messages to evildilara:
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from iamlearning :
little pig little pig... let me in! [email protected] pretty pretty please with sugar on top!
from f-girl :
oh. i am a dork. ignore earlier message. i figger'd it out..... :o)
from f-girl :
woah! you're locked.... if you doooon't mind, i'd love the password. you can email me: [email protected]
from applerobot :
bugger! i missed the radio show! also... i didnt know you had some locked entries.
from noaddedme :
Can I have your password for the private entries? Plllllllllllllease?!? [email protected]
from beckers-j :
No tv in the bedroom would be a great idea except that our bedroom (in our current place) will never be just a bedroom because it's the whole second floor. All of Ted's guitar equipment is up there, the computer, etc. And we'd have no other place for a tv. It's really just a matter of being considerate of each other - and Ted has some issues in that department. Thanks for the idea, though. :) I can use all the help I can get.
from beckers-j :
Oh, I see what you mean. That would probably just help me to hold it longer, though. Which would help. I guess what I really need is a bladder enlargement. Ha!
from beckers-j :
Does that work for one's bladder, too? I thought it was just for the vagina. :P
from portia12 :
I made some of peacock earrings, but they didn't turn out as nice. I like the beads.
from beckers-j :
Unlocked now. :)
from beckers-j :
Everything is fine. :) I just locked up for a bit so I could do some maintenance. I've been trying to figure out what the malfunction is with my comments sometimes - among other things. I'll let you know when I'm unlocked again.
from applerobot :
ps: The catfood says "mince" and I (wrongly) assumed minced beef. Kangaroo is popular, even for people! I've never had it - it's very dark meat.
from applerobot :
haha, wolf man! that's kinda cool but kinda freaky! I wonder if Carl has ever wanted to suck that chest hair thinking it was a nice afghan!
from dandlioneyes :
a quick merhaba from a gal who is married into a turkish family. we did win the auction, which rocked my socks. so do those finger puppets!!
from beckers-j :
Argh, I missed your birthday! Happy belated!!!!
from beckers-j :
Identical duck! Identical duck! Ha! That's so funny. I don't really remember having anything like that with my brothers. Which is really too bad. There must have been something, and I'll be sure to let you know when I think of it. :) You're such a doll for missing me when I was away! As for my comments, sometimes they just don't work on certain entries. But I posted a new entry, and they are working for that one.
from applerobot :
sorry for the slow response but 'slurry' is just a watery mixture. some kind of Hills cat food mixed with water so it's like a paste. I had never heard of the word before either... silly Gusto and his slurry!
from jimmysworld :
I actually laughed at your comment. Good work.
from jimmysworld :
I actually laughed at your comment. Good work.
from portia12 :
I thought your name was Turkish. Our friend married a Turkish guy and moved to UAE and now Iran. Their little boy is called Levent and they have a two year old named Dilara. Very pretty.
from polly-esther :
I know -- it's a great site! What's your favorite color? I'm gonna make your box this weekend.
from krisicat :
Happy Birthday! I hope you have a great day!
from krisicat :
Those earring you made are really cool. Plus, your cat is ADORABLE! You take the best pictures of him. I don't know how you always manage to take the pictures at the right moments, but I can never seem to manage that when I try to take pictures of my cats. I'm always too late.
from polly-esther :
Is your comments thing off? Thanks for the message. You're right, I'm not going to obsess over it. And about IKEA -- Nevada doesn't have them either. Once a year Matt and I drive to LA to stock up. I have no idea why they don't have stores everywhere. I love IKEA.
from blazingstar :
Sounds like an awesome plan!
from applerobot :
Lady, you're 4 days older than me! I popped out on Sep 26th!
from portia12 :
Aw, I just read your entry about Marlowe from January and it made me cry, thinking of our beloved cat who we had to have put to sleep in April 95. The poem was so nice.
from jimmysworld :
do you work at a REAL radio station, or a fake one.
from applerobot :
oh! I will take him to the vet. I read about what happened to your cat and it made me sad. I read that a while ago now. I'm sorry.
from applerobot :
a bird feeder! what an awesome idea! I shall have to get one of those for gusto! (did you see the pics when I took him on a picnic?) he had his little eyes on the swan!
from your-fitness :
I know my arches tend to ache if I'm wearing the wrong kind of shoes. I'm kind of between sizes right now, too, I'm not sure if my feet got fatter (!?!) or it's just because I have my period right now... it seems though like most of the shoes I've bought in the last 6 months have been all wrong!
from beckers-j :
Hey, thanks for the melanoma scare!! Eeek. I had never heard that, but I really should make a dermatologist appointment anyway since I have many, many "beauty marks". Ha. I do appreciate ya lookin' out for me. :)
from beckers-j :
I sure wish that damn afghan would magically knit itself. :) Thanks for the comment, and if I ever own a racehorse, I'll consider naming it Pissy Beckers. Unless you beat me to it.
