messages to asitwere:
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from nesotte :
I'm so happy I found your diary again. It was my foremost guilty pleasure for years, before living in New York and Paris...what motivation you were for me when I was young. Could you please email me your password at starma3@gmail.com?
from bettierubble :
I used to LOVE reading your blog. Then you locked it up! How 'bout a password? bettierubble1 at america online...
from neangel :
are you going to turn your notes on or put a haloscan comments thing in? congrats on the new start and if you need help with a template just wait until i get my computer fixed and my lito bro is going to set it up so i have my programs again... wooo hoo!
from neangel :
a move in career and diaries? wow! you go boy, of course *sings*i will follow you, follow you wherever you may go*/singings*
from sexyatheist :
no. YOU rock the party that rocks the party. for sure
from liviasgarden :
Hi again. I managed to reset my browser and lost every password. If you wouldn't mind sending it again, I'd be much obliged. (catnips at gmail dot com) Thanks :)
from sea-change- :
1. you can tell your friends anything that you WOULD know about roommate if you weren't living with her, if you should judge it acceptable within the confines of your friendship with her/your male friend. i.e., it appears to be no secret that she sleeps around. You could probably point that out if you wanted. 2. The elevator lady - a low, low blow. True or not, insulting a woman because of her size is pretty much defacto like rubbing salt in an open wound. Even girls who have nothing to worry about would probably feel awful for the rest of the day after hearing you say that (i.e., I sure as hell would) - if she actually has a weight problem, it'll just be worse.
from ohclaudine :
Hey I was at P.S. 1 too! Good times. Did you see the Greater New York show ?
from sea-change- :
Hmm. Whether she slept with him or not, what she did was EXCEEDINGLY rude. I mean - I would feel like an ass if I brought a friend, and not even a good one, to a bar and then left with somebody else. That's not the way you treat people you care about. Second of all, she may deny sleeping with him and she may be telling the truth; but did she simultaneously deny having hooked up with him? If she's skirting the territory between "innocent" and "sex" it's probably because she's been up to no good. Post the letter if you think you can; I'd be interested in hearing exactly how she phrased her defense.
from sea-change- :
yeah, I'm with you on this one. That's pretty unconscionable, no matter how you slice it.
from sea-change- :
I will be in boston on the 13 of August. I don't know when that is.
from sea-change- :
I think there are a few answers to your question. One is that you live in New York City and so you have a heightened awareness of the Holocaust specifically because you live in a place with a sufficiently high population of Jews to keep the issue in the air; there are still plenty of people - more than half, I think - who don't even know what the Holocaust is in this country (I heard that on NPR after prince Harry put on that Nazi costume)...Second of all, the Holocaust is comparatively tidy. We know who the baddies are, we know who the victims are, the whole thing took place over a very limited period of time in a distinct geographical area...something like Bosnia/Serbia/Kosovo is just more complex. Third of all, the Holocaust continues to cast a particularly long shadow over the educated/literati because all of the mental tools that we value most made up the equipment of slaughter; organization, precision, scientific inquiry, detachment. Those are the specters of evil that frighten us because they are the ones we are most likely to sympathize with. The roots of the Holocaust are very much in romanticism and in the Enlightenment, and we still live with those worldviews. Third of all, and perhaps most important: America comes out looking good most of the time vis a vis our participation in WWII. We get to be the good guys, the saviors, the vanquishers of evil when Europe was on its knees. Think about what the US has done in any of the other conflicts you mentioned and I think that it's pretty obvious that there would be no nationalistic reason to emphasize our role in them.
from sexyatheist :
i must say, i like how evil you are. and maybe that's why he stays with me because he has figured out hot + kinda boring is still better than not as hot + cool. but it's still a nice thing to hear from you, a man i so adore and admire. thank you
from plaidskies :
Yep. This is why my ex husband moved to Australia this past weekend. He has had it with Bush and all the crap.
from viperj :
Hey, I dont know if this what you check more often and what not, but I have a question for ya. I'm planning a trip to NYC with my girlfriend, and we just noticed that a lot of hotels are quite expensive, we're going for a few days in August. Anyway, just wondering, do you know of any "reasonably priced" hotels in NYC, or is it much better to get a hotel in a subard and what not? Anyway, thanks, and hope your buddy is alright! -james
from sea-change- :
What's wrong with having sex with a convict? Most people who go to prison go for petty crimes & half the time they're only convicted because of the color of their skin. Why make the vast majority of already unjustly treated convicts into lifelong pariahs?
from neangel :
its pretty big. go down to the bottom left of my diary and click the pic of me, that will take you to my textamerica site where there are pics.
from viperj :
Hey buddy, long time no talk, I havent read your shat in a while, maybe cuz I need a password...hook me up buddy!
from sexyatheist :
and i miss you. (i just got that note for whatever reason but it's still true)
from neangel :
ooh that sounds like so much fun! beats the hell out of my big ole nothing planned for the weekend!
from plaidskies :
ooo that water slide sounds fun. Have an amazing weekend (how can you not, with all that stuff goin' on?)
from neangel :
why thank you for your prayers! i can't wait until that day either. ;)
from minderella :
shit. sarah the assistant didn't waste any time there, did she? wow.
from minderella :
i think the MJ verdict is more palatable because he didn't CUT THE HEADS OFF TWO PEOPLE. at the end of the day, even if MJ was 100% guilty, all he did was jerk off some teenage boys. it's not like he sodomized them, even. i'm not going to defend that behavior but it's a far cry from decapitating your ex and a friend of hers because you're a jealous freakshow.
from sea-change- :
I have to say, I am in the camp that says "you are crazy to be offended by Sparkle." After reading what you wrote about her - which read more or less like, "Well, there's this girl, and I don't like her all that much, but she and her family flatter me and I do like being flattered, also she offered me her body once and as a favor to her I took it," (I must say, *not* typical asit commentary), you actually think that said female who for all her obvious attentiveness to you is probably not getting a similar vibe in return should act as though you have a claim on her when you're out? Dude, if you want a claim on the girl *make a claim.* And if you don't want to make a claim, you shouldn't want her to act as though you did.
from minderella :
i loved mr. & mrs. smith, too! it's just a total "hit" movie. the plot was thin, but who cares? those two were on fire! do i know who sparkle is? or am i confused?
from neangel :
sounds like tramp needs a spanking too! i hate flakes, that's the only thing i hated a lot about most of the ca born peeps.
from neangel :
great self restraint there a! i'm proud of you!!
from sea-change- :
I think that the Johnson & AZ incidents are lessons in the dangers of generosity. Which I do not mean in the basic "how ungrateful" way, but that generosity really is a double-edged sword and a lot of people resent the obligations & responsibilities that come along with accepting it. So they behave like assholes in an attempt to cancel out the exchange. It sounds like that was probably the deal with AZ especially. On a more superficial level, whenever people feel compelled to assert their superiority verbally like that it's because they're feeling very small inside.
from sea-change- :
woah...not *that* much moolah. And besides, I am going to be in a Vermont prison all summer.
from neangel :
hehe thanks! ;)
from sea-change- :
Well, if you keep reading my diary I'm sure you'll have plenty of advance notice :)
from sea-change- :
ok, i spoke too soon. I downloaded dreamweaver and then I downloaded the "key access" program but apparently I don't have access. Boo. I did download thunderbird, and it works, but isn't that free?
from sea-change- :
oh yeah, and every once and a while he would kind of peep up with, "Weeeeelll...you know, people of countries that were colonized for many years often have these kinds of views...." and of course nobody took the bait.
