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Har matey, I bumped my top on the deckhead, painted the bulkhead, went abaft to use the head, had too much grog and am now listing to starboard. Must drop iron in the lee and hit a port. Before the evning is done I must dobey and go in mufti ashore to spawn.
Yes, I like nauticle jargon, most of it makes sense to me though I'm sure there will be antiquated terms that will throw me for a loop.
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Do you not update here anymore, or are you elsewhere?
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Thanks for the info on the series. I am always on the look out for a new series. I go through genres like nothing. This past decade has been mostly sci-fi and fantasy with some spy novels thrown in to round things off. Never thought to look into historical novels...Thanks!
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If you like the book "Lonesome Dove" You'll love Owen Wisters "The Virginian", The writing style is outdated by a century or so but it is damn good reading. Life would be good if all people lived by the Virginians moral code.
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Discovered you through phangasm, really liked what I've read so far.
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Hey, there daddy-o. Times five. Congratulations!
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i just bought a friend a bouquent of flowers today, to cheer her up and tell her she's "appreciated" BEFORE reading your entry. REALLY STRANGE. And it made her day. Definitely worth the $7!
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WOA NELLY! That's quite a story....one child will be plenty for me...i can't imagine five!
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okay i don't know anything about canned chicken, milking, shooting blanks or anything like that....*smiling* i just wanted to say thanks for the note of kind words it's greatly appreciated and ...I"m baaack
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Costco is where I get my canned chicken too. That is to funny. I am a rookie when it comes to vodka. I like it pretty simple 8oz of OJ and 1 or 2 shots of vodka, depending on what kind of mood I am in. I also do, Fresca or Squirt soda, and lemonade. Other than that, I don't mix anything else. I'll try your idea and let you know what I think.
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;) Congratulations Daddy-O
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Shooting blanks ain't so bad. I've been doing it for five years and glad I did it. Big hint ... get the wife to milk the samples you need to take to the lab. It is the least she could do ...
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I am looking forward to reading your stock information. At 37 I feel I am behind the "savings" curve. I have a 401K and pension at work, but I have not done anything on the side except a house. I still think there is money to be made in the Houston real estate market. If my wife did not want a new home, I would be buying rental property.
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Glad to hear someone else feels the same way I do. Until my company locks up access to Diaryland, I will be posting. Hope all goes well with the Mrs.
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hi :) i stumbled across *imadad2*'s diary which in turn led me to yours..i've started reading you from the beginning and intend on working my way up to the present..nice writing..nice fantasies..and the one where you got off in the car driving home? that made me giggle a bit because i did that once and ihave NO idea how i did not crash my car whilst doing it lol..will add you as a favourite..have a great day or night
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Thanks for adding me to your fav's ;o)
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I will be locking this diary up soon! You can find me at jalepenogirl
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thank you very much for adding me. Quite a compliment.
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i sent you an email...let me know if you got it! :)
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When I wrote that note...six more entries in your diary would of brought you to the #69, entry #69! I know I am a naughty girl, so I was curious in who you would want to rock you world (69 with?) ;o)
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Hi, thanks for the note...things are going better. I have a lot of catching up to do!
P.S. You have six more entries to go...then who do you want to rock your world?
;o) Hugs, Sweet Thing
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Well i'm trying to do some catching up..i'm so glad to have happened upon the closet sex entry! YES!!!! I'm happy for you..you have been such a patient and understanding man..A+ in my book! Glad her being off the pill has done the trick :)
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Damn, i'm gone for a little bit, and you have your page all pimped out?! LOL..i feel out of the loop now! Hope all is well w/you :)
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When we go, bring bail money, or at least have a phone number to get bail money ;o)
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I am honored that you'd love to hang with me at a bar or Vegas. Hopefully the wife would not be around so we could have a good time. I am also stoked to hear that the sex life has picked up in spades. That would kill me. Well, if I ever leave my Mrs. You'll be the first I let in on a roadie to Vegas.
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Yeah, isn't JL Chamberlain's story awesome? One guy standing at the fulcrum of all of US History. See, the thing with Lance though is that people want to tear him down now for doping. I think that's the thing, people are hyper-critical today, or maybe hypo-critical in days of yore. Or maybe there's just so many more pressures and temptations.
