow me to train for bodybuilding either. If you notice, the problems have not been as bad as before. She is seeing a therapist still, and I am giving her the benefit of the doubt. Now, if she stops going to that therapist and a reversal of her behavior happens, I am so outta there. I owe her time as long as I see her trying. I am not perfect, but I do need a spouse that is not so jealous and controlling. She is trying.
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from ms-turner :
There's not a damn thing wrong with you. I'm married, and more than once I've had a fantasy (or ten) about random men. But the reality never lives up to the fantasy.
from mozangeles :
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. I have fantasies about other men, too. It is natural and normal. AND hot. xoxo - me
from ms-turner :
Good to see you feeling a bit better. Kitties like to snuggle between your legs because that is the warmest spot on the human body.
from mozangeles :
Aw, I am really sorry to hear that. That is absolutely awful. Keep trying to have a baby. It will happen. I cannot believe you had to go through that. My sympathies are with you. xoxo - me
from ms-turner :
Baby, I am so sorry. There is nothing else I can say, but I do know what you're going through. You're in my thoughs.
from chakra-chick :
I'm so sorry sweetie. I know how that feels. I was pregnant last year and didn't even know. I got sick at work one day and went to the Doc - he told me I had lost the baby. I'm here if you need to talk dear... ~smooches~
from mozangeles :
Good luck! I hope it is nothing serious. Take care and get better! xoxo - me
from mozangeles :
Oh no! What's wrong? Have you been to a doc??? xoxo - me
from mozangeles :
ARGH, I hate when I accidentally click that thing before typing anything. Anyway, your entry was disturbing! HOW SCARY! xoxo - me
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from imadad2 :
Oh, I'd really like that, but my wife would question the heck out of me. I'd have to hide them and eat them when I got the chance. I could munch on them at work. Do you mind sending them there? Email me [email protected] I am leaving for the day, but will get back to you on Monday. You rock.
from imadad2 :
I only go into those lingerie stores because they smell nice. It has nothing to do with what is in the store. ;o) Chapel Hill is the brand I buy at Costco. It is about the only brand I like. Your family makes that? Are you ready ... are you ready ... how about hooking me up with some coupons?
from ms-turner :
Aloe lotion honey. Trust me.
from mozangeles :
Go ahead and scratch that ass, sister! xoxo - me
from imadad2 :
Afraid not. Even if I was invited, my wife would not want me to go unless it was our whole family going. I never go anywhere by myself. There was a car show that was in Houston not to long ago, and an import model I like/lust over was there. I could not sneak away to get a peak of her. Sorry. I'd love to meet you, but chances are slim and none as long as I am married. :o(
from mozangeles :
"My husband thinks I am having an affair with my darling friend Michelle. I think that the truth is that he hopes I am because she is one hot italian girl, but alas I am not licking her couchie, whoa is me!!!" HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHA OMG. That made my pissy day so much better! xoxo - me
from mozangeles :
Where are you? Is everything ok? I miss you. xoxo - me
from imadad2 :
Not all of us could be born and bread in Texas, but I got here as fast as I could. ;o) One of the ten commandments is "thou shall not kill", but Jesus never condemmed the Romans for killing criminals. I pray I am never faced with this dilema, because I know Jesus would forgive, but I don't think I could. I'd want the killer or rapist to feel the same pain he caused. Is it the right way? Not according to the bible, but I have to be honest. That is how I would react if placed in these families shoes.
from kisskeri :
Thanks for your help. I talked to my Aunt this morning, and she also uses that, but here it's called Ponstan. (Same thing though) so she suggested the same thing, going to the dr and asking about it. I dont care much for taking meds but if it helps, Drug me up baby!
from kisskeri :
Sure no problem. User name is your own and password is "Used".
from mozangeles :
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!! Yay, you are 30. You are sexy! You are hot! You are a vision of loveliness! xoxo - me
from dukkha-tanha :
All true. We rule. You'll see, spend some time in your 30's and you'll never want to go back (and I'll be 35 in 5 months, not that I'm counting or anything). And this: "Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire pig, just to get a little sausage" just made my whole morning!
from lillymoon :
The object one dreams about is rarely the actual reason the dream is being dreamnt. For example a wedding actually represents death. I agree with the last note. It could be something in your current relationship that is causing you to go back to this painful memory. But good luck with that. I'm heading to ending a poisionus relationship here soon, if you read my diary, he is Mr. 27 (26). In other news I could never get that link for my moon sign but I found an even better link for you. http://www.0800-horoscope.com/birthchart.html Enjoy! : )
from sexycreature :
Hi, I have dreams almost every night about a guy I work with, A, that are pretty nonsexual, but sometimes sexual, and they too are extremely real and distracting. I am also married. It seems that really the cause isn't this guy, he is just representing what's been missing in my relationship with my husband, intimacy and openness. I'm realizing that as I tell my husband more and more and let him in on thoughts I've been hiding, the dreams are fading and we are becoming close again. I'm not sure if this applies to you, but your entry really struck a bell.
from mozangeles :
By the way, thank you so much for your comment. It really made me feel good about myself. So, thank you! :) xoxo - me
from imadad2 :
I have dreams about past women in my life all the time. IT IS A DREAM. I hope you are me, that you enjoyed the dream, and even got something out of it. However, you have no plans on acting on the dream. I have no plans to look these women up, it is tempting, but I am not going to do it. It is in the past. These dreams will come and go. There is nothing wrong with you. If there is, there is something wrong with me.
from dope-slave :
hay sexy
from ms-turner :
Sweetie, you and me are in the same boat. I've been having those sort of dreams as well....
from mozangeles :
I know how you feel. I still have dreams about my high school boyfriend ALL the time, and that was at least 8 years ago, and that relationship also took me a long time (several years) to get over. In my dreams, I am always leaving my current boyfriend for him, too. It's scary. xoxo - me
from imadad2 :
Man, that bites. It sounds like you have the same friends as my wife. Do they talk shit about you behind your back to? If so, it is a Houston thing.