from sea-change- :
man, i saw an interview with some Egyptian politico on Meet the Press the other day and it was HEE-larious. This poor guy was sitting there lying through his teeth in order to (1) justify all the evil deeds committed by the Egyptian government and (2) express America-friendly views of American intervention in the Middle East. Combined, that was a knot he couldn't quite talk himself out of. It was sad and funny.
from neangel :
Hmmm that does not sound like any fun at all. i'm sorry that there were so many asshole incidents this weekend. *HUGS*
from sea-change- :
I will probably re-clip her wings. But I'm actually going to wait a little longer. I want to wait until she can levitate. I don't really want her to be flying around (or away) but I do think that being able to move in the air is part of what I bird ought to be able to do...it was just as dangerous for her when she would get startled and jump off into the nothingness and then fall without being able to direct herself at all.
from sea-change- :
that's dirrrrrrty.
from neangel :
Yes! Come on out! But it has to be the Fort worth/Dallas area :)
from neangel :
Umm yeah it was a biotch at sprint that made me cry. she was SO rude & kept telling me that what i had known since i have been a sprint customer [since 97] was not true & had never been true. she made me think i was crazy & was just an absolute BIOTCH! I need a new phone, I hate mine. I should have you call for me :p I am about 12 months away from my next trade whatever... you're just the smooth talking man! ;)
from neangel :
you get a discount just because the call center is in India & you're Indian? Wow. That's amazing. I wish I could get a discount when I call my retarded US based [even though most are no longer] call centers... All I get is attitude. ;) One biotch even made me cry. bad long story... anyways, hook a sista up with a lt!! ;) as if I don't ask enough from you. lmao
from minderella :
one of your most impressive qualities, to me, is your boundless energy in tackling life. social plans, business stuff, favors, errands, networking - you're a real go-getter. a natural born salesman in many ways. but a lot of people are *only* salesmen. you're also blessed with substance. it will be fun and interesting to watch you build your career.
from neangel :
damn man she is gorgeous!! you just surround yourself with beautiful women to make me jealous :p kidding. thanks for sharing the pics, can't wait to see the ones from the wedding.
from sea-change- :
Well, there's a good and a bad to that. The good thing is that all along the way her emotions are all tangled up and although she has two guys on a string, she's never seeing both of them at the same time. That suggests that she at least thinks she is sincere, as the whole thing is progressing. The bad part is that it suggests a total lack of empathy, self-discipline, and maturity. It's very, very selfish behavior. So selfish that she hurts people unconsciously, and thoughtlessly. You can hope that she's grown up (people do, especially if they get hurt), or you can give her credit for at least *thinking* she means what she says when she says it but be prepared to find out that her emotions a little fickle.
from plaidskies :
Isn't Wynton Marsalis cool? I got to meet him in December...he was at a jazz show of Vince Giardelli (he plays at Charley-Os on Tuesdays) and he was so warm and friendly. Vince is also cool. You'd really like his stuff, if you like jazz.
from ohclaudine :
oh I met Wynton M. once too! :) very cool. I think he's so cute amongst other things..
from sea-change- :
yeah, but I figured out that smart isn't sexy ages ago. At least, to hardly anybody. Besides, smart requires some sort of verbal exchange and I am talking about something a lot less profound.
from ohclaudine :
I hear you about the slow walkers.. I disdain them. I constantly walk fast.. I rush with nowhere to go. perhaps its the 24 years of NYC.
from plaidskies :
I myself am in fact, a "fast walker" and a lot of my slow walking friends get annoyed with me. Sorry, but I have places to be. I also get annoyed by slow moving, blocking my path middle of the sidewalk sauntering people. My favorite though, are the ones that suddenly STOP in front of you. I've wanted to kick them many, many times. It may still happen. There seems to be a lot more of them lately.
from sea-change- :
the dirty poetry follows the PS...it just doesn't sound very poetic because it's hard to translate the rhythm & rhyme of arabic into English poetically.
from neangel :
could i be so honoured with a pdf copy of those beautiful pictures? =) glad you had such a wonderful time!
from sea-change- :
I want to see pictures. Also: I dont get the "dirty poetry?!" I need more context for the exclamation. maybe when you send the photos to melinda you can tell he to forward them to me. maybe I should give you my email address. anyhow. Explain!
from minderella :
after all the laborious preparation, i'm delighted to hear it was all you'd hoped and more. i can't wait to see photos!
from minderella :
damn you, asit! i've been waiting all day for a mehndi/wedding update. and i am in dire need of procrastination material here. grrrrr. :)
from justcircles :
damn I wish I was in NY for all the festivities... I would truly love to catch a glimpse of this traditional Indian celebration with you
from neangel :
OMG! I bought the old amsterdam along with apple/cranberry chutney & it was FABULOUS!! I also bought the gargonzola with the stuff you recommended but I haven't tried it yet but I can't wait to. The Central Market has SOOOO many varieties of cheeses but you can't taste them before hand. it's all portioned out. they have so many cheeses that it took me 10 minutes to find the old amsterdam [which btw i was complimented on my choice of cheese for that one, thanks] and that was with the assistance of the cheese guy and he found it in a snap while I yammered that I had scoured the entire section. I am offically in love with the Central Market...
from sea-change- :
PS - you do realize I've spent like 3-4 years working on and off in museums, right? I luv them.
from sea-change- :
how can you like minimalism and not like art that is just a single-colored canvas, etc.? I don't get it. I do admit that museums aren't necessarily the best venues for looking at art, but that's where you've gotta go to do it anyhow...
from sea-change- :
wouldn't it be smarter to do it in a museum of modern art? Coconut drinks are nice, but not conducive to long talks about the value of minimalism.
from minderella :
i used to have a similar definition of art ("should be difficult to replicate") - i'd say that if i could do it, it must not be art. which is not to say that i don't think i can produce art, but, like, anyone could slap some paint down in a splatter. but ultimately i decided that i'm not in a position to define art, that if i claimed to i'd be no better than any redstate yokel who says "that pee-et mon-dran is bullshit. thomas kinkade... now there's an artist." a person would do better to state and justify his preferences than to attempt to declare what is, or is not, art.
from sea-change- :
The next time I see you, you have to let me try to convince you of the value of modern art. Since, in my head, that's a project that would take hours and hours and result in total conversion, I'm not going to start here...but, just to bring up a couple of introductory points: (1) nobody has yet come up with an adequate definition of art; and the trend over the past century has been to broaden rather than narrow the definition; in short, deciding what is and is not art is a very tricky proposition (2) art and craft are not identical. If you went and talked to Leonardo da Vinci and told him that one day he would have the kind of respect that an "artist" gets instead of a "craftsman" he would have died with joy. Da Vinci, like a lot of other painters/sculptors in the renaissance, suffered because they were clumped with craftsmen - shoemakers, metalworkers, anybody with a manual skill. He was one of the first to polemicize the issue, actually, and wrote about wanting painting to be seen more like music or poetry (they were considered real arts; painting was not). So he was one of the first to actively emphasize the difference between art and craft, and claim that they are not identical. (3) the history of twentieth century art has one main disadvantage: it is hard to appreciate without some knowledge of the history of twentieth century art. The short story, however, of modern art is this: artists tried to destroy art. In a lot of ways they succeeded and I think that we're all suffering the effects o their efforts now. (4) all abstract, color-field type art is not the same. I have a lot of respect for Malevitch, and not much for Yves Klein, for example. Context can be everything.
from ohclaudine :
interesting perspective on your definition of art. I respect it, although today, everything can be replicated.
from neangel :
australian shiraz is the only way to go... I will try to find that at the central market. perhaps I might have to order it somewhere if I can't find it. email any suggestions you can think of! I'd love it! you have my email no?