from beckers-j :
Hey, thanks for your thoughts on the flying lessons idea. I appreciate the perspective. Oh, yeah. And thanks for putting elvisload in his place. :)
from applerobot :
'Salad Water' was a crazy drink I bought for a while that had (apparently) a lot of different vegetables - and fruit - in it. It didn't really taste like anything special except watery, fruity juice!
from singlegirl :
You are locked. May I have the password please? [email protected]
from applerobot :
I don't know what sets Australian licorice apart from other licorice! I can't say I'm much of a fan (there is one shop, famous for yummy lollies and they seriously pump out the smell of licorice!). Have you had that nasty Dutch salty licorice?
from beckers-j :
So sweet of you to think of my afghan. :) It's coming along, but I haven't been working on it nearly as much as I should. I have less than two months to finish, so I need to step it up a bit. Or settle for a throw. :)
from themark :
Thanks for the note! Oddly enough, I've recently started reading your diary, too (found you through your comments in Saru's diary), and had been planning on adding you as well. But you beat me to it--by maybe 24 hours. Strange, huh? Anyway, just wanted to let you know I'm enjoying your diary!
from icyjewel :
Thanks for adding me to your favorites and for the heads up on all my page views. Greatly appreciated! :) Have a great weekend.
from beckers-j :
You seriously went to school with a girl named Dorcas? That's bizarre. I didn't think there WAS anyone named Dorcas anymore. :)
from beckers-j :
Exactly. My diary IS for me, so why should I let a bunch of yahoos who obviously don't give a damn read it all the time? Present company excluded, of course. You happen to be one of the few I appreciate around here. :) Anyway, I'll figure it out soon enough and let you know.
from beckers-j :
Yeah, he's so funny. I've caught him a couple of times. He'll tell me he's going upstairs to take a shower. I'll go upstairs a little while later and notice that there's no water running in the bathroom, and I go in to find him relaxing in the tub surrounded by bubbles. In his defense, he only does this if he's particularly tired and/or had a physically difficult day at work. But it's so damn cute. :)
from beckers-j :
Thanks for the non-funk advice. :) I'm sure I'll be back to normal in no time - whatever normal is, anyway. I'm glad you and Sean made up. :)
from heylee :
hahaha!!! car shoes would rock! My wheels are turning now.
from pansycline :
mmm. poop soup. I can't decide if that sounds more or less gross than soup poop. It does roll off the tongue (images, begone!) easier.
from pouncer :
Hi you Sexy Rock Star!! Just wanted to let you know I deleted big willy as my friend. You freaked me out when you said he probably wanks it while looking at our pics. ew! He can do that with his aunt n' uncle's pic. haha Stay cool in school. xox
from xkitix :
I like Ninja's.
from reazintoliv :
Why hello there!
from xkitix :
So I browsed through alot of your entries and liked you more as I went along. You like Modest Mouse and Resevoir Dogs so that is a bonus for sure.
from darcy-farrow :
I thought the same thing. If I were good with photshop, I would put all the kids together on the same beach!
from heylee :
Let me know if you need any other suggestions...I'll be happy to help.
from heylee :
Gordon Beirsch brewery. It was really nice...a little on the fancy side, but still very good. When you're down here, make sure you check out the gaslamp district. That's where EVERYTHING is. It's a great place to go to on the weekend, it's awake all night.
from beckers-j :
Hey! I don't exactly have access to a digicam right now, but I'll be sure to post pics from the wedding I'm attending this weekend, and you can see my "hot hair" in those. :) However, the bangs look a little bit like yours did in that pic of you and Jewel. They're a bit thicker and more angled.
from maxsmom :
cool diary...i work at a radio station, too. i have a blue car, a green couch, and am a big fan of the Sharpie
from heylee :
My sister has her 10 reunion this Saturday. She's going as the typical pregnant newlywed(only joking)LOL! As for me, I haven't had mine yet, so I couldn't tell you if I will go or won't. I'll probably be debating it until THAT night. That's sounds horrible of Sophia by the way. But your mom sounds like a sweetheart, even while dropping F bombs.
from heylee :
hahaha! You're probably right, I'm sure I killed it. But I'd feel so bad throwing it out. I suck at making plants grow. :(
from darcy-farrow :
I emailed you the recipe! Try it out!
from beckers-j :
Yeah, I saw that thing about Bobby and Whitney, too. According to Whitney, that's really love. In my humble opinion, I'd have to go with sick. :)
from banefulvenus :
Loved your oven banner! :) Great site too...
