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from annanotbob2 :
21/1/21 Just sending you a hug and a shoulder to lean on, cos fuck all that shit. You're a star for all you do and try to do. Hugs
from catsoul :
9.9.2020. I probably wouldn't mention that "hand grenade" thing to your neighbor lady. Actions speak the truth more than words, anyway to me. So just watch. OK then. Take care. Be safe. Peace. =^..^=
from catsoul :
7.31.2020. Hi there. Sounds great to read that your post surgery recovery is going so, so well. I walk a lot and bike as my exercise besides all the outdoor tasks. I don't push myself in doing super exercise. I do what I can. I like your attitude and thoughts about that. Just so glad to read you are feeling better and able to eat without severe pain. I get gutrut all the time. I have called that pain gutrut for years. Be safe. Take Care. Peace. =^..^=
from annanotbob2 :
Hope all is well. Been thinking of you x
from catsoul :
6.30.2020. Sounds like all around great news. I will be thinking about you on July 2nd. Be kind to yourself and let things go and you are thinking have to get done. Ask for help and accept it. Peace. =^..^=
from annanotbob2 :
I'm glad you chose to have the surgery. Hope it goes ahead and that you're negative for the virus. Take care x
from catsoul :
6.16.2020. hi. My husband Randy is a nurse. He was a medic in the army for 7 years and continued on to become a nurse. He ended up in the hospital for two weeks with pancreatitis for on heavy meds before getting his gall bladder removed. He told me this about you having a headache all the time. If your duct is blocked in your gall bladder the bile there backs up into your blood stream and this then builds up on your brain giving terribly painful headaches 24 hours a day. Do with this info as you wish. You are worried about the length of recovery time, well this would add at least a couple more weeks to recover. Take Care. Stay Safe. Peace. =^..^=
from blujeans-uk :
I never did say thank you for the note you left. Thank you. And also for adding me to your list. I hope your gallbladder does not cause you too much trouble. xB
from annanotbob2 :
17/5/20 Hugs. You're doing good - this is shit. xx
from catsoul :
5.5.2020. Hi. I started with one book shelf. I picked out 10 books I felt I could give away, or give to our local library, or have my husband drop them off at Goodwill. After a few weeks, I doubled that number to 20 books every other day. Then a few weeks later, I thought I will try 50 books a week to cull. I kept doing that until I hit the 500 book mark. I also wrote down in my notebook every book I discarded and the author. This is what worked for me. I also when cleaning in the house choose a section to clean. Peace. =^..^=
from annanotbob2 :
What you said about food and the fridge and the cupboards, yep, me too x
from catsoul :
4.24.2020. I so feel the decluttering saga. One Winter a number of years ago, I culled over 500 books from my library here. I am always decluttering something or other. I found just doing a small section of the house at a time helped me out. Now anxiety verses fear. That is a good question. I am going to ponder that for a bit. Be a peace within yourself. Peace. =^..^=
from jimbostaxi :
I have swelling in my left leg and keep meaning to buy them when I'm in the drug store but never do. Lol
from annanotbob2 :
Ha - I went the other way - I started completely open, real names and places, never thought anyone would find it or read it - it was never all the rage here. But my son now works for the Civil Service and doesn't need his shit broadcast all over the internet so I closed that one down and became more discreet. That two shift rotation sounds the best plan. Hope it works out x
from annanotbob2 :
I like your ship on a stormy sea metaphor - there's a great piece that goes round every now and then about grief being like that - they both work well, don't they. Also glad you put that in about your bra - I found I did want to know whether you were male or female - I tried not to because what does it matter, but somehow it did and I'm glad to know. I may never wear a bra again. Stay safe x
from jimbostaxi :
Hi, I'm a new reader and enjoy your diary. Stay safe!
from annanotbob2 :
I just added you - I'm glad you write loads too x
from annanotbob2 :
Thanks - it's all good - your note was grand. You take care out there
from annanotbob2 :
Thank you very much for that note and all the info. I'm knackered and brain dead but I'm going to get back on it tomorrow. x
from whystinger :
I will email a key this weekend as I am out of town and don't want to open that email from my work computer. As for Jen's book, read it and you can discuss it with your Dad and brothers, saying it is geared toward women, but know a few guys who have read it and used some of the information. Then explain the source energy thing... I need to get my copy out, read the chapter my sister wanted me to read and discuss. I have recommended it to a few women and I will soon recommend it to a guy I know, well maybe to him and his wife.
