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from cosmicrayola :
I've lost Cassie's password. Help!
from cosmicrayola :
Prayer just delivered. Hope things work out.
from forty-plus :
I am praying for Andrea and her unborn baby. Please let me know how she does.
from cosmicrayola :
Wow! You are NC-17 and I am PG 13. I never saw that coming!
from forty-plus :
Obviously we are mature women completely in touch with our sensuality, not just common dirty old women! :D
from forty-plus :
The health care providers couldn't keep her after she said THAT? Holy cow, I hope the husband gets a hold of those kids.
from cosmicrayola :
Tina seems to be screaming for help. I hope her husband hears her before she does something stupid. He should insist on a psych evaluation from her doctor.
from cosmicrayola :
I loved finding Neverland!! I cried too.
from cosmicrayola :
I can't wait to see the picture! She is bright. Of course we knew that already, didn't we?
from cosmicrayola :
Maybe the kids will clue dad in while they're there. Prayers will be said for them.
from cosmicrayola :
It sounds as though she may be suffering from Munchausen Syndrome. I pray for her kids. Friend or foe, I think I would have to tell the ex. For her to have this all this drama about the accident going on and then just turn it off to act as hostess to this virtual stranger sounds like someone on the edge. You may lose a friend, but you may be stepping in when you are most needed. The kids dad needs to be aware of what's happening. Good luck.
from forty-plus :
It's up to the ex-husband to deal with this. There is only so much you can do. Maybe up the prayers?
from grr-stoopid :
hello. i'm just a random person looking at random diaries. i don't think you are a bad friend, you seem really nice. i do think that if not for her kids i would suggest you put a vast distance between you and this woman. but then there's the kids... i hope everything sorts itself out. i hate attention seeking drama queens. well that's my two cents lol. bye bye angela
from forty-plus :
Holy cow! Run like the wind in the opposite direction of this person or she'll take you down too, one way or another.
from forty-plus :
Stress, Girlfriend. I hope you will seek help before sleeplessness becomes a way of life.
from forty-plus :
I hope you feel better today. {{{Hugs}}}
from laineyducks :
You have to wonder what she was thinking that the money was THAT important. Goodness.
from cosmicrayola :
How senseless to ruin your life for such a stupid reason. The only good thing about it is that since she is a minor, she will be able to get it sealed if she never repeats. How very sad.
from forty-plus :
Oh no. Why did she do such a thing? I hope you can recover your financial losses but I also hope she can get the help she needs.
from forty-plus :
You do! I like that style too. Rest well before the big trip.
from cosmicrayola :
How pretty you look!
from forty-plus :
This makes me want to sob. Senseless. I'm praying for your entire family especially Holly's little girl.
from cosmicrayola :
I am so sorry. I just caught up with you. I am behind on everything and everyone. That should be history now. I am much less busy.
from autumnleigh :
My deepest sympathy to you. What a terrible tragedy.
from eggsaucted :
Hugs!
from forty-plus :
Sandy, I am so sorry for you and your family. So sorry.
from autumnleigh :
That's too awful for words. Now is a good time for a miracle. I hope (but doubt) the scumbag will get the punishment he deserves.
from forty-plus :
Oh Sandy. I am praying for Holly and for a miracle.
from forty-plus :
Some day she will be ready to help herself. Hopefully.
from forty-plus :
I am saying my best prayers for your friend. Please let me know how she's doing.
from cosmicrayola :
I hear you! My world has been very hectic lately too.
from forty-plus :
Being busy is good as long as you are still taking time for yourself, which doesn't always have to include a shower! :)
from cosmicrayola :
I cannot believe you did what you did! I wouldn't have dared to do that. You have saved this poor woman perhaps months of guessing and trying to prove anything. God bless you and your hubby! You may end up having to testify at the divorce hearing. I would love to have been a fly on the wall/inside of the car as they drove away. Rpice of changing the lock: $10.00 Price of a few toll calls made by the wife minutes later: $10.00. The look on the husbands face as the wife was running off a list of things in the Condo? Priceless!
from forty-plus :
What a sad and hurtful situation. He's got a lot of nerve using his wife's father's home to conduct his affair.
from forty-plus :
I hope Hubby sat up and noticed how well you are appreciated. ;)
from forty-plus :
It's man who is faulty, not God.
from cosmicrayola :
I hope you feel better soon!
from forty-plus :
Feel better!
from forty-plus :
I hope the tourists have been at least leaving you good tips.
from eggsaucted :
Hey Sands...are you giving out the password to this one? If so email. thanks! Hugs! ~egg
from laineyducks :
I'm a little disturbed by what your neighbors tell you. I can't even imagine dropping in on the office ladies and telling them things like that (we live above the office). Oh yes I AM a hoarder. You should see our closets. We tried to keep the couch by putting it in the nursery, but couldn't get it around the corner through the door. *sad* It was fun ripping it apart though! Luckily I didn't get strep, but the GI bug hit me.