from neangel :
Can you suggest a few good cheeses for me to try? I went out and bought some herb brie, a nice swiss & garlic, tomato basil cheese cream to try with a bottle of shiraz & french bread. I want to try something different. I will have to probably travel to the 'central market' here in FW to find anything since we have no Trader Joe's here... But I am a cheese nut & would love some suggestions!
from sea-change- :
I'm trying to think of lifestyle changes, though, and since one of my chief pleasures in life is eating and cooking I don't think I'm likely to make meal preparation the prime target of my cost cutting. I'm actually an extraordinarily domestic person and a kitchen is more or less what defines 'home' for me; I'm not happy if I can't cook. Choosing my ingredients more carefully - well, I'm thinking of what to do. #1 on my list is getting rid of expensive cereal.
from plaidskies :
You will probably really enjoy the Ashes and Snow exhibit. I know that I did when I went. Have a great time.
from devouredsoul :
You're right. I just didn't think or observe that from all possible angles. Thank you for pointing me in the right direction.
from minderella :
based of my relatively limited observations: i think, perhaps, that julia's heightened texto interest likely has to do with you appearing with a model at her restaurant. but i don't think that's a reason to be upset. after all, if she didn't care, she wouldn't care (as the old saying goes). if she didn't like you, then that sort of thing would have no effect. if a guy who annoys me showed up at my workplace with some gorgeous woman, i wouldn't be like "oh shit, i better get his attention tomorrow by reworking my schedule around him, etc" i would be like "oh, thank god he has someone else to distract his attention so that he'll quit bothering me." i might even send a text like "your girlfriend is hot. congrats." her response was anything but indifferent. so that's the good news. the "bad" news is, i'm sure she's keeping several, if not a dozen, guys on the hook in some form. poor, young, models get what they want by association. you are a particularly valuable associate by anyone's standards: you have a car, you're 411 laden, you have tons of connections in the city, you are a loyal friend to those you call a friend, you like to go out, your cohort is full of influential/interesting people - in short, i'm sure you're a crown jewel in her entourage. but remember there is an entourage. i am not saying this to be mean or pessimistic, just to be honest. i am certain that she likes you - if she didn't, you wouldn't see her or hear from her - she has enough excuses of how she's "busy" to avoid anyone. but she probably likes a lot of other people as well. i don't want you to get your feelings hurt. i think her behavior, etc, at your sister's mendhi/whatever will be very telling. and i think it is a big sign of something that she's going... everyone knows it means something to go to attend a wedding with someone's sibling. anyway, i'm following the story with intrigue.
from justcircles :
yes; you are. (we all are)
from sea-change- :
what, we poor doctors of philosophy can't hold our own in a verbal duel? I'm wounded to the quick, I tell you.
from plaidskies :
I see no problem with this...i'd find it interesting. :) Good luck!
from sea-change- :
Are there rules to introducing one gorgeous girl to another gorgeous girl? Because if there are, men probably know more about them than women. I'm certainly clueless. Also: my dad is a really efficient carpenter & urban planner and although I probably couldn't really duplicate very many of his skills, I have absorbed enough to fake it...It makes me weirdly competent/incompetent around a hammer.
from sea-change- :
Oh - it wasn't the car, or at least, the car only factored in as one of the 10 or so things that I happened to do on Saturday that don't form a part of my usual New York routine. And after three years, I'm not still upset. It was just a strange coincidence. And - I really want to thank you again. I had a really fun evening & it was nice to meet you. I've been feeling guilty ever since Sat. about not feeding you back the price of Diana's meal...letting you buy me dinner is one thing (very kind of you, btw), but bringing along a friend for the ride - egads, how rude can I be? If you're ever in Boston you'll have to let me take you out to dinner & soothe my conscience.
from frail :
ok. so i have returned to d-land, and i was hoping i could be allowed admittance to your diary once again. a.k.a please give me your password. *c/a= me6579@aol.com
from plaidskies :
Yo! My lil group of friends and I are piling into Patio for Happy Hour again tomorrow night. It was my suggestion the first time, and my friends *LOVED* this place as much as I did when you took me there. So thank you, thank you, thank you for introducing me to Patio. Miss you!
from sea-change- :
Melinda told me you'd be out of town, which is just as well because my trips to new york are always pretty crazy. But luckily enough, this time around I have a pretty posh place to stay: a classic six on the upper west side with a river view. The occupants are living in Connecticut at the moment, so I'll be enjoying it for them.
from sea-change- :
not important? That may be the most depressing thing anyone has ever said to me. Have I really sunk so low that people might think that of me? Because that's pretty damn low.
from neangel :
that happens to me a lot cause I also have sprint & suisse had at&t or what is now cingular. sometimes but not always
from sea-change- :
Look, if my advice were worth anything I'd get laid more often.
from sea-change- :
I'm a total dufus, but I think playing games is annoying. Similarly, keeping a roving eye out is annoying. I, personally, feel like if somebody is behaving artificially with me - not saying what he thinks/feels in order to do God knows what, I don't understand how it's supposed to be appealing to have somebody give you the message that they have better things to do than talk to you - it's a bad thing; similarly, if somebody can't wait to see if they've got a good thing going and has to keep looking around, I think it's a real inhibitor to building trust. How can you trust somebody who is ready to play you for a fool just because they don't want to look bad?
from plaidskies :
I believe it's "compass-north" and yes, that's the death position. Other people are okay with that. It would personally unnerve me...but um, follow your instincts. One day I'll see some place that you live.
from neangel :
my bed is in the same position 'the death position' my mom insisted i was wrong when i mentioned this but so far i am still alive & sleeping well...
from sea-change- :
So the way to a man's heart is still through his stomach, eh? Good luck with Julia, btw, although it sounds like you don't need it.
from neangel :
Wow, sounds very promising as well as very nice & cozy... I miss the city. It's just not the same here when you have to run to the Super Wal-mart to pick up the groceries & then pass the cow pastures on the way back to the boonies. ;)
from sea-change- :
Well thank ya. I miss New York a lot though. You went to NYU, didn't you? I think I heard Melinda say that once, but I'm not sure.
from sea-change- :
Yeah, I went to Columbia for undergrad. What's Violet?
from neangel :
Mmm dean & doluca cheese? i am such a huge cheese freak... i should try it next time i am in the city... good luck!
from sea-change- :
oh, keep posting all that friendly advice. I need it.
from neangel :
Ooh darlin, you must always use moisturizer!! especially if your skin feels tight. what happens is your skin will mass produce the extra oils/moisture that your skin is lacking which can cause more breakouts & stuff to occur. take it from me not only did i do cosmetology but i was a make up artist for a couple years [in my youth ;)]
from plaidskies :
My new Favorite Quote of the week: Marcy told me that I shouldn't talk about work so much. I told her she shouldn't sleep with married Puerto Ricans so much. Yeah, we don't talk anymore. *ROFLMAO*
from sea-change- :
I wouldn't take it as backpedaling - your entry made me think of prenups, but your on-the-first-date thing was totally reasonable. It's jumping ahead a little. Also - you should elaborate more on the divorce thing. I'm not sure I understand & it's interesting. Like - when does a situation become extreme? Is years of unhappiness and incompatibility *not* extreme? When does emotional abuse qualify as abuse? Stuff like that.
from amarantha21 :
Hi there, I saw the message at sea-change- and thought you sounded interesting. Would you mind if I read your diary? I am from Seattle, btw.
from neangel :
wow you are one lucky man! ;)
from sea-change- :
I obviously can only speak for myself, but I think Indian guys are totally hot. The only thing that would make me leary of an Indian guy as such is the possibility of gender-role baggage.
from salazabr :
Stopped by and noticed you were locked now. Could I get a username and password please? Thanks.
from ohclaudine :
is that pigment?
from ohclaudine :
is that pigment?