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The substance I took is still legal. You can buy it at any grocery store, pharmacy, or big retail chain. DHEA. It is on their banned substance list, so I am at their mercy. I took it five or six years ago. I need a nother year to train anyway to look my best, so I have no problem waiting. I want to get more size on my legs. It will take about a year to do that.
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so is my bf. he keeps asking when i will write more. soon i say, soon. and of course i still read. cheers :)
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hey love the new layout... and i look forward to reading you more.
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Nice new layout. Glad to hear the S-E-X has picked up. Hope it stays. The pill can mess people up. My sister was an emotional wreck when she was on them. Have her doctor change the prescription. I like snuggling up with the kids to, but they are to big now. I swap places with my youngest when I snore, but the visits to our bedroom never happen. It makes me think about having another kid, but then all I have to do is think about the diapers and night time feedings. No more want for a baby. Have a great weekend.
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You should really write more. Hate to nag, but I enjoy your posts.
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A disaster kit is good in theory, but the way they are talking, it will be months before you will be able to even think about leaving your house... You will need a SUPER LARGE stock if you are planning to keep the whole family alive. The very thought of all this makes me ill.
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Thank you for your note! I just skimmed through your diary and I seen that your wife may want another child? I could never have another child right now (seeings your son is as old as mine) That would be wayyy too much to handle PLUS you have two more children then me, haha. Well, I think I'm going to add you to my favs and continue reading!
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GAWD I wish! Not yet but someday although I do have images to share.
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There is something about a man's strength (smell, hair, etc etc) and power that is just an entirely different realm of pleasure and experience than being with a female. Although with soft and warm can be fab, I don't get the same level of satifaction at all. plus... nothing compares to a real penis. :)
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*I have to agree with you on this one..Except since I'm female, it kind of doesn't answer you question of what I see in men. The reason I am attracted to other girls is the same reason you are. A woman is a beautiful creature. A work of art. And, like you say, most men are gross. *I often questioned my sexuality, but I have come to settle with the fact that I am bisexual. I can't simply say I only like women or men. There are very few men that I am physically attracted to. And I really can't say just what it is that attracts me. My best guess is pheremones. I really don't check out too many guys, and the ones I do catch myself checking out have a "beautiful" feature.. Kind of like a woman.* I'm sure none of this has helped at all, but I thought I'd comment anyway. :)
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thanks for the note. Hope all is well:)
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hey yr cute!
gorgeous kids man.
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Mmmm, but I like it when he gets carried away ;o) Not the case this time, lol. Talk to you soon. Hugs, Sweet Thing
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Hi Handsome, nice looking family you've got there ;o) Have a great day. Hugs, Sweet Thing
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awww... cute kids... beautiful wife... nice lookin family. you're not so bad yourself ;)
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what an adorable family!
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hey I was linked to you through rose "bare my soul". wanted to let you know I'm reading you now. I'm a boring poor painter girl in new york, and I'm actually too shy to write about sexy things ( though i love sexy things ) but if yr interested in my words drop me a note for the secret passwords.
*claudy
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hey nerd I was introduced to slide
rules in moving my girlfreinds then stuff
back in the day Her grandfather worked
for Bell Canada as an engineer and he was
responsible for the location of the then
microwave towers from Montreal to Almost
Toronto She had like four of five I think
they are a mystery to me as is most math
I am math stunted but I get along
anyway just thought I would write
and say Hello from Canada North Bay ontario
.........:)
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thanks so much for the note, and the mention in your latest entry! you are one of the true "nice guys" and i really appreciate your words :)
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Interesting article, though incidentally I've heard that the divorce rate is more like 1/3. The 50% figure is a famous one because of a study done years ago, but what they measured is the number of people married vs. the number of people divorced in a single year. It turns out that it's impossible to track actual marriages that end in divorce because you can be divorced in a different state, or country, from where you were married, and also states only track statistics for the current year, not for individual marriages.
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Has she gone to see anyone about it? I know before you had brought things home for her to read, but has she sat down with someone over it? Just a thought, but if she is on any sort of anti-depressant, they also mess up the sex drive.