from forty-plus :
I hope everyone is alright. ~ Yvonne
from laineyducks :
Sandy - I didn't get it, but we've had such computer issues this past month! Try me at thumper.e@gmail.com?
from forty-plus :
Kidney stones are not fun but thank goodness it's not something even worse! Get some good rest tonight. {{Hugs}} Yvonne
from cosmicrayola :
I have passed 2 stones about 1 year apart. I will honestly tell you this. I had my son full breach and the passing the stone was worse. The good news is that once it passes, the pain is gone.
from laineyducks :
Deep calming breaths. There are a lot of people pulling for you and your family. *hugs* :)
from autumnleigh :
My brother passed a kidney stone last year. Not fun, but you're right -- better than surgery.
from forty-plus :
Oh my word! I hope they can figure out what's going on and that he will be okay! Let us know as soon as you can. Hugs to all, Yvonne
from cosmicrayola :
OKG, I hope he is alright. Let me know!
from cosmicrayola :
History isn't always repeated. Your lives will be what you make them and Cassie's will be what you make hers. She is in good hands.
from forty-plus :
Thankfully, this is something that can be managed with meds and it was discovered sooner rather than later. You and Michael have a choice to not repeat bad cycles and you've already made it. I would bet you continue to rededicate yourselves to making life good and right every day with each other and with Cassie. {{hugs}} Yvonne
from laineyducks :
You, Michael, and the munchkin are in our prayers - keep us posted about everything.
from cosmicrayola :
I'll keep you all in my prayers.
from forty-plus :
I am praying for Michael and you.
from cosmicrayola :
"The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants" Great, great movie!
from christina75 :
aww poor baby..I wish my kids napped...abby who will be six in Feb has not napped since she was 2...zach who will be 9 in march has not napped since 3 and emma..well lets just say she is starting to realize she may miss something if she naps durring the day.. I need a vaction..with no kids;)
from sandmanjs :
You had a Less Than Jake song!!!! That's so cool. Liked that little quiz...so much I copied it :)
from forty-plus :
{{Hugs}} and rest well today.
from forty-plus :
These kinds of days keep those close to supermom types humble! Hang in there, tomorrow will be better.
from starlight42 :
odd conversations that go on in womens bathrooms!! or men's for that matter. dave went to the bathroom at a restaurant this weekend and heard the guy in the stall saying, "flush! flush! alright, DON'T flush!" haha
from christina75 :
did u ask her what she made..LOL
from sandmanjs :
Man, everyone's got these nice long messages and here I am just to say that I opened the diary back up. But it's open now, oh and I used "sandy" for the password and username. HAHA...but now you can get all caught up. Not that anything exciting happened. Hey, now it looks like I left a decent length message. :)
from christina75 :
aww sandy, dont worry.. this coming from me who spends every minute i can in the sun. and when i cant i go to the fake bake.. one day i will regert it i know. give up diet coke???..never:)
from forty-plus :
Because it's happening to you! I am positive if the doctors thought it could be an emergency, they would have you in there much sooner. Wishing you staying calm vibes!
from christina75 :
hi sandy, not sure how i found this..but i didnt know u had your own site..u sneeky girl. i totally get your point..if i didnt tell marc when anyones b-days were noone would get a call or present..it is a man thing..they have no concept of remebering crap:)
from forty-plus :
I stopped reminding my husband about his family's birthday and guess what happened ... September 25 came and went and someone forgot to call his mother on her birthday! Now guess who is being blamed. Yep, me. When I stop rolling my eyes I may care a little, and then again, maybe not! :)
from cosmicrayola :
And you're still coming to my house for coffee, right?
from autumnleigh :
Oh, stop! I know how you feel, but really, we women have to stop beating ourselves up. Now, go eat some fruit and prep some kabobs to grill for dinner -- and remind yourself how healthy and beautiful you are.
from laineyducks :
Oh thank goodness - someone else who hates people who eat on the phone. I'm so sick of the parents calling US to make their children's appointments that are eating apples, chips, or something else noisy. RUDE!
from cosmicrayola :
That's strange. Your link turned red so I thought you updated. hmmmmm.
from forty-plus :
I have never enjoyed shopping with anyone else. Too much pressure to not bore the other person!
from starlight42 :
that's funny. i used to be like that too, want a buddy to go shopping. but you're right, its so much easier by yourself!
from laineyducks :
*HUGS* You're a wonderful person and people love you.