from neangel :
cool new pic! i'm bored today - i still wanna move to NYC too. still hiring? :p yeah so i'm really bored at work today.
from eightcuts :
hey im friends with michaela and just moved to Long Island - and have heard lots about u - we should chill in the city sometime if u want. i havent updated on this journal recently, cuz im on xanga...but on im, im eightcutsch
from neangel :
sorry i haven't been working on a template for you, i have no computer yet set up but will be moved after the first of march so i can work on it then... if you still would like me to that is. thanks for the comment on my new look! i wish i had created it!
from sea-change- :
I'd cut the girl loose. On the other hand, I may have somehow become pathologically addicted to celibacy without realizing it.
from ash-rose21 :
Asit, youre a main course, not a side dish. You absolutely deserve someone who recognizes and acknowledges that. Honestly. Betcha never been reffered to as food before ;).
from plaidskies :
Wow, I'm so sorry. I think you absolutely DID do the right thing (even though it sucks) because you are one of the coolest people I know. You should never EVER be second fiddle. She's crazy for thinking so. *HUGS*
from neangel :
I'm working on something, or actually trying to come up with something masculine for your dland. but for now if you go to photobucket.com you can any images you want to use right now there & use that link for your dland images... <img src"http://photobucket/images/useretc.....>
from justcircles :
well, shit man
from justcircles :
you mean you don't want to put all your *huevos* in the Marcy basket, right?
from sea-change- :
hey, could I have your password?
from neangel :
wow darlin have fun!! you are some hot stuff right now! i :heart: craigslist!!
from ash-rose21 :
Youre a gem hon, and youre also right, he is freakin lucky, but so am i ;).
from ionme :
what's up with the santa text?
from bellacambio :
i am thinking gasoline. gasoline is flammable and has a lower flash point ( the temperature at which the substance gives off enough vapor to create an ignitable mixture with air) , whereas diesel is a combustible liquid and the flash point is considerably higher. plus i think gasoline has a higher vapor density. don't know if that makes any sense... :)
from ash-rose21 :
Asit, I go away for a few weeks and you locked up shop. Did you miss me that much?
from justcircles :
dude one on one with me - pretending like we were each others "wing person" but knowing that we'd shut 'em all down... and a womanizer? hmmm so THAT'S what made us such good friends!!!
from mojitolover :
Password please? I discovered your diary by accident & looked forward to reading it every day. It was a dark day when I found it locked..
from justcircles :
if you and me were kicking it tonight I'd be making jokes about your lines, "other physical reasons" and "unscrewing it too much" and maybe attributing too much to my prom date...
from neangel :
i hate to hear you had to lock down but then again on the same token i am looking forward to the promise of pics ;) glad you got your car back too! i had the same type of thing happen yrs ago in cali. although i didn't have to pay quite as much.
from neangel :
*sniff sniff* may i have one please sir? ;)
from danddteacher :
You locked it! You bum! *L* Just kidding! Happy late Birthday, by the way!
from azelya :
Hi, can I have a password please? azelya@hotmail.com
from liviasgarden :
Password please! liviasgarden@diaryland.com
from uglyalice :
locked?! oh dear. may i have the password? uglyprincess @ gmail . com
from pollux :
password, please?
from mangofarmer :
Whoa.... locked? mangoqueen24@yahoo.com
from plaidskies :
Dude! You finally had it out with your imaginary friend? (this IS the guy I think it is, right?) Head over to LJ if you wanna keep a journal...I'm there, too and you can control your privacy settings on there better (I think) than you can on here.
from faltered :
hey happy birthday! hope everything is good. get some sleep. you sound like you need it after partying for a whole week. I just turned 23 and i can't even do it! ;)
from ohclaudine :
Happy Birfday!!!
from liviasgarden :
Enjoy your beautiful days and nights and here's to many more! Cheers! *Cat
from ionme :
HAPPY BELATED! glad to hear it was a good one. xo
from viperj :
Happy belated b-day man. Anyway, I just wanted to say, your diary has to be one of the best, and one of the most i look forward to reading. Take it easy.
from neangel :
omg happy belated bday!!
from merris :
I just read the "favorite diary" comments you posted about miss merris/minibarbie/ministacy. You are so awesome for my ego--thanks :O) Oh yeah--Happy 30th!!!!!!!
from neangel :
I've always wanted to be in manhattan! ;) seriously though it's all about who you know there though. I was an admin assist/office manager/assist operations mgr in my old job [before I moved the the credit union and was fired], an environmental engineering company. The people were great and it was such like a second family to me but I was doing the job of 5 people, never got the actual title of manager and was getting screwed on my pay [never got the raise to compensate for all the extra titles & jobs I handled].
from neangel :
really?? should i send my resume right on over? what type of business do you work in? you can email me if you want rather then leaving notes.
from neangel :
thanks for the call last night ;) very unexpected and appreciated! you are looking to move again? buying is better then renting by far and it sounds like you will find the perfect place to call home. damn i wish i could live in manhattan. know anyone hiring? ;)
from bellacambio :
your entry today was well written. i appreciate your perspective! good job, asit. :)
from ionme :
i feel sick today :(
from ohclaudine :
I <3 Manu Chao! Try Lali Puna (not comparing the two just obsessed at the moment )
from ionme :
i wish i could be there for your bday!!
from ohclaudine :
Thanks for the postcard babe!
from ohclaudine :
kitten, I was with my friend this afternoon when her 1992 white sudan got towed. we ran to the two truck man just in time. He drove us to the pound. She paid 230 bucks because they totally fuck you and charge you 15.50 extra if you use your credit card. Fucking Baltimore. it was depressing as hell.
from argylecool :
Thank, dude. Will be good to have you back up over from down under.
from mathero :
I'm promoting my diary because I'm bored as hell tonight =)
from ionme :
that was a beautiful note you left for angel buddy.....
from neangel :
Hungry Jacks to Burger King must be like the Hardees to Carls Jr on the West coast. it freaked me out seeing the Carls logo & menu being called Hardees. Why can't everyone use the same name everywhere? it's funny
from faltered :
just wanted to say you are a truly wonderful person. Have fun and be safe out there! Now the evidence is mounting for me to go to Australia!
from justcircles :
wouldn't that be "hottie *Von* hotterson" if she's German?
from viperj :
Lol, seems like you're having fun. I got an idea, drink some VB, or VP and go sing at the opera house!
from hiddenchance :
Hey, this was the first time I read your diary & it's cool that you're checking out Aus. I live near Sydney & just want to say that I hope you & your bro enjoy your time here!
from pollux :
Asit, my sincere, sincere condolences. In times like this, platitudes are at best vacuous, and at worst annoying, so I offer you none. If however, you would like to get together when you get back just to talk about her, you know you can call me.
from ohclaudine :
I am so SO sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and her family.
from ash-rose21 :
(((ASIT)))
from bellacambio :
asit, i am so very sorry to hear about michelle. i will keep you in my thoughts.
from neangel :
omg that was so beautiful, tragic and sad all at all the same time. i am so sorry for the loss of such a beauitful magificent person in your life & all the lives of the people she touched in her life. my heart & prayers are there for her family & friends.
from plaidskies :
Asit, sweetie, I am very, very sorry to hear about Michelle. I got choked up reading your tribute to her. We've both got Angels watching over us, don't think for one second that we don't. *HUGS* from me all the way in NYC. I'm here if you need me, okay? I'm not going to tell you to do all those things people say when you're grieving because I've been there all too recently and I know it's a bunch of bullshit. You do what you need to to to remember Michelle and her good and kind spirit--and do it according to your own timetable. Love you. S.
from liviasgarden :
I'm so sorry. I hope you can find some solace reading the words she left behind.
