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from bantenhut :
I know you posted a while back, but congratulations! :)
from fitofdestiny :
Can we be excited for you yet? lol.
from fitofdestiny :
I hope everything is going well honey. I wish you all the luck with everything. Hopefully we'll see another entry from you soon... *hugs*
from omfggwtf :
i think this is really interesting so i added you.. hope you don't mind? :) x
from fitofdestiny :
I know you wrote it awhile ago (almost a month), but I just wanted to let you know that it wasn't just you. Though it wasn't morning for me, my man had a similar problem once. I think mens minds can get occupied just like ours can. They can be plagued by insecurities and left defenseless by worry. It probably had nothing to do with you, he just had a little too much blood left in his brain. I had a similar worry and upset that there was something wrong with me, having tried everything from positions to mere head. Still, I slowly lost that worry after a few out of this world nights since.
from bantenhut :
How cute! As it's over now, hope it went well!
from bantenhut :
I don't think you should just 'take what you can get,' as you said, it sounds a bit defeatist to me. I'm sure there's got to be a way to gently suggest something to make it better for the both of you. Let him know in a sweet way that you'd like to get busy more often. And then again this was only one instance, and less-than-great sex is bound to happen in long relationships. Granted, I've never been with a guy for longer than a month, and I've never had sex, but that's the kind of advice I hear about such things. And of course it's all about communication. Speak up!
from lanienaked :
i hate being on top! i dunno how you do it. i am so lazy. i'm almost always on bottom.
from indiebones :
You know... I wonder the same thing about boobs. I guess that's because, to me, boobs are just a couple of lumps that sort of sit there and look, uh, pretty? I can't imagine the size of them actually being a deal-breaker.
from whystinger :
Being a man, I don't know about woman and size issues, never was with a size queen. I do know and love boobs. Big and small boobs are not a deal breaker for me. For me, fake boobs are the deal breaker. I would prefer a woman with small, tiny boobs to someone with a large set of fake boobs.
from katrinaox :
Im not sure if its to all woman, but size DOES make a difference, although I personally dont have a preference. If im being intimate with a man then I care about them enough to not care about how big/small he is. Im the kind of girl that loves to give oral, so its nice to see a bigger penis, because its much more fun. hahaha
from lanienaked :
also, just saw your message. readers/welcome ;)
from lanienaked :
i've had sex with only 2 guys, but i have seen 3 others. penis size does make a difference to some extent. average is about 5 and a half or 6 inches. my current bf is about 7 and i think it makes a difference. the previous guy i dated was smaller and having a well endowed guy is a lot better! however, being really big is bad and will hurt girls, so it's not bad to be average. and plus, if it gets too big, it's harder to give a good blow job lol
from blazingstar :
Well, I don't have that much experience with this either since I've only been with three guys. I actually think it's hard to say if size really matters. I was pretty happy with my first until I had sex with my second, and the sex was WAY better with the second. #2 also happened to be bigger. But not longer, I don't think, just fatter. (Hahaha is this way too much information?!) In any case, I then went back to #1 after dumping #2 and the sex definitely felt disappointing ever after (much as I hated to admit it). But I think the size wasn't really the issue - it was more that #2 really knew how to use it. Also, I've never been with someone who's abnormally large, so I don't know what that's like. I imagine that at a certain point it could get painful. #3 seems perfect to me but I don't think I would have needed to experience 1 and 2 to know that. Haha, I feel like Goldilocks - "and the third was juuust right!"
from swimmmer72 :
I can only relate what various girlfriends have told me. It isn't the size of the wand; it's the music it makes. As far as how (if) that correlates to how guys feel about breasts, I think some guys like big breasts, some like small breasts, but a lot of guys care more about the woman they're attached to. I'm betting the same holds true for women and how they feel about a penis.
