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I've been gone from D-land for a while. I was wondering if you could share your new location with me? Clarity_new@yahoo.com. I hope you're doing well and having a good weekend!
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I would like to know the new location & I'll add you to myspace as well, if you want to share. You can leave a note on my diary or e-mail me at ashleybrooke83@hotmail.com Thanks!
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I would like to keep reading. :)
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Westen also chewed on his hands.. particularly his thumb & more so when he was teething. He's never actually sucked his thumb or anything.. had a binky when he was young but we got rid of that already.. So I think your baby's fine! I'm sure he's just exploring & yes, Westen would also choke himself sometimes.. I think it's all just part of the learning process. Also, Westen has had allergies just like mine.. plus I'm not sure where you are, but with all the changes in weather lately, I'm sure some of it could be from that. I wouldn't worry!
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I just noticed your note! I'm sorry. It's a long story, can I have your email address (again!)?
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*wishing you lots of luck* our moms sound a lot alike. i know i will be in your situation about a year from now. i'm really thinking of you!
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Wow, that's awful. I'm sure it's so frustrating, annoying, and even hurtful. I'm glad you're standing up for yourself & I hope you continue to. Is there any other options for watching the baby? I'm sure that may only add to the problem between you & your mom, but it sounds like a different option would be a better environment for the baby.
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Different situation, but I totally understand. Having my first baby totally wrecked what remained of my relationship with my mother. It is one more way to try and control. I'm sorry... I know you depend on her for babysitting. I hope you to find a way through this better than we did.
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Thank you for adding me to your favorites. I only read a little of your diary so far, but I'm looking forward to reading more.
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Thanks for the note! It feels great to get praise for a job well done at work, and from fellow bloggers.
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i just noticed that you added me to your buddylist. thanks. i have only read one entry of your so far... but i alrady feel like i want to hug you. i know what you are going through...even if it was a while back... i remember times like that with my husband too.... hope we become blog-buddies...
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I'm sorry :( .. I'm not too familiar with you, as I haven't read a whole lot, but do you work anywhere? Is there anything you can do to meet more people?
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i think there are a lot more people out there like this than you think. not many are willing to admit how lonely they are. i know that has a lot to do with how much i work. i am a workaholic so i don't have time to be alone. because, when i am, i have to admit to myself how lonely i am. i wonder if this is the curse of the "independant" woman of this new decade.
but, if we lived closer, we would definitely hang-out more!!
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He is a cutie...Congratulations!
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neangel : |
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he's so damn adorable! you're so incredibly lucky!
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What an adorable picture!!!
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Awww, that is such a cute picture!! He is adorable!
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I'm so sorry... I don't know the details. I hope it wasn't too horrible? what's going on? I'm thinking about you...
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Loss of a pet is hard, The grief wont just go away right off the bat. It takes time. That's natural. P.S. That LJ icon had me laughing too!
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You can leave an email address for me in my notes, or I'll just send you the password at MySpace later tonight. :)
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You deserve to be sloth-like during maternity leave. This is your time to relax and bond with Aidan.:). I'm so happy that you had a healthy beautiful baby. I can't express that enough. Best wishes to you and your family.
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I just started reading you, but if you want to add me, I'm on MySpace and I'd be happy to be added. Check the link in my diary. :)
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that is the most beautiful baby pic ever! it looks like it's out of a magazine! wow!!!!!
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wow, i am so excited for you. you are SO CLOSE! i am so sorry for you about your cat, but you know how the saying goes; when one door closes, another opens. you have lost your cat, but wow, you are so close to having a beautiful new baby. yay!!!!!!
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Lisa, I hope this doesn't make you cry sad tears. Only happy ones allowed! But I firmly believe when animals pass they become guardian angels. Your angel kitten will be blessing your new baby! Smile knowing that!!!
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good for you! you deserve a vacation!
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thanks for the email! i sent you a return ;o)
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i just tried to leave you a message at myspace, but my computer wouldn't post it or some crap like that. i was hoping to see preggers pics??? i bet you are so cute! :o) thanks for the notes, i am so sorry i have been so busy i have been being crappy friend. i am hoping to catch up on journals and stuff tomorrow, but the crappy thing is, i can't get myspace at work, so i'll still be behind there. i haven't read a post there from ANYONE in months probably! what a slacker i am! anyhoo, also, i have been wondering what name you guys picked out? is it a secret? did i some how miss you posting it? i have been hit and miss on journals. hopefully i'll get all caught up tomorrow. ugh. this has been a long note about pretty much nothing. i am just SO HAPPY to have some free time!!!!!!
