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from princesse69 :
Hi there! I found your diary a little while back and added you to my faves. I'm also a mum/wife and I'm also going to be 26 this year. I'm happy to read you have found a nicer job. Yay for you! Your Natalia does sound like a big girl at 15lbs already! My nephew is the same age and is 14lbs. I saw the pics you posted and can definitely say she's cutie too! :) Love Sharon x
from narami :
good things!! yay!! :o)
from whinerwoman :
I am SO happy for you that things are starting to look up!! Good Luck with your new job and remember to put your happiness FIRST, not everyone else's!! STAY STRONG!! HUGS!!! LISA
from anita-girl :
You sound a little down. Having a baby is so much work especailly the first as it is a shock! It gets better as she gets older and sleeps better and grows (trust me!) It does change relationships and it can be so easy to lose your marriage if you don't work on it. Talk to R about it. Tell him how you feel. Listen to what he says. The best mother and father you can be is one that is happily married. Try to go out alone once in a while on a date. As for your job that totally sucks about the hours being cut. Do you know why it was? It may have had nothing to do with you so don't let it bring you down. That sounds tough that jobs are so hard to find where you are, could you switch positions where you are now? And maybe look for another job anyways you never knwo until you try!
from anita-girl :
My Ariel was a very fussy baby at the beggining and would cry a lot. To put her to sleep my husband Chad and I would hold her or rock her. Soon we learnt it wasn't the greastest idea, especailly in the middle of the night! It took some work and it can take a while but you have to be dillegent, it may only take a week! Start by holding her and starting a rotinue, I sing Ariel too songs about God and reading her bible and time for bed, than I read her a bible story pray with her and kiss her and than put her down. At first hold her longer and less and less. And yes they can cry! In the beggining it would take an hour or so for her to stop crying and fall asleep! I would go in and visit and not pick her up but stop her from crying by placing my hands on her and rocking her and saying shhhhh or by patting her head, I also gave her the soother and kept going back to give it to her as she could than soothe herself to sleep. It it hard so hard to listen to your little baby cry (your made to have a hard time listening to your child cry it's part of being a mother!) but it would be hard to rock a 3 year old to sleep! It is vyr different between your spouse and yourself after a baby comes! You never get to spend as much time alone but spend time togather as a family. After a little bit of time as you two adjust to being parents you will find yourself coming closer to him and things getting better. It's important to make sure that he helps out as it's his child too! As she gets bigger maybe have him put her to bed, men have an easier time listening to crying, or he can give her a bath, feed her food when that time comes and many other things. It's too hard to be super woman an be happy! Keep updating, she's sooooo cute!
from lerin :
SO glad to see that you are back! And your little Natalia is GORGEOUS. I don't know what came over me, but seeing her sweet pictures made me tear up. She is beautiful, and I know you must be so proud. COngratulations, and I am glad you are well again! Can't wait for your next update.
from whinerwoman :
Oh my gosh!!! You don't know HOW happy I am to see that you are back!!! I was SO worried about you, I tried e-mailing you with no success and I didn't know what to do, your baby daughter is just BEAUTIFUL!!!!! CONGRATS to you and your DH!!! BTW- I am expecting TWINS in November, I can't believe it!!!! E-mail me @ douglisa25@msn.com HUGS!!! Lisa
from anita-girl :
You did it! She is so beauitful! So cute in her hats! To make the pics smaller I usually go to edit on photobucket and make the pics smaller by 50% since digital camera's make the pics so big! Now you can post pics all the time! I did a video a few posts back on my page!
from wickedcrazy :
It worked and shes BEAUTIFUL! I love crying pictures. I have a 10 by 13 portrait on my wall of Moll at age 18 months in nothing but a black fur hat and a wail on her face. She really is absolutely lovely and congratulations! I hope you have as much fun as I did!
from narami :
Felicidades! Of course I want to see the princess, narami_pr@yahoo.com Bendiciones para la bebe. Y bueno para todos!
from anita-girl :
CONGRATULATIONS! That is so exciting that you had your baby girl! I am so DELIGHTED for you! Don't you love having a girl? My Ariel Brooke will b 6 months next week! To upload photos on my dland I go to Photobucket and upload them there, then I copy the tag and put it on dland, it's really easy. Please email me a pic anitagirl@yahoo.com
from xnavygrrl :
I am so happy you're pregnant. Please do post when you have your little girl so we will not be wondering!!!