from orgami :
forty over ring member Fairy eh? sorry to hear about the sad stuff in your life me I am moving so I am making a change out of a rather political crap place into a nicer one hopefully I have a wonderful mate soul-mate and we love our library time to write freinds and diaryland we dont work we are on disability both intelligent though both poetically inclined both nice people
from starlight42 :
I thought I left a note about your neighbor, but I guess I didn't, I don't see it here! Anyway, that's so sad. Life can be SO unexpected. Thanks for the notes of suggestions too by the way. THank goodness the wallet was found!
from cosmicrayola :
Tell us!
from cosmicrayola :
Hugs to you and your family. I will be thinking of you.
from forty-plus :
I am sorry to hear of Claudett's passing. Thinking of you, Yvonne
from cosmicrayola :
I am so sorry. Hugs to you and to her family.
from sandmanjs :
Hey there...I totally forgot about adding you...had to lock it cause somebody at work found it. BAD person. Anyway, your nickname is all you need to know... Let me know if you get in!!!
from forty-plus :
Oh Sandy. I am so sorry. My thoughts are with you and your neighbor's family.
from starlight42 :
I'll try to take a picture of the bracelet this weekend. Hopefully it will show up ok, since the beads are kind of sparkley-see-through. Aww, what a great mother's day! I can't wait until I can be a mom to celebrate too :0
from laineyducks :
It sounds like your Mother's Day was a sucess. You deserve it.
from cosmicrayola :
I want to see a picture of the ring! What a wonderful mother's day for you! You deserve it!
from forty-plus :
Happy Mother's Day!
from eggsaucted :
So you have your own diary! I'm probably tired all the time because I do stupid things like staying up late. Oh well and I'm working my butt off raising a 2 year old by myself. But I love her, so I guess I can't complain. Sleep will be had when there's time. I have all kinds of time off due me at work and I can't take it because I just have too much going on. BAH! I just need to stop being dedicated. Hugs! ~R
from forty-plus :
Change can be very exciting especially with a great attitude!
from forty-plus :
Ugh, poor Mike and double ugh for you. I hope everyone has properly recovered!
from cosmicrayola :
Oh my. Mikey was a naughty boy. Well, at least you know where is is and where he was. It is forgivable. But boy, am I glad I'm not him this morning!
from laineyducks :
Oooo. I know that feeling of watching the munchkin for that reason. *hugs* The best part is he's probably learned his lesson - it only takes once :)
from starlight42 :
oohhh, I forgot you have your "own" diary!
from cosmicrayola :
I have a plan. How scarey is that?? Haha
from forty-plus :
You make me smile!
from thecrankyone :
Thank you very much for your sweet comment. I loved reading your diary, but ever since I read about Sandra Dee passing away, I have that song from Grease stuck in my head.... I've been following Cathy's wedding, pretty cool actually. You should be able to find many of them online - http://www.ucomics.com/cathy/ though I think they are a few days behind for copyright reasons..at least you can catch up.
from laineyducks :
That's how I felt! We only get Cathy when we visit the in-laws.
from cosmicrayola :
Yas, she married the guy she has been going with forever.
from forty-plus :
She did not have an easy life.
from sandydahling :
Hey there! Nice to know someone knows I'm alive. :-) Yes, I'm coming back. Tomorrow, in fact!
from cosmicrayola :
That is sad. Ican stilly see her singing "Tammy's in Love"
from laineyducks :
Oh my. That's so sad - yours was the first account of that I saw. Young too.
from cosmicrayola :
Well that beats all. What was hubby thinking???
from laineyducks :
Some people are like that - I'm sorry.
from laineyducks :
WHAT? Someone needs to shake that mother.
from forty-plus :
My left is larger than my right! :)
from forty-plus :
Potlucking from friends' house to friends' house is far more financially friendly!
from catinasnit :
Absolutely nothing helps, except of course, time. I had an elderly neighbor who died this past year. We all just loved her to death. I made an entry about it called, Burying Marion (this past fall). It's part of life, though. ~ I'm so happy for Amber Alerts and for people like you who do their part. Thank you for caring.
from cosmicrayola :
I am so sorry. I don't know what else to say.
from laineyducks :
Oh Sandy - That's so sad. *HUGS*
from forty-plus :
Sandy, this is too sad.
from forty-plus :
They found Adam alive! Thank God. Now, he has to begin his life as a survivor.
from forty-plus :
And I meant to tell you ... Hubby and I had a HUGE discussion about stepping up to the discipline plate this morning. He has been throwing his hands up in the air in the very male, "what do you want me to do?" The discussion is NOT finished.
from forty-plus :
My dad had too much skin on his upper lid and it was affecting his sight. The eye doctor suggested this surgery and the insurance company approved it, so he went ahead and had it done. He is doing quite well and says it doesn't hurt him as much as listening to my mother's nagging. I tell him, he picked her! Hope you have a really wonderful day, Y.
