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from moviegrrl :
OHMIGOD - you're back!!!! Honey I've been so very worried about you, and you sound so down. If there's anything I can do to help, please give me a shout. (Hows about a free template to start you off???)
from cmkern3 :
Where are you?????
from moviegrrl :
are you still alive? I'm worried now. An email please blue, at the VERY least xxxx
from calliope1779 :
alcohol is alcohol. you know, a lot of people would love to be in your position, with not so many ties and what not. if you had a family and a minivan and all that, you'd probably feel suffocated. you need a good romp under the covers and you'll feel all better. *pets* nice site, btw
from cmkern3 :
Awwwwwwwwwwww.... :( :( Things will get BETTER, keep your head up!!! And there's nothing wrong with a $2.50 bottle o' wine!
from cmkern3 :
Oh I so hope everything's okay!! Just so you know, I had to password protect the good ol' diary so if you'd like access, email me @ [email protected] with a username and password K? Cya around!! Update often dammit!!
from cmkern3 :
I'm so glad you're okay (and I know to use that term loosely!) Things will get better. They will. It's hard to see that right now in the midst of everything, but someday soon you'll look back and laugh at how chaotic and depressing and crazy things are right now and you'll laugh and laugh. Or of course they could get worse and you'll look back and think "Ahhh those were the good old days!" Either way, you will survive. <---insert Gloria Gaynor song here.
from cmkern3 :
Okay - its been OVER A MONTH since you updated!!! I'm freaking out!!
from cmkern3 :
Where ARE YOU?????
from cmkern3 :
Ok hon...you're really freaking me out now...it's been like - 2.4 years since you last updated!!! Where ARE YOU???? IS EVERYTHING OKAY??
from cmkern3 :
Hey...GOOD LUCK with mom this next week!!!
from cmkern3 :
Wow. I grew up with an alcoholic father - and reading your entry was like looking right into my childhood. I have to go now -more later. Sorry things are not going good!!
from lizardspace :
Neither of my parents has a problem with alcohol, but the picture you've painted about the feelings it generates in you seems painfully similar to some totally different issues I have with my mother. Basically, what it boils down to is *you* having to be the grown-up and the caretaker, and something feels so wrong about that no matter how old you are. I have no words of wisdom, but I'll be thinking of you and wishing you well.
from moviegrrl :
ta for the note, I'm glad someone got what i was on about..... S
from moviegrrl :
oh babe.... makes my mom's problem look like a picnic. I'll be thinking of you all next week. {CYBER HUG} Sas
from moviegrrl :
you know i was thinking about you earlier and hoping everything was alright and WOAH! you're back again. don;t stay away so long, we *worry*.....
from cmkern3 :
Oh where oh where has bluenuisance gone? Oh where oh where can she beeeeee??? Hope you're not lost in Portland, desperately seeking a new husband that unpacks?!?!?!
from cmkern3 :
Ahhhh....I'm afraid it IS a guy thing, but not in the way you're thinking: men need to be told what to do. When they get older, they go from living with literal mommy, to living with acquired mommy (you). Had you called him every day and said "OK, now I need you to put the legs on the kitchen table and unpack the glasses" then it would have been done. The problem is though, while they NEED an acquired mommy, this is often the one thing they bitch about their mates! Its a classic "you're damned if you do, and you're damned if you don't" I'm afraid. Good luck to ya hon!
from lizardspace :
For what it's worth, I think it's just a trait inherent in guyhood and not so much an indication that he doesn't think about you and your needs. Well, at least not a malicious indication. Not that it doesn't suck out loud or anything. You have both my empathy, and my sympathy.
from cmkern3 :
Wow!! It really sucks that you're no longer my neighbor - I really enjoyed reading the entries about things-I-know!! HOWEVER, it ROCKS that you've moved to the west coast! I've wanted to move to Seattle-Tacoma-anywhere-Washington area for SOO long!! I am very jealous and am pouting.
from moviegrrl :
welcome back babe! missed you!