from jane-dreams :
I'm sorry this hurts so much... tainting such a beautiful time in your life. i can't believe your own blood sisters treat you this way. Hang in there, sweetheart.
from whinerwoman :
Hey Becky- I am SO sorry that your going through a very difficult time with family.......I have been there and I know your pain. It's really sad that they can't be more supportive of YOU and be happy for YOU......... Sending you LOTS of HUGS from St. Louis- Lisa
from enchancea :
Im sorry I didnt answer you right away for some reason I didnt get a email letting me know I had any new notes but for the back and forward links just type: %%prev%% and %%next%%
from jane-dreams :
I sent you an email this morning with the password info. I really like the name you are considering. Natalia is such a beautiful, strong name for a little girl. It's wonderful that you are thinking of honoring your sister as well, and Jessica is also a lovely name. :) Thanks for your note!
from jane-dreams :
Hey girl, can you leave me an email address? I am being really paranoid these days and I don't want to leave any passwords in notes even for a day. Thanks!
from sanetwin :
YAY!! it's a girl!! names?!!! happy thanksgiving!
from jane-dreams :
*sigh* How I love tiny baby girls!!! Congratulations! Knowing the sex makes it seem so much more real for me.
from sanetwin :
The back and next links seem to be working?? I like the new layout :)
from lostinmylove :
I tried to email you, but I think it got kicked back. Will you email me and let me know you got it ok? ♥
from jane-dreams :
Aw... the first time to hear your baby's heartbeat! What a beautiful moment, one you'll always treasure. I think all moms worry about things like that... wanting that assurance that everything is going okay. It's natural. You are a Mama now... you'll always be worried about SOMEthing from here on out! ;)
from ilmomof3 :
Congrats -- that is a very exciting moment! Makes it so real.
from anita-girl :
Oh my gosh I am so sorry about the job. That really sucks. Such bad timing! I hope that things work out! That you get more hours, or even a new job if it is possible. I will keep you in my prayers!
from ilmomof3 :
As bad as things have gotten, they've always come through for the good. I'm praying this is what happens for you. I have no idea what social services are in your area, but hopefully there is something to help, at least with medical expenses.
from xnavygrrl :
Congratulations on the baby!!!!
from anita-girl :
Hey! I foudn you through jane-dreams. I am also pregnant, I am due nov 3. I wanted to tell you that all those feelings you are having is perfectly normal!!! It even says that in the books. You will worry about everything, this and that, things you never thought you would worry about!!! I was like that too in the beginning. And don't worry it won't last forever, I harldy worry now, now I am like my baby is healthy, it's beautiful. For me it changed when I had my ultrasound and triple test and my midwife said everything was good! I found that I didn't feel so bad abotu worrying and other things when I read that it was normal. Oh and dont' worry about the doctor I didn't figure out I was pregnant till I was 6 weeks, and then I went to the doctor, and I knwo people who don't get in till like 3 months. By the way I think I will also add you as a favorite!
from jane-dreams :
It is still lux/veritas, is that what you have? Sometimes Diaryland acts up. Let me know if it is still locking you out.
from jane-dreams :
Welcome to the world of motherhood... you will be worrying for the rest of your life. I know how cheesy and unrealistic it sounds, but try to relax and enjoy this brand-new experience. :)
from dark-embrace :
Congratulations! *hug* May your pregnancy be filled with lot's of unusual foods and a thousand wonderful moments :)
from whinerwoman :
CONGRATS!!!! Sending you LOTS of hugs and prayers on your pregnancy.......it's a gift from God,savor every moment........ sending you good pregnancy vibes!!!! Lisa
from sanetwin :
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!
from jane-dreams :
What wonderful news! Congratulations, mom!
from gypsy-poet :
I am sending you and your family prayers. Strength comes from within, and I know you possess more than most... take care.
from ilmomof3 :
I'm so sorry to hear about your grandmother. I'll be sending lots of good thoughts and hugs your way.
from xnavygrrl :
My pal, keep the password handy. It's only for a week that i gotta keep everyone locked out. I'm on a mission. They messed with the wrong female!
from xnavygrrl :
:) Thanks for the note and support, and for always being there....love ya!