from whystinger :
I have mixed feelings about the kids playing CaH, but there could be reasons, but in general... nope. Hey, you read some Jen Sincero and her Badass book. It is a good read, definite unique style of writing. I have the book and read most of it, time for me to finish it. My sister wants me to read a certain chapter and discuss it. I like that you figured out the vortex/source energy thing. Many do not get that and put the book down, thinking she is a crank. She has too many valid points and I know some women who have used her methods and they have worked particularly well. I do think the book is intended for women, but as a guy, I really liked it and found it relevant too.
from whystinger :
Cards against humanity? Yes, definitely a game for kids... NOT!
from dangerspouse :
Congrats on getting the job, but...holy crap. I sure hope things start getting better for you financially now. One pair of pants, two if you wear the see-through crotch version? Food insecurity? That's gotta change. You shouldn't have to live like that. I really, really hope things get better for you soon. I'll be following your updates here (and thanks for adding me to YOUR list!). Best of luck to you....
from elusive-you :
liberating, indeed - that's a good way of thinking of it.
from secret-motel :
Hi! I'm still around. Lurking, I guess. Took a long break from posting, but I return often to read others. I'll post again, soon, I think. And hopefully post more often. Many hugs to you. We've both been here a long while!
from chakra-nadi :
I too used to be on dland a long time ago. Went through many screen names, deleted journals over and over. This place isn't what it used to be, be then, what is? "You can never go home again..."
from secret-motel :
A great big wave from way out here.
from secret-motel :
And a big bright happy fustercluck to YOU. The fusters are indeed clucking. They keep the sky awake. They make the earth retract the grass. And the trees bark louder than the dogs. Many hugs to youuuu.
from atwowaydream :
"Not sure what I would have done without the internet.. not sure I really want to know." - beautiful words, indeed.
from secret-motel :
It's never too late to wish someone a Happy Fustercluck. And, since every day on this planet is a giant fustercluck, it's always good to hope that it will at least be a happy one. So...a big Happy Fustercluck to YOU!
from lostasyou :
Cool! You're here :) you're on my buddy list haha, and thank god for no passwords, my memory can't handle it haha. I'm on Tumblr too, what an addictive little website..
from secret-motel :
Yes, come around and stay around. Present and future.
from lostasyou :
Hey you, just see you pop up on the users online box.. it's "omfggwtf" here with a different account ;) ahaha. I moved! I was wondering if I could have your password again since I have forgotten :( x
from atwowaydream :
"Peace, love and a smack in the brain." --awesome.
from atwowaydream :
I guess we were both very curious and morbid children. I saw Schindler's List by myself in the theater when I was like, twelve. Then I had this huge crush on Liam Neeson, and possibly Ralph Fiennes. ::sigh:: to be young and morbid. At least we're interesting.
from atwowaydream :
Accents do add a little special something. There is this you-must-keep-talking-don't-stop thingy to it.
from atwowaydream :
exactly! the best people are those who have something to say.
from omfggwtf :
I quite like it haha. Once I grew immune to all the clothing details, I can't stop reading ahah. I think it's my morbid curiosity about all the gruesome things i'm expecting ;) yes, I am warped hah..
from stepfordtart :
the only bit you screwed up is the spelling of 'if'! Heehee. That guy looks gay (and hiding it) to me. I spend too much time surfing Grindr.com with my gay ex-secretary, I think. There's loads of guys who look like that on there! s x
from atwowaydream :
"In other news, Im totally attracted to boys that would use me like dough and cut me into little tiny star shaped pieces" - If only Dahmer liked girls. ::wistful sigh::
from amazinfuckup :
Dude thank you so much for your comment. I felt like I was crazy for being the only one who thought I had a right to be upset. Thank you :)
from atwowaydream :
"It's like tuning a radio dial, once in a while a station comes through clear but its only for a short while and then I gotta figure out who the fuck was talking and where they belong..." --definitely understand how you feel. perhaps you have a writer heart?
from omfggwtf :
it's sooo stupid. my whole life was a lie!! stupid people.
from secret-motel :
And a Happy New Year to YOU! Ah, we both made it through another fustercluck. May 2011 be a glorious year for you!
