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That happened to me one time; I was on a different pill, one that gave me cahRAZY mood swings with crying fits and all, but not realizing that I thought I might be pregnant. I flipped out, all the way out. I bought the only pregnancy test I've EVER bought, plus another one for back-up, and I swear my heart stopped beating as I picked it up after five minutes to get the verdict. But even after being so scared and feeling like I was in huge trouble...I was still disappointed when it was negative. You know?
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That's good to hear! Thank you. I feel less connected to the online world these days, but it's always nice to be reminded that there are people behind these diaries, and we can still touch each other. So to speak :)
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I whole-heartedly agree! You will be ok. In fact, I think you're pretty ok right now.
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Let go. In another time, you'll be ready again, and it'll be right. Not perfect, but right. I know it's easier said than done, but you can let go (but not forget) so you can move toward that future.
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You're very brave. I don't envy you your decision, but I do admire how you thought it through and how you've come to cope with it. There is no doubt in my mind that you love your child and did what you thought was best. You never know how things are going to work out no matter what you choose; you just have to power through the best you can. My heart breaks for you, but you are strong, the world is still out there, and you have a life to lead.
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Good girl. ((squeeeeeze)). s x
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Im pretty sure that you have the right attitude to 'get it right' whenever the time is right for you, girl. August's soul is free, its only his body that isnt still here. Are you getting any support from 'professionals'? I worry that you are carrying all this bad feeling yourself. s x
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No way! Thats a joke, right? I never heard of anything like that in all my 42 and a half years on the planet! That makes me SOOOOOO wanna get a tattoo. Now look what you've gone and done - you're a bad influence to middle aged ladies the world over! s x
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Im not a big fan of tattoos but that looks really nicely done. Have you thought how you will explain it to your family? s x
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You're not alone. We're here with you. We are beside you, ready to hold your hand, give you our shoulder, share our warmth when you are cold...or just hang back, and give you space to just <i>be</i>. Because that's what friends <i>do</i>.
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I dont think you'll ever completely lose that feeling, but you'll find better ways to deal with it - I do think that, at some point in the future, something will make you go "I was SO right to do that" and then you can stop beating yourself up. Im glad you're feeling a bit better. Chin up! s x
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Hey! How you doin'? You OK? s x
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OK. See now I have to add you to my buddy list so I can keep an eye on you! ; ) What you did was to save both of you. From each other. Neither of you would have been 'right for each other' and neither of you would have had the life that you deserved. I could say plenty on this subject but, hey, this is a comments box, not an essay forum. If you want non-judgmental support, please feel free to email me stepfordtartATdiarylandDOTcom for cyber hugs and as much wisdom as you think I can muster up! s x
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Hi. Just wanted to come over here and give you a bit of a ((hug)). As a mum, I can feel some of your pain - especially as I lost three babies to miscarriage. I cannot begin to think what I would have done in your situation, and painful tho it is for you at the moment, I am sure that on balance you did the best thing for you at the time. Dont judge yourself too harshly - you were in an impossible situation and whatever way you turned you woudl still be here today wondering if you did the right thing. Allow yourself time to grieve for your loss and maybe see if there is some kind of support that you could get which will help you deal with your feelings? I wish you all the very best and hope that when the time is absolutely right for you that you will, AGAIN, make the right decision. kindest wishes to you. s x
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I hope you will soon get better.
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Thanks.
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I understand(:
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I owe it to my ma...
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I hope things get better in some sort of way for you soon. Can you please delete my posts?
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No, don't apologize. I really do appreciate it. Honestly, I do. So thanks(:
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Ahm.. could you please delete my entries? Some things shall not be said
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Sorry for commenting. I have no right to do that..
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really? Then what was your take on the entire situation?
I've got another blog- brulelettre.diaryland.com
I write there, now and again.
No, I don't think you're nosy at all. Thanks, by the way(:
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I think you should write more here how you are feeling and were feeling. It might help you and more importantly, help others. Plus I want to know how you are doing. Maybe I am just nosey. I was a male in the male half of your predicament
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It wasn't about having the baby that I had a problem with. I used to say that to all those other teenage girls who wanted to go for an abortion.
I listed out my final reasons for not keeping him. But on top of that, it's how many worlds I would turn upside down just by telling the people in it. My parents for example.
If I had decided to keep him, I would have raised him too. I wanted to, you know. I really did.
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There is another option. Have the baby and give it up for adoption.
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