from sanetwin :
Thank you as well, for always being there and listening to me!
from wickedcrazy :
Youre completely right. I sometimes forget to say thanks to T. Its awful because he said to me recently, I'd walk through fire just to hear you say Thank you. I guess I should quit taking him for granted to much. Thank YOU for always having kind and thoughtful words!
from aliboomboom :
My best friend went to Beauty School and she did my hair while she was there and then she went to a salon and they were really expensive so she did my hair at home and then I started working at the salon while I was in college and she did it there for like $7. Then somehow she stopped offering to do it for free and I stopped going to her. It's still awkward. We've been friends since we were 7 and I guess she thinks I should go to her. I guses in a way I shoud. Oh well. I hope that your hair tunrs out well, I hop mine does too!
from aliboomboom :
Oh tax season is a pain for everyone. My dad used to be an accountant so I know how hard it is on them especially. I always read your diary when you update, I should just add you but then I always think people have stopped writing when there are long gaps and end up deleting them anyways. I'm stupid like that. Anyways I hope you got the password and I hope that you'll leave me some notes and comments, I love them.
from aliboomboom :
OH and I always mean to add you to my buddy list but you never update!! Start updating more!
from aliboomboom :
Did I ever email you the password?
from narami :
Muchas gracias por la nota!! Acostumbrarme a este horario me ha tomado mas tiempo, pero igual espero pronto caer en tiempo. Que pases una semana chevere!! :oD
from sanetwin :
I got your card :)> thank you so much! Expect one from me soon.
from xnavygrrl :
Thanks for the note, love. I am a gold member. It's pretty cheap, like $10.99 for 3 months. And you can pay by check too. There's a link for that. You are so sweet. Jackie is the light of my life. Most of the time I enjoy being a mom.
from wickedcrazy :
Movie: Eternal sunshine of the spotless mind. i cant quit watching that and garden state. Book: Eleanor Rigby-douglas coupland. GREAT book. Music:The Shins
from ilmomof3 :
Let me know if you didn't receive the interview I sent! It went out to your diaryland account when everything was haywire last weekend.
from whinerwoman :
Don't you just hate that!! Nothing ever goes the way you want it too and sometimes men's brains are in their ass'!!!! Oh well, maybe later after the cable guy leaves you can have some special couple time together!! Happy Anniversary!!!
from dark-embrace :
The first line of your latest entry just drew me in, that and the layout of course :) It is so hard these days to find decent diarist and am glad to have stumbled upon your abode. Will be back soon.
from gypsy-poet :
((hugs)) because I have been where you are... it is hard not to let the depression take hold. But, it only complicates matters, try to focus on the things in your life that are good, the things you love, the things you are proud of...
from sanetwin :
I'm sorry you're feeling down :(
from aliboomboom :
Happy Valentine's Day!! Enjoy it!
from aliboomboom :
I am still bidding on the books. I haven't won either yet. I'm going to keep trying. I think I can buy them at Weight Watchers for like $20 but now I hear that you have to have a point counter.
from wickedcrazy :
!!!HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! :o)
from aliboomboom :
I think that is what I'm buying, the 2005 version. I'll go check on ebay right now and let you know.
from aliboomboom :
I'm buying the basic points book. It's the one that guides people on the diet. It tells you how many points such and such has. I think that if you are losing weight, you can have something like 22 points a day and then when you are maintaining it you can have 27 or something. I'm not really sure. I hear it works for a lot of people. Usually you have to be on Weight Watchers to get the book but I'm getting mine on Ebay. Angie joined Weight Watchers and just never went to the meetings, that's how she got the books. Let me know if it's something you want to try. It is easier if you have someone that can hold you accountable.
from aliboomboom :
Happy Birthday indeed. Hope it was flawless!
from ilmomof3 :
Happy, happy birthday!!
from sanetwin :
Happy Birthday!!
from aliboomboom :
It was nice to hear from you. I've tried to get to your diary in the past week or so and I get Diaryland Error pages. Anyways I don't want to be with Jeff at all but you are right, kharma is a bitch and I definately don't want my husband cheating!!
from ilmomof3 :
I can't say I've had the experience of trouble with conceiving, but I just wanted to let you know I'm thinking of you and I hope it works.