from neko-carre :
Hello! Just thought I'd send a smile and a wave your way because I always see you in fellow d-land friends' guestbooks and we seem to have many of them in common. I enjoyed your "100 Things" and I participated in your song questionnaire thingy that BTMary had on her page today. (I'm locked, though. Email me at [email protected] if you'd like the pw.) Anyway, cheers to you!
from evildilara :
Oopsie, I don't have the newest password. Can you email it to me?
from heylee :
Cool, thanks. I'll have to check online since we don't have a Marc's in the area. They sound nummy.
from zostrich :
i get back from italy and you're locked! (this is, by the way, adwoa: i'm curvatura at diary-x.) i've taken you off my buddylist in case you wanted to be left alone, but if not, could i have the password?
from mellieemo :
evilD, oooh i feel so bad for not being around much on dland. thanks for the note; glad you like the layout. i hope you're having a nice weekend!
from beckers-j :
That's right! Sean did clean, too! We've had this happen before, right? Where our boyfriends do the same type of thing on approximately the same day/night? It's crazy. Maybe the two of them are long lost twins who were separated at birth. :)
from beckers-j :
Aww, it's too bad you didn't find CBGB's. It really is a dive, but it still sucks that it's probably closing. But at least you got a t-shirt! :)
from beckers-j :
I'm afraid the Wendy's taco salad just won't do. I'm jonesin' for a grilled stuffed burrito. Mmmm. But I appreciate ya lookin' out for me. :)
from meli-melo :
Locked again! Can I have the password?
from connie-cobb :
Hello! I was going to snoop around in your diary, but alas! You've got it locked. So I thought I'd leave you a note to let you know about my shister (shyster? Shiester? dammit!) intentions. Have a lovely day -- Colleen
from brunette99 :
Hhhmmmm............. Roller Rita!!! How about.....Watch-out-or-I'll-kick-your-ass-with-my-skates-Evil D!
from dooki :
Now, why the fuck would you lock your diary? Don't you know that I need to read it in order to masturbate properly? Jesus. Are you keeping secrets from me? I knew it. You're devoting an entire entry to bashing dooki. Why? Why do you hate me? WHY??????
from brunette99 :
How about "Enrique" That way you can shorten it ti "Ricky" or "Rocky" Im having way too much fun with this.
from brunette99 :
You should name your next cat Tito. LOL!
from beckers-j :
Exactly! I would never do it. Although, it must might be harder to resist with all those hot rock stars around... :) Nah, nevermind.
from pouncer :
I hope, I hope! May I please have your secret passage word, I promise not to tell anyone, i spaced, deleted it, and forgot it. You can send it to [email protected] ; ) thanks sweets, toodles
from toastcrumbs :
Thanks for listing me as a favorite. I would say I like your diary, but since it is locked, I guess I would totally be lying. Nice profile though, anyone who uses poop in their profile is awesome. Anyhow, if you would like to give me the password to your diary, my e-mail is [email protected] if you don't want to leave it in my guestbook or notes page. Oh and my diary is now locked now too, how cool is that? Just got tired of some people reading it DAILY. That's it - I swear I normally never leave notes this long!
from pandamonium :
If I remember right. I think 12,000 steps equals about 5 miles or so. I will have to keep track of that when I get a new pedometer (I broke the last one).
from beckers-j :
I like The Max - it reminds me of Saved by the Bell. How horrible is that? :) Thanks for the suggestion.
from caffeinegeek :
Thanks so much for saying hello. :)
from brunette99 :
White boys with afros ROCK!!!!
from crowhihs :
I couldn't enjoy my morning tea without reading evildilara :-)
from blueavenue :
what the heedi-hoo is goin' on with the lockage, d? dude. seriously. hook me up. what's yo email?
from pouncer :
Thanks for the notes evilgirly : ) I'm just oozing excitment for everything that's going on. I hope it all works out! What's your secret password, I need to catch up on my dose of evil-d
from beckers-j :
Aw, and here I thought I was cluing you in to some behind the scenes drama. :) Anyway, glad it wasn't someone sneaky.
from beckers-j :
Thought you might like to know that someone googled 'evildilara' and got my diary. I was just checking my stats and found it, and since I know you've been having a problem with one of your readers, I thought I should give you a heads up. :)
from bathtubmary :
that's really funny, because we called him pig vomit as well because of 'private parts.' even funnier, mike realized he has developed quite the bald spot and last night watching that movie he kept saying, 'oh my god i look like pig vomit!' which he totally doesn't. but it's still funny. and now i want wine, like, now. xoxo, d
from beckers-j :
I've got a question for ya re: your Saab. I remember you mentioned that an oil change is pretty pricey, but you get to do it less frequently. Are there other maintenance issues that are pricier than a typical American vehicle? How about repairs, gas, etc.? I'm curious because I found this gorgeous '99 Saab 9-3 that I'm currently obsessing over, and I'm wondering if it will be worth it. Tips would be much appreciated!