from mozangeles :
Aw. :( If we lived closer, I would definitely take you out - on me! :) Where do you live, btw? xoxo - me
from mozangeles :
Wow, we do have good taste! I really like that engagement ring and wedding band. I like simple treasures. And the dress - I always thought wedding dresses should have more color! :) xoxo - me
from mozangeles :
Aw! :( Cheer up, you vision of loveliness! xoxo - me
from aliboomboom :
I'd love to have a new reader. My username is alexia and my password is 07gcr10. I'll be back to read more of you. I totally agree with your stance on prenups though, ridiculous.
from dukkha-tanha :
Awesome entry. I've been reading imadad2 and thegoodbiboy's take on the whole situation and it was refreshing to read your's...you saved me an entry since you said just what I've been thinking all damn day. Thank you. =)
from imadad2 :
Your latest entry has me applauding you. You are the type that does not get greedy and take. If you had said, I am taking half of everything, I would have said "Gold Digger". Now, you are entitled to something, but if you are not comprimising and are out to rape your ex of everything, you are a gold digger and a mean person and deserve nothing. Excellant entry. I admire you more now than ever.
from thegoodbiboy :
Oh, and as for my marriage, yes I was married, and yes I am divorced. I paid my ex $15,000 when we were divorced, to pay off debt. She didn't go and transfer (steal) money from one account to the next. She only asked for what was fair, or as you would say, what she had coming to her. I didn't care, it was the right thing to do. If Mrs. Strahan had done the same, asked for a fair settlement, I wouldn't have a problem. She didn't.
from thegoodbiboy :
How do you know what she did? I am not married, but I do know how it works. It's an equal deal. I don't know what his wife brought to the table as far as their marriage, but I know what he brought. I do know that she was reporting stuff to the cops from years ago. If it was so horrible, why did she stay? She stayed because of the money. And you know what, if I'm out making 10 million a year, you better be home sucking my dick and giving me support. Not all woman are evil, but I think this one was out to get him from the start. "Oh, it was worse back in the 90s." Well you should have left him then, honey. All I know about him is he yelled at her. All I know about her is she stole 3.3 mill and tried to ruin his reputation.
from thegoodbiboy :
Don't get me started on the "rightfully hers" stuff. Yes, a marriage is a partnership, but, as far as money goes, he made the money. She deserves some, but not half, as in most divorces. I'm sure he'll take care of her and their children. But, I didn't see her playing in the Super Bowl. I didn't see her breaking the NFL sack record. I didn't see her come up as a mid level draft pick to being a potential Hall of Fame football player. He earned it, she was just along for the ride. He does have to pay up, unfortunately, because he married a calculating gold digger, and that's his problem. But, she didn't do anything to earn that money, so, it's not really "rightfully hers." It's hers by default.
from imadad2 :
Just to be a smart ass as well, if she gets the $8500 does he continue to get the sex 2 times a week and the 2 blowjobs twice a week? Valid points on your argument. Children should be considered when it comes to a divorce. I don't know this for a fact, but I would imagine Strahan was paying for a nanny or some other person to raise their daughters. If he was not, the wife is entitled to that. My argument is this. Lets say Strahan makes 5 million a year for 10 years. 50 million. The wife gets half. Using your stats over 30 years, that is about $835,000 a year. Roughly $69,500 a month. They have been married only 6 years. 1/5 of 30 equals $13,900 a month. Roughly $166,800 a year. Strahan would sign the papers today for that much. Do you really think that this woman is entitled to half his earnings? I think she should get something, but half his salary just is beyond my comprehension. Your example in your entry is correct. If Strahan is proven to have cheated, he should be raked over the coals. However, if he had been cheating for years, I think otherwise. In the later case, she condoned it. My main point was that she stole the money from that account. You don't just move 3.3 million dollars and not tell your spouse. She was up to something.
from thegoodbiboy :
The life she is accustomed to? What if he beat her 3 times a week? Could he keep doing that? The fact of the matter is men get the short end of the stick in divorces. Not that men are saints, not by any stretch of the imagination, but I don't think Michael Strahan is a bad guy. I do think his wife is a gold digging snake.
from imadad2 :
I am not offended in the least. I should have said HE EARNED IT instead of HIS. Yes, in the eyes of the law, it is their money. I just don't like the fact that she or any spouse who makes nothing gets half. She is entitled to something, but IMO not half. Do you agree with me that she should have told him about the money transfer? If I transfered $50 and I did not tell my spouse, she'd lose it. I just think she was up to something. Also, if not convicted, it WILL be on record. Arrests never go away guilty or not.
from bootsnbuckls :
ooops., glad i'm not the only one.
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from imadad2 :
Wait until you have your own kids. I want to impale myself on something every time I sound like my Mom or Dad. Phrases like "Don't dilly dally", or "Don't be a knucklehead", are right out of my mothers parenting rule book. God it sucks to be me. I also have been aflicted with the "Turn that down are you deaf?" Syndrome. I get on my wife about it when she turns the music up to loud. That's it, go ahead, shoot me. I just turned 36 and have no more reason to be here. You think you have it bad. I am starting to get gray hair on my temples. ***sniff*** I think I need some time alone to cry.
from imadad2 :
So does that mean we make our smart ass comments now? It sounded like we can't make them once you turn 30, but before then it is anything goes. Just want to make sure. I had a big problem with 30 because most athletes are considered over the hill at 30. It isn't so bad. Teenagers will start calling you "Ma'am" and you will start to get wrinkles and gray hair. Your body starts to ache in places it never did before, and you actually have flash backs to things your parents used to do and how you vowed you never would be like that but you are. Was that a gun cocking? I think I am done here. happy birthday and hope it is great. ;o)
from mozangeles :
You will be the most awesome 30 year old ever, besides my boyfriend! Hee Hee! :) When do you turn 30, dah-ling? xoxo - me
from mozangeles :
Hey there! I will be happy to give you the log-in info to my "private" entries. Heh. (Although, I don't have any yet!) What is your e-mail? You can send it to [email protected] (my e-mail). xoxo - me
from imadad2 :
I agree with you. I think she does complain just to be heard. However, I think there is something more to it. She is very controlling and jealous. I think that is just the tip of the ice burg.
from mozangeles :
You work with immature assholes! They should not be doing that shit and keeping it at work. Don't feel bad. :) xoxo - me
from cheatedwife :
WTH is w/that woman? What a weirdo. I hope they get her out of your department soon!
from mozangeles :
Oops! I think I pressed the wrong button before. If you do not mind me asking, what is your husband on probation for? Just curious. :) xoxo - me
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from bootsnbuckls :
Thank you!
from ireintrospct :
Oops. Um what I meant to say was... I was flipping through my archives and found your comment. I wanted to say thank you, sorry it's a little late.
