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You might not like the advice I have to give, but here goes anyways... If I were you I would get involved in church. I don't know what your beliefs are but, if your not happy and tired of the same cycles over and over again....just give it a shot. I would suggest a non denominational church. If you truly sincerely want to believe, he (God) will let you know he is there. Give it a shot, pray for your soul mate....and maybe try not and think about sex so much. God wants us to have lots of sex, not with just anyone but with the person he has for us. Pray about it and someone will come along when you least expect it and not looking for it. I just felt drawn to your diary....your relationships seem to mimic lots of mine that I had in my early 20s. Guys basically just used me for sex. God Bless & Good Luck

from metaphor-lab :

i want to be yr friend in real life. [email protected] add me on facebook!

from fragilegirl8 :

I sent you a message to [email protected], did you get it?

from fragilegirl8 :

I just finished reading your entire diary. Your relationships def remind me of my old ones. Can I give you some advice?

from fragilegirl8 :

Good luck with the new guy. I have met several guys from online. Even dated one for awhile. Although I did meet Mike online (guy from earlier entries) he cheated on me with a girl with the same name as me and she also had a diary on here...come to find out he was playing us both....but in the end he picked her(d1mndn3r0ugh). But good luck. Oh and the reason I just decided to click on your diary...I am pretty shy too.

from fragilegirl8 :

Been reading your diary while I am here at work for most of the day. I have read quite a bit. I have also been "the other girl" although it was unknowingly. Don't ever be "the other girl"....find someone who really loves and respects you.

from fragilegirl8 :

from metaphor-lab :

i had to say goodbye because i was tired of being the secret. he would go home to his gf and i would think the same thing as you "i wonder if i'm the only one?" chances are we're not. it wasnt worth it to make myself sick over someone who obv didnt care. so i said my peace and left it alone. it feels good. trust. ps like the new layout too ;)

from endthelies :

I'm not going to name all the reasons that it's a bad idea for you to keep seeing this guy because you obviously know them. You already know that he can't promise you anything and you probably even know that someone who goes back to his wife but keep hooking up with you is not exactly a master of committment anyway. But maybe you don't know that there ARE lots of guys out there who'd love you. You're nice, you're sexy, you're a gamer... there are so many people who'd think you were such a catch. You will end up meeting them. You might have met some already. But if you're emotionally unavailable when you meet these guys who are good for you, because you're hooked on someone who's bad for you, then you won't notice them. If you want a happy, healthy relationship then you need to let go of this guy because you need to be ready and open when someone better comes along.

from metaphor-lab :

i think the term you are thinking of that refers to overlooking obvious red flags in the heat of a crush on someone is in fact one of the stages of limerance. i will look it up and record it in our sad stupid always fuck it up lab notes.

from kathrineb :

hi, i'm new on hear so just wanting to make some contacts, i like your name, i don't know if you are extemly shy but i am and it's a shame as it can be such an obstacle to fun. hope to hear from you take it easy kath

from metaphor-lab :

stumbled upon your entry. nice to find someone i can relate to. i'd love to say it gets better but it doesnt xo

from misfitstray :

I have a profile on such a website too. I'm wondering about the same things as you do. I had dates with some really cute and beautiful men and they all wanted sex. I guess men are not that much visual but practical orientated...

from hijayxx :

**into the wild** Tkae it easy sis. It's moments like these when you reflect and that are the basis of change. It's shitty times like these that get you a step further in life. You can change the things that suck. Believe in yourself. Best wishes, a stranger

from moonfaeryy :

I see you play WoW..what server are you on?

from iceelement :

LOL trying to hide that post about us with another post? I didn't notice it until today. It's not like we're ALL leaving, and if they do we'll still be in vent, what's wrong with alliance anyways? hahhaha

from twoturtles :

Hello "Recently public entries" neighbor! I'm trying really hard to make the best of that feature and have sworn to say hello and read a few entries from each of the people that update on either side of me. Libations... You kind of used it right but it would be a little more like this, with a deep southern drawl "General Sherman spared Savannah from being burned to the ground by the Union army on account of this great city's free flowing libations. Seems he really enjoyed the mint julep." I think libation is a fun word, too!

from secretivex :

Oh yea, it's no problem! But yeah, I completely understand where you're coming from because, I too, feel the same exact frustration, lol. I mean why would he ask you out if he did not find you attractive and the same goes for me, but I'll look forward to another update from you. =]

from secretivex :

Hey, I just came across your diary and i read your last entry. It really caught my eye because I know exactly how you feel. i hope you don't mind if I add you as a friend [you can do the same] and we can note back and forth to one another. =] Feel better, mama.

from shedoes :

Hey there, thank you so much for taking the time to leave a note on a strangers diary. It means alot that you spent that much time. I normally do not leave msgs on other people's diaries either, usually not touched enough I guess. You words meant alot to me and I am giving great consideration to the last two (includin yours) messages I have received.

from endthelies :