from blazingstar :
I can relate because my boyfriend is a workaholic. I was feeling frustrated last night too because he asked me to sleep in the other room so he could get a better night's sleep because he had to be up early this morning and he was stressed out. I've come to expect this from him now and then but it still makes me a little sad because it's one way that he and I are so different. I would never want to sleep without him. Anyway, in response to your entry, I can never understand WHY a guy would reject sex. Aren't guys supposed to want it ALL the time? But in reality I often find that I'm way more in the mood than he is, a LOT of the time. It seems like everything has to be perfect for him to want to do it. No work to do, no deadlines hanging over his head, at least 9 hours remaining before wakeup time (to make sure there's a full night's sleep after sex), no worries, must be in a great mood, etc etc. So when I look at it that way, I'm surprised we EVER have sex! I feel like I approach sex very differently, like even if I'm busy or stressed out, sometimes I want to do it because it might cheer me up. But he only wants to do it if everything else is perfect. It sounds like your husband might be that way too sometimes. Anyway, I'm curious to know how the night turned out...
from yihatepeople :
congratulations
from fitofdestiny :
That's wonderful hon.
from bantenhut :
Awww, that sounds like it's definitely a step in the right direction! :) What if y'all used birth control pills and condoms? Seems like it would be fine then, but I don't know. You know your situation best, I've never donated my eggs.
from swimmmer72 :
What you write about is pretty common among many long-term couples, married or not. It's happened with some of my relationships more than others, and for some long and some short time periods. Once it starts, it's hard to break out of especially if it goes on for a while. Being the initiator is always risky, but it needs to be tried, especially if it is getting to be a problem. I was lucky - most of my relationships, this was never much of a problem. I hope you are able to get past this.
from fledgling- :
I really enjoy reading your writings here though I wish you updated more often than not.
from newlywedblis :
Congratulatiosn on a good day! Those are so wonderful when you find them....
from newlywedblis :
:) Always nice to find a kindred spirit. I often feel like I'm out here on my own..... Feel free to comment over there as well (I'm going to put a link in eventually)--you don't have to have an account, I've even enabled the anonymous postings if you're more comfy with that. :)
from contatto :
love the honesty with which you write! i don't think there is anyone out there that doesn't feel the same way that you do at one time or another... thanks for writing!
from the-moo :
I LOVE showersex... not so much in our tiny cubicle but showers over baths are great because you can stand on the edge of the bath to get some extra height!! :o) I love coming here and reading your honest words - thank you for sharing this stuff! xxx
from bantenhut :
Yay! Good for you! Oh, I'm happy for you and I don't even know you. It's so weird, this internet! Ha. Anyway, thanks for writing about this stuff. Like that other commenter said, I appreciate your candor.
from swimmmer72 :
Almost nothing better than make-up sex. I'm glad you got yours. There are few things more difficult than navigating two people's sexual needs, especially in this day and age. :)
from the-moo :
Hey I've not been about for a LONG time now but I've just been catching up with your diary.. thank you for continuing to write this stuff and also. what you're doing with the eggs.. AMAZING!! :oD you're are WONDERFUL xxx
from pattypat :
I just wanted to let you know I read your diary from cover to cover and I appreciate your candor. It was refreshing to know that after 17 years of marriage, lots of the things that I think are unique to me, me, me are just not. Congratulations to you and your husband. I wish you many, many additional years of wedded happiness!
from ceilings :
good luck and get laid!
from fitofdestiny :
Oh, I forgot to add, you'll have to let me know how that egg donation goes and stuff. I've thought about it and I really want to, but I'm scared to death.
from fitofdestiny :
Yea!!! I missed you! I look forward to reading again. I'm glad all is well hon. *hugs*
from bantenhut :
I'm glad you're back! Hope you're here to stay.
from aglaia :
I was so happy to have stumbled upon you through a link from another diary-land favorites list...only to be bummed you haven't written in a year! Come back, what's happening?