from forty-plus :
I actually love having the two boys. Youngest Son is very much like me but less inhibited about sharing his crabby moods! We had only planned for one child, but God had other plans.
from catinasnit :
I found your site through another and read your answers to the survey you took from Cosmic. Isn't it amazing what you can learn from those?
from foursquare :
Oh believe me, I feel your pain! Luckily hotdogs are on Booger's very very short list of foods she'll actually eat.
from laineyducks :
Is everything all right? What's up?
from cosmicrayola :
What's wrong????? E-mail me
from forty-plus :
That definitely doesn't sound good. {{Hugs}}
from sandylicious :
Well...I broke his heart so...no not really.
from cosmicrayola :
Though it is definately NOT someone I would read and the pictures are not my cup of tea, they most disgusting one was at the bottom and since it isn't a Diaryland banner, I don't think there will be anything done about it. Free speech and all that. I am surprised though that she is allowed that one. In my opinion, it should at least be locked.
from forty-plus :
Dear Sandy, I received your holiday package today. What a nice presentation! Thank you and you have a lovely family. xx, Yvonne
from forty-plus :
These are the good days!
from forty-plus :
I try to memorize moments and features every day!
from harri3tspy :
Thanks for the note from the other day and for sharing your charity. The Amber alert is a great one too. We always put together an end of year list and then pick the top few for each year. I'm hoping to start getting AJ in on the action, although I'm not sure how much he understands yet and I'm not sure how much I'm ready to explain about some of the charities. Do you do anything with Cassie?
from forty-plus :
Dress size! LOL!
from raschel :
Hey, welcome to the Ocean-Diaryring. Thanks for joining!
from cosmicrayola :
Belated Happy Birthday!! Sorry I missed it yesterday. I never even read one diary!
from autumnleigh :
Happy Birthday to you!
from forty-plus :
Happy Birthday! {{HUG}} Happy Birthday!
from forty-plus :
When my parents move to Florida, knowing I can come visit you will make putting up with their antics worth it! Thank you, Y.
from forty-plus :
Enough. My eyes are blinking fast and my nose is now red. Lovely story.
from forty-plus :
I hope Cassie and Hubby show how much they appreciate you today and every day with lots of praise and hugs. Happy Thanksgiving Day!
from forty-plus :
Sandy, Sweetie! Your poor face. I hope you are taking extra care with it.
from forty-plus :
My parents are looking at real estate in Florida right this moment! They called to make me feel bad about your beautiful weather. I don't mind, I'm happy for them ... and me!
from forty-plus :
Feel better.
from forty-plus :
It sounds like a great group of friends. No Desperate Housewives for you gals!
from forty-plus :
I really loved Christmas when the boys were little. Now it's big tag items which Hubby takes care of, no more little this and thats for me to buy. It's iPods, letterman jackets, and cash. I am CERTAINLY not rushing, but secretly I can't wait for grandchildren!
from forty-plus :
Not pregnant? You snuck that little statement in there. Did you think you were and are you trying? I hope you are feeling better. xx, Yvonne
from inkdragon :
You are so right about children only being little for such a short time. Before I knew it, mine were teenagers! Take a moment now and you will treasure the memories and she will remember she was most important to you. Feel better Sweet Girl!
from cosmicrayola :
Someone sent that link to me in an E-mail. I loved it! All you have to do is copy the URL and pront it in the body of the letter and send it. And Thank you so much for your comment about the role model. You are just soooo sweet!
from inkdragon :
I'm exhausted just reading all you got accomplished!
from inkdragon :
I'm praying my heart out. Please be careful.
from cosmicrayola :
Trust me on this one. My daughter tested out at 160 when she was 8 years old. Later on when she was in Jr. high, she made friends with girls and boys that were, shall we say, not in her range. She wanted to fit in, so she downplayed her smarts. I could kick myself for not putting her ahead when I had the chance. If Cassie belongs in a grade ahead, do it now before she forms her long-lasting friendships.
from autumnleigh :
Hey! I'm glad you've started your own diary, and I hope you find other ways to fill your days. Are you into scrapbooking? Even though we make them FOR children, it's so much easier to do (more productive) when they're not around!
from inkdragon :
We will always second, third, one billion guessed the decisions for our children. Can Cassidy remain a home visiting buddy?
from cosmicrayola :
Welcome to the ring! I didn't know you started your own diary. If you have any problem with it, I'm sure Cassie can help you out. She does such a good job with thers, lol.
from inkdragon :
Ugh, your cousin's daughter. I hope she is not addicted, I've seen so many young lives ruined by this drug. I hope this is her wake-up call and she turns herself around.
from candoor :
yay, it's about time you started one for yourself (make your day time pass faster - write more :)
from inkdragon :
I know you're sad, but this is so good for Cassie ... and for you! I've added your diary to my faves. {{hugs}}

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