from ionme :
omg, that is so sad....(holding back tears) i'm very sorry!!!
from neangel :
you're coming back on my birthday! woo hoo! my mom & her aussie hubby are flying out on the 30th and coming back on the 23rd so they will miss you by a couple days. but have tons of fun & a few ales for me!
from compclass :
*thanks* you were the first one to note me!! ~have a nice day~
from rash :
I know.. thanks **hugs**
from neangel :
my mom & her aussie hubby are going & coming back on those same dates [i think]. i want to go too! i'll send u an email for a postcard. ;)
from bare-my-soul :
have fun in australia!
from ionme :
sorry to hear about michelle.....if you need to talk, give me a call!
from neangel :
mwahhhhhh!! whatever your evil plan is i guess it is working! thanks for the shoe compliment. i am wearing the black pair out tonight, wish me luck!
from ohclaudine :
p.s - i'm from Queens but I schooled and worked in Manhatten. (now in Baltimore for a few months)
from ohclaudine :
My AIM isn't working properly as of like 4 days ago when I upgraded. it totally jacks up everything. Otherwise I'm shehasunraveled. when it's up and running again I would love to chat.
from ohclaudine :
HAHAH! love the entry.
from bellacambio :
HAHAHAHA!! "Like a naked fat baby girl. Not sexy." you almost made me spew coffee onto my computer screen. :) too funny.
from compclass :
EVERY1 knows that W/b is write back and I have no idea who u r.
from compclass :
This is Compclass AKA Jenny! W/b
from compclass :
Hi w/b
from ohclaudine :
High five brother! I'd dance with ya ;)
from ionme :
your 9/14 entry made me miss your laugh :D
from catie-dids :
It's easy to never lie about anything when you never take a position on anything...
from neangel :
all right i won't wait up! sounds like you had so much fun... so jealous i want to be up there on that rooftop too!
from girlygirl83 :
Hey, I'm gonna add you to my favorites. i fond you through Ionme. Hope that you don't mind. Oh yeah, I also added your AIM name to my buddy list. Hope u don't m ind that either.
from neangel :
well i am so glad she did! i believe i tagged your board once to confirm that the pic was indeed nyc. beautiful. a great friend of mine lives in the east village very artsy. i so wish i could move there. if i had a job offer i'd be there in a heart beat!
from justcircles :
Mars Bar... Daycare for Drunks... that was the shit... man
from ohclaudine :
Thank you! No.. the html is all me baby! I always change the photos around though, I get bored quite fast.
from ohclaudine :
oh dear... it's just ramblings.. not alot of it makes sense, but enjoy nontheless :) I'll read you too!
from justcircles :
I was sort of dissapointed about Joey. The theme song/opening sequence was bad and the laughs scarce... I'll give it another shot on the chance we get more "Chandler" refeneces and the nephew is cool...
from everoboto :
"I wore my "Billion@ires f0r Bush" button..." Dude, that's classic. \m/
from ionme :
yes, that is part of it. i don't like being restrained, as you already know. :D
from azelya :
It is hard to find a balance between revealing too much and still actually having a balance in the true sense of the word. Bah.
from ionme :
nice weekend although you never give enough details - i swear ;P
from catie-dids :
asit - there are 1,500 open apartments left in the city -- this lady is a freak. The bill's probably a con. . .who the hell takes their cat to the vet for something like that -- a freak is who! Don't do it damn it! Scare the hell out of the cat on your next visit!!!
from ionme :
LOL
from ionme :
changed my profile, your turn
from ionme :
sorry, i'm busy - it'll come
from pollux :
injera. the ethiopian bread. although i'm sure you knew that already. were you guys at meskerem on macdougal? love their food, although the tables are a little too close together for my comfort.
from salazabr :
LOL! One of the adavantages of not drinking is that I can remember what actually happened after a night out. Not what I "think" happened or what I wish had happened...but what actually happened.
from cdghost :
wonderful to read!
from cuillin :
miss you some too. if I could figure out how to delete my past, maybe I'd write again. in the meantime, it's all one sticky fruit juice dribble down the chin. deadcolette@yahoo.com.
from ionme :
let's just meet at patio saturday night, cool? i'll call you.
from ionme :
the rumor is true. no offense, but i figured you'd be too busy. i'll be there the 6th through the 10th.
from ionme :
hey buddy. what are some cool clubs in the city?
from suprgoddess :
hahaa! *does a little dance* i'd make her do pruettes just for you, if i could! :D
from suprgoddess :
sorry to hear about the owwie stingers...:( But, that drunken lady must have been a hoot! :D
from azelya :
Maybe J just likes to take things slow. Hard to believe, because does that even exist anymore? You might just try to keep seeing her, but lay off the physical stuff completely for a couple of dates to see what she does. Then try again. If she still feels completely platonic, then you have a friendship on your hands, not a potential romance.
from salazabr :
You're welcome.
from salazabr :
It sounds to me lik J isn't necessarily as interested in you as you are in her but she likes the attention and doesn't want to be pushed to the back burner. It's the old "I don't want him but I don't want anyone else to have him either" bullshit.
from faltered :
hey mr. things seem to be shaping up very nicely! well just sayin hi and i can see everything's well so i'm glad...lata
from vancookie :
i truly do no understand the note you left me. but thanks for leaving a note.
from missmaudie :
I don't know you or anytihng but I have been reading your diary and it is pretty interesting. Like you I am Indian and I have a really hard time finding any other Indians to be friends with. I have actually never had a indian friend, ever. Just yesturday I thought that I might find a local group of indians online and try and go to an event, but I just don't think I would really fit in. I am half Australian and half Indian and was raised my my Australian half so I am really not familiar with any traditions or culture. Anyways if it would make your G-Ma feel any better you can tell her you have an Indian friend out in Arizona. :)
from justcircles :
wish I was there to instruct you on Thug Life; as far as the game? Mike called me everyday from our first date...and hasn't missed a day since St. Patrick's Day. Sometimes you meet people where the game is obviously a waste a time and you just want to be together. :) So just remember: there are exceptions to every games' rules from person to person and relationship to relationship, you know. They're all individual. I wanna see ya'll on your baddest behavior! Lend me some sugar; I am your neighbor.
from bixshortie :
Ha! Loved todays entry (letter to Bush). Guess I will be bringing some of those up in debate. x
from stelanotte :
Glad you're back! Enjoy your holiday
from viperj :
Hey whats up bro. Man, the more you write about New York, I wanna check it out more and more! I definately wanna hit up the Martha's Vineyard someday, thats awsome. Just saying whats up, take it easy bud.
from faltered :
haven't gotten in touch for a while. thanks for the congratulations...you seem to be having a pretty good time up there! good luck with all the exciting new prospects for mates -how cool!
from em-powered :
gosh...was going to leave a msg on the tagboard, but...i think it's drunk too? hahahaa!!! anyhoo. *spanks asitwere*
from gothamite :
Actually, I don't know what I'm going to be given ... basically, I'm in it for the money, like my post said ... Since I'm out of a job, I figure there are worse things I could do for money than take something approved by the FDA.
from ionme :
I am babe, I'm good....thanks!
from sectionsix :
Thank you for the compliment; right back at you.
from parlance :
Oh, so now you don't like reading my journal entries because I'm a guy? :P
from stelanotte :
How about next Tuesday for drinks?
from azelya :
Hi, I was just wondering why you got NJ plates when you live in NY? Are they cheaper?
from justcircles :
dude, I got the hangin out taken care of... and the lovin... and the homework... es bueno!
from advice-4-you :
need advice? visit my profile to see how i can help you!