from gypsy-poet :
I am glad to see you back and posting!! Missed you. Congrats on the house!!
from hamiltonian :
i like the quiz
from sanetwin :
I love text twist!!
from sanetwin :
Merry Christmas!
from wickedcrazy :
HA HA!!! have fun trying! my friends doctor told her the few drinks just relaxed everything and doggy style deposits the sperm closer to the cervix, which also ups the odds of a boy. Her granny actually calls the boys spot and rover, lol. its really hysterical.
from wickedcrazy :
Its nice to see you update! A friend of mine was trying for over a year to get pregnant, her granny told her to drink a few glasses of wine (or whatever) and do it doggy style. As much as possible. After the initial shock of a 70 yr old woman talking about doing it doggy style they tried it. Did it that way constantly. She was pregnant in 6 months. with twin boys. Her grandmother still laughs over it.
from krugerpak007 :
I think that your fear is totally natural. You went through such traumatic things. Gosh, just reading that gave me the shivers. What a wonderful, supportive husband you have! I wish you all the best! xoxox Kathy
from long-ignored :
thanks so much for letting me know...I hope you are enjoying them!!
from aliboomboom :
Hey. Email me at alexia_gillingwater@yahoo.com or find me on IM at alialiboomboom and I'll be glad to give you the new password! Thanks!
from sanetwin :
I'm glad you have found yourself! Not many people can say that. That was a wonderful entry.
from sanetwin :
Happy anniversary! It sounded like the last moments of it were the best of all :)
from ilmomof3 :
Happy (belated) anniversary!
from krugerpak007 :
I was leaving Kevin a message and saw yours and was intrigued. I am off to bed now, but will surely be back as soon as I can to read more about you. xoxox Kathy
from sanetwin :
Hey, I was just wondering if you still wanted to help review at Unique Reviews. I wanted to get it going again and if so, please let me know within the week, please. I'm going to try to get a new review in from each reviewer next week. Thank you :).
from xnavygrrl :
Thanks for the well wishes..I appreciate it! :)
from starlight42 :
I recently had someone leave a great note in my diary and I thought I'd share her sentiments- she said that basically things will start to change when YOU want them to. So if you want to change things around you or about yourself, it's all up to you. I thought she had a good point :)
from sanetwin :
Good for you. The hardest thing to do is to decide to want to change. And then to take those steps toward doing it. I did it. I'm here if you need a cheerleader :).
from anonadada72 :
Hello! Just an FYI: I sent you the password to my now locked diary. But I think I sent it to your diaryland email rather than to yahoo. If for some reason you don't receive it, let me know and I'll resend. Also, I'm correcting the inadvertent omission and adding you as a fave. Thanks for reading! ~Jess.
from zoesmomma :
I just wanted to say that I have been through the exact thing... I am sorry that it was not positive for you. There can be lots of reasons why you are not ovulating, some very simple, and some more complex. You will be in my thoughts and prayers that everything works out the way you want it to most! If you need to talk, you can email me anytime... Take care!
from narami :
Por favor piensa positivo! *hugs*
from sanetwin :
Are you taking birth control right now? Perhaps thats the reason you aren't ovulating? When I stopped taking mine it took me six months to go back to a normal cycle. I'm sorry you're going through this right now (hugs)
from xnavygrrl :
Oh, I am so sorry for what you are going through. I am so sad for you. I will keep you in my prayers. In fact, I just said one for you right now. I am hoping the best for you.
from starlight42 :
I hate writers-block. Hope it goes away soon! :)
from narami :
Espero que vuelvas prontito! Que tengas buena semana!
from sanetwin :
I miss reading your updates :(. I hope you get over your block soon.
from starlight42 :
what a sweet letter to your hubby!
from wifemotherme :
AWWWWWWWW!!!
from starlight42 :
Sorry to hear how that night went, but glad to hear things have been a bit better since! Oh, I finally got around to adding you to my fav's! :)
from sanetwin :
I am glad to hear things have been happier for you. That these past few weeks are better. It's always nice to get a break from unhappiness and drama. It sucks that men can't figure out when a girl is trying really hard to get them to just pay attention to them!
from sanetwin :
Unfortunately I held off on getting birth control for WAY too long lol. Too many scares that way. So I guess the depression is just something I'm going to have to learn to combat or ignore :(.