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Tuesday, July 12, 2005. Hi, been missing you around here! Hope you're alright, and update soon ;o) Take care, Hugs, Sweet Thing
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Hey, I thought about you yesterday - heard the IZ Somewhere Over The Rainbow song in the grocery store!
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Well, in that case it was basically licking her clit and then putting a finger in her pussy and another in her ass, and then pressing the 2 fingers together. Just something I came up with on the spur of the moment, but it got her off!
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Thanks for adding me. I think I may bore you though! Have a good weekend. ;-)Kathy
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I really appreciate the kind words and the link. I will build my stash up again. This time I think I am going digital. DVD's are a lot easier to hide than VHS tapes. Have a good weekend.
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Thanks. I just need someone to light the fire under my ass, to me motivated to write more often. I have been busy too. If you read my other diary you'll know why. Ciao doll.
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How cool! I was starting to think I had imagined the commercial since I haven't seen it since, and just Friday played the song for my mother to see if she knew the commercial and she didn't either. Thanks for letting me know. Also, hope your birthday was happy!
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Happy Birthday. I hope you had a good one. Kisses
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pretty-pussy : |
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happy birthday! im glad things are going well.
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Honey, I'm not even a guy and I've had that fantasy! :-D
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Hey thanks. I hope this means more money. I really could use it. The desk is bigger, so I don't see why they would not make the move.
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thanks, im glad you like the pics and cdbaby. i forgot to mention that if you want to hear jack off jill (which you should, at least one song..) you can listen at amazon.com.
did you find any new music you like yet?
my dad finally got his meds in the mail YESTERDAY!!! can you believe that? thats bull. he hasnt had any further problems that im aware of, so thats good.
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Is it just me, or does the very beginning of the Israel Kamakawiwo'ole song sound like a commercial that is running on TV? I keep thinking it's for laundry detergent or something. Anyway, I liked it and will look into hearing more of his music now. Since your musical interests are so varied, it might not seem too out of place for me to suggest Keri Noble (www.kerinoble.com). I love her voice and songwriting.
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well rockabillie... im sure our musical taste differs greatly, but if you are willing to try something new, jack off jill is really sexy and different. bitch and animal is original and catchy. but i am into music that doesnt sound like every other song on the radio. you can go to cdbaby.com to hear bitch and animal for free as well as tons of other great independant musicians.
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Do you want suggestions on things to listen to, or what I personally listen to? I have everything from Kate Bush to Type O Negative to Three Doors Down to Hatebreed. Oh, and The Calling (both Camino Palmero and Two)...
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I recommend Morcheeba, especially the Who Can You Trust? album. It's down tempo, and the singer has a beautiful voice.
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Aw, it's so nice to know that someone cares.. Thanks for the kind words - you are very thoughtful. :)
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*giggle* That has happened to me, too... a couple of times. Glad to see you are writing again. And I agree with you, writing in here should not feel like a chore. But sometimes it does, that is why it takes me so long to put up entries, lol. And yay for you, for getting some lovin' ;)
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You Rock ;o) I loved the entry! Thanks for the note, and I will be updating again soon. Hugs, Sweet Thing
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Don't go away for to long, o.k. You should have plenty to write about....how's the homelife, sex or still no sex, how's the kids, work going o.k. or bad, how's the hottie at work???? We won't know unless you update my friend, besides we miss you ;o) Hugs, Sweet Thing
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Hey! Sorry to hear the wife is still uninterested..that stinks! Have fun in Vegas! We're due for a vacation in May, but it won't be til toward the end of the month..darnit! Maybe next year?
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It was nice to read your entry, sorry the sex life is still in the toilet! Glad your youngster is doing better =o) Have a great evening hugs, Sweet Thing
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Hi, hoping you up-date soon....We All Miss You!
;o) Hugs, Sweet Thing
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Glad you had a good trip! Vegas would be great! Just went for the first time over the summer..it was fun! Thanks for writing about me in your profile..that was sweet ;) Hmmm... V-day gift..hell just you remembering to get her something on your own is awesome! A card is always nice..especially when you write in your own thoughts. And how about a gift certificate to a salon for a manicure, pedicure or massage? HTH! Have fun :)
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Good to hear that you had a good vacation. For Valentine's Day, my favorite presents are always things that mean something to me--like last year D made a homemade meal of my favorite foods along with a bottle of wine and my favorite DVD. We had a nice night without spending too much money. I really like your idea of meeting people in Vegas. Very interesting idea indeed!