from treblecleff :
I'm guessing that I had a worse time at those NOW dances than you did. They must have been pretty awful, because I can't remember a thing about them - except that they existed and that I know I went to at least one. One thing is becoming clear, though. My long-time office supply fetish is becoming less and less mysterious. I've looked all over this damn thing to find out who you are, and can't establish it for the life of me. Of course, the day after you move to Portland is the day I find this diary entry with my name in it. That about figures. I gotta' know. Who ARE you?
from moviegrrl :
good luck. hope it's not too stressful and come back and tell us all about it soon. xxxxxxxx
from lizardspace :
Just read your recent entry, and I can totally sympathize. Well, not totally, since I have had the "make a baby" experience, but given my recent history, I know how you must feel when it seems like everyone around you is pregnant. I have no words of wisdom, just big hugs.
from sins-to-tell :
If you have a dark secret to tell.....come rid yourself of the guilt in this public diary.
from lizardspace :
Hee. My little gift to you. Of course, I stole it also. And yeah, it's pretty fucking long, but it caused me to not have to think, and really, that's all I was looking for today. Yesterday's entry sucked enough ass.
from dichroic :
Maybe Brittany just has a really really good makeup person and an even better computer effects person and didn't starve herself at all. Yeah, it's not likely, but at least it's possible. (Rumor has it that Whitney Houston or someone had an appearance where she was *too thin* and they had to digitally add weight.)
from lizardspace :
I must be 12 years old. The fart thing almost made me wet my pants.
from trancejen :
Lord, you IMed the boss. Oh God. Good luck!!!!!
from silleehed :
ouchie. good luck with lil' boss man!
from splorch :
oh my *god*, it truly was the creepiest one I've seen in a while. Dawn's scenes terrified me. I cannot, cannot, cannot wait for this week.
from silleehed :
way to tactfully tell off cheap rug. i wish i had such a fluid thought process. also, i was touched by the letter to mr. blue. i would suggest having a recommitment ceremony soon after you reunite. it is an amazing feeling looking into the eyes of the one you adore while making a big deal of it. anyway, like your diary. -charlotte
from moviegrrl :
you think i'm awesome? you're so sweet... big smiles Sas
from moviegrrl :
woah. just read"if i could change one thing" it must have taken a hell of a lot to write that. i send love to your 14 year old self, and even bigger love to you for getting past it and being happy now. Sas
from lizardspace :
The chewing thing had me snorting out loud, which isn't something I do all that often. To the Buddy List with you.
from splorch :
sweetie, I will be up to five by the new episode. To hell with the low riders; why do they insist on pairing them with a belly shirt and a ruffle? She looks pregnant. I think Spike's hair will be gelled back next week, from the preview. I love the grown-out color, though. I think if he gets less crazy the hair will work again. Right now I just want to sing boyband songs.
from dichroic :
Um, Pearl Harbor was *December* 7, 1941. But don't feel bad -- George Bush senior got it wrong too, and he was talking to a veterans' group at the time. And he actually was a Navy aviator (they don't like to say 'pilot') in that war.
from splorch :
dude! are you *me*? seriously! I am off to ask my family if I had a twin shipped to the Midwest at an early age...you hang in there, too, babe, and email me should you need to talk.
from thecritic :
Hey I know a swimming excercise that shouldn't wear you out that much! Doggy paddle... of course that'll make you look like a complete asshole floundering in pool... maybe I shouldn't give advice hehe
from cmkern3 :
Hilarious...fucking hilarious - your entry on Ravinia was most excellent. Having been there myself and noticing the same things you did, I can completely relate. How scary is it that teenagers were at the Doobey Bros anyway? I'm just saying...
from cmkern3 :
Hi there - - Uncle Bob sent me, and I'm glad he did....good reading! :) http://cmkern3.diaryland.com
from bluenuisance :
Hee. I'm glad my schizophrenia is good for something!
from trancejen :
LMFAO. Love your note below. Just wanted to say thank for the note. Knowing you could eat glass for your kid is just about like knowing you could eat glass for your spouse. A little different but not much.
from bluenuisance :
Hey, me? How are you? I know, you're hoping someone else has left a note. Well, one day. If you're lucky.

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