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Wow, your baby is getting so big. That's really exciting. You have so much to look forward to. I also hope you had a fun baby shower.:). P.S. I'm sorry for your loss, losing a pet is so hard because they truly become a member of your family. It's painful. I'm Thinking about you, Lisa and hoping that you're having a good week.
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Oh honey. I just keep saying I'm sorry only because I don't know what else to say. It's going to get better. I don't like it when people tell me "he/she is in a better place" and other things like that so I am going to refrain. I just wish you weren't so hard on yourself. I hope this doesn't make you cry, but your baby kitty is an angel now! That's what made me happy when I lost mine. I always think of her in that way, with wings.
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oh, sweetie, i'm so sorry! it's not your fault, though. like you said, you were trying to prtect her. you were doing what you thought was right. you were taking care of her. she knows this. don't hate yourself.
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i have has that feeling a lot lately. what i have decided is that if it's a chore i just won't do it. i won't officially "close," but just not write much. people can leave you notes, you can leave them back, whatever, but don't feel like you have to. i hope you don't go away for good! but, i can really relate to what you are saying!
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i know what you mean about american idol. it's getting down to all the people i don't want to see go. every week is tougher to watch! :o)
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oh my gosh! how exciting that you feel him "jumping around" all the time! :o)
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Thanks for your last note, It's good to know there are other oldest children out there that went through similar issues. I'm excited about your baby coming, it sounds like everything is slowly coming together..the room, the crib. :). I hope you're having a good week!
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I can't believe it's under 90 days now... seems like yesterday! I can't wait. I know you will be such a great Mommy! I love your mail!!!
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i do hear ya on the mom issues!!! i am so nervous when i have children b/c i know my mom will constantly tell me how to raise my damn children-- and just like you said-- LIKE SHE did a good job!!! :o)
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Eric always does that too, He starts these big projects at the worst imaginable times. He's stubborn and wont listen to logic. So I just work around him and let him do his thing. I feel ya.
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i know exactly what you mean about the hubby! if i ever get a chance to write a real update that is one of the things i wanted to talk about. shane and i really got into it this weekend about him never doing the house chores and me doing them all! ugh!
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Thank you for your last note. As you can probably imagine. I can understand your frustrations concerning your relationship with your younger brother. We're going through similar problems. I wish he would listen, open up a bit more and for once take something I say into considerations. We've been falling apart as well, it's just disheartening. I hope it all works out.
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Honey, I think it's pretty insensitive for him to send you an email requesting such gifts when your relationship is almost non-existant.
I know that has to hurt because I fall apart every time I get angry with my brother over not taking the trash out. Have you ever tried to have a heart-to-heart with him, or does he get really defensive when you do?
I know it's difficult, but very soon you will have your precious baby and unconditional love.
xo
woe
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i have a big problem with my little brother. we are so different. i really disagree with most of his life choices, but i have NEVER treated him ill because of it (besides the normal sibling stuff pre-middle school age). just this weekend he told my mom he wouldn't come to her b-day b/c we treat him like shit anyway. that's beyond me. i didn't agree with his marriage yet i never told him it was a bad idea. i supported him, bought him the most expensive gift on his registry b/c i know he doesn't have much, i video tapes his wedding, and that's what i get. i love him so much and i try so hard to be a part of his life. yet, he pushes me away and makes me really not want to try. i feel guilty for not wanting to try, so i try again and only get hurt. it's a viscious cycle, i know what you mean. i don't think it has anything to do with people not liking you. i think you are fantastic! if we lived closer we would SO be hanging out. please don't think it's you... it's just a problem your brother has. one day he will realize all he has missed out on not being clser to you.
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it seems to work... i've been playing with it for a while. but, shane tried to log in and it shows MY profile when he looks at it. so, it must only do one profile per ip address or something. but, grab it soon, i think i'm going to erase that note so it's still a pretty good secret *snicker* ;o) ---now i am freaking out about the people I'VE snooped on who might have had it!!! hee, hee!
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Keep your chin up, buttercup. *hugs*
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Thank you so much for your kind and encouraging note. Don't worry about updating, when you feel inspired...the words will come.:). I hope you're doing well.
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i know what you mean. i feel the same way. i just have nothing to say. everyone else's lives seem so much more interesting than mine!