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from ponfarr :
Thanks for the note, hon. I'm glad you enjoyed it. BTW, I'm right with you about sex during that time of the month - yeah, it's a little messy, but get the fuck over it. Geez. Guys can be such pussies sometimes, if you'll forgive the expression.
from webmiztris :
i'm with you there - I'd never let a guy spray cum on my face. screw DAT.
from lillymoon :
Sex on the rag. Yup gets rid of cramps. Helps with the moodiness too. Men don't be afraid to get your dick a little dirty! Might make you enjoy that time of the month just a tad bit more. Thanks for telling them Lildebkitty!
from mozangeles :
Thank you for your note! It made my day. :) And, I wholeheartedly agree w/you regarding the sex 4 times a week. Christ, I am lucky if I have sex 4 times a month, and I am not even married yet!!!! xoxo - me
from imadad2 :
Thanks for the note. Your entry just made me realize I take some things for granted. I am not alone. That is why I read other diaries, because they make me see things from differnt points of view. Have a great day.
from imadad2 :
I know your entry was not pointed at me, but some of the things you wrote, struck a cord. I feel a certain way, and did not really realize how it would be seen by others. I feel guilty, because you opened my eyes so to speak on my own behavior.
from imadad2 :
Now I feel guilty. Thanks a lot.
from imadad2 :
Do a web search on "Asian import models". You will see hundreds of Asian women who have not posed nude. I just think it is still a society of racially motivated people. There are several black models who have hit it big, but can you name one Asian model? The majority of them do nude modeling, because those are the only jobs they can get. God for me :o) bad for them :o(
from cheatedwife :
i meant to leave this before..you are so right on the "love" thing. I wish things were different in our language. When i found note he wrote to Bitch, that's exactly what he did, passed it off like it was an "i love you as a friend".. like i don't know better! Our language is so one-sided.
from cheatedwife :
Wow..it's neat that you know those people! Hope you had a nice V-day!
from ms-turner :
V-day can kiss my ass. :-)
from lillymoon :
Yeah I agree! I used to adore that damn V-Day but that was when I was young and gullible. Then disappointing V-day after another I quickly learn that it was all crap! So now I celebrate Single Awareness Day on Feb 14th. I give myself a gift and I always make me happy! ; )
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from cheatedwife :
Um..no, you're not wrong to be happy about that bitch getting the can! I'm hoping karma helps to serve something up to a certain bitch i know too! Woo-hoo ;) And nice italian guy--yum!
from mozangeles :
"A man cannot be too careful in the choice of his enemies." - Oscar Wilde
from imadad2 :
I'm with you. To be happy, is different than running around telling every one, and gloating in the face of the "bitch". I am a believer in karma. "What comes around, goes around."
from chakra-chick :
Thanks so much for your comment in my journal! I will go through your archives when I get a chance to put my head above water. I did, however, read your latest entry. Belle is lucky to have a good friend like you to help her get through this! I'm sending some positive vibes and keeping her in my thoughts and prayers. Give Belle a hug from me! Have a wonderful day further!
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from ms-turner :
Good for her for getting out! JOE could stand to meet up with one of my merc ex-boyfriends and a butterfly knife in a dark alley.... Want me to call in a favor?
from lillymoon :
Good for her and getting out of that. It is a very difficult thing to do. Having been there myself I know. Drugs make a man do the worst things imaginable. I feared for my life many times. Fear of a man is the worst. It holds you to him and you think it is is love. I Thank God that I no longer am in that situation. Hopefully, she has shaken that fear and is truly free of him. I will keep her in my thoughts and pray for her to have strength.
from mozangeles :
I am very proud of your friend for finding the strength to leave an abusive man. It is very difficult. xoxo - me
from imadad2 :
I just wish I could really do what I wrote. Assholes like that deserve to be beaten ten times worse.
from webmiztris :
sorry about your friend. hope she finds help fast.
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from imadad2 :
I'll keep her in my thoughts, but I'd really like to give that guy an ass kicking. Man, stupid laws. I say we propose a law to the state senate that allows wife beaters to get their asses handed to them by any male in Texas. They have to where a sign saying, I can't beat up a man, so I beat up women. That way, we know, and we can just kick their asses when we see them. Bastard. I am so pissed right now. Tell your friend there are millions of men that would kick his ass at the drop of a hat for her.
from lasweetthing :
Nice way to wake up...you go girl! Also, congrats on your big win. Any special plans on how to spend it?? Have a good day.
from cheatedwife :
Congrats on winning! Now go treat yourself to some nice things! :)
from imadad2 :
Congrats on the win. I love hearing stories like that. Any hard core gamblers reading that have to be sick. Betting is all luck, and I don't care what anyone says it is true. Enjoy your new found wealth. I won my bets to, but they were not for money :o)
from ms-turner :
Honey, the sick feeling doesn't usually hit until after a month and a half. I hit week 7, and suddenly I rushing to pray to the Porcelin Gods the second I smelled food. Or thought about food. Or saw a picture of food. It's so not fun.
from ponfarr :
Thanks for adding me as a fave - but just FYI, on my browser, Zoe is sitting right on top of your entry in your layout (I'm using Firefox), so I can't read any of your entries now. Not sure if that's just me or not, though...