from bixshortie :
good luck with your committee meeting, my thoughts are with you :) if the burberry suit doesn't swing it, offer sexual favours... i'm joking... xx
from minderella :
is the militant israeli girl anti-bush? because i've found that paradoxically and somewhat bafflingly, jews who i have been friends with forever, who have been liberal democrats forever, are now almost apologetically pro-bush because the israeli in them is so freaked out by terrorism and they like bush's pro-war style. i kind of don't get it, but it seems a spreading trend.
from parlance :
Thank you kindly for your adding, but I am Male =)
from parlance :
The icon in your profile is beautiful.
from ionme :
I'm glad to hear that - you've been dealing with her shit far too long.
from bellacambio :
good for you for not wanting to put up with bullshit. down with toxic people!
from minderella :
re: howard stern... i'm very concerned about what's going on with him right now as well, but i found your comment on empowerment interesting. i'll agree that he would empower unattractive men because he was/is an unattractive man who became/is sexy and attractive because of his personality. however, he's horribly degrading to women who are even slightly less than "model" beautiful and routinely chastises women for being even five pounds overweight or not having perfect tits. so i wouldn't hold him out as a paragon of empowerment on any level. regardless, this assault by the conservative right is horrible.
from minderella :
no, asit.. the decision was finalized in december.. i was just finding out later what happened with the original job i had wanted. def. still coming to NY.
from justcircles :
i think you're the *only* one who doesn't like it... it's a Beatles song, man, and it's hott...
from idiot-milk :
See, they're not Amish. (Not that I think we SHOULDN'T fuck the Amish. Bastards. Or something. Anyway) I grew up near Amish country, and these aren't them. They're something else entirely, and it's driving me mad not knowing! MAD, I say! I really should get out more often.
from minderella :
what exactly is the nature of your relationship with this michelle? really, truly "just a friend"? also, re: amy: i always pick up and leave right after sex, too... i'll agree it's kind of strange, but i'm not sure why it's strange. why should one necessarily want to hang around? i actually always want to leave because i feel disheveled and vulnerable (i think). also, used to be i'd feel particularly anxious about taking my pill which i didn't have on me. further, if you leave then you don't run the risk of having the guy fall asleep on you which is sort of insulting and annoying in my world.
from bellacambio :
"Nunca tiene que tocar mi ropa sucia." There ya go. :) Or if you are quite familiar with her, use "Nunca tienes que tocar mi ropa sucia." Tiene is more formal, tienes indicates familiarity.
from minderella :
yeah, i had new balance for a while.. then i got some sauconys and i did love them. then i didn't have much money, so i got some sketchers, and that's what i have now. so i think i did it backwards. i did like those sauconys, though. i got them brand new at a flea market. perhaps they were actually stolen, but they were a damn good deal.
from minderella :
check this out! http://www.globetechnology.com/servlet/story/RTGAM.20040218.gtriaa0218/BNPrint/Technology/?mainhub=GT
from everoboto :
I'm actually Italian (half Sicilian, half Nepolitan). I've been asked if I have Indian heritage, which I'm guessing is because I have olive skin and straight dark hair. No one seems to notice my somewhat Roman nose, lol.
from plaidskies :
OMG, BRILLIANT entry. Love religious debates and the fact that you can throw the bible back in the zealots faces is always a good party game that I enjoy....Oh... and also the mental image of you running up to complete strangers saying "I love it doggie style" is making me giggle uncontrollably.
from stelanotte :
Have a good week also
from minderella :
me again. yes, i have been reading you regularly.. and once someone gets on my address bar dropdown menu, i will click on their freaking diary every other hour to see if there's an update when i'm bored. it becomes stalkerish. thanks for calling me luscious. :)
from minderella :
it has not been my experience that the odds of getting an orgasm increase in proportion to the muscularity or fitness of the guy. HOWEVER, i would say that the the odds of my not caring about getting an orgasm do increase if the experience was at least visually orgasmic.
from mangofarmer :
I can't hardboil eggs to save my life. I'm always so afraid of overcooking them, I never cook them long enough! Just thought I'd share. :)
from minderella :
asit: i loved that entry. when you were first describing this gorgeous manhattan locale for a gorgeous wedding i started getting this nasty twinge of jealous like, hey, i want a wedding like that! i want to marry some older rich dude who can pay for a wedding like that! and then you perfectly torpedoed all the envy with the rest of the description which reminded me why i never want to get married and i never actually want to be a part of that scene of obnoxious fake rich people. thought it would be fun to infiltrate it now and then just for the stories. let's do a brunch when i am in new york! i love sunday brunch. it's one of my favorite things. and i've not done that in NY since my ex ex, now like almost six years ago.
from ash-rose21 :
Hola Asit, even for the ones who update once a month? :) I dont know if I can make it as I have some health business to take care of from wednesday to friday. I dont know what all of it entails, so I also dont know what Ill be up for, and what I wont be up for. Can you still give me the information though? Just in case I can.
from bellacambio :
well you'll have to go through a rigorous interview process. only the top candidates are selected. this is a very demanding job!! heh heh
from bellacambio :
double wedding? ew, grody. heh heh.
from ash-rose21 :
Well- my fee starts at $500 an hour and goes higher...depending on whatever "it" is...what is "it"? ;)
from bellacambio :
Is it as cold there as it is here? Honestly I'm about ready to boycott winter and go to South Beach or something...
from bellacambio :
Colorado. A long damn way away, huh?
from bellacambio :
Yes! Culinary school! It is so fun! You know the really pathetic part is that I'm a total slut for great food but I'm trying so hard to stay healthy... the eggs and cheese keep calling my name :) I would be happy to feed you some home cookin and get you liquored up if we didn't live so far apart...
from bellacambio :
hey there, i just came across your diary thru minderella's, and i like it very much! i'm jealous of your adventures in india :)
from minderella :
sure thing, man. drinks it is. :)
from minderella :
sure thing, man. drinks it is. :)
from uglyalice :
sure! hi to you, too. i found your diary on minderella's buddy list. welcome back to the states... sounds like you had a blast in india!
from bottledbitch :
india looks absolutely wondrous. traveling is an intense passion, yet that is one place i've never been able to go.
from everoboto :
Was it the bartender's choice not to give you the drink? If so, then fuck him. And why he would favor them over you when you're tipping just as well? Well, maybe he's self-loathing? Maybe he hates being Indian and would rather be British and that's why he didn't treat you with the respect you--an Indian American--deserve. Btw, I've really enjoying reading your travel journals.
from ms-ashlynn :
Walk Good Asit. Safe travels.
from bare-my-soul :
happy holidays! it's been too long. i hope you feel better. at least you're in a warmer climate. let's try and get together when you get back. love rose
from ionme :
hey babe! nice to hear from you, thanks for your support. by the way, don't mind my *bodyguard* haha...
from galatearedux :
Thank you. (I'm still thinking about the bulk of your apartment entry, but the description of the bed was right on. Exactly.)
from bare-my-soul :
i wanted to tell you, i loved your entry, "sweet-ex"...hope you're well.
from everoboto :
Regarding your how to get laid in apt entry: I totally agree with all the ways you WON'T get laid; but those things on the list that WILL get you laid, well, they're so contrived. It's like every dude out there buys the leather couch, etc., and when you go to a guy's house with all those things you list, it's like "Hmm...this isn't too much of a seduction scenario." Although, you'll only succeed in attracting superficial women. Here's my simple advice: keep your apt clean and stocked with TOILET PAPER (which most guys never seem to have); have at least 2 matching CLEAN glasses, plates, utensils, etc.; it's ok NOT to have leather and down throughout the place as long as what you do have is neat, clean, NOT worn out, and somewhat matching; any nice-looking lamps that give off a romantic, cozy vibe; have something that's not rotting in the fridge--bottled water, some soda or juice; keep some semi-healthy snacks in the cupboard. This is only advice to get the girl into the apt and stay there for a while--the rest is up to you (meaning, you better wow her in bed, b/c if you stink, I don't give a fuck if you sofa is made of gold). Hope this helps.