from poetlucia :
that last entry is so true and if you keep thinking like you in for a wonderful blissful long married ride...Good luck
from beautigirl :
I am so glad I found your journal. It is so interesting to read from the female prospective because so many guys write about sex, you are so open about it. I love that whole idea about the “penny in the jar” thing but at the same time it seems so silly. You are so brave to be waxing like that. Just a question though, do you plan on ever having children? I look forward to reading more of your entries. Jenna
from poetlucia :
My hubby is a ripper too when he gets too excited but it's great to have you back again. I been having a little Drama in my life that has taken up my journal but after my hubby gets back Oct.2 It going to go back to my sex diary instead of letting out all my issues,thoughts and feeling on stupid stuff. Man, good to have you back :)
from poetlucia :
I have a password for my diary, I sent to your e-mail so I hope you got it and all is well.
from poetlucia :
Hope your sisters wedding was awesome and all is well here so can't wait for you to write more
from poetlucia :
hey, how are you doing. Did you pick up that book? Hope all is well with you.
from bantenhut :
yes, you're right...honestly, I think I was looking to be mad in that entry. My mother started yelling at me about how I was so innocent and wouldn't know sexual harassment if it hit me in the face, so I was furious, and the fury turned to those punks, which is probably just what my mother wanted, anyway. They probably deserved the wrath, heh. At the sandwich shop we're not really waitresses per se, and we certainly don't serve any alcohol. I've heard that with alcohol comes bigger tips and hornier customers. So yeah...you're right! And thanks for the note!
from fitofdestiny :
Men like the idea of two chicks. One, they like the idea that the chicks may do some lesbian action while in bed with them, and two, they like the idea that theres two chicks there to please them... Double the pleasure, double the fun kinda thing. I agree though, I could never do that...
from poetlucia :
I am not sure why people fine them sexy but I know we all think about them. Me and my husband are the same way. We thought about it but when we thought about it we both didn't want to share "that" with someone else and it would be hard for us to even think about the other with someone else. It looks good on television but is not for everybody.
from fitofdestiny :
ROFL. Yeah... Semi-similar things have happened with me and mine. Oh well. Such is life. Hope everythings going well.
from poetlucia :
That is great, it happens to everyone but I have this great book I think you would love...e-mail at hazelsweetp@yahoo.com when you get a chance. It is a must read for any women in a relationship
from the-moo :
hehehe my sex life is full of stupid trips and falls and sex that ends up disolving into giggles... I mean there's plenty of the kinky naughty stuff too but it's the REAL LIFE sex I like the most!!!! *hugs* xxx
from mehiel :
Ditto fitofdestiny. What I like about being married is that I don't have to "impress" guys any longer. I don't have to feel intimidated, when faced with a really attractive man. I never really enjoyed the part where I wondered what they thought of me--but maybe that's just me. In any case, relish in your strange new freedom: the freedom to be yourself!
from fitofdestiny :
Been there. Still kind of am. It's normal. Hate to say this, but he will probably go through it too, if he isn't already. However, try to remember that there are a lot of single people out there that want nothing more than what you have. The world can be a scary place when you fear you will never find love... Anyway, it will pass eventually.
from poetlucia :
don't beat yourself up with the feelings that your having. You love your husband and you seem to have good commuation about it. It not wrong to wonder you know. It makes me feel good when a guy ask me out or says something sweet to me but it doens't mean I am going to go cheat on my husband. Your fine and it is ok.
