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from hcatty :
OMG!!! I MISS YOU!!! It's basically not possible to track me down online lol ... cause I'm never HERE! Never on msn, never on dland, never on myspace... it's like I've disappeared! OH GOD! I can't find myself!!! OH NO!!!! .... lol I miss you lots. I will email you with lots of stuff because I have lots of stuff... so ... yeah. Talk soon, I HOPE.
from hcatty :
Do you realize that it has been nearly a full YEAR, since you have updated here? Yes, yes, I know... there's myspace and such... but this is DIARYLAND! This is the beginning! This is where it all started! You can't just WALK AWAY from that! Where's the COMMITMENT!? Honestly! .... haha... hope that made you giggle a little. Cause I did while typing it. Cause it's funny. I love you. Ciao.
from hcatty :
I miss you so, Sister Mine. *hugs*
from hcatty :
P.s. I love the new layout :o)
from hcatty :
wooooooohoooooo! I love you bunches. :o)
from thecrankyone :
You're back!! Hope everything is okay..
from hcatty :
I MISS YOU!!!
from hcatty :
Just wanted to say that I love you. And that you're precious.
from wildrose1 :
I am so glad to see you update. Sorry you have ahad a rough time. I hope everything with peanut works out. Keep your chin up. ((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))
from avalonte :
I hope seeing the guidance counsellor helps Peanut! His behaviour sounds really scary. especially for a 7 year old. Happy belated birthday & Christmas to you. Sounds like you've had a pretty tough time recently. Glad you managed to update! Take care. x
from thecrankyone :
Glad to hear from you again, its been a long time. Sorry to hear that things aren't going so well, my van is POS (piece of Sh**)also, so I know how you feel. Hope things get better for you soon. As for Peanut, is it possible he is jealous of step-siblings and that they have his dad all the time, and thier mother as well? Does you ex favor his other kids? that could be a part of it.
from hcatty :
Hey Sister Mine. Miss you lots. Love you more than that, tho. *HUUUUUGS*
from enchancea :
no Im sorry I dont have them anymore. My pc has been reformatted since then and I dont have any of my older stuff anymore
from wildrose1 :
hi I love this questionaire. I am taking it and will credit you for it. Come back and update soon, ya hear!!!! ((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))
from mkboog :
Thanks for the birthday wishes!
from cutie1083 :
thanks
from damodred :
Early is better than late, but late is better than never.
from jackkellyo :
hi! hope things get better for you. things havent been their best here,hope that nothing esle goes wrong!btw im stevewiser
from hcatty :
ubket? I love his spelling... lol I love you too, Sis. I'm sowwy things are being so harsh for you :o( And I'm sowwy that my letter got lost in the mail and that I haven't written back all that much. *HUGS*
from lynx86 :
hey there,long time no chat/see. well ya seem to be doin pretty good,so congrats! and hope the ubket of bolts starts behavin for ya!
from fairygodmum :
May all of your wishes come true. - Hugz n Lub, Bebe, da FairyGodMum
from allykitty5 :
hey there... just wanted to let you know that i saw aimee on yahoo the other day. we talked briefly, and she apologized for being away, but really didnt say much else, and i havent talked to her since. but, shes alive and well, and i wanted you to know :)
from finepickle :
thanks! i haven't been updating much lately but it's nice when people drop by and just say hi. very motivating. :)
from hcatty :
ok. 1. it is quite obvious that you changed me to numero uno on your list after I made that comment, so the guilt trip only lasted 5 minutes lol 2. What does the doctor say about your headaches? Sounds to me like they're from sleep deprivation. I love you dearly! *HUGS*
from hcatty :
That coming from the woman who has me listed number TWENTY-SEVEN on her list LOL uh huh... the guilt trip just so didn't work! ;o) The letter that I sent you in the mail. I meant that I finally got a letter in the mail to you. DeNile! That's my favorite place to live! ROFL I adore you Sister Mine. Give all my love and hugs to S! Happy Canada Day!
from hcatty :
Isn't dangerspouse a sweetie? So considerate of others... really... *snicker*. Goofy Sis. I didn't tell anyone that I broke my toe lol I was in denial until I found that I still couldn't move it for a week after I'd hurt it. I LOVE YOU TOO! Got a letter in the mail... FINALLY!
from rubysoho15 :
Oh, well...thanks.
from rubysoho15 :
Thanks for the Happy Birthday...even though I don't know how you knew my birthday was coming.
from dangerspouse :
Hey hey, welcome back (however briefly)...and thanks for the warm anniversary wishes! Very, very sweet of you babe. Boy, I hope you get your computer problems sorted out one of these days. I miss you. Anyway, you'll be glad to know that I don't update every day out of sheer consideration for your plight. You're welcome. ;)
from july5 :
Hi. Thanks for the note about my birthday! Uhhh...how DID you know my birthday is coming?
from hcatty :
I GOT YOUR LETTER! Love you Sister Mine lol
from ash-rose21 :
So nice to see you *hugs* I hope you can get a new comp soon.
from hcatty :
Ok.. apparently I picked up that phrase "heeeeee!" as an expression of amusement and/or excitement. When, I don't know... how? I don't know that either... Hm.
from hcatty :
rrrooooooffffflllllll and the description he put... wowza!! HEEEEE!!!!! love you, Sister Mine!!
from dangerspouse :
Oh sure, I don't hear from you for MONTHS, and then the first not you leave me is a threat! Fine, you'll get your damn description, but this threesome had better be one of the top 10 or 15 threesomes I've ever had!! ;)
from treewillow :
Well, again here I am updating in my notes. I am not sure how many people would even think of looking in here for the update lol. I only get so much time on the computers at the library, and to have to spend that time refreshing the page so that you can update isn't fun. So, today I will update in here. It's been an interesting week, it seems every 2 days I get another long distance phone call from people I have met online. It's great to get to speak to them, but I hate that I can't call them. See, I have a toll restrictor (sp) on my phone, and since I can't call long distance, I can't even use one of those cards you buy and it lets you call long distance. So, I will just have to either snail mail them, or email them when I can. Which is what I have been doing. I hope all is well with everyone out there and that those nasty skeeters arn't attacking you all too bad.
from treewillow :
Sorry, I don't usually leave myself a note. But I wanted to let you know that my computer over heated now, or something. It was smoking pretty good, and it doesn't work at all now. I was going to update my diary, but it has been giving me the screen that says I have to wait for about 10 minutes now, and since I am on the library computer, and I have limited time. I didn't have the time to wait for the screen to go away. I hope all is well with you all. I miss reading you all daily, and I even miss updating. I am so sorry, DangerStud, I will still want that 3 some yet, don't give up on that ;).
from dangerspouse :
Just wanna let you know I'm still checking in, and miss your posts. Hope your computer probs get fixed soon so we can set up that 3-some! (Oh, and so I can read your entries again. Of course.) ;)
from starlight42 :
I like your latest design! Very cool.
from it-guy :
hey...sorry i can't solve your dilemma of the big penis spam...hang in there though...i am sure an answer will pop up sooner or later...consider yourself a member of the PUWDA army...;)...hugsss back to ya
from hcatty :
Just that you actually said "I bow to your greatness" or something close to that lol cracks me up. And "darlingest" still cracks me up, too. That's just the most cutest word, ever! ;o) finally dug up my calling card... that's a threat, I think...
from hcatty :
"I tried to beat up your monkey, but I wouldn't let me. I am not worthy of beating your monkey, I bow to your greatness. One day I shall be worthy of that, but I guess not just yet." HAAAAAHHHAHAHAHAHAA!! I laughed so hard I CRIED! Oh that's so funny!! *HUGS* I love you Sister Mine. Soon as I dig up your phone number and my calling card, I'm gonna give you a hollar, otay?? And I already threw out that letter lol Um... I could try to rewrite it??
from hcatty :
(Ps. tell TreeWillow, if I'm such a hottie, where the hell is HER monkey, huh? HUH??) Message delivered lol... and you'll have to go to HIS notes page to see my response to ... *emotional pause*.... to... to your... BETRAYAL! *flings herself to the ground, back of hand to forehead, sobbing dramatically*
from dangerspouse :
How could we not invite HCat?? We need SOMEBODY to take pictures!
from littlemummy :
You know my sister in law?? How odd and small world ish is that?? Cool. Which one do you know? And how?
from chiv :
Why thank you. I think having a wonderfull day would be a bit of a stretch, I can't even get a haircut in this town. Now, hangovers on the other hand... why didn't I stop at thank you? Hm.
from dangerspouse :
Aw babe, I'm sorry to read you're feeling like hell. Damn the sexual frustration that builds up in poor single chicks like you! It darkens your whole outlook. If only, ONLY, there were some way I could help you with this. Hmmmmm. Think....think....Listen, nothing comes to mind immediately, but why don't you call your sister. Have her come over, and I'll meet you both with a couple cases of Captain Morgan Spiced Rum and a bucket of scented massage oil (great for relaxing and helping us think). I'm sure between the three of us, we can find SOME way to help you out with this ongoing problem. (No need to thank me. I'm just this generous by nature.)
from littlemummy :
Cool! Did you see me, or just know that the kids Avery's age played at 6pm? You should've said hi if you saw me!
from hcatty :
referring to DangerHottie, LOL it's a down arrow... \/
from hcatty :
YIPPIEE!! Your computer still works!! I have this little letter here that I have not gotten to the post office to send LOL because I wrote it, right after I got your email... and I was all worried. Yeah, I'm gonna send it anyways LOL. And um... that guy... right there \/ - he's crazy! Gotta love him...
from dangerspouse :
OMG, when I read that you weren't gonna let me have a 3-some with you and HCatty, I almost marched back to those vultures to let them finish the job. How could I go on?! But now, now that you've relented, I have reason to live again! Thank you, oh thank you....and bend over. :)
from ozwald :
Hey! Just wondering if you've heard word from Aimee via email or otherwise. She just dissapeared ... oz
from shiningdawn :
HAPPY MOTHERS DAY TO YA
from hcatty :
One More! lol you said that you weren't sure that this new layout was "you", but that you really liked it. I want to say that it is so very much you. When I look at that, it comes across to me as whimsical. A bit mysterious, sad, but with a mystical/magical/happniess around the edges. It's light and dark at the same time. It's Beautiful. And Beautiful is you.
from hcatty :
on a slightly different topic, thank you so much for the talk we had the other day, Sis. It meant alot to me, to be able to get some of that out, and the advice and words of wisdom that you had to share were very much a help. I was able to get some time to myself, Wednesday, and yesterday Mom commented on how she thought I "looked" and "sounded" alot better. When you're right, you're right...
from hcatty :
Happy early Mother's Day, Sister Mine! I know about the crying thing. I do it too. I detest crying sometimes, especially when it's over a tv show or movie. OH! Seth is sailing to Tahiti(sp) I believe? And there will be another season, because the announcer said, "Surprised by tonight's episode? Wait until you see what happens next season!" - and I am furious that Ryan actually LEFT. Marissa's gone back to drinking! AGH!! Poor Summer... :o( give my Darling S a hug for me!
from red-savannah :
Just wanted to wish you a Happy, Happy Mother's Day!! xoxoxo ~Savannah
from dadeeli :
thank you for the birthday wish the other day!
from red-savannah :
I watched 10.5 Tuesday night-my roommate and I were practically in TEARS because we wanted to see 'The Restaurant' and it wasn't on! I didn't really see the whole thing, but the parts I saw were DEPRESSING!
from ash-rose21 :
Hey- Im sorry ive been MIA for so long. It's been difficult for me to write these days. Im going to update soon, but maybe on this account. I love your new layout, but your last entry just killed me. *hugs* I think youve done pretty well for yourself, and I know that you have a little boy he will second that opinion with all his little heart. Please take care.
from watty :
It broke my heart when I read about the way you were treated by that bitch. I don't blame you for disliking that date. Do know that your are a far better person than she will ever know. =)
from weymouth66 :
Thanks for the birthday wishes! love xx
from love-song- :
“the bitch” as you refer to her, sounds like an awful woman, and deserves the title you have given her. This is the first time reading a journal has ever made me tear up. It may be, because I can relate your mother to my father. You’re very strong for making it through all that, which is something I respect. I’m glad to hear you had/have the chance to experience being a part of a caring family, as you definitely deserve it. ×Lilly×
from red-savannah :
Sorry to hear about your sad day, don't forget how far you've come and how much you've accomplished! xoxoxo Savannah
from angelmum :
oopsy, that wasnt part of Jen's report, that was a little bit of information used to make it. I thought that I should tell a little about what I was talking about. Since most people would have no idea who Benwell or Birchall were. lol I will miss you too when I am gone, but I will be online as soon as I can on Saturday, so have your IM ready lol HUGSSSSS
from angelmum :
I absolutely LOVE the new Layout!!! I am sorry that you are having such a bad day today, your entry brought me to tears, I sooooo wish that I could be there to give your real HUGSSSSS. Although it may be hard at times you are better off without them. And as I have said before it is them that is missing out on the loving person you really are, and that wonderful little monkey boy!! I Love You! More HUGSSSSSSSS, and I am here for you anytime you need
from cutielatina :
*HUG*All I can say is, your son is so lucky to have such a wonderful loving mom.I believe people cannot choose who their parents are. And most parents nowandays,are not equipped to be real parents. God bless that family for being loving people, and for you to bless them with your love and precense. I would love to have you as my sister because I believe your love in genuine,because you cherish it.BIG HUG:) And tell Hcatty,waddup, sista, Peanut misses her!!LOL Cuidate...
from avalonte :
Oh hon, you poor thing. What a tragic thing to go through! I was disowned by my parents, but I was a lot older (19) and thankfully things eventually worked out. *hugs*
from avalonte :
I loved those stories of teenage drunkenness!! Took me back to my own youth!
from hcatty :
slow on the uptake, isn't he? (referring to my adorable, insufferable, sweetheart). Awwwww!! Do you have pictures from S' show??? I WANNA SEE!! God, I bet it was so completely cute. YOU CHANGED YOUR LAYOUT!! I so love it!! It's perfect, and so you. Beautiful all the way through. Perfect match. I love you so much, sister Mine *HUGSSS*
from lynx86 :
you know,in al the time i used to bug you,and mess with you,i never found anything out about you.i never knew you were beaten or raped,or anything,just....that you were peg...i have never been raped,but i have been beaten,and know the feelings that accompany it,i truly mean it when i say i feel your pain in that time,but as well as you,even tho it would mean forgetting being an outcast for so many years,and getting beaten,and my time in the cps system,and my father beating my mother,and the drugs that were in my life as a small child,and the things it all caused,i would forgt all that pain.....but,i would forget falling in love for the first time with Hcatty,and the love that my sister has shown me throughout the years,and the "brother" inmy life whom i love dearly as well.....and so i also,would not take the potion....it would not be worth forgetting the years of pain anguish suffering,and abuse,in all its forms,to miss out on the few small things in our lives that give us all happiness..
from love-song- :
I was surfing through diaries on d-land when a line in your journal caught my eye. “I would love to forget the memories of being beaten as a child”. I was a victim of child abuse, and I still am trying to deal with the aftermath of it all. So I know all too well, how you’d want to forget about it. Nevertheless, I hope the good times outweigh the bad. Having the memories of your son must be worth more then anything to you.
from hopeanew :
i wouldnt drink it either, i want to remember the joy of the birth of my children among other things.
from seenuh :
thanks for the birthday wishes!
from exhale9203 :
Thanks for the birthday wish! :)
from angelmum :
ok your right, that was a strange dream lol hugssss
from angelmum :
HA! I was updating as you were singing!!! hugssssssss
from broken-bits :
awww hun im sorry to hear that you don't really have a close family, I guess I am one of the lucky people. Sometimes I think I take it for granted. I hope you had a happy easter. (hugs)
from hcatty :
ooooooh he knows lol I told him so! Now I think you're right, you shouldn't be left out rofl maybe you could... I dunno... drown yourself in a dinner plate or something?? LOL
from hcatty :
dangerspouse notes: "Hmmmm I think Hcatty and I will have to talk about this lack of updating and see if you will still be able to be in the 3 some lol." ... actually.. heh heh... I already threw myself down our stairs in grief over his lack of updates. All two of them. ;o) But he's back! Hoorah!
from watty :
Happy Easter! Hope you're having a good one so far. =)
from hcatty :
He's so darn cute, Sis LOL. I'm praying he feels ready to eat soon. *HUGS* to you and to him. Love you!
from hcatty :
How's S feeling, today, Sis?? Not getting sick anymore, is he?
from cutielatina :
Thanks for the prayer, sweetie. It really does mean the world to me. My mom is actually better. I have called her a lot the last couple of days, and I am so proud of her. She can truly take care of herself. Again,thank you, and I reciprocate your hug.*HUG* Cuidate...
from peytonsplace :
Thanks for the b-day wishes. :)
from dangerspouse :
PORN! PORN! PORN!!!! Yes!! Oh, I'm sorry - that was a typo you say? Rats. Oh well, as long as the 3-some is still on. And yes, Hcatty, I'll cook for you first. Sheesh, demanding wenches.... (Thanks for the notes, Willow!) :)
from hcatty :
Give S a big hug for me Sister Mine. and for you, many more bigger *hugggggggggggsss*. I don't think it'll ever get easier, will it? Letting him go each time... all part of being a mother I suppose. hope I can experience that some day...
from hcatty :
Hey now!!! Shouldn't I have some say in this 3-some? I mean... that snorkle thing... that's kinda... Um... I'm sorta nervous now. Is he gonna cook for us first? Cause then ANYTHING would be alright with me!
from dangerspouse :
Ah, no need for the condolances for NewWifey(tm). Like I said, it was only a plant that died. I'm not gonna explain the snorkle here - I'll just bring it to the 3-some and give you a demonstration. Ok, we don't keep a first aid kit in the kitchen because I know that I'd accidentally open it and use something inside for an ingredient some day. Chicken with Iodine Sauce, mmmmm. So it's best to keep it far away. Y'know, you're right - why should I pimp out NewWifey(tm) when I could make MUCH more money whoring myself out? Get in line, be-otches!
from kitchenwitch :
Now I'm at 85! Goddess, I am so bored!
from dangerspouse :
TW!!! Hey listen, I'm sorry I didn't reply to your hilarious note, but I was gone for a few days and just saw it today. Of course, the most important thing is this 3-some we're planning with you, me and your sister. I've decided to forgive you for being such a slacker. You're back in. Bring a snorkle. As far as recipes go - any time I mention a food and you'd like to try it, drop me an e-mail. I'm more than happy to send out stuff to my adoring public :) But I don't like putting it in my diary, out of consideration for the people who might find that sort of thing boring. And god, I wish I had enough money for a self-cleaning oven!! Maybe I should start pimping Wifey out again.... Take care, and thanks again! :)
from cutielatina :
No, you are the sweet one, I mean it. I am ok with my "clock".:) It's just I've been dealing with some stress related to my parents, especially my dad. I love them both, but its hard not to take sides. I just hate to see my mom in pain because of his mid life crisis crap he is doing.I know my life is seperate from them, and that I will achieve, or at least attempt to do complete most of the goals I set in my life. Life is short, but we can both do what we set our mind to. I know we can. Cuidate... YOU CAN DO IT, and ME TOO! LOL
from lonely-song :
Thanks for the birthday wishes :)
from it-guy :
you are quite welcome for the 'information' on dirty magazines...;)...and hugssss back to ya!
from kitchenwitch :
Don't feel bad... And of course you should write about how you feel, whether it be sad or or angry or happy or just plain horney... lol... Its your space, and a great place to vent about how you feel!!!
from tornlace :
Thank you for my birthday wish :) :)
from kitchenwitch :
Oh honey! That entry made me cry... I want you to know, I really DO know how you are feeling (at least a little) I mean, you read my diary sometimes, so you know how hard it is for us... I have felt like I let my daughter down many times... But she doesn't feel that way, and I am sure your son does not either. Having a mommy who loves and cares makes up for a lot in life. James is always saying "Nobody ever goes to therapy and says their parents weren't rich enough when they were kids" and its true... But enough of my babbling, I just want you to know that I feel for you, and I am sending a hug your way!
from cutielatina :
I feel the same way sometimes too. Just like you, I had so many goals to achieve in my life. Like I wanted to be a full fledged credentialed teacher with the earning capability to do so. But,because of an attendance snafu, I have to repeat one of my student teaching phases, right at the time of my last quarter with the assistance of financial aid. Yep, so now I have to save to go back to school,but first I have to help to pay the car and its insurance and all of the bills, and guess what it leaves for savings..NADA.And the whole baby thing.Even at 27, my biological clock is ticking so loudly, it keeps me awake at night sometimes. And I wanted to be working,have a house, at least 2 kids,and be done with blessed college already by the time I was 25...Didn't happen.But know that I am here to listen, support and be an ear for you.Ok? I know what you are going through, and maybe together, we can help each other? Take care, and dios te vendiga.
from hcatty :
Oh sis. *HUGS* You are not a let down. I don't know what to tell you, that will ease that feeling... I don't know how to help you. All I can say is, to me, and all those whom share our friendship, you are NOT a let down. And you know what? You do more for S by providing him unconditional love, support, and faith in him, than his father could EVER do by buying him things. Just because you by a child toys does NOT mean you are the better provider. S is better off with you. I believe that in the deepest part of my spirit. YOU ARE NOT A LET DOWN! I love you so much *HUGS*
from hcatty :
DARNIT woman!! You NEVER fail to make me cry!! GRRR!!
from adulterous-k :
Thanks for your note. My view was that it's something he needs to be confronted with somehow - make him deal with whatever makes him do it. Her response was - 'No, it's something I have to deal with'. Been going on too long already.
from i-live-4u :
Wow thank you so much!!!! you are the first person to congratulate me_)@ i'm impressed. take care [♥] i-died-4u
from cutielatina :
Hey sweetie! I love it every time you leave me a message.I smile, even giggle,because I feel like someone out there cares about cute little ole' me.LOL Modest, aren't I? I know, if I relax, and not let TTC get to me, it will happen. I know things will work out, and I have been trying to get Freddy to sit down and have a serious talk about it. But whatever God, or the universe has in store for me, BRING IT ON! LOL Give that son of yours a big hug from me, and I loved your entry about school. Made me smile.I didn't know you were such a troublemaker! J/K lol Cuidate...
from dangerspouse :
WILLOWCHICK!! Wow, that was some novella you left at my place! LOL..glad my gassy discomfort gave you a laugh. Um...to answer some of your questions: 1. No, NewWifey did not know I was serving her re-hydrated pig ear dog chewies. If I had told her, I'd be DeadSpouse, not DangerSpouse. 2. I don't update every day because I'm a lazy piece of shit. But I've come to terms with that, and no longer need Zoloft. 3. YES I REMEMBER THE 3-SOME! Glad you do too. Is Friday good for you? 4. Aw, let your son read my diary. He's gotta know this stuff before he gets to high school anyway. *whew* Anything else? :)
from kitchenwitch :
Yeah, I don't know why that happened the other day, why my diary went all blank... it freaked me out though, let me tell you! I sent off frantic emails to both diaryland tech and Lealoo, who designed my template... And Andrew sent me an email back and fixed the problem, whatever it was.... blessings
from hcatty :
Aw Sis lol :oÞ~~ It was a pineapple cream cake that she'd planned to make after lunch, but we didn't get any till later that evening, is what I was TRYING to say. That... and dessert... Oh, and all that Hypo stuff lol was explained in the entry before. I added links to sites for definitions and symptons and such. Hypoglycemia is like borderline diabetes, PCOS is...... different. Anyways. I'm pretty certain the PCOS isn't serious. Or it won't be. God won't let it. *HUGS* Love you, sis!
from minteyes :
Thank you for the nice note! How did you come across my diary? :-)
from cutielatina :
Hola.. I hope I'm pregnant too, but TTC is so hard.Every little symptoms gives me hope and more often than not, disappointment.But from your mouth, to God's ears :) And I modified the background of the text box of my new template, just for you! Well...for me too.LOL. I thought it was my eyes that made it hard to read, not the template..LOL. Thanks for being honest:)
from avalonte :
The legal age here is 16. I love Coronation Street! Clearly, you're quite a bit behind us there. I didn't have a problem with the whole Martin & Katy age difference. Him being about 36 and her being nearly 17 wasn't an issue. What I did find stupid though, was the fact that she's SO immature!! That's what made it so unbelievable for me. Anyway, it's great to find a fellow Corrie viewer on Dland! *hugs*
from sarahsmells :
Thanks a lot for the birthday wishes! My birthday isn't until Monday, but better early than never! It was really nice of you to leave me a note. Thanks again! :)
from hcatty :
He's just so sweet!! lol
from avalonte :
* Wow, bad typing there!! I meant to say, I'm not sure I was as perceptive about whether my mum had friends! x
from avalonte :
I remember "loving" boys at his age! But I'm not sure I was as perceptive about whther my had friends or not! What a sensitive young man you have there! x
from twisted-mind :
Thanks for signing Ashlee's notes and wishing her a happy birthday! I LOVED boys when I was 5, 6, 7 and so on. Its not the same kinda love as adults but I sure thought so at the time. :o) In first grade when my "boyfriend" moved I cried all the way home on the bus and the rest of the day too. I still remember Billy. Hope your day goes well tomorrow.
from hcatty :
*HUGS* Love you Sis. Happy St. Patty's Day :o)
from it-guy :
Happy Saint Patrick's Day!!!!!
from red-savannah :
Hello! I found your diary though it-guy and just wanted to say it's a good read and I'll be back for more! Have a bee-yoo-tiful day!
from dangerspouse :
LOLOL!! Thanks for the great, ego-inflating notes at my place kiddo! I'll tell you what: I know you think HCatty is too young for me. But frankly...I'll just have to try you BOTH to find out for myself. Waddaya say to a 3-some? C'mon, you know you wanna :) Oh, if you REALLY wanna see some nip action, drop me an e-mail and I'll send out an autographed attachment of a close-up. What more could a girl want? Thanks again, baby :)
from callmedee :
haha, oh of course! i'd forgotten about that site. :) thank you again.
from callmedee :
thank you for the birthday wishes. :) how did you know it was my b-day?
from dangerspouse :
TREEWILLOW!! Thanks for the note at my place, baby! I've been missing y'all :) I read about the bad haircut S got, and the computer problem you were having. I'm sorry I couldn't fix either one. But if you tell me where you live, I'll get a router and some Krazy Glue and try to do what I can with the haircut, anyway. Glad it-guy was able to work his magic on your re-format. He seems like a pretty amazing guy. Don't be a stranger, y'hear? :)
from ihearthockey :
thanks so much. you're the first one to tell me this year. :o)
from hcatty :
awww come on, Sis! What was it?? You gotta let me know lol just in case I need to fix some such oddly simple thing. Please???
from hcatty :
Hmmm... that's beyond me expertise, Sis. I'm sowwy. Try it-guy maybe?? *HUGS* how's you and my S. Miss you!!
from thissidedown :
hey [formerly my-last-word] thanks for the heads up about my birthday. xx
from ms-do :
I'm just looking around and read your latest entry....i like it....and i'm a single mum too. The one thing i never do is tell the ex anything. Smile, well that's not really true, sometime i have too....rolls eyes
from asdotcom :
Thanks for the birthday wishes! :o) -AS!
from gimmelove :
Thank you for the happy birthday wishes!! :) ((hugs))
from thepeachtree :
awwah, thats so adoriable, how olds your son? When i was little i never told anyone when i went someplace, so i'd get lost all the time. You should have seen our trip to disney land. Lol, so just be lucky hes not like i was when i was younger, he doesnt need a leash like i did, he doesnt need to be embarrsed in front of all of his friends when your mom pulls the leash and you fall down....*cough* i mean... uhhh... yeah...
from avalonte :
That is so cute! And that's great that he lets you know where he is, even if it is just the loo. That's so sweet!
from hcatty :
It was not DONE BY ME, I just added it. The designer's on the page lol he's such a nerd. Anyways, just wait for the day that that Precious boy of yours says, "Mom, I'm in the kitchen just in case there's an earthquake and you can't hear me clattering around!" I just KNOW he's gonna be a little smart@$$. I know it. With every fiber of my BEING, I know it. Like mother like son. teehee ;o)
from lynx86 :
hello,yes its me,hcatty's lynx. she dragged me in,lol,(actually,she invited,it was my conscience that dragged me in)but i wanted to thank you for encouraging her to go to the docor.......im a stubborn mule,and i want her to go too,but shes even more mule headed then i sadly......but i thank you nonetheless. im not ready for her to go yet either.....shes a little too big a part of my life for that just now.also i wanted to invite you,an anyone else whomy be interested in coming,to come see my diary. heheh the page art was done by Hcatty herself,so anyone wants their page done? go ask her.but i must go for now! may the lord be with you.
from watty :
What have I done? I've created a questionnaire/list monster! =) I'm glad you're liking the Daily Dirty and Unconscious Mutterings, as they're fun. Thanks for linking me in your entry the other day. Have a great week! =)
from enidhere :
I don't think kids get as stressed over the single parent thing as parents do. Or maybe they have a good way of not showing it. At least for a time. Since most kids are going through the same thing at school. Not all of them, but many of them. Just keep thinking positive, read them good books, take lots of walks, get to know each other, ask each other simple questions and show him/her you can be strong with your own ingenuity.
from fan4 :
Thanks for wishing me a happy b-day.
from shiningdawn :
thaks for all your help tonight sorry i took up so much of your chat time tonight every thing looks great thanks again
from hcatty :
LOL I love you too. go check your emails
from hcatty :
Hmm... me not my
from hcatty :
K..... you just made me cry. I love you sis!! I swear to you, that I am perfectly healthy. There is NOTHING to worry about. I PROMISE you. I'm taking care of myself. Water, healthy foods, cutting off sugar. I think it's just been a side affect of my drastic change. My body is adjusting. I promise, my wonderful darling sister whom I adore. There's nothing wrong with my... nothing that's not mental anyways...
from hcatty :
ROFL I love you so much. Yes, Mom knows, I told her. She already tried to ship me off to a doctor but I wouldn't go. Michael sat me down and took my blood pressure. I'm not dizzy today, so I guess it was a one time thing. I'm FINE! I'm good, I promise! lol don't WORRY!! And don't gang up on me with AngelMum rofl ... I would have to flee in terror with the both of you after me.
from dangerspouse :
So ya done tried to be a man, and you paid the price, huh missy? THAT'll learn ya! Stick to bakin' pies and leave the heavy puching to the men-folk from now on. LOL...thanks for the nice note at my place :) I decided not to get the roses, btw. Just a new pair of socks. But they were socks with a rose print, so that counts.
from hcatty :
Woman!! Stop hurtin yourself!! I swear, you and Kathy... *HUGS* I hope you're otay. Soak for a very long time in a hot hot bath, that might help with some of the hurting. :o( ... At least S has a blast with the colored snow!! (so long as you don't use yellow...) All my love to you and S. :o) *HUGS* again
from lizagray :
Hi!!!!!! I am sooo sorry for not updating in so long. I have just been busy working overtime. My husband has been working over alot as well so any free time I get is spent with him. I am so glad to hear from you. I never got the emails telling me I had all those notes from you! I will go update now! I promise!
from beautifulmes :
Thank you for the nice birthday wish :)
from xnavygrrl :
It's just my humble opinion but you should let your son make his own decisions when it comes to his religion, or going to church. I think he will probably choose to go to church anyway. My daughter is always asking me to take her. I too was forced to go to church and now I don't even go, ever, even if I want to. I think it's because my experiences with church and religion have been sort of sour. It's just my opinion, darling. Of course no matter what you do maybe you should talk to your son about his beliefs and yours. It's good to have a dialogue opened up between parents and their children anyway.
from dangerspouse :
Let's see...you're the parent, right? It's kinda your job to force your kid to do things that will eventually make him/her a better adult, even if they don't see the wisdom in it a the time. Show me any 9 year old who has the experience and understanding to make Major Life decisions. Forget it - at that age there is no impulse control, no looking beyond short-term payoffs. If your kid thinks he can start making the decisions in the house, you're in for a rough ride during his teenage years. Don't set a precident here. Be a parent. Send him to church if you think that's the best thing, regardless of his protests. And I say that as an Athiest. (ps. You could always bribe him with booze and porn. It worked in my house!)
from dangerspouse :
Hey babe! Thanks for the nice note :) My neighbors aren't too close. We live in the middle of a State Forest and are surrounded by over 6000 acres of woodland. There are a few other houses within shouting distance, but for the most part we're able to perform all our lunatic stunts unmolested :)
from hcatty :
K, Sister Mine. I'm worried about ya. Where ya been, how ya doin, whatcha up to? *HUGS* All my love to you and S. Pray you're well.
from velvet-heart :
Hugs and kisses dollface.
from dangerspouse :
Hiya, babe! Yup, got the new Dell hooked up and humming a few days ago. So far, I'm lovin' it. For the price, I'd definitely recommend it to anyone. My cat gives it two paws up also - she loves the box and packing peanuts. LOL...yeah, I was indeed imagining what was under that Neon Green pic. How'd ya know? I guess I should have put a link to something pink too, huh? :)
from mixtape- :
you wished me a happy birthday on my chikmagnet notes thingy. I was just wondering how you knew about my birthday? but thanks anyway. <3
from cutielatina :
hey chick. Just wanted to leave you a little note, and to say, YOU still rock!:) And thanks for making me smile when I needed it. Could I e-mail you one of these days? Just to say hi? Cuidate:)
from elliorange :
♥ I'm just a member, but I was wondering... Were you the owner of dlandbdays before? If so, could you come back as owner? *smiles* If not, I think you should be owner. You're always signing the notes/gbook pages with wishes! You seem so organized, too! ;)
from slick45 :
thanks for the birthday message.
from cutielatina :
*TEARS*. I feel like a proud mother, letting her baby bird fly away! LOL You did a wonderful job:) *tears*.LOL. If you need anymore help, I'm here for ya! LOL
from mr-knowitall :
Well, why do you think they call me 'Mr-Knowitall'? ;)
from angelmum :
Ohhhhh looky, you put my pic in your diary, awwwwwww you are so sweet :oP~~~~~ hugsssss
from mr-knowitall :
Treewillow, Nightdragon asked me to lend my perspective on the re-born question. I’d have to be a bit more familiar with Grandma’s beliefs, but based on what I’ve read here, she is a Mennonite? Assuming that, I am a little familiar with what they believe, and aside from some legalism I don’t agree with, they’re a rather doctrinally sound group. But nevertheless, my interpretation just based on that; is it sounds like a very over-simplified version of a very standard biblical truth/Christian belief: The current life we live prepares us for the next. Our bodies (so to speak) are a spiritual womb, and prepare us to be birthed into the next life when we die. Think about it: to die, and find yourself in a world completely different from that which you had come, you would quickly discover that you were very much like an infant; unable at first to see, walk, understand, etc. So, from the Christian perspective, Grandma is right; physical death serves as a kind of spiritual birth. There is no direct verse a scripture I can think of that flat out says that. This kind of thinking is pieced together from several things in the Bible from the teachings of Christ, the Apostles, and even in the Old Testament. Someone who is seasoned like grandma would understand that. However, I have one caveat; this should not be confused with what Jesus said in John 3:3, “Truly I say to you, unless a man is born again he cannot see the kingdom of God.” While Jesus was talking about a ‘new birth’, He was talking about a change in this lifetime, and not in the next. He was talking about the spiritual regeneration that is necessary for all of us to prepare to be ‘birthed’ into heaven… so to speak. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask. I am we versed in scripture and doctrine, and besides, I love this stuff! ~Rick
from nightdragon :
I have requested that one of my Christian favs here on D'land help you out with that "re-born" question. I know others have helped you out, but maybe he'll add his voice and thoughts to the others. Hope he can help.
from burntautumn :
My locked diary is kind of on a short break for a while :( I haven't the time, but everything is doing ok and I'll be working on it again. Thank you for asking.
from cutielatina :
I need to answer two questions.AUGHH! Where to begin! LOL For the cute animations you are asking about, they are called KAOS blobs, or KAOS anime. If you want any other links, feel free to e-mail me, and I will send all of the links I got my blobs from:) As for the religion question..I don't think it will do more harm than good. If you really want to know, I am going through the same thing. My husband and I were not raised with a religion, just hints of them. And now we are searching for one to look into,because we plan to have children and to make our marriage a stronger bond. I have many questions about God and his existence and my faith. My best advice is to go and spend time at different denominations just to get the "feel" of them, and to what fits your needs and beliefs. I think your son should be proud to have a mom who cares about his spiritual life, as well as hers. I know you will find what you are looking for, and I hope I do to. Take care:)
from dangerspouse :
Hey kiddo, thanks very much for the supportive note over at my place. That was very sweet of you! Take care, and I'm looking forward to catching up on all your stuff I've missed while I've been without a computer :)
from carinosa34 :
Thanks for the birthday wish :-) That was very sweet :-) I love your, layout, by the way! I used to have a calla lily layout, too :-) They're beautiful flowers!
from thedrink :
well,..Thank You very much! ;)
from starlight42 :
just to give you more feedback on your question- the thing is it all depends on religion. I think most religions do not believe in re-birth or reincarnation. But maybe what she meant was that he'd just kind of be new in heaven? I'd talk with her & maybe ask her not to be telling him things, to save confusion or maybe since these are not things you believe in or are teaching. I think the easiest thing to tell a child about death is that they'll go to heaven & just live up there instead. That's just me though.
from ms-ashlynn :
Hey, thanks so much for your caring, and concern :). Im doing ok- Just a bit overwhelmed and frustrated hehe, but Im alive and I know that things could be much worse. So Im trying to hang in there. Thanks so much for leaving me notes. I appreciate it so much. Cheered me up :). Please take care.
from hcatty :
Hey sister mine. I'm sorry I didn't respond to that question sooner. I've been wracking my brain and reading up, but I can't find that exact Scripture I'm looking for that S would understand. I guess the most to say is that, no one really knows what happens to us when we die. All that we do know, and purely by faith, is that if you live your life for God, love and trust him, and Open your heart to His Son, then you will go to live with Him Forever. Every religion has it's own understanding of it, their own belief system... but they fail to realize that it's not about religion... just about Him. Does that make any sense?? And hey, have you told him anything yet??
from p-o-y :
Hey there! Just a little reminder for next time that when you submit, please send the axact url that your entry is on.... Example : treewillow.diaryland.com/040207_75.html Thanx so much. :)
from broken-bits :
hey thank you for your note :) i should of really said chronic fatigue because cf can stand for several illnesses. Hope you are doing well :)
from p-o-y :
Welcome to Pieces Of You!
from preciousgift :
I seriously think he took it the wrong way. I'm not a Mennonite but I had to look it up just out of curiousity. You can read this and other articles that may help you understand here... http://www.mcusa-archives.org/library/resolutions/1995/1995-8.html
from preciousgift :
Hmm! That explains it. Not all Mennonites are alike. They have a strong beliefs that each congregation is at liberty to decide independently on its form of worship and whatever else occurs within the church. I think the best thing for you to do is ask the grandmother. Maybe he misunderstood her? Maybe not? I believe that you're "reborn" when, at age of accountability, you're baptized. But if she's really referring to death and it wasn't a misunderstanding, then I have no clue. Religious beliefs at in one congregation isn't always the same as another. I'd ask her what she was referring to. Religion is something I think should be taught/discussed with by the parents unless you've OK'D it. Such a very touchy subject. Let me know what you find out. *Sorry for the novel*
from preciousgift :
Every church has it's own beliefs. What religion is the Grandmother?
from drewbears :
I totally know that feeling. I can never understand WHY I feel that way either. UGH! How does the map thing work???
from hcatty :
I don't think that's weird at all, then again I do the same thing. You've been victim of the times I go to the chat room then don't wanna talk LOL There just seems to be something comforting in being able to sit there, and watch the world happen. Watch other people converse and respond. Makes you feel like a part of it, without having to jump in and be IN it. Which is how I feel all the time. K, if that isn't confusing, I am shocked as heck!
from twisted-mind :
I'm sorry. Bree is Mommymartin.diaryland.com she's hosting the dlandbdays diaryring image and her diary is locked. She's currently running dlandbdays.
from twisted-mind :
You are most welcome for the info on the photo image site. The reason you get the locked thing and the password thing might be because someone on your rings page has a locked diary with their images hosted at diaryland. I don't know about the birthday site, but all my ring pictures are hosted elsewhere. I see Bree's got her diary locked and the picture for the dlandbdays picture is hosted on her site. You might want to mention it to her. Have a good day.
from hcatty :
the ex is a jerk. That's all I'll say. Or I might get violent.
from dangerspouse :
Thanks for the great note over at my place! Who gave me the 4th blowjob? Well, let's just say that it's amazing what some dogs will do for a cube of Velveeta. Hey, I appreciate your thoughts on the Dell vs. Apple. Very nice of you to take the time to write all that. Your entry today was so sad, btw! On the other hand, I learned some valuable lessons on what NOT to do when the time comes for me to cheat on NewWifey(tm). So thank you for that public service :)
from moodymelinda :
ARGH.. I hate how some men keep on lying untill there is no way possible to get out of it anymore. Why can't they just admit what they have done? Sorry your marriage ended that way.
from twisted-mind :
I found a new photo hosting site its called photobucket.com
from hcatty :
he is just so unbelievably Cute, sis. *sniffle*.... I wanna hug my nephew!!
from molkolover :
((thank you)) xxx
from hcatty :
OMG Sis lol That is way too beyond cold. SEND IT HERE! I WANT IT! MEMEMEEEEE!! ;o) *HUGS* to you and my darling S.
from hcatty :
you're gonna hate me lol: V. Guided by water, W. have mysterious eyes (ha!) X. am bound to the White Rose, Y. am the whole true individual creative artistic thing, Z. Am the sound of Rain, 1. Am gonna marry RAVEN!?!?!?!?!?!?!, 2. Am a Night Fairy, 3. And (shocker) I'm a Girly Girl. K... as you can tell, it let me finish quizzies again after I restarted lol
from hcatty :
hmm, let's see: A. I have Angelic Wings, B. I'll marry Orlando Bloom, C. Am dominated by loneliness, D. Am the Blue Psycho Happy Bunny, E. Have an Entrancing Kiss, F. am a Dark Shadow, G. am Mario, H. Am Aphrodite/Eros, I. Am BubbleGum, J. Inner child is 16, K. Have an Artistic Soul, L. Am a Beautiful Angel, M. Am the Perfect Girlfriend, N. Am Nigel, O. Am a dumbass, P. Am a Unicorn, Q. Should be with a Leo, R. am a cuddle and kiss on the forehead, S. have a red heart, T. am a mostly good person, U. Represent Naivete. Whew. That's as far as I got, then quizzilla wouldn't give me any more answers lol seriously, every quiz after that said "error". Plus, I was too lazy to post them on my diary, and I wanted to be able to remember them lol... ain't it freaky how many gave us the same answers???
from mr-knowitall :
OK OK OK OK... you go to Ottowa, I'll to Washington. HURRY!
from mr-knowitall :
HERE HERE!!!! Let's march on Washington D.C. and make it happen!!!!!!!!!
from hcatty :
I loooooooove the prayer thing! cute Sis... Cute lol Hey, did I ever thank you for answering my questions about naming your child, in my guestbook?? Cause... if I did, Thank you again, and if I didn't, Thank you so much! *HUGS* btw :o) How's you and my darling S?
from thecrankyone :
I wouldn't get to upset. At his age, he doesn't quite "get" it yet. When I was that age I wanted to marry my dad. LOL. I would have a little talk with him about how you love him and start the birds and bee's t talk (at an age appropriate level) about how you'll always be his mom and always love him, but some day when he is much much older he will meet somebody and want to be with them like grownups do. I'd keep it simple and go with how he seems to take it and want it. As he gets older he'll understand better about not being able to have babies with someone you are related to. At his age that is still a very tough concept. Virtually all kids at some point think they can marry a parent, its a normal part of development.
from sanetwin :
Thank you for the birthday wishes :)
from cutielatina :
I didn't mean to make you cry...:(...But I am glad there are nice people out there, like you.And I hope everything is going better with you too. Give that son of yours a big hug, or a bug hug..LOL And when its my turn to have a wee one, you betcha I will be talking to you and begging you for advice! LOL Cuidate!
from burntautumn :
Thank you for the congrats. I am hoping I am morning sickness free with this baby. I had three months of it with the other two. It wasn't nice at all because it lasted throughout the entire day, but maybe, just maybe it'll be different this time :)
from twisted-mind :
your internet provider may offer free image hosting. Try doing a search for your FTP space.
from thisisjohn :
thank you very much!
from it-guy :
tell me you really don't have autographed duct tape of our canadian icon Red Green...you are my new heroine!!!!...and you are welcome for that wonderful Brady Bunch tune spinning in your brain...and hcatty mentioned you are neglecting your neopet...whatever that is...but if you want to enter into a joint partnership on this...i will...;)
from dcalienz :
your words have meant so much to me in a world I find I mistrust so much. Thank you for being who you are.
from it-guy :
glad you are ok...maybe you should think about purchasing a helmet and keeping a clean pair of 'shorts' in your vehicle?...sometimes humour helps with the pain...;)...keep your stick on the ice...:)
from preciousgift :
Scary Stuff! {{HUGS}}
from hcatty :
Oh my gosh, sis. Wow. Thank God you're ok. That's some incredible faith building stuff, right there, ain't it? *HUGS* God... I can't even image... I've never seen an accident first hand before. *HUGS* Are you otay, now?? I mean emotionally... really??
from thecrankyone :
Yikes that must have been quite scary.. You were very lucky... ((((hugs))) I had a close call like that when I was younger, but I was alone and nobody else was hurt. I'm glad you are okay..
from hcatty :
btw, Sis. The party's been at your place for about 2 months now, ya didn't notice all the noise!? teehee...
from hcatty :
*struggling to maintain composure and not totally lose it over the "he probably nudged you to spill it" comment* .... HA!! HAHAHAAAAAAAA! HAHAA HAHAHAHAHA HAHAHAHAHAHA AHAHAHAHAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!
from hcatty :
Hi Sister Mine. Yes, I DID love it! I DO love it! You got me like 2 notes and a guestbook signing! lol I LOVED that!!! I am so deeply sorry that I have waited until now to reply. And I haven't even been to neopets since Sat. Gonna have to email you about that. Whoopsie. *HUGS* I so love you!! You're Precious to me!! (And I dont' mean that in an obssesive/multiple personality/would kill to keep/Gollum type way, just... sisterish love type way...) Yes, Precious... you're precious, precious.... precious.... *snicker*
from it-guy :
you spilled hot water on a guy's crotch and then proceeded to try to wipe it up!!!...no wonder he wasn't mad...he probably nudged you to spill it...and thanks for letting me know grabable is a word...not sure a man's ass comes to mind when i think of it...but glad to hear it did for you...;)...keep those hands clean...;)
from burntautumn :
My house is doing the exact same thing, with the whole pop kind of sounds, except it's more of a crack. When the weather instantly changed the walls were making these thud noises all night when I was home alone. Heh, I had a hammer for a weapon because I wasn't sure what it was. But yes, it must warm up a bit...or even a whole lot. Cold weather is nothing but insane. Hehe.
from ktdream :
Thanks very much for wishing me a happy birthday. =)
from velvet-heart :
Happy New Years love. May this new year bring you more happiness than your last and may you have a greater learning of more things to come. Much love, Huggles
from macfarlane :
Happy New Year!
from babygerl26 :
Hey I saw you read my diary I haven't updated in awhile so sorry but yeah I would love to be your favorite. I am really sorry to hear what you went through as a child. I am forever amazed at the way people treat children today. Being a mother myself how could you ever purposley lay a hand on a child or anything else. I spank my children when they really need it but they have to really need it. Praying for you and your dad. And your right one day he will give an account before GOd for the things he has done. We all will. Toodles much love
from starlet-21 :
you don't know me and this is going to sound insane, but i'm about to lose someone i really care about and if you could do me a HUGE favor and leave chris-uk a note to tell him to forgive me, katie, it would mean the world. i'm hoping if enough notes are left it might impact him to listen to me. <3 - katie
from velvet-heart :
Freaky!! I just did that exact questionaire - too weird.. Hugs dollface. I hope you're doing well
from it-guy :
hey...S had excellent answers to Santa questions...and make no mistake...a size 15 bag is huge!!!!...hang in there...;)
from bluecharis :
Hi there! Thanks a lot for your sweet birthday wishes! *bows humbly* I hope, you and your loved ones had a nice Christmas! All the best for 2004! Love, Charis :-))
from nightdragon :
If you want someone to talk to and who'll listen, look up my e-mail or AIM address on my page. Hope you're surviving the holiday.
from thecrankyone :
I agree, watching him open it was the best. 7 layer bars are a very rich, but incredibly easy bar. No measureing, no mixing. Melt a stick of butter in the bottom of a 10 x 12 cookie sheet. top with a layer of graham cracker crumbs (usually about half a box) just sprinkle it evenly over the top. The evenly top with a layer of chocolate chips (one bag) anda bag of butterscotch chips, nuts if you like (I hate nuts), then a layer of coconut, and finally evenly top with a layer of one can of sweetened condensed milk. I usualy just open one end and drizzle the whole can over to evenly cover the whole thing as much as possible. bake at 350 F about 30 minutes or until golden and bubbly. Then the hard part. They have to be completely cool (at least an hour) before you cut, or they will be a gooey mess. They are rich and delicious. Hope your and S*'s holiday was happy.
from ash-rose21 :
*hugs*
from kitchenwitch :
Well that is funny! I am glad I am not the only one suffering from the Santa Questions!!!! They just keep coming. Today she asked me how Santa can carry all those toys in one sleigh!
from it-guy :
What is all this talk about Santa not being real????????
from hcatty :
Do an internet search for St. Nicholas and tell S the real story of Where Santa came from. That way he can still believe in the spirit of Santa, but not be crushed later in his life when he realizes that Santa does not in fact, exsist, TODAY. Just me, but I think telling your kids that Santa still lives is lying... it just hurts them more when they are disallusioned.
from twisted-mind :
Ok this is just me but I don't think telling your son that Santa is real is lying. Don't pop his bubble. Let the kids stay young at heart. I tell my kids Santa is real if you believe in him. My daughter is 9 and still believes in Santa. besides who says Santa has to be the guy in a red suit... in my mind Mom is Santa. Don't tell him... please.
from velvet-heart :
Wanker? Wheres that at ? *runs and looks*
from hcatty :
Hmmm oopsie. My family's like that. It annoys me so much to be late everywhere we go, but then I look at it logically. Three women, 1 curling iron... 1 hair dryer... 1 GOOD make-up mirror. Now see, typically I'm the first one ready helping the others to hurry up, but, Occassionally I have my slow moments and end up being the last one ready. I guess we just don't think it takes as long as it really takes to get ready?? anyways... we were an hour late a Christmas party last night... *cringe*... but that's just cause we didn't wanna go...
from thecrankyone :
hehe you hit one of my biggest pet peeves. My ex is that way, not because it takes him that long to get ready, he just mis guesses how long everything takes, and franky i think also to piss people off and show who is in charge. I on the other hand grew up with a mother where if something started at Noon, we had to be there by 11:30 and wait half an hour. LOL!!! Can't win for trying..
from velvet-heart :
ha I say one thing and do another all the time- you must dislike me then *wink* seriuosly tho- I understand what you mean, it irks me too- when I tell someone I'm going to be there- I'm going to be there. I just don't keep my appointments with myself lol.. I suck hahaha Maybe I should tell myself I'm going to set up a time and a place to meet my shadow and then wala! There I'll be and everything will just be all peachy and fuzz.. *snorts* Not..
from velvet-heart :
Your words seep with so much warmth sometimes I find myself crying.
from rosytears :
Thanks for the birthday greeting and thanks for adding me as a favourite, but my writing isnt really as good as you all make it out to be. It's just normal everyday writing that everyone is capable of. *smiles*
from xeran :
Thank you for the birthday wishes, but it's not until tomorrow. The design is nice, but I cannot take credit for it.
from hcatty :
oh and on another note... (note? another 'note'?? hahahahahahahahaaaaaa... sorry. bad joke)... Um, yeah. K, thank you for your note. I thought maybe there might have been something in there that I didn't say right to get the point across, or something I just shouldn't say the way I said it?? I dunno lol. I didn't mean to make you cry!! But thank you :o) *HUGS* Love you. Give S a hug for me.
from hcatty :
ok, see. There's an easy fix for that. Just give ME the ex's phone number and I will lay into him BIG TIME. I'll give him a peice of your mind, MY mind, and Kathy's mind, and Jump's mind, and Gene's mind, and Mom's mind, and Mom's mind, and..........
from prostituee :
That is so fucked. Why would he allow her to take over like that? Is he that dependent on her or that afraid to be alone that he would allow her to take over his life like that? Does he not see that his kids are more important? I don't understand men. they don't have that bond that mothers do..yet a lot of dad's don't do that shit.
from hcatty :
oooooooohmygosh. I am so so so sorry, Sis. I am on this weirdly funky high tonight and I am typing before I think which is why I'm not really doing an entry, I'm afraid of what I'd say, and I don't wanna edit. I didn't even consider that. I'm so sorry. Please forgive my lapse!? That was so idiotic of me... really was... I'm so sorry!!!!
from thepeachtree :
awwah! thats so cute! i want to make a santa out of a toilet paper roll, and i'm 17!haha, have a great merry christmas, your son seems adoriable!
from gonzostar :
thanks for the birthday wishes!
from lanie33 :
I'm 33 and I know how you feel about the friends thing. I'm stuck on one cause it just takes too much time to make new ones.
from velvet-heart :
Tis unlocked.. I will leave a better entry tomorrow.. had a crappy day today. *hugs*
from thecrankyone :
When Warren was little I always clipped his mitten to his coat. But at ten he is getting a little to close to those annoying preteen years. Anything that would be considered "kiddish' or uncool just won't go over. *sigh. If I had a dollar for every pair of mittens and hats ever lost, I'd solve quite a few of my financial problems. I don't mind the snow we have quite so much right now, as I do the cold, and ice.. Somebody remind me of this in July when I am whining about the heat.. Can't win in this state.. LOL :P
from velvet-heart :
Username- rescue Password - me
from hcatty :
K... see, I was gonna leave you this whole big sympathetic, thoughtful note, then I read that note that dangerspouse left for you a spewed my lunch all over my moniter, so. For that, all you get is "ROFL I'm sorry Sis. It's not funny..... but... it sorta is too... LOL I'm sorry!!!"
from dangerspouse :
Wow, it DOES sound like you have balls. Although maybe not - anyone who loses control of a snowblower and rams it into the garage still drives like a chick. Let's say you have "tubes", instead. BTW, if NewWifey(tm) ever croaks, I'm calling you.
from hcatty :
Love you Sis!!
from thecrankyone :
Thanks for the note. Next time I'll send the snow somewhere else. I think we have both had enough for awhile :)
from dangerspouse :
Thanks so much for the sweet note over at my diary! It really started my day with a smile. Aren't government officials great? "Civil Servents" aren't *either*, as someone once said. I'm glad to read you're feeling better, and you have a bitch who's willing to kiss you! I'm very jealous....
from me-undaunted :
glad you're both feeling better! did i miss your birthday? :o( happy belated birthday! btw, having a kid doesn't mean you couldn't have kissed females, haha. i have three kids and have kissed females... :o)~~~~
from hunter2003 :
Thanks for the birthday wishes!
from hcatty :
Hey, you're popular ;o) Happy Birthday!!! *HUGSSSSSS* Glad you're both feeling better!!! Even if you're only marginally feeling better, it's better than NOT feeling better. (I now have a bet with myself going, to see how many times I can put the word 'better' in here) Better?
from preciousgift :
Hi! My son is 4 1/2 :) And, if you don't mind I'm going to add you to my faves.
from scorpio123 :
Hope you had an awesome birthday!!.. and I love yuor layout!
from seenuh :
Happiest Birthday wishes to you!
from hunter2003 :
Happy Birthday!
from preciousgift :
Happy Birthday!
from elliorange :
♥ Happy Birthday! I hope you enjoy your special day!
from pastagirl :
Happy Birthday!! Have a wonderful day!!
from macfarlane :
Happy Birthday Honey *hugs* You have a fantastic day you hear! I'll be back for another read soon :)
from cutie1083 :
Happy Birthday!!!!!!!
from mickey225 :
Happy Birthday! Hope you have a GREAT day!!
from misspinkkate :
Happy Birthday Happy Birthday Happy Birthday Happy Birthday Happy Birthday Happy Birthday Happy Birthday Happy Birthday Happy Birthday Happy Birthday Happy Birthday Happy Birthday Happy Birthday Happy Birthday Happy Birthday Happy Birthday Happy Birthday Happy Birthday Happy Birthday Happy Birthday Happy Birthday !
from twisted-mind :
Happy birthday!
from dlandbdays :
Happy Birthday! I hope all your birthday wishes come true.
from lizagray :
Hi! Just wanted to say hi and let you know I am thinking of and praying for you and S.
from dangerspouse :
Yo - just because I'm not in prison doesn't mean I don't need a file and a cake. I'm hungry and need to do my nails, dammit! Mail 'em out ASAP, babe!
from elliorange :
♥ Thank you for the birthday wishes!
from pastagirl :
Thanks for the birthday wishes :)
from dangerspouse :
Hi there! Hey listen, thanks for the note over at my place, but I have to tell you: the wife/jail story is...um...fictional. I just thought it would make a cute story. Don't tell anyone, k? (Most of my stuff is true, but I just couldn't resist this one. I hope you understand) :)
from squirrelrat :
Are you sure your son has a cold? That sounds like a flu to me.
from hcatty :
Aw Sis. *HUGS* You're both in my prayers... I love you lots, and I hope things get better.
from twisted-mind :
Hope S feels much better in the morning!
from hcatty :
I love you, Sister Mine *HUGS* n *MWAH!*
from dangerspouse :
"Hello" from prison, Willow! Glad to see you are supportive in my fight against the evil overlords who would take away my right to spy on naked chicks. How dare they! Lol, anyway, thanks for the nice note, and FIGHT THE MAN! :)
from me-undaunted :
even at the tender age of six, kids can be manipulative if they know they can get to you. stand firm and let him know you're in charge, all the while being your usual loving self. he'll be okay. my aaron went through that stage too.
from hcatty :
Wow, I didn't know you'd had online relationships before, Sis. Had you ever told me that? Otay, sorry. Offtopic lol. *HUGS* You're loved, hope you know that. Don't give up on yourself, or on love. I know it's so lonely now, and I know how it hurts. Oh, do I know... But if you don't know how it hurts, how can you appreciate that love when it comes? Keep that in mind, otay? All my love to you, my darling wonderful Sister whom I keep always in my heart and my prayers. (By the way, I will have to email you with pictures and details. Mom's wedding was beyond beautiful)
from dangerspouse :
Hi! I just noticed you'd added me to your buddy list. Thank you so much for that, and the nice description you gave my site, too! That is very flattering, and awesomely sweet of you :) I'm looking forward to reading back through your archives - I've gotten to the "eye infection" entry so far. Hope that's cleared up by now. Take care!
from xnavygrrl :
I identify with the feelings you wrote about with "S". I have them with my daughter too. One thing I thought might be helpful to her was writing in a diary. She let me look at it once. I can actually read what she's writing. Anyway, she told me that she writes about her dad, me, the gerbils. It's an outlet for her. She also likes to draw, so I encourage that too. I think the best thing to do is to show kids they are entitled to their feelings. I tell her it's okay to be mad or sad, but it's not okay to yell, hit or throw things. That's more than I got....so, don't feel bad. You're not alone. Mine is six too.
from thecrankyone :
no problem..I didn't create it, I just "borrowed it" from somebody else. I can't even remember who at the moment.
from broken-bits :
Hey darl I just thought I would say thanks for wishing me a happy birthday and also thanks for saying what you said bout the layouts :)
from hcatty :
oh Sis... I'm so sorry, honey. *HUGS* I love you so much. And S loves you, he wouldn't say those things if he didn't. I know that sounds weird, but it's true. Maybe if you tried to explain to him how it makes you feel when he says them? He just... doesn't understand. He's young. Don't give up on yourself, don't lose spirit. Hang tough, Sister Mine. God WILL get you through.
from thecrankyone :
((hugs)) Warren went thru the same thing. Part of it is normal. He is attempting to manipulate you. Let him know you love him dearly, but that you are in charge and your rules stand. You would miss him terribly, but you will not be manipulated. Don't take it personally, he is only 6, and doesn't fully understand the impact of what he is saying. Hang tough.. I'm can talk if you need an ear.
from ms-ashlynn :
No neopets :( hehe. Im having withdrawal symptoms.
from cutielatina :
Hi chickie... First and foremost, thank you for the wishes and give that son of yours the biggest hug. He sounds like a sweet,goofy boy, just like my nephew..LOL..Do you know he asked me where the first man came from? How can planes fly? And I put my images or blobs through a free hosting site called ripway.com. You just link and it works. I hope I helped..:) Take care:)
from velvet-heart :
I came back to leave you a fantabulous note but I suck lol So I will just say hello to you. Stop in again sometime ok? I have written more entries about my past- if you havent read them already.(??) Or if you're still TRYING to. I know it must be hell on a lot of people to read the things I write. But I have to. It's time for me to let go. Take care honey. *huggs*
from scorpio123 :
thank you so much for your birthday wishes. they mean the world to me. have a fantastic day! love always vanessa
from wild-fire :
Ahhhhh I'll tell you what's got me a driftin away...I met a guy and he's the sweetest thing to me. I love the pet names he calls me and how polite he is to me and my kids. He works with troubled kids, so he has a knack with them. I am head over heels for this guy. He makes my whole day shine like the sun...even though it's raining out. Anyway, just wanted to share what was sooo happy for me.
from angelmum :
I'm sorry your trick or treating was sooo miserable, and that you and S aren't feeling well. I hope you both are better today and if not that you are soon. This cold is hanging on way too long. Hugsssssss
from macfarlane :
And I bet he looked cute as a puppy too :)
from hcatty :
wow, weird dream :o( *HUGS* Am praying that you get well soon, Sis. Wish there was someone there to help you. (Like, ya know..... me..)
from wild-fire :
Hey there, just wanted to let you know my diary username is wildfire and my pass is lavender ok? Take care and hope all is well.
from lizagray :
Hi! I am not going to say much other than this. You are a wonderful mom and he is fine. I would go into detail but all the other notes said it for me. Your situation with S reminds me of me and my mom when I was little. For the longest time it was just the two of us. Both of my sisters went back and forth from living at our house to my dad's. But there was always me and mom, no matter what. I used to fake sick all the time just so I could go be with mom. So, I think I turned out great and S will to. Don't you worry.
from xnavygrrl :
I identify with you on many levels. It seems you have guilt too...and we're not really the ones who did anything wrong. It's a cycle. You sound like you're trying to make sense of everything, and that's a step toward being emotionally happy, whatever that is..
from ms-ashlynn :
You know that you are a GREAT mom. Your son will always love you no matter what. Just like you love him. I went all the way to 6th grade with 1 week out for tummy aches- just nerves. part of growing up *hugs* I think youre a wonderful mom. I think your son thinks so too.
from hcatty :
And thank you for the note. I appreciate you lots, Sis. *HUGS*
from hcatty :
heh... K N I V E S
from hcatty :
do you know what it is that makes a good mom? I can tell you. It's love, care, and hugs. THAT'S what makes a good mom, and Sis, you have those in abundance. He's alright, I promise you. In fact, it probably was good for him not to come home that day. I'm not wishing him ill or anything like that, I'm saying that it's probably for the best that he not get the impression that the adults will come running and take him out of any situation he's uncomfortable with. You are NOT the World's Worst Mommy. I can even tell you who is. That'd be the woman that used to be married to my father, who chased said father and my step-brother thru the house with KINVES in each hand yelling hysterically. THAT, my dear, is the world's worst mother. You have nuttin to worry about ;o)
from twisted-mind :
You are not a bad mommy for going out to lunch and shopping. When my daughter first started school she used to get tummy aches and the teacher actually suggested she wait another year to go to school. We just encouraged her and she made it through Kindergarten fine. Hang in there he'll do great and dont be so hard on yourself.
from it-guy :
hey you...nothing worst than the sickies...hope you are all feeling better soon...and you can send the snow my way if you want...i love the white stuff...take care!!!!
from hcatty :
Hey Sister Mine, hope my darling Nephew and your beautiful self get to feeling better soon. I'll be out of town until Wednesday, so I won't be around. But I WILL be here WEDNESDAY lol so I WILL keep up with my guild duties. This time... Anyways, Hey, have you noticed the VAST notes here? And the majority of then center around how completely sweet and caring you are? And how you touch so many people, just by writing about your own life? Huh... guess that must mean you're a beautiful spirit, and valuable to more people than you know, or something... imagine that... ;o) All my love, Sis *HUGS*
from cutie1083 :
Thanks for the b-day wishes:) Oh, and I hope your son gets well soon:)
from mkboog :
Thanks for the b-day wishes meant alot!
from cutielatina :
So much flattery! My goodness! :) So sweet of you to add me to your favorites, I really mean that. I actually even almost eeked!:) Oh my goodness, I love Judy Blume, Beverly Cleary. I love to read. And I'm glad we share that in common.I collect children's books and read them still. Shoot, doesn't matter to me about the age, I like reading Fudge-a-mania still..don't you??Have you read the books targeted towards adults from Judy Blume?What do you think of those? I haven't read them yet. You are so sweet to care about my husband like that! I mean it. He is well, by the way, even if we have no car. I would gladly do anything for that man, even ride the bus...man, I sound so spoiled. But he is fine:) Oh, I love being an auntie. Those two shirmpo's make my day, like Jake's baby smiles and laughs, and Christopher's hugs. Only wish I got along better with my SIL, so that it wouldn't be uncomfortable for me to be at my mother-in-law's house. Oh, I wish I was a mom...I really do. And I know it will happen. If not naturally, we will adopt, and be foster parents. For me, a child is a child, and if they are mine, regardless of how they came to me, I will nurture them. As for my brother, I saw him this past weekend and for Thanksgiving, he is coming here. YAY! As for my locked diary.....umm..well,to be honest,most of the content is me being angry...and venting those feelings at the heat of the moment, with some rather bad language..haha...Fire and brimstone anyone? Anyway, I only use it for myself and the access is for me, my husband doesn't read it, although I do give him a synopsis of it. Maybe I shouldn't advertise? LOL HAHA! I mean, duh! LOL It's like telling people, try this and then not offering it to anyone.... Anyway, its nothing personal. Please do not think that. I am honest in my cutielatina diary..but some of the things I write about in my private one are related to my sister-in-law, who misinterprets every word as an insult to her, hence the limit, which stinks.And if I want to see my nephews, I have to be civil.. Shesh, LIFE STORY OR WHAT? Anyway, take care sweetie, and give that son of yours a big hug! Take care..
from opaque88 :
i don;t know who you are or where you came from, but thanks for yr note. i don;t know, but fuck. all these people telling me my birthday will be ok. & y;know, it was. how did you know, sweet? you knew even before the entry was written. exoh.
from velvet-heart :
I haven't yet been able to read your diary, but I shall. And thank you for your lovely words and kind note. When I find a way to honor the words you said to me I will shall be back again.
from cutielatina :
hiya! Thank you so much for your birthday wishes and I took a gander at your diary..I love it. I will be adding you to my favorites.Something about the way you write strikes a chord with me. And I hope your son is doing awesome in school :)
from shelly007 :
I just love Chicago! It makes me want to dance. Although the jailhouse tango makes me feel just the teensiest bit vindictive. "Some guys just can't hold their arsenic!"
from angelmum :
That soooooo not right in my eyes that you have to pay to replace the plates. After all you already paid for the first set, if they cancel that set, and re-issue the new ones i think it should be even. Guess thats one more to add to the list where the victim gets screwed. I'm sorry. I'm glad you and S had a fun Movie night, the girls love doing that and we actually did the same thing. Thanks for the idea lol Hugssssss
from angelmum :
4 DAYS?????? Whats up with that????? lol Hugssss
from wild-fire :
my username is wildfire and password is wildestfire. I would love for you to keep reading, his sister is just a cunt. Sorry for my language, but she had no right in my diary.
from hcatty :
I may be a goofball, but THAT makes you a Goofball's sister!!! And how that's a bad thing... Iiii... um... just don't know. ANYWAYS!! Here I am... sitting... waiting... just on the EDGE of my seat in hopes of catching a glimpse of another entry from you before I must leave my precious computer... *drums fingers...* hmm... BYE!
from macfarlane :
Hey Treewillow, sorry haven't gotten back to you sooner, things are hectic over here :). I have seizures a lot so I go in hospital everytime I have one so they can get my body to stop fitting. Hope your doing ok and enjoying yourself, you take care! Kenneth
from lizagray :
Hey! Thanks so much for the notes. The hubby is much better. I sooo agree with you about the spider. We live in the mountains and we find them in our house constantly! They gross me out!
from it-guy :
hey you...agreed...nothing like early morning fishing or sitting on a dock listening to the loons...also nothing like avoiding spiders at all costs..;)...hope your son and you find a good turkey...;)...take care!!!!
from hcatty :
Hey Sis lol my brother never answered your questions. He just laughed. And he still thinks he won that one. Sheesh! You shoulda seen the answers that came flooding in! Wow! Love you lots. *HUGS*
from sunrice :
Thank you for your B´day wishes. It made me smile. :D
from littlemummy :
Was it Lemon Chicken at Winter Garden??? If it was, try their ginger beef. Or thier szechuan chicken. MMMMMMMM. As for the Italian restaurant... Ciociara Pizzeria-Restaurant. Oh my lord, those pizza's are heavenly. The restaurant itself is a hole in the wall, but the food is well worth it. The best. THE BEST! Mmm. It's on Jefferson, near Adsum. In the Maples. In the strip mall beside IGA. TRY IT! You'll love it!!! ;-) Sorry, but their pizza is the best. And there's a coupon in the Entertainment Book, if you have one. Avery sold them for school, so I thought S might have as well.
from ms-ashlynn :
Hey- I think you have more faith than I do. Im hoping we make it to the end of the year. Im afraid, Im going to get spooked, or that he is. Im so silly- anyways, Malai Kofta is an Indian Dish- it is a vegetable croquette, but it also has paneer- Indian cheese that is kinda like cottage cheese, nuts, and even raisins sometimes. Ian taught me how to make it, but I didnt like it at first, now I do. Sancocho is a Latin dish- it is chicken, sweet plantain, green plantain, yucca, and lots of spices...it's like a chicken stew with veggies in it. Yummy hehe. I hope you have a Happy Thanksgiving. :)
from kitchenwitch :
I locked my diary. Email me if you want the password. Love ya! Hopefully this will be temporary!
from hcatty :
Sister Mine... don't hide yourself. don't let the fear win. Be who you are. I know who you are, and I love you. Others will love you as well. But if you can't bring yourself to shine, don't think less of yourself for it. YOU are special, and beautiful, and just because you have worries and fears and weaknesses, doesn't make you a horrible person. I promise you that. All my love, H
from me-undaunted :
you're right. it's your diary and you should say what you want to and not worry about whether people like it or not. i always try to do that in my own diary. truthfully, my diary is mainly my place to vent, so anyone reading it would gather that mostly i'm a bitch. and yeah, i can be, but there's so much more to me than what little i put in here. i'm sure it's that way with you too. what i like most about your diary is your honesty and your ability to write about things that are painful to you. if you've been reading me for a while, you probably know that i hide behind humor, sarcasm, and an air of i-dont-give-a-crap when i'm feeling hurt, depressed, or anything like that. but anyway, just to let you know, if you lived anywhere near me i'd most definitely want to be your friend. :o)
from dombilly :
Thankyou for the bday note! :)
from starlight42 :
Thanks for the birthday note!
from macfarlane :
Yeah I had a good time at the fair, making all those kiddies jealous with my bear ;) Hope your doing ok, Kenneth *hugs*
from macfarlane :
*hugs*
from angelmum :
I hope all is well with you, I missed talking to you, Dave says he hasn't seen you around either. If it hadnt been so late I would have called you. Hope to talk to you soon, Hugsssssssss
from angelmum :
Happy One year In Diaryland to you as well. I didn't even realize (its that darn brain lag lol)until you left the note for me!!
from twisted-mind :
Hey sweets, you have to dream. Its what keeps us going. My husband has very detailed dreams about winning a million dollar lottery. Maybe we'll all get lucky and our dreams will come true. Its all about keeping and finding hope. (((Hugs)))
from smartepants :
I appreciate the birthday wish, youre a sweet♥!
from macfarlane :
Thank you for the birthday wishes :) Kenneth
from flyinby :
Hey. Sorry about the crazy acting dog. :( She sounds miserable! Poor critter. Poor you for having to worry about her. Sometimes I wonder if a dog would be better off gone that living a poor quality of life. *shrug* My dog seems to be an alright pooch, thank goodness! I was lucky there, I've been unlucky in the past.
from jump154 :
Hey Babe!! That must be the best entry i have read from you in a long time.. Looks like things are looking up! Hugggs, Rich
from macfarlane :
Thanks for adding me to your favourites, and leaving me a note, I've been reading your diary and have added you to my favourites, I hope to read it again soon. Best, Kenneth
from thecrankyone :
I see you've already been told. but if you check out snopes.com.Bonzai kittens are a hoax. Actually most chain/spam emails are hoaxes. Just thought you would like to know..
from justmouse :
hi sweety...that whole Bonzai Kitty thing is a joke. it's been around in the internet for a while now. it's all just a gag. so you don't have to worry about the poor kitties. no one is squishing them into little boxes :) take care. *hugs*
from kathiec :
Thanks for the birthday wishes! You're great! BTW Bonsai Kittens is a hoax. See here for more details: http://www.urbanlegends.com/ulz/bonsai.html
from kitchenwitch :
Oh thank you darlin! Its the thought that counts... I appreciate that you cared enough to leave a message... It's bolstered my flagging spirits :) that sounded corny, but its true!!! ~blessed be~
from liebstar :
Thank you for stopping by and give your wishes. It was very nice from you ^^
from shiningdawn :
well i know it is not me you are talking about it has to be angelmom lol hahaha :p~~~~~~ but i am sorry if i have buged ya getting help with stuff for me and yes i will rest this wekend my daughter is with me for the weekend so i have to rest or die lol tc talk to ya soon Hugs
from angelmum :
I am sorry you cant get into the chat, I hope you can get in there soon, I have been lax at going in there as of late, but atleast we can chat on yahoo, and I have NO idea who you are referring to about your update *whistle* *whistle* *whistle* lol Hugssssss
from ms-ashlynn :
Hey I have a private diary now- Ive added you from that diary. the id is welcome and the pwd is friend. I hope you and S are doing ok.
from beckymojo :
We have a tentative date being the end of feb. this planning stuff gets so overwhelming that vegas looks like a viable option!!
from humbi :
Thank you very much. I am overwhelmed by all the notes on my site by people, who wish me a good birthday. Cheers
from beat-me :
thanks for the birthday note
from me-undaunted :
how odd...i was just about to write something here and i happen to glance down at my thighs and realize that i see some kind of dimple. like cellulite! now i'm all bent out of shape and forgot what i was going to say. i'll have to come back later. i'm so flaky!
from it-guy :
thank you for sharing your day so honestly...i will now be even more prepared on Monday when my girl starts...and if you hear in the news from Ontario that a man was killed by a bus...that was me laying down in the middle of the road trying to retrieve my daughter before the bus drove by...you sound like the bestest mom...your son is lucky to have you...as you are to have him...look at it this way...his next day will be even better...and so will yours...hang in there!!!!...i am rootin' for ya!
from flyinby :
everyone has trouble with the first day of school . . . everyone except the KIDS that is! :) i'm soooo glad i don't have to worry about busses! but then again, i have to worry about her walking two small blocks with a couple of other kids (they walk together) and it stresses me to no end when they come to the door cuz she didn't meet them at the corner (she started off without them, the little booger!). *sigh* kids aren't happy until we are 100% grey.
from it-guy :
hey...i find the flying grasshoppers a little too crunchy and sour...but ants and lady bugs are good...agreed...my daughter is more ready for school than i am in sending her...today is our meet the teacher day...then she starts full time on Monday...we have met the teachers before...so i am comfortable with them...it really is the issue of them growing up and not depending solely on us...i imagine i will get over it...she is pretty excited which makes me feel better too...i thought about attaching a remote camera to her head and having it send the video to my computer at work so i could see her all day...or at least see what she is doing...but i figured that might be a bit much...and the other kids might think her dad is a little strange...not that they would necessarily be wrong...plus...i imagine it might get in the way depending on their activities...i will continue to devise a plan on seeing her...;)...thanks for the notes...it is nice to hear from you!!!
from ms-ashlynn :
Hi- Thanks so much for checking up on me. I really appreciate it. I had a little tiff with someone yesterday, but its all worked out now, and its ok :). Hey I just read your authors list and I saw VC Andrews. One of the first books I read when I turned a teenager was My sweet Audrina. I wish I could remember what it was about hehe. Thanks a lot :).
from lizagray :
Hi. I tried to leave a message for you earlier today but I some how ended up leaveing one for myself(lol). So I just wanted to thank you for the note. It is nice to know that I am not a freak for enjoying the inlaws. I loved your 22 smiles. Those were good.
from me-undaunted :
(((((((((you)))))))))) awww, you're such a sweet mommy. i don't think you're paranoid, you just adore your baby. nothing wrong with that.
from shiningdawn :
Hi there ,yeah i thought about that after i done it i went back and re done it lol and ok on the or else lmao tc hugsssss
from swirleddream :
Thankyou for the birthday note! :) xx
from broken-bits :
Hey :) , just wanted you to know its hope-soul here although im sure you already knew that. Just asking a small favour, I am adding you to my list of favs for this diary and I was wondering what your fav quote is so I can put that in the comment part :)
from shiningdawn :
just wanted to say thank you for your help talk to ya soon tc hugsss
from p3-corr :
hi, thanks fro joining my diaryring, as a member i invite you to take my charmed survey! http://members.diaryland.com/edit/showsurvey.phtml?name=p3-corr-powerof3#userstaken
from luvpiggie :
thanks for leaving me a note, u are the first one do that for me! lol and also thanks for the b-day wishes.
from me-undaunted :
i never get cool email like that anymore. mostly i get junk mail. yeah, i remember the incident with your van and could relate to how you felt. and what really makes me mad is when cops act like it's no big deal. well that's how that cop acted when my car was broken into, anyway. hope you're having a good weekend :o)
from hope-soul :
Hey, thank you so much for leaving that nice note on my diary, it makes me smile when I read nice notes :) I am planning on updating soon but not just yet. ((hugs))
from flyinby :
good luck with the job finding in ontario. i don't think you have anything to explain at all!
from elvinarcher :
Thank you for my birthday well-wishings! :)
from ms-ashlynn :
Hi, Im alright, been busy with my cousin and her wedding. Thanks for thinking about me :). I hope all is with you and your son.
from l-e-a :
Thank you very much for the birthday wish. It made my day!
from nightdragon :
OK, I've got a great idea. Go to your doctor and tell him about your debilitating dreams. Then hopefully claim disability benefits and get some of your gov't grown medicinal pot and see of THAT doesn't get you some good dreams!
from soandsotgs :
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from thepeachtree :
Hey, its Jesso... A good friend of mine had her best friend die, and found out just a hour ago. If you were going to leave me a note... don’t. You should go to her diary and leave happy hopeful thoughts in her notes section. Thanks a lot kid, she, and I, would definitely appreciate it, from one Diarylander to another... ( http://krisdru.diaryland.com )
from twisted-mind :
Do this to make the link to your quiz. <a href="http://treewillow.diaryland.com/030817_89.html">Quiz</a> Sure hope that shows up right for you. I'll have to add up my results later.
from shiningdawn :
hey i did that quiz already lmao i got 18 lol see ya soon hugsssss
from jelibeary :
hey hun thanks for the birthday wishes it really meant alot to me. Maybe in the future you will fall in love with this guy and this guy will have 4 kids of his own so you will need the van? maybe...it could happen. Mwah
from shiningdawn :
Hi there not sure why but the % thing is not working for me tonight lol
from amercncliche :
Jesus christ, I just read your latest post on diarytag... oh my god I'm sorry about all that. Wow... parents and boys are just awful. I hate men. Some night I'm going to hop on a white horse, ride around, and slay all the men.
from shiningdawn :
Hi there it worked i did what you said and it worked on the third try lol talk to ya soon i am off to bed nite hugssssss
from shiningdawn :
thanks for the noets and i got a little bit of rest. not much but enough to keep going and also thanks for all your help tc talk to ya soon Hugssssssss
from dear-nobody :
please do not send notes, emails, anything. i dont want to be reminded. i closed my diary due to unfortunet events. it will not re-open anytime soon.
from twisted-mind :
You are most welcome. I'm just trying to save some money on my internet services. Sorry I couldn't keep doing it but it looks like you've got the picture working well. Remember if you come across a picture you'd like to use for a layout, just let me know and I would be glad to make you a new one. Hope you have a great weekend. :o)
from diarytag :
Tagged by lip! When did you first start dating? Who was your first significant other? Describe that person and how you two got together...and what ended it. Please respond by 8/13
from twisted-mind :
if you wanna give me your password I will archive your entries for you.
from flyinby :
i wish i was talented with words, but i am not. i wish i knew the words that would comfort you and take away your negative feelings, but i don't. i am just sucky that way. all i can say is that i hope things turn around for you really quickly, and that if you need an ear, mine is available.
from foundmystar :
Thanks for the help! I'm going to check it out now. :)
from silverbiker :
lovely layout
from angelmum :
OK I tried to post this in your guest book but its telling me I can't sign again this fast. Hmmmmm I haven't left you one in a few days. Sooooo I guess I have to post it here lol :P~ I am sorry you are feeling lost, I'm sure S will be missing you just as much, that is sooo sweet of him to leave "car" for you. And I am sorry that you Dad was such an ass, I don't understand how people can be like that, My kids are my life as will my grandchildren be years from now. S has lots of cyber Aunties and Uncles that love him and his Mommy dearly. I being one of them!!!! You know I am here if you need me!!! HUGSSSSSSSSSS
from singinchik06 :
Tag! You're it. After reading your entry about Harry Potter, I thought of this tag. Some of the characters in the Harry Potter books have special powers, but they come with certain responsibilities. (i.e. animagus=have to be registered, etc.) If this were possible, what power would you want to have and what responsibilities do you think would go along with it?
from mkboog :
My hubby Matt is on the Atkins Diet, well we both are. Been able to not cheat and still be satisfied for almost 2 months now. It's a low carb high protein diet.
from wildrose1 :
As an asthmatic I am cautious when mixing any chemicals. I was surprised by this and plan to pass the word on. Avon has some great products that have both sunscreen and insect repellant in them. They work great. You can buy these products for $6 or less. ((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))
from flyinby :
yeah, i don't care what the teacher says, the kids probably didn't do the art. i have met a LOT of teachers who did that very thing, they would use one or two kids to do all of these art projects and then claim they were done by others. *grrr* also, that teacher was being flippant with you and i'd have said something along those lines to her boss. the whole thing was probably managed poorly by her boss - the teacher should never have been told who it was that made a complaint. that's just common sense. i know teachers who take it out on kids when their parents make them upset. i knew a girl who was told that a parent said she wasn't giving so-n-so enough time to eat her lunch, so the teacher would gripe to the kid about it, telling the kid that she had to hurry and eat and then complaining to the child that the parent wanted her to eat her lunch and so on and so forth. teachers like that can be pretty petty and stupid. a lot of them are kids from highschool who haven't got any interest in much more than the paycheck they get. *sigh* sorry! here i am making another novel in your notes! i'm just strongly opinionated when it comes to daycare and childcare providers, so called teachers. they give the good ones an undeserved bad rep.
from it-guy :
hmmm...it is ok to make your neighbors concerned by middle of the night antics...but there is never a need to wear 'see through' boxers and damage them for life...;)...i will always make sure my boxers never show the 'goods'...and they were racoons...no sign of the beaver as of late...and no moola either...you need to pay more attention to that beaver and make it more friendly and personable...then maybe it will help fill my pockets....;)
from katehackett :
If you had to pick one colour to wear for the rest of your life, what would it be? (respond by July 27th)
from windshadow :
Welcome to the talktomyself diaryring! Thanks for joining!
from diarytag :
tagged by lip! It is apparent that you do not have a good relationship with your mother. How does this affect the way you act as a mother and see yourself as a mother? Please respond by July 26th
from flyinby :
hey, here's a big hug, online anyways. i know it doesn't replace the real thing. *big squeeze* alright, i hope things get perkier for you!
from justmouse :
thanks for checking up on me...and no, you're not a nag ;) you're just a mom. i just haven't had the energy or desire to write lately. but it takes more than a crappy year to keep me down. i'm going to try to update more, now that i'm on the "good" drugs..hehehe, but if i get slack, feel free to check up on me. it's good to know someone cares. :)
from diarytag :
TAG! Hi this is Raven Green with your tag. I saw in your profile that you listed Savage Garden as on of your favorite bands. I must admit of having a personal loyalty to the Aussie pair. I remember when I first bought their debut album and when I would play it for people I would state before every song "oh I LOVE this song". What exactly is it about them that makes you love them? The music? the lyrics? The good looks? Plus you noted that there songs make you cry? which one specificly touches you? (mine would be 2 beds and a coffee machine). Good luck.
from it-guy :
sorry to hear you got broken into...i am lucky enough to have never had that happen...i can't imagine...all for a couple cents...too weird...i think it is great you play cars with your son...i love playing that with my kids too...nothing like laying on carpet and watching the wheels of a matchbox car drive by your nose...and then have your son sit on your head and giggle...anyway...still no money...and oddly enough no more tickles from the beaver...hmmm...maybe it shaved or something...hugs back to ya!
from flyinby :
i would SOOOOO move! how scary!
from flyinby :
it's ok! :) the guestbook service is on the fritz today, i haven't been able to sign one all day! :)
from flyinby :
awww! i love to play with my kids! my fave is to get down on the ground and build stuff with duplos and then use the dolls from the dollhouse to play house in our creations! it's fun when the girls make a van or other vehicle especially! i can't wait to play cars with my son! best fun is to put a blanket on the ground and leave it slightly crumpled, makes great mountains and valleys and lots of off-road type fun! *revs her engines*
from wildrose1 :
see that the first time I ask to use something instead of swiping it I get a don't bother,lol. (((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))
from it-guy :
hmmm...which is a lie....celery is human grass...no one really loves celery...at least plain...maybe with peanut butter or cheese...but then you really wouldn't be able to say you love celery...but then again...maybe you you got lost once and ended up in Oklahoma...hmmm...most people me thinks have broken a finger since birth...possible to hate seafood...but unlikely...who hasn't tried liver...ok...back to celery...you love celery...that is the lie...ahh...maybe the liver...nope...celery...celery is the lie
from burntautumn :
You hate seafood?
from wildrose1 :
I want to borrow it too. I am guessing that you have never tried liver. (((((((((((hugs))))))))
from flyinby :
i love celery is a lie. yes? no? *shrug*
from flyinby :
oh oh! i wanna borrow it too! mind?
from flyinby :
nope, i'm in arizona and am all full up! i rarely have a vacancy, people tend to stay with me for a while. usually, actually, people intend to use me only for a short time while they find another corporate daycare, but then stick with me when they see the quality i offer. :) i'm pretty proud of my daycare, can you tell? lol *wink*
from it-guy :
ok...i will leave the pillow in an available position...and you get that beaver under control...you know...i did have an odd dream of being tickled and nudged with something furry...i am thinking now that it was the beaver...good luck with the money dream...again...(you are definitly funny and witty)
from windshadow :
Thanks for signing my guestmap!
from flyinby :
now, as a daycare provider myself, i have strong opinions about what sort of care you can expect from daycare providers. and for the money you have to pay for daycare your child should be doing his own art work. and no matter what would i leave my own children in a situation where they could be verbally abused every day, or spoken to with that sort of disrespect. if it were me, i'd be leaving a filing a complaint. children are resilient and find friends where ever they go, unless they have severe social anxiety (which some kids do have). anyways, i won't make a novel in your notes, but BOY do i have a head full of steam over this one! it sounds like the kind of care you could expect from large daycare corporations where i have worked in the past (i left to provide better care at a fraction of the cost and to stay home with my own kids).
from it-guy :
ahhh...my pillow case was empty this morning...and i wore leather to bed...my tool belt that is...figured it had lots of pouches...great for holding money...but it was empty too...oddly enough there were wood shavings in our bed...no idea how they got there..?...anyways...i have to agree with wildrose1...have a talk with the teacher...it definitly won't hurt if you already have doubts about them...and on the other hand...this seems to be all part of growing up...dealing with other people and situations...your son has you...he will turn out just fine...;)
from wildrose1 :
Raising a kid will teach you quickly that you really have no skill in decision making. Not just you, all parents. I don't know how many times I wondered, "how did I get this job?" If all the concerns you have are about one teacher, I would go and talk to one of the others at the school to get a sense of what is going on. Then go by your gut on it from there. I remember when my son was in kindergarten he came home one day and said his teacher was trying to poison him. I went and talked to the teacher and everything was fine. He just felt she didn't like him, because he was struggling. The end of the year worked out fine. good luck (((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))
from it-guy :
hmmm....i wore coveralls to bed which had plenty of pockets and when i woke up they were still empty....me thinks you are not dreaming of money...not to mention i just about died in my sleep from heat exhaustion...i am going back to sleeping in boxers...maybe dream that the money is taped to me...wait...bad idea...tape removes hair when it is pulled off...ok...dream of shoving the money in my pillow case...;)...and i won't tell anyone you are a stalker...;)
from wildrose1 :
The net is a great place to make strong friendships. I have made many friends on-line in diary communities. ((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))
from ind2006 :
Happy 4th of July!!!
from wildrose1 :
Did you know that all this past week the Disney Herbie movies were on. Buddy Hacket was in the first one. It does seem that alot of celebs have passed in the last two weeks. Well cheer up, eh. (((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))
from it-guy :
i will give you advance notice the next time we are going to do something exciting so you can send your son...;)...10:30 does seem a bit late, he does need some wearing out...sorry to hear you never won your prized unicorn...next year i will see what i can do for you...i won a purple dragon this year that stands about 2.5 feet tall and is about 3 feet long...and petting zoo's are very manly...especially when there are pot bellied pigs with tusks...;)...unless of course you are wearing silk gloves and underwear...in which case it would be feminine...;)
from it-guy :
ummm...nope...no money...and it probably didn't help that i went to sleep with boxers...which incidently do not have pockets...i will be more prepared next time...and leave my wallet under my pillow
from it-guy :
hmmm....hope you have sweet dreams...;)...i will empty my pockets so i have room...uhhh...for the money of course
from it-guy :
hmmm...looks like i am going to have to fill the next couple days with stuff like chopping wood, fishing, driving my truck, itching my crotch, and wearing pants that show the crack of my ass when i kneel down...the Girdlegirdle name and the barbie/tea incidents are effecting my masculinity...and i know my wife really doesn't want to share her clothes with me...i would end up stretching them all...in wierd places of course...
from it-guy :
ok...to start...i am pretty sure no one wants to see me dressed in drag at my daughters tea party...i don't know how she even stands it...i don't think i look even a little feminine...secondly...that was quite the dream you had...maybe next time you could have me in your dream...like handing me a cool million in unmarked bills...;)...thirdly...my new name is Loopy Girdlegirdle...and now i am getting a complex becuase i dressed in drag for my daughters tea party and me new last name is Girdlegirdle...and lastly...no problem...send your son over...i am pretty sure he will fit in with my kids...keep smiling...;)
from twisted-mind :
Dinky Giggletushie is my lovely new name.
from jenne1017 :
feel free to use it!
from starlight42 :
I LOVE 3 wishes!! What a great movie. I remember it made me cry.
from windshadow :
Welcome to the garlic-lover diaryring! Thanks for joining!
from it-guy :
hmmm...i am a guy...and on those occasions that i do miss the toilet whilst peeing...(sometimes mornings and male hormones don't make peeing an easy task)...i clean up my own mess...maybe get your son into the habit so his future partner doesn't curse both your names....;)...hang in there!!!...congrats to your son on his accomplishment!
from starlight42 :
I'll have to check out paradise hotel. I love reality tv. That's too bad S can't go with you on vacation...
from jelibeary :
I'm just like you with the whole reality thingy. I love watching those kinds of shows. Did you catch Paridise Hotel. I only caught the end by accident. It seems alot better then Temptation Island but that is just my opinion. I'm a Real World Road Rules fan myself I can never miss an episode. Well this years Road Rules is kinda dorky but I still love it. :) I think MTV is the starting point of all the reality shows. :)
from it-guy :
Hey you...thanks for the fathers day wish...and yes...it was a great day...but then...everyday away from work and with my family is kinda like a fathers day...maybe i am spoiled...;)
from jump154 :
Thanks for your note. xx
from jelibeary :
*wink* *wink* Go ahead kill the sperm. :) I think you have every right to be upset. What a jerk.
from it-guy :
agreed...the whole parent-kindergarten-child starting school thing is emotionally frightening...and i only have like 3 more months to prepare...a manual didn't come out with these kids...how are we supposed to know what to do...?
from justmouse :
i agree about the father's day handprints...that's just stupid. i mean, if it's not their child, then who cares? if that were me, i'd explain to S why i think it's dumb, and make a card for his dad with him at home. sure, it's not what they did in school, but at least it would be from HIM! geesh. what a dumb idea.
from justmouse :
THanks so much for asking about me :) i'm not sure how to answer though...yes, technically, i'm ok....but no, i'm really not ok! confused yet? i know i am! my depression is brutal, my headaches are brutal, my debt load is tremendous...i'm just not dealing with things very well, and every time i sit down to write a journal entry (or work, or phone somebody, or do ANYTHING) i just burst into tears and cry myself into delerium. i know things will get better, they always do...it's just the wondering how long until they do, yanno? but again, thanks for asking after me, that helps, just knowing ppl care/notice. take care!
from justmouse :
ok, so i'm not the sharpest knife in the drawer! i forgot to post the link...duh! here it is: http://www.dialadietitian.org/resources/handouts/fe-food.html
from justmouse :
Hey treewillow! i know how hard it is sometimes to get your kids to eat a balanced diet - especially if you are on a restricted budget! here's a website that lists foods and their iron contents...maybe something in there will help. btw, my Chicken is TERRIFIED of needles - always has been - but i could care less. needles don't bother me at all. so i always ended up paying for a flushot every year too, just to make Chicken feel better about having to get his! he's getting much better now, he's still scared of them, but he knows they are necessary, plus he's getting older now, and heaven forbid his friends see him cry! good luck with the iron!
from jelibeary :
I was just like you before I became pregnant then I kinda got immuned to it all. But I have never seen the actual shot I always have my eyes close and just wait for the prick. :) I don't even watch Brenden I just talk to him and let them do there thing and don't even look at the nurses till I hear the door close then I know its safe. I guess I'm not totally not like you but I know how you feel. :)
from jelibeary :
lol I've never heard of those words either LOL ;)
from prowlingleo :
Thanks for the comment, I'm glad you like it! I came to terms with people that don't like me a long time ago, I can't please everyone. But I refuse to sit back and let them badmouth me either.
from aubriannna :
thank you for your words. I hate it but he will suffer, I'm sure.
from jelibeary :
Your a great mom. Well you sound like it anyway. lol It is great that you think whats best for S even though it kills you. :) Your in my prayers and thoughts. Larenda
from it-guy :
hey...glad i could make you laugh...especially if you needed it...think how much funnier i could have tried to be if i knew you needed a laugh...but then...in trying hard to make you laugh...i would probably have come off imature or lame...or made you wet yourself...so maybe i am glad i didn't know you needed a laugh but glad you got one anyway...and hey...my cat is named TAZ...good pet name..;)...pretty sincere diary...i will keep reading!
from prowlingleo :
I know this is officialy random guestbook signing week, but I'm making it a 'thank you for reading me' day. So here is me, thanking you, for continuing to read me.
from realminto :
What's so great about Ontario?
from starlight42 :
I'm sure once they get the hang of the new baby, they'll ease up and feel comfortable with S holding it. It is hard when there's a new baby though, sometimes no matter what you do, the other child feels left out. All you can do is give him lots of love.
from realminto :
So you like Coronation St too! It's my favourite soap, but it's not cool to admit it.
from starlight42 :
i just wanted to say hello!
from goddessdurga :
hey tree willow. we seem to have a bit in common. I am a pegger too. And will be 33 in June. And have a son that will be 6 in November! And suffer from SAD. Sounds like you are having a hard time with your son's school. What are the ages of the kids in his nursery school? Somehow I think the ages are supposed to be 1 to 8. But I could be wrong. That could just be for liscenced home daycares. Take care. I'll come back and check in.
from butterfly8-8 :
hey, I am really sorry about all your problems and being in depression and all. A few years ago I felt like I was going through depression, my parents were broke, their, marriage was a rubble, I was starting at a new school my sisters never wanted me around them. It felt like everyone was trying to push me away. I became unlike the other kids when I went to school I sat alone at the lunch table I never tried to say hello to anyone and when they said it to me I acted like I didn't hear. But then I don't know what ever even made me change. But who cares about my problems!lol but I really help everything goes okay for you and thanks for your prays I will start checking up on your diary and add you to my favorites. Thanks for the note. Bye bye Ally
from jelibeary :
That 100th entry Idea is so cool. Welcome BAck
from jelibeary :
whhheeeerrreee aaaarrrreeee yyyyoooouuuuu! Seriously we are missing you. :O)
from starlight42 :
that's too bad about the circus. that's good news about the X though!
from jelibeary :
sorry bout the circus
from starlight42 :
I am sure your friend understands. Maybe she just hasn't been near her computer yet to get your explanation.
from starlight42 :
hhhmmm, so what was up with the girl friend? does she know what is going on? Well, I'm sorry about what you're going through. I can understand about the being attracted to a friend thing- years ago I was. I don't know, I'd advise against it. Sometimes it just makes stuff worse.
from angelmum :
I can't get into your guest book for some reason so I will have to leave my message here... *AHEM* Again we are seeing last updated 2 Days ago. Am I beginning to see a pattern here???? Hmmmmmmmmm???????? lol
from jelibeary :
Well this is only my opinion but the guy is a dick. Second I don't feel any less of you I mean you are horny lol nah I mean seriously I havn't been where you are so I don't know what extreme I would go to but I do feel really bad that this guy did that to you. I hope things turn out. (I really hope that he isn't like a swinger ) We Love you though treewillow. :)
from jelibeary :
my gosh girl where are you from it was hot as heck today here in LOUISIANA lol
from jelibeary :
I'm sorry about your ex. :( thanks for the note :) Larenda
from starlight42 :
that's too sad about your ex. so many people are having kids that shouldn't be. he can't even be a dad to the one he has! a real "dad" that shows he loves him & spends quality time with him. I only hope things get better for all of you! *hugs*
from prncsaimee :
hey you :) Username: sheesh password: unreal xo
from jelibeary :
hehe i know that it may seem like I'm bugging you again lol I was just going to say your title of either your diary or you last entry was exactly what I was wondering. I think I wrote it in my last entry about when brenden looks at me I think that he is saying lots of stuff but just doesn't know how to tell me. Or like when he is screaming and is totally serious its like really in his little brain he is thinking momma get me out of here lol. Well I just wanted to tell ya. lol oh thank you for the note too lol it was funny because I was reading you entry and all of a sudden i got a little pop up saying I got a note from you lol. Thanks Larenda :)
from jelibeary :
Hello I just joined the moms r us ring and was just going around and saying hello to everyone. Well gotta go a few more hellos to go lol :)
from librtine :
you are not boring (re. I-love-sex survey answers). But you have been bored...
from dcalienz :
Wow I forgot something when I left you a note in your gb. I used to do this a lot, and I kind of backed off on it. You do it all the time, and I think it is so cool. So here it is...(((((treewillow)))))
from roadiepig :
P.S. - Thanks for adding me to your LONG favorites list! I will be back to read more of your diary tomorrow ;)
from roadiepig :
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from crazzymum :
Hi there! Sorry that you are going through such a hard time. I know what it's like. Those surveys SUCK... As far as free image hosting, I recommend auctionpix. That's who I use for my eBay auctions. Good luck!
from prncsaimee :
Hi sweetie. I must have the wrong email address for you. I've sent you about 7 emails over the past couple weeks, and I don't think you got them. Anyway, thank you SO much for your guestbook entry, it means more to me than you know. You're such an incredible person, and I'm so glad that you've been able to open up in your diary. We need to chat soon. xo
from justmouse :
oh, honey! get yourself some Prozac...FAST! i have been thru what you're going thru, for, well....forever! my doc finally put me on something that worked and wonder of wonders....i'm NORMAL again! (relatively speaking, ahem). i know soooo much how you feel right now. trust me, things WILL get better! when i was at my lowest, i thought of my Chicken, and it forced me to get thru it. no matter how bad I felt, there was no way i was going to let my son go thru it with me! if you need to talk, or advice (whatever THAT'S worth!) or just someone to listen to you cry or rant...i'm here. ok? you're so not alone in this!
from justmouse :
yanno what? it was easier for me to teach my son how to pee standing up than it was for me to teach him to blow his nose! LOL! for the blowing the nose part, tell him it's like breathing out really hard thru his nose, and into the tissue. he's old enough that you can explain it, and make it sound gross (boys LOVE anything gross), like tell him it's like a game to see how much gross snot he can blow out of his nose into teh tissue! as for the standing up to pee...again, he's old enough you should be able to explain it to him (i think my chicken was was about 3 1/2 when i taught him to pee standing up - not bad for a GIRL!). also, i know a lot of guys (okay, well, 2 or 3) who pee sitting down when they are at home, and only stand to pee when they are out. so i guess it's whatever he's comfortable with. but i think standing is a "guy thing" and somehow is connected to how macho they are or something *shrugs* how should i know? all i know is that if I stand to pee, my leg gets wet! good luck!
from omzhaara :
Oh treewillow, what a SHAPE I'm in! I've just been SO busy with this damned work assignment, and trying to get motivated enough to find a job, that I've been neglecting my diary! I just wanted to send you a little note saying *thank you again* for your gbook entries :) You make me feel special, and I so thank you for that! Anyhoo, you take care, and wish me luck with al that's on my plate right now! :)
from mightybruja :
Welcome to the Thunderstorm diaryring!
from elerah :
Hi! Talk about pretty layouts- Don't you just love shades of purple/violet? Your layout is delicious. Thanks for visiting and for the note. :)
from justmouse :
hiya! not sure if you want me to mention every time or not (i proofread out of habit-sorry!) but you mentioned S's name in full again (where you're talking about how you and anglemum want your kids to marry). if you don't want me to point it out, just lemme know, but i know you probably want to keep S safe and not mention his name. take care!
from dcalienz :
Wishing your day is going well.
from benkenobigal :
Welcome to the Migraines Suck! diaryring. Sorry you're a fellow sufferer!
from invisibledon :
Happy Valentines Day @-'---
from treewillow :
Hi Demonkilla, I tried to leave you a note in your diary. I am not sure even if you will see this note here. I just wanted to say, no, I am not British. I am from Canada. I noticed you said in your comment for my diary in your favorites, that you figure I am British. So I just wanted to let you know, no, I am not British.
from bettyalready :
A noodle? Ok yuk. I was reading your first entries and your "family" is/was fucked up. Tell you something you don't already know. I just hate that stuff. Hey I have a question, did you remarry? I haven't gotten that part yet. When I divorced I lived with my parental units. I am remarried and have a baby that's 1 1/2. The older 2 are 8 & 9.
from prostituee :
When they ask questions (kids) I give them the basic's. When they're 3 and 4, you tell them where the baby comes from. You know, the baby comes from the mommy's tummy. But you don't have to tell them it comes for SEX. Then when they're 7 & 8, they ask how the baby got in there. At least mine did. So I gave them the basics. You know, the penis goes into the vagina and leaves sperm. Creates a baby. It's all up to the parent. I know if I told my kids the whole of it at 3 & 4, they'd say something to the grandparents and embarrass the heck out of them. I also read books to them too. I was pretty selective. I didn't think 8 & 9 year olds needed to know how sex feels, why people do it for any other reason than making a baby, etc etc. We can get to that at teenage years. I don't act embarrassed, like my mom did. I just tell them like it is. I learned it all from a friend too. Anyway, blah blah blah
from omzhaara :
Hi, Treewillow - I was writing a note for you after reading part I of the birthing entry, but phones rang, cats starting jumping on the computer, and Hubs starting asking me where his SOCKS were, so I had to put it on hold. I just wanted to write and say that I hope you realize just how STRONG you ACTUALLY were... and ARE. People have found trouble coping with a LOT less than the hell it sounds like you went through, with no emotional and evidently very little physical support from K, and then dealing with a brand new little life, your S, in a town where you knew no one and had no family. I am so very impressed with you (not that that matters, lol) - but I just hope you YOURSELF realize how awesome you really are.
from justmouse :
just a quick note...you might want to edit your giving birth part II entry...not sure if you noticed, but you wrote out S name in full. not sure if you want to leave that up there.
from starlight42 :
That really sucks about your dad & his wife. He needs to stand up for himself. That's not fair to you. What would he do if the situation was reversed?
from taydo :
Hi there. Just wanted to say thank you for the Birthday note! Very kind of you :)
from amberfalls :
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you for adding me to your favs. I will try to update regularly so there will always be something to read. I'll be reading your too. Best wishes. -A-
from dcalien :
You have left me so many notes, and I don't think I have thanked you for them. I am almost in hibernation. Won't last long though. You are so nice to thank me for those things. I haven't forgotten you, only been derailed a bit. *hugs*
from ms-ashlynn :
Yay for S! :) hehe, I love reading what you write about your son. it's comforting, and a little..painful to me i guess, i love reading nonetheless and I hope everyday is a good eats day :).
from solstice36 :
thanks for joining the abused ring. also check out http://speak-out.diaryland.com, a place where you can post poems, stories and experiences about abuse
from justmouse :
ok, not to sound ignorant or anything, but how come S isn't in kindergarten (or ECS, or whatever it's called nowadays)? my son started kindergarten just before he turned 5. he went every day for half days. or do they do things differently where you live? just curious.
from invisibledon :
yeah I know what you mean about ex'es being hard to figure out -mine is completely loopy
from dcalienz :
I know I appreciate the things you said about columbia. *hugs*
from omzhaara :
So, here I am, about five minutes after leaving that last note, lol - I skimmed everything at the site I just left you the http for - she had Vertical Banded Gastroplasty (that's what I think it's called), and I had Roux En-Y Gastric Bypass, so the surgeries are a bit different (and her incision pictures scared the bejaysus out of me! even my scar, which I think is pretty long, is only half that length)... anyhoo, you take care, and if you want to email me about the surgery (or anything else), you can reach me at omzhaara@yahoo.com :)
from omzhaara :
Hi, Treewillow! I read about your visit to the "doctor" this afternoon, and laughed out loud - the precociousness, the just darn creativitiy of small children... I sometimes wonder if I'll get to experience that myself. Anyway - before I go and bring myself down after SUCH a fun morning ;) - try this site - she's in Canada, and she had a similar surgery to my own (if not the exact same, I haven't read through the site just yet) - I hope it helps! http://members.shaw.ca/tracibell/ - take care, and STAY WARM *big smiles and a hug*
from prostituee :
Self time? Oh you're so terrible! haha. Everyone needs alone time. When I was a single parent of two, I did look forward to some alone time now and again.
from angelmum :
But you can't use that duct tape... Ok how are you sending him and when should I expect him... I have duct tape and bungee cords lol so that would keep him in bed and quiet plus I don't have neighbors that I need to worry about disturbing lol Hugsss
from angelmum :
lol I get the same sad feelings when nobody has updated, and go off in search of more to add as well either that or take off to one of the virtual sites that you made me join lol I'm sorry that S had you up so early, Do you want me to send you some duct tape? lol I hope he sleeps later for you tommorrow, Hugsssssss talk to you soon, hehehe Oh yah I am already talking to you on IM hehehehe
from omzhaara :
I understand, treewillow... it's backwards for me, having Hubs' first wife and the mother of his kids in my life... Luckily, she's a great person, and I married Hubs nearly 20 years after they split, but I'm always a little envious of what she has with Hubs... children! Relationships are so hard to understand sometimes... I wish there were a "life manual" on living :P :) Anyhow, you have a wonderful day, and I'm also VERY glad that you found my diary!
from angelmum :
Awwwwwwww what a sweetieheartie my future son-in-law is lol... I want to meet you too so badly! Someday....Someday....Someday will come! Hugssss to you and my little buddy!
from justmouse :
What a beautiful little song! i love kid moments like that. :) i'm feeling all squidgy with love now...can't wait for my chicken to get home so i can hug him! Days like today sure make up for a lot, don't they?
from omzhaara :
Oh and how could I forget!! lol - I wanted to tell you about the lovely "Adios Mo Fo" drink, hehe (I'm kind of amazed I was still standing on Sunday after a Saturday night drinking these bad boys) - Vodka, Rum, Tequila, Gin, Blue Curacao, Sour mix, 7-Up - how's THAT sound? ;)
from omzhaara :
I LOVE Food TV! I just had to let you know that, hehe - I watch it so much, and one day... ONE day, I think I'll even tape an episode and then try to follow along with it (I particularly like the "30 minute meals" with the spunky brunette, I forget her name) :) I also wanted to say that S sounds like such a bright little guy (had some time to go through some of your older entries :), and that it sounds like you're doing an EXCELLENT job with him. Parenting is HARD, and I think it's in part taught by our own childhood experiences, so the fact that you are doing so very well with S should make you proud! (I'm so sorry to hear that your mother mistreated you growing up, that's terrible, Treewillow!) Anyhoo, lest I leave a novel here, you take care (and try to stay safe and warm in all that cold, I can't even imagine temps like that!) :)
from ciaramyst :
:)
from jenne1017 :
thanks for theiving my gals ;o) Glad you enjoy my taste in diaries!!!! :o)
from omzhaara :
Treewillow, *thank you* for the kind words you've left in my guestbook! Today was the first day that I had enough "me-time" to read your journal... and I was positively BLOWN AWAY. I guess it didn't help any that I started with you "past men" entry; I found myself nodding, shaking my head (as in "yup, damn, been there too"... and then stopping short, placing a hand over my mouth, and trying not to cry. THANK YOU so much for sharing something like that... and please don't feel that you need to become a nun... trust me, I DEFINITELY have been there as well! I suppose I just wanted to say, I'm really glad that you left me your gbook entries, because I'm adding you as a favorite as soon as I finish this note, and I hope that we can become Diaryland friends :) You take care!
from angelmum :
Now Now Missy don't sell yourself short, You did help me, you kept me sane and you knew about the Computer Genius Wizard! And you help me everyday to understand things about these darn things that are "alien" to me. Thank You Hugsssss
from leslieirene :
Hi there..thank you for your kindness! I have been being harrassed no end on Diaryland, so I have shut down my communications for a time. Thank you for all your compliments! Blessings to you, Leslie Irene
from twisted-mind :
Bummer about the banners but oh well, no big deal. I'm glad you liked the layout, I really enjoyed making it. :o) Take care... Oh and you don't need to thank me on your page either. Its my pleasure.
from angelmum :
Thanks for the note you left for me, Thank you for being such a wonderful friend, thank you for everything. You brought tears to my eyes. And I know things will get better, I guess I am just getting very frustrated for every test that she seems to put me through. I had it so easy with J - I said no, she said ok and went off to find something else to do, I can't ever remember her doing these things. But T shes a different one and I know they say never to compare your kids but WOW I am totally shocked in the differences. Once again Thank You for everything Hugsssss
from justmouse :
i just read your entry where S says, "i hate you". i don't know if it helps, but in my house, we never use the word 'hate'. i explained to my son right from the start that even when you're mad, you shouldn't use those words, because even if you don't mean them, they still hurt. i think your son would understand. you gave him the choice between spanking/time out, and he understood. i know you will be able to make him understand. you sound like a good mom to me. and i don't think him living with his father is the right solution. i think he needs YOU. all children resent having to follow rules, but deep down they know who loves them, and who is there for them. being a mom is the hardest thing i have ever done. i know you don't know me, but my thoughts are with you.
from angelmum :
Big HUGSSSSSSS to you. S is a very lucky little boy to have such a great Mom. I truly believe he is best off with you and there is no doubt in my mind that he cries for you when he is with his K. Just think of how often he cries when it is time to go for his visits. (more often than not). I know you have been to hell and back dealing with everything life has thrown at you and I am not going to tell you that I know how you feel or how you should feel. I do believe you have every right to have the feelings that you do. In my eyes its K's loss. There is no way that S could possibly understand everything, nor should he have to, or hear ever hear some of the things that have been said. I told Rick last night K is damn lucky that there are thousands of miles between us cause I would hunt him down and pound the piss outta him for the things he has done and said. Your time for Love and Happiness is out there, and it will find its way. If you need to talk you know where to find me lol Hugsssssss My dear Friend. I love you and I am always here if you need me
from prncsaimee :
there are links to tons of free template sites at http://beautify.diaryland.com
from maticus :
i have been a coronation street for a while myself, but lately i've been missing the last part to watch jimmy neutron and spongebob squarepants. errr wait, maybe i shouldn't have said that. rock on.
from invisibledon :
Happy New Year
from invisibledon :
Happy Holidays
from prncsaimee :
Thanks so much for the note you left - it means a lot to me to know I'm not the only one going through what I am. Happy Birthday, too! And of course, the same goes to you - if you need to talk, get in touch! ;) *big hug*
from angelmum :
HAPPY BIRTHDAY WILLOW!!!!!!!!! HUGSSSSSSS
from angelmum :
Cherish that lighthouse willow, it came from a one of a kind guy, you might have thought that your cat-in-the-hat hat was goofy but I am sure Akita loved it. I am sure he is smiling down on all of us, and will watch over us and especially S. I agree with your thoughts on chat rooms or atleast one in particular. Had I not come across #family by accident a little over a year ago I would have never met such a good friend as you are. There are so many wonderful people in our "family". Maybe someday I will get to meet you and others. Hugsssss
from dat-gurl :
i've been bi-curious for a while.. i don't hide it.. so i guess we're both one of the minority of women who admit that we do think like that.. my friends know, even my boyfriend knows.. i just can't find the rite gurl to be with.lol. i wonder if guys think like that too.. hmmm..
from amalthea23 :
hey! i'm a sk fan too! i can prove it! check out my arm http://amalthea23.diaryland.com/images/makeup.jpg :)
from moonworm :
your last entry was great!..i have not yet experienced myself and another woman but am all for it, good for you for telling everyone! i was recently at a party with the majority of my friends, who all once drunk and out on the balcony admitted to being bisexual..my whole group of friends! i was amazed and proud of them all, and its great everytime i see someone say it out loud!..good luck in your search!, and wish me luck in mine!
from amalthea23 :
i tried that in between (see my search engine for mypixie) that didn't turn out so well, but her boobs DID taste like candy, and you can't argue with that...
from invisibledon :
how you doin' today?
from prncsaimee :
That's not weird at all. And being with a woman is just as good as being with a man ;)
from invisibledon :
and you were playing in the neighborhood too thanks
from invisibledon :
thanks for linking to the neighborhood
from ozwald :
Such a good mommy. OZ
from jump154 :
Hi Hon, Take a word of Jump Advice -- get the pills. When I did something similar this time last year - trapped nerve, the muscle relaxants made me feel soo much better. Took me 3 months to get off them tho...lol
from jump154 :
LoL -- Kids are fun eh? Adn yep , i'm now a relationship and sexual councellor for my ex....which is kinda odd. Jump
from wifemotherme :
Awww I can always relate to what you write. I had the same fears going into motherhood. When I found out I was expecting N i came home and turned the radio on. The veyr first song I heard was the song "Dear Mr. Jesus" about a little girl that was being abused. I knew it was Gods way of telling me to be vigilant, and make sure not to repeat the abuse of my parents.
from wifemotherme :
((((((((Treewillow))))))))) I hope you feel better. Maybe you can write it all out and gain a clearer perspective, even if you dont post it. Some times it helps to just purge on paper.
from jump154 :
Hugs hon...
from prncsaimee :
Hey - hope you are okay :( If you need to talk, let me know
from wifemotherme :
Love the new lay out! Its beautiful! I am enjoying your writing immensely! I know your going to make me laugh or cry or something every time I log into read you. I look forward to reading more.
from angelmum :
My Evil Twin I too had tears in my eyes and I must admit anger when I read your last entry. I truly believe you are better of without B and K and the ex friend. You and Seth will be ok. Thank you for being there. You are a great friend and I am glad I met you. Maybe someday we will actually get to meet in person. HUGSSSS dear friend
from maiarayne :
You have had such a hard life and are so deserving of some happiness in your life. K sounds like a loser from the beginning. It is aamzing what we will put up with when we love someone or are financially dependant on them. I wish you the best of luck with your little boy and that all the happiness you can stand lurks right around the corner!
from jump154 :
Love the Layout! The butterfly suits you....
from wifemotherme :
I read your entry today and wanted to cry. God bless your heart! I was going to email you but since you dont have an email address I will type out the long ass thing I wanna tell you in my diary some time today or tommrow. And I hope you get what I am saying when you read it.
from prncsaimee :
If you want me to do a layout for you, let me know - you know I love that stuff ;)
from prncsaimee :
I'll tell you, I'm not a big fan of the "long lost friend coming back to you when their life when they need you" people. You're SO allowed to be irked with that one! ((I read all the same authors as you - VC Andrews has some good smut in her's too ;))

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