from ms-ashlynn :
Gotcha Asit- I understand a lot more now, and I can see why you have to be careful. That's more than a little messed up man, Im so sorry that you went through that. Makes my little online/offline adventure look like a walk in the park. Take care of yourself.
from bare-my-soul :
clearly she hurt you immensely - one year later and you're still not over it. my only advice to you, from this day forward, is to feel sorry for her. she's pathetic. you, on the other hand, have so much to offer, and a lot going for you, and deserve a lot better, and at least you found out when you did. it could have been a lot worse. please try to move on from this. it will only eat away at you. don't give her this power over you... thanks for your kind words, as always, and your encouragement. i only hope you feel the same way. love rose
from ms-ashlynn :
Asit, that's his name exactly! You must be psychic ;).
from ms-ashlynn :
Oh him?? I got him for half price down at the salvation army, took one look at those pecs and I just couldnt resist. He was the last one. It was my lucky day.
from ms-ashlynn :
a new guy? whatchoo talkin bout Asit?
from ms-ashlynn :
Happy b-day Asit!
from everoboto :
Happy Birthday! And, Happy Thanksgiving as well. At least you weren't born near a gift-giving holiday, otherwise you'd get skimped on with your presents.
from frail :
hey man, just thought i'd say hello. & even tho i don't get in touch much lately, i still read your diary and i know wassup in the asitworld. b-t-w, i gave up south beach on day 3. no carb living is VERY DIFFICULT. and i never felt full no matter how much canadian bacon i stuffed myself with. all i wanted was a piece of fucking toast!! :) much love, cathy-ann
from ms-ashlynn :
Have a great time in Miami Asit!
from everoboto :
See, that's why I love/hate soap operas. There's that part of you that wants the drama and the other part that is disgusted by it. At least the soaps are fake, unlike the MJ crap.
from everoboto :
The new guy doesn't go down at all? How do women land up with losers like that?
from bare-my-soul :
I'M NOT SURPRISED! it really is a small world. although i am surprised to find out he really does work for AT&T. when i asked him for his card, he said he didnt' have one on him. well what do you know!!! love rose
from everoboto :
Oh man, how horribly unfair for both you and your ex-girlfriend. It sounds like you really had something special.
from bare-my-soul :
thanks so much for your note, asit! love rose
from ionme :
"Dare I say we stuck out like sore thumbs; two uppity, good-service expecting, dressing a little more nicely than our counterparts (without trying) snobs" Re-read the tag....
from ms-ashlynn :
Hi Asit :) I hope it's all going good for you. Made any pizzas lately?
from bare-my-soul :
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! i'm not in love with ross, dude, i'm in love with his cock.
from everoboto :
I always wanted to know, when going to the Chinese Massage place, is there are sign that has "massage $50, massage with happy ending $100"? I mean, how does one ask for the Happy Ending? Not that it matters for me, as I'm female, but it's just one of those things that I've always been curious about. And now that I think about it, $100 is a pretty good price for something like that. Why don't they have it for women (with men doing the servicing, of course)? Hmm....
from plaidskies :
Go to: http://www.seanaltman.com he's got some MP3's up there. Arlene Grocery, 9pm, 9/29 (95 Stanton between Orchard and Ludlow) $10...he's good!
from ionme :
We're bad, I know!! :)
from danddteacher :
OK, that sucks. What's her problem? And I don't mean that in an arrogant way, I'm just curious. Clearly SOMETHING is going on there, and it'd be interesting to find out what it is.
from everoboto :
Damn, you're having a lot of trouble with your female friends lately. You should straight out ask this girl what her problem is and why she's so bitter towards you. Some people carry around resents, so you might have done something years ago that she still has a grudge about. Either way, a friend shouldn't do what she did to you.
from danddteacher :
you're right... the peeing thing is sick... I'm all about cum, but urine is a completely different story... why is that?
from bare-my-soul :
just wanted to say hello. did you ever have supper at the cab driver's house? hope you're well. love rose
from ms-ashlynn :
Thanks for not being weird about what i wrote. You got under my skin Asit. I even prayed for you. Dont worry, it was a good prayer :).
from everoboto :
Yeah, I'm sure the Sniper has as much truthful stuff to say as Colin Ferguson, the last mass murdering jerk to represent himself.
from princesscris :
Heeeey! Thanks for the note love! I haven't checked who was signing stuff in a loooong time so I'm sorry this is a little (or very) late. I was like 'huh? Car? What is he talking about?' LoL. So I assume you mean the Friday Five entry... Anyway sweets take care! MUAH!
from bare-my-soul :
hey, thanks for your note. i am feeling a tad better. glad to hear you found your wallet and there is human kindness abound in this city, afterall, and no coincidence that NY loves you. i never had tickets, i was inviting you to a sports bar to WATCH the game to TV last saturday and didn't hear back. sorry charlie. let's try to get together before you leave on the 27th. love rose
from idiot-milk :
I can only assume complete sarcasm as I am A. A total dork and B. The farthest thing from cool this world has ever seen. But thank you! I have decided to pretend, at least for a while, that I AM cool!
from ionme :
Fucking guestbook. I don't think it went through but what I said was.....'Damn, looks like things have gotten complicated with Michelle, I totally didn't see THAT coming' :P I still love ya!! Oh and I would not cast aside your advice, especially from a professional standpoint. She seems like the arguing type no matter what. You know what has added fuel to the fire right?? Yeah…..
from plaidskies :
I'm currently IN town now...just totally not going anywhere til I get back from Boston at the end of the month (save a show this week that I'm helping out with tomorrow night, some Breast Cancer Walk in Central Park on Sunday and Sean's show on the 29th which I get comped for)...but definitely in November we'll hang. I PROMISE
from plaidskies :
Um, coming from a former recruiter, yes you do in fact need dates on a resume or an employer (or headhunter or agency) will throw it away. Even if it's just years, you do need to say when you worked somewhere. It's important. I know you know this already, but just wanted to tell you that you're right.
from plaidskies :
Asit, thank you for being MY friend for real! When I get back from Boston (so we're talking November) we will definitely hang. I want to see your new pad. I am going to be helping out at a concert this Thursday night-don't know if the music is your scene but if you're interested, there's 3 bands and I can tell you the info...
from bare-my-soul :
are you kidding, i am SO glad i met you. i had a great time. we need to do it again. why anyone would feel they have to lie, and to you of all people, i don't understand. don't kill yourself at the gym. not every woman wants a hard body - but i have to agree with Michaela, a good kisser is ESSENTIAL. love rose
from everoboto :
There's no way I would have paid for cigarettes if I don't even smoke! I understand why you did, but what bullshit! That really sucks.
from bare-my-soul :
i'm leaving for boston tomorrow, things are a little crazy. maybe you'd like to join me and my friends for the yankees/red sox game on saturday. call my cell and let me know. we're going to a village hangout, around 2:30. love rose
from bare-my-soul :
hey asit, what's up? let's try and get together next week. hope you're well. love rose
from ionme :
So, what did you say about me last night? ;)
from ionme :
NY underground sex scene - scary but rather exciting. I'd just love to watch!!! Have fun with Rose, behave J Ciao
from bare-my-soul :
hey there. where's your entry today? missed reading you. looking forward to a cocktail tomorrow evening. can we make it 6? let me konw, otherwise, let's shoot for 6:30. very exciting. you'll be the first person i will have met from this site! hugs, rose
from ash-rose21 :
I sent you some pictures this morning....although I failed to inform you that they would be from another email address (after all you are moving up)...why am i still at work? Can you tell me? Have I committed some awful sin?