from mozangeles :
Could you be pregnant??? xoxo - me
from intimacies :
I bet you feel better! Hey, Phil, if you read this, I wouldn't mind trying it myself!
from mozangeles :
Me too! Me too!
from imadad2 :
Damn ... Damn ... I am so turned on right now ... damn
from imadad2 :
Your from Texas. No one, I mean no one calls someone "honey" up North. I had a long time getting used to that and "Darling". I thought the woman was interested in me when she addressed me that way. I couldn't be more wrong.
from intimacies :
Fantastic story, well told! It's a shame things won't work between you two, but having someone like that in your past, who can occasionally pop into your present isn't so bad either!
from imadad2 :
There's nothing worse than having a Yankee in the south. My friends call me a Texkee. I don't know how many people can tell where I am from, but they do it. I don't think I speak with that thick an accent, but I guess I do. Are you going to hold it against me?
from lasweetthing :
I'm thrilled to hear things are going better for you and hubby, that's so awesome! Congrats, my friend....keep the good stuff coming.
from imadad2 :
Check your email.
from cheatedwife :
I'm glad the waiting has been worthwile! Woo-hoo! ;)
from ms-turner :
Damn woman! Go you! I'm jealous now! :-)
from lillymoon :
Wow!You must be one hell of a lay for your husband to be like that! He doesn't want to lose it.Damn I just put you as a favorite cause your my Hero!
from imadad2 :
I'd still be insecure. I'd have to know that this guy has no meaning to her in order for me to let my wife do that. If I went to a club with her, and she said she'd want to bang a guy, I probably would be OK with that. A friend, I'd be nervous every time that she got with that friend again. Now of course, I have not had a month without sex, and after that month, I still did not want to have sex, so that would make this a lot different.
from imadad2 :
Your husband is more of a secure guy than I am. I think I could only go as far as letting a stranger do it. I'd be to paranoid to allow her to bang a friend. You are a lucky woman. Do make sure you thank your husband.
from imadad2 :
I wrote an entry about you, please let me know if it is not OK with you. I will remove it.
from imadad2 :
Can you ask your husband for a note for me to? Man, you are lucky. I wish my spouse was that comfortable and trusting. You owe him one.
from chickpea981 :
Holy fucking shit! How many husbands send a man to fuck their wife for them? Girl don't feel weird feel good. Tell your husband thank you and let go of any guilt.
from imadad2 :
I wish I could take care of your problem. So sorry you are without it. What is your man thinking? I go two or three days without it, I get so angry and edgy.
from rockabillie :
I hear you on the sexless so far in 2005. Everyone should get some while the getting is good!
from cheatedwife :
You're so lucky! Spring doesn't come here until around May..and we usually don't have much of it. We tend to jump from cold to hot quickly. Enjoy your garden!
from ms-turner :
Congrats on the weight loss darlin! As for the dream, well... Don't eat pizza for bed. I know that gives me some fucked up dreams. :-)
from rockabillie :
I find a woman who knows her sex toys strangely arousing! Good for you on the quiz!
from cheatedwife :
WTG on the weight loss! Pop is such a huge deal. I've been a water drinker for a long time and have noticed the benefits too...from good skin to filling you up when you *think* you're hungry..and if i feel i want pop, i only drink diet. Keep w/it--that is great!
from imadad2 :
12 regular cokes a day? That is almost 2,000 calories you drink that are now gone. I thought I was bad. I was drinking 2 liters a day (4 - 1/2 liter bottles). That is addicting, so I hope you continue to not drink it.
from rockabillie :
Like the story! Thanks for sharing and keep them coming!
from imadad2 :
You make that sound like you got desperate so you picked me. That's not very nice to say. ;o) lol
from imadad2 :
That's not how I remember it. I ordered a screwdriver before I got your seven and seven. The rest, what can I say ... ;o)
from intimacies :
Hi. I just found you. Hope you don't mind if I add you? We have a lot of readers/faves in common. Like what I've read so far.
from imadad2 :
I don't know how the conversation went, but they must have told her that she needs to have her name on the deed in order to get 1/2 the house. They don't live in Texas, so they have no clue about the law here. I am just sick and tired of them butting into our business. I have never had my family make decisions for me. It absolutly reassures me that my wife has zero trust in me, and that is what really bothers me.
from imadad2 :
I didn't catch that reading your entry. It makes me feel real safe in this city now. Thanks, thanks a lot. ;o)
from imadad2 :
remember when you offered me a couch to sleep on and I almost took you up on it? Never mind. I don't want to get any where near you. You are a great person and sound very sweet, but YOU ARE A JINX. In fact, I probably should not be even leaving you a note. I might end up on death row ... lol
from cheatedwife :
I hear ya on the accent thing. I come across the same thing in my job..irritates the hell out of me! Sorry to hear the hubby is still witholding..very strange for a man! WTH?! Hope you get some this weekend!
from lasweetthing :
My hubby does not have me on a sex strike right now but I can sympathize with you completely! I hope you get laid soon =~) Take care.
from imadad2 :
imabrat2 has two diaries. I can see how you got mixed up. I was reading the entry where it says "I have two ..." and I was confused. I was asking myself, when did I type that? I then realized the ID. Whew, you scared me.
from imadad2 :
Thanks, I must have mistyped. Sorry for the confusion.
from imadad2 :
I did? Well, I miswrote. Only one. Sorry. Just curious, where did you read that? I'd like to correct it if I can.
from imadad2 :
My diary is locked? I don't get it. I don't get your note. Or am I obtuse?
from cheatedwife :
Yeah..WTH! I don't know many guys that'd turn down sex...or would not want you to be in something sexy either. Hmmm... i'm not getting him. He needs to step it up a notch. Now that you've told him what you need, see how he reacts. Good luck!
