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from englishsucks :
it would have been nice to hear from you again :)
from englishsucks :
where did u move to?:(
from anthronut :
Daycare sucks for all kids, but having been a daycare child, I really wouldn't have had it any other way. It builds character...you cry less when you get older :). Don't stress about it! And good luck with the car and your job!!! Be well!
from lindzeeleigh :
I hope things get better for you! It will all work out, one way or another. These things just sometimes take time! [Unfortunately!]
from cecis-mama :
don't even let it get to you...easier said than done. i promise it'll get better...you're beter off anyways. i mean, really, adrian has only seen cecilia once in the last year & a half. he sometimes pays his child support, but really...$80 here and there is nothing. someday someone will love both of you more than he obviously does. he's really just throwong a temper tantrum because he's not getting his way; maybe it'll get better someday when he grows up. keep your head up homegirl...
from anthronut :
Sprinklers were probably one of my favorite things growing up!!! :) How fun!!! And don't feel guilty about telling him stories about his little girl. He's responsible for his own choices and actions. You're doing what you know is best for your baby!!!
from lindzeeleigh :
Cute picture!! :)
from lonelylatina :
wow, i can't believe how big she is! i remember when you were pregnant and how you couldn't wait to meet her :-D
from lindzeeleigh :
I hope you are feeling better soon!!
from anthronut :
I did see you on myspace, thanks for your compliments of the photos :). And don't worry too much about catching up...I fill you in. Walter graduated. We got married. I got really sick on the honeymoon. We moved. I have two dogs living with me. And for real...that's like, all of it! Haha...not so exciting. Glad you're back!!! And your little girl is SO FREAKING CUTE I CAN HARDLY STAND IT! I cannot believe she's 17 months already...where did that 17 months go!?!??! I remember you being nervous about giving birth!
from anthronut :
That sounds so awful! I hope you feel better!!!
from cera-jeanne :
hope you feel better soon!
from cecis-mama :
take her to the movies. just sit in the back &take plenty of toys/milk/whatever. It's free for babies since you hold them. I promise it's not that bad. babies really aren't that bothered by the noise. You have to remember that the womb was really loud. Get out. Go to a noisy pizza place. do something. pack a picnic &go to the park if $ is a problem (&it always is.) Get out. You'll feel alot better.
from emaciana :
that's kinda funny having to lie to your mom about going dancing. LOL... but i'm glad you got to go!
from lindzeeleigh :
I am glad to hear that everything is going so well for you, even though you have been so busy! I hope you continue to enjoy your baby girl and your summer.
from alwaysange :
Awww, what a sweet picture of your babygirl with her Tia Vero. :)
from cera-jeanne :
Yay! Congrats! :)
from alwaysange :
I'm glad that went so well for you...I know you'll be loving going to work in a brand new store. Of course you'll miss your baby girl but you get to look forward to coming home to her every day. Sounds quite perfect! Congratulations!
from emaciana :
i hope you get the job too! It will be hard leaving your little darling, but it sounds like you want to work, and getting out of the house for a while is good. refreshing!
from bluesymphony :
Brianna Is absolutely beautiful. Love the pic!
from alwaysange :
What a doll Brianna is! You must be quite a proud mama. I hope you get the job, or not...I just want you to be happy!
from cera-jeanne :
she's gorgeous. :)
from lindzeeleigh :
I am glad to hear that you had such a nice first Mother's Day. You deserve it. :)
from lindzeeleigh :
I love the pictures! So cute. How are things with you and your husband?
from anthronut :
Oh honey, that's sad. But you need to do what's best for you. Maybe you'll scare Alex into treating you like you deserve.
from violentskies :
About your 101: It made me laugh and I just HAVE to say, I didn't make u smoke a cig. And its not like ur adicted. :) You make me sound so rebelious. And grass is nice eh? No, i'm kidding. Love u -vero
from liquid-mojo :
You likely went to youtube.com, the ultimate online time waster. =p
from emaciana :
well, at least if you're breastfeeding, the antibodies will get passed on to her! i hope you feel better soon
from lindzeeleigh :
I teach grade 7 language arts and Social studies. They are an interesting bunch!!
from lindzeeleigh :
What an awful, sad story. That is horrible. :(
from lindzeeleigh :
Glad to hear the apartment is turning okay, minus a few gltiches. I hope it will feel like home in no time!