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Happy Valentine's Day to one of my very best dlander friends! Tons of best wishes....
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wow! i came here to write you a note b/c i thought you hadn't updated in a while. i saw the other notes talking about maternity clothes and i was wondering, "what? when did she write about that?" then i clicked on your diary and saw i missed and update! and you wrote about me!! :o) stupid dl didn't let me know you updated! well, i am glad things are plugging along. and, i hear you on the dishes. although, i hate taking out the garbage more. #2 is dishes for me! :o)
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I can imagine that finding good maternity clothing IS difficult. I wonder where Angelina Jolie goes shopping, I'm sure her outfits cost only 400 -700$ each.:) P.S. Thank you so much for the caring shout out.
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Congratulations! You're having a boy!! :) :) I got your message on friendster, I'm sorry I haven't been around lately. Work has overcome my life and I don't have much time for anything. Thanks for thinking of me.
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clarity25 : |
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A little boy! That's so exciting! Congratulations!
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congratulations!
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f-girl : |
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shane is the same way! and i don't have a lot of girl friends to talk to about stuff, either. i think it's a guy thing. i haven't figured it out. basically i just pout and soon he figured out something is wrong. we don't have a solution. it is annoying, though and i do get sick of it. i completely understand!
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It's completely understandable that aches and pains would make you uneasy or nervous. It will be fine though, I feel it in my heart.:). Plus I've been praying for you and your baby. I also have the same question as the previous comment. Have you thought of any baby names yet?
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you are so right? why is the world like that? i guess it keep us grounded, but it is so hard to remember. thanks! :o)
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I'm so glad everything is going well, I can't wait to find out the results of the ultrasound!
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I'm sorry you were alone and felt lonely this New Years. I wish I could give you a hug and make you feel a bit better. I hope this year is good for you, you have a bundle of joy coming and so many exciting things ahead of you. I believe it's going to be wonderful. Thank you for reaching out last night to help during my time of crisis. That meant a great deal to me. I just want you to know that.
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wow. your words are my thoughts right now. i will be writing a thoughtful one about this later today. why don't guys get it?
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*hugs hugs hugs*
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oh my gosh, yes! i completely understand. it creeped me out for a long time. and, as stupid as it sounds, i wondered for a long itme if their spirit was visiting me to try to tell me something--- i know, i'm a weirdo!!
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I was thinking about you today, I hope you had a wonderful christmas.
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That's great that you could hear the heart beating. so exciting! I'm trying to imagine what that must be like...and I simply can't. Good luck with getting all your christmas shopping done. :)
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I'm sorry about the problem with your ceiling, It seems like these kind of things always occur at the worst times. I hope it all works out. I can understand your frustration.
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okay, so sorry i have been bad about commenting...
first of all, i would say raising almost all young girls would be hard. not that i've DONE it, but working at the high school, i cringe thinking my daughter might be like some of those girls. i see a lot of things the parents never do. secondly, raising a step-daughter? i would thing that would be 100 times harder! yikes!
and, that incentive from your boss is awesome! when i worked at h.d. i actually cashed mine out. what a misake! ugh!
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*HUGS HUGS HUGS HUGS* I'm sorry that you feel so lonely. If you have any messengers, let me know and we could chat sometime.
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i'm sorry. if i knew how to "chat" online i would. but, i'm a loser like that :o) hope things get better tonight!
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Thanks for the birthday wishes!
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clarity25 : |
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Thank you so much for your last note.
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clarity25 : |
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I'm so sorry for the anxiety you're feeling and the stress. It's understandable that you feel this way. I have faith that it will go fine, but maybe you need a better doctor?
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okay, i am a complete idiot. last night i went to the post offic to mail you a little something. it was 4:45. they were about to close and it was a madhouse in there. i put a little something in a package for you and shipped it. as i walked out i realized the card that went with it was in my hand!! what a dork i am! anyway, i went back, addressed the card, and sent it also. so, if you get the card before the package, it goes with what will be coming. if you get the package first, there is a card on it's way. *stupid* hee, hee.
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i have been meaning to send you a hello at your new home! :o) i love this new template; very cool. i am so excited for you, your hubby, and new baby. i am keeping you in my prayers!
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I hope you get feeling better soon! I bet it was so exciting to see your baby. *hugs*
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Thanks for your last note and leading me to your new home. I like your template:)
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I'm glad to see you at your new home. :-)
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