from imadad2 :
The answer to your question is "YES". Come over to my house in your PJ's, and I gurantee you'll get some. If my wife does not start fighting with you first. ;O)
from pixie-led :
Thank you so much. You always leave me such thoughtful comments. I just wanted you to know they are very much appreciated - always. ~Bonnie
from dark-cowboy :
I think as part of the human race we have a moral obligation to reach out to those in need where we can, but hopefully not to the neglect of our own people here. And I know a lot of those we reach out to often hate us, but we never win anyone over with more hatred on our part, but with love and kindness...sorry to get a lil philosophical there.
from rockabillie :
I think you are not taking into account that the tragedy is not over. 150,000 people have died so far just from the actual wave, but without the aide of food, fresh water, assistance with sanitation, and shelter, the total death toll could easily be a multiple several times higher than that figure. I am no bleeding heart, but politics aside, this just seems to be the right thing to do.
from ms-turner :
Here here! I've said the same things (which isn't always a smart thing to do when surrounded by military) but Bush wants to kiss everyones ass but his own people. If we keep sending people over there to help, we're going to stretch ourselves very thin. Which would be very very bad.
from cheatedwife :
I agree and was saying the same thing when i seen that they are putting some troops over there. Whenever there's a tragedy in other countries, seems like we go running to help--but where are they when we are in need?
from imadad2 :
I am with you. If we had all our problems solved here, I would be all for the aide we send. I don't see why the government cannot provide free health care for kids 18 and under. If a kid is in college, they should be eligible as well. It would save individuals thousands, as well as keep the insurance companies happy. That way, a kid that gets sick won't bankrupt a family. I have read so many stories of that happening. Great post.
from imadad2 :
I am glad I made you laugh. Just wish I could take care of your other need ;O). Oops, here we go again.
from imadad2 :
If we do hook up, just make sure you have no cash in your purse. That way you won't have to pay, and you would be in heaven for all 2 minutes and 15 seconds we get it on. Ok, 2 minutes. I know the extra 15 seconds is pushing it. That is why I have 30 - 50 minutes of forplay. I am not known for being the 2 minute man for nothing. ;o)
from imadad2 :
Correction; I don't think I could handle you. (Written with as much sarcasm as I can write it with). I'd make you scream in pleasure so much you'd pass out. Then I'd take money out of your purse and climb out a window. You'd never forget me. (Insert evil laugh here)
from imadad2 :
I'd love to be serious, but I don't think you could handle me. ;o)
from imadad2 :
I wasn't joking ... oh wait, you're right I was. Darn it, I had my car keys in hand. ;o)
from imadad2 :
Be right there ... just need direction ... ;o)
from cheatedwife :
I like the ABC list! We were born in the same year, btw ;) Sorry to hear you are still getting accused of cheating..that sucks! Hope he wakes up before he pushes you in the wrong direction.
from imadad2 :
I have been accused of cheating as well all the time. I have felt the same way you do. If I get accused, I might as well. Glad to hear you didn't.
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from dark-cowboy :
Oops..I shouldn't touch buttons! Anyway saw your diary posted somewhere else and read through it. Boy I remember what those accusations are like, very hurtful when unfounded. Anyway, Happy New Years.
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from lasweetthing :
Happy New Year's =~}
from kiki-blue :
I emailed you the password:)
from lasweetthing :
I know you're hurt, frusterated , and it's a difficult time BUT don't do something you will SERIOUSLY Regret later! Once it's done...there is no undoing it, and I'm talking about all the pain and hurt it causes for everyone involved. I only hope you're just blowing off some steam here. Have a good day!
from ms-turner :
Mine has the same accusations. I've given him the same ultimatium, and since he's going to be gone for now going on 16 months (never trust the military, they lie) I have a feeling he's going to tell me to go for it anyway. 16 months is a very long time.
from jackthripper :
No my dear. I owe you thanks for taking the time to read my words:)
from jackthripper :
I try *blushes*
from jackthripper :
thank you for the kind compliment, dear. I'm pleased to hear you have enjoyed what you've read. I'd offer you a rose and a kiss on your hand given the chance:)
from lasweetthing :
Hope you're doing o.k., I've been thinking about you! Thanks for deleting some notes =~} Sweet Thing
from lasweetthing :
Oh I am sooo sorry! This is like losing a kid, a part of your family. I will be keeping you in my thoughts. I know nothing I say can make this better for you but you'll at least know...I CARE!!!
from lasweetthing :
Hi, no problem...I was not sure either But here's what you do, it's all trial and error I guess :~} Anyways, On the left of your screen under Other Stuff: click on Edit Your Notes Settings, then wait for screen to pop up and I think it's the second option you want to click on. Should be delete individual notes. Thanks I would be very greatful. Now I've got to go read your entry!
from rockabillie :
I am so sorry to hear about the whole dog incident. Sucks no matter what time of the year, but at Christmas it is just a crime against all that is supposed to be right in the world. I will keep you in my thoughts.
from lasweetthing :
Hey, it's me again....wondering if you got my e-mail or if I did something to offend you or what? I see the note in discussion is still here. Well Happy Holidays!
from cheatedwife :
I'm glad you are finding happiness within yourself. You are very right about the importance of that. I need to do so myself. A baby changes everything though, so be prepared! While they are one of the most joyful things, it also adds a lot of stress since it's such a complete life change. But i wish only the best for you! Good luck!
from adulterous-k :
That is a daunting prospect. Fortunately (?) our son is only mildly on the autism spectrum... but sadly that means he's acutely aware of what he is. Sometimes we wonder whether it was MMR - or could it have been the Chernobyl cloud?
from cheatedwife :
Hello again! You hit the nail on the head--it is the depression that is consuming our lives. He knows it, i know it, but nothing is seeming to help. He refuses meds, says it's not chemical, it's circumstantial. He's seen a C, but that hasn't really helped either. I think he needs a psychiatrist or psychologist. Ah well.. hey update your diary, girl! :)
from cheatedwife :
"I just don't want to go through the pain again but at the same time I love this man."---I can so relate to you, too! Glad ya found me, I'm enjoying your diary :)
from imadad2 :
I am more hurt than mad. She twisted what I wrote to fit her agenda. It made me look like a dick, when I am an asshole. LOL. I did the same to her, so I am done with my little payback. I know she wrote a second entry trying to better explain herself, but there was not a "I'm sorry" in there. All those quotes she used were from my diary, no one else.