from anthronut :
No dishwasher!!!???11! Zomg! That means you actually have to do dishes. :P Congratulations though!
from starlight42 :
congrats on teh new apartment!!
from lindzeeleigh :
That is awesome about the new apartment, I bet you will really enjoy it there. You will have to make frequent trips to your parents' place to use their internet!
from cera-jeanne :
Yay! Congrats on your own place! :)
from starlight42 :
ouch, DJ just had his 6mo shots. you know, they're troopers though! i know what you mean about the little moments that count, i try to cherish those and appreciate them because i know it will all go too quick!!
from lindzeeleigh :
I am so glad to hear that everything is going well and is falling into place for you. Take care. :)
from emaciana :
aww.... glad her shots are over though!!! she sounds like a cutie
from anthronut :
Thank you very much :)
from bluesymphony :
Thank you! Your baby is quite a hunny as well.. Take care of yourself and your bundle of joy.
from starlight42 :
love the baby pics, she's gorgeous!! DJ had teh boy version of the pooh outfit she was wearing :)
from theflyingrat :
All the photos in there are taken by me and I'm in all of them. :) To qualify for the project, they have to be self-portraits. I either take it myself or I set the timer. ♥
from la-sad-eyez :
just walk into planned parenthood &say that you need Plan B.
from anthronut :
Cute cute cute! Babies are so fun. How are you holding up? You seem in good spirits...so that's good :).
from lindzeeleigh :
Ahhh, she is super cute! Thanks for sharing the pictures. :)
from cera-jeanne :
She is absolutely beautiful! :)
from rite153 :
Aww! La beba looks just like you! how key-oot!!!
from lindzeeleigh :
So glad that all is going well for you and your baby. :) I hope your hubby will come around and realize that he needs to help you more! Silly men.
from cecis-mama :
Let me explain something about men to you: they have no freaking clue what they're doing. In fact, they're petrified by babies. I guarentee as she gets bigger &does stuff other than just lay there &look cute [smile, laugh, play, grab things], he'll be more involved. Most guys are so scared of breaking the baby that they don't want to do anything to screw them up. also, don't feel bad about having to feed brianna formula; i know it sucks, but breastfeeding is HARD!! it us natural, but it doesn't come naturally. be proud that you feed your child. i know someone trying to adopt her 8 mo. old nephew because it's mother NEVER feeds hom or picks him up or plays with him. You're a good mom &she sounds nice &healthy.
from cera-jeanne :
I'm glad all is well with Brianna. And I hope Alex starts to help you out. Maybe he doesn't know what to do? Some guys feel intimidated by babies because they are so small and fragile...but he definitely should be helping you out! Good luck, hon. :)
from rite153 :
your beba's quite the charmer! esta rrre-chula la condenada! ajua! haha... just thought I'd go all norteña on you real quick. but in all seriousness, she's absolutely precious!
from anthronut :
You need to tell that boy to get to it and help you!!! Of course he should be doing more and no you are not in anyway out of line to think so. You wake his sorry butt up during the night to go tend to her...And not that I in anyway mean to sound insensitive about this, but you aren't breast feeding, so he has no excuse. And if it makes you feel any better, I've been listening to a huge debate lately about breast feeing vs. the bottle and it's crap...As long as you take care of your baby, no matter what she'll be fine :). You're a good mommy. It's just in you to be that way. You're fantastic! You're baby is super cute.
from alwaysange :
Congratulations on being a mom now. I can understand why you are so busy. How exciting it must be to spend time with your little girl now after carrying her for 9 months. I bet you and your family are loving every moment.
from lindzeeleigh :
I am glad to hear that things are going so well for you. :) I hope everything continues on that way!
from cecis-mama :
congrats! she's so pretty! Cecilia weighed 7 lbs. 4 oz. too! Wishing you as much sleep as you can possibly have!
from cera-jeanne :
oh congrats! She's beautiful!! :)
from lonelylatina :
that must be an awesome feeling to finally have her in your arms. congratulations on your beautiful baby girl!
from alwaysmuted :
Congratulations,sweetie!
from anthronut :
Aw! She's beautiful. I'm sure she takes after her mommy :) Congratulations Pretty Lady. I'm happy for you.
from lindzeeleigh :
Congratulations on your beautiful new baby girl. :)
from simeons-twin :
Congratulations!!! She's adorable.
from tofalldivine :
She is a cutie! Congrats!