Hey, I was just flipping through diaries that started with the letter 'E', for no real reason, and I read your most recent entry. I only read that one, and I know this is totally random, but it's kind of weird that I came across that particular paragraph in all of diaryland. I've just been having "nightmares" that are like that, about my boyfriend sleeping with someone else and having an amazing time, and I didn't know what to make of them. It was upsetting. So, there you go! Information about a stranger's love life you probably didn't want.

from simpleplan1 :

hey! I missy you!!!

from ftworth-jim :

Thanx for your note. I'd love to take you to a restaurant, but I'd tell you to wear a very short skirt and NO panties. So that I could push your thighs apart under the tablecloth, slide my hand under your skirt, slip a finger or two between your pussy lips and inside you to massage your clit from time to time during our meal. Feeling your cunt getting ever hotter and wetter. Sucking your tangy juice off my fingers to spice up my dinner. Then maybe take you into the backseat of the car for my dessert, laying you back and eating you until you begged for mercy. If you wanted, I'd let you pull out my hard dick and return the favor, or mount me for a good car-rocking parking lot fuck. Too bad you don't still live in Fort Worth.

from simpleplan1 :

and sadly no one kissed me lol =( lol

from simpleplan1 :

heres the link to the photo page on my diary http://simpleplan1.diaryland.com/040527_62.html & go to picturetrail.com and in the lil white box type in emo-punky-skater- and those are my pics!

from itsjustmeliz :

ho hum... you got the same template as me. We're both cool! I love you, Liz xoxo

from simpleplan1 :

theres a "cumming" diaryland template that I think you should use! heres the url: http://www.toastsnatcher.com/design/index.php?p=16

from pesogrande :

General Sanchez--in Iraq---says this number you gave me is no good. I told him it wasn't possible...well, fuck me....now everyone has my phone number. Call and sell me some siding, I was expecting call.....but, then, I'm dumb.

from pesogrande :

Make me cry? You win. I'm crying. I need your number worse than you need mine..............

from pesogrande :

WHY? I like your title. Me being stupid, and arogant and believing in miracles--- why wouldn't you want to fall in love with me? I know----afraid of being too happy? I know........it's just not natural. Oh, shit the real truth, hotmail sucks?

from pesogrande :

Secrets? Just me and Bear. He can't answer the phone. But then, no one calls him. Come to think about it, no one calls me either. Paste this number on the telemarketers site, I need some calls. 817-731-9131

from pesogrande :

Cheer up and call me----one thing I'm good at is discouraging pretty women from having sex........Ahhhhhhhhh, my life story!

from pesogrande :

How cool is life? I make someone feel good, and she returns the pleasure, daily.

from pesogrande :

Hey, the notes suddenly work. You worry way too much! Someday----you'll be doing the dumping. Then, you'll realize--there could be a hundred reasons (none of them having to do with the other person, per se), just bad timing. He's still dreaming about you and your mini porno show. Poor girl friend has no clue why he's so horny! Jokes on him. He can only dream, now.

from simpleplan1 :

ok, go to picturetrail.com and created a free picture album there. You can click on the picture if you upload it. Right click on the image and click properties. copy the url on the grey box given and keep that. Then put this <img src="url here"> where it says url here put the url of the picture. You can put that <img thing *what I just showed you* when you click on add an entry and paste <img src="url here"> on there.

from itsjustmeliz :

Hey you! Just realised you're in my faves page but I have never once noted you to say 'hey you I read your diary' so I'm doin it the now. I think I found your diary lookin up The Cure. Anywayz, you're a cool chick who isn't afraid to STRUT IT! You GO wiv ur BAD SELF! And you actually don't appear that shy... Mucho love, Liz xoxo

from simpleplan1 :

thanks for the advice! I love ya too!

from cdghost :

enjoyed reading your words, take care the cdghost

from simpleplan1 :

yay!!! you made it to cali!!! lucky you! lol. Say hi to everyone for me!

from angrystarlyt :

Alan Cumming is wonderful, isn't he? I like his writing as well!

from simpleplan1 :

Hang in there, its not over. Hold on okay!!! Well I love that template that you have now! I was going to get that one but I decided not to but it looks good on yours lol! Love ya!

from simpleplan1 :

no no no no no! Did you know that a ciggy just one takes 4 mins away from your life??? It can also take away almost 4 years! Be drug free man!

from simpleplan1 :

no no no no no! Did you know that a ciggy just one takes 4 mins away from your life??? It can also take away almost 4 years! Be drug free man!

from simpleplan1 :

Hey! Its me! Notice all of my starting sentences are capital! Lol! I am so proud of myself. Well anyways you should read the entry on when my friend and I got in a arguement! Well still are kinda in one but thats ok! g2g!

from gleesies :

Hi, Its cool that some1 can do that 4 u!! The song is called 'I believe in a thing called love'. Its a great song!

from gleesies :

hmmmm.....u don't sound extremly shy to me, did u get over that??

from squeekyclean :

Oh right. Your friend knew about this i take it. *hugs* Its hard not to have some feelings for someone you just slept with, after all sex is *usually* speshal. take care x x x

from squeekyclean :

hey...how come you arranged a date for sex? Well anyways, Good Luck! relax a bit and it'll be fine bye byes x x x

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