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from newlywedblis :
Good golly! I think I stopped breathing just *reading* about your drive home! Glad you had fun and made it home safe. I've only spent a day in NYC myself--not nearly enough time to see all you want to see! OH--also wanted to tell you that the password I gave you should work again, I temporarily changed it and didn't email anyone about it, but I changed it back. I remember you said you didn't want to ask me for it before--hope I didn't scare you off! :)
from anita-girl :
I thought that Rock Band isn't available in Canada yet. Quite sure, the only people I know who have it got it in the States. It should be coming here soon. It would be addicting!
from anita-girl :
Oh my gosh that was a bad christmas gathering! What is up with your mom? Next year if you do it type everything up and thansend it sayign no changes will be made. What horrible sister for not buying you a gift! When she needs to borrow again don't! So sorry it was so bad. Hopefully since you saw them yesterday you won't have to again at Christmas day!
from anita-girl :
$9.50 a month? That is cheap! Why will you never marry your boyfriend? Will you never get married again, or he won't?
from cera-jeanne :
it's adorable. i love your tree!
from cera-jeanne :
No fair! That's silly that it's for employees only...boo! :)
from anita-girl :
Are you kidding? At 122 your hardly that heavy! And I know you know this but you shouldn't determine if you are heavy due to your bf's weight, you need to be healthy for you. It sounds like he isn't so really should that be a model? I agree that eating out is not the best idea but every so often it's a treat! Plus it's just so good!
from anita-girl :
I would love to add you on facebook. What is your email? mine is [email protected] Can you find me that way? I find that with facebook everyone adds everyone. I don't think anyone has ever rejected my request and I never reject any unless I don't know them at all. How come you wait for others to add you? Why not add them? And I don't blame you for rejecting that guy. Maybe request this person to be your friend and take the first step.
from anita-girl :
You are not a bad daughter! I would be upset too. Your mom runs up a tab not able ot pay for it and expects you to, who wouldn't be upset? I don't mean to be rude but it sounds like your mom isn't wise with her money. That she is very responsible with it. The whole smoking thing is just crazy! In this course that we facilate we see a light blub go off in many people's heads, maybe a book or some fincail course may be a good idea for her? I hope you still had fun your pictures look great!
from newlywedblis :
Ugh. I'm so sorry. I know that feeling.... I'll be thinking of you!
from cera-jeanne :
I'm glad you got the money for your ring! That's great! Sex definitely brings an intimate bond to a relationship...I always feel closer to J when we have sex...But if we are not getting along sometimes having sex makes me feel farther away... :)
from anita-girl :
Oh my goodness! They burnt your stool? That sucks! So disapointing! That is so awesome about the ring money, I wonder if he sent you the whole check? Your party looks like so much fun! Love all the games you played!
from newlywedblis :
YAY for making some money on the ring! If I have jewelry to sell, I'm coming north! :) Shower looks fun. Must have been, to burn a bar stool. Haha. :)
from anita-girl :
I hope that you get a good check! He is driving a Porshe? Tell him to pay the divorce if he wants it so badly! :> That would be bad wouldn't it? But this debt you have from your divorce is it a fair debt of is it mostly his? I hope that made sense.
from newlywedblis :
From my experience...people buy back jewelry (specifically engagement/wedding rings) at about 1/3 of what you paid for it. It's NEVER as much as the ring cost/is worth, but they sell them again at about 1/2 of what it's worth (since it's been worn, a lot of people are really squeamish about wearing it again). It always sucked when people came in with their rings and got only a fraction of what they hoped/wanted/needed...esp. with all the blood sweat and tears in those rings! Good luck! I hope you get a fair price for it! (At least you get something from it! I got nothing from my first ring, even though legally it was mine to keep and resell if I wanted to.)
from anita-girl :
I hope your ex does give you the money for the ring. That wouldn't be fair at all if he didn't! But he may think it's been so long and that you don't care. As for the divorce I would go through with it, if there is no hope of you two being togather you may as well not be married anymore. Yes a divorce is expensive but you have moved on and maybe one day you will want to get married. If he doens't give you the money for the ring tell him you don't want to split the cost of the divorce! Remind him that you guys equally paid for it!