from emaciana :
i hope you update soon!!! i want to hear all about the birth story!
from lunatikz :
I guess your baby has born.. so.. hehe let me congratulate you!!! Im scared as hell ´coz in one month I´ll be in ur shoes... :) hugz!!
from anthronut :
Man, where is that baby?!?!? It better be scream'n and keep'n you up by now yo!!! :) I hope you and your little one are doing well.
from la-sad-eyez :
lord, i hope you've had that baby by now.
from emaciana :
good luck!!! I hope you don't have to be induced and that everything goes smoothly.
from lindzeeleigh :
I am sure that you will be having your beautiful baby soon!! :)
from la-sad-eyez :
btw...the thing about your pelvis being too small...just remember that during labor your body releases horomones to open your pelvis up to help the baby come out. she's just stubborn.
from la-sad-eyez :
yakima, wa
from cera-jeanne :
Good luck!!! :)
from anthronut :
I'll keep you in my prayers deary! Things will be fine. :)
from fan4 :
Thanks for adding my diary to your favorites list.
from dramy-queen :
Congrats on the wedding : )
from anthronut :
Aww! No baby yet...Are you just like, ready to die? :) Just kidding. Being pregnant longer than normal must suck. BUT! On the bright side, at least she's not too early. You'll give birth to a healthy baby!!! I'm so excited for you!
from cera-jeanne :
good luck! the baby will come when she is ready...:)
from emaciana :
aww... you must be so impatiently waiting! soon enough, she'll be here
from alwaysange :
Happy New Year, Lety! I hope your baby comes out to meet us all soon and here's hoping for an easy labor and delivery. I send you best of luck!
from la-sad-eyez :
feliz navidad. :)
from emaciana :
I always get a little paranoid/jealous about other girls that stew is in touch with, especially now that i'm pregnant and feel so huge and unattractive. take care hon
from cecis-mama :
i know exactly how it feels...i've been there last chirstmas &this one too. i can't afford anything. btw...i'd wait on the crib set. in all honesty, the most unused baby item i have is the crib. we're desperate-in-need-of-sleep -co-sleepers.she slept in her crib for the 1st time last night &my kid is 6 mo. old.
from cecis-mama :
i remember that feeling.
from emaciana :
2 weeks and a bit! wow!!! i know you'll manage to get it all done in time. it will all work out - everything always does.
from cera-jeanne :
awww, I'm glad your friends threw you a party. Usually people send thank you cards to the people who gave gifts at a shower and one to the person who hosted the shower, too. :)
from alwaysmuted :
I did the little wedding the courthouse.I loved it,just the two of us.Most romantic thing ever.Except we had rib sandwiches..haha. Doesn't matter if you spend 40 dollars or 4,000,000 on your wedding.What counts is the two people who make the commitment to be there for each other. Congratulations on your baby shower, and your marriage. It will be hard,but well worth it. *HUGS*
from simeons-twin :
Congratulations on your little wedding :)
from challenge-me :
could you please take me off of your favorites list? i'm trying to erase myself from the internet. could you also please delete this note from your notes page? thanks!
from emaciana :
ooh, you guys have snow too! we have too much here. slipping and sliding in the parking lots. ugh
from wishful-me :
thanks. =] i hope you've been having a great week so far.
from flicka :
My shortened name is feli from felicia
from emaciana :
i enjoyed reading about the things you're thankful for. i love happy entries. have a great thksgiv wkend
from emaciana :
"No one can love you if you don't love yourself first". i have heard this before but i'm not sure if i believe it or not. anyways, hope you're doing well!
from flicka :
Hey, thanks for reading :) I've been out working too much to write lately. I'll catch up and read you soon. Cheers!
from emaciana :
at least you've bought stuff... i still have no baby clothes yet, i'm feeling a little behind.
from liquid-mojo :
Michelle Rodriguez always had that tough tomgirl thing going with all her characters. Although she is cute, she always came off tougher than cuter. As such, if she did come out as lesbian or bi I wouldn't be totally surprised.
from cera-jeanne :
Happy Birthday to you! :)
from emaciana :
thanks, i did design it myself. i love changing my templates and creating new designs when i find a picture that inspires me. take care!
from emaciana :
you're still young! my mom didn't have me till she was 30 and my sis at 35. you've got lots of time!!!
from donut-one :
Aww. She's beautiful. Congratulations! I realized you added me to your favorites! Thank you dearly for that. I'm looking forward to getting a chance to read through your diary. You sound like such a strong woman though :). Hats off to you lady!