from poetlucia :
Hey if you go into your local sex shop they fruit sprays that you can spray on your vagina(I think i spelled right) so when he goes down town he can get a taste of strawberry or bubble gum,lol. It can be cute and fun : )
from poetlucia :
Congrads Finding out more about what you like sexually and what you both enjoy together sexually.......69 is a awesome thang...I love it
from poetlucia :
Welcome to my world....I enjoy giving my husband head or I like to call it a blow job and there are a whole lot of blow job tricks to Wow your man with. I think if you have a good man he is thankful that you did that because he knows he gets the better end of it... so Good for you
from the-moo :
I LOVE giving head GENUINELY LOVE IT!! Gareth is spoiled for blowjobs he only has to THINK about it and there is his wife greedy for suckylove!! haha that sounded so rank but yeah... Glad he enjoyed it!! glad you enjoyed it too! xxx
from poetlucia :
I loved your last entry, it was really nice and really sweet. bravo on the new careers and good luck. :)
from poetlucia :
How is was your weekend?, Life keeping you pretty busy? Hope all is well : )
from poetlucia :
yes pregnancy happens when you least expect it and no one no matter what anyones says no one is ever truely ready for it. Being married isn't always candy and roses or any relationship for that matter. It the tough times that are the "true test" so to speak, You may not be jumping off the walls with sex or kissing and holding hands everywhere but it doesn't mean you don't love eachother or the passion is all dead. This may not seem like the best time in your relationship but you will one day look back and say it made you and your relationship stronger, hopefully you both with come out of it more in love and will have greater respect for the other. Your diary was me exaclty 2years ago so your diary helps me remember what got us to point we are now....I love reading yours aswell
from poetlucia :
I guess you would know about trying to have great sex while visiting the in-laws. Your anniversary is coming close, you got married in october right? are you planning a romantic getway ; ).
from poetlucia :
I am actually visiting the in-laws aswell, things are not as nice and stress free with my in-laws but sneaking private time has been fun
from poetlucia :
I am vacation but I love your diary and wanted to stop and say hi. Nothing like a break to help you deal with drama,lol. So what going on ? whats new?
from the-moo :
aaaaaaaaaaw you called me cool *blush* hehe I can't always think of a suitable comment but I LOVE your diary don't EVER stop writing! xxx
from randh :
Damn right planning a wedding is hard! It's really annoying to constantly be nagged about a bunch of decisions that I'm not yet ready to make. I really just want to be married and out of here. However, the wedding will be a beautiful day, and I'm very much looking forward to it, despite all my bitching about it!
from poetlucia :
sexual commuinication is so important to enjoying yourself and your partner. I really enjoy reading your diary. Love is isn't perfect neither is sex but its finding joy it that, that truly makes it worth it. stop by sometime and leave me a note : )
from mehiel :
I'm really glad you found something that works for you!
from bugger-this :
The cramp factor was a particular concern for me since last year i went through a phase of really bad ones, I'm talking people on buses asking if I'd like them to call an ambulance... so I was worried that would come back, it hasn't. For me the cramps have been pissy little annoying ones that don't hurt too much but last a little longer. Glad you're enjoying the random encounters ;o)
from misspinkkate :
I was hoping for a more detailed explaination of what it's like to get the IUD inserted, etc- care to elaborate?
from poetlucia :
I am glad It is working for you, and just incase anyone wanted to know playgirl mag has a full page spread on the device, it tells you everything you want to know so check it out if you can
from misspinkkate :
Congrats on the IUD thing- I'm very curious to hear about how it works out.
from bantenhut :
One thing about those horror stories--if I had a horror story, I would be more likely to write it than if everything went well. It's fun to complain, I guess. best wishes!
from poetlucia :
I hope it works for you and everything goes well
from poetlucia :
my entries have been less about sex lately either, I having sex but I just have other things on my mind so I feel you on that one...The whole hair maybe it there to keep us warm because back in day we use to run around naked. I must agree with you I like no hair but i often do fun designs with my hair down there instead of going completely uncovered. Once you get use to the IUD you will like it but it isn't for everybody
from bugger-this :
Hey there, I got mine in just after my period and it took about a month for my body to get used to it. I was told to go back for a check up about 6 weeks later which I did this week, all is good. It's definitely one of my better ideas, lol, for the both of us. It's effective as soon as its in place though my doc did advise sticking to condoms for the first week afterward. Hope everything goes well for you
from poetlucia :
IUD is a great idea, glad that your working it out and him too :) lol
from poetlucia :
I hope things work out at the doctors for you too
from fitofdestiny :
I hope everything works out at the doctors.
