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Sorry about that. I believe everything I wrote but I guess it's true that I tend to be too opinionated about other people's relationships. I shouldn't judge so much. Whatever though, I'm just a girl from "crazy america" : )

from rtm1981 :

NOT the response I was expecting :) But I started reading yesterday and I'm almost at the end of the first book. Pretty cool author actually. Love the way she writes. Too bad I have to go out tonight, won't get to read :)

from qjan :

Cool, which Harry Potter book?

from rtm1981 :

Yeah. You're right. I know it, you know it.But does that really fix anything? To my defense though, I'm not really doing as bad as the last post might have painted it. I was having a drunken sulk :) You didn't notice? Anyways.. Ehm... yeah.

from shygrl21 :

No offense, but you need some "tough love". You really need to get on with things. I took the longest break from writing, noticed you updated and read a reallly drunken tale of a guy who lost the supposed love of his life. Well, let me tell you that there is a reason why people are attracted to numerous others. It's not to breed jealousy with the ones they are with, it's so that they are capable of being with other people should their current realationship go array. You CAN find another girl. Katie is not the do or die of all relationships for you. Other girls WILL like you. But if you are continuously pining over the "one who got away" then no other girl is going to want to try to be with you. I wouldn't want to go out with a guy who was still seriously infatuated with his ex. YOU NEED TO GET OVER HER. And get over it. And I say this with good intentions. I'm really not trying to be hurtful, but you really, really need to get over it. And your reality really is what you make it, so perhaps some OPTIMISM would be helpful. I know it sounds cheesy, but your thoughts are powerful. Negativity will only hold you back.

from rtm1981 :

Hehe. Thanks Hichled... Your words mean so... much to me :) Very thoughtful and insightful, looking forward to your next message. Try to spread some more exclamation marks around, I think you left some out. And a big thanks (not sarcastic) to Karie :) Now that's a proper message, read and learn Hich.

from kaire :

As hard as heartbreak ever is, the next love makes you realize what you didn't have with the previous relationship. Love will find you when it's ready and you'll find a whole new level of love and appreciation you never had in your life.

from hichled :

PS your ex sounds like a really sensible girl. GO KATIE!!! KATIE ROCKS!!!

from hichled :

seriously you are like the biggest fucking asshole that ive ever had the bad luck to encounter.

from rtm1981 :

I do feel like this is going to go one forever... It seems like this pain won't lessen. I mean it's been over three months (That's what Katie tells me, although since my mind has refused to believe we've been broken up most of the time, I feel like it's been three weeks.), and the pain is still at peak level. Shouldn't the pain slowly dwindle down like sand through the hourglass (pun not intended, if that's what it says in that soapopera)? If it's supposed to then I'm in big big trouble. My heart says I'm dead, my brain (which is but a squeek compared to the howl of my heart) says I'll live somehow... Let's hope my brain wins :) Thanks for the pickmeup Shy, like I said - it means a lot to me, it truly does :) Sorry to see your diary gone, but happy that it's finally back :) Hope to see Marie's back as well! Ps Shy. thanks for teaching me the meaning of Hiatus! Don't think many of us Norwegians know the meaning of it lol hehehe

from shygrl21 :

Hi. I haven't read in some time b/c I took another hiatus from the internet diary thing. (Seems to be a habit w/me.) Anyway, I really feel for you with the whole Katie thing although I have to admit I can't quite relate to it. At the same time I do know what it's like to feel hopeless in life like you don't even want to go on anymore. The thing is, any time I've ever felt that way I have in one way or another gotten past it. It's not that I can subscribe any particular way for you to get past it sooner, but please don't give up on life! (Whether literally or just emotionally.) Oftentimes things have a funny way of working themselves out. It might seem like an eternity now, but wait it out.

from rtm1981 :

thanks Marie :) That actually means a lot to me... feels like nobodys on my side, now i know... somebody is :)

from mewlips :

Honey, you WILL get over it because that is how life works. You're at the bottom now, but you will work your way up. In the meantime, I'm sorry you're having a hard time.. Granted, I am 18 and have no idea what love is..I just, you know, wanted to say I'm here and I'll read your stuff and be on your side. Hugs and such, Marie

from shygrl21 :

Hi. Nice to hear from you again : ) Hope things are well during all busyness!

from kris-tee :

Thanks for the note! I like your diary too! Sorry you did not get to be with K on Valentines day!

from mewlips :

I've been really bad at commenting lately, I'm sorry. I think it's great that you and Katie have a house now, and the pictures of it are so cute - I wouldn't be too afraid of being on my own there, hope she won't be either! So, gratulerer and have a nice day (night;)

from shygrl21 :

Actually, it didn't occur to me to be embarrassed about it. I guess I was just too angry to feel anything else. It was kind of just one of those things you don't want to do, but once you do it you feel so great afterward. I would have never thought I'd have the nerve to be so straightforward, but that is exactly the kind of person I have always wanted to be (honest and fearless), so now I'm glad I know I have it in me to be that way.

from shygrl21 :

Merry Christmas to you too : )

from shygrl21 :

Judging from your most recent note to me, it seems you might have had a similiar experience with a school system? You seemed as pissed about it as I was! (And I was pretty pissed!)

from minstrelite :

Hey, thanks, man! (or woman, as the case may be.) It was big of you to write back, and I hope you will be blessed for it. :)

from minstrelite :

Actually, altered it a second time, realizing another preach-like aspect. It's not my purpose to preach, only to present my personal experience and the truths in the Bible as I understand it. Peace.

from minstrelite :

Sorry about the over-preaching. I realized that later, and edited it to mellow it out a little bit, and also make it more in line with what I felt God had wanted me to say. You might want to take a look at the new version. If it still sounds preachy, oh well, I've done my best. Have a good weekend.

from papersnow :

privatisteksamener er fine ting. jeg gjorde meg ferdig med vgs ganske kjapt selv p� den m�ten. lykke til med eventuelle eksamener i n�r fremtid =)

from mewlips :

Hey..du eg bare lurte p� ein ting..om det va du s� skreiv mellingen i fedda si dagbok`? (feddy.signmyguestbook.com)for..I dunno, he might seem like a "little boy" to you. No offence, ass�, hvis det ikkje va deg :)

from shygrl21 :

Hi. Thanks for the note of advice! : ) Things turned out to alright with the visit. She seems to be ok, though I guess you never know what's going inside someone's head.

from mewlips :

yup..just thought to tell you..your acts of gourd and kill afrog links don't work because you forgot the http:// . cheers :)

from mewlips :

No, I didn't mean you did it on purpose..I just think you might have similar minds. Because what you said about diaries in today's entry, Fredrik also said in his. (maybe its just because you're both male. hmm)Well, Have a nice time at work, I'm going to bed now :)

from mewlips :

how sweet..I want to end up just like your parents :) Thanks, I love long notes

from shygrl21 :

Thanks for all your input : ) I really don't think I should worry about James hanging out w/his ex, though - I mean, the girl is going to be getting married soon and I know he doesn't like her (like that). But anyway, thanks for reading (I always wonder who's looking at my site).

from shygrl21 :

you put me on your list... thanks. Now I don't feel like such an unpopular dork around here : )

from mewlips :

takk for at du la meg til p� lista :) s� koselig

from foralltid :

Hei! Har tittet innom og syntes det ser ut som om du har en veldig fin dagbok... klem

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