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I'd love to go to Vegas. I have been dying to get back there. Depending on my bonus, maybe I can talk the wife into a weekend get away. Keep me posted when you are going.
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I'm glad you got something out of that entry. It wasn't easy to bare my soul like that (it's probably the most honest thing I've ever written about myself) and I've almost gona back and deleted it several times. Now, I'm pleased that I didn't.
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I'm so happy for you, glad things are starting to get better for your sex life ;o} Have a good week.
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LOL @ the note you left me! Welcome back! I've missed reading you, but can see you're awfully busy. So true what you wrote about D-land! ;)
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Like the quiz I got 13 out of 14!!! I guess I know my toys!
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Good luck with that big work load ahead of you.
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Like your diary. Hope you don't mind if I add you?
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Just wondering how things are going on the homefront??? Missing your entries, hope your doing alright, my friend!
Sweet Thing
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Where have ya been? Just wanted you to know i miss reading your entries!
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I agree with you, but like I said it is me being heartless and so not my problem, where were they when Americans were going through it?
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Well, that is a start. Good for you.
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Good for you!! I'm glad to hear that your wife is coming around. Here's to hoping for even better!
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I think this is the beginning of a good year for you and your wife!
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Yeah boy! I'm so glad to hear that you got some. I was crying at the part where you said your wife lost track cause you said you loved her so many times...i miss those days. I hope this is the start of something good for you both! Happy New Year! :)
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Way to go Stud! Still remember to give her a little space, hard as that may be, but it sounds like in due time (her time) she's coming around....opening up if you will. I am sure after that she will realize just how much she has missed it too!
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Congrats honey! Let's hope 2005 brings more you more trips to the oasis than before.
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Congrats. Let's hope 2005 is the year you get over the hump with the Mrs. :o)
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Hi, I am soo excited, can't wait to hear all about it my friend =~}
Sweet Thing
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Happy New Year's =~} I hope you and your wife have made some progresss. You're in my thoughts.
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Ok..not to be a "note whore", but i just wanted to better explain where i was coming from as i know that just telling her you need sex or need to cum will not work. I just meant explaining how you miss that aspect of your relationship and exactly what you said, that you'd like her to get back to that point again. Just opening the door to discussion may cause her to open up more to her true feelings. I think sometimes women need that push and i bet once she gets back to doing it again, she'll realize what she's been missing. While it's not the most important aspect of a relationship, it definitely does matter. We all need to feel desired. JMHO..hope i haven't overstepped at all! Just tell me to go away if so! LOL ;) Good luck to you!
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Yes, totally understood about the "charity" issue of it all. I feel the same in telling my H what i need...wondering if he does it, is it only because i told him what i want? Hang in there! I hope it comes together for us both soon!
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Ok..i'm all caught up! I must say, you are doing all the right things..trying to seduce, cards, letters, etc... You get an A+ in my book there! It seems you have a pretty open relationship. If i were you, i'd just lay it on the line. Explain to her that you need to feel that closeness--pour your heart out to her. I really think it'll help, if you haven't done so already. Next time you play cards, bring it up casually. Good luck!
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I sent you a thank you e-mail. Again, thanks.
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I've made it to 11/9! I'll try to catch up on the rest soon. Just a little input: I would think that even if she has problems "down there", she'd at least give you a BJ or wack you off now and then. Like you're suspecting, i think it's more of a deep-rooted problem. It's funny..what's lacking in your relationship is abundant in mine, and vise versa.