from a-kurai-chan :
i found your diary from one of those banner things on the top and i read your newest entry....and you're doing the right thing in getting birth control!! me and my partner have the same problem with condoms...they ruin everything, and he can't perform...so we did it anyway...and it led to hell..... so i guess the point of this note is saying that i'm admiring you....you're doing what i couldn't afford to do and saving you and your husband a world of hell...... and sex is always good ~_^
from mehiel :
I frequently walk around the house in my underwear. Now imagine if I had that much sexy underwear! I would start thinking of your lingerie as exactly what it once was "something a little more comfortable." Instead of those flannel pants and sweatshirts, throw on something silky. Then ask your husband to keep you warm!
from fitofdestiny :
lol. I don't see the point either, but I suppose its supposed to add to the man's desire to have you and just make it a little different instead of the same old sex. *shrugs* I myself prefer to add sex toys instead of sexy outfits, but whatever. I think that is more of a surprise them when they get home kind of thing though.
from mehiel :
Condoms don't have to be annoying, either. Keep them close by, buy some fun ones (although make sure your lubricants are condom-safe, and that you don't use condoms with nonoxyl-9), and so on. Also, you may feel awkward now, but you'd feel twice as awkward if you were pregnant. You think your guy feels bad about wearing a condom? Think about keeping quiet so the munchkins don't wake up! Think about morning sickness and swollen ankles and losing out on promotions because of maternity leave! If he ever dares to complain about wearing a condom, tell him to contemplate being a father. Tell him how the pill elevates your risk for breast cancer. You'll hear a different tune soon enough.
from poetlucia :
My Husband and I hate condoms, but when we did use them we found ways to stay in the mood when putting them on. my favorite is the mouth trick, where you put it on him with you mouth..... Condoms aren't the best but when you have to use them you can be creative.
from fitofdestiny :
Condoms can be annoying, I agree, although you learn to carry them with you everywhere. Also, putting one on can be fun and done together. If you feel REALLY bad about him having to wear it, there are female condoms, although they aren't quite as good as the male ones.
from bugger-this :
I recently got the Coil (IUD). They offered me the Mirena (IUS) which is the same as the Coil but instead of copper it releases a hormone, but I declined because I have enough hormones already thankyou very much. But yeah, the IUD... it's a little uncomfortable to have done and your body takes a little time getting used to it, but it's made my love life a little easier (random sex in various places, wooohoo!)... hope this helps xxx
from mehiel :
Hah--I'm one of those women with multiple orgasms. And in the words of one Seinfeld episode: "They're real, and they're fantastic!"
from fitofdestiny :
ROFL! I'm definitely going to start reading...
from the-moo :
*huuuuuuuuuuugs* xxx
from me-me-meee :
In regards to your January 30th entry, I've heard that something like 70% of all women have never had an orgasm from intercourse, because of the way our nerve receptors or something are. I, personally, get the once is enough thing the majority of the time. It's too sensitive after the first to give forth anymore effort. I'm not saying multiple ones are impossible, but most of the women thinking they're having one are probably just getting more feel-good sensations and think it's an orgasm because that can peak too. Kind of the difference between coming and orgasming, I suppose.
from mehiel :
The patch is dangerous anyway, because it releases very high levels of estrogen into the body--higher than the pill, in fact. If you're looking for something with less hormones, I would suggest an IUD. Traditionally, doctors don't give them to women who haven't had babies, yet, because their cervixes are still very tight. However, the method is nearly foolproof. There are dangers of complications, like ectopic pregnancy and uterine scarring, so you should ask your doctor, and do your research. But if you love the natural feel, think about it. The new plastic-sheathed IUD's aren't the same as the dangerous ones from the '70's. Your gynecologist will know more, so ask her if you're interested.
from poetlucia :
diaphragm--- isn't bad except it can be painful sometimes but its a good idea if you want kids later on and not the moods swings of the patch. I hope things keep picking up for you. Also remember there are some great new condoms out so you can also experiment with those :) :) :) have a good one doll
from poetlucia :
I love reading your diary it gives me in sight on different ways of life. I agree don't give up your sex life, it hard at first to find a balance but you will get there. I know all about being too busy but love and your relationship can go beyold that. My hubby is in the military and I am a nurse, We have children believe me its hard but we commuicate well, express our needs and enjoy having sex with eachother so we find a balance. It will all work out given time.
