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hothead @ dland is: a sweet southern femme. a bargain obsessed fashionista/label whore. a dinner party queen. a sex goddess. a feminist. broke. gone. hopelessly romantic. irish-mexican. a survivor. a motherless daughter. compulsively honest. a recovering southern baptist. a boy-loving lesbian. a pottymouth. a bleeding heart liberal. loved. a smart ass. a smart cookie. emily's godmother. fierce. fabulous. ridiculously courageous. incurably addicted to love.

my mission statement: "poetry is the revelation of a feeling that the poet believes to be interior and personal but which the reader recognizes as his own." - salvatore quasimodo.

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My favorite music:

Amy Ray/Indigo Girls
comments: These women jumpstarted my revolution.....and fuel me to persevere. Amazing.
John Mayer
comments: It is no secret that I am in love with him. His melodies. His lyrics. He picks me up and carries me to the clouds and it burns like cinnamon.
Ani DiFranco
comments: Sarah McLachlan, Melissa Etheridge, Sheryl Crow, Tori Amos, Paula Cole, Patty Griffin, Alanis Morrisette, Alana Davis, Blondie, Le Tigre, the Breeders, Team Dresch, the Butchies, Melissa Ferrick, Veruca Salt, Jill Scott, Lauryn Hill, Aaliyah, Madonna...
Fiona Apple
comments: Michelle Branch, Beth Hart, The Pretenders, Pat Benatar, Joan Jett, (old school) Liz Phair, Jann Arden, Natalie Imbruglia, Patsy Cline, Dixie Chicks, Loretta Lynn, Alison Krauss, Dusty Springfield, Nancy Sinatra...
Counting Crows
comments: Johnny Cash, Jason Mraz, Ryan Adams, Stevie Ray Vaughan, Radiohead, Elton John, White Stripes, Steve Earle, Aerosmith, B52's, Beatles, Rolling Stones, Blues Traveler, Jimi Hendrix, Led Zeppelin, Remy Zero, U2, Jeff Buckley, Van Morrison...

My favorite movies:

comments: It was a libretto before it was anything else, and I still dream of seeing the OBC at the Nederlander. Yes, I'm one of those. Can't help it. There's something about Jonathan Larson's words that pull my truth right out of me.
Roman Holiday
comments: All hail Queen Audrey. She'll always be my dream girl.
Fried Green Tomatoes
comments: The BEST damn depiction of a butch/femme love Hollywood EVER produced. I still pine for Idgie, and hope to become Ruth.
Dirty Dancing
comments: Sentimental favorite...as a kid I broke the arm of our recliner trying to do the "lift". One of the best endings ever...well, at least for an 80's movie.
Romeo & Juliet
comments: Saved, Under the Tuscan Sun, Say Anything, High Fidelity, Moulin Rouge, Empire Records.

My favorite authors:

Alice Walker
comments: I'm pretty sure she's God.
Adrienne Rich
comments: "Two women sleeping together/ Have more than their sleep to defend."
Lucy Grealy
comments: Read "Autobiography of a Face." Read it now. She was my writing professor at Bennington but taught me so much more. I fucking miss you, lady.
Leslie Feinberg
comments: Stone*Butch*Blues. This book changed my life.
Maya Angelou
comments: Jeanette Winterson, Nick Hornby, Toni Morrison, Rilke, Eve Ensler, Erica Jong, Maureen Dowd, Molly Ivins, Flannery O'Connor, David Sedaris, William Faulkner.

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