from false-apathy :
Hm, I haven't been here for a long long time. Time to catch up on reading! ^.^
from sanetwin :
How are things going for you?
from starlight42 :
Hey- just leaving you a little note so you know I was visiting :) Hope your job goes well this week. I'm sure you do have a lot to offer, you just need to believe it!
from xnavygrrl :
Hi, my name is Missy. I added you as a favorite. Come on over to my neck of the woods when you get a chance. I hope you won't be bored. I have a lot of drama, but it's mostly self-induced. :)
from elliemay23 :
I am such a dummy...I don't know how I missed it right there in bold letters...I am going to go back and change your score. Sorry about that, it was really late when I finished. xoxo, ELlie
from mommaviews :
You review is up at momma views. xoxo, Ellie
from sanetwin :
Thank you for the congrats about Jason. I'm nervous, of course, about it not working out again this time. But we're definately taking it more slowly. he called yesterday just to say hi and we're going to hang out tonight. And maybe another night this week. But it won't be anything like last time (at first) which might make it much better for both of us. I'm really happy he decided to give us another chance :). As to financial problems causing stress, I can completely relate to that. I feel like I'm always broke and worried about money. I think everyone let's it get to them!
from sanetwin :
I'm glad you talked to your husband about how you're feeling. I hope he's being understanding.
from wifemotherme :
You are always so wonderful to leave me encouraging notes. You will never know how deeply I appreciate that. I hope you will forgive me for being so self center that I don't do the same for you. I am truly sorry. Now having said that I want to comment on your entry today. Feel your feelings and don't ever let anyone tell you that is wrong. Feeling them and allowing them will give you cause to think about them, rationalize what is honest and what is emanational. If you spend your life stuffing all your bad feelings down then you only end up doubting your own GOD GIVING 6th scene. You will never learn what was honest and what was just an over blow emotinal reaction. Trying to squash out all your feelings is a waste of precious time..... they might be a bit negative but go ahead and allow them, feeling it, think on it, pray about it, don't waste time fighting it. Now having said that, keep in mind there is a difference between "feeling" and "harboring" negativity. Don't dwell on negativity, it will eat you up. Feel it, process it and move on. PS wonder if all my old shrinks would be ticked to know i am dishing out their "100 dollars an hour" advice for free? ; ) PSS - do you might that I just wrote a small novel in your notes?
from wifemotherme :
You are always so wonderful to leave me encouraging notes. You will never know how deeply I appreciate that. I hope you will forgive me for being so self center that I don't do the same for you. I am truly sorry. Now having said that I want to comment on your entry today. Feel your feelings and don't ever let anyone tell you that is wrong. Feeling them and allowing them will give you cause to think about them, rationalize what is honest and what is emanational. If you spend your life stuffing all your bad feelings down then you only end up doubting your own GOD GIVING 6th scene. You will never learn what was honest and what was just an over blow emotinal reaction. Trying to squash out all your feelings is a waste of precious time..... they might be a bit negative but go ahead and allow them, feeling it, think on it, pray about it, don't waste time fighting it. Now having said that, keep in mind there is a difference between "feeling" and "harboring" negativity. Don't dwell on negativity, it will eat you up. Feel it, process it and move on. PS wonder if all my old shrinks would be ticked to know i am dishing out their "100 dollars an hour" advice for free? ; ) PSS - do you might that I just wrote a small novel in your notes?
from starlight42 :
Thanks for the encouraging note. Sounds like you're going through a lot right now. If you don't have a close friend or family member you feel you can open up to, talking to a counselor might help. As I've gotten older I have less & less friends as well, and it sucks. I miss having those people to go to with my feelings...diaryland is a great place though- even if it is for online buddies only. Or even just writing your feelings down helps.
from sanetwin :
Have you ever thought of talking to a therapist? It sounds like you might have depression. And not just "oh-i'm-sad" depression, but actual clinical depression. When it lingers like that and keeps coming back, that's usually what it is. Which isn't exactly a positive note to leave :( but that's what I thought of from what you described. I know, I suffered from depression all through high school. Does your dh know you often feel that way?