from anita-girl :
That squirel is so cute! Dangerous to swim in Canadian lakes? PLEASE! One of my gf's when she was pregnant was told by her doctor not to, I asked my midwife and she said it was fine. Some people are super careful to the point of foolishness! I think it was great that you went swimming as it may have been your only chance! That's great that you guys had so much fun!
from anita-girl :
That chalet is gorgeous! Hopefully it will still be hot when your there! We had a heat wave of 35 C and higher with humidex for over 2 weeks. Now it's cooler at 26 C which is hardly! But it's windy now! Hope you have fun!
from anita-girl :
I don't think your overreacting about Kathleen! That is really bad that she did that. A joke? That isn't a joke! Who does that? I don't think she is a very good friend. Maybe you should send out her conversation in an email to all your common friends letting them know what kinds of jokes she plays! It is hard not to be overly suspious due to your situation but I agree with you! As for those losers on facebook I would ignore them! I luckily haven't been found nor have found any of the people I don't want to from my past. It's been a really good experience for me! BTW those soaps are werid! Would be so funny for a baby shower!
from newlywedblis :
I'm not sure if those hands are adorable or really, really freaky.
from anita-girl :
Hmmm that kinda sucks that you cna't use your new sectional! I love it! It's so modern and beautiful! When I got married we got leather couches and when we bought them I made both of us lay on them and see if it was comfortable, if we fit and all that. It worked! I lov emy couches as they are so comfortable. I think the leather will relax from use but I have friends with couches that were tight and aren't anymore and they don't look bad at all! You need something that you can use! Try using it more and if not maybe sell it? It's just so beautiful though!
from anita-girl :
Thanks for the note! I loved your other condo, and I love this one too! How come your bf didn't move in with you? Was it because you wanted to live downtown? That is so expensive for a 850 sq ft condo! We bought roughly the same size in spring of 2002 for $62k and sold it in fall of 2004 for $95k (now it would sell for $110 to $120) Big difference but that is Winnipeg! Sucks about the problems with Ikea, never heard peopel complain before hope it gets fixed!
from cera-jeanne :
Hello! Moving is a pain in the ass, isn't it! You'll be all settled soon enough. Your new condo is lovely! :)
from anita-girl :
Hey! I wanted to let you know that I added you! I see you haven't updated ina bit but I hope you do! I am also a fellow Canucker, I live in Winnipeg. I wanted to let you know something about the baby thing. I have an 18 month old daughter and she was worth the weight gain! Not everyone gets all huge, I only gained 27 pounds and would probably gained less if not for some health problems at the end. Than I was back in all my clothes within 10 days (right away most and than the rest) Some people do have problems but if you work at it more than likely you will get back. And after two I know lost skinnier than before! Running after two kids!
from cera-jeanne :
Congrats on the move! And your loft is lovely, I would want to keep it, too. :) Thanks for the note. You're right. I need to move on.
from cera-jeanne :
That's funny! How awful if she had used it! :)
from cera-jeanne :
Aww..that sucks! I like the tile on your walls! Very nice!
from cera-jeanne :
Hey-My hubby is rcmp & works without a partner so thats part of the reason it's so tough on him. Vancouver is city police & so she will have a partner & her job will be a bit different than my husbands...I'm sure she will be safe. :) Good for her for passing the test!
from cera-jeanne :
Those are crazy shoes! I can't imagine trying to walk too far in those! :)
from cera-jeanne :
Glad you're feeling recovered from the food poisoning! :) Sorry to hear you didn't get the condo...That is such a disappointing feeling... hugs.
from cera-jeanne :
Hope all is well with you...
from cera-jeanne :
Merry Christmas! :)
from cera-jeanne :
Good luck with your interview. Even though you're not excited about it, just remember good things come around when you least expect it in the most unlikely ways and places. :)
from cera-jeanne :
awww, you're welcome. it is really beautiful here - or was I should say. The rain came back today and is busy washing all the lovely snow away...sigh. it's back to work for me! :) Have a good day.
from cera-jeanne :
I'm sorry you are so down. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL. You really are. I wish you could see that. Hugs.