from ms-ashlynn :
It wasnt a good morning, but at least you had a great evening :)
from ionme :
Hey! Just wanted to say that I think it's cool you share things with me. Call me anytime, I enjoy hearing from you. Ciao!
from ionme :
I just wanted to say thanks for the nice things you said about me in Rose's guestbook :) I WILL be back in NY someday, believe that!
from confused269 :
You sound a lot like myself..But an older version of myself lol...I really wanna keep up w/my dream and i hope and pray that i do. The village is a wonderful place. I go to the city as often as i can, i enjoy it so much.
from confused269 :
The ridgefield i live in is actually in CT...it says CT/NY...My dad lives in Rye NY...still bad but not as bad as ct...Neways I love the city...My dream is to live in the city and become a writer...I cant wait til the day i can leave
from confused269 :
Hey...Yea i agree...Ridgefield is not pleasent @ all...How do ya kno about it?
from ms-ashlynn :
Who can resist a man with a 1000+ count sheet set hmm? Who, who?? Who is my new favorite word for today. Makes me feel like an owl. (This is probably the closest Ill ever get to having any wisdom so I'll take it) ;)
from confused269 :
Hey, i saw ur note on my tag board...jw who u were?
from everoboto :
Empressive...I like that. I like that a lot. That fucking rules. \m/
from ms-ashlynn :
Yes way- they do heal. Or they make me think they do...and that helps too :). I love reading you. Youre so New York, and cute to boot.
from everoboto :
I am not, in fact, a member of Scanzilla's Evil Robot Army. I'm guessing you came to that assumption from my name, yes? Well, I'm the Empress of Metal Eve Roboto because I am made of metal (actually, I'm made of steel, not clay, but that's another story). How does one go about joining Scanzilla's Evil Robot Army? It seems like something I'd be suited for. Thanks for dropping me a note. \m/
from ms-ashlynn :
Asit- you cant allow me to leave leave stupid ass notes to you. Youre supposed to yell at me. "Ashlynn, stay off the drugs!!" Ill let you slide this time cause you didnt know, and because the drugs im on are actually supposed to be healing me, but still no excuse for stupid ass notes. Sorry about that. Seems you got my general meaning though. How did you do that? Are you some kind of genius? Dont get sick :).
from ionme :
your secret joural about the s.*.*.? :)
from asitwere :
Ahhh. You had tea act as 'tussin. Dad used to pour Roubitussin on our broken ankles... let that 'tussin get down to the bone, son.
from ms-ashlynn :
I so owe you an e-mail right? Forgive me, im feeling like crap right now. Tea and mil sound great. My mother used to give us all peppermint tea with evaoprated milk during the fall and winter months, and then in the spring months she would omit the tea and add lemon. The only time we didnt have tea is summer. and even then if we had any allergies- we had to drink tea or have it dropped in our eyes...dammit. Tea was a cure all hahaha. I hope youre doing good.
from ionme :
u know u better send pics this way ;)
from ms-ashlynn :
Make the drink tea Asit, and we have a deal. I just cant drink like I used to, Im getting old, and I have to watch my girlish figure of course. I hope you have a great weekend.
from ionme :
Um, who exactly are you climaxing simultaneously with? Hrmm......could it be.....???
from ms-ashlynn :
Yes, guilty as charged- I am ash-rose. It's my private journal- just boring health stuff that ive written 1 entry in haha- ill write more...eventually. you can go in if you want- the id is welcome and the pwd is friend.
from ms-ashlynn :
As far as opening lines go- your opening line for today's entry is stellar hehe. How could you not read further after that? Youre too funny. My guy friends discuss their...emasculation is it? yes they discuss it all the time. Where have you been? (j/k) although I have seen one other guy write about it in his diary before...i think its a trend. Boy meets boy did start...it's finished actually. I didnt follow it hehe- one bravo show is good enough for me, and queer eye has the spot hehe. Have fun at the concert tonight.
from cuillin :
ohhhh read your email! I'm a MORON, asit. A great big MORON.
from ms-ashlynn :
I just read your 101 and I enjoyed it alot. Youre a great writer.
from meeyapede :
My favorites on the list are #s 54, 60, 73 and 76. But I don't get the reference to sex in a Burger King bathroom. Is that in some song? I know people smoked crack in the BK on 125th I used to go to. *sigh* I miss New York.
from ionme :
Kissing in bulk, what's not to love ;) I kiss the occasional straight guy haha
from ionme :
Hell, even my gay friends have kissed me. I love kissing. When I'm drunk I'm a make-out bandit. It doesn't mean a whole lot, but it's fun.
from peth :
my male friends do not kiss me. hm.
from hotj14 :
heyy...u sound cool...check out my diary sometime and tell me what u think!
from ordinarykat :
congrats on meeting a new frnd.
from plaidskies :
I just read your 101 things. I also have one of those somewhere in my entries. I should send you the link (but I think that its 100 entries, not 101)
from plaidskies :
I haven't gotten any IM's from you (but since I don't answer IMs of people I don't recognize, it's possible that you did IM me.) I'll take a look at your entry though.
from plaidskies :
I had no choice after reading your diary entries...I mean really! Now I'm intrigued.
from princesscris :
Aww! Shucks! Thanks for reading my diary. It's not as cool as alot of other diaries out ther but this is me and if I'm a lame ass so be it! Ciao
from ionme :
you new yorkers are confusing, you say one thing and throw in a bunch of comments that can mean 5 different things. jeesh, i don't get it.
from habbit :
beep beep. for the 4th we're having a small bbq, nothing too special. whats up w/ you?
from ionme :
I talked about u in first entry of today.
from pollux :
indeed i am.
from pollux :
tell me more -- your name's nowhere on the lease? is it a rent stabilized building (six or more units in the building, built between 1947 and 1974)? unfortunately, your landlord's not required to automatically give you a lease at the end of your roommate's lease term, unless you can show you had a particular kind of relationship with your roommate, characterized by financial and emotional interdependence. that normally means long-term gay and lesbian couples, or other non-traditional families. mandatory disclaimer: of course, none of this is legal advice -- simply what i know about these situations. :)
from minibarbie :
LOL! You're going to be sorry that you offered b/c I might actually take you up on that qualitative data lesson!
from minibarbie :
Geez, Asit, that's a damn impressive vita. Can I be you when I grow up? ;o)
from ionme :
Hey! I just go to other diaries and click on their design link to find new templates....you get a wide variety that way. :)
from not-it :
thanks for reading me and leaving a note. i've enjoyed your entries very much as well. us robotarmy recrutes ought to stick together. i got your back blood. peace~k
from minderella :
please do me a favor and don't mention my diary to your friend.. i try to keep it out of the school community as much as possible.. i'd really appreciate it. thanks! and thank you for all your comments!!
from justcircles :
did you freaking search "assjuice" on google? 'cause somebody did... and found your truly...
from frail :
after viewing your diary i can return the compliment. thanks! : )
from tasks :
Think Philly and posing in front of a limo. :)
from dry-pavement :
i live in my birks. tan colored massages down my dry-pavement.
from orgasmdonor :
i'm really glad. i don't get to write them as often since i spend most of my time updating my normal diary, but when i do, i have a lot of fun with them and i'm glad you do too.
from peth :
i cannot laugh at your jokes now, because they are locked up~!!
from viperj :
down to the point...thats what its all about!
from scanzilla :
You should come to the Murderous Orgy too. It's going to be a drunken strangers good time. :)
from deliberate :
Thanks for the nice comment in my guestbook (I forget that other people ever read my journal). Your design is really lovely as well! It's a nice way to pass my time on a Monday morning.

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