from imadad2 :
Ahem ... number 45 on your list. Can I expect that as a gift? I'll pencil it in ;o)
from imadad2 :
Who ever did it, deserves a serious ass kicking. I am fuming still. I am assuming the worst at this point, so hopefully when I get some estimates, it will calm me down.
from pixie-led :
Thank you so much for your kind words. It means more to me than you could ever possibly know.
from imadad2 :
It had to be a man. There is no way a woman can dig a scratch that deep in a cars paint unless she was very strong. The person that did it, had to be around my height. If I had a key and did that to a truck, it would be at about the same height this scratch is. If this truck was two or three years old I would not care as much, but it is less than 6 months old. I am so angry. The scratch is easily seen, and has to be fixed. That money I have to spend on fixing it will come out of my pocket. Not the prick that did this.
from pipersplace :
Well, at least you're feeling better. Much better by the sound of it.
from imadad2 :
There is nothing wrong with you. There are times in mens and womens lives that you get extremly horny. There is nothing wrong with fantasizing, it is acting on it that is the dilema.
from lasweetthing :
Thank-you so much for getting back to me. I got your e-mail addy and sent a new message. I really wouldn't bother you but it's a little important to me. Your the best!!!!!
from imadad2 :
Hey, at least you aren't an asshole. Can you just imagine what they say about me? It is enough ... sniff ... to make a man ... sniff ... cry ... WAHHHHH !!!
from imadad2 :
Whoops, I am being an asshole aren't I? ;o)
from imadad2 :
i don't care what the other Diaryland writers say about you, you are all right. lol
from imadad2 :
Are you sure you really want to hang with Mr. Asshole? I am an asshole after all.
from imadad2 :
Not at all? I think you meet some of my requirements. Plus, exceptions can always be made in certain circumstances. ;o)
from imadad2 :
Velvet. Hmmmm, I don't think I have ever slept on a velvet couch. First time for every thing. Should I bring my PJ's or is it clothing optional? ;o)
from imadad2 :
Is your couch leather? I hate to be picky, but I like a leather couch. Just something about it. I better not. I'd be tempted to try something. I will keep it in mind though. By the way, your tag made me laugh. I almost wet myself.
from lasweetthing :
I sent you an e-mail, I hope it worked...Kinda important! Thanks.
from chickpea981 :
I know I don't comment often, but I gotta say that I love the fact that you bitched at that little rent-a-cop. My ex was one and I swear he thought he had some sort of power with his little metal badge. Fuckers.
from imadad2 :
You don't even fit my height requirement. :o( I guess I could pretend I am blind and just rely on personality. By the way your parking garage story made me laugh. That guy takes his job way to serious.
from imadad2 :
Awww man. I think I need to edit my entry ;O) Besides there are alwaya exceptions for every rule.
from imadad2 :
So, what is the web address for those pics? You are getting me going just thinking about it. ;o)
from classygirl83 :
Aren't drugs like that really weird, and good at the same time? I'm on lexapro, and I still get mad, but not as mad as I would get if I wasn't on it. It's a weird drug I tell ya. I guess it's good. :Shrugs:
from imadad2 :
Where do I get some of that? For my wife of course. I am always Mr. Happy ;o)
from lasweetthing :
Glad to read that your feeling a little better! How's things going for you and your husband? Hunting is fun I use to go with my dad. I will keep my fingers crossed...you'll get one. Have a good day.
from imadad2 :
I stopped hunting after a deer fell in a hole right when I shot at it. It was less than 20 feet away. If I can't hit a deer that close, I figured I never will. Hope you have a great time. I am also glad you are up and running again.
from lasweetthing :
Hi, hope you get feeling better real soon. Also hope hubby pampers you while your sick! Take care of yourself! If you like yogurt,eat alot of it,as it will help your twat problem.Other thing that helps that is Acidophilus pills(without having to eat yogurt)You can find them at most any store in health/vitamins area. I get mine at Walmart. Good luck my friend and Happy Thanksgiving!
from imadad2 :
My wife is filipina. It is acceptable in her culture to kill a wife if she gets out of line. It is also acceptable for a wife to cut off a guys tool and jewels. Yikes. I was raised to never hit a woman, but there have been plenty of times a stiff jab has been very tempting. Last night being one of them.
from imadad2 :
I wish I could be there. It sounds like there is some serious good eating going to happen. :o)
from imadad2 :
When's dinner? I'll be right over. It is starting to sound like I will be home by myself anyway. Italian ... I love Italian. My step mother was Italian and step Grandma could cook up a storm.
from imadad2 :
When's dinner? I'll be right over. It is starting to sound like I will be home by myself anyway. Italian ... I love Italian. My step mother was Italian and step Grandma could cook up a storm.
from imadad2 :
Hope you feel better soon. You have to be able to eat the turkey ;o)
from lasweetthing :
Way to go,Fight for your man after all he is yours! Hopefully it taught her a lesson, some girls just have NO RESPECT at all.
from imadad2 :
I bet that felt good though. I've been in a few fights, and when you can walk away without a scratch, it is a great feeling.
from imadad2 :
Remind me to never piss you off. Great entry.
from lasweetthing :
So glad to hear things are going better for you! Sounds like he is willing to prove his love for you... that's a GOOD THING! It will take some extremely good restraint on both your parts not to have sexual contact just yet. In the end I think it would be worth the wait and the new beginning of your relationship that you so deserve! I hope he holds your hand and opens car doors for you, etc... It's nice to have the dating feeling with the man you love, that should never end and to often always does.
from imadad2 :
The key thing here is, he is listening to you. He is getting the help he needs, and wants your relationship to work. It shows he does love you and is willing to do what it takes to make you happy.
from imadad2 :
"Umm I got a comment, you can kiss my ass! (tee-hee) *smile* " When & Where ? ;o)
from imadad2 :
Wow, great 101 list. A few comments. Number 38; Now I know your achilles heel (evil laugh)43; Your a smoker :o( Finally, 90; I eat like total shit" Is that like eating Total Corn Flakes?" How come I've never seen that in the store? I kid. Don't hurt me ...
from lildebkitty :
works fine for me
from rockabillie :
I love the 101 list! Way to go, I know it takes a while to put the list together. BTW, when you click the link to add a note from your diary it leaves a blank note.