from liquid-mojo :
thanks for the compliment and for the add to your faves. oh and congratulations on being an expecting mother. :)
from skandrews :
Feel free to contact me anytime about the LapBand. I would also suggest you join some of the yahoo boards - Bandster or Smart Bandsters are both great boards. I am really excited to see how this all pans out. I'm sure it works, since I know that when properly adjusted, the band allows very little food in at a time. Good luck with your baby :°) Sharon
from dramy-queen :
ooh! what do u do?? If it's telemarketing, or a sherpa... u definately beat me...
from emaciana :
i love that... on ebay... i would totally bid on it. it might seem like a lot of money, but it's a lot of clothing too! i hope you get it!
from starlight42 :
I need to watch LOST on abc.com...baby was fussing during the episode so I missed it!! Just wanted to say congrats to you on your pregnancy. Enjoy the free-time while you can, LOL. That's cute your parents are so excited...
from rite153 :
Well, hello there Lety. Just noted you added my sad diary. I promise I'll try to make it a bit more upbeat. P.S. your writing style I totally dig. hehe.
from hellocity :
Thanks!The link to it is http://www.francey.org/linkware/152/sakura
from dramy-queen :
hello.. what's funny?? go babies!! they're cute.
from lunatikz :
HI LEt!! thnks for the add! and congratz for the baby!! :) Miau..
from cera-jeanne :
yay for your good news! :)
from nagvioli :
thanks for the note! and congrats on the new baby coming soon!
from emaciana :
i can totally relate to this entry of yours. 1) about noticing more moms and babies. i do that all the time! i see what kind of strollers they have, the interactions, etc. 2) i would be upset too if my guy went and spent all day at some other girl's bday and did all that for free. i would feel left out and uncared for. i'm so sorry your day went badly...
from emaciana :
only 9 lbs? wow, and i thought that I was barely gaining weight. you should post pictures soon, i love pregnant belly pictures.
from emaciana :
you're so lucky that you're having a girl. send some pink dust my way please!!! Brianna is a beautiful name.
from kitdiane :
Hi, I was just wondering how you found my diary because I don't think we've ever met...
from bitterwineuk :
What a lovely name. :)
from alwaysange :
I am reading The Memory Keeper's Daughter by Kim Edwards. It's really good so far. I also really liked Snow Flower and The Secret Fan by Lisa See and if you like funny light stuff, try Janet Evanovich's Stephanie Plum series (it starts with One for the Money). Good for you! Enjoy your reads!
from alwaysange :
Congratulations on your big news! And I think the name you selected for your baby is very pretty. :) Happiness always!
from alostfriend :
Here is how I set it up (for music in the background on my page) .. you'll just have to replace the url with the music of your choice .. a great source for music is singingfish.com .. <EMBED SRC="http://great-song-stylists-uk.com/Gene%20Kelly/YouWereMeantForMe.mp3" HIDDEN="true" AUTOSTART="true" LOOP="false">
from alwaysange :
I love that video too! Ewan=hot.
from like-giants :
thanks for the note! and congrats on the baby!
from lonelylatina :
Felicidades! una nina how precious <3 take care of yourself girl. make sure you get a lot of rest cuz your body is working for two <3
from simeons-twin :
Congratulations on your baby girl!!! :)
from alwaysange :
Congratulations on having a girl! I'm so happy for you!
from bitterwineuk :
oh wow. I am so excited for you. Love reading spanish in your diary too. I did start to self teach myself a few years ago and wish I'd continued it.
from cera-jeanne :
How exciting you get to find out if you're having a boy or girl! I saw you added me to your favorites so I came by to say hello and find out about you. :)
from bitterwineuk :
ps, in your title does "hoy" actually translate as day/today. Hoy was my maiden name before I got married and never really found out what it meant properly, nice to see it used in real writing. :)
from bitterwineuk :
good luck with the scan. Any gut instinct to boy or girl? I'd guess boy for ya. I didnt have a sexing scan and convinced I was having a girl until HE arrived. hahaha.
from bitterwineuk :
I used to have this design ages ago and I nicked your survey for my entry this morning. Hahaha. Just blatantly copied. Sorry, hope you don't mind. Just read your profile and if you have your baby 10 days late, your little one will have the same birthday as my Matthew. He was due Jan 20th but arrived 11th. I loved the thought of having a new year baby but he wasn't that early. :)
from twinhope :
your new design is beautiful!