from cera-jeanne :
What a beautiful picture! Is that you? :)
from cera-jeanne :
ha ha that is so funny. :)
from cera-jeanne :
I'm sorry for your bad news... :(
from cera-jeanne :
I hope he realizes what he has with you and does the right thing... :)
from newlywedblis :
Good! I actually did something very similar myself... and turns out he married me. Men respond to ultimatums, I think because it's more concrete than "talking about the relationship" for them. Once they realize that they either get you or they don't... once that's clear in more than a "I need to feel loved by you" way, you know how they really feel. My husband made promises when we were dating and then started letting them slip once he got comfortable with me. That's not ok at all, so I told him "come good" or lose me for ever. I'm never coming back, I don't do the try-again thing, and I'd been through too much shit in too short a time to be yanked around by another man just out for a good time with a young girl. Once he realized that... he's become my prince charming. :) (Of course, this doesn't mean that there aren't other little ultimatums along the way, but just remember.. it's you standing up for yourself, not you being demanding. There's a difference when it comes to women genetically predisposed to being overly-accomodating).
from the-moo :
*huuuuuuuuuuuuuuugs* but you're also way more capable than you thought or think or whatever.. what I WANT to say never comes out right... YOU'RE FABULOUS!!! *hugs* xxx
from cera-jeanne :
ha ha, those were funny jokes. :) thanks for making me smile.
from cera-jeanne :
oh no! i hope you feel better soon! :)
from newlywedblis :
YAY! :) That's all I got. And thanks for the note.:)
from the-moo :
oh no I'm so sorry you're going through this... I'm not about on diaryland as much anymore but email me anytime SERIOSULY I mean it email me and we will talk about this (if you want to) *hugs* [email protected] xxxxxxx
from newlywedblis :
Ugh. And here I was hoping things were looking up for you in the male dept. You do seem stronger though, and I'm glad you've got the confidence to know what you need now. And to ask for it! Good luck. Sometimes the sweetest men just need a kick in the pants....
from cera-jeanne :
It is hard to say how you should feel. I am hypersensitive to things like that, too and would be totally upset if J was emailing other girls. There just doesn't seem to be any reason to. But then a lot of my friends have boyfriends or husbands with lots of other friends who are girls and they don't seem to care....I think your situation is different because of what happened to you in the past and your current boyfriend really should be sensitive to that. Maybe you should just tell him how you feel. Tell him that you're not sure what to think but that it is bothering you. There can never be too much honesty in a relationship. Good luck sweetie.
from cera-jeanne :
Thanks for the note! We are also looking into adopting from China (my grandpa is chinese and I am a 1/4 chinese, too) but they have rules (like both people have to be 30) so we may have to wait. But we wanted to get all the info so we can at least get going. I can't wait! And by the way, that last pic you put up is stunning! :)
from the-moo :
HAHAHAAH excellent tatoo I can't beleive it is on a MAN!!! *hugs* xxx
from the-moo :
that might be the sweetest thing anyone has ever said to me *squish* thank you so so so so much. xxx
from the-moo :
you are BEAUTIFUL!!!! truly truly truly!! and I bet there's some really strange reason that the ages END at 255!! I'd be interested to know what it is... I shall investigate! xxx
from the-moo :
well hello shiney new jewel of a friend! (or something else EQUALLY welcoming but possibly less creepy!!) *hugs* I LOVE that cat picture in todays entry I just popped by to say THANK YOU SO MUCH for adding me and I'm now off to trawl through your archives and get to know you ...I LOVE this part!!! *HUGHUGHUG* xxx
from cera-jeanne :
Congrats on the job! :)
from cera-jeanne :
awww...I know how you feel. I am sick as well. Boo hoo. :) Hope you feel better soon.
from cera-jeanne :
Good luck getting that second job... :)
from cera-jeanne :
Hope your day gets better....And good luck choosing your career path.
from lady-frenzy :
And yet, and yet... nobody likes a jealous girl because she's clingy and always suspicious. Hell, I'm the jealous type, but only because I've seen both ends of the spectrum-- I've been cheated on, and I've slept with committed men. Keep your distrust low-key, hon. P.S. Kudos to your friend for keeping the V so late in life. I wish I had�
from newlywedblis :
Can't you just room with your sister on your vacation instead of.... HIM? Good luck dealing w/it all.