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from lasweetthing :
You're welcome, anytime!! I just enjoyed reading your 100 list, very nicely done. Unfortunately I CAN NOT do such an entry as myself would be revealed to my family and a few friends that told me about Dland. That my friend would not be a good thing, so for now I remain mysterious. Have a good day!
from lasweetthing :
If he loves you enough to want to change then make him stick to it, settle for nothing less and last but not least make sure it is what you want and is gonna be good for you!!!
from imadad2 :
No, your not cold hearted. You are giving him a 2nd chance. Cold hearted would be if you told him to F-Off. He has work to do, and just make sure you stick to your guns if he does not do it. No one deserves to be treated cruelly. I think you know that.
from manchmal :
I'm impressed that you were direct and honest. Keep yer chin up, yeah? E.
from lasweetthing :
Just wanted you to know I added you to my fav's.
from lasweetthing :
I'm glad you posted an entry! Keeping your mind and self busy is a very good thing,enjoy your date and let us know how it goes. You're a strong person ~ you can get through this! Plus you have lots of friends out here.
from lostgem :
I'm so sorry you have to go through this. I will keep you in my thoughts.
from imadad2 :
Glad to hear your doing OK. Also glad to hear all went smoothly with the lawyer. Hang in there. You will get through this and be happy.
from lasweetthing :
Was just thinking about you and wondering how you're doing??
from classygirl83 :
Good luck with everything. I'm thinking about you. IF you need anything I'm here even if it's just to talk. I know you don't know me, but I'm still here for you!
from imadad2 :
The email is sent. Keep me posted please.
from rockabillie :
What a powerful set of posts. Good luck to you, I will keep you in my thoughts.
from imadad2 :
I have two numbers for you. Would you like to do this by email? [email protected]
from imadad2 :
Is there a specific area of the city would like an attorney to be in? Let me know. I will contact the EAP program at my work when you let me know.
from imadad2 :
Unfortunatly, I do not. I will look into it. My office offers confidential advise. I can ask them for a reputable attorney if you would like. There are also quickie internet divorce papers you can do. It is a lot cheaper. If you are willing to walk away, you spouse might pay for every thing.
from imadad2 :
Thanks for the note. Let me know if there is anything I can do.
from imadad2 :
Your serious. Wow. Your work sometimes has a counseling or legal service. You might want to look into that. It usually is free, and they can give you a contact number. Best of luck, and be careful.
from imadad2 :
Wow. What an entry. Keep me posted.
from imadad2 :
Yep, right after the Walton & Johnson show signed off, I hear wacky music. I thought I had accidentaly changed the station. Nope. I did a quick web search, and some radio blog had stated in October that this would happen. Also, early this week some one called into the station during Walton & Johnson telling them they were going to be fired. They laughed it off. This really bites. I liked that station a lot. I am waiting to see if 93.7 absorbs some of the staff and changes format. So far that has not happened. This weekend will tell all.
from imadad2 :
(Clapping wildly) Bravo !!! Well done !!! Your husband made up for it in a big way. I may have to pull a rabbit out of my hat like he did. Bravo !!!
from imadad2 :
hey, you had every right to be mad. I have never done that. In fact, I don't think I have ever turned the wife down. I take care of myself when the wife wants to sleep or is angry. Jerking to porn when there is a willing participant is out of the question. No offense to your husband, but he needs to get his head examined.
from phangasm :
Thanks for adding me as a fave and the nice comment! I liked reading your story about Hooters, toeing that line is probably hotter than actually crossing it, you know?
from imadad2 :
Thanks for the reply. I could not agree with you more. I came from a broken home. My old man could not keep his dick in his pants. He has told me hundreds of times how he regrets that. I also have seen how it affected my Mom. I don't want my kids to deal with that. I may have extreme issues with my wife, but cheating is no way acceptable. I am glad you feel the same way. I have had some women flirt with me, and it is a good feeling to know you are still attractive to others.
from imadad2 :
I also meant to thank you for the note. I am beyond epsom salts. The years of sports and the abuse I have laid upon my body are starting to take their toll. I am dreading the mess I will be in when I get to 50 or 60. I cannot even begin to think about it.
from imadad2 :
Wow. What can I say? Your husband is a lucky guy. I was reading your entry, and was thinking you went in a direction you should not have. I was relieved to hear you were a good girl.
from classygirl83 :
Oh my gosh! Your night sounds hot. That guy sounds hot. I'm glad that you were good though!:) and that your husband was in a good mood last night! Have a grea t day!
from classygirl83 :
Have fun tonight:) Oh, and leave me your e-mail addy , and I'll give you the un and pw
from imadad2 :
Awesome entry. I can so relate. Thanks for the props. Over the last 6 months, things have changed in my relationship. My wife has even admited that she'd like to have less sex. The oral has deminished, and after last night, I'd have to say the intercourse has as well. At least you attack your husband. My wife NEVER comes after me. Your husband has the problem not you. Don't change.
from rockabillie :
Kitty, thanks for reading and leaving a note. Left you a response in my notes section.