from hedgehoggy :
Oh, can you hit me back again about just what went down. I saw a few things and that's the reason I may lock, too. I'm in dire need to be informed since I've been through something like that 3 times so caution is a must when you have controversial opinions like mine.
from brunette99 :
You sure as hell have alot of patience for Hilda. I had a situation like that before, where she didn't like me for no apparent reason and to talked all this shit about me to EVERYONE and their moms.......eventually I got fed up with her and knocked her out. She left me alone after that. It felt GOOD to do that :)
from beckers-j :
Yeah, I guess those hot rock star types usually are dirty things. No regrets is great. Just being able to tell the story is definitely enough. :)
from beckers-j :
I didn't know that GM started assembling Saabs after 2000! What a shame. I have always loved Saabs, and if I can find a nice one that I can afford, I will definitely consider it. Thanks for the input. :)
from krisicat :
How do I find Marlowe's webpage? I bet he's so cute!
from beckers-j :
I'm not even sure I'll see the Beave again between now and her appt. on 6/22. I did actually mention to her already that she should look into other options, but you'd think that her surgeon would inform her of those options himself. Provided she's given him the same reason she gave me. Anyway, thanks for the thoughts.
from elabee :
Morgan was here in March (?). His show is supposed to be on F/X this summer, so he could have been here doing post-production or something? I'm not sure how tv stuff works.
from hedgehoggy :
Could you get me Shirley's autograph!?! Please, Please, Please! I am your slave because I love her! Hell, I'll do anything!
from heylee :
Yeah...I just read the link to your old entry and realized there was a password on the card that the guy gave Brian yesterday ALSO. huh? What is that all about? Some people confuse the hell outta me.
from beckers-j :
Hey, thanks for your comments. It's nice to know I wasn't overreacting in regard to the whole Creamy debacle. As for the afghan, you're right. I'll attempt to do the complicated pattern, but I have a perfectly nice basket weave pattern I've done in the past that will serve quite nicely if I can't pull off the more difficult one. :)
from pouncer :
psst, what's the secret password??? pweez, I want to know your life stories : D
from hedgehoggy :
You've never given me a password to get into that treasure box of private entries. Ya know the drill so hit me up! Smoochies!
from heylee :
I think I got the wallet at Sun Diego. It's a hurley wallet and I used to love it, but all of the metallic stars on the front have peeled off. boo.
from crowhihs :
Shelter cats are the best. Believe me...if I could I would adopt them all. My mother took a picture of "Sunshine" sleeping in a beam of sunshine that I will post soon. I can not imagine getting a pet anywhere but the shelter :-) TTFN
from heylee :
Hi there, I just clicked on your banner and saw your entry on kids incorporated. God, I used to love that show as a kid. I'm gonna add you to my buddylist if that's ok. Stop by mine anytime. :D
from elasticskies :
youre very welcome
from uridium15 :
or was that garunteas?
from uridium15 :
there are also no garuntees that i can spell guarantee properly, either, it seems.
from uridium15 :
no, i meant i came to your journal from the assholes list. apparently i'm not an asshole, as i've been buddylisted. that is, she doesn't find me to be an asshole. however, there are no gurantees this is the general consensus. i believe i was dubbed an asshole this CHRISTmas passed.
from uridium15 :
i was totally one of those people who came from the assholes list.... IT CAME FROM THE ASSHOLES LIST!
from brunette99 :
Hey there, I came across your diary and your entry about "the ogre" was hilarious...."you wanna piece of me?!" ha!! I'm adding you to my favs. :)
from jumblygiant :
Hey! Wanted to let you know Hot Hot Heat will be playing here in Cleveland at the Scene Pavilion on the Saturday of Memorial Day weekend. They'll be with the Killers. I'll be in LA that weekend for a wedding, otherwise I would totally be there!
from bathtubmary :
so buying that camera! thanks for the info. xoxo, d
from elabee :
Yay! Hot Hot Heat! I saw them a while ago at that weird bar in the suburbs with the sand volleyball leagues...I missed getting Killers tickets too. But now I can!
from crowhihs :
I still highly recommend speed dating--it is a different way to spend "girls night out." Believe it or not the "good looking psych major" contacted me :-)
from jilllybean22 :
Thanks for making me a buddy! I read that one entry that you made it onto fish-reviews assholes page!!! You rock!!!! I am also proudly posted up on there. hahahahahaaa
from candoor :
ouch... shower, long cool showers :)
from pouncer :
Eww! Don't you just hate conceited exes... We're soo much better off without guys like that. Now you can find the nice guy that you deserve. Is that you in the pig tails? How cute : )
from jilllybean22 :
of course, you may. i emailed it to you.