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Thanx for the note ;) So true what you said. I'm glad to see she is at least giving you what you need in other areas. Maybe she'll warm up to some lovin' soon! Good luck :)
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I just read the "100 Things About You." I don't understand. You voted for Bush, yet, you think gays should marry? Non capisco. Sorry, no offense, just wondering WHY [about Bush - not about gays getting married - I am all for that]???? xoxo - me
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Just came across your diary! I haven't had time to read it all yet, but just want to say that i can't believe you haven't had sex in nearly 7 months! I think the ways you are trying to bring it up to your wife are nice (the articles). Many men would not be as understanding. I really don't get why she isn't willing to go to a doctor about it. I remember i couldn't wait to resume "normal" sex after i gave birth! We did it way sooner than recommended. She needs to get help..maybe see a counselor? I'm rambling...just want to say i'm enjoying your diary so far!
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Hey sweetie, thanks for the note, the comment and making me a favorite. That was so sweet of you.
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There will be more to come. My brother, IMO, is the funniest guy on the planet.
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I wish I could get that bastard. The problem is, I don't know where it happened. I know it happened in the last two days, but where, fuck if I know. I called the police to see if they'd do finger prints and they basically told me I was fucked. You are the only person that has not told me to calm down. Thanks.
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I meant any of my notes in general. Thanks for replying! I commend you on your entry today....I know from experience affairs destroy your marriage, no matter how hard you try to fix things afterwords. YES, Ive been cheated on! Have a good day and hang in there.
Sweet Thing
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Lasweet, I must have missed your earlier question. My wife has never stated that sex was painful after childbirth, of course, we have not had sex to find out after the birth of our third one. In the brief moments we have had lucid conversation regarding the topic of sex (or more specifically the lack thereof) she talks about not feeling any interest, not that there is pain or the fear of pain. Thanks for your note.
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You've never responded to my notes but I was wondering...Has your wife mentioned about sex being painful after the birth of you last child? Or has she just not been interested? It's sad that it has been that long since you and your wife have hooked up! My hubby puts me through short time periods of notta, zip but never that long! Usually it's the girl that holds out and not the guy ~ guess I'm in a boat all my own. This time it's only been since Nov 24th. All the while I am still kind and give him head...go figure.
Best Wishes to you and good luck!
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Dude, sorry to hear things are not going well. I thought you had turned the corner when she started showing an interest in those articles. All I can say is keep trying. You might want to volunteer to talk to her doctor for her.
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I fully admit to being a technotard! If I have a computer issue, I've got three people on speed dial to try to walk me through fixing it. Yes, me and technology... we're not a happy couple! :-D
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I click on your link on how to create links, and it does not work. Is there any way you could leave the info in a note or email?
imadad2@yahoo.com
I ma the biggest technotard, and would love to know how to create links.
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I liked your last post very much. Very interesting to read about a man's perspective on how he changes over time.
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Happy Thanksgiving!
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I hear you on the older women. In the last 5 years, my tastes have changed a lot, I have a lot more appreciation for all kinds of women.
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I am also glad to hear you liked the game. I have always wanted to see a game at arrowhead stadium. I've been to a couple Texans games, and I know what you mean by the women. Texas has a lot of girls into football. My wife isn't, so when I go, it is a nice treat to be able to look and not get killed for doing so.
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Thanks for the note. Work is kind of slow right now. It picks up at the end of the year and then I won't have the time. I usually write one first thing in the morning and then another at lunch. I have had quite a life, so bringing back these memories is a lot of fun.
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Hey, I don't think I've actually said hi yet, I've been lurking for a few days. I like your diary and if you don't mind, I'll be adding you to my favorites. =)
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lasweetthing : |
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I read your entry today...VERY HOT!!! Keep the good stories cuming.
Have a good day!
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dirrrtygrrrl : |
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Hey there. I have added you to my favs. Your diary is very interesting. I hope to learn more about you. Ciao
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ms-turner : |
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I'm not yet old and gray (only 21) and I'm already wishing I had more sex! What frustrations I have to look forward to! :-D
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I am keeping the faith, Auntie-Ame, I'm keeping the faith! But a little crumb every now and then would sure help! LOL
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Oh, hon, I didn't realize until I read the '100 things' entry that your kids were so young! I'd say that is about 90% of your wife's lack of sexual interest right there. I've always had a healthy sex drive, but from the time my daughter was born until she was about 3, my interest in sex was ZERO. Part of the problem was just being tired from no sleep and always being 'on call' for the kid, but the other part is that, for the mom, kids are so demanding of your bodily space. When you spend all your free time holding and rocking and cuddling and wrangling with kids, once you finally get them in bed the LAST thing you want is yet another person trying to climb on top of you... LOL. It's normal for women not to be interested in sex when their kids are small. Once the kids start getting into pre-school chances are your sex life will gradually bounce back.