from sanetwin :
I hope you're feeling better today :)
from starlight42 :
hey, first of all, yes you can certainly add me to your fav. list :) I recognize you from Pieces of You and know I have stopped by a few times to read your diary as well. Don't feel bad by what your husband does, I know it's not nice of him, but he's man and they have a hard time understanding! LOL Just yesterday I got mad at my boyfriend because he just wasn't listening to me, he was like mmmhmmm. I hate that. Oh well. And as for making buddies and stuff of DL, when I started a year & a half ago it took a lot of work to make "friends". Basically, you've got to do a lot of surfing and leaving others notes, to get them to come visit your diary. And slowly you'll find people that have things in common with you. That's how I made most of my buddies, and now I have a lot! :)
from sanetwin :
I'll be your friend :). I am always lonely!
from sanetwin :
I'm so sorry you guys are in such a financial bind right now :(. I wish I was a billionaire so I could send money to everyone that needed it.
from elliemay23 :
I will put you on our pending list. Thanks for submitting a request. xoxo, Ellie
from science-boy :
Thanks for adding me to your favorites list. I have read some of yours and enjoy it very much! Good luck on the house, marriage and the baby! They are all awesome! Have a great weekend! s-b
from lc-revues :
hi your review has been posted at LC Revues. Sorry for the long wait. http://lc-revues.diaryland.com/r-y-r
from espagnola71 :
Gracias por unirte a "escribiendo". Bienvenida al club :-)
from sanetwin :
Thank you so much for the supportive comments. I'm going to try to follow your advice. I need him to know I'm here for him when he's ready for me (or has the time). I just wish we hadn't had this big fight (break up) THIS week when I can't really get any reassurance about our relationship because he's so busy. And I'm rambling. .lol sorry.
from dani-lou :
Your review is up at Boughett-Reviews. Toodles, Dani.
from acidreviews :
Your review is up. :) I'm terribly sorry about the wait. *blushes* Thanks for requesting. http://acidreviews.diaryland.com/ryr.html
from alonereviews :
your review is up at http://alonereviews.diaryland.com/ryr.html
from anonadada72 :
Thank you, first, for adding me to your favorites, and, second, for your kind note on the "AJ" story. It was oddly comforting to see that so many women had similar tales. And I was touched that so many shared pieces of those stories with me. Anyway, thanks. I'm sure I'll be back to read what you have to say here. ~Jess.
from sanetwin :
You're right about the sister part. sometimes I focus too much on the bad part of my family (my mom) and I don't stop to consider how lucky I am that my sister and I have such a strong relationship. And it's not a pity party! Everyone needs to vent every now and then :)
from sanetwin :
I'm so sorry that your sisters are making you feel guilty for having a wonderful relationship with your mother. Honestly, you shouldn't. It's so seldom that people DO have such great relationships with their parents, that you shouldn't regret it in anyway. I think it's great that your mother loves you so much. And if she favors you, well it's a sad fact of life but it happens in every family.
from sanetwin :
glad you are feeling so *satisfied* I agree, sex while married gives you more of a feeling of wholeness.
from narami :
No sabes cuanto animo da una nota como la tuya! Muchas, muchas gracias *squee*. Me alegro mucho que los disfrutes, cada tanto aņado uno. Have a good week! :o)
from narami :
Oh I was hoping you didn't think I was nuts after that LONG email! Hope you are feeling better now, and thanks for adding me to your favorites! Have a great week :o)
from beachreviews :
Hey! Your review is up! Mahalo for requesting at beach reviews!!
from wifemotherme :
Your not boring! Your perfectly normal which is perfectly abnormal on DL -- I am 100% sure that even the rut you speak of is NORMAL.... So spice it up some, time to run down to the local fetish shop buy a French maid or a serving winch uniform and swing from the rafters... Oh but skip the 10 dollar bottle of warming oils - they are all yucky and stinky and sticky and gooey.
from deadgod :
http://deadgod.diaryland.com/ryr.html <--Your review is up!
from beachreviews :
Hey, sorry but we can't review you yet because there is a problem. Please refer to the "pending" area of our site where the problem is stated. You have one week (7 days) to site us or else you will have to request again and be bumped to the back of the line. Mahalo. (3-31-04)
from sanetwin :
thank you so much for the note about love at first sight. I keep thinking about it and it just scares me. It's great to know that someone else has gone through this and that it's worked out for them.
from crashreviews :
Your review is up!