from pouncer :
Happy April Fool's Day!!! You're hair looks really pretty in today's entry. I wish I lived by you and we would totally hang out together : (. Oh and my friend's 25.
from blueavenue :
haha. you're funny. of course i've seen ya round galaxy's and bony's sites, but i clicked on your banner because it reminded me of the song 'good and evil' from jekyll and hyde. that's not where you got it, is it? cuz if it IS, then you're totally my new best (or something) friend. whoo! either way, hey hi hello there!
from candoor :
you are fun to read :)
from jilllybean22 :
I'm adding you to my buddy list. Just so you know.
from somuchsugar :
hi evildilara - I hope you (& your fabulous tube-socks) are having a great vacation in Cancun!!! Drink up!!!
from pouncer :
Hi Evil1, I have been reading your diary off and on for a while now, and I think it was you, but I'm not completely sure, but a while ago you were talking about one of your favorite artists that some band stole her art to use as a cd cover. I was wondering what the artists name was, I think she's awesome and I need me some art. Please let me know. THANKS A BUNCH!!
from serapay :
almost, put the < before the a, not the href. :) don't run out in traffic! we'll get it!
from serapay :
you're just missing a < in front of the a href, yo.
from serapay :
i emailed you, yo.
from serapay :
i'll help you with the jackin up comments, but it might take a minute to type up and maybe someone will beat me to it. :)
from jumblygiant :
Ahh!! The Black Keys in Columbus - where? What time? The sad part is I looked at my calendar and was so relieved it was a Saturday. I'm getting old. No matter how much I like them, a weeknight would have been pushing it! So sad. Thanks for the info..
from somuchsugar :
thanks evildilara for brightening my day! i love perusing your diary.
from serapay :
you like hello kitty pez dispensers? which ones do you have? there was that one, and a pink bunny one, and one where hello kitty was wearing a red dress i think....e-mail me at [email protected] i will totally send you one, if i get your address. i had been wanting to send you something anyway.
from dooki :
Hey, Delores, could you go to the bathroom for me?
from serapay :
haha. malt is the flavoring they use in malt shakes, right? so it can't be all that bad. actually, i think it comes from barley malt, and apparently cats like the taste. i'm sure it's fine for humans, but if i were you i'd probably just smell it. at least you aren't trying the poultry flavor!
from mellieemo :
i am so sorry to hear about Marlowe...a little less than a year ago, my other baby puppy was hit by a car right in front of our house (we live out of town, too!) loosing a pet --a family member-- is one of the hardest things in the world.
from zitronengel :
you're welcomewelcome.
from serapay :
oh my, you're gorgeous! and i love the new site.
from saru-san :
Sweet new layout! And there's nothing wrong with being devilish. Why, evil is the whole reason good exists! One coin, two sides. So... with all the changes you're making, when are you going to start having comments? (Yep. I AM greedy.)
from zitronengel :
i really really love the new red layout. you're so beautiful. and yay for pictures!
from vla :
I am going to think about five positives today. That's cool. I already have two: it's not snowing and it's sunny. Also, I tried the vanilla thing! First of all our cats smell so incredibly good. I recommend this for everyone--catfights or no catfights. We put them together, they sniffed each other, and the girl cat still hissed. They seemed maybe a little more tolerant though? I’m going to keep trying it; I mean, even if it doesn't work, my cats now smell like cookies!
from mellieemo :
eeee, that doesn't look painful... :)
from mellieemo :
hi there! i just wanted to say that i like the pictures you've been posting! :)
from meli-melo :
Yay! I am such a sucker for animal pictures. I love the look on Marlowe's face.
from vla :
Aw, fuzzy Marlowe.
from serapay :
yo, we need to help you set up some haloscan comments. i could probably tell you what to do, although i admittedly faked my way through setting up mine. i just love your entries and i always find myself wanting to say something! let me know if you want me to try and help. :)
from meli-melo :
This is what I type into my diary whenever I want a picture to appear: <img src =http://name of image hosting location/name of picture.jpg>. I host my pictures through our local internet provider and the way to get the link is to right click on something (like the gold membership banner above) and go to "view image" that will give you the location of the image. So if you host through image shack you should be able to right click on the photo once you have uploaded it and it will give you the location of the photo on the internet. Is this making any sense? Probably not. Oh well, I thought that I would try to help.
from polly-esther :
I am so, so sorry. I've been there and I know how hard it is. Let yourself grieve. He was such a wonderful kitty. You gave him a great life and he was lucky to have you, and you him. You'll see him again one day...