from mehiel :
You sound so resigned, and so sad. Don't give up! Your sex life is what you make of it. If the lack of sex concerns you, bring it up! I'm still interested to see where your life will go. If you aren't having a lot of sex, and you think it's because of stress, use this diary to document those stressors. Look for patterns. Talk it out. You might feel a lot better.
from the-moo :
aaw sweetie don't worry about it... life is like that - things just get in the way but you'll haev times where it's almost every day and others where you'll go months.. your diary will STILL be interesting and you'll be more in love than ever whatever goes on!! xxx
from the-moo :
this my friend.. was a very thought provoking entry.. I have this debate (in my own head mostly) many times... I enjoyed your input xxx
from bugger-this :
To me "fitting" with someone is about the chemistry as opposed to the literal sense. I'm not married, and I the first time I slep with my man I had no idea where we would end up. Now almost two years on all we ever talk about is our future together... I've totally forgotten my oringal point to this. Anyway, everyone has their own ideals and such. Sex has never been important to me in any sense, but to save myself for marriage where Michael is concerned... could never happen! I love him too much and want to be near him all the time... Some people say that us sleeping together now will make the wedding night less special. I don't think that's true. It will be very special because we'd be sleeping together as husband and wife for the first time. Love all round. I'm rambling now. Awww but I love you and your married sex. xxxxxx hugs.
from poetlucia :
(newlywed disillusionment) There is no rule on how many times a couple should or shouldn't have sex. If you have a good relationship you find ways to work things out sexually and get creative. My hubby and I have horrible schedules but we find time to get together. We love eachother and sex with eachother so we find ways to make it happen and it is always good even if we have to do quickies during a lunch break. Hang in there things get better once you firgure them out.
from flicka :
Hey, at least you're "doing-it". I'm waiting on this professor to ask me out. I have hit the peak years and need a man (or woman) to be with. It's been far too long! I'm jealous that you occasionally get weekend sex! If you see/hear from Kevin (man I want), tell him Flicka would really like to date him. Agh.
from kungfukitten :
re: crying. Do you work out regularly? From stuff I've read (and experienced personally), it can raise your mood and make you feel great about your body which is also good for sex. I appreciate you being so candid! I've never been married but have been in some long term relationships and lived with someone. Oh yeah, can I relate. ;)
from mehiel :
Hey, I've got news! Check out the diary, if you like. :)
from mehiel :
I think that it's wonderful, how honest you're being. You're right, marriage does get hard, and so can sex. But you will get through it, especially if you believe in yourself, your partner, and your relationship.
from the-moo :
Im the oposite he's the tired one in our relationship... and honestly.. I don't mind I love him enough and there's no hurry to have ALL of the sex now when we're busiest.. it can wait!! *hugs* xxx
from zayedd :
I love reading your diary. You're so honest about everything. I'm also newly married. & I know how you feel. I live in New York and my husband Zayed, lives in Bangladesh. I'm gonna see him after 1 year. I'm going back at the end of this year. Can't wait to see him.
from mehiel :
Good for you!
from cutiepie1983 :
Hi there! I've been reading for a few weeks already. I love how honest you are in your diary and don't seem to hide anything. But, what's up with the not having sex in your parents house? What goes on in a bedroom is nobody else's business then those two people. When I am over at my boyfriend's house and we start getting all over each other (just foreplay, due to the fact that I know what you were talking about losing your virginity), we don't care who's in the house, who's not, how loud we get or what. And we're not even married. I say, you have more right to do it whenever you want. And if you can't (like you had talked about in one of your entry) then you can't. When I am with Casey, it's like, I am happy doing whatever with him, even though the foreplay is amazing, I still doing the little things with him. My point is....oh, I have no point...lol. Happy New Year girl! ~Nancy~
from the-moo :
woohoo now THAT'S what I'm talking about ;-) hehe xxx
from the-moo :
do it on her floor surely that doesn't count?? or go out in the car.. that's what we tended to do at his parents!! *hugs* also the shower thing... TOTALLY OK!! ;-) xxx
from poetlucia :
I love your diary. I am newly married and we were both virgin apond getting married. I can relate.
