messages to t85225:
(click here to add new message):

from flicka :
damn. still gone and still missing him.
from flicka :
I know. I am re-reading his posts in disbelief. Goodbye dear one.
from coexistapart :
We just didn't have any warning. You will be sadly missed.
from bookafly :
You will be sadly missed, Tony. Maybe we'll meet some day in the afterlife. RIP my online friend... Becky
from pyroguysr :
Sorry about that... his lady is "Rainy" on my list. Rain is a completely different person.
from pyroguysr :
TO THOSE OF YOU THAT were one of Tony's (T85225) friends. Perhaps you read his blogs about his battle with cancer. I'm sad to report that he succumbed and passed away this week at age 49. He was a good online friend of mine and will be sorely missed. He has a blog over at Yahoo 360 using the same nick, I believe. If you can't find it, search for the_quiet_knight (my blog) and look for "T" on my friends list. His lady was "Rain" on my friends list as well. You may want to leave her a note of condolence. RIP, Tony. You were a helluva good guy!
from bookafly :
Hey Tony! As you might have noticed, I've been enjoying a self-imposed exile from d-land lately. I just decided to come back and catch up and I see that you've been having a rough go of it! Although a diagnosis of cancer is not something that anyone wants to hear, it is better to know than for the doctors to be baffled. Remember that Cancer does not define who you are - you're Tony and you'll always be you - especially after the cancer irradicates itself from your body. You're a fighter and I believe that you're going to kick this nasty invader! I'm sending positive thoughts your way! ~ Becky
from cherryjjones :
I suppose nothing I can say would make you feel better, but I'm happy for you that you are recovering from pneumonia and that the cancer treatment is working. Wonderful news! Enjoy your green jello.
from cherryjjones :
Big, big hugs to you, T. I'm sending you lots of healing energy and blessings! Can you feel it yet? :)
from mpeacock :
I wish there was something one could say or do to make it all better.
from cherryjjones :
Long time no write, how is life in T-land?
from somaserious :
Have you ever seen the movie, "The Secretary"? Right up your alley, and an amazing movie about Domination/Submission. I was very fascinated about your entry, though have never been involved in that kind of relationship. It doesn't seem to be my path at the moment, but one never knows...
from cherryjjones :
hee hee, I'd forgotten all about the Sybian. They both look equally/potentially painful. Do they come with user-friendly diagrams, instructions and warning labels? Book info has been sent-enjoy. I wondered what you were up to during your long silence. Sorry to hear about your mysterious ailments- at least you have kisses from Rainy and your fantabulous new bed to take away the sting.
from poolagirl :
Oh, your Cybill comment was GOOD! Very good!
from bookafly :
You know, I have to say that I LOVE my u's!!! Without them the words absolutely look wrong to me. Although I'm not such a fan of the british s's (such as in realise/realize instead of z's - pronounced ZED's :) Fly
from cherryjjones :
Yes, memory views the past through a forgiving Vaseline lens. How hilarious and clever of you measure your Dr's hands for prostrate potential! I feel the same way about my gynos-they don't get invited to the party if I don't like the look of 'em. Didja get my email re: my book?
from coexistapart :
Exploder? Is your computer prone to sudden boughts of spontaneous and explosive combustion? I was just kidding about the whole profile business. It's just strange because since my life got "dull" the list has been very steadily decreasing. Apparently *before* people thought my life WAS interesting. Not that popularity matters, I just thought the correlation was interesting.
from cherryjjones :
Mmm, expensive new bed-is it like a giant marshamallow, or fluffy ice cream sandwich? My ginormous bed makes me think of a Klondike bar-a big delicious square of happiness. That's the best kind. Sleep long and dream well in your new palace, and many congrats!
from flicka :
Wow, you've added to your favorites list! Oh, I made someone spank me with his belt last night. Heheh. He'd never done it, but each swing was harder and his face lit up more and more. Interesting.....
from poolagirl :
Awwwww! Sorry you sprayed your banana nut loaf on your keyboard! Big Wurlitzer Alerts will do that. You can't be too careful! :)
from uncleal :
Patience is not your strong suit, huh? I fixed it. :-)
from pyroguysr :
The day that I, as a Dom, cannot learn from my/a sub, is the day I cease to be a Dom. *grins*
from cardiogirl :
Thanks for the note T. It's nice to know someone is out there, not afraid to comment on my doldrums. Don't mind the double post. It makes me feel good to see three comments, even if there really are only two :)
from stepfordtart :
aww fuckit. Send me the links. Lets see what all the fuss is about. s x
from stepfordtart :
heeheee. Im still here. The voice has come back now, thanks for your concern. BTW, the spanking dress I already have, its not spandex, more pvc kind of stuff. A Christmas present from BF last year. He's so thoughtful *snort*. Will update soon. s x
from cherryjjones :
Diary locked in a fleeting fit of conscience. Shop is now open to the public. Read away.
from cherryjjones :
Mmm, Kashmir, sex-torture. It's really good, innit? And in my role as punctuation police, I issue you an official pardon for the sentence fragments & ellipses use!
from pyroguysr :
LOL... thanks for the larger font! Be glad you're not here... Chicago is expecting 6-12" of snow tonight!
from mpeacock :
I am doing my darndest to catch up. Good luck with the no smoking thing. I have tried to give up Diet Coke but I have failed miserably. Good luck with rainy too. :)