from meli-melo :
I just wanted you to know (because I am selfish and want to see these pictures that you are talking about) that I don't have a gold membership and am still able to post pictures on my diaryland page. All you need to do is find somewhere that you can host your pictures like fotolog of this flickr picture page that seems to be popular and then it is an easy link from there. If you want to try this then I can help, just let me know.
from bonypony :
I'd love to hear your band once you're on tape. As for name suggestions, I dunno. Three poles and a Hole is definitely near the bottom of the list though. But really, three Hawtbocks's (Hotboxes) in Ohio alone? Wow. Yeah, do some research and try to get a name nobody else is using. I'm not sure if you're dead set on naming the band after your box, but if you want, I'll try to compile a list of vaginally-named bands...The Slits, Cockpit, The Cunts, Dickless...that's a start...
from bonypony :
I'm really sorry about Marlowe. Just wanted to say hi. I'm reading you and thinking about you and hope all is as good as it can be, my Diaryland fend.
from vla :
I just wanted you to know that I'm thinking about you and hope you're hanging in there. I talked to my sister yesterday, and she was feeling pretty down. I know it's a tough time, and I just wanted to let you know that you've been in my thoughts. Take care.
from mellieemo :
Thanks for your note about the job! I sure hate waiting and wondering..."will it be me they pick?" Good luck with coming up with a name for your band! I plan on reading more of your entries! Thanks for adding me. :)
from beautifulwoe :
You did a really beautiful thing Dilara, and your last 3 entries have me in tears-- but GOOD tears. Makes me thankful for so many things, and happy that you had 8 beautiful years with your Marlowe. Lots of hugs, Woe
from meli-melo :
I just read your last couple entries and my eyes are full of tears. Even though I don't know you or Marlowe I feel like I do because of all the wonderful stories you have told us about your wonderful kitty (and you sent me pictures once so I could see what he looked like). I know just how awful it is to lose a pet that you love so much and I hope someday to read your kids books based on Marlowe.
from vla :
I'm so sorry. You did the right thing. I feel like I almost knew little Marlowe. I'm thinking of you.
from saru-san :
So so sorry. I have watery eyes now for you and Marlowe.
from beautifulwoe :
Dil, I am so incredibly sorry. I don't know what to say. Even though I don't really know you or Marlowe, I feel for anyone who has to make that tough call. I'm sending you warm fuzzies. Marlowe is going to get angel wings! That's what I think about whenever I get sad about my beloved felines in heaven. God bless.
from lizabee :
Poor Marlowe, poor you. I think you're doing the right thing. My friend's dad won't put his dog down even though she is terminally ill. It is so sad to watch her suffering. My thoughts are with you and Marlowe.
from vla :
I am so sorry. I don't know if your vet has this service, but my sister had someone come out to her place to do it so she didn't have to take Sadie to the vet. This sounds like the right decision, but I know it's so hard. This is the only thing you can do for Marlowe. You are in my thoughts. Take care.
from vla :
Actually my sister is going through the exact same thing with her dog Sadie right now. I've had both Marlowe and Sadie on my mind a lot. I think you'll both know when they're not enjoying life anymore. I think Marlowe will let you know. It must be so hard though. Take care.
from vla :
I know, it's freaky. I let my sister read something on here once and now I am paranoid that she still read sometimes even though I've asked her not to and she's told me she won't. Anyway! I'd probably lock up if anyone ever found it; you're brave! How's our little soon-to-be-college-student Marlowe doing? I think about him a lot. Hope your guest DJ gig went well today too.
from meli-melo :
It always sounded to me like Marlowe was a smart cat and now the University of Phoenix has found out too! I think you should contact the University and make them feel stupid for trying to recruit a cat.
from polly-esther :
I meant to drop you a line earlier but I haven't been on Dland much recently! About Marlowe, it sounds like you know what's best for him and I'm sure he would love a friend to keep him company. I didn't mean to upset you!
from vla :
Not yet! I had to go out and buy some vanilla. (I'm not much of a baker.) I got the imitation kind; I hope that's ok. I'll let you know how it works when I try it.
from saru-san :
I don't know Marlowe, but I once knew just such a cat. I wish you and the cat the best, whatever it may be.
from serapay :
thank you for visiting my site! i'd much rather read your diary than my own, though. i love your stories--you have a gift for words. about the evil eye beads--yes, i'd heard of them. my grandmother brought back some from Turkey. today i'm wearing the one that looks like it has 5 eyes on it, does that mean i'm 5x as protected?? :) it's great to meet you!
from meli-melo :
The Mister's mum is a crazy gift giver too (although not as crazy as what you are having to deal with). We cringe at the thought of opening presents because it is such an ordeal and we really don't need anything. This year was better but I think the only way you are going to be able to live with this is if you say something to Sean and he says something to your Mum about how you don't have enough room or how you are trying to be a minimalist (or something). I know the Mister has tried to talk to his Mum before about the craziness and that she gets a little offended but we don't want to have closets full of stuff we don't need. And I did have a garage sale last year in the spring.