from cera-jeanne :
Hey-a little trick for getting stuff off windows-especially if it is sticky-is peanut butter. Seriously. Give it a try. Good luck. :)
from delirium21 :
it's a little worrisome that you were so willing to let your past partners pressure you into things you weren't comfortable with. i think if someone really respects you, they won't force you to do something so intimate if you're not comfortable with it. i really hope you'll slap the shit out of the next guy who makes you feel like you're not good enough. otherwise, cheer up! :) there are some good guys out there. they're just canadian. ;)
from grewyounger :
Interesting banner about the three friends. Take care.
from ev0en :
Imposter!(though I enjoyed what I read) http://evoen.net
from hissandtell :
Hi - clicked on your mental illness banner, which made me laugh. I've read a few of your entries and really enjoyed your writing. Love, R xxx
from candoor :
hope you find your way to where you need to be... hope you have friends to help you through...
from candoor :
merry happy new year :)
from evita18 :
Wow. That sucks. Sounds similar to my own experience with a possible apartment. Sucks when you think it's going to get better and then it doesn't. How's it working living w/Andrew still? I think that would drive me absolutely nuts.
from mychai :
I saw you added me as a buddy, so I came to look. Remember that all of us guys aren't scumbuckets, just like I have to keep reminding myself that all of you ladies aren't as well. I hate it when people tell me to "keep my chin up" and "things will get better soon" and "this is happening for a reason." So, I won't say those stupid words to you. I will say, though, that this fucking sucks and we are in it together... kinda.
from cera-jeanne :
You sound like a very strong girl...Someone who deserves much better. Some men will never change even if their intentions are good. I hope good things are just around the corner for you. Keep your chin up. : )
from yvette18 :
hey there, I am sorry what has happend to you. some men are dogs. but all you can do is move on, it will hurt, but you can do it. It will be okay.
from gettingnaked :
That stick figure picture is hilarious. (And Gemini rock!)
from chibi-lily :
yes um i saw your banner too, and i got pulled in. 0_0; erm, i see now why stick figures can't have sex. good point.
from candoor :
hi... your banner sucked me in (good) but your picture got me to leave this note (no, I don't have to go to the potty, I just want to know where it is :)
from yvette18 :
just to let you know, I was trying to read your latest entry, but like the entry is gone with only a few words, but thank you for your response to the note.
from evita18 :
Wow--amazing how many women feel the same things, and yet how completely personal and unique each experience is. I have no advice, and I read somewhere that you don't like unsolited advice much anyway;), but I'll be thinking of you and hoping that you have the strength to do what is best for YOU! I've added you as a favorite--hope that's ok.
from naridu :
I too was drawn in by your banner, and have had to go back through and read all your entries. I can imagine but not fully comprehend what it would feel like to be in your situation at the moment. I just hope you are able to leave and set yourself up. independantly. best wishes, naridu.
from dalyrical1 :
your banner drew me in and i sat here and read the whole thing. i love your diary. hope you dont mind me saving you as a fave!
from elvisload :
thats why little college bands make millions off of songs like that...cause of the millions of little you's and andys...now...that's irony
from yvette18 :
hello there, I stumbled on your diary by seeing one of your banners. I really like your layout.
from sanetwin :
Your entry about break-up songs and your boyfriend reminded me so much of my last boyfriend. Songs like that would come on and we would just change the channel silently, knowing we should be over but were still together.
from frail-fairy :
Hey honey - Thanks for the advice!It was going fine till I went away with the girls! But then when I got back - I felt kinda numb - so I cofronted him and he just told me to 'ask him next year' I love this guy so much - We'll see what happens - I got a few new friends that I can chill with! So he sees me a lot less now!!!
from frail-fairy :
You haven't mailed!!! You okay! I miss u ... x
from frail-fairy :
Hey chick - thanks for the GB entry. I know what you're saying - I am not trusting anyone! Dave even respects my privacy, bet if he does read it, then he realises that these are my private thoughts and that they are not to be questioned. He's the best... Anyhow, hope you are well and have a fantastic easter - lots of Love Leila xox
from frail-fairy :
Hey - looks like I have left the first message! Thanks for your note - I was wondering what had happened - I got a little worried!!! lol! Anyway - I have deleted the note so that no one knows the password! Hope you are well - Take care. Leila x Ps. I changed my layout again - I have linked your new page on it!

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