from sanetwin :
hey *fingers crossed* on the pregnancy test!
from checkit-view :
I will try to work you in ASAP. I will be away for the next few days, but I will check with my co-reviewer and see if she has the time to take you on right now. We are on Spring Break right now, so everything is a little hectic. But it will be done early next week for sure. Thanks for coming to our site!
from sanetwin :
yay! Isn't learning HTML fun?
from starlight42 :
just wanted to say I enjoyed your POY entry this week. Glad that the quote inspired you, it did me too...in fact, my entry was pretty much along the same lines as yours.
from usareviews :
Hello, this is Sarah at USA Reviews. Your review is up!
from sanetwin :
I've locked my diary. The username is notassholes and the password is comein.
from sanetwin :
I can completely understand what you mean about death vs. breakup. with death it's so final and you can't blame yourself for it ending. With a break up there is constantly the what it, the wanting to be together. Well written :)
from p-o-y :
Welcome to Pieces Of You!
from cutiepie1983 :
Hi there! If you want, you can email me your password and I'll go in and archive them for you. But, it is pretty simple. Click archive older entries on the menu. When that loads up, click all the way at the bottom, Add Archives Page. When the new screen comes up, you click on the entries that you want to archive. When done, click "archive these" at the bottom. When the next page comes up, copy whats in the white box and then click on the top link, which will take you to the place where you edit your older entries page and paste them in the box. Hope I helped. If not, email me the password and I'll do it for you! ~Nancy~
from widower :
MG felt the same way when she went off the pill. Good luck!
from kickassrvue :
Your review is up!
from wifemotherme :
Thank you for leaving the note. It worked for me too!! You know I was honestly feeling off for leaving such unsolicited advice. I really questioned rather that was rude or not.
from ibepiglet :
Howdy (your guestbook link does not work, btw). Anywho, I only read today's entry and I will come back and read it all, but just having someone in your life that you can communicate with as openly as you describe is a blessing, isn't it? Even when your answers to him are "I don't know," how wonderful that he can openly express how your behavior makes him feel, and he is asks if there is anything he has done or can do. That's a wonderful thing to have.
from usareviews :
This is Lindsey at USA Reviews. I can't seem to find the link back to us on your diary. If it's not up yet, put it up and let us know. Thanks. :)
from wifemotherme :
Its time to fake it until you make it! I honestly believe that if you fake feeling all lovely and affectionate you will be doing good 3 folds. 1. He will be happy 2. You will get in touch with those mussy feelings that all of a sudden seem distant. 3. You will feel empowered by knowing that even if you cant change your mood you can change your behavior. Make up your mind that tonight for one whole hour you will fake it -- for his sake. Kiss him, smile at him, what ever the norm is - And then if you do let me know how it turns out - I think I am going to take my own advice here and do the same.
from cutiepie1983 :
I just read your entry and I know what you went through. I had a guy like that. I wasn't in love with him, but just stayed around to see what would happen. He ended it and disappeared from my life. That was in 2002 and, I ended up crying for 10 minutes and realized that I was never in love with him. Things happen for a reason and I am glad that you are happy with your husband now. Oh, I started to go to the gym today! woo hoo! Talk to you later...oh, and I love your layout! I am sorry I couldn't finish the one I was doing for you. The colors just weren't fitting! ~Nancy~
from widower :
Becky, thanks for the note in my guestbook. I enjoyed reading all your entries. I'm adding you to my favorites so I can read future updates. BTW: How did you find my site?
from wifemotherme :
OMG bless your heart! There is nothing wrong with you. This is called survivors guilt. I happens a lot when faced with the loss of someone close. Your so blessed to have a husband you can love so fully that the pain of a past relationship doesn't eat at you. I really cant help but see this as God seeing to your needs, BEFORE you had the need. Be bless and rejoice in what was gained. I dont think your friend J would want you to be in pain.
from wifemotherme :
Good luck on the weight loss!!! We are the same hight so I understand not being able to gain much without it showing. I cant wait to get back down to 175! I am 191 right now. I have started atkins, its very easy to lose on this diet but man I really hate dieting!
from wifemotherme :
The link to the notes page (and your guestbook) doesnt work - which would explain why it seems no one is reading. I just emailed you before I desided to check from the profile.

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