from beautifulwoe :
the drinking wine/buns in the oven story is way too cute. It's one of those that you could look back on in a decade and laugh about, seriously...
from beautifulwoe :
Wow... do tell where you got that note pad, because you know now I have to have it. I had a strange dream last night with evildilaria in in it, not evildilara... I was reading "evildilaria's" notes when I came across a note that she was being asked out by someone I could not stand. I emailed dilaria to tell her of the slime and she told me she was thankful I spared her from the experience. Strange dream, eh? I knew you, and only you would get that strange mix up.
from beautifulwoe :
OMG, must find that song on itunes now. When I was in junior high, that song was the shit!
from beautifulwoe :
I am so famous for adding letters that aren't even there. I'm so goofy sometimes. Thanks for giving me the clue I needed. teh heh. ;) Woe
from beautifulwoe :
I hope Marlowe gets well soon. Woe really loves all cats.
from lizabee :
I am so sorry to hear about Marlowe. I am ridiculously attached to my two cats, so I can only imagine what you are going through. Hang in there.
from meli-melo :
The kids book about Marlowe sounds wonderful. I am sure that if you can manage to complete it that people will love it - I know that I love books like that.
from dooki :
Oh, man. The old, "I can TOTALLY cut my own hair!" night. I did that once and when you hear the term "hack and slash" you might imagine my hair do. Fortunately, I don't give up easy, nor do I take failure well. I now am the only person that cuts my hair...all because of a little incident involving a thought, "gee, Betty Page has wicked-awesome bangs. I can do that!" Well, apparently I couldn't do that. At least it grows back, right?
from vla :
Oh! I have *never* heard of that trick, and for a while there, I was all over the Internet and stuff looking for ways to get them to get along... I will have to try that, thanks! And I hope you get the steroid thing sorted out.
from adumbration :
Hey, thanks for the note in my guestbook. Hope you soon find the cat-of-your-dreams. :0) Andrea
from lizabee :
Here's some good news: it's supposed to be 50 degrees out by Friday!
from lizabee :
re: WalMart tailgating. I have actually heard news items that WalMart encourages people to camp in their parking lots overnight! Apparently there is a whole group of campers that enjoying parking at WalMarts. who knew?
from lizabee :
I looked for your walmart entry, but I couldn't find it. We may have gone to the very same Walmart though - I don't think I've left you a note before, but I live in C-bus too! I love reading you're entries because I know all of the places you write about. cheers-L
from polly-esther :
Thank you so much for your tips on exercise and weight loss. Congrats on losing and keeping off so much weight. Now that I'm trying to drop a few I have all the respect in the world for people who have done it and kept it off. My main problem area is my stomach. It's not that it's fat or jiggly, it's just not flat. Women naturally have a little pocket of fat there, and when I look down I get so upset sometimes. It's like I base my opinion on my body overall on how my stomach is looking that day. I just hate it. But really, I think the real adjustment needs to be made in my opinion about myself, my self-esteem. It's a little screwy at the moment. And you're right about the challenges of being a vegetarian and trying to keep your weight in check. From what I hear now, carbs are bad. But that's all I really eat -- bagels, wheat bread, pizza, sandwiches. I only hear bits and pieces and I don't know what I shoud and shouldn't be eating now. I do get confused sometimes but the suggestions you left make a lot of sense. And luckily I loev tofu and so does my husband. By the way, I wanted to apologize for not replying when you left me a note about marlowe and how reading about cali was helping. I read back a little and I see he is okay now. That must have been so scary. About getting another cat, I would strongly suggest really thinking about how it will effect marlowe. You know cats hate change, and he's sick and probably not too happy anyway, and bringing another cat into the house might really, really freak him out and make him jealous and totally uncomfortable. and don't you want to focus your energy and attention on him now?
from vla :
ah! You are *so* evil for leading me to that site!! ke and I were just totally drooling all over those kitties... Horace looks a bit like our boy cat, so of course we were in love with him. And I am obsessed with the little grace kelly one. aw. Um, we really cannot handle any more fur flying around here, so I need to stop dreaming, but... Yeah. I want them all. Anyway, you totally need to get fletcher!!
from meli-melo :
You sound like a great Mum to your cat. Yesterday I was wondering if anyone has tried to breed a cat and a dog together because they wanted a cat-dog as a pet instead of both a cat and a dog. I'm not even sure why I was thinking about this but it seemed stupid enough that the people who created the Labradoodle might have tried it.