from emaciana :
hey you, congrats on YOUR pregnancy too!!! it's so exciting! I will definitely keep in touch, since we're both due around the same time.
from marinka-mp :
Hey Sweets! Sorry it has taken me so long to get back to you. Laziness factor had kicked in at full force. I wanted to take few seconds and shine a little bit of light into your ponderings: Here it goes: You said “Its just I am afraid of failing as a single mother. I don't want to think about the 'what ifs' down the road.” The only thing I can say is that, regardless if you do this as a single mother or a woman with a “man” on her side, you are always going to think of the possible what ifs. That being said, you are absolutely right a child needs a father. A father to learn from, to fear, respect, idolize and love. I don’t care who says what, having both parents present at the same time plays a crucial role in a child’s development. My daughter asks for her father often. I have no answer to give her. I can always get back with him and live a NUMB life. But I don’t want to. In the long run, the decision is yours. But remember one thing (and this is what I learned from my own experience) regardless of how much he loves you (or says that he does) he is never going to love you as much as your family does. It is really not that hard to be a single mom. You become more determined, and stronger than you think you could ever be. It’s a matter of you deciding whether you need a man to raise a child or do it alone and allow him to watch from a distance. Let me know if I can help.
from starlight42 :
Congrats on hitting 20 weeks!!
from startafresh :
by the way, my main diary is bitterwineuk.diaryland.com and that goes through all my pregnancy up to now. Feel free to browse. Becca
from startafresh :
oh hello there. Thanks for adding me to your fave diaries. Always good. Congrats on baby. I loved being pregnant, best time of my life if I am honest and would happily have another 10 or so if I could get a big enough house. Just off to read some older entries. Have a good week,:) Becca
from twinhope :
Ooh, i was just reading some of your previous entries. Something I learned in my pregnancy, AVOID any shows about births and any trauma or ER style shows. If a woman loses a baby or has some sort of complication it can leave you bawling and stressing out when you need to avoid stress. I avoided the news even. I was way too emotional and had eough of my own panic attacks without worsening it. Just my two cents! Hope ya dont mind.
from twinhope :
Thanks for tuning into my blog. Congrats on your pregnancy! I look forward to reading more about it. It's an emotional roller coaster but it's all worth it in the end. I too loved seafood when I was pregnant. Heck, I loved most food. If it was food, it was mine...lol!
from after- :
Congratulations and hello to you to!
from marinka-mp :
I dont know much about you. And i dont know much about your past with Alex. But as a mother i can tell you few things. The hardest thing in the world to do is raise a child all by yourself. But that in turn is much easier than raising a child in a relationship that you know will fail. In the long run you want to teach your child how to be strong and not depend on others to accomplish anything. That being said, stay with Alex if you know this is the best for your child. But if you know this is not the best, time to move on. Its gonna be a hard road. But better do it right the first time around and do it with tears, than do it wrong and damage your child. Ask and i will tell you my story. Because that is what i am doing. I hate being a single mom. But i would rather be that than not love the man who plays the role of the father
from gofigure :
I really enjoyed today's entry about your checkup. What an exciting time in your life. :) I'm happy for you!
from take-two :
8/15/06 - Thanks for adding me, hope you don't mind that I'll be looking in on you as well!
from bluesymphony :
Hi there! I am glad you like reading about me and my little girl. I have two boys one is grown and married and one is 17. Having a girl is completely new for me! I do not envy you being four months pregnant, nor do I envy your confusion in love. It was from four months on that I was miserable. I wish you and your baby the best. And I hope you get things work out with your love, whichever it might be. I have been there with that as well.. good luck.
from babigurlx3 :
what i t do gurl juss dropin by yur diary... real intresting u kno... yeh...
from marinka-mp :
Hi. I just wantd to stop by and thank you for adding me to your diary. I have read few of your entries. I must say, you have my undivided attention. Have fun reading me. By the way, congrats on the baby
from lonelylatina :
7/30/06 - omg...no way...congratulations my friend! let me know when and where you register for baby stuff. keep in touch. <3
from alwaysmuted :
What is your e-mail?? I can send you the password there? Lemme know.Adios:)
from alwaysmuted :
I didn't know you were pregnant?! Congratulations,sweetie!!! Do you know what you are having?

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