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from imadad2 :
Thanks for the note. Last night was miserable. I have really seen a change in her as well as myself over the last six months. One word of advice. Make sure you DO NOT get pregnant. Kids only make matters worse. Your marriage may be on the rocks, but if you have children, it makes it even harder to walk away.
from imadad2 :
Thanks for the note and the chuckle. I hope you are doing better. I am so glad that I have found an outlet to let lose some of my thoughts and have people respond. It helps me gain my sanity. Thanks
from imadad2 :
So is he going to allow you to get even? I think a kick to the nads or a bat to the face should equal things. If he is not willing to let you bloody him up a bit, than he is not sorry. I hope you plan on locking yourself into a room by yourself the next time he drinks. He should see a doctor about this as well. ASAP if you ask me.
from imadad2 :
Happy Aniversary. The years only go faster now. I am at 10 years this month. Yikes !!!
from manchmal :
Thanks for the note. I did the 1500 calorie thing over the summer, and exercised every damn day for at least an hour and I lost no weight. It infuriated me. I have some sort of horrid metabolism. Since then, I haven't really been watching what I eat, and I remain the same. I don't think the 1500 calorie diet works. Unless you eat all 1500 in the morning.
from imadad2 :
Thanks for the note. I just found that article I put in my diary so disturbing, so I thought I would share. It makes you appreciate your life a little better. I hope your diet goes well. Look out for all that chocolate this weekend.
from kitty-kaboom :
♥ ♥ I LOVE YOU!!!! ♥ ♥
from imadad2 :
Muscle weighs more than fat for it's mass. If you added more muscle and lost fat, it is possible to gain weight. Measure yourself and do not rely on the scale to tell you how you are doing. A few more tips. Take the weight you want to be at and multiply that by 13. For example if you want to be 100 lbs. 1300 calories should be your daily intake. If you are below 80% of the 1300 (1040) your body may go into a shut down mode and store fat. I am thinking this is what has happened to you. You increased your calorie burning, and decreased your total eaten calories. Your body went into shock and is now in "store" mode. You should have kept your eating the same, and increased your exercise. Then after two weeks, dropped some calories. This way the body adjusts instead of being shocked. If you need more specifics let me know.
from imadad2 :
Your welcome. It is just a shame that your hubby does not take care of business. Pleasing yourself just is not the same as being with someone. Glad I could help.
from lildebkitty :
how is it you have all the answers and I have none? Thanks so very much, your wife doesn't know what she's got!
from imadad2 :
A hot bath or shower can give you the time to take care of business. Play some music, so your visitor won't hear you.
from imadad2 :
A country song? I am not much of a fan, but living in Texas, I am sure I will here it at some point. Thanks for the reply.
from imadad2 :
Thanks for another note. Who sings that song you suggested? I have never heard that. I love the title of it though. Good luck with your gift.
from imadad2 :
Thanks for the note at my diary. I am actually rooting for your Cardinals. I do not like the Red Sox one little bit. I want the curse of the Bambino to remain. It makes it more fun watching Yankee and Red Sox games. As far as the hubby goes. Some of the best things in life are free ... **wink, wink, nudge, nudge** If that does not work, have him get a night on the town. You will accompany him, but he can take you anywhere he wants and you will not complain. My wife did that for me, and I had the time of my life.
from pipersplace :
Ignore that first message. Ooops. Anyway, I've enjoyed reading some of your entries. You're a good writer.
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from lostgem :
I've had an ultrasound before, so I knew that but the problem is that I was with Eben on a Thursday, and Gabe on a Friday...and then vice versa the next weekend so it doesn't help too much to know how many weeks...and I hope you're right about the skin color...Gabe already has a little girl who's 3/4 mexican and looks white, so I hope if it's his it will come out a bit darker...not that he could compete with Eben in that department. I do appriciate your advice though...I hope you're right about the whole food thing too. I had 2 miscarriages already because of the bulimia...so hopefully I've learned my lesson. Thanks again. ~Katy~
from kiki-blue :
sure, just drop me a line with your email address.
from chickpea981 :
"stubborn hard headed cumwhore"? HELL FUCKIN YEAH! You madam, rock my fucking socks off for saying that.
from lostgem :
Thank you so much for the comment. I wish I could follow it...love myself and all that. Things are better now, so I hope it lasts. I really appriciate your comments the past few days. Thanks. ~Katy~
from lostgem :
I think that was the case to begin with...no trust. Neither of us trusts each other, I guess that's why it was easier for me to do it...because there's no loss for either of us there. Sad, I know...but I guess that's the way things are. I do appriciate your insight though, and I'm sorry if I was kind of snappy about it.
from lostgem :
I don't care. I had the right to know the truth.
from chickpea981 :
printed out the PMS entry?
from stupidshit :
Do you mean my humor or box's?
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from manchmal :
I am sorry about your car. I love small town redneck festivals, though. Especially the parades: I love parades. E.
from imadad2 :
Just found your diary. Enjoyed the read. Sorry for the loss of your pet. When I lost my dog from child hood, it hurt. Had that dog for 14 years. Also, I hate to say this, but your husband is not good enough for you. He should be worshiping you instead of brushing you off. Your needs have to be met, or you will be miserable. If that means doing something when you are tired, you do it.
from manchmal :
I did want to add a note, but I wanted it to say that I'm sorry for your pet loss, very sorry. I hate that animals don't live as long as people...because often I like them a lot more than I do people. Please take care. E.
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from mrgrey :
I was just curious. I enjoyed reading your answers on my survey, and when I saw your user name it just kinda clicked. I am sorry for your current situation. The Bitch did pretty much the same thing to me. Which is one of the reasons I have given her such a lovely nickname. ;)
from mrgrey :
Are you the Deb who left me the little note about living in Houston? Btw, my username doesn't have a period in it. :)
from kittyslave :
aww, i stopped writing. it's locked but there's nothing new. i'll send you an email soon and explain...
from klcranford17 :
WOW..Yeah, I am sure that you could so relate to my story then!! I know the feeling...believe me. Our stories sound quite a bit alike!
from klcranford17 :
Ok, so I messed the link up in your GB - Go to the 1/30 "Begin Your Life" entry if you want to read it. Sry........
from glistenen :
*giggles*
from faux-homo :
Hi...you linked adamm1981 in your list of diaries. I have moved to faux-homo.diaryland.com.
from raverfaerie :
FIRST of all.. Youre never too old to keep a diary. And second of all. HI!! See you in chat.

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