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I liked your list as well. I must confess, that I used your list to complete mine. I never thought I could get to 100. I had to look at yours several times to get through.
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lasweetthing : |
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Bravo, well done on your 100 list! Made for some good reading my friend.
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Maybe I'm shallow, but I think sex holds about 30-40% in a relationship. Yes, being friends and trusting each other is important as well, but without sex, it's like living with a friend of yours and you just happen to share a bed.
I love my husband, and that means a lot, but not having sex can put a strain on a relationship. At least to me.
Then again, maybe I'm just shallow.
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classygirl83 : |
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thanks for telling me that most people get fired at some point. It helps to know I'm not the only one.
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lasweetthing : |
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Sex is a bonus, a small part of the relationship but if you don't have a connection, intimacy, trust, love and friendship to back it up....then your just going through the motions. Glad to hear you've got the real thing!
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I would have to say that in a relationship, sex itself is about 10-20%. It all depends on the person I suppose because for a man, sex isn't so much about feelings, but for a woman sex has feelings involved (for the most part). Most women find it difficult to seperate the two. In my own relationship, I find sex to be a huge benefit because I've been without for a month while I was sick and we actually realized then how much we really love each other. Ok, I think I'm rambling now. Hehe...
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I agree with you. On the sex thing. Physical-ness isn't all that's in a relationship, cause think about it if you just hook up with someone, you don't know them and they don't know you and that's not a relationship, so I deffinatly agree with you. Although sex is prolly like 30% I would say, I don't know though. I could be worng. Good diary though!
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Thanks yet again you are very sweet, I agree that sex is only like 15% of the importance the most important is intimacy, which I define through friendship and closeness.
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lildebkitty : |
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Thanks for the note, and the thoughts!
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Are you sure it's Goose? I thought it was someone else... Not Iceman but his flying partner.... Dammit I can't remember his name! I guess that's because I go into 'wet mode' whenever the volleyball scene comes on and all thought processes go out the window (along with a few dozen IQ points)!
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thanks for the note! makes a girl blush!
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lasweetthing : |
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I added you to my list of favs, hope you don't mind. Have a good weekend.
Sweet Thing
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Thank you for the wonderful comment you left me. After I read your entry, I understood even more what you meant. I hope that you and your wife are able to find the right dosage of medication! That would be awesome. Thanks again...:~)
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imadad2 : |
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Been there done that. The thyroid could be your source of your problem. My wife had thyroid problems with pregnancy as well. It is worth looking into. Going without it for a week makes me grumpy. I don't know how you do it. Hang in there.
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lildebkitty : |
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well I hope you have found the answer you are looking for, until then good luck!!
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lasweetthing : |
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Very nice writing. Hope your wife realizes what a good thing she's got!
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rockabillie : |
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Kitty, thanks for reading and caring enough to leave a note, it means a lot to me (that goes for everyone who has left notes). I am certain that body image has something to do with it. She is still about 5 lbs heavier than before conceiving #3, which puts her probably equal to her weight before we conceived #1. In other words she looks great! But she does not believe it from her friends or me. Do you have any suggestions?
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I have often heard that when women have children they loose interest in sex. That for some reason they shift from lover to care giver. I would think if I were in your wife's shoes, after having children, I would feel fat, unattractive, so on and so on. Maybe you should try making some comments about her appearance and stroke that side of her ego, I know I would need that if I hadn't gotten my pre-baby body back...
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I enjoyed your entries about masturbating in the car. I also love to play with myself while driving down the highway. Damn good thing, too... there's not a lot of privacy at my place in the mornings, which is when I'm at my horniest. Some days it's either a wank in the car on the way to work or I know I'll be squirming in my chair all day.
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phangasm : |
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Let's hope your sister in law's condition is genetic!
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phangasm : |
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I think your wife and mine were separated at birth.
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