from the-moo :
when you're married sex is approriate in all places at all times ;-) enjoy it!! xxx
from the-moo :
I so badly need to refind that confidence!! thank you for being inspiring!! *hugs* xxx
from mehiel :
Good for you! Take the reins!
from misspinkkate :
You go girl! You take control!
from mehiel :
There's a really good book out called 101 Days of Spontaneity. Or something like that. It's full of cards for each partner to pull out. There are instructions for fun things to do on each card, and tips for how to accomplish them. Might make a great Christmas gift...
from the-moo :
totally agree lovely xxx
from astralounge :
What an interesting topic for a diary. (That's why they say sex sells, I guess!) Found you from a banner, and I look forward to reading more!
from mehiel :
Quit the patch. It increases a woman's risk for stroke threefold, even when she's in her twenties!! The FDA will soon be issuing warnings about the patch. I'm on it now, and can't wait to be off. I'm switching to a low-dose pill, I think. Also, your husband might find that more exercise will help. Most men who exercise, even the ones on medication, find that they have better bloodflow and endurance. Remember, if it's good for the heart, it's good for the penis!
from randh :
awesome stuff. a great perspective
from jaclyn-renee :
maybe animals do enjoy it, and we just don't know it. Anyway, yeah. i thought about sex a lot more before i had it.
from the-moo :
hey there!! welcome back xxx
from mehiel :
Marriage and sex should happen together, at the same time. He's still married to you while he has sex with you, right? Have sex during the week, if you want it!
from kyoske :
I added you to my friend's list. I hope you don't mind. I just find your view of points really interesting, and somewhat different from what I've read before.
from jaclyn-renee :
hey i read your diary. i just wanna say that i appreciate how honest it is. I'm recently married and still trying to figure out sex as well.
from bugger-this :
hello there, my beloved Moo recommended your diary so I came along to say hey... I second what Meheil said, all guys (whether they bug you to do it or not) secretly want you to see to yourself in front of them. xxx happy humping to you both and much love xxxx
from mehiel :
If your husband really loves you, he wants you to love yourself. If anything, he should be turned on by the thought of you masturbating. So go ahead and do it! It's your body, and you can do what you like with it.
from mehiel :
so sorry! the username and password are: reader.
from mehiel :
Hey, I just added you to my favorites. :) I'm glad your man can be "grateful." It would be a sad thing if newlyweds settled into a rut too soon. And congratulations on your marriage, and your love life!
from chazzyboy :
You haven't a clue who I am (actually just random clicked your diary) but in all honesty, coming from a guy who works 13 hours a day, I can understand what he means, but more than that, I see his honesty with you as something that perhaps means more the spontaneity of that desired encounter. I'm certain that just from reading that one entry, the passion is still there. Don't worry about the "rejection" and keep doing things like this if it means that much to you, because it'll make the times when he's actually ready that much... more. Anyway, this is just a little rambling from a random person. Have a good one. - Chaz.
from the-moo :
don't worry about it honey seriously I know EXACTLY how you feel!! *hugs* xxx
from the-moo :
I feel my horniest then.. which used to be a problem because I felt way to dirty to do anything during that time... but actually.. sorry to be disgusting.. but it's not as messy as you'd think.. we do it a lot then.. it feels better! orgasms are AMAZING when you're on!! oh yes!! xxx
from the-moo :
I'm glad you're going to keep writing xxx
from the-moo :
just read the three entries you've made and added you!! I had the realisation about being married not long ago when my friend got engages and I looked through a wedding magazine and realised.. I'd DONE mine! it was oddly sad but at the same time... thrilling! I'm rambling now! xxx
from the-moo :
OOH I'm your first message that's soo exciting!! (yes I am easily pleased) anyway yes thank you for dropping by and leaving me a nore I've never heard of the birth control patch maybe we don't have it here.. I shall investigate though! xxx

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