from cinamonjaide :
LOL Sandford and Son! I love that Show
from cinamonjaide :
I just learned that you can get into my diary by typing my username cinamonjaide and then use the password jaide. I thought I could only add 9 people, but you can use my user name to view my journal. Feel free.
from cinnamon1j :
I had to lock my other diary because my husband discovered it. I made this other diary in addition to the locked one. Please add me.
from vla :
I'm sorry about the kitty! That's a sad story, but that must be where he was meant to live, you know? But maybe you should cruise by petsmart in a few days. You never know; people change their minds. And maybe this will make you feel better: my cat would MUCH rather live without her roommate (the boy's cat)!!
from omnipre5ence :
Squander?
from omnipre5ence :
HumMmMm.
from meli-melo :
Get the kitty! I only say this because when I was younger and our dalmation died our other dog (who acted like she hated the dalmation the whole time the dalmation was alive) was so sad until we brought another dog home and then it was as though she was a couple years younger. She lived until she was 18. So maybe it would be good for Marlowe if you brought another kitty home.
from cinamonjaide :
I just posted an article about this in my journal today
from cinamonjaide :
You said: Oh and another aside; I hate it when people ask me why I'm a vegetarian. It makes me want to ask, "Why are you black" or "Why are you Catholic?" or "Why are you a virgin?" LOL, I dont think its the same. You made a choice. You dont choose to be black. A religion is a choice too, but I kinda know what you mean. Your dad is muslim, thats interesting. IS he from another country or here?
from cinamonjaide :
Hey I have been reading your journal and I added you. Add me too if you want. Jaide
from vla :
that good news/bad news entry was hilarious.
from vla :
I'm so glad Marlowe's doing better!!
from galaxyrabbit :
oh, evil, all my thoughts are with you and marlowe. one of the most horrible things in the world is learning that a beloved pet is sick, though i'm glad that, as you said, out of everything, it's the most manageable. relief. :::sending love:::
from vla :
oh man. that made me cry. i think i am falling for your kitty too. take care.
from bonypony :
Breaking my heart, your diary is. Love, Bony.
from meli-melo :
Thanks for the pictures of your lovely kitty. What a cutie! I don't have a gold membership either, insteand my husband showed me a way to post pictures without having to pay.
from meli-melo :
Hearing about Marlowe just makes me so sad. Someday I will write an entry about Belle, the crazy dalmation I had when I was growing up. My family went through a similar situation with her when she got old. Are we going to get to see any pictures of Marlowe?
from bonypony :
The Marlowe entry made me very sad. It sounds like you're making the right decision. I can't even imagine. I've had snakes my whole life, and just got my first dog 4 years ago. I've never had a pet you had to actively care for. I don't know what I'll do when she dies. I'm sending prayers to all of the known worshipful gods.
from vla :
I am so, so, sorry about your kitty. I got choked up reading about it. You will make the right decision about what to do next, but I know that it is the hardest thing to go through. I love my cats so much, and I've been through this with my dog, so I know how hard it is. It truly sounds like you've given Marlowe an incredible life & that he's a great cat. Take care.
from meli-melo :
There is a house across the street from me that kind of freaks me out because the curtains are always drawn and no one ever goes in or out. To make matters weirder, there is no front door. It scares me.
from bonypony :
i spent long periods of time in columbus. used to see many shows at staches, buy records on the strip, blah blah. galaxy says you're a nice person, so i need to start reading you. i'm on one entry and loving it so far. i've been in radio forever, in bands forever, and i'll probably relate to your diary and/or life. nice to meetcha.
from polly-esther :
Yikes. God bless you. I hope it wasn't disappointing!
from polly-esther :
hi, thanks for the guestbook message! so you live in columbus, huh? you mentioned the burbs -- do you live in UA or GH? I lived in GH the first year then German Village the last two. My neighborhood was cute but i was so miserable there, as you can probably tell. I tried to get into your archives but I got an error message. Nice to hear from you!
from dooki :
Man, power yoga can kiss my ass. That shit is hard. I agree with the knitting taking over yoga. I'd much rather do that than downward dog.
from beautyx3 :
hey I'm unlocked now. just had to lock up for a bit to make sure no one i knew was watching me. Have a good weekend.
from teclo :
feel better, evildilara. (from the one girl who works with you that got her hair cut off and practices yoga too)
from dooki :
surely! I'll send it to you via e-mail, ok?
from beautyx3 :
I see you are locked, that's a bummer. Well, thanks for reading, I guess my life is full of drama, i think I'm still young enough though where that's okay. When I'm a bit older then I'll settle it down a bit. Until then I just wanna have fun. Thanks for the note!
from pesogrande :
Usted es así que medio, mexicano pobre, apenas trabajan allí. Consiga un arma para el primer viaje. HAQ< HA< HA Calm down! Holy shit!

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