from flicka :
Awesome! I wish my partner would quit for real. She sneaks them--with the patch on, so she's just getting worse. GOOD JOB! WELL DONE!
from uncleal :
Thanks for your 'note' I would definately be interested in some reading material. And any other help you could offer. I know it sounds like it is coming out of the blue, but I've been interested since I was 13. I've just never been able to find the right time/place/person. I thought I had once, but I was AWFULLY WRONG!
from stepfordtart :
Hey! thanks for the big-up! For future ref you can always get me at stepfordtartATdiarylandDOTcom - that seems to find me OK. s x
from wordsofmine :
thank you, thank you, thank you. Now if I can keep up the momentum and get those last 20,000 words I swear I may never do this again!
from stepfordtart :
Oh, and another thing! Just had a trawl through your archives - wanna trade traumatic divorce settlement stories? My BF could tell you some belters! here's hoping it all works out kind of OK. s x
from stepfordtart :
Hello! thanks for adding me! I see we have friends in common - what excellent taste we have. I must admit to wondering where in the hell you are staying that you were considering visiting 'Edinburgh or York' - they're hardly neighbours. Anyways, you have a good trip and if you dont mind, I'll add you right back! s x
from pyroguysr :
My heartfelt empathies, my friend. Divorce is hard on kids... even grown ones. Give the same encouragement to your son as you do your daughter. He's noticing the discrepancies more because of the attention lavished on her. Reread "How To Win Friends And Influence People" for a refresher and work on the boy! It helped with mine and now he's gonna be a daddy too... but at age 25. I've started a lifestyle blog at Yahoo 360 - "the_quiet_knight" is the nick. Be well
from flicka :
fuck. i'm in a whole heap of troubles. i am a mess!!!!
from coexistapart :
I'm not Jewish and I'm not keeping kosher. I just wish I could be.
from prolifique :
Greatly enjoying your diary, Sir. I'm glad that you decided to put out some banners so that I could find you. :)
from flicka :
You don't bother me :) No worries. I slept 7 hours last night...that makes 21 hours total in the last 7 days! I'm feeling better. It's the lack of sleep bringing me down
from flicka :
even my 3rd eye needs laser surgery...but my insurance doesn't cover that.
from flicka :
And it's never too late to get paranoia....there IS a membership fee however :)
from flicka :
Nice to have you back. Cheers *clink*
from hissandtell :
Thanks again for reading, and for the kind profile description, darling! I *did* think of you once or twice when I wrote my most recent entry - can you guess in which bits? Love, R xxx
from flicka :
Thanks :)
from coexistapart :
Thanks for stopping by. Actually, the situation in Glasgow was that *only* American chains that have a wifi policy (e.g. Starbucks, Borders) had wireless. Very few UK coffee shops or stores offer it as only a marginal percentage of the population owns a laptop. As to how you came through my site, I see a few people you list who are links of links of links I know or have; also I see you have a Francey design. Nice stuff.
from haloaskew :
Odd that you should say "Cousin Jimmy" -- I almost gave him that name in my post! Thanks for the note! :)
from flicka :
Crisis averted. 1. no cutting allowed 2. *takes out blade* heats to a glow with flame. 3. sticks heated metal to "sensitive" area. 4. Nothing like pain to stop the thoughts of spikes.
from flicka :
If I can easily find one, I might be throwing myself onto a large spike tomorrow. I should have written that in my journal. I'm laughing. Totally.
from jin1968 :
are you getting my messages on yahoo??? judy
from flicka :
where are you dear t85225? Does someone have yyou chained to Her heart?
from flicka :
Sometimes I wonder who you are and if we've crossed paths--if we know any of the same people.
from flicka :
One of the pair actually says "tease" on the back. Really, they all should have said "bi-polar special". It's the walk of shame back to the mall. I have no one to wear new ones for anyhow, except me, and I don't need to be THAT impressed.... How embarrassing. Emphasis ass.
from flicka :
at least he didn't hit you up for money :) Did he?
from flicka :
http://girlof78.diaryland.com/Bio.html She helped me do mine. She's awesome, and I don't know what she charges. She's got a lot of stuff on her journal. I'm trying to find someplace on the web to sell my artwork; any places you've seen that I should go to?
from flicka :
I LOVED secretary.
from jonathan :
You made me grin with this: 'I’ve decided that flicka and Chris both have really, really nice looking journals… and mine looked like it came out of a cereal box.' I have this image of an 'Older guy, into bondage' black leather, hand-cuffs and butt plugs ... and then you suggest that you diary comes out of a cereal packet. I may have read it wrong, but the dichotomy is so true to life. I'll keep reading you if you keep reading me!
from flicka :
What do all the acronyms stand for in your profile? s/m I know, but d? or the other letters. Sorry for being obtuse, but it's 3:23 and I have the write to be a bit goofy now and again.
from flicka :
Yep, you are a massochist. As it should turn out, I am too. Rent the film Secretary. You'll understand. Cheers, happy reading.

back to t85225's profile
recommend this diary to a pal?

Other diaries starting with the letter:
a b c d e f g h i j k l m n o p q r s t u v w x y z

Back to Diaryland

Recently updated
News
update April 6, 2020: Sorry, we just had 8+ hours downtime due to a server problem. Restoring from backups took soooo long, but everything is back and no data was lost. Ay yay yay! Anyhow, hope everyone is well with the virus stuff.

Sign up for paid membership if you want!

Users online