from omfggwtf :
sending a few notes out 'cos i'm bored and waiting to go out! i hope you have a brilliant 2011 ;)! xo
from stepfordtart :
HAHAHA! I hear you on every single one of those points! My thoughts on outdoor lights Ive already documented but Im totally with you on the other things too. Im thinking of getting a billboard made next year with "Its ONE FUCKING DAY! Get over yourselves." on it and putting it somewhere prominent. Wanna stand underneath it drinking whisky outta the bottle with me? s x
from atwowaydream :
aw, honey, I don't have kids, my I consider my baby sister practically mine. . . and it is one of the hardest jobs in the world, mainly because you want to do what's right or what wasn't done for you. So, trial and error has been the way for years and years, and as long as they're smiling and no one's hurt at the end of the day, maybe you're doing something right.
from stepfordtart :
isnt it funny how he thinks the money is for YOU - what, the kids live on fresh air do they? s x
from atwowaydream :
I would like to reciprocate reading you, but you are locked. Skeleton key for me?
from secret-motel :
A happiest fustercluck to you. I've been taking a break from dl. I'll resume posting sooner than later, I think.
from stepfordtart :
Cold/flu + Random screaming? Ear infection? Jooj used to get em all the time - I just thought she was a fucking horrible screamy baby til I found out about ear infections! Haha Im a splendid mother, me. Hoping the day has gotten better and no murders were necessary. s x
from stepfordtart :
My kids were pretty pleased when I found "a daddy to live with us", too. May you find one as soon as it pleases you to do so. s x
from stepfordtart :
If you can get one of these: http://www.amazon.co.uk/Nitty-Gritty-Nit-Comb-1/dp/B001PML6Y6/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1290863315&sr=8-1 where you live, I would deffo recommend it. MUCH better than other nit combs Ive tried - Treacle has waist length hair so you can imagine the hours of fun we have in our house when SHE gets them! And could you maybe try talking to your neighbour? Maybe they dont realise their light shines in your house. Those things are usually adjustable, they might just need to angle it down a bit so it lights up more of their yard and less of your bedroom! s x
from stepfordtart :
Meh. Head lice. Double Meh. I have documented my family's ongoing battle with the little bastards on TOO MANY occasions. Sympathies. s x PS I like the sound of the fort, tho!
from stepfordtart :
Awwww. Feel better soon, dear! s x
from i-am-jack :
Thank you. It always feels good to be both missed and welcomed back.
from stepfordtart :
Ovaries/singleparent/xmas etc stuff all sounds shit (done all that myself and it is, indeed, craptacular) but new car sounds SQUEEEEEEEE!!! Here's to not tooooo much penny pinching to make ends meet, dear. s x
from omfggwtf :
haha :) thank yoooooou. i use google chrome so it just saves it for me anyway hmmm. but i think i'm safe, i doubt it'll be randomly opening up on it's own haha.. if it does then i'll be writing angry emails!
from omfggwtf :
i know, it's really good isn't it :) i got shown it a few months ago and i was like :| this is the best thing i've ever seen. it's incredibly relaxing aha.
from stepfordtart :
*looks around furtively* Sssssshhh! I wont tell a soul! s x
from athenyx :
Thank you for adding me :-) Are you giving away the magic password to your secret thoughts? If so, i would very much like it please x
from stepfordtart :
While you're out at the library, dont forget to pick up some wetwipes - they'll come in handy for wiping the shit from the fan when those papers get served! s x
from stepfordtart :
Haha! I read the hair-dye entry a bit quick and thought that you'd dyed Dorian's hair the same as yours, while he slept. DUH. I am an idiot. s x PS You didnt.....did you?
from stepfordtart :
Hey! Thanks for the PW. Havent caught up with your archives yet but Im still pretty sure that Linda needs a slap. Want me to come over there and administer one? s x
from secret-motel :
Thank you! longitude designed it for me. I am very happy with it.
from stepfordtart :
Hey! Thanks for adding me. If you're giving out passwords I shall come and have a rootle around at your place if you like! s x
from angrydyke :
i might try this again ...?
from omfggwtf :
thank you for adding me aha, xo.
from ghostofgor :
I always remember old friends. Im glad you are ok. As time passes I always used to wonder what happened to people, as Ive lost friends to illness and other tragic events. <3
from secret-motel :
Thank you for the notes! When are you going to let me read your diary???
from secret-motel :
It's YOU! Happy Fustercluck to you, too! Are you giving out skeleton keys to your diary?
from secret-motel :
Yeah, losing